Gilbert Arenas on How He Got His Child Support Lowered from $44K to $7K a Month (Part 2)
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Part 1: • Gilbert Arenas: Why's ...
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In this clip, Vlad started off speaking about interviewing former NBA player Eddy Curry, whose ex-wife took him to court and claimed he didn’t pay child support because it wasn’t done through the state. Gilbert reacted by explaining that he’s seen that happen, and he stated that all child support payments have to be in the court record. Gilbert then spoke about his own experiences with child support, and he revealed that he always documented his payments. Vlad then shared a story about comedian Earthquake paying extra in child support, and Gilbert pointed out that you’re usually not allowed to pay over 1.5 payments in the child support system. Vlad also spoke about Erica Mena being upset that Safaree was being ordered to pay $4,000 in child support, and Gilbert explained that women have to figure out the right time to file for child support. When asked about his child support, Gilbert said that he was initially ordered to pay $20,000 a month, which he was happy with, and he spoke about being pulled into mediation for more money. Gilbert revealed that his payments went up to $44,000, and his ex went back to court for more, and he was then ordered to pay $7,100 a month. Gilbert added that he pays more than that, as well as paying for their school, clothes, and other things. - Zábava
Because the state didn’t get their cut. That’s what that was all about. Child Support is a scam.
Yes it is I pay the state and my Babymama get little less than half.
FUCKING FACTS!!!!!
@@Overrated230 fucked up!!!
if there was no child support do you really think fathers would take care of their children?
Factz fuk child
Support especially for the parents that are der..
Even with receipts? That just shows you it's not about taking care of the child, it's about paying the state.
And taking care of the women!!!
Exactly!
Think about it, you done gave a woman a million dollars for ya kid and because they didn't make any money off of the transfer, it's called a gift. Corruption at the highest level of the government system. Allowing a woman to rob a man blind!
While the government gets a cut!
Facts! The state just want their piece.
I would’ve for a paid top of the line lawyer and try to get custody. Fuck that.
@@hellcatdogman3367 The state doesn't get any different piece than when you pay directly. It's just how the rules work. Unless you pay through the right channels it's not child support, it's a gift. If you pay a parking ticket by just giving the cop cash, that doesn't count, either. Same difference.
I've never seen a black man with so much success in court in my life...
Gil is the court whisperer 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 dude is undefeated
😅😅😅😅
Son ain't a dummy. You must stay in the presence of dummies.
Oj has enter the chat
@@newjustice1 until Vegas
Smh that’s crazy. Child support is used as a weapon instead of actual support for the child 🤦🏽♂️. That’s crazy
Is why men need to smarten up & not call the guys who aren't fighting the child support system "clowns"..
The children are used as pawns by their mothers.
Only lazy, black men think this. We never hear this from other races. Y’all allergic to taking care of y’all kids. Shit is sad.
@@ET-hc4wl why is it race based when men in general deal with this?
So if your bm is a clown like this (a reflection of the man who's also a 🤡 for giving her sperm) fight, regardless of what it looks like. Put your kid first then choose better women 🙄
That Eddie Curry story is disgusting. That woman is straight evil bruh, and the court system is even more evil.
Yea man you gotta watch these 304's cuh
You ain't lying, Bra!
It is bro, that’s why these stories are good so you can educate and protect yourself because for damn sure these bms will find all the tricks to get you
I mean who hasn’t gotten Eddie Curry
His fault
The same shit happened for me this year. My BM took me to CS and I was keeping my son more than her and paying for everything. They wanted me to pay 675 a month. She then tried to get them to bump it up to 960 a month. She didn’t know I filed a custody complaint on her because she was keeping my son from me for almost a year while this was going on. The judge gave me 50/50 legal and physical custody and my payment is only 300 a month now😂
🐐
King shit bro
@@spankbuda5760 my brotha you must have misread what I wrote. I won my custody complaint due to her not replying to it. It’s called an order of default and my attorney and I capitalized off of it with all of my evidence. I still have to to pay CS cause I make more than her but I have a court order stating we share physical and legal custody of our child. So far she has been following the court order parenting plan and my son and I relationship has been restored and better than ever. He will be 3 next month and I’ll have him that week for his birthday as his mom kept him from me last year. Looking forward to it!
