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  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

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    • @hellanimes3510
      @hellanimes3510 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank u SO much ...God Word is really a great help to lead and guide many Single Lady Christians who patiently wait for their future partner in Life as me...God bless Mark

    • @preachingpoet
      @preachingpoet Před 3 lety +3

      You sir are a brother in Christ.
      I started off in tears but you, in a short time have guided me and let me know that my past doesn’t matter. All that matters is my heart towards God. I still want love, but I need nothing more than Jesus Christ. I had surgery 3 weeks ago bc my eyes detached from the sockets, they fell out. (strabismus). Now I can’t see really well at all, but, I SEE! I see Pastor Mark, thank you!
      I won’t bother you anymore.

    • @prudencechebii9815
      @prudencechebii9815 Před 3 lety

      Thanks,how can I join on line learning on dating?

    • @pillowpanda95
      @pillowpanda95 Před 3 lety

      you are soo amazing.

  • @sujalgurung77
    @sujalgurung77 Před 3 lety +1823

    0.1% Who ever found this comment God Bless You.

  • @richard_henry1358
    @richard_henry1358 Před 3 lety +1231

    There is a few more notes that may help many people: God is helping you get rid of sinful sexual behavior such as pornography and lust after many people, He is helping you see the best in the person and developing a close friendship (this is already said but is very important not to mistake), He is clearing your mind of past pain and relationships you may have been clinging on to and possibly even bringing you to a deeper forgiveness of the other person in your past, and also God is actively working in your life to bring you back to putting Him First above all things so that you would remember Him and Love Him more than who He is about to give unto you another term would be He is correcting you from Backsliding.
    I sincerely hope that this will touch the person who this message is intended to as well as the great video. May God Bless you and give you great wisdom and discernment in your future.

    • @frannydoll8313
      @frannydoll8313 Před 3 lety +71

      That last part of backsliding spoke to me. Sometimes we get caught up in dating and put God in the back burner then end up in sin and heartbreak bc we didn’t keep God first in the relationship.

    • @richard_henry1358
      @richard_henry1358 Před 3 lety +27

      Frannydoll831 yes I know what you mean because I have been in that exact place with a woman I loved very much. It took many painful lessons and almost 2 years of reliving the same pains over and over. We don’t know what His plan truly is but once He is first in our hearts and lives we can know for certain that through the Holy Spirit we will have wisdom and strength to deal with anything and to know that He is with us. Trust in Him completely because soon you will see exactly what He has in store for your life.

    • @ezyx3977
      @ezyx3977 Před 3 lety +10

      Thank you! Such great piece of advice

    • @SabrenaODay
      @SabrenaODay Před 3 lety +9

      Backsliding also spoke to me too. Also your additional response sounds like my story with a person I loved. God bless you for sharing!

    • @user-fz7nt5ge3o
      @user-fz7nt5ge3o Před 3 lety +5

      Wow, that is great.

  • @littlemouse91019
    @littlemouse91019 Před 3 lety +1110

    I've been wondering why things haven't happened already, and of course the answer is so obvious how could I forget, "Love is patient."

  • @timmartin6091
    @timmartin6091 Před 3 lety +242

    almost 3 years ago, at almost 22 years old i almost took my own life. I was abused as a kid, broken, depressed, anorexic, bulimic, suicidal. I went in & out of psych units like it was a game of tic-tac-toe. Suicide watch. I was on enough Antidepressants to kill a horse. I hated myself. I wanted out. I wanted the pain to stop. The gaslighting* to end. *(when a psycho makes a sane person question their own sanity, and thus think they themselves are the insane one).
    I wanted power. I got into witchcraft. I thought it would give me the identity i wanted, to be set apart from people who hurt me. It only made me sicker. Sicker. Thats what it did to me.
    The doctor said id never get well. That i would suffer severe Chronic Manic depression, and never be well, that id be stuck on antidepressants all of my life.
    I would plot suicide on a daily basis, binging and purging my food as often as opening and closing a door. The pain was too real. People choked me. Assaulted me. Told me i was ugly, i felt worthless. Nothing ever got better. Then my mother died. The (1) & only soul who ever loved /emotionally supported me was removed from the earth. I was stuck living with people who broke me, ruined my identity, thus causing me to hate God. I thought God hated me, that he was just like the ones who tortured me, a family of abusers, who cover up all their actions with the mask of religion. I didnt know that God is on my side. I didnt know that Jesus would Love and Defend me, and fight for me and that He later would heal me, rescue me from Family. The ones who caused me pain. The ones who choked me for wearing a necklace.
    I moved out after family threatened to throw all my belongings on the front yard, and have me permanently institutionalized in an insane asylum, when they were the ones who caused my mental illness via abuse.
    They blamed me for the abuse they did to me.
    To take my life in an insane asylum when they were the ones who made me suicidal.
    Next morning i spoke with my dead moms parents who let me live with them.
    I stayed on the antidepressants, prescribed. But they only made me sicker. I got deeper and deeper into witchcraft, thinking it was a solution. But it made me even more suicidal. Self hatred was inescapable.
    I decided i was going to kill myself. I was going to take all my pills.
    But then Jesus stepped in. I didnt die. I surrendered my life to Jesus to make me well and heal me.
    The deity i blamed for me being abused wanted to heal me. He Was fighting for me and Loved me all along.
    He wanted to love me. He wanted to give me His Heart.
    HE LOVES ME. JESUS. LOVES. ME .
    Jesus miraculously healed me - i am off all drugs and dont need them and i dont have any mental illnesses. I work a job and am totally healed , full of joy.
    I’m now a born again Christian, in my 20’s who wants the entire world to know that JESUS WANTS TO HEAL YOU
    HE. LOVES. YOU.
    Nuff said.

