Girls ! I am a 66 years old lady and when I retired a few years ago I was so happy of getting rid of the «to do lists» and of the heavy daily programs. But guess what ? Right on : I still have a «to do list». We all have to wash our face every morning, don't we ?..But the daily program is less heavy now. But still... life runs fast and there is always so many things we want to do, including relaxing, shutting up and reflexing about what is this thing called life. You are both so wise and funny and yes...even old ladies like me can find wisdom in your weekly conversations. Happy Easter vacations, girls !
I resonated with your post and got such a chuckle when they didn't know who Casey Kasem was...time is marching on and on...he was BIG BIG BIG back in the day! If we wanted to 'tape record' (ripping and burning and downloading weren't invented, yet) songs from the radio to our cassette deck, we knew we had a chance during his Saturday a.m. syndicated countdown.
My favourite moments in these episodes was the stuck pòrn and the "so hard and so much" segments from Jess. I've never laughed so hard (and so much) before 😂
DJs actually have a lot in common with interior designers, except one works in an auditory medium and one works in a visual / spatial medium. When you design an interior, you pick a color scheme and pick pieces of furniture and decor with a theme (like mid-century or boho, or whatever) that fit together to make a cohesive interior, like when a DJ designs a set, they pick songs of a certain tempo and style (like house, disco, funk, salsa) that sound good together to make a cohesive set. Just like you need to pick pieces that vary in color, texture, height, and shape to make a room look visually appealing, but also function practically, a DJ picks songs that vary in tone, intensity, and rhythm, but also mix together. Both a well designed room and a well mixed dj set will have a good "flow".
Regarding dreams: I’m a clinical psychologist 🤓 and primarily work with teens and young adults. Your thoughts that dreams are a place to process emotions is spot-on in terms of one theory of the function of dreams. As you said, it’s not what’s actually happening in a dream, but the emotional take-home from the crazy ride we’ve just involuntarily taken ourselves on (thanks, brain! …f*#@er!). Likely, dreams have multiple functions (consolidate memory, assist problem-solving, etc). We do a lot in our daily life to distract ourselves from negative emotions and dreams may inoculate us (like mental vaccines!) to the fact that a feeling is just a feeling, it’s not as actually dangerous as we experience it - dreams can help us adapt to negative states and feel less threatened by them in our waking lives. I know I’m not speaking to traumatic re-experiencing or paranormal dreams in this comment, but just normal stress/anxiety/guilt/loneliness content. Love the podcast! You two are magic together!
I have had some pretty horrific sleep paralysis episodes that have had a real demon-y flavor and I feel like it usually is related to high levels of stress that I'm ignoring. I resolved the episodes with a combination of relieving stress and scolding the demons into submission. You gotta get real ornery and go "we're not doing this" and like mean it. It's a combo of acknowledging that it is more than likely your brain being mean and ridiculous and also saying on the off chance of some real supernatural activity I will get petty and hire a witch to banish you, don't play with me. It's worked so far, I haven't had an episode in several years. I may have to sternly reprimand an ominous feeling from a shadowy corner here and there, but overall I feel less haunted. I am also aware that this sounds fully insane but I am kind of playing the angle of I will not be bullied by my own brain or some supernatural being so if you are going to be a problem, I am going to be a solution. Good luck dude, spicy demon dreams are horrendous.
noooooooo ive been mispronouncing lackadaisical as well! 😭 but upon googling, the history of this is actually quite interesting. one theory is that in modern language we've possibly linked it to feeling "lax". but also there seems be the colloquial phrase, "Alack a day!" shortened to "lackaday" from the 17th century, expressing disappointment or sorrow. Then morphed into more modern take "laxadaisy". also wildly enough, this is also where the phrase "oopsy daisy", "upsy daisy", and such, stems from 🤓
The meditation music/sounds may be contributing to the sleep issues. Binaural beats and similar sounds are intended to be mind-altering (meditative). Meditation isn’t inherently positive or negative, it depends on what you’re meditating on. You might be opening yourself up to negative/dark energies without realizing.