Gangsta
@@chazwilliams7138 I'm not sure how they misread that lol
Men who are going through this should save this part of the interview in their archives. This is so informative.
Facts
Men don't know how to tell their penis "no, not with this one sir" 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
It should be taught in High School. Domestic laws should be taught too.
Yes lord!!!
Men who are going through this know children are expensive already.
What a disgusting system we exist in. Funny story (Depends on your sense of humor) ... When I petitioned for full custody of my son, who was already living with me, I received a call from his mother FLIPPING OUT after she was served. One of the first things she said was "Do you realize I can take 17% of your check now??". It's crazy.. Even when everything was in my favor, she knew that the system worked against me and assumed because she was the mom she would win. Needless to say I won in the courts and my boy is with me. 💪🏽💪🏽
Lucky you, does she pay you child support?
Dub
@@dappa311 Nope
This is why us men need to be extra picky and just not stick our stuff into anyone.
@@Fog876 They can always flip a switch that is hidden. People especially women are emotional so changes can happen randomly.....
Gilbert the king of finesse. He finessed the Wizards, he finessed the court system…I would pay him to be my advisor.
How’d he finesse the wizards lol? This my second time watching a interview of him so I don’t know much of his history
@@user-qg8cj4zh5r he got a big ass contract an played minimal games an retired shortly after or something like that
@@geton411 Gil has a good ass attorney 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@geton411 And I think they tried to renegotiate and he said no, but he was also suspended or something, and they had to pay him to chill at home.
What everyone skips though is the wizards told him a blank check. You can't blame him for taking the bag.
I have never seen a man smile before about child support in my entire life like Gilbert Arenas 😂.
If it's anybody it would be a RICH man
Cause some of these dudes are simps!
Only Matt Barnes and 50 cents laugh like this when the subject is brought up
Because he has quite the nest egg to fall back on
He can smile because he knows it can be worst, just like what happened to the first guy Vlad mentioned.
My friend since middle school pretty much paid the mother of his son’s bills and she still took him to court for more. The judge told her in front of the entire court room that she was a fool and ordered my boy to pay less than half of what she was getting from him.
Lol she’s an idiot.
Arenas is a civilian expert in child support. The incentive to spend time with the children is lower support. Listen carefully to how he describes the entire process. He is very knowledgeable, and everything he said was completely accurate.
Doesn't happen in most cases. Time with the child has absolutely no influence on child support
@@rebelliouslogic2705 in child support court it doesn’t matter, in family court it does. I think that’s a part Gil leaves out. Two different courts, two different processes.
@@rebelliouslogic2705 false time spent with ie: overnights child is the parent is considered custodial time that counts as the child living with the parent and is factored into child support. At least in Virginia.
@@rebelliouslogic2705 yes it does I went 50/50 2-2-3 split no child support
That’s what happens when u have kids with snow bunnies
Listen up Dads. The more custody you get of your child the less your child support will be. Always try to get 50/50! Trust me. Us Dad really need to work together against these evil Mothers!!!
Evil system that further creates evil women you mean.
Shit not in NY ain’t no such thing as 50/50 custody somebody is considered the custodial parent.
Stop giving them kids!!! Or just deal with it.
@@alljerseysmatter. Easy to say lol
@@alljerseysmatter.this is a goof ass comment. People act different when children are involved.
Gilbert understands the game.. He needs to teach a Master Class for Athletes
So let me get this straight. You can literally be behind 18 years in child support and owe over $1 million but you can only be ahead 1.5 child support payments depending on where you are 🤔. Sounds like a SYSTEM to me. PRISON SYSTEM
Paying off the child -support in advance takes away the system's ability to exploit you..oh no, NO FREEDOM of any- kind for you even if, you can afford it.
Women
Only in America, where children are a source of revenue for the STATES
Child support is another form of alimony! A lot of these women aren't taking care of their children they're taking care of mom , dad , siblings buying high end vehicles clothes etc.....
YUP!