    • @aliciamariaaguas2709
      @aliciamariaaguas2709 Před 2 lety

      🥰😘🍨

    • @jessicamerced9116
      @jessicamerced9116 Před 2 lety +3

      Amen..Praise Jesus 💖 The Lord is out here still working miracles, always! ❤❤

    • @josemunguia7229
      @josemunguia7229 Před 2 lety +4

      God bless you brother thanks for sharing your story

    • @lauriesorenson3172
      @lauriesorenson3172 Před 2 lety +4

      God sure is good, isn't he? So glad you are healed and safe. The world is so much better with you in it. God bless.

    • @tammylowrites
      @tammylowrites Před 2 lety +4

      Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad that you found Jesus. 😊✝️

  • @chanelle.n
    @chanelle.n Před 3 lety +288

    To everyone going through a season of confusion and is seeking God for clarity.. let’s pray together. God we seek you today. You know our hearts and minds. You know our hearts desires. We are fully known by you. The reason we’re even watching this video is because we long for certainty and a relationship that pleases you. Please touch our hearts. Give us clarity that comes from you and you alone. I pray that you speak to our hearts and lives today. Help us to hold on to You, help us to be obedient and accept all your commands that you give us. We know that You know what’s best for us and you want us to live an abundant life, that includes an abundant relationship. Help us to trust in the truth you’ve given us through Your words. Please touch us this day and make a way 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤍

  • @dedracrawford5151
    @dedracrawford5151 Před 3 lety +475

    I met someone that fits all the above description I felt he was my husband because of these signs . I just knew he was my husband. But he suddenly past away 😔 he wasn’t even sick just died in his sleep . Please pray for me

  • @lclark3279
    @lclark3279 Před 3 lety +244

    Currently fasting and I’m seeing more and more clearly this girl in my life is going to be my wife and God approves :) Love is patient , love is kind !

    • @denniscosban6145
      @denniscosban6145 Před 3 lety +5

      Have you started eating again? I hope so if not by now you'll fall in love with a Black Angus🤣

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    • @k27ism
      @k27ism Před 2 lety

      Woohoooo!Yes!!! 💯 😁

    • @ezrascott8193
      @ezrascott8193 Před 2 lety

      congrats

    • @lclark3279
      @lclark3279 Před 2 lety +15

      Well the more I read this comment the more silly I feel 😂 Within that year God used a girl to bring me closer to Christ and two other girls to get them closer to Christ . And it was the first year I took Christ seriously. Some people may be that fortunate but the reality probably not there is so much growing you have to do to reach that standard . But you learn a lot , this girl I believe I was talking about here went from ex boyfriend, to me and a few others but now she is engaged and I was so happy to find that out . She’s a great girl and she makes him very happy and vice versa . But it taught me so much as a man of God that it was Gods wisdom that prevailed . It broke my heart but sometimes God breaks hearts to mend them back together . God has taught me about hearing his voice and trying to just get know people and God doesn’t assign you a wife you get to choose . God grants his wisdom if you ask and depending on if it glorifies him or not and if it’s his will he will either convict you to end it or he will do it himself . So many people expect God to be like “ here’s your wife “ which he can do and might but other times you have to use discernment and choose . And it’s okay to say no if you don’t like the choice . The man has to pursue and if you pursue just because God told you so and you don’t want to , it’s not love it’s force . There is freedom in Christ . Love is a choice. ( 1 Corinthians 13 : 4-8) I’m back eating praise the Lord 😂 Black Angus is ALWAYS great especially their burgers haha. And I was fasting from food . Praying for you guys and God bless you :)

  • @katrinika_
    @katrinika_ Před 2 lety +123

    Number 1 and I'm already getting a gut feeling that God is preparing me for something so big I don't even know what to expect😭❤️ Amen, I receive lord!

  • @arontekle1126
    @arontekle1126 Před 3 lety +477

    Rapture is almost around the corner, I can’t wait to see my saviour

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +29

      God bless

    • @Youluber185
      @Youluber185 Před 3 lety +26

      Not before we get martyred and abused😁

    • @nathanielriesterer9103
      @nathanielriesterer9103 Před 3 lety +22

      Not before the antichrist

    • @zoetsahai
      @zoetsahai Před 3 lety +1

      Like legit! 🙏

    • @traystephens5792
      @traystephens5792 Před 3 lety +54

      Nobody knows the day or the hour or even the year. It very well may be just around the corner but we’re still supposed to live our lives. Let’s not jump to conclusions. It will happen when the Lord tells Christ to get His Church. Sitting idly not seeking a spouse when you desire one because you’re assuming Christ will return before you get an opportunity isn’t wise.

  • @Kevinmoore5111
    @Kevinmoore5111 Před 3 lety +296

    I know God is preparing me to be a Godly husband and he is preparing the one he has for me!😊🙏

    • @keylimepie8426
      @keylimepie8426 Před 3 lety +4

      Amen✨

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 Před 3 lety +5

      Amen. God bless you and yours. Keep letting the Lord use you in Jesus name. And keep letting Him create you to be the person He created you to be. Move out of His way, and let Him have complete control in your life. You got this. God loves you, and so do I in Jesus name. Amen and Amen. And there isn't anything that you can do about it. 😘😘😘😘

    • @amanda_ds93
      @amanda_ds93 Před 3 lety +2

      Amen

    • @young-ezbeats6102
      @young-ezbeats6102 Před 3 lety +1

      Amen

    • @young-ezbeats6102
      @young-ezbeats6102 Před 3 lety +1

      I know God is preparing me one

  • @dirtcop11
    @dirtcop11 Před 3 lety +262

    I am sure I will get married when God makes me over into someone worthy of a wife. I am still a work in progress and God alone knows when I will be worthy.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +53