Oo, glad you mentioned the sock pads again, Caroline, because I kept meaning to comment on that podcast episode to let you know: I have the same thing, it is real, you are seen, it is in fact the worst part of winter, it does indeed suck, and a cheaper alternative for you exists: FOOT DEODORANT. Hear me out. Just regular antiperspirant, but applied liberally to the feet. Really helps me, anyway. Also: wool socks over cotton, sock changes throughout the day, and washing the feet (like washing your hands) with soap and warm water when they get too clammy and cold. Stay strong, hero.
Yeah! I’m so happy she’s talking about it. I have it too! Hyperhidrosis. I have it on my hands too. It’s awful in the winter thanks to evaporative cooling! So then my hands and feet are freezing.
I've dealt with sleep paralysis since I was a child. I've now as an adult learned what helps me with it. When it happens I immediately start praying help from my angels or/and start thinking about love. I also try to be calm. Usually that makes it go away quickly or it transforms into a lovely astral experience.
I’ve been watching Caroline’s channel for a while before y’all started n4e… You two are the best thing that’s happened to CZcams/podcasts. I’m totally pathetic but now I have something to look forward to every Thursday and Saturday. Thank you for existing 🧡🧡🧡
I love your chats, my best friend is far away right now and listening to these makes me feel like I'm supplementing my social life, even though I'm not involved in any way lol. Totally relate to the night anxiety, I've been dealing with it off and on the last few years, even though I live with my husband who (over confidently?) promises to defend me from danger. The only thing I find helps sometimes is to zoom out and envision you and your house like in your neighborhood, then think about all your neighbours in their houses doing things, people and cars going by on the street etc. I find this takes me out of fear bubble a little bit. Hope this improves for you soon!
First of all, LOVE THE PODCAST. Since day one. Thank you to both of you for making us laugh every week. Second: can’t help with the haunting BUT I did stop getting sleep paralysis when I stopped falling asleep on my back. It was advice from a therapist (that I could really have used 25-30 years ago…). Hope this helps someone! 😊
Yay! So glad you gals are on YT! Been loving the podcast...laughed out loud many times with the Jason Mraz commentary. One of the few concerts I've been to is Jason Mraz. It was fun, but very much like a Wiggles concert now that I look back on it 🤣
The bullet journal is at once a blessing and a curse. I love to have the lists, but the act of bullet journaling is now on the list and it's not fun anymore.
@@ephemera... yeah but there are some weeks or whole months where I just can’t bring myself to do extensive spreads. I am learning that A) I don’t need huge spreads and B) my designing can be minimal or take longer and not get in the way of the actual purpose of the bullet journal.
OMG but "I'm Yours" by Jason Mraz is totally great for kindergarteners: "I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror; and bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer; but my breath fogged up the glass; so I drew a new face and I laughed". Tell me a kid didn't write that? YES! St. Jude's feels so exploitative!!! I work with hospitalized kids every day and I can't imagine people shoving a camera in their faces. I work at a research hospital and that is not something we do. Sometimes there are kids featured in articles, but the St. Jude's ads are so disturbing.
Ladies, loving your podcast! Happy it’s on youtube now. I have to tell you most everything you talk about is totally relatable even to me, a 63 year old female. !!! Caroline, I agree with you about St Judes, I’ve been wondering myself and their adds are unsettling. My Mom use to make us go door to door once a year collecting for them, but I digress. Also, the Disco jockey, hysterical! Love your humor ladies and thanks for brightening my day. 😊
So happy to see more content from Caroline ❤ I tried listening to this podcast on Spotify but something about videos just gets me hooked so easily. @Caroline, if you drink coffee and those days happen to be the ones when you feel more sleepless, try giving it up for like two weeks and see if the theory holds up. I recently learnt that some brains are just not caffeine adapted and it could make us anxious and sleepless. Unfortunately, if you aren’t caffeine adapted, you never will be. Hope you get good sleep soon!
