Sebastian Telfair Disses NBA Wives: You're Gold Diggers! 90% Divorce After We Retire! (Part 13)
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Sebastian Telfair spoke about young athletes getting married. Sebastian argued that players often get married at a young age under external and internal pressures, believing that having a family would appeal to the family-oriented audience of the NBA. He felt that nobody was advocating for the athletes and helping them to understand the complexities of their decisions. He also mentioned that high divorce rates are eating into players' wealth, which is a largely overlooked issue. Addressing the misconception that all players earn a fortune, he highlighted that more than half the league earns between $1 million and $4 million. Despite the fact that the NBA is contemplating strategies to protect its players, he urged athletes to understand the financial implications before tying the knot. Sebastian also briefly touched on his career, communities' perceptions, and the importance of leading a modest lifestyle in the public eye.
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😂😂😂 That’s facts B
"When our emotions are engaged, we often have trouble seeing things as they are."
BARS! 🔥
I hope this dude gets on more Platforms . His perspective is unique and he is brave
We have such a low bar for what constitutes being "brave" these days...
Going on Vlad TV and speaking your mind? SO brave...🤦♂️
Yup.. not a lot of players speak bout stuff like this... hence why it continues to happen.
@@brutusvonmanhammer u missed the point but cool.. dumb ones exist
@@TkKirklandReal So what's the point? Are you going to expound your thoughts?
No, it's not 😂😂
All the nba players chase the same women they see that did another player dirty . They create their own drama .
I get on rappers for the same thing but at the same time you gotta give them the benefit of the doubt..when you rich and famous you’re presented with the type of bitches that you probably wouldn’t be able to get next to as a regular dude it probably be hard to resist temptation and mess with a regular chick once you get to a certain status
Exactly
That would require accountability that you males do not possess.
@@Dreaaddyyou are right, but I'm sure I would be smart enough to not sign marriage documents. Like come on
Exactly! getting married to side chicks and shit.
This is a great lesson to men who who make a lot of money in general. If a women knows how much you make, be very careful of what her intentions are. Many just see you as a paycheck and nothing more. Focus on yourself and growing your money. Stay independent and free.
All women are gold diggers who they can’t be trusted. Rich men getting married is the dumbest thing!!!
Stay pre-nupped
Better yet keep your money in stealth mode, if possible. That way you find out true intentions. Of course, professional athletes don’t have that option.
Better yet, how about rich men stop being delusional and going for trophy wives. If you know you couldn't get her if you were broke, then why go for her when you get rich?
It's hard to feel sorry for these dudes. Men with a lot of money love to brag and show off their money with the attention of getting women.
So why cry when women only see you as a paycheck?
That's the same thing when cute women only use their looks to get a guy. So why be mad when a guy only likes you for looks?
On the flip side they only get the girls because of the money so it makes sense 😂
Depends on which ones you’re talking about. At the end of the day, they’re still tall with a naturally athletic build, but some of them look goofy as hell off a basketball court
@@shottakush8404& others have been getting hoes all their lives without money.
I doubt it, girls are easy to get.
Exactly
Big facts
I noticed every filthy rich old men always complained about gold diggers but every time they chase after those exact females by luring them with that money... 'MAKE THAT MAKE SENSE‼️'
I never understood why a millionaire would get married?
I agree.. because you would really think it would be common sense.. I always say marriage is a middle class and a poor man’s life path..
They learn the hard way and Emotions and feelings. We forget we dont need a Marriage contract to be in a relationship or to be a Father. The only protection is not to SIGN the Marriage Contract, If the Court has no contract they cant enforce anything. This will weed out the wrong Women.
@@erikdegby4652 well said
No Need To Get Married. If Your Going To Be Together Then You Will Be Together. Better Sign A Prenuptial Agreement If You Do
Me either
That’s their fault. Always pay attention to the type of women that wanted you before you had anything. Kevin Durant is one of the smartest nba players ever.
Hell, Derek Jeter when he was in the MLB!