So glad sum body said something
Amen! I can always tell who is uneducated in finance. Which is the majority of this comment section. He did not finesse anyone. Modern day slavery. The NBA made much more off of him than he made off of them. He also did not finesse the child support system. He overpaid no matter how low he tells you the payments were. The woman stole much of that money for herself. I am speaking factually. Anonymously. But purposefully. Inspire yourselves and other men: RESEARCH. EVERYTHING. WAKE UP. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. PEACE.
@@only1adonis Exactly!!!
And ya'll gonna keep knocking them up
Nothing good comes from greed.
I got off child support last month! God is good. I put myself on child support at 17 when I enlisted in the Army even though her and I were cordial I could never risk back pay.
I bet that feels good...I will be off the hook next year!
Congrats bro!!
Army leads the way!
That child support when your in the military is automatic
Smart man
This is actually an educational video. Thank you. Remember greed is a deadly sin.
The look on Gloria face wen she see this interview 😂😂😂😂😂😂
*Laura
Words of advice. Stopping having all of these kids.
I stopped at one. Payed off my child support in 2013.
God bless all of you gentlemen
STOPPING having? *STOP having. Solid advice for both men and women
So fuck what the women do huh?
A better thing to promote would be to tell women stop taking advantage of the system. Children aren't the problem. In all these stories, the problem are THE WOMEN. The men are paying, they aren't the problem so the kids aren't the problem. In every story, the problem is the WOMAN. So instead of saying stop having children (if men knew the future, trust me they wouldn't look twice at the woman) tell the women to grow up and stop trying to get a million of another adult.
It is just sad that child support is not used for the children. Most people are not refusing to take care of their kids but still end up in child support. Shit is sad out here
YUP!
It's a business and has nothing to do with kids. It's another form of taxation and your children are the commodity.
I’m confused. If you’re going to share in the financial part of parenthood anyway, what difference does it make if it’s formal or not? I’m genuinely curious, so please respond respectfully.
@@christinalafleur3813 Nobody needs more then 3k a month to raise a kid this is why marriage rates are plummeting in this country because men are waking up to the scam that is marriage. A grown woman is not a child and should have to get a job and take care of herself instead of acting entitled to someone else money.
@@mikehunt6160 what does that have to do with the question that I posed?
@@christinalafleur3813 the difference is that if you fail to make a payment or fall behind in payments due to losing your job or any other natural human thing that could happen you still owe that money and could even end up in jail for owed back support.
100 percent true here in Florida too. I was giving cash, money orders, buying clothes and shoes, food etc. The mother of my kids said I gave NOTHING to the judge.... Judge said, those were gifts sir 😮
Gil needs his own child support consulting segment or a firm
Eddy Curry : "But Your Honor I Paid Her A Million Dollars, I Have Receipts"
Judge : "It Doesn't Count"
T.V. Commercial : "On This Episode Of The First 48"
Mystery murder of the judge and the baby momma😂
Eddy was just Slow
💯💯💯
🤣🤣🤣🤣
The fact Child support system refuses to allow the father to "front load" payments in advance demonstrates the system is all about keeping him on the hook for as long as possible. They will not allow him to make advanced payments it's all about POWER & CONTROL..oh yes, $$$$ also, imagine a system that rejects you from paying off your debt in full so it can make more $$$ off the interest.
The Justice system needs to do better. This is so wrong.
Women are fully aware how they can use the state to destroy you too.
U black and talking about justice
44k a month? This is insane. Again, this is why I always say that no athlete should have children until their careers are over.
Do you know how horny these athletes are when they’re young lol. They wana have sex all the time and without condoms. Especially if it’s a baddie
Its the state: why ever even dare make it seem "a CHILD", needs 44k in support? How can it be, a CHILD, needs that much to live, if you were married to her, she would NEVER need that much.
Or get married for that matter. And keep a good supply of condoms.
@@fredrickwhynn6225 In marriage she would have access to whatever, especially if her names are on the accounts. The state affords the children the lifestyle according to the affluent parent. Full custody is only granted if one parent is unfit or agrees to it. Some parents would prefer to pay child support as opposed to having the responsibility of taking care of a child. State ordered CS is in place because traditionally men would walk away from their children to start a new family, and not provide support. The state was left with the financial responsibility of having to make up the gap.
