What are Females attracted to in a Muslim man?

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  • @alromaani
    @alromaani  Před 3 lety +40

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    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 Před 3 lety +1

      Talk more about issues of relevance

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 Před 3 lety

      "Become a Real Man and support group for men only"???
      Are you for real ..boi???
      You are talking about "fap or no fap" at a very critical time when real men are giving their lives to protect their families...
      Shame On You kid
      Grow up

    • @zaynshah4023
      @zaynshah4023 Před 3 lety

      CELIBACY with SIGMA PERSONALITY

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 Před 3 lety

      @bill smith how do you know his intentions? have good thoughts as its sunnah unless you have a reason not to, and...
      because ppl are asking, if you don't need the help then know other ppl do, don't eb selfish , be a man be a leader!

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 Před 3 lety

      @@mohsinakhtar7876 ???
      marrige is half the din... as an ummah different ppl have to do different things or did that basic leave you?

  • @junaidabdulkader
    @junaidabdulkader Před 3 lety +229

    I have no beard (no beard growth) ...no six pack ...no muscle arms....🤐 Just a Skinny Man...Many other men may aslo be like this...But Alhamdulillah...we should thank Allah because there are other men who are physically challenged...who have lost their arms..legs ,eyes,etc ...and we have been blessed with all these...The ultimate most important is Tawheed..

    • @antlion6796
      @antlion6796 Před 3 lety +77

      Hit the gym bro! Yes absolutely accept the things you can't change, that which Allah has decreed from His wisdom; but strive to change what you can for the better.

    • @MultiOzzyProductions
      @MultiOzzyProductions Před 3 lety +29

      You need to change your diet bro. Eat eat eat more calories to put on weight. Not unhealthy food though

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 Před 3 lety +17

      Abu jahl..and his likes were well fed well satiated with loads of calories and nutritions..but guess what no tawheed..he got his rear end whooped.. well actually
      Sliced by to young kids. From the companions of the Prophet PBUH...even though he was on a horse ..the boys رضى الله عنهما were on foot ..with blunt blades..ripped cloths and most likely didn't eat a proper meal meal in all their life due to poverty.

    • @mohsinakhtar7876
      @mohsinakhtar7876 Před 3 lety +22

      So eat according to sunnah divide your stomach for 3 portions water air and food.
      But eat healthy
      Don't listen to kids taking advice from the non believers for their nourishment.
      Khabib whooped connor not becaue he ate alot..he struggled in life that's all.
      Connor had more options to eat & drink from including pork, that whisky he kept braging you name it..
      KHABIB was on a restriced diet. Only Halal.
      29-0
      Wasn't money hungry either and obedient to his mother so didn't care about the last win.
      30-0

    • @laurarae6070
      @laurarae6070 Před 3 lety +18

      Muscles are not always attractive to all women. Personality and how they treat a women is the upmost important😊

  • @aliaasfar1791
    @aliaasfar1791 Před 3 lety +238

    Deen, good character, balanced, loving, honest, active, humor, adventurous.

    • @EnlytendFilosofar
      @EnlytendFilosofar Před 3 lety +10

      So no looks at all?🙄🙄

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 Před 3 lety +48

      @@EnlytendFilosofar character makes one attractive or not to me. I married both types less good looking was awesome character, very good looking was arrogant and ugly in my eyes.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 Před 3 lety +29

      @@redsquirrel6176 Well, I'm talking about me. I'm real, not materialistic or superficial. I'm grown and and have values.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 Před 3 lety +20

      @Sami SA.M sweetie I'm 56 years old, I can teach u a few things! I still look good, ok. guys in 40s hit on me. I don't need to lie. I speak from experience.

    • @aliaasfar1791
      @aliaasfar1791 Před 3 lety +9

      @@redsquirrel6176 yes I agree with that, I'm a whole other generation lol

  • @aarfeenanees9147
    @aarfeenanees9147 Před 3 lety +109

    I have seen difference in what women of age 18-25 like and what women of age 25+ like. Younger women tend to flock for looks mostly but once they cross a certain age they realise looks are not as important as Deen and manly character.

    • @Anon-uv9mj
      @Anon-uv9mj Před 2 lety +9

      Thats more like 13-17 vs 18 and above, but depends on the person ofc

    • @Aquacrystal78
      @Aquacrystal78 Před 2 lety +1

      So true

    • @beenish8189
      @beenish8189 Před 2 lety +1

      This is so true Subhan'Allah. With time you realise that it is only the heart and character that matters no matter how he looks like. At the end, The heart makes the man beautiful ♥️

    • @sameerkhan-qg3qi
      @sameerkhan-qg3qi Před 2 lety

      I had seen girls who fall for money before 25 and seen women's who again falls for money thats it.

    • @aarfeenanees9147
      @aarfeenanees9147 Před 2 lety

      @@sameerkhan-qg3qi Emphasis on *tend to*

  • @Geebee67
    @Geebee67 Před 3 lety +42

    Nothing like a humble man.