Awesome! So happy to see both your beautiful faces on YT. I've been following Caroline's YT channel for a while, moved over to your Spotify pod from ep 1, and now get to follow along here. I never miss an episode. Love you two. Much love from Chicagoland!
Jess, I'm so excited to see your face! Caroline's face is good too but I see it every week already...😄 Glad you're getting that vacation soon, Caroline! Hope you can get some good sleep away from home.
you guys!! I love you a lot, and I'm a historian doing research the conservative way with them books and stuff for a living, so what can I say. You're great
So I just found this, so I'm sorry for reacting to an old video... I never saw the St. Jude ads because I don't get ads on CZcams, but I'm familiar w/the ads from many years ago (Marlo Thomas), and I can say for 100% certainty that Jen Anniston has had a relationship w/the founder's family going back to her childhood. Marlo Thomas (who not only played her mom on "Friends", but who is also the daughter of Danny Thomas, the founder). Jen has also donated millions to them. This can be looked up online. I know this was also written up about in Variety a few yrs ago. However I can't speak about children being potentially exploited but I do know they're a officially a charitable organization, and I'm also not sure about what claims you have about the "c-suite employees" either. But know about Jen's relationship with the founders and her work has been voluntary. I also know they are a research hospital and they also do not charge for care or for the parents' housing if they choose to stay with their children there while in their care.
Listened to the first half on Podcasts , watched the second half here. I’m DYING- thank you for addressing the burp muting, I was wondering why my girlfriends couldn’t sit still- it makes total sense now! 😂
I found Caroline 2 months ago and I binged all her videos from start to finish then decided to finally start listening to the pod, such a roller coaster and I love y’all! Ok, 2 things… Casey Kasem was definitely the Ryan Seacrest of the second half of 20th century, but sooo much more. He absolutely was Lebanese, and so beloved. I think the mispronunciation of lackadaisical is totally ok to blame on your teacher! There is another CZcamsr who was a teacher and she says the word, jewelry as jewlery, and all I can think of is all the little bitties running around saying, “But mom, Miss So n So says it like this, and she’s a teacher!” 🤦♀️ Of course I didn’t correct her, it’s rude. If I was her friend, I would, but as a subscriber of a channel that is not about education, it’s really not my place.
Caroline & Jess -- I love this show and I want to be part of the party, but can we revisit the V-neck? I'm crushed by how passionate Caroline is about literally every t-shirt I own. Can we agree that from a design perspective, taller guys with more narrow faces may look better in a V-neck tee? Help me thru this. I'm willing to change, but I need some convincing.
Thank you both for your thoughts. Yes, every chore is self created. Welcome to adulting 😂 Your conversations make me so happy. Yes, it’s really all about me. 😮😂
This comment is way late to the party, however, I’ve often wondered why haunting is always approached by the Catholic Priest for the resolve. Did the Catholic Church create haunting like Microsoft created computer viruses? I’m liking listening to your conversations. I cleaned out my refrigerator and washed windows while binge listening and now that those chores are done, it’s like they weren’t even chores! I was concentrating on the conversation and didn’t even realize I accomplished a task that I have been delaying for weeks. So, thanks!
I used to have the worst most horrific nightmares known to man. Everything caroline is describing and more for decades. And I'm not gonna lie, I still get nightmares occasionally, BUT when they were at their worst, I started taking ashwagandha extract and dramatically reduced my nightmares and when I did have them they were much less visceral. Highly recommend.
I relate to the to do segment 1000%. I am at the point that I am annoyed every time I have to eat because it’s just one more thing to do! Just wait until you have a house with a yard, you will never be the same.
You girls make me laugh!!! And I am praying for you Caroline! This is a real thing! And please buy a new freaking bed! Shit does attach to things!!! I pray for the Holy Spirit to fill your life and your home!!! Looking over your shoulder is not a good feeling or normal! Just sayin.. 😅…. And yeas this happened to me and it was wicked!! To a point where I can feel something flying around my bed as I had sleep paralysis! I prayed and prayed and it has gone away for years now! I was also raised Cath so that explains alot!!