Idk I think KD has no game lol
you dont understand j william, let me break it down for you, if you are a man you need a female companion, so lets say you j william you are in the nfl or nba you cant be single forever, so one night you go out with your friends and lets say you meet a female, that female will have her game face on, when you start dating her she will tell you all the green flags that you wanna hear, so since u dont know whats inside someone's heart she will act accordingly every single day, so in ur mind u gonna say ok i found the right one, even when u test her she will pass all ur tests even if u date her 5yrs she will act nice those 5 yrs because she knows the end goal is for her to cash out, so you are an investment without you even knowing, now after 5yrs u will marry her and lets say j william you play in the nba for 10yrs or 15yrs those yrs she will act accordingly, Now when you retire, and u wanna relax you will see a tiger in front of u, now u gonna wake up with a different person, but this time she already has lawyers who are alligators and boom she took all ur wealth even if u have offshore banks they will have detectives who will follow you until they discover every cent, if u wanna stay single j williams, then ur legacy will end on u and no kids and no grandchildren, read this more than one time for u to understand
@@Ayititunesdont need game if u him
@@jayvonjayvon6147 you don't "need" a companion.
Just About Everybody They Named Cheated On Their Wives 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yep . its hard to feel sorry for joe smith 😆😂
How about you sign PRENUPS before getting married.
“Is it because the nba wants married players cause theirs a family audience” I know bro ain’t ask that 😭
😂i was thinking the same
Vlad made 0 sense with that! Let's ask all of those divorced NBA players how that fake monopoly affected their bank accounts
He was baiting him to say that nba players are dumbasses that marry early
Grant Hill might be the only athlete, with a wife that actually loved him.
Grant hill won
Cause he got the looks. Dudes like bol bol get the goldiggers
she's a celebrity too. these dudes marry golddiggers who cant make money on their own. When you get famous and rich get a famous and rich woman. Getting a broke one is not a flex thats easy. A broke unknown woman will kiss your ass to get that ring and be in that circle.
@@Outtasightcalifunny
I'll put Lebron in that conversation as well. Savannah seems like a real solid woman.
He won’t look in the mirror and admit his own level of bogus….a spoiled jock who thought the world was his until the game is over and the $$$ is gone…..he won’t simply say “I was a fool with $$$”
Exactly. The Celtics got rid of you for a reason, because they didn't want some me me me primadonna highjacking the team.
This guy was an absolute headcase.
“When the money goes, will the honeys stay?”-Jay Z
You'd def take the dinner over the 500.
That’s the song that was in my head after watching this
@@Robert-um7tj😭😭😭😭
@@Robert-um7tj love Jay but hell nah, give me the mf money💯😭
@@skinnyminnieoglmao
He tripping thinking he was the first player pulling up in a Bentley and Aston Martin lol
Pick women with substance.
When you pick a woman for looks-
you get what you get🤷🏾♀️.
Y’all know without the money these women wouldn’t look at y’all twice yet you still chose to take the charge.
That’s on you🤷🏾♀️
Easier said then done... A man still has to be attracted to the woman...
*You could get it, respectfully*
@@d.kj.n1392now you know that's not true.
True these men stupid but they aint
if a wife is guaranteed millions in a divorce, im sure she will find lots of "irreconcilable" differences
More nba players need to see this I don’t know why dudes be getting married in they 20s when u worth millions
I don’t know why they aint all getting prenuptials and keeping their money separate
@@joojoobawyup
I'm sure most men especially the rich ones know this why would they need a criminal to tell them 😂😂
@@joojoobawbecause they are dumb.
Pj Washington
Solution: Stay single until you retire. This job requires extreme often travel. Stay single fellas, beware of the pretty bums.
Why in the world would any nba athlete want to get married at that age anyway?
IF I was young and reckless, the last thing I want to think about is settling down with anyone.
@@robertsmith2088 you said it all 💯
If New York was an interview clip
😂😂 the interview would take the entire 24 hrs day..... at least
The accent is heavy.
Ya bogus
Rolls Royce and Louie is what makes you go broke real fast
The bitch does before all that
Real talk.
You can sell luxury items can't sell your ex wife
@@wvu2123😂 yeah but if you buy a chain for 20k doesn't mean you are getting 20k back 😂😂
@@ZomegJ when times are tough any money is better than no money
He's leaving out the serial cheating athletes do with groupies while they're on the road. That's probably who they're marrying lol
Big FACTS HE SPEAKING. FELLOWS TAKE NOTES
Prenuptial Agreement; enough said.