  • @moonlightaksar9113
    @moonlightaksar9113 Před rokem +9

    1) Taqwa
    2) kindness
    3) humble
    4) Personality
    5) beard

  • @bk-ash6770
    @bk-ash6770 Před 3 lety +152

    I like this kinda stuff because it shows me how to become manlier

    • @codedaily409
      @codedaily409 Před 3 lety +12

      Check out the book The Ideal Muslim by Dr Muhammad Ali al-Hashimi, the best book I've read on the way a Muslim should act

    • @bk-ash6770
      @bk-ash6770 Před 3 lety +2

      @@codedaily409 Thanks

    • @abdullahahmad9300
      @abdullahahmad9300 Před 3 lety +1

      Ahahahahah

    • @abdullahahmad9300
      @abdullahahmad9300 Před 3 lety

      @@daysklant7401 Yes I find it funny

    • @ibnamanot
      @ibnamanot Před 3 lety +6

      @@abdullahahmad9300 simp detected.

  • @Jamalishalal
    @Jamalishalal Před 2 lety +37

    As a woman, a man who truly FEARS Allah. He will follow the deen, and ask Allah for everything on His path. I may be the result of his prayers. And isn’t that beautiful, being a shoulder your husband can lean on. Making him and writing him beautiful letters of dua, making sure that before he leaves the house you packed him his lunch, and gave him a big hug because of pure love for the sake of Allah. I’m writing this because Allah separated me from my ex-husband, but I always blamed myself at first.
    😩 I really wanted to my husband to be pleased with me to the point I started disobeying Allah. May Allah forgive me that. Ameen. But I prayed istikhara and Allah found me a way out, I was devasted. But Allah wrote me a way out and protected me. So Alhamdulilah. A year later, I am in Makkah now. Single. But alhamdulilah. My second husband must be God fearing.
    I always prayed for a man who loves the akhirah more than the dunya, and I still have hope that Allah will give me that. And that is one of the biggest tests from my Lord. Having true tawwukul. ♥️

    • @alaouiamine3835
      @alaouiamine3835 Před 2 lety +3

      May Allah give you the husband of your dreams and inshallah you will be satisfied

    • @thealpha1687
      @thealpha1687 Před 2 lety +2

      May Allah grant you the righteous husband that you desire?

    • @Jamalishalal
      @Jamalishalal Před 2 lety

      Ameen Ya Rab, Jazakum Allah Khair

    • @omarshinwari7823
      @omarshinwari7823 Před 2 lety +1

      Doesnt matter. Just keep Allah in your mind and speak to him everyday.
      Hel if he want will grant you with a husband. He may have also removed you from your husband for reason you dont know ans for your own benefit

  • @anikaabida6019
    @anikaabida6019 Před 3 lety +53

    Deen, confidence, striving mindset, physically and mentally strong, protector and a stable provider is attractive. Most women will answer ‘nice boy’, ‘caring’, ‘good humour’, but they themselves know that if they don’t feel financially secure and their husband is not fulfilling responsibilities, they will lose attraction.

    • @omari1174
      @omari1174 Před 3 lety +12

      @@blueflame3531 whether or not she is financially stable, the man in the marriage must provide still for the basic needs such as food, water, clothes, shelter, and among other things (within reason, to my knowledge, I could be wrong so may Allah forgive me, Aameen). Her money is her money, she gets to do with it whatever she pleases, now if she wants to help support the family in some way financially, that is up to her, but generally the men must provide in Islam to the best of their abilities.

    • @omari1174
      @omari1174 Před 3 lety +1

      @@blueflame3531 point is you buy most of the necessities for the wife

    • @user-pn9zf2lj4c
      @user-pn9zf2lj4c Před 3 lety +4

      @@blueflame3531 he’s talking about a guys Islamic obligation

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 Před 3 lety +3

      @@user-pn9zf2lj4c You 2 are correct. Sorry for the unnecessary comments.

    • @user-pn9zf2lj4c
      @user-pn9zf2lj4c Před 3 lety +5

      @@blueflame3531 no problem, May Allah bless you for being so humble

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 Před 3 lety +39

    The clever ones look for religiosity and eagerness to help others to do good. Also manliness in a man is very attractive to a female. Leadership qualities.

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 Před 3 lety

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep angry face?! Also, what you mentioned after that isn’t appropriate so please delete it.

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 Před 3 lety

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep
      Not all facts, just that which you stated.

  • @user-user-user-user.
    @user-user-user-user. Před 3 lety +28

    The Romanian in Malaysian is kilin’ it! 💪
    A dose of masculinity and common sense! Allahu Akbar!