Okay I have another word that I was shook by the pronunciation. How do you say the word “rifled”? Like a rifle or like riff off? I always thought it was like the gun, but I was listening to an audio book and the narrator said it like riff-led. Please don’t say I’m the only one who thought this!
I used to have paranormal nightmares paired with sleep paralysis when I used to go to church and believed in demons . Now I have an occasional nightmare with murderers or sex predators :(
My recollection is that "going postal" came out of a handful of postal workers shooting shit up. Like postal workers had a collective meltdown back in the day kinda like school shootings today.
I have the same issues in my bedroom, and it's been going on since I moved into the house 20 years ago. Never happened to me before this house. I've saged, prayed, I've had a priest bless it, pray, sprinkle holy water, and in fact, it stayed the same....NO change, in fact activity increased for a while. Now it's just back to weird things ...I stopped sleeping in that room, even though the entity does move around from room to room. If anyone knows how to fix this, I'm all ears.
PERSON WITH SLEEP PARALYSIS HERE! there is nothing wrong with your house youre just having bad sleep paralysis. Avoid sleeping on your back and being very very still before bed (i know that doesnt really make sense but I dont know how else to describe it.) also this is silly but sleep with a stuffed animal or pillow in your arms it might help ground you!
Imma say something that may be unpopular.......... DJs are to music as interior designers are to domestic products. You take things that are great on their own and in the right hands, create an experience that's larger than the sum of their parts.
I love this episode and also seeing you guys now! Thank you guys! I laughed a lot 😂. Actually I have the same problems with those kind of dreams as you Caroline. So you are not alone 😘. I would be also interested in some helpful tips 😅. ❤love you guys! #excitedforthenextepisode
I have seen some of the comments right know and I have the feeling that it is all about taking actions. Maybe the reason for this kind of nightmares is the deep feeling of being powerless. Maybe it’s more like a thing you have to solve with your inner child 🤔. My therapist told me that dreams are related to parts of our self (it, I and Over-I). I am just figuring it out 😅 I’m sorry if some things are not so understandable. English is not my mother tongue 😜. Best luck an greetings from Germany 😊
Love y'all! Dealt with sleep paralysis for a while. For me I avoid sleeping on my back or falling asleep super hard and fast. Usually would happen if I was super tired and my Nonna would wake me abruptly doing dishes at 1am 😂❤. If the sleep paralysis does strike and you become aware but are still stuck in the dream. Instead of fighting I'll Invision I am just falling through the sky and that usually helps me relax and wake up out of the terror. Sorry you are dealing with the awful nightmares. Sleep paralysis sucks.
*in Caroline’s voice* BITCH! Podcast video on CZcams! And yes I heard that A spotify Ad! Ahhhh so excited for this podcast to take off and for more people to listen! Love you two!
St. Jude's is purportedly for all children, whether or not they can afford their treatment. This could/would only exist in a country that refuses to join the rest of the world with universal health care. Here in Canada you don't need to "AFFORD" health care. We just receive it. ALL of your health care is profit-driven.
I only know lackadaisical because it was an SAT word. Another word I notice a lot of people mispronounce is "supposedly." Many people pronounce it "supposaBLY."
Creepy late comment, but has Caroline changed or started taking new medications? I know my SSRI's started my sleep paralysis and nightmares, when I switched meds the dreams stopped. Love this podcast by the way!
Love the podcast! It's awesome you're on CZcams now! I never normally comment on anything anywhere, but please get a new bed or look into getting some sage or something to try and clenze the energy in your bedroom! Not sleeping well is so bad for over all heath in so meany ways! Maybe try sleeping on the sofa in the living room for a night and see if that helps? Supernatural stuff freaks me out so bad! My cousin had a few spirits or whatever they are move into her house and one waysshe said worked to get rid of one was to ask it to leave and another pissed her off so bad cuz it was messing with her sleep she just screamed at it and told it to f*off and it went away (she lived next to a graveyard)
Would love you SO HARD if you shared the previous episodes on CZcams even without video! (Just do a solid background of your logo) so happy the CZcams gods led you to me.