      It's all by grace, but he does mature us often before giving us a gift so we can handle it properly :)

    • @momentmade6525
      @momentmade6525 Před 3 lety +9

      There’s always room for improvement. Nobody’s perfect. God Bless❤️

    • @mariaglover4202
      @mariaglover4202 Před 3 lety +17

      You already are sweetheart! We can't earn God's love. Even if we were perfect to the world's standards our actions would only be considered as clean as a dirty rag compared God's glory. If we could actually measure up we wouldn't have needed a savior. God's word say You're worthy because your'e his precious daughter and he loves you. That = his grace!!
      The blessing of a marriage is like the blessing of a home. Success happens when preparation meets opportunity. Basically unless you have the finaces, for the most part, you cannot purchase a home. In the same respect, It's hard to love someone if you don't love yourself first and if we all had an honest look at our life none of us would be worthy of it. I encourage you to research on Google or gotQuestions.org on scriptures about "my identity in Christ". I think it will be very encouraging to you. It's hard to believe lies said to you about who you are if you're already standing on the word of life/the breath of God and his truth resides within you!
      It will get better hunny. I promise! 😘🤗

    • @jccarty1477
      @jccarty1477 Před 3 lety +8

      What does that mean? And how do you know when you'll be "worthy"? Anything God brings into your life will come BECAUSE OF HIS GRACE, not because you have proven yourself to be worthy or good enough.
      Further...I've never known what readiness means. When is that? When you're good enough? Holy enough? Spiritual enough? When you've stopped sinning? When you've memorised your Bible?
      You'll meet someone when you meet them. Whether because your paths cross or you see a handsome man at the gym and you decide to approach him, you'll meet someone where you're at and grow together.
      And I guarantee, if you meet someone when you think you're ready and worthy, the moment you come into close contact with another human and get to know them, you'll see how flawed you really are.

    • @BB-ch9km
      @BB-ch9km Před 3 lety +3

      @@mariaglover4202 I think you misunderstood Jesse. He said "make worthy of a wife". Meaning he is a man working to become a godly future husband and becoming what a wife would want. So your sweetheart/precious daughter comments don't quite fit him. ;)

  • @amberslahlize7961
    @amberslahlize7961 Před 7 měsíci +13

    1. You are able to spend quality time with this other person.
    2. The person you are with fully accepts you.

  • @reynaro2496
    @reynaro2496 Před 3 lety +267

    Im waiting for that 🥰 God is preparing me for someone I dont know who yet, i have hopes. God bless you Mark

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +19

      God bless you too Reyna!

    • @jairchavira8212
      @jairchavira8212 Před 3 lety +2

      Praise Jesus,Keep loving God more,so much where you want him more then anything else,God might even bring someone you really wanted to be with that you will have to say no to so he can bless you with a Godly man,God loves you stay blessed Phillipians 1:6 Being confident in this that he who began a good work in you will finish it until completion on the day of Christ Jesus

    • @justfabbie9140
      @justfabbie9140 Před 3 lety +2

      Am also waiting for the one

    • @athuanmkjr4706
      @athuanmkjr4706 Před 3 lety

      I'm here... ☺

    • @AumaOlweny
      @AumaOlweny Před 3 lety +4

      Waiting patiently

  • @lindiwekhoza7694
    @lindiwekhoza7694 Před 3 lety +126

    God's timing is perfect, God bless you all.

  • @ChristopherDolby
    @ChristopherDolby Před 3 lety +45

    Everyone should find *that* one thing they can do for the Lord and just run with it... smash it out with every fibre of your being... God doesn’t want your *presents* ... he wants your *presence!!*

    • @sarahk6996
      @sarahk6996 Před 3 lety +1

      Wow! This is good!!!🙌🏻 “PRESENCE NOT PRESENTS!” Profound!!

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  • @preachingpoet
    @preachingpoet Před 3 lety +88

    There’s a huge difference between infatuation and love.
    It’s like that ole hymn goes...
    ‘Put your time in,
    Payday is comin after while...’
    And like a job, if we put our time in we will see a payday.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +10

      Amen, God's presence is our main reward! Psalm 16:11!

    • @lynnv8501
      @lynnv8501 Před 3 lety +2

      Presumably, at least that's the concept. I can't tell you how hard I've worked in my 57 years, only to be relegated to a job which went nowhere by a jealous boss, or had sales taken from me by people who slandered my name. We live in an evil world. Our suffering is not in vain. I dont see it, but I know God means it for good.

    • @preachingpoet
      @preachingpoet Před 3 lety

      Lynn V
      Amen

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  • @d3einc393
    @d3einc393 Před 3 lety +86

    I only know that my future husband is breathing 😹❤. God is preparing me for him and God is preparing him for me. I can't wait to meet him❤

  • @callmehiraya
    @callmehiraya Před rokem +28

    God is preparing me to be a Godly woman, a Godly partner. Love is indeed patient.

  • @judyreas1810
    @judyreas1810 Před 3 lety +88

    Having a bad break up.. id like to have a man who is God fearing

    • @jemimmahmungai1805
      @jemimmahmungai1805 Před 3 lety +5

      Joy will surely come again, the Lord is right there holding your heart. He will heal you.