  • @sakilahmed6788
    @sakilahmed6788 Před 3 lety +17

    Nowadays, loyalty is becoming a rare trait, focus on that too

  • @umar3298
    @umar3298 Před 2 lety +26

    I just advice brothers to not make your life turn around a women, just follow sunnah and give her rights and concentrate on other parts of your life, learn Quran, your parents, dawah, sport (for strength and health not just for look, and doing sport is sunnah), work and have good manners with everyone. Today men have this mentality that everything they do have to fulfill women expectations of what a man is, never listen to a women listen to a man and this man is the prophet sws

    • @Reslessmeteor897
      @Reslessmeteor897 Před 2 lety +4

      That's a good reality check for me

    • @ummqudamah
      @ummqudamah Před rokem +4

      The prophet SAW did not only give his wives their rights but also did additional to make them happy and spend time with them. No one likes a simp but a marriage is not just about rights and duties but rather living together in goodness and sometimes yiu have to sacrifice. A true man just like our prophet SAW knows how to balance life and be soft when need be and be hard when need be.

  • @amird128
    @amird128 Před 3 lety +5

    Jazak Allahu Khayran for always speaking truth, Barak Allahu Feek

  • @artismypassion
    @artismypassion Před 2 lety +10

    I see someone telling the real thing now!! It's so much Bollywood, Hollywood!! Thank you for saying out loud!!

  • @tarek399
    @tarek399 Před 3 lety +16

    remember to send blessings to the beloved seal of prophethood

  • @achrafagermoune2417
    @achrafagermoune2417 Před 3 lety +2

    Interesting! Thanks for sharing. Jazaka Allah khayran.

  • @mrsk8518
    @mrsk8518 Před 2 lety +21

    Practicing Muslim men for me (praying and actively seeking knowledge) also Cleanliness, sincerity the “here is the truth like it or lump it way

  • @zayd8801
    @zayd8801 Před 3 lety +7

    May Allah bless you brother Gabriel
    Your content is very beneficial

  • @Zeczam
    @Zeczam Před 3 lety +29

    This generation is destroyed. We didn't lower our gaze.

  • @briantafolla2247
    @briantafolla2247 Před 2 lety +11

    I do my best to not look at girls. Instead im interested in Cars😉😊

  • @fundyourhappyplace5693
    @fundyourhappyplace5693 Před 2 lety +15

    I married a Muslim because I love his culture, his loyalty, his nurturing personality, his honesty, his naiveté, how loving he is, how sweet he is and I know through thick and thin, he's going to be my husband for the rest of my life

    • @fundyourhappyplace5693
      @fundyourhappyplace5693 Před 2 lety +1

      @Ameenuddin Hussain it is not common for my family. We have 1 spouse our whole life

    • @tataoma9976
      @tataoma9976 Před 2 lety

      @Ameenuddin Hussain I live in the west and Alhamdulillah there is still many Muslims who fear Allah and don’t date, but obviously like any non Islamic society the Christians Jews and atheists are going to be dating before marriage

    • @fundyourhappyplace5693
      @fundyourhappyplace5693 Před 2 lety +3

      @@whoisthegreatest6255 my husband has very good taste in women so it would be a blessing

    • @fundyourhappyplace5693
      @fundyourhappyplace5693 Před 2 lety +4

      @@tataoma9976 Jews also don't date before marriage. The marriages are arranged and the bride and groom have no alone time before the wedding

  • @n.i3381
    @n.i3381 Před 2 lety +12

    Assalamualaikum, Mashallah it was an amazing lecture.
    I love how you spoke openly and it was very easy to understand alhamdulillah.
    We need more open lectures like this one inshallah.
    We really appreciate it, especially for this generation.
    May Allah Bless you and your family inshallah . Ameen. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @fastng
    @fastng Před 3 lety +16

    I don't get how u can be a Muslim, and a feminist, or a nationalist, or any -ist/-ism for that matter. These ideologies are riddled with contradictions. These are man-made ideas. The same way pagans worshipped other than Allah, following these ideologies is following other than Allah and His Messenger, peace be upon him.

  • @OnePunchMuslim
    @OnePunchMuslim Před 3 lety

    Good vid brother. Enlightening

  • @iamtheboneofmysword607
    @iamtheboneofmysword607 Před 3 lety +33

    A lot of these comments are sad. We can perceive people who don't comply with a specific standard of beauty to be attractive. The media you consume and whether you look at people as objects instead of people effects this. I think a lot of people in these comments would feel better if they take care of their health and spend much less time on social media.

  • @ponderingspirit1475
    @ponderingspirit1475 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm pretty sure the vlogger is Adam Saleh. May Allah reward him, he has made an effort to change his ways

  • @duokusmana
    @duokusmana Před 3 lety +10

    As a practicing muslim, woman should be attracted to pious man. If the man is tall, handsome, and even rich, those are bonus.