Most get tossed out. Plus prenups don't protect against child support. Try again...
True. But knocking up a woman as a rich dude can still have you paying like $50,000/month in child support
The NBA addresses a lot of things in rookie symposium but it's not your jobs responsibility to tell you who to marry and not to get married
A lot of these star athletes spend their whole life developing their craft and perfect their athletic abilities to get to the next level they don’t even develop the understanding it takes on how to deal with women. They make it to the league then get the women they always wanted and think it’s a loving and substantial relationship. That’s why they legally marry them and don’t realize they can still just mess around with the same types of women
If you continue to stay in the league you'll be divorced for not spending enough time with the family. If you retire to spend time with the family you'll be divorced for being "lazy" and unambitious lol
So how come a lot of baseball players then manage to stay married with their wives even though they have a more taxing schedule?
Truth is better to deal with one woman in marriage than multiple baby mommas. But what he said about the money being in the divorce...I felt that. But also look at what and who you choose and how you behave. This is a real male conversation because the woman is also putting up with multiple other women, babies, having to look a certain way based on your husband's status and the cattiness/jealously of the other WAGS, loss of control because the entire orbit of your life revolves around the player. He's not hardly doing all the work if you have kids and is on the road hald the time you're together. And then you have to deal with his injuries and whatever mental health issues he's going to go through once his career is over. So everyone is getting a wake up call after the wedding and IG clout chasing are over....
Lavar Ball told us this 3 years ago.
The athletes are bogus! They knew what it was when they got with the attractive women. Seriously, they paid for her company and when it was over, they were over. Fair trade off.
I guess having kids with them is in the fair trade too? 🤔
Somehow, I know it’s extremely difficult when we are young, me included….we as young men coming out into the world have to figure out how, by discipline or whatever need to control our loins.
That's easier said than done bro. But I agree with you 100%
Real talk Sebastian
Always blaming the next man or entity. No ownership. Now NBA players are the victims…
@1:27 he blamed it on the players.
He said the players are dumb...
Tell me you didn’t watch the video without telling me you didn’t watch the video
Easy to say when u ain’t lost 300 mill of ur hard earned money to a woman who sat on her ass and did nothing.. broke mfers who never worked hard or sacrificed to get something worthwhile will never understand.. smh see u don’t ever experience real LOSS until u got a LOT to LOSE.. Ish will make a real mfer crash out FAST in a lot of cases
Leave me after I cheat. Don't wait until I retire. 😂😂 I'm going to blame her for not leaving me😂
You knew the Game.. she got with you cuz you had bread.. you lost bread... She skated... What are you tight about?
Whenever a woman brings up marriage I know she doesn't give a fck about me. It's like damn, I thought we were cool😂smdh. You trying to black widow me too
🤣🤣
Getting married young isn’t a bad thing. You just have to find the right partner. College is a great place to find your wife as you can quickly find out the girls that are really for you and the ones that are about the limelight.
Not to say your wrong, but finding the right one is the hardest part cause you never really know who loves you unconditionally, it's really a game of chance
Numbers don’t agree with you
Lmao "the right one" 😂
Get married after you retire as a professional athlete for 80% jeter was smart
really look around you most college girls want guys who got the bag this is not 1950 when women were looking for husbands if you don't have swag most college girls wouldn't even look at you the great Kobe bean Bryant said sisters thought he was corny in school.
Never get married fellas they’ll take all youre money and be careful having kids wit these bops
He speaking facts 😂 those 304s are in it for the money period .. when the playing time is over it’s just a matter of time before they bounce
Whats a 304
I mean if Shaq and Jordan got divorced after their careers then it’s not always just about money/fame... *they* still got it
@@joojoobawit is about money and fame.. Neither one of those women dropped their ex-husbands last names..🤷🏾♂️
@@joojoobawShaq got divorced during his career
@@joojoobaw their wives weren’t 304s like most are so u can’t include them in this
She’s there for their money and she wants to leave with their money. Cold game.
Don't get married. You can be rich or not, have kids or not, but they still got the same selfish plan. The saddest part is dudes be wanting families. Women be wanting kids too but I think women see kids as THEIR kids. The man is just a resource.