    • @judyreas1810
      @judyreas1810 Před 3 lety

      @@jemimmahmungai1805 Thank you ❤

    • @sharaniasharania6646
      @sharaniasharania6646 Před 3 lety +3

      Hugs. Ull be able to look back soon, and see in HIS wisdom why that had happened

    • @judyreas1810
      @judyreas1810 Před 3 lety

      @@sharaniasharania6646 he left me, its like hes been ghosting me ☹.. i text & call him he will not answer me anymore

    • @sharaniasharania6646
      @sharaniasharania6646 Před 3 lety +4

      @@judyreas1810 this is the time for u to go deeper with Jesus. I can relate with ur pain and now I'm much better. I know ur hurting right now, but trust me, GOD allowed it for a reason. Even if that was not supposed to happen, HE will changed it to good. Rigt now, u need to trust Jesus....let ur heart be healed... it's worth it... u should read this book entitled "The bait of satan " by John Bevere. He wrote about offense....
      U know what I did back then? I took it to GOD and cried out to him..... that guy surely came to say he was sorry.... I moved on and now in a position totally in love with Jesus. I encourage you to go deeper.... et up at 5am in the morn and start praying.... dont worry, HE'S gotchu

  • @sallymcswain618
    @sallymcswain618 Před 3 lety +30

    I'm still waiting and getting kinda tired of the counterfeits. Lord bring me the Man of the Fruit of the Spirit Spouse!

  • @SabrenaODay
    @SabrenaODay Před 3 lety +33

    I was literally just writing in my journal today about how we want to be loved with a perfect love that doesn’t hurt us... only God can give us perfect love because He is perfect love. We need Him. But I think through living in Him we can learn to love each other better and hurt each other less.

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    • @diana6388
      @diana6388 Před 11 měsíci

      I hope you are doing better 🙌 remember that God has a plan for all of us, even his soul, maybe he was meant to be an angel 🙏

  • @asogundaniel
    @asogundaniel Před 3 lety +50

    Sometimes we dont feel it.... I hope we become sensitive to these signs, Amen.

  • @thepowerzzone206
    @thepowerzzone206 Před 3 lety +62

    This video is giving me a hint that I will soon fall in love,and I am ready for it in Jesu's name Amen🙏

  • @cafe80sarigachu
    @cafe80sarigachu Před 3 lety +50

    Love at first sight is not true...attraction at first sight that is...we easily get attracted at first glance
    and people are mistakenly it as love at first sight.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety

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    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 3 lety

      ✨⚡✨

    • @Jackgritty28
      @Jackgritty28 Před 3 lety +2

      But love at first sight makes life worth living🌈

    • @Regina-jc1vy
      @Regina-jc1vy Před 3 lety +1

      Yes I agree. I think that there is no love t first sight .

    • @paulgross22
      @paulgross22 Před 3 lety +3

      There is love at first sight but it’s not romantic. It’s when you look at your child for the first time.

  • @jairchavira8212
    @jairchavira8212 Před 3 lety +80

    It’s so encouraging to see everyone on here that is waiting as well,I’m only 16 but God is preparing my heart and has been for my wife to come

    • @christynichole5437
      @christynichole5437 Před 3 lety +13

      Yes, wait. Focus on being the best you with God and your studies. God's timing is perfect. I'm proud of you. Find this verse: "Guard your heart, for the issues of life springs from it." God bless you. Stay in His perfect peace. Blessings.

    • @nakiarobby3996
      @nakiarobby3996 Před 3 lety +11

      Yh, I'm 17 and God is preparing for my husband.💪🏽🙏🏽

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +11

      Amen, keep following the Lord and obeying him!

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    • @patriciatollison8655
      @patriciatollison8655 Před rokem

      God bless you. When we are weak, then are we strong. Only Christians understand this.

  • @gobes1953
    @gobes1953 Před 3 lety +27

    I'm only 22 and it's so important to me to have a family. I just hope I meet her soon because I'm ready to commit

    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 Před 3 lety +1

      There is someone who can actually attract the person you love to you. Believe me it works very fast!

    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 Před 3 lety

      He's the same man that helped me attract my lover back , his name is Dr Steve, he can help you out too.

    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 Před 3 lety

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    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 Před 3 lety

      +2347030894892.

    • @EMichaelBall
      @EMichaelBall Před rokem

      I don’t know if you’ve found anyone, but if not, you have more time than you think. No need to rush; I wasn’t ready to date until I was 34. Follow Optimized Man for insight into how most women, even Christian women, think. (He is a Catholic.)

  • @sujalgurung77
    @sujalgurung77 Před 3 lety +52

    This Channel Has inspired me to start my own Christian.

  • @michaelnabi242
    @michaelnabi242 Před 3 lety +57

    Would yall pray for God to send me my future wife. God Bless yall!

  • @twolf7580
    @twolf7580 Před 3 lety +17

    From my personal experiences, I've never know love! Can you believe that, 39 years in this world, NOTHING! I'm beginning to feel like I can't connect to anyone. I've got this Lone Wolf personality anyways, but there has to be someone for me! Please pray for me guys, I pray to God ALL the Time to put her into my life... NOTHING!

  • @juliejohanne89
    @juliejohanne89 Před 3 lety +29

    Glory to God...I am waiting for my godordained husband.

  • @teresalockwood480
    @teresalockwood480 Před 3 lety +40

    Been waiting 28 years to be married again.Was married,my ex walked out on me and 2 young children.Done online dating for 10 years.Definitly put myself out there.Not dated in 4 years,still a dream of mine to be married.I can only hope and pray

    • @candace6893
      @candace6893 Před 3 lety

      yes amen 🤍
      don’t waste the season of waiting
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    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 Před 3 lety

      Hmmm......you need to unlearn a lot of lies, Sis

    • @teresalockwood480
      @teresalockwood480 Před 3 lety

      Woman Of God hi

    • @teresalockwood480
      @teresalockwood480 Před 3 lety +1

      Sorry what do you mean?