  • @MOHAMED-zd4ll
    @MOHAMED-zd4ll Před 3 lety +1

    mashallah bro.important subject

  • @someonepassedbyhere6363
    @someonepassedbyhere6363 Před 2 lety +1

    True words of wisdom
    .
    I feel like البصائر قد أُعْمِيَتْ
    Wheather we like it or not, we have some degree of globalisation when it comes to our thoughts. The way we're thinking has been orianted to some extent by the movies, anime..etc to the point where sometimes some concepts in our deen like polygany or true manhood.. (for ex.) might seem weird to us
    I truely feel the hadith بدأ الإسلام غريبا و سيعود غريبا كما بدأ islam has started weird and it's become weird again just like it started.
    طوبى للغرباء. Glad tightings to weird people.
    Videos like these make us wake our بصائر up
    Thank you for this may allah reward you

  • @ahmedvorajee2430
    @ahmedvorajee2430 Před 9 měsíci

    Assalamualaikum brother, Jazak’Allah Khair for this video. I found it very useful.

  • @z4781
    @z4781 Před 3 lety +16

    Commitment to deen is a key factor, I know for a muslim woman.

    • @jazzstyles1246
      @jazzstyles1246 Před 2 lety

      Yes specially in the world full of hypocrites, ex Muslims, liberals and secular. There are a lot of disguised 'Muslims' who don't even know a bit about religion.

  • @afsaneh4340
    @afsaneh4340 Před 2 lety +5

    As a Muslim girl, I would say you are 100% correct these are the things I want in a man and most women want.

    • @afsaneh4340
      @afsaneh4340 Před rokem

      @Dhi Mancini what shaikh mentioned in this video watch full.

  • @mrsk8518
    @mrsk8518 Před 2 lety +10

    Active listening and interest in your woman. Applying knowledge into your relationship

    • @mrsk8518
      @mrsk8518 Před 2 lety

      @MIKAAL what a vile manner you have may Allah guide you

    • @copainspammeur404
      @copainspammeur404 Před 2 lety

      Women don't know what they want

    • @mrsk8518
      @mrsk8518 Před 2 lety +2

      @@copainspammeur404 girls don’t and boys make comments such as yours. Many grown women have an idea what they want from this life with the ultimate goal being jannah

  • @sulthanilahi
    @sulthanilahi Před 2 lety

    جزاك الله خير اخي

  • @etherealrosegold
    @etherealrosegold Před 3 lety +6

    Sometimes a woman can't feel the attraction due to a lack of dominant approach from the man...

  • @abolfazlhaji3632
    @abolfazlhaji3632 Před 2 lety

    Jazaka Allah khayran,

  • @azidesai5710
    @azidesai5710 Před 2 lety +5

    In my opinion women need & appreciates a man that is genuinely loving & sincere!

  • @a.kedits8720
    @a.kedits8720 Před 3 lety +2

    You don't respect everyone you have respect those who deserves to be respected

  • @Jamalishalal
    @Jamalishalal Před 2 lety +1

    Men, just be what Allah has commanded, and you will see barakah on your path. ♥️

  • @goldentv8578
    @goldentv8578 Před 2 lety +1

    MashaAllah may Allah almighty bless you

  • @mohamedsmaili297
    @mohamedsmaili297 Před 2 lety

    بارك الله فيكم آمين

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 Před 2 lety

    Subscribed 😀😀😀. Masha Allah

  • @naffmusik2426
    @naffmusik2426 Před 3 lety +4

    Yes true good sheikh...make dua I get a good spouse 🤲👩‍❤️‍👩 InshaAllah Ameen 🌻

    • @Memic86
      @Memic86 Před 3 lety

      What is a good spouse to you? And what are the needs of men? What do they want?

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 Před 2 lety

    Looks are important to women too

  • @yaslenemirandosimons1238

    Aslm...I hear you...

  • @Mountainfella
    @Mountainfella Před 3 lety +2

    This video was brilliant masha’allah hit nail on this one.

  • @modelstar7119
    @modelstar7119 Před rokem

    IF i could play this video every channel /every country ,,,I mean the speech its so beautiful and honest to the viewers,, ,IF YOU DONT LIKE THE VIDEO JUST END IT ...That makes you UNIQUE ...MASHALLAH 🤲🤲Respect and BLESSINGS to you INSHALLAH🤲🤲

  • @abdifatahosman1127
    @abdifatahosman1127 Před 2 lety

    Straight facts!

  • @ibraheemkhan9116
    @ibraheemkhan9116 Před 2 lety +6

    You know the biggest problem with the whole objectification in our communities is that it leaves the average-looking guys/gals in a tougher spot. Nothing you can really do about your looks except workout and some grooming/skincare, but because we live in such a society it's becoming more difficult for such brothers and sisters, and may Allah make it easier for them.