There's like 20 minutes of nothing at the end of this video. And yes i did listen to all of it just in case there was some secret content that only die hard fans will get to see. Ha! Jokes on me. Also, I'd do it again.
RE “taking crazy rants seriously”: I have a similar humor style and I call it doing “bits” and I prefer a dry style so I have had major issues saying ridiculous things because I find it funny and assuming that sarcasm can be inferred and having new friends think I’m a very dumb person 🤷♀️ that’s the game.
Also great song by 🎶 Indeep: Last night a DJ saved my life 🎶. It was also on a radio station in the game Grand Theft Auto: Vice City, channel Fever 105 😂
Also, I'm from Spain and I've been living in the US for 13 years and the first time I ever heard the word lackadaisical was in Caroline's video. I had to add subtitles to figure out how to spell lackadaisical so I could google what it meant and I didn't even noticed it was mispronounced, so there's that 🤣
Hahaa we ALL learned it as “laxidasical” !! It just sounds better than lackadaisical 😂 F those critics! I’m gonna keep saying it wrong. We must’ve heard it on tv? Or did they just teach it that way? How did we all get it wrong?! Hahaaa super funny
Sorry for the spam comments. I also had paranormal nightmares and my sisters and I had a ghost in our room (also came in with some object) and the ghost intervened one night and the nightmares stopped. My point is you need another ghost to stop the mean one. I don't remember being afraid of the good ghost. But that was a crappy week. It only stopped when the room ghost intervened. This isn't meant to be actual advice. Just what happened to me. Please don't attempt to get another ghost. That's how you get Amityville Horror.
Lol love Jason Mraz because of that His Mr A-Z album title is so mf corny, and his song Wordplay is so representative of the kindergarten thing lmao sounds like a song we'd get in english class or something. He's got bangers on bangers tho, Butterfly is so good, it's so groovy Also love that the pod is on yt. i've been listening on spotify while walking and will probably keep doing so but i like to have a box to put my comments in, because i don't use instagram that much
Caroline what did you say about why you have emotions in Dreams? You are being torn - pulled into an over scheduled life. Maybe try to create some space to be reflective and not feel pulled apart?
Girls ! I am a 66 years old lady and when I retired a few years ago I was so happy of getting rid of the «to do lists» and of the heavy daily programs. But guess what ? Right on : I still have a «to do list». We all have to wash our face every morning, don't we ?..But the daily program is less heavy now. But still... life runs fast and there is always so many things we want to do, including relaxing, shutting up and reflexing about what is this thing called life. You are both so wise and funny and yes...even old ladies like me can find wisdom in your weekly conversations. Happy Easter vacations, girls !
I resonated with your post and got such a chuckle when they didn't know who Casey Kasem was...time is marching on and on...he was BIG BIG BIG back in the day! If we wanted to 'tape record' (ripping and burning and downloading weren't invented, yet) songs from the radio to our cassette deck, we knew we had a chance during his Saturday a.m. syndicated countdown.
made my absolute day to read this. "life runs fast". 🧡 So glad you're here and that the podcast resonates, Christiane
Episode 17?!?! I’ve been listening since ep 1 and it’s been the highlight of every thursday ❤️
My favourite moments in these episodes was the stuck pòrn and the "so hard and so much" segments from Jess. I've never laughed so hard (and so much) before 😂
@@strawberrykuroskai4416 They’re such goofy lads. 😂I’m somehow always surprised by how much I laugh out loud at their antics
DJs actually have a lot in common with interior designers, except one works in an auditory medium and one works in a visual / spatial medium.
When you design an interior, you pick a color scheme and pick pieces of furniture and decor with a theme (like mid-century or boho, or whatever) that fit together to make a cohesive interior, like when a DJ designs a set, they pick songs of a certain tempo and style (like house, disco, funk, salsa) that sound good together to make a cohesive set.