    • @ImCarolB
      @ImCarolB Před 3 lety +4

      I know how you feel. I was divorced at 36, with three small children. Despite my efforts and my very good qualities, it's been 33 years of no relationships whatsoever. It's been a strengthening experience, depending on God's love and power, and my children are fantastic adults, but why did I never meet anyone remotely suitable? It's very hard for Christian women.

  • @wshelby83
    @wshelby83 Před 3 lety +45

    All I can say is that I wish. I don’t mean to be negative but I don’t even know if I’m going to get married in this lifetime. Like will a man even love me through my ups and downs. It would be nice to meet him while I’m young but boy I don’t even know at this point. If it happens it happens

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +17

      Yes, it's in God's hands but he does call us to live wisely :)

    • @ms.j661
      @ms.j661 Před 3 lety +8

      Sometimes feel that way as well🙁

    • @zoetsahai
      @zoetsahai Před 3 lety +3

      I felt that cos same

    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 3 lety +3

      If u are preparing urself then u are on the right track.. 💎 Matt 6:33.. 🔑

    • @justynak7644
      @justynak7644 Před 3 lety

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger what do you mean?

  • @nymphohalo
    @nymphohalo Před 3 lety +17

    I thought this video was a sign until they mentioned someone already BEING in my life
    I HAVE NO ONE AND ITS MY HEARTS DESIRE
    IVE WAITED YEARS FOR TRUE GODLY LOVE
    WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +6

      To get different results, you must try different things. Of course it all depends on Christ, but in faith he will lead us to take steps of faith/action

    • @ms.beltran8895
      @ms.beltran8895 Před 3 lety

      Likewise

    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 3 lety +2

      Have u checked ur friend zone..? 🤔 lol

  • @eddieteddie5559
    @eddieteddie5559 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you so much for this, Mark! Please pray for me; I'm in another exciting season of seeing what God wants me to do with relationships and He might have brought someone for me to pursue. I'm in the seeking phase and received a "wait" from Him yesterday, but I'm excited to see what He is going to do!

  • @mattmason8057
    @mattmason8057 Před 3 lety +40

    Bless you all 😊

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety

      God bless :)

    • @jesuslover398
      @jesuslover398 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey can you guys pray for me I'm trying to stop idolizing fitness and I really need Gods help

    • @txwarriorbride5112
      @txwarriorbride5112 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jesuslover398 Maybe you see yourself as just desirable for your looks. Most women, while they might be attracted to someone at first but their looks, they usually fall in love (real love) by how the man treats them. And how much he is willing to give them of "himself". I am not talking money, or things. In the book by Gibran called "The Prophet", we find the very famous saying..."It is only when we give of ourselves that we truly give". I find that to be true. And that is real sacrificial love, as evidenced by our SAVIOR. And that is what also takes true courage. Be blessed!👏🙏🙌💕😊

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      @kigezifaithministry3797 Před 3 lety

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    • @kimberlyhamilton8637
      @kimberlyhamilton8637 Před 3 lety +1

      And God Bless U as Well

  • @annabelle7123
    @annabelle7123 Před 3 lety +2

    So on point on number 2!!! I'm learning Romans and I learned that God loved us as sinners but paid the price to give us different legal status of calling into "righteousness by faith". So we will be changed as Christians.
    Also commitment... is so important but hard to find. Again Romans Ch. 5! Thank you for sharing this.

  • @darlinjacq1552
    @darlinjacq1552 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for your message...I have loved The One since September 10, 1970...

  • @brendathompson3400
    @brendathompson3400 Před 3 lety +34

    Amen God bless you I plan to attend course once I finish my real estate course..... I'm praying for GOD to send Christian man to me

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +1

      Amen Brenda! Whenever you sense is the right time I'll be happy to work with you :)

    • @joyce5738
      @joyce5738 Před 3 lety +1

      I have come across too many counterfeit Christians. I have opened my heart to too many of those who do enhance my life but want to have other women, at the same time. This is the way the world is going. So I go back into a cocoon. I have asked God to bring me a true man of God ,who is just for me. So I stay busy until then. I'm not a youngster, but I am close to one.

    • @brendathompson3400
      @brendathompson3400 Před 3 lety +1

      @@joyce5738
      I agree that's another reason I pray that GOD place right Christian man in my life

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    • @EMichaelBall
      @EMichaelBall Před rokem

      @Joyce If you study “red pill”, you may understand why men wouldn’t be faithful, and why women must be faithful. The two genders process bedroom stuff differently, and… there’s more to consider, but it could get long and very cynical for me to say it all, here. RP explained things I had previously seen from relationships better than anything else I’ve seen. Ladies aren’t taught these things as teens, and I, as a guy, didn’t learn until I was 34. If they’re that up front, I’m not sure every one of those “counterfeit Christians” really were counterfeit Christians. They don’t call it “red pill” for nothing.

  • @conniekimes6019
    @conniekimes6019 Před 3 lety

    Glad to see you back I could not fine. Keep sharing the word. Blessings

  • @alastrionaseger8571
    @alastrionaseger8571 Před 14 dny

    Wow I am SOO glad I found your videos. I love how you are basing what you are saying in God's Word (AND not cherry picking). Compared to the plethora of dating advice out there, these videos are just so refreshing. Thank you for taking the time to make them. God bless!

  • @callmehiraya
    @callmehiraya Před rokem +3

    Currently fasting, may all our prayers will be answered. May God bless us all.

