From Shy To Confident - Fast Recovery Secret! | Dr. Aziz - Confidence Coach
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What if you could transform from a shy or socially anxious person to someone who’s confident and free of fear? What if I told you that this transformation could also be completely genuine, and you don’t have to put on some fake persona to make it happen?
Today, we’re going to be discussing your potential to create a total identity shift and make incredible strides concerning how you view and present yourself to the world.
To begin with, confidence is a discipline: if you practice it and commit yourself to it, you will develop it and see major changes in your life. In some cases, this transformation can be surprisingly rapid, and that is the idea behind my sharing this amazing tip to developing your confidence and shifting your identity.
Now, your identity (or self-image) is how you see yourself: confident or shy; attractive or unattractive; successful or not successful; capable or useless. Not only is this identity very thorough, but it can also become quite indelible.
After a certain time, if you’ve been living a certain way, you begin to believe that’s the only thing you’re capable of-it becomes who you are.
Unfortunately, thought becomes action; action becomes reality. In other words, reality in the outside world will eventually conform to the reality you’ve created in your inside world.
If you believe that you’re shy-or socially anxious, or stupid, or lazy-that belief will rule your action, and you will behave that way out in the real world. How do I know this? Because it was my identity for years.
Let’s take the case of a person who believes he is shy: when he goes to a party, what will his actions be? Will he actively attempt to mingle? Will he approach people, start conversations, and put himself out there in order to have a good time? Absolutely not! He’ll probably be a wallflower, linger by himself at the bar, and spend the night on his phone. He has created a reality in which he is shy, and his actions are only perpetuating this reality.
Again, this was my reality for years. Then, I realized that something else was possible.
I realized that I could shift my identity and actually create the reality that I wanted to live in.
So, how did I do that? I changed my actions despite my beliefs.
Think about it this way: when you consistently approach new people to start conversations, you become the sort of person who approaches people to start conversations; when you consistently speak up in a group setting, you become the sort of person who speaks up in group settings; when you consistently take risks and talk to people who attract you, you become the sort of person who takes risks by talking to people who attract you.
This is the importance of language: when you consistently do XYZ, you become the sort of person who does XYZ.
Who am I today? I am the kind of person who can easily talk on camera; I am the kind of person who can speak confidently and look others in the eye, whether one-on-one or in large groups; I am the sort of person who goes after what I want in life, regardless of the social discomfort.
I am not this person because I magically woke up one day and took a pill or got hypnosis: I am this person today because I did those things over and over again until they became a piece of my identity.
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I’ve been practicing a lot. (Risky your way into a new identity)
I see myself getting better, but I can TURLY SAY It’s all because of God that I’m even progressing! Because I know He’s helping me.
But I fail sometimes but I’m doing so much better w starting convo. Doing what’s uncomfortable.
I’m not where I want to be, but I’m not where I used to be
And that's commendable! Keep up the great work!
Now?
Fear is blocking me from achieving my ideal self
Time to put fear in its place!
Get More Confidence how exactly cause fear is intense like then I start thinking to much about what other well think and doing
It's a process but you can do it. There are many videos on my channel here about facing and overcoming fear. Here are some of my other resources where you'll find help...
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You're blocking yourself with fear
An employer once told me you can be one of two things confident or scared. Break it down like that start off confident
You can be both some times. :) Thus the concept of feeling the fear and doing it anyway!
I relate because i was broken growing up , now i allow people in
I've learned so much from you Dr Aziz, you have helped me no end. Thank you sir. x.
I'm so glad! Have you check out my podcast? Go here: cli.re/podcast
You hit the spot everytime. I can completely relate to the things you say. Thankyou.
You're welcome!
Good video thank you!!!! I can’t wait to hear the next video on doubt.
It'll be coming out soon, no doubt. :)
Insanely helpful ! Thank you so much my brother i love you
Glad it helped!
Man aziz love you bro keep it up gr8 vieos
Thanks, I will!
Love you're videos, it has helped me a lot.
Glad to help!
Hello Dr. Aziz. Great video, as always! I'm a big fan of yours, thank you for sharing.
Thank YOU for being here and watching!
I see what your saying sometimes I do doubt things because I feel unsure where my life is going to be. The way you speak your mind helps
Great!
thanks Dr.Aziz . ur video gives me the courage to face my fears. can u make a video on - how to avoid awkward silences?
Absolutely! The first thing to know is that silences aren't necessarily bad. You may be the only one feeling awkward at that moment. :)
You know I want to change my approach on confidence and I know it’s going to take time for me especially and you know that. I know it does not happen overnight but I see Enough with what you’re meaning and saying. 😊 i’ve been shy all my life but I feel like I don’t need to be that way but that’s not easy to change which I’m sure you know that Because like you said you were in that same position back in your days
For sure. I'm living proof you can do it1
Thank you for motivating
You're very welcome!
Thank you
You're welcome!
I use to be very confident guy before. But social anxiety hits me a year before. But now from last one month what i do is when i get into some socially uncomfortable situation; i try to think that what my old self would do in this situation. And i do the same( it feels so so uncomfortable), but i do. May b one day i ll not feel that uncomfortable sense.. anyways amazing vdos doc
Hello AZIZ 46. Happy new year wishes to u n ur family. Ur vdo makes me feel good. I can C myself from how I'm to who I'm now. AL coz of u my frnd. God bless u.
So glad to be of help my friend!
Wow i never thought of this
Awesome!
I realize what you are saying but when im trying to push myself to do something that i dont want or uncomfortable to me, for instant to speak in front of people in a social event i decide to speak despite the fear and it went akward now i feel more anxious and insecure because im afraid it will happen again so it feels like im not moving forward everytime i try to get out my comfort zone it feels the same or worst
the way you said he will be at one corner and might use cellphone to make occupied ,,that's what I do ...
.I struggle a lot in my life ,Its like never ending situation its been 8 years am like that ..
I don't have a list of things i want to do. I don't just lack confidence i lack the ability to feel positive emotions.
Could fucked up teeth contribute to social anxiety and negative thinking patterns? If I were to get all crowned straight pearl white teeth would my self confidence raise? I currently have an underbite and really fucked up teeth; I get self conscious.
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I'm very emotionally disturbed due to being left out by my group of friends.
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Thanks!