    • @Tippy257
      @Tippy257 Před 2 lety

      No I think we can watch these videos or see and hear whatever in the media. But the reality is both men and women find what they can have, what is tangible, the most attractive. Meaning if you look around where you live in your neighbourhood and family friends, people you actually mix with and know the background to, out of all those people, there will definitely be women who will like you or be interested in marrying you. This is because it’s a real possibility and they will know your background, not just some abstract idea. Girl /boy next door and all that.

    • @ibraheemkhan9116
      @ibraheemkhan9116 Před 2 lety

      @@Tippy257 Jazakallhuhairun for telling me this :)

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 Před 3 lety +12

    That video reminds me of DAJJAL. Women will go crazy to follow him.
    May Allah safeguard us all from the fitna of DAJJAL. Aameen

    • @ndhikaatube
      @ndhikaatube Před 3 lety

      @Millie Abdi what do you mean by "what do you mean"?

    • @sakilahmed6788
      @sakilahmed6788 Před 2 lety

      @bbmb they won't be able to control their desires unless they are very much strict with the religion

  • @MARYAM-Aspen
    @MARYAM-Aspen Před 3 lety +3

    Abo 3obaida. He's hella attractive, and we don't even know what he looks like.

  • @goodlifesince90
    @goodlifesince90 Před 3 lety +28

    What attracts a woman in my opinion in a man is :
    Respect
    appreciation
    Quality time
    Words of encouragement
    Actively engaged during a conversation
    Being a good dad to the kids.
    Having a good relationship with my family

    • @anonymousnoticer
      @anonymousnoticer Před 3 lety +11

      You missed the most important deen 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @hamzasyed9749
      @hamzasyed9749 Před 3 lety +6

      @@anonymousnoticer I think deen ties them all together. If you have deen, you will have all of those.

    • @goodlifesince90
      @goodlifesince90 Před 3 lety +2

      @@anonymousnoticer of course 😄🤦‍♀️i forgot to mention that. But obviously deen is non negotiable (for me). This list is the extra things that are important.

    • @ColonelFluffles
      @ColonelFluffles Před 3 lety +7

      confidence. If a man doesn't have that she'll quickly lose respect for him and leave.

    • @mistermaykul
      @mistermaykul Před 3 lety +2

      Are you married? If you are not, I advise you to not expect your husband to be that engaged in conversation. Especially if you want a husband who is a good provider or one who is striving to be.

  • @RB-on1bo
    @RB-on1bo Před 3 měsíci

    Good character is number 1

  • @Anon-uv9mj
    @Anon-uv9mj Před 2 lety +7

    Righteous, well mannered, caring, interesting to talk to, is hygienic, is a man.Also yeah the (initial) financial stability, but if later on in marriage there comes poverty, many be patient through that. Regarding looks I honestly don’t think they are important too much, so long as a woman is attracted to the man. But he doesn’t have to be ‘hot’ or what society describes as ‘good looking’ for that. One physical look that matters more than the others I would probably say is the amount of weight (I don’t mean a bit fat I mean being overweight (out of laziness, if it’s heath related that’s a different thing)).

  • @cherryg.3042
    @cherryg.3042 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m pretty sure there was a Hadith about a woman wanting divorce from her husband Bc she found him to not be attractive at all… so …… it’s important to both genders … especially now a days where men still constantly gaze a women in front of their wives … we care about looks too

  • @Nadine6528
    @Nadine6528 Před 3 lety

    Mashallah
    Barak allahu feek

  • @sundus928
    @sundus928 Před 2 lety +4

    The only thing I don't want in men is ego. I'm too sensitive and I don't want to imagine my man constantly crushing me with his egotistical remarks.
    My father would ask me even at 12 am if I need anything ,even when I say no ,he would do it. Imagine leaving your loving father and living the rest of your life with the opposite of a man .

    • @omarshinwari7823
      @omarshinwari7823 Před 2 lety +2

      Thats not ego. thats juat rudeness
      ego is good as its where a person belives he us

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki Před 2 lety +2

      Before you get married, make sure to talk to him a lot and know him well. Meet him atleast 10-15 times so you two get to know eachother well

  • @yaslenemirandosimons1238

    I'm married 22 years...✌💚👀alhamdulilaah

  • @aqanni
    @aqanni Před 2 lety +12

    Never mind what they are attracted to my brothers! Focus on yourself and be the man you want to be for Allah and his messenger and for your societies and suppress your sexual energy and give damn about them then they will chase after you
    You cant and will never ever satisfy anybody’s fantasies!!!

  • @hadisergan1
    @hadisergan1 Před 2 lety

    oyalaikumussalam oyarahmatullahi oyabarkatuh, jajakAllah khairan, love you vai.