  • @mariamat1175
    @mariamat1175 Před 3 lety +32

    I think I met the person God wants me to marry, but he isn't interested in marriage or me... Please if anyone can pray for my situation I would be very grateful! God bless everyone

    • @frannydoll8313
      @frannydoll8313 Před 3 lety +15

      Maybe he has to go through a season of preparation. Pray to God. When you feel lonely and depressed, use that time to be intimate with God and go deeper into His word. Maybe God showed you, but you need to focus on God. Are you prepared to be this man’s helper? There is so much more to being a Godly wife. We really need to be prepared

    • @mariamat1175
      @mariamat1175 Před 3 lety +6

      @@matthiashepworth6583 thank you and I will. It is a really nice feeling to know that someone is praying to God for your request. I think we should all pray for each other for everything.

    • @mariamat1175
      @mariamat1175 Před 3 lety +1

      @@frannydoll8313 I believe that you are right. I need to pray and be patient. And also ask God to help me grow closer to him and help me become the person he wants me to become. Thank you ❤️

    • @lamujermaslinda
      @lamujermaslinda Před 3 lety

      Has God given you some sort of sign or confirmation that confirms your belief? I'm in sort of the same boat as you are except that the guy told me that he wasn't interested in exploring a relationship with me. That was in June. We haven't spoken since. I was a little disappointed when he told me this but got over it until just a few weeks ago, I had a dream, and in it there was something that I saw that is actually connected to this person so I assumed that maybe God was telling me to think and pray about this person therefore awakening something in me that made me develop feelings for this person. I've been asking God to give me a sign if this is what He's trying to tell me to do. I think it's safe to say though that maybe the dream meant nothing because lately all the dreams that I have been having of this person weren't positive and by that I mean in my dreams the guy doesn't seemed to be interested in me. Like last night I dreamt that he blocked me on social media lol Also, as Mark had stated in one of his other videos, you won't know if a sign is from God unless it actually comes to pass outside of the body. The fact that I haven't heard from this guy since June I guess that's a sign.

    • @pandora9814
      @pandora9814 Před 3 lety +2

      @@lamujermaslinda I'm going through something very similar. We met on move in day at college in 2018 and a year later we were best friends. Shared alot of intimate moments together and I realized this was truly the man I had been praying for, for many years. He was there for me through EVERYTHING and we had grown to know each other so well. Last time I saw him was in July when he drove 3 hours to be with me during a very difficult time. Yet he told me time and time again that he wasn't interested in a relationship with me and of course I was devastated. Was I to ignore all the signs I thought I was receiving from God? I mean this guy took me home to spend Christmas and New year with his family . On Aug 4th we had a misunderstanding that led to him cutting me off and I went through probably the darkest period of my life. I'm talking mental, emotional and physical pain. It was as though I had just quit smoking and my body was going through severe withdrawals. I pushed through every day praying the rosary (i'm Catholic) with my grandma who loves me but didn't know why I was so broken. Haven't heard from him since that August day and the prayer is definitely starting to heal me.. Of course I was and still am in love with him, and I miss him everyday. Occasionally I stumble upon a song or image that reminds me of him and immediately turn into a crying mess but those are getting less frequent. Yesterday I was listening to a pastor preach about true love and the commitment of marriage. He compared the married couple to a buck and doe saying that the woman is a husbands sweet precious doe and that if she gets hit on she would say something like "I appreciate it but i'm sorry, I've got my buck waiting for me at home". I thought that was so sweet and thinking of my guy I said to myself, "You are my buck, i'm you're little doe, I've got my buck waiting for me at home." Next day (Today) I started seeing symbolism or signs I would like to think are from God, telling me to be patient. I started seeing images of a buck with a doe in random places. Like someone had a huge sticker of them on his truck, then I saw a buck silhouette as the icon on my credit card app (I know, weird) and later I saw actual deer grazing. Could this be a sign that I need to be patient for my buck and that he will return soon? Who knows. Maybe respond to this message in a couple months so I remember to provide an update :) Pray for me.. for us.. I miss him and I hope God leads him back to me

  • @craneywatch
    @craneywatch Před 3 lety +11

    Thank you for your wonderful advises. Some of them were given to me previously by my mother: Love doesn't rush - be patient.

  • @dama_shares
    @dama_shares Před 2 lety +1

    Balanced, Informative and Refreshing.

  • @yulisamendozaurena2706
    @yulisamendozaurena2706 Před 3 lety +12

    Thanks Mark! Your topics always bless my life🙏🙏🙏May God continue to expand your ministry!!!

  • @elizabethmnzava616
    @elizabethmnzava616 Před 3 lety +30

    Be blessed brother in CHRIST.

  • @TravisGarnett
    @TravisGarnett Před 3 lety +4

    Thank-you SO MUCH for #THIS, Brother Mark!! Blessings continually to you and your ministry...🙏

  • @daniellemiller9667
    @daniellemiller9667 Před 3 lety

    Wish I knew about this months ago..They don't do very well getting these videos seen...Thank you so far for your inspiring words...I found you today and they have helped me....I'm still working through what God is trying to show me

  • @kevadtuul
    @kevadtuul Před 3 lety +4

    To truly know what God is saying us, we have to seek God and listened to Him. To try to read these signs (or these signs only) is one way to go wrong and to drift away from the relationship with God. Seek Him, He really wants to be with us, to talk to us, to have fellowship with us. Be with Him, read His word, worship Him, listen to Him. He is the one who can tell you everything. We do not want to live only biblically, we want to live in relationship with HIM and the Bible is our main compass in it, but we should not loose the relationship with God in all of that.