Yeah they should just stop calling it child support and call it FINACIAL assault bc if it was really about the child the court would logically just say alright sir you’ve taken care of the child. They don’t even check to see what is done with this money once it’s sent.
Or just let the child live with the parent that has the means to take care of them
$44K a month is over half a million dollars a year. How greedy can you be? sh!t I know dudes that have 4 or 5 kids and are paying like $300 a month for all the kids.
Do you think these ladies care, I am a woman, single mother who work and raise my son on my own. He is now very successful. It disgust me to see how some of these women lie and live off their kids CS.
Gilbert arenas isn’t ur average dude he’s super smart and it shows on and off the court ..he does things his ways ..it’s admirable
Happened to a friend of mine who played for the Broncos. Exact same thing. She knew exactly what she was doing because her father was an attorney.
can you tell us the story with details plz?
Oh hell nah, her dad was a lawyer? Shoulda put the glove on, pull out etc, dam
With the Eddie curry situation I feel like it’s OK to tell The judge SMD without repercussion.
Hence, SMD is why you're in this situation right now. SMH
@@jolenesimon6123 👌🤣
My 15 year old out of the blue said to me, ' Mommy thank you for not putting my daddy on child support.' I don't know how she knew. I never discussed these matters with her.
did you ask her why she said that?
@misterhappy5462 Ahe said she's been watching videos on CZcams and seeing the horrors of what men go through. I just told her not to worry. Whatever needs to be done for her, I will work with her father to get it done. If he can't help, I'll manage.
@@racqueenus so you're a unicorn. much luv & respect. what got you to separate yourself (& your principles) from the mentality of most these modern women?
@misterhappy5462 I was raised in a two parent household where the home revolved around my father. I saw how hard he worked. I'll always respect his memory. I also witnessed a very close friend of mine was put in handcuffs at the child support office when he went to pay. They didn't want the money for his children. They wanted to bleed him dry and make him lose everything he worked for. 6 Years later he gets full custody of his children. Child support is a scam.
@@misterhappy5462 Unicorn😄
Child support is a business for the States and the US Government. I paid my child support off. And I decided to move away to the Dominican Republic because I don't want to deal with child support again. I was tired of the hassle of dating women in America too. Live your best life and every day like it's your last.
Yes Sir, not mad at you my brother!
Living in a country where you can be easily ensalved and your life ruined; for a dollar and a child ,you should have all rights too, is an insane idea!
Giving a woman a grown mans yearly salary for a kid, insane idea ,it's all a bunch of wild ludicrous and out of control capitalistic system that destroys lives.
Af
GJ
Ml⁰
So because you dislike the system you said fuck ya kids and moved or did the kids go wit you…..
Dead beat.
right wow
I just got put on child support last week. I damn near cried Glad
SMH
It will work out Brody, keep it going ,that baby will appreciate u being a good father , the worse thing I did was worry about what my kids mother was doing with the money
Pull out game weak.
@@jonathanlewis6834 1
You should be proud that you’re taking care of your children.
Same thing happen to me I didn’t fully read my child support order I just wanted to get out the courtroom and I had already been paying my bm because me and her had a agreement, but outta nowhere she wanted that agreement in writing. I continued to pay her directly like I was already doing 5 years go by and I’m back in school so I ask her for an temporary adjustment and she wasn’t trying to work with me. At this point I go to DCS trying to get the adjustment and the Support Officer who I’ve never spoke with told me I was ordered to pay through the state and on record I’ve never paid a dime 😮 luckily for me I was able to show direct transfers from my bank account to my bms noted as (CS) and my child Support Officer accepted them as payment 😅 Its a cruel game but it happens never take anybody’s word and read your paperwork! On the other hand my bm was getting state services without claiming my support as income and they quickly cut those services and she found herself in some mess at that point I couldn’t help her like she couldn’t help me when I needed the adjustment 😅
Same thing happened to my sons . Your ex doesn't have anything to pay back the state after not telling them she was getting CS income?
So she committed FRAUD. Did you tell the police? Or the system? Like she told on you? Or were you busy hitting it on the side, blinded by $2 🐱? You strike me as a wise one, since you reciprocated the disrespect. But did you FINISH THE DRILL?