  • @shaharia1591
    @shaharia1591 Před 2 lety +3

    Basically men have to be a chad muslim like me🗿
    Kidding... I have to improve chadness more😓

  • @nottheaveragejoe4964
    @nottheaveragejoe4964 Před 2 lety

    Be humble, praise Allah S.W.T & send lots of durood and salawaat upon Prophet Muhammad S.A.W

  • @abusadi4742
    @abusadi4742 Před 3 lety

    How to reduce the stress of home management in one step and avoid kidney/heart disease.
    The man of the house should announce that it's a big stress on the head to buy different food every member of the home and clutter the home. All should eat the same. No individual taste preference

  • @Anon-uv9mj
    @Anon-uv9mj Před 2 lety +18

    As for the men, y’all really shouldn’t be that focused on looks, because the fact is, if you want a righteous and modest wife then you won’t see her body shape in that sense before marriage. I mean you can judge by the face and see if you are attracted. But whether or not she will be a good mother and wife is more important on the scale of importance.

    • @user-bc2ik
      @user-bc2ik Před 2 lety

      @MIKAAL bro what are you saying? are you speaking before marriage or after? make it clear, don't say these scholars said something they didn't without evidence

    • @shadowstorm5261
      @shadowstorm5261 Před 2 lety +5

      yes but looks are important. you shouldn't marry someone you are unattracted to

    • @alaouiamine3835
      @alaouiamine3835 Před 2 lety

      I don't give a damn about looks
      Don't get me wrong I try my best because the prophet pbuh told us to
      I just don't want people to expect more that what I really am
      And I don't any girl to love based on my looks

    • @safwanshahriar4108
      @safwanshahriar4108 Před 2 lety

      Masjid Ribat is the best channel.

  • @alwiali6545
    @alwiali6545 Před 3 lety +1

    Waaleikum salaam warahmatullahy wabarakatuh

  • @shammaalali6889
    @shammaalali6889 Před 3 lety +23

    Personaly (a Muslim woman):
    -Character: confidant, secure, has peace with himself/not afraid to cry especially about something that requires it.
    -Respects his mom!!!: if he can’t respect his mom, know immediately that wallahi he will not respect you! Even if he was kind or seemingly caring, he has his motive and it is a scam!
    -Protective and caring: I like it soooooooooooooo… much when a man feels responsibility toward his woman and children. I have so much appreciation! This includes financial support, emotional support and being physically present meaning carrying stuff and such.
    -Religious: he should take good care of his prayers and be a decent man with good Islamic manners. Not being deceptive with others and such.

    • @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming
      @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming Před 3 lety +2

      Don't forget money. Don't want my daughter marrying a broke, dusty boy.

    • @jokerq162
      @jokerq162 Před 3 lety +1

      It is not we are afraid to cry
      It's just we don't like to cry at all because it shows weakness and we heat weakness.

    • @ahmadshabz2832
      @ahmadshabz2832 Před 3 lety +1

      So pretty much a man with no flaws, what you state here is a perfect man which i think does not exist atleast in this day and age

    • @artarak497
      @artarak497 Před 3 lety

      @lord dopey rainbowbeans they are, when you're a 26 yo sisters with high degree. Your pool of options is ridiculous regarding this type of men compared to a younger sister ready for mariage early

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 Před 3 lety

      @lord dopey rainbowbeans Not in a world where both Men and Women work 40/60 PW how in earth can you possibly bond with your wife? Especially when she has a child. Then that kid becomes the center of attention, you add another child, where can you emotionally support a Woman then? Even when she works full time. Kinda hard to look what's described in a depressed world of overhours and breakdowns.

  • @navedian739
    @navedian739 Před rokem +1

    🌿اللوح المحفوظ🌿
    🌿البيت المعمور🌿

  • @bigboi6338
    @bigboi6338 Před 3 lety +8

    Not knitting

  • @reciterrahma3276
    @reciterrahma3276 Před 3 lety +3

    May Allah forgive and protect all Muslims dead or alive and grant us jannah by His mercy Aameen yaa Rabb
    Let’s share the reward together few seconds great reward in sha Allah:)
    Al-Qur’an is the greatest dhikr🌳❤️🥰
    Subhan’Allah🌳❤️
    Alhamdu lillah🌳❤️
    Laa ilaaha illaa Allah🌳❤️
    Allahu Akbar🌳❤️
    Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa billah🌳❤️
    Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🌳❤️
    Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem🌳❤️
    May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household🌳❤️
    Yaa Allah whoever read these Azkar guide and grant them jannah without judgment or punishment Allahumma Aameen🤲🏼❤️

  • @StarsabovetheEmeraldForest

    A believer (practicing), a beautiful reciter of Quran, Stability, protection, confident, intelligence, humor, knows how to take charge when needed. Pleasing to the eye (doesn’t have to be handsome, but average), overall just masculine, clean, tall, a beautiful smile, and compassionate

    • @footb9ll217
      @footb9ll217 Před 2 lety +16

      "average" 🤣"pleasing to the eyes" 🤣🤣"beautifull smile" "tall" 😅😵

    • @botbeamer
      @botbeamer Před 2 lety +5

      Women are funny tbh

    • @yaseenmalik1755
      @yaseenmalik1755 Před 2 lety +7

      Overall just masculine
      Knows how to take charge when needed
      So you want a feminine one. Nice requirements

    • @botbeamer
      @botbeamer Před 2 lety +1

      @Based Department Lol

    • @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT
      @Only_God_Is_Allah_SWT Před 2 lety +2

      What you're seeking is supernatural.
      Impossible to achieve because everyone has good and bad sides.
      The best protector is Allah (SWT) and you shouldn't search for that in a man.
      He is not God Neuzubillah.