  • @Stranger_In_The_Alps
    @Stranger_In_The_Alps Před 3 lety +25

    I’m atheist but I still learn a lot from these videos. Thanks for all you do

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +9

      Glad you are enjoying the content :)

    • @Stranger_In_The_Alps
      @Stranger_In_The_Alps Před 3 lety +3

      @@jeantippman7179 nah I’m too far gone. I’ve done too much to be forgiven or loved by Jesus, but these videos are very informative and I’m grateful for them

    • @jacintachevon
      @jacintachevon Před 3 lety +22

      @@Stranger_In_The_Alps Not trying to convince or pressure you at all. However, I just want to say that no one is too far gone. God is there to welcome all who truly want to come to Him. He is patient, loving and kind.

    • @maryeapen4784
      @maryeapen4784 Před 3 lety +8

      Christ came for sinners like you and me . No past is too dark for the love of Christ.
      Acts 13:38 : Therefore let it be known to you, brethren, that through Him forgiveness of sins is proclaimed to you.
      Romans 10:9-10 "That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.
      God bless!❤

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      @kigezifaithministry3797 Před 3 lety

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  • @Ewabiblerevelation
    @Ewabiblerevelation Před 3 lety +14

    God bless you for the work you do.

  • @etchlad
    @etchlad Před 3 lety +1

    God and the universe are clearly giving me signs. I have not searched anything related to God so I guess this is my sign. Thank you for everything! He is wonderful and he has a plan for everyone.

  • @luciano3x839
    @luciano3x839 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you my brother!! Praise Jesus

  • @Dj.D25
    @Dj.D25 Před 3 lety +6

    Hopefully these points are going to apply very soon to me, with the latest situations me and someone I care for are going through lately.

  • @charliestartup-kennedy572
    @charliestartup-kennedy572 Před 3 lety +15

    God has blessed me with a soulmate who is perfect for me

  • @Lauren-7777
    @Lauren-7777 Před rokem +1

    I love your content. Very inspiring. Thank you. Greetings from Europe.

  • @txwarriorbride5112
    @txwarriorbride5112 Před 3 lety +14

    DING!DING!.....Waiting..Waiting..Waiting...
    Got the dress and the veil, just waiting to wear them!😘🧔💃💕🙏

  • @stevehicks399
    @stevehicks399 Před 2 lety +3

    Your videos have really ministered to me

  • @kg7439
    @kg7439 Před 3 lety +2

    Wonderful video Sir... If the true and living God is present in the Church, you will NOT leave the same way you came...

  • @jonasteuma3219
    @jonasteuma3219 Před 3 lety +19

    Hey there Mark. I've noticed a shift going on the last couple weeks in the body of Christ, and the topics of your videos have clearing been walking hand in hand and step in step with other ways that God is moving at this time!

  • @CaitlynCarrie
    @CaitlynCarrie Před 3 lety +4

    This video was amazing!! Thanks Mark

  • @shaya.4306
    @shaya.4306 Před 3 lety +8

    I used to be indifferent to the thought of being married but I find myself desiring a marriage and family now. It makes it more difficult to wait for Gods timing since I haven’t had any serious relationships and don’t have any single Godly men in my life who are interested in me. At this point I feel called to marriage but there’s not much I can do besides continuing to serve in my church and pursuing God through prayer and reading scripture. It’s also difficult to see so many friends getting what I want. I will try to remain patient, but it’s getting more difficult as move move further along in my 20s.

    • @EMichaelBall
      @EMichaelBall Před rokem

      If you haven’t found the right guy, yet, be ready to meet him at all times. Not only do I think I know who God picked for me, I may have met her, once - but her personality was so ratchet, I didn’t get to know her. That was possibly a huge mistake on both our parts, but in 999 out of 1000 situations, my decision to walk away was the right one. Have perspective and wisdom of what slights you. Do not be left angered over ultimately petty matters.

  • @iammaximus614
    @iammaximus614 Před 3 lety

    New to this & Great work from the Word of God ✝️
    Subscribed

  • @samshamvel1958
    @samshamvel1958 Před 3 lety +1

    Amen.
    Glory to GOD.
    GOD i thank you so much for this servant of yours.
    🙌🙏.

  • @timothyasbridge8562
    @timothyasbridge8562 Před rokem +4

    Your channel is so wholesome. I bought your book “Redeemed like David”. It was difficult to get a copy in the UK but what a wonderful and unexpected read. Thank you for your wonderful work friend.

  • @Froluvangel
    @Froluvangel Před 3 lety +15

    I pray for my future kingdom Husband 🙏🙏🙏💓💓💓

  • @kevinodera2157
    @kevinodera2157 Před 2 lety

    God thank you soo much for saving me from my misery🙏👐and AGW God's blessings.

  • @davidwiggins1
    @davidwiggins1 Před 3 lety +5

    okay okay, so the first thing Is love is PATIENT! My GOODNESS this is one of the HARDEST yet most rewarding things I've ever had to learn. MY current relationship I've had to really learn how to be patient in loving her and STILL am. She's more than worth it though because she is the one that God gave me to marry. This video has confirmed something in my heart. Thank you brother for following the leading of God.

  • @Gentile3234
    @Gentile3234 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank You 🙏🏽 Brother Mark!!!
    Have had Numerous Obstacles!! PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE‼️‼️ 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️‼️
    Just received my 1st Stimulus I’ll be enrolling in ur class with
    GREAT 👍🏽 PLEASURE‼️‼️
    STAY BLESSED ALWAYS ‼️

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +1

      I look forward to seeing how the Lord uses this experience in your life!

