What Is the Shame and Guilt Under the Mask?

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 28

  • @charlesdavid-p1y
    @charlesdavid-p1y Před 6 dny +201

    As I watch this enthralling video, it resurrects the painful memories of my recent breakup a relationship of five years that ended just three months ago. The woman who meant everything to me decided to leave, plunging me into a vortex of heartache. Despite my desperate attempts to reconcile, I find myself trapped in a cycle of frustration and longing, unable to envision a life without her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I find solace in expressing my lingering affection for her here.

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita Před 6 dny

      The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 12-year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim her affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y Před 6 dny

      Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita Před 6 dny

      Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y Před 6 dny

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @Michael_Arguello
    @Michael_Arguello Před 27 dny +3

    Dude you are killing it. I like your style. Keep growing. You are doing the Lords work whether you know it or not. It’s clear He’s working on you. Heck yeah.

  • @Selah1141
    @Selah1141 Před měsícem +9

    So happy that there are a few men like you authentically working on themselves and their marriage. Congratulations and keep going. Most of us women are not that blessed to have a man that is willing to work on themselves to make the marriage better. The very marriage that they took vows to, and then broke them all. As you probably heard learned what a narcissist does to your emotions, your spirit and your mind and sometimes your body is almost un-healable. Again congratulations and keep going. 🎉

  • @lizlois777
    @lizlois777 Před měsícem +3

    Mines a runner, after violent, temper tantrum. I'm happy to say he's not as bad like before, I've not put up with it and tried boundaries.
    Sooo now he's at neighbor's place living with newly widowed female. Wow! I'm enjoying the break and time alone. But its so low what he's doing and I'm sure expecting me to be real upset!?! But NOOOO, I'm home listening to you and doing what I want in peace. 👏❤️✌️🙏😁

  • @juliejarrett4508
    @juliejarrett4508 Před 26 dny +1

    Excellent….im saving this one! Excellent! 👍👍👍

  • @user-gj8pj1io8y
    @user-gj8pj1io8y Před 15 dny

    Another great video Ben, you are helping many people see that there is a better way to live.

  • @sheysheybobay
    @sheysheybobay Před 24 dny +1

    Thank you. Best video yet!

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Před 24 dny

      I'm happy to hear that you're finding our content valuable! I'd like to extend an invitation for you to join our free masterclass. In it, we'll explore methods for breaking free from toxic relationships. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @user-yk9lu2bx8y
    @user-yk9lu2bx8y Před měsícem +4

    But the message is always they can't and won't change...the internet HAS to start teaching that THEY CAN CHANGE....there needs to be a focus on how those who changed came to the breaking point. 😢😢😢😢

  • @CerealExpLain
    @CerealExpLain Před 29 dny +1

    He has admitted to deceiving himself yet still he hasn't changed. I can't wrap my head around it because I have the ability to empathize.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Před 28 dny +1

      It's never too late to begin your healing journey! Join our free masterclass and discover how to break free from toxic relationships here www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass..

  • @CycleBreakerDragon
    @CycleBreakerDragon Před měsícem +2

    Yup

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Před měsícem

      We're here to support your healing journey. Come join us in this free masterclass to learn about the secret methods on breaking free from the toxic. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @TheAppaloosa14
    @TheAppaloosa14 Před měsícem

    Great video, I believe once a victim understands the core shame in a narcissist who blames you to activate your own core shame you’re on the road to knowing nothing can change the relationship. One choice, leave.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Před 29 dny

      I'm happy to hear that you're finding our content valuable! I'd like to extend an invitation for you to join our free masterclass. In it, we'll explore methods for breaking free from toxic relationships. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @tanyadepoalo4312
    @tanyadepoalo4312 Před měsícem

    My recent ex N just broke up w me again. Via text for the millionth time. My crime: I’m a singer and I was hired to do vocals for someone song, I spent 5 hours in the studio a few days ago from 7pm to midnight working on a song. I was told I am a liar and cheat and I should be ashamed of myself for spending time alone with “another man” until midnight on a Sunday. I was hired to do a job and I did my job got paid and went home. He always says I’m sick of the guy friend crap. I grew up in a small town, am a musician and have to work with men now and then. Anyways, he told me to “burn in hell” and he called me trash and a bunch of other horrible names. He said he will be “actively dating other women” and “do not bother us” I replied with “Sounds good” that just enraged him more and he sent me a slew of even more degrading messages. I’m just about used to it so it didn’t hurt as bad this time. And I believe he finally cured me this time of ever falling for his scams again. He killed my love and attraction for him. It’s very sad indeed.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Před 29 dny

      Appreciate you sharing your story. It must have been really tough. I'd love to invite you to our free masterclass where you can learn how to break free from toxic relationships. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @karynegough7564
    @karynegough7564 Před měsícem

    Invaluable information. Thank you. Keep up the great work.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Před 29 dny

      I'm happy to hear that you're finding our content valuable! I'd like to extend an invitation for you to join our free masterclass. In it, we'll explore methods for breaking free from toxic relationships. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @user-yk9lu2bx8y
    @user-yk9lu2bx8y Před měsícem +1

    They need to work but the victim has to leave.....they need help to work ....not constantly being told there is no hope....

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Před měsícem

      We're here to support your healing journey. Come join us in this free masterclass to learn about the secret methods on breaking free from the toxic. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @andrewsmith6492
    @andrewsmith6492 Před 5 dny +1

    Plenty of “she”/ female narcs out there. I understand you feel like most of your audience is female but us guys watch too! Love your content but really throws me off with “he”