Just like you need to pick pieces that vary in color, texture, height, and shape to make a room look visually appealing, but also function practically, a DJ picks songs that vary in tone, intensity, and rhythm, but also mix together.
Both a well designed room and a well mixed dj set will have a good "flow".
Ahhh, I'm so glad the pod is finally on youtube! It's great to see your lovely, happy faces on the wild ride that is Not 4 Everyone 🎉
I can finally enjoy the glory that is this podcast in my natural habitat, thank you queens
Regarding dreams: I’m a clinical psychologist 🤓 and primarily work with teens and young adults. Your thoughts that dreams are a place to process emotions is spot-on in terms of one theory of the function of dreams. As you said, it’s not what’s actually happening in a dream, but the emotional take-home from the crazy ride we’ve just involuntarily taken ourselves on (thanks, brain! …f*#@er!). Likely, dreams have multiple functions (consolidate memory, assist problem-solving, etc). We do a lot in our daily life to distract ourselves from negative emotions and dreams may inoculate us (like mental vaccines!) to the fact that a feeling is just a feeling, it’s not as actually dangerous as we experience it - dreams can help us adapt to negative states and feel less threatened by them in our waking lives. I know I’m not speaking to traumatic re-experiencing or paranormal dreams in this comment, but just normal stress/anxiety/guilt/loneliness content. Love the podcast! You two are magic together!
I have had some pretty horrific sleep paralysis episodes that have had a real demon-y flavor and I feel like it usually is related to high levels of stress that I'm ignoring. I resolved the episodes with a combination of relieving stress and scolding the demons into submission. You gotta get real ornery and go "we're not doing this" and like mean it. It's a combo of acknowledging that it is more than likely your brain being mean and ridiculous and also saying on the off chance of some real supernatural activity I will get petty and hire a witch to banish you, don't play with me. It's worked so far, I haven't had an episode in several years. I may have to sternly reprimand an ominous feeling from a shadowy corner here and there, but overall I feel less haunted. I am also aware that this sounds fully insane but I am kind of playing the angle of I will not be bullied by my own brain or some supernatural being so if you are going to be a problem, I am going to be a solution. Good luck dude, spicy demon dreams are horrendous.
if i could love this, this is me loving it 💖
Same. Totally different circumstances but yes. Subdue the brain bully. Vocally if you have to.
Love you both. 1 am a 64 year grandma and have a smile on my face though the whole podcast. You two have the best interaction. Keep it up.😊
noooooooo ive been mispronouncing lackadaisical as well! 😭
but upon googling, the history of this is actually quite interesting. one theory is that in modern language we've possibly linked it to feeling "lax". but also there seems be the colloquial phrase, "Alack a day!" shortened to "lackaday" from the 17th century, expressing disappointment or sorrow. Then morphed into more modern take "laxadaisy". also wildly enough, this is also where the phrase "oopsy daisy", "upsy daisy", and such, stems from 🤓
The meditation music/sounds may be contributing to the sleep issues. Binaural beats and similar sounds are intended to be mind-altering (meditative). Meditation isn’t inherently positive or negative, it depends on what you’re meditating on. You might be opening yourself up to negative/dark energies without realizing.
Oo, glad you mentioned the sock pads again, Caroline, because I kept meaning to comment on that podcast episode to let you know: I have the same thing, it is real, you are seen, it is in fact the worst part of winter, it does indeed suck, and a cheaper alternative for you exists: FOOT DEODORANT. Hear me out. Just regular antiperspirant, but applied liberally to the feet. Really helps me, anyway. Also: wool socks over cotton, sock changes throughout the day, and washing the feet (like washing your hands) with soap and warm water when they get too clammy and cold. Stay strong, hero.
Yeah! I’m so happy she’s talking about it. I have it too! Hyperhidrosis. I have it on my hands too. It’s awful in the winter thanks to evaporative cooling! So then my hands and feet are freezing.
I've dealt with sleep paralysis since I was a child. I've now as an adult learned what helps me with it. When it happens I immediately start praying help from my angels or/and start thinking about love. I also try to be calm. Usually that makes it go away quickly or it transforms into a lovely astral experience.