    • @Gentile3234
      @Gentile3234 Před 3 lety

      ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger IM SO VERY BLESSED & VERY VERY HAPPY 😊

  • @mariagrady8425
    @mariagrady8425 Před 3 lety +5

    I believe I will be able to course at the right time. Such good teaching.

  • @4bitmultiplexer
    @4bitmultiplexer Před 3 lety +1

    The truth is you are full of relationship wisdom.

  • @user-wr1if7vf7p
    @user-wr1if7vf7p Před 2 lety +3

    starting 2020 God puts in my heart really unexpected one i never even think as it is so waiting for victory since i was not even having hope to live before that for many years i was hopeless by different reason God is real helper if we seek him from the bottom of our inner heart Thankyou Jesus you are wonderful 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @benw3290
    @benw3290 Před 3 lety +5

    Thanks for the info/encouragement Mark!

  • @chelseynicholson7948
    @chelseynicholson7948 Před 3 lety +24

    I literally just had this convo with my bf last night, I don't feel a strong physical attraction to him but I believe in time that attraction will grow as we spend more time together and get to know each better. So far we've developed a strong spiritual, emotional, and mental connection now all that's left is the physical (no sex) but in my opinion it's best if that comes last once everything else is in place.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 3 lety +6

      Yes, it's important but not as important as the other factors you mentioned. Attraction can grow the more you enjoy someone personally in a relationship

    • @jackbutt8774
      @jackbutt8774 Před 7 měsíci +1

      So any update

  • @Lucky-mr9yh
    @Lucky-mr9yh Před 3 lety +2

    Great message! Thank you!

  • @jart4914
    @jart4914 Před 3 lety +1

    I honestly thought this wasn't complicated... the LORD has spoken to me!

  • @motivation4926
    @motivation4926 Před 3 lety +3

    God is making be the better version of myself...and i am waiting patiently...

  • @sparksgloria4693
    @sparksgloria4693 Před 3 lety +10

    My declaration is for God to only succeeding His WILL done upon my life and I thank God for doing that

  • @0animalproductworld558

    I like how you reply to email for free. God blesses! That is why you are blessed! (:

  • @etnasorong2289
    @etnasorong2289 Před 3 lety

    My name is Etna, and I do enjoy your video. So blessed.

  • @miiakristiinasiimesto6352

    LOVE is not a Sin. Every morning everything living RISES in God given love to You. God’s Enemy and those who turned against God also were The Fallen Ones. So in Truth You will never Fall in Love -With God You are already LOVE 🙏🏻❤️😇

  • @angelacollins8295
    @angelacollins8295 Před 3 lety +5

    I know God hss a God fearing man for me but he must love God then i know he could love me also 🙋🙏🙏🙏😀

  • @daniellemiller9667
    @daniellemiller9667 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm shocked right now not knowing what I should do in my situation...I did not think that I could ever have this happen to me, but I'm sure God will reveal it to me in due time...I just have to keep pushing through...

  • @almaescanilla713
    @almaescanilla713 Před 3 lety

    Im new suscriber here...i know to my self that gods is preparing me a guy who is everything what im praying for...

  • @mairimacinnes9934
    @mairimacinnes9934 Před 3 lety +5

    Please pray for Poll Meyer needing financial breakthrough is in a desperate situation alone in a foreign country 🙏🙏

  • @annelabaya781
    @annelabaya781 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you for this 🙏❤️

  • @Ryan-ne1dr
    @Ryan-ne1dr Před 3 lety

    Always put GOD first🙏❤

  • @bit-no-g4752
    @bit-no-g4752 Před 3 lety

    This is where im at in life im so happy

  • @meerubyvue1148
    @meerubyvue1148 Před 3 lety +12

    I am ready for it! I am waiting for God bring me one true love!

  • @StandingInHisWind
    @StandingInHisWind Před 3 lety +10

    I can't help but feel time is running out for that promise He gave me. Perhaps i have missed my chance while being in wrong relationships in the past 😞. It's ok. The Bridegroom is near.

    • @marianakoegel755
      @marianakoegel755 Před 3 lety +1

      You have got out and realized that you were in a wrong relationship while you still breathing. Say thank you that you have realized and still alive to have that chance of meeting "the one". Bet you know so many couples who are in the such of elderly age and were so unhappy entire life, didn't have a courage and a faith to leave the unhealthy relationship.
      You have courage and faith in God, and now all you need its patience 🙏 ..

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    • @user-iv6su9kj4u
      @user-iv6su9kj4u Před 5 měsíci

      I am a nice, honest man, I love loyalty, and I want to marry him

  • @eneessienibok9719
    @eneessienibok9719 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you my JESUS for everything !

  • @neydanguema4123
    @neydanguema4123 Před 3 lety

    Thank you 🙏🏾 Blessings

  • @janreydunan8347
    @janreydunan8347 Před 3 lety +5

    I always watch your videos and I subscribed to I think a year and more.
    I just reliazed this is my first comment 😅.
    God bless you Mark 😁.
    From Philippines

  • @dhanferwao6072
    @dhanferwao6072 Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you for this free knowledge! It really enlighten me.

  • @rhodahj7121
    @rhodahj7121 Před 3 lety +2

    Amen i believe all things are done in christ waiting patiently to my spouse kingdom Glory to God for directing my steps.

  • @bobbywilliams-clay3683
    @bobbywilliams-clay3683 Před 2 lety +1

    That's why I pray for my GODLY Wife everything 🙏

  • @HigherSelfStudio
    @HigherSelfStudio Před 3 lety +5

    so on time ! suprised!!!!

  • @OfficialDivineUnique
    @OfficialDivineUnique Před 3 lety +4

    I agree with this 100%

  • @Newgrist
    @Newgrist Před 3 lety

    Good teaching.