@@only1adonis I didn’t have to do anything once I proved I payed all those years the that was between DCS and her the system worked that out 🤷♂️ wasn’t my problem at that point as long as I abide by my court order and handle my business that’s all that matters… no hate n my heart lol
She should have been charged with fraud and ordered to pay back those state services she got under false pretense.
Can’t the irs go after her for claiming millions as a gift and not reporting it?
The woman always wins when it comes to kids or domestic violence/abuse. Unless she's a crack addict. Then it's a little different
Vlad seemed angry that his child support is reduced to $7,100.
Whatever
Also, as men, we should start choosing better who we decide to have kids with. Also, if we do have the money, we should fight to gain full custody.
fuck having kids til the system change
@@geton411 Men run the system want the change it either run for office or encourage you know to.
Bruh, as smart men, you have to know when the system is against you , you cant pick the right woman in the US, no such thing.
Women have a system in their back pocket and if you think you r gonna pick one and she wont use it against you ,when she feels like it.
You'r a fool on a fools quest!
You want a family , ya best bet is to travel abroad and make a child , you will be better off.
And I mean that seriously ,no hyperbole!
@@dappa311 🎯
It's not about picking the right woman.
You can pick the most perfect woman from what you know. You don't even have to do anything and if SHE wants to, she can do whatever she wants.
Women change. That's not a man's fault.
How can vlad say 5k per child is good then tell aries spears kanye should pay 200k bc that's his kids?
I tried to pay extra on my child support as well in Virginia. Just as Gil said, they just send the extras back 🤷🏾♂️
Any gift over 10K is taxable I would definitely call the IRS she may be put in jail for tax evasion
he would end up paying that
Is that total or single payment? From Canada asking
@@darkhorse306 i think it is total for the year
Ya right they don't put women in jail. 😂😂
Someone tag Eddy Curry lol
When I was a kid, if I asked my dad for $80 for cleats, he would write a check and put child support on it. My mom never put him on child support but he covered himself. Idk if he was wrong or right , but it is what it is.
Rest easy...he was RIGHT!
He was right
He was right! He knew what you didn't understand.
at the end of the day he had to watch his back what if your mother back door him I doubt you would help him pay for all that back pay in child support
Gee what a loving father.
Vlad needs to put out a compilation video of just the people he is interviewing talking about women,divorce and child support.
I respect him for spitting game and showing us how it goes
How bout do not have kids with all these women.
@@jacquir8331 I don't. Already got my vasectomy and will never get married.
The only advice I can give for my brothers on child support is keep your finances private. Keep your raises and promotions to yourself. Even when it comes to your kids the less they know the better because they report back everything they see and hear. It's difficult but try not to pay more than your court order because you will not get credit for it and the state will offer your child's mother an opportunity to raise your child support every 3 years especially when your income increases. If you can afford it please get an attorney to represent you because although you may have to pay $500 -$1,000 for them to represent you they can express to the judge your debt to income ratio and save you thousands long term. Wear a suit to court and be respectful to the judge. Keep in mind that child support is a business for the state and they have to meet a quota by putting you on. Child support is not a typical lawsuit where you can actually win. The odds are stacked against you. I've been on for 8 years and have a court date next month. I have 2.5 years to go and I will finally be finished. Please remember that nobody is honest about their income so if you can get your paycheck electronically save it to a PDF and play with those numbers a bit. Last but not least, if you have multiple sources of income no need to list them all. List your primary and keep the others private. It's the state you're dealing with and they don't have the capacity to check with your employer or the IRS to verify your income so they rely on you to provide the information. Be smart about your career moves, if you know it's been 3 years and a modification is coming don't accept any promotions or raises until after your court hearing. I know the women here will get mad at me but it's about self preservation.
I love the advice and I appreciate you informing others, just in case they are uninformed about what to expect and what not to do. Do women normally go every 3 years to court
@@cedricpratt2751 Better believe it. Especially if they have more kids with someone else while you're on child support.