I’ve been watching Caroline’s channel for a while before y’all started n4e… You two are the best thing that’s happened to CZcams/podcasts. I’m totally pathetic but now I have something to look forward to every Thursday and Saturday. Thank you for existing 🧡🧡🧡
you're not pathetic! you have great taste 😎
me screaming "HE'S SHAGGY FROM SCOOBY DOO!!!!" at the first mention of casey kasem
I love your chats, my best friend is far away right now and listening to these makes me feel like I'm supplementing my social life, even though I'm not involved in any way lol.
Totally relate to the night anxiety, I've been dealing with it off and on the last few years, even though I live with my husband who (over confidently?) promises to defend me from danger. The only thing I find helps sometimes is to zoom out and envision you and your house like in your neighborhood, then think about all your neighbours in their houses doing things, people and cars going by on the street etc. I find this takes me out of fear bubble a little bit. Hope this improves for you soon!
First of all, LOVE THE PODCAST. Since day one. Thank you to both of you for making us laugh every week.
Second: can’t help with the haunting BUT I did stop getting sleep paralysis when I stopped falling asleep on my back. It was advice from a therapist (that I could really have used 25-30 years ago…).
Hope this helps someone! 😊
Less nightmares as well! But not no nightmares. But less nightmares. Not négligeable
Yay! So glad you gals are on YT! Been loving the podcast...laughed out loud many times with the Jason Mraz commentary. One of the few concerts I've been to is Jason Mraz. It was fun, but very much like a Wiggles concert now that I look back on it 🤣
The bullet journal is at once a blessing and a curse. I love to have the lists, but the act of bullet journaling is now on the list and it's not fun anymore.
I use my bullet journal to keep my lists under control.
@@ephemera... yeah but there are some weeks or whole months where I just can’t bring myself to do extensive spreads. I am learning that A) I don’t need huge spreads and B) my designing can be minimal or take longer and not get in the way of the actual purpose of the bullet journal.
OMG but "I'm Yours" by Jason Mraz is totally great for kindergarteners: "I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror; and bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer; but my breath fogged up the glass; so I drew a new face and I laughed". Tell me a kid didn't write that?
YES! St. Jude's feels so exploitative!!! I work with hospitalized kids every day and I can't imagine people shoving a camera in their faces. I work at a research hospital and that is not something we do. Sometimes there are kids featured in articles, but the St. Jude's ads are so disturbing.
Yesss! I live for this. Thanks for the video format. I'm loving it.
Ladies, loving your podcast! Happy it’s on youtube now. I have to tell you most everything you talk about is totally relatable even to me, a 63 year old female. !!! Caroline, I agree with you about St Judes, I’ve been wondering myself and their adds are unsettling. My Mom use to make us go door to door once a year collecting for them, but I digress. Also, the Disco jockey, hysterical! Love your humor ladies and thanks for brightening my day. 😊
Thank you Caroline and Jess for adding the pod on YT for us visual learners. We appreciate you so much. Your podcase is awesome!!
About the haunting/dreams - check for carbon monoxide. Carbon monoxide poisoning can cause supernatural feelings like that
Especially with the recently renovated fireplace
Omg how do you not know Casey Cassam! He was the radio DJ for America’s top 40 for a million years pre Ryan Seacrest!
And the voice of Shaggy on Scooby-Doo!
I used to listen to him on the radio. 'American Top 40!'.
I'm in Australia.
Oh thank you finally this is on CZcams.. I’m somehow not comfortable listening without seeing faces 😂😢❤
So happy to see more content from Caroline ❤
I tried listening to this podcast on Spotify but something about videos just gets me hooked so easily.
@Caroline, if you drink coffee and those days happen to be the ones when you feel more sleepless, try giving it up for like two weeks and see if the theory holds up. I recently learnt that some brains are just not caffeine adapted and it could make us anxious and sleepless. Unfortunately, if you aren’t caffeine adapted, you never will be. Hope you get good sleep soon!