Get married if you found the one
Taking accountability for your own actions will free you.
So...Joe Smith isn't bogus for having 3 or 4 side kids?
He’s is but he was the prize smh
He’s not lying, men have to be smarter!
When you get rich all this finding true love shit is over.
The problem is when you try to warn these youngsters they call you a hater.
Never made sense to me why an athlete would get married at all, especially while they’re young. They have all the leverage in relationships without marriage so why give that up by getting locked in with a woman who would probably still stick around anyway without marriage just off the fact that she’ll probably never get a high earning athlete.
Never trust a big but and a smile 😂😂😂😂
That girl is poison 😂😂😂
😂💯
The captain Derek Jeter is the way to do it. During his playing career was never married and had no kids.
When you got money you got honey , when you broke your love life is funny.
It's a trade off in life, especially in America, not just in the NBA, where an ugly or goofy man with status gets a trophy girl who doesn't bring anything to the marriage but her looks? And she's extra with the drama because every woman knows 90 percent of women seek men with plenty of cash so she never trusts him outside of herself because she knows her own Heart isn't right! 🤷🏽
Lady, please... All woman are that way. Doesn't matter I you have money or not it's always all about the money.
@@doctorfresh3856 If you think it's always about the money it's because you don't have any and you're not very intelligent. Women who put God first, who live a nice life already doesn't have to sell out for a Chomp with money. I have seen broke Chomps and Chomps with a lot of money and possessions; either way he's still a CHOMP!
@@doctorfresh3856 If you think ALL women are this way? You're probably not very good looking, not very intelligent, or always broke, or all three?
Ain't no trade off lol steph curry wife said men don't even think she's attractive. The way women think steph is attractive. Theyre gold diggers and most ball players think they got enough gold too take the HIT. Which they don't smh
The women are ugly and goofy too. That's why they need surgery.
To future nba players out there when you make it don't get married until you know what's her true motive with you.
I say it should be mandatory for them all to have a vasectomy and keep some juice in a sperm bank. In that case everyone is protected. Players and the nba. The players can just focus on playing.
They shouldn't get married until they retire. Unless they have a situation like LeBron. They should wait.
Or wait til your career is over
@@thadonjuan2339what’s Lebron situation? How do you know his wife is not like the rest of em
@@yoboymalc4432 What do you mean like the rest of them? What is the rest of them like?
Don't get married until you are 40+ years old and if you do make sure you do a prenuptial agreement to protect your assets.
Nobody wants your Playstation.
@@r.m.90 I used to have one, but not anymore.
nah about 36 or 37
@@thekingsson1757 Age is nothing but a number like they say.
Don't get married at all ....
Bruh said, “1-4” million like you can’t live off that. This man issue is clearly a substance
Speak the truth. You have to be very careful of the woman you choose.
The men do whatever they want while they’re married. People only gonna put up with that as long as they’re getting something out of it. It seems mutually beneficial to me.
no way. all the dude has to say is no im not getting married. the woman can stick around or leave
So nobody gets prenups??
They get thrown out by judges
Each interview he blames everyone except himself...dude still has a lot of maturing to do.
Thanks young brother. Some of these dudes really need to hear this. 9 out of 10. You might get lucky and find that one. But stop rushing into it.
Yo Vlad! You should reach out to former nba all star Terrell Brandon! The interview will be Gold!!!
Damn zion should of seen this interview before hand 🤦🏾♂️
Rookie Summer Tournament....Look who in the stands near the bench...😂😂😂
Fellas stay off of Instagram . Keep your money
NBA players choose the worst women out of all sports
Ty for saying this
TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY… u decided to marry at that young age as a NBA player, u could’ve had your way with most women and be a bachelor.. goes to show most these guys didn’t get females till they got money
After I saw Bradley Beal WIFE!!!! Give James Harden a high 5 after Harden beat Beal and the suns i really realized them NBA wives don’t care about their husbands they just there for the lifestyle
That's not even a big deal
They just couldn’t be in the same friends group? I don’t know but that seems realistic.
@@roxjaw2895you must not “know them typa hugs”
Harden grew up with her, he introduced them. Y’all be reaching.