Why did things end with baby momma? (Respectfully curious)
@@Labrynthetic We have joint custody but she applied for welfare after losing her job and gave my name as the father of her child so the state was obligated to go after me. I had no idea she lost her job or applied for welfare not that it would've made a difference if I would have known. I basically got into a bad motorcycle accident when my daughter was 2 years old and she moved on to someone else.
Sounds like child support fraud to me
I used to pay a landlord some years ago by the cash app and Zelle, but I always made sure to put this is for rent whenever I sent it. One time, when he passed, his son tried to say I nevr paid shit and used his parents to try to take me to court. I literally pulled out my phone and showed them the records . I said well your honor. Here's 3 years' worth of Zelle and Cash app records." Then the judge said so do you currently have a lease young man I said yes. He said well when it's over I suggest you leave asp.
Nice. I essentially do the same now.
Always always always gotta keep the receipts smfh people are the worst.
print receipts - money orders(with copy).
@@bigcockedman714 Yup print them bad boys
Yea I went through the same thing if your child support is high fight your custody battle first then go back an lower your child support
Thanks Gil and Vlad i learned alot about these 304's today😎😎
Perfect example of how greed can burn you.
This is a real issue and I feel like Gil is a real one.
That is absolutely true. They will say it’s a gift
Happened to me. Courts don’t give a shit about men. We’re just a transaction to them. Wish I never met my BM and could have had those same kids by my current wife.
Man, this has been one of the best Vlad videos I've seen. Learned so much about the system in 14 minutes.
I knew about those detail with that Eddie Curry case because a guy I knew would give his mother the child support money and she would write the check for it to the mother because he didn't have a checking account. The BM said he didn't pay and he brought in the checks from his mother to the BM and the court said none of that counted because it came from his mother and not him and the checks didn't have child support on the checks. So guys if you ain't paying through the state, make sure you write the check or money order yourself and make sure you put child support in the memo section. Dude lost 18 months of payments.
Damn!
I’d bury moms no lie
That’s evil asf
Child Support biggest scam of all time. & Women like the ones who went after Eddy are the definition of Evil. I have no words for that.
One of the best interviews I’ve seen and story that benefited both parents and eliminated abuse of the system
Exactly what judge mathis said...it all was a gift
I paid the state disbursement unit of my state. Never EVER give money to your ex directly, especially if you have an order. WRITE CHILD SUPPORT ON YOUR CHECKS/MONEY ORDERS before your case becomes official in the meantime.
It just happened to work out for Gil.. most people don’t get off that easy 😂
you call that getting off easy? shut your broke ass up & keep dreaming 😂
@@v0lium compared to most yes… I pay 2 grand a month for 4 kids and I don’t make millions yah dummy
Exactly
I like this very good information
Gilbert I one of my favorite interviewers on here man 😂 I swear
Does Vlad not realize that we see his viewpoint in the other interviews he does? He will always bring up similar points such as his view on Kanye paying child support, Kyrie situation. Do us a favor and save our time rehashing your points and simply ask your guests their opinions, we aint tryna hear you repeat the same thing vlad.
He's offering context. Not everyone watches every single video.
why doesnt it show u how many thumbs down u get?
@@NoelG314 b/c youtube doesnt want peoples feelings to get hurt
Tired of Vlad and his fake woke soft rear sitting here speaking on something he knows nothing about and alienating half of his audience. I've been subscribed to his premium since Day 1 but over the past week he's come off ridiculous - moreso than usual..
@@longlivingdudean opinion is not context.
He need to start his own business of helping fathers cuz so many of us have been screwed and a lot of us don't understand how that system all works I've been trying to educate my sons on keeping documents and track of everything cuz these systems will f*** the hell out of you as a father and a few mothers on the minority end
It's simple, do t put yourself in that position. Learn from the mistakes of others
accept cash or cash your checks at those spots.
Damn Eddy Curry. Feel for you Bro!
Phuck him, because he should have went to the court ,instead of paying that broad directly!!
I think I'll pass on having kids and getting married. That way, I'll avoid this bs. The best offense is to play defense. In today's time, the only way to truly win the game is to not play it at all. 💪🏾
Gil is what you call a GOOD, SOLID MAN!
At the end he started to regret talking about his ex. She gonna be back in court like he laughing at me at court.