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 Před 3 lety +8

    I am attracted to a Sunni Iranian Muslim man that is a full package been praying for him. As a European Muslim woman. I love Farsi language. I am so tired of certain people that tell me who I should "marry". I shall be patient for my Persian man.

    • @Romon111
      @Romon111 Před 3 lety +7

      Sorry to break to you but there are no Sunni Persians, 99.9% are shia.

    • @Romon111
      @Romon111 Před 3 lety +3

      @@hasibabdullah3463 Gabriel is not from Iran bro

    • @mr.t.1237
      @mr.t.1237 Před 3 lety

      @@Romon111 😂😂😂

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 Před 3 lety +10

      @@Romon111 there are many Sunnis from iran, they have to keep is a secret because of the shi'a bigotry, they are 10 - 20%.

    • @afshanfathima976
      @afshanfathima976 Před 2 lety

      @@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 most of them are afghan refugees

  • @tarek399
    @tarek399 Před 3 lety +8

    Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said: “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, give permission to his request. If you do not do so there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption." [Marriage, Mishkat al-Masabih 3090, At-Trimdhi]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.
    Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four [main] things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious who has religiosity, may you be blessed!". [Chapter: Visiting the Pious Persons, loving them and adoption of their company, Riyad Al-Saliheen, Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Authenticated by Al-Albani.

  • @Lion_Tawheed
    @Lion_Tawheed Před 2 lety

    Wa alaykumu as-salam Warahmatullah Wabarakaatu

  • @ladyintheveil796
    @ladyintheveil796 Před 2 lety +1

    Every time Mahdi gets cornered, he changes the goal post, this is a common strategy when one can’t win an argument or has no basis for their claim.
    Very frustrating to watch.

    • @s0urbugz837
      @s0urbugz837 Před 2 lety

      How did he change it ? Can you explain further please

  • @sayedahashimi4862
    @sayedahashimi4862 Před 3 lety

    Yea women has a diversity of traits that are contrasting one another in personality that is why women in general has variety of preferences. I come to know as well that women are very different from men in terms of impressing from men or selecting of men spouse.men in general are attracted to physical beauty more while women are attracted mostly by social picture of men .if a man is viewed positively in a society or family due to certain reasons be that religious or cultural or any other personal elements there,she will be mostly attracted to him. Because women are more socially complaint than men so women will unconsciously change their likeness and dislikes based on society ,culture ,religion strong opinions,powerful narratives and all other social elements. Women's brain is working in a complex manner when it comes to decisions no matter for what.

    • @Mark-go7qm
      @Mark-go7qm Před 3 lety

      That is why we women can be manipulated easily !!!

    • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
      @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 Před 3 lety

      women are more womb aka experience based creatures... and vary alot, they have triggers and emotional perceived ways to deal with them...

  • @alghurraba
    @alghurraba Před 3 lety +3

    A man should be provider and protector.

    • @alghurraba
      @alghurraba Před 3 lety +1

      @Chadjeet Fuqsdeep that's what Quraan says. if men fail to do this they will be responsible on The Day.

    • @kaz9242
      @kaz9242 Před 3 lety +3

      @@alghurraba it takes two hands to clap. Don't expect to hear a clap with only one hand

    • @alghurraba
      @alghurraba Před 3 lety

      @@kaz9242 exactly. Man has his responsibilities and woman has her responsibilities. Only if they both fulfil them, it will be balance and happiness.

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 Před 2 lety +2

    Our prophet S.A.W was fit ,women like men that are bigger than them, none thing wrong, if a woman want a man who is well built.

  • @882517
    @882517 Před 3 lety +3

    I assume it has more to do with the personality type. There are people who prefer more depth and meaningful connections and others don’t. Not all men are like you describe them (mainly focus on looks) there are also some amazing ones who are thoughtful and have different values than those who focus on looks a lot. At the same time, there are also women who are more superficial and only care for looks. I doubt that it has much to do with gender.

    • @sundus928
      @sundus928 Před 2 lety

      True, especially if we look at Myer Briggs personality type. It's not always men or women. It's just people in general who have such personalitys.

  • @haesa4863
    @haesa4863 Před 2 lety

    You should do one about what man want in a woman.