@@jaysmooth-ng8sf John Wall introduced them.
Why would you get married if you're a millionaire NBA player if it's 90%. These Ho3s have a better shooting % than Larry 🐦 😂
He blames the nba on everything
He got a point though w/o the players there is no NBA. Plus, the NBA should educate players and have a pension that nobody can touch but the players!
Don't forget about the amount of child support they get and the kids be with the nanny while they overseas shopping
They made a show 4 these chicks!! BROTHER u right!!
I used to play 2k with this guy and I remember how underrated of a beast he was. 😂
This guy has NO accountability! If an athlete cheats on his wife, they want the wife to look the other way? GTFOH. Don't get married if you are going to cheat.
Exactly! Knowing full well, they wouldn't stay if their girl cheated and had multiple babies with other men. BM are so lost.
100 bucks says you’re not a male?
@subzero-ws7wt . 100 bucks that you exhibit the SAME behavior as the ex-player! NOT all men think like you thank goodness.
@@jenisejackson5408 Why are you so angry with me?
@subzero-ws7wt . I am not angry with you. Just a little annoyed by your question.
0:08 yup, this gonna be good 😂
He’s talking about 48 laws of power
At the end
He was the first one to pull up in Bentlys & shit, but was also the first one to go broke!
As much as I don’t like that dynamic, you got them used to that lifestyle. So when it stops, they gotta find a way to continue
Why do people still get married in general
Simping always leads to bad things never fails 😂😂😂
I never understood why rich men legally marry.
love hearing women and black millionaires saying they need an advocate to make good adult decisions....
Stop MARRYING women .
So as the player if she not signing prenup
Your bogus for not protecting yourself
Because they can't get a Savannah or a doctor. Who fault is that? Somebody explain please?
21 not too young to be married. People just immature and dont wanna grow up. People get rich and want to love their boyish fantasies they dreamed about.
What "boyish" fantasy??
Players thinking they playas lol
Best season 9 points that’s a bust sorry
Preachhhhh Bassie!!! These chicks wouldn’t even look y’all’s way of y’all weren’t rich! Dude seems like such a cool person. Hope you get whatever you want in life bro
Don’t get married
😂😂😂😂 the Brooklyn is still alive and well in Telf salute
As a Minnesotan and a Telfair fan, I'll respectfully say Minneapolis, Minnesota isn't a "small town." I loved when he played for the Wolves because WE gave him a second chance at reinventing himself in the league. I hope he continues to strive toward self-forgiveness and future success. Respect!
It's not a 'small town', but he's from NY. So Minneapolis is 'small' (smaller than NYC) in comparison.
@@OneMightyandStrong Obviously…But most cities are smaller than New York so regardless what he said is invalid. Especially due to his circumstances and the time period of his career.
He was on a one way ticket to the Guangdong Tigers if it wasn’t for the wolves taking a chance on him In a trade…I love his game and what he did for basketball but let’s be real.
@@MrShellyj all I'm saying is that Telfair was just saying it was 'small' in the sense of what he was used to. Nothing more.
@@MrShellyj*You are in your feelings. It is a small town. If you take a fish out of the ocean and put it in a tank, it's now in a "small town"*
The first nba player to wear designer clothes. Yeah, not sure about that.
If there's infidelity then good for the women on getting their lick back. Men don't want to be held accountable for not honoring their vows. If you're honoring your marriage and she leaves then it's her fault. If you've cheated because you're a ball player and all the girls are coming at you, fight that temptation and honor your marriage, if you give in, take accountability, even if that means divorce.
You can't tell a kid with millions and high testosterone a damn thing. Especially if they come from a single parent (mother).
Get married in a state that doesn't recognize QDROs. Thats how they get half of the pension or retirement savings.
The way that you met her is the way that you left her😢
Bash ain’t telling no lies
True
Vlad: that same year you get married
Him: f&$k that too lol
He's telling the absolute truth. The women just be along for the ride and benefits, the players need to do a better job of picking the women they choose to date
They get what they pay for. Women want security and most of the men want a trophy. They can't be mad. It was a transaction.
@@sheilasteele2433yea
lmao bro said “shesssss bogus”
Players Playing - Players Payin 🏀