I sensed this too lol
Dollar Gil knows how to secure the bag 💰
He’s a good father. Willing to pay more money for more time with his kids. Respect. 🔥
Man wtf is America on w that nonsense? Makin a dad pay to see his kids
good vid, vlad
From $ 44,000 to $ 7,100 ? Damn that chic was definitely pissed..
She should have kept her dam mouth shut
Just don't have kids fellas. Alleviates a lot of stress. 😆
Or go overseas
lmfao Gil the ultimate finesser salute
Hearing rich people talk about child support is so wild to me. Like damn you have to pay someone 20 bands a month. With $240,000 a year is crazy. She wouldnt even have to work
Thats the point!
Haha! I felt that last part" You're the king of this shit".with the laugh😂👑
Gilbert a wild boy 😂😂😂
If people in general would hold women accountable like the judge did in his case. They’d be more humble
Holding women accountable... that's like punching the rain.
@@herculesking8054 yea but we still go to try
isn’t being the hands on parent being accountable enough? men bitchin about paying when it’s the women who had to spend a huge time of their life and energy taking care of the kids and all you men do is hand over a freakin check for YOUR OWN kids. no wonder why 80% divorces are initiated by women, women tend to focus more on career nowadays, and men’s suicide rate is skyrocketing. 🤡
Gotta give this man his credit he ain’t stupid.
💯 They don’t talk about the shit do. We do it.
This was SO interesting!!! Listening from a real Father's pov
One of the best scorers in NBA history.
If I was Eddie Curry I'd use some of that money to "get rid of her". That shit was evil as hell
I never agreed with how Laura handled this. She’s the poster child of don’t let this happen to you 😂. When it comes to the courts stop playing games with them. If a judge sees that one parent is constantly filing motions, that’s when they hit you. My ex did that and his support would go up every time. One judge was so pissed at him for trying to reduce again, that he went through every previous request and told him how much he would have increased his support if he reviewed the case.
You laid with him you make bad decisions.
@@TravelHall74 oh I know! That’s I didn’t have any more children. I learned and chose differently from that.
her and 50 cent child mother....Just greedy
@@lela_78 why was he trying to lower his payments?
@@cjohns1005 Because he didn’t want pay and he had two more kids with two other women after ours. I asked him to pay daycare and I will pay for everything else. I have twins, they were 3 by the time I had to put him on support because he wasn’t contributing at all.
As a childless single young guy, hearing these stories scare me man.
Don’t do it or make sure that’s the one. If you do don’t leave the home until you get a parental time down the middle. Once you leave she gets custodial ship= child support for you!
They should
Be afraid. Child support and scorn woman is a nightmare.
His judge was was rare!
7k a month is still ridiculous no child needs that much
😂10% go to the Judge 👩⚖️ 🤔
Hate it or love it, Glad a monster with them flashbacks. He can have a conversation where all his answers are flashbacks lol
man to another man your My hero gil your win is a thousand silent wins to the rest of us 😢 😂
You don’t have his money so 😂😂😂😂
This is an excellent pod cast.. Check your states things are no joke they will put you through the hoops.
Lawyers got involved
And $1 Million is STILL NOT enough
Wait, so he paid more child support to have more time with his kids ? Shouldn't that lower the money she gets?
Yeah I was confused about that
I hope the league’s in America make it mandatory for its players to take child support classes.
So he's all packaged up...... might as well call him " Jerk Curry sauce " 😂😂😂
You can't Knocc the Hustle 💯. It's a strong game they play. You gotta play to
Women get all this child support and live off it instead of using the money for invest in her n the kid’s future
And men still go raw in these women knowing this lol 🗣🗣🗣wear a condom or pick better
Duh
@@1deep803 pretty much why most father fight child support.
Ion have kids but I’m going to educate myself on this shit 😂
Keep in mind that if you were temporarily unemployed, it not only accumulates but once you start working again, once the child turns 18, you can still be on the hook to pay off the arrears before you returned to work. It depends on your state, check your state's laws.
I been there bro!
Man that shit is no joke. Idc how much money the person makes. It doesn’t cost that much to take care of a child every month.