  • @tahminakhatun5823
    @tahminakhatun5823 Před 2 lety

    This man is beautiful

  • @54wsbrdtyd6ryeb56d
    @54wsbrdtyd6ryeb56d Před 2 lety +3

    haven't women always appreciated looks in a man? like when Zuleika prepared a feast for the women and asked Yusuf a.s to enter and they all cut their hands

  • @nabilturki1662
    @nabilturki1662 Před 2 lety +1

    Money, no doubt ..

  • @rakivjabbar9632
    @rakivjabbar9632 Před 3 lety +9

    Gabriel is the one of the true scholars i come through. Those who attack him forget that hes guided by Allah.

    • @mk-ld8ih
      @mk-ld8ih Před 3 lety +17

      He's not a scholar so refrain from referring to him as one. Masha Allah he's a student of knowledge.

  • @DanishF
    @DanishF Před 2 lety

    Salaam Br. Gabriel, what's your opinion on the muslim matrimony sites? What are the signs of a good site or bad site in terms of process and interaction?

  • @theterminator6121
    @theterminator6121 Před 3 lety +9

    There is no hope and help for the average man except Allah .

  • @marianamartinez4106
    @marianamartinez4106 Před 2 lety +1

    This Muslim brother is pretty accurate lol 😝

  • @ibnamanot
    @ibnamanot Před 3 lety +12

    Muslim or non-Muslim, women wants a tall, muscular, handsome, well-endowed man who can more than satisfy them.

    • @helenachristi7720
      @helenachristi7720 Před 3 lety +1

      Not true. For me I need an intellectual man.

    • @Geebee67
      @Geebee67 Před 3 lety

      So Not true stupid.

    • @Memic86
      @Memic86 Před 3 lety

      @@Geebee67 he is talking about the general women you are most likely above that level in ignorance since you are calling him stupid he is your brother in islam

    • @Memic86
      @Memic86 Před 3 lety +1

      Thats why you have a dog

    • @mr.t.1237
      @mr.t.1237 Před 3 lety

      Stop describing me

  • @abdallaabdelrahim4150
    @abdallaabdelrahim4150 Před 3 lety +20

    Hey Dr. I was just wondering where do you get your suits or are they tailored? Any recommendations in the UAE if so. Moreover, you have great content that I rarely see anyone tackle in this manner specifically from islamic paradigm and perspective.

  • @clementinapoli8232
    @clementinapoli8232 Před rokem

    Salam alaykum everyone. I'm using the MBTI baseline for this question, mainly the difference between the intuitive vs the sensory woman. Do intuive women struggle more with household chores, taking care of children, etc.... ? If we struggle with sth, it doesn't mean we shouldn't do it right, so what coping mechanisms have you found that have worked for you in regards to household chores and co.
    As a quick reminder intuitives tend to be more conceptual than practical, and easily get bored with routine. Sensors are more down to earth, concerned with the here and now, practical and detailed oriented. Intuitives statistically make up 30% of the world population, men and woman together. I have the impression when I hear about the general woman, that the sensory woman is the one being described.

  • @sahr366
    @sahr366 Před rokem +1

    Mannerism and masculinity

  • @sundus928
    @sundus928 Před 2 lety

    Pls can you put timestamps with titles .so that it's easier to understand.

  • @xS146roar
    @xS146roar Před 3 lety

    Question should be What a good Muslim women want ??? ☝️☝️☝️☝️

  • @zaidhernandez4601
    @zaidhernandez4601 Před 2 lety +1

    My main problem is how these female behaviors are super inflated nowadays and what they care about most are frequently also the most superficial. Like since women are competitive with each other and naturally want what other women like along with social media and everything it's crazy. Like a man in order to even be on the radar needs some crazy things that are ridiculous and not even practical at all. What needs to be valued at most is our deen and being a good provider...not a provider of mass amounts of dumb purses and trips everywhere, but instead what's actually practical and a bit of that superficial stuff because might as well, people like enjoying the gifts of Allah to a extent.

  • @yourfamilydoctor172
    @yourfamilydoctor172 Před 2 lety +1

    What women look for: financial and emotional security

  • @zaynshah4023
    @zaynshah4023 Před 3 lety

    CELIBACY with SIGMA PERSONALITY

  • @gabrielstorm3536
    @gabrielstorm3536 Před 2 lety +1

    This video needed to be twice as long at least, potentially longer. A very cursory treatment

  • @anonymousanonymous870
    @anonymousanonymous870 Před 2 lety +4

    Are you telling us that the media, movies, and so on that cause women to go for attractive men ?maybe you have forgotten the story of the prophet Yusuf peace be on him. Women also like attractive well built men.

  • @IanTH-tu2wn
    @IanTH-tu2wn Před 2 měsíci

    Smart
    Polite
    Sense of humor
    Diligent
    Good hygiene
    Good health
    Good mebtal health
    This is what women look into men

  • @Memic86
    @Memic86 Před 3 lety +2

    Better term for makeup is fakeup