So happy to see it on CZcams!! I love this podcast already but it’s nice to have it on here too.
Thank you for putting the podcast on CZcams!! I love seeing your faces and getting to laugh with you!!
Awesome! So happy to see both your beautiful faces on YT. I've been following Caroline's YT channel for a while, moved over to your Spotify pod from ep 1, and now get to follow along here. I never miss an episode. Love you two. Much love from Chicagoland!
Jess, I'm so excited to see your face! Caroline's face is good too but I see it every week already...😄 Glad you're getting that vacation soon, Caroline! Hope you can get some good sleep away from home.
you guys!! I love you a lot, and I'm a historian doing research the conservative way with them books and stuff for a living, so what can I say. You're great
Love these ladies to death!! Watched the video while I was getting ready today and I listed to the Apple pod on my drive lol
As I get older now 55 I eel so overwhelmed with what has to be done everyday to keep going. I do let go of some of it.
So I just found this, so I'm sorry for reacting to an old video... I never saw the St. Jude ads because I don't get ads on CZcams, but I'm familiar w/the ads from many years ago (Marlo Thomas), and I can say for 100% certainty that Jen Anniston has had a relationship w/the founder's family going back to her childhood. Marlo Thomas (who not only played her mom on "Friends", but who is also the daughter of Danny Thomas, the founder). Jen has also donated millions to them. This can be looked up online. I know this was also written up about in Variety a few yrs ago. However I can't speak about children being potentially exploited but I do know they're a officially a charitable organization, and I'm also not sure about what claims you have about the "c-suite employees" either. But know about Jen's relationship with the founders and her work has been voluntary. I also know they are a research hospital and they also do not charge for care or for the parents' housing if they choose to stay with their children there while in their care.
Jason Mraz 😂😂😂😂😂 brb going down a JM rabbit hole 😅
YAAAAAAS NOT FOR EVERYONE CZcams TAKEOVER I LOVE ITTTT!
Listened to the first half on Podcasts , watched the second half here. I’m DYING- thank you for addressing the burp muting, I was wondering why my girlfriends couldn’t sit still- it makes total sense now! 😂
So excited this is now on youtube!! Love being able to watch the videos!
I found Caroline 2 months ago and I binged all her videos from start to finish then decided to finally start listening to the pod, such a roller coaster and I love y’all!
Ok, 2 things…
Casey Kasem was definitely the Ryan Seacrest of the second half of 20th century, but sooo much more. He absolutely was Lebanese, and so beloved.
I think the mispronunciation of lackadaisical is totally ok to blame on your teacher! There is another CZcamsr who was a teacher and she says the word, jewelry as jewlery, and all I can think of is all the little bitties running around saying, “But mom, Miss So n So says it like this, and she’s a teacher!” 🤦♀️ Of course I didn’t correct her, it’s rude. If I was her friend, I would, but as a subscriber of a channel that is not about education, it’s really not my place.
Caroline & Jess -- I love this show and I want to be part of the party, but can we revisit the V-neck? I'm crushed by how passionate Caroline is about literally every t-shirt I own. Can we agree that from a design perspective, taller guys with more narrow faces may look better in a V-neck tee? Help me thru this. I'm willing to change, but I need some convincing.
Thank you both for your thoughts. Yes, every chore is self created. Welcome to adulting 😂
Your conversations make me so happy. Yes, it’s really all about me. 😮😂
This comment is way late to the party, however, I’ve often wondered why haunting is always approached by the Catholic Priest for the resolve. Did the Catholic Church create haunting like Microsoft created computer viruses? I’m liking listening to your conversations. I cleaned out my refrigerator and washed windows while binge listening and now that those chores are done, it’s like they weren’t even chores! I was concentrating on the conversation and didn’t even realize I accomplished a task that I have been delaying for weeks. So, thanks!
yesss i love watching podcast videos haha been listening since ep 1 and lovin every minute. i feel so seen by you guys hah
Finally, get to see your beautiful faces!!! Wait! Put this video on Spotify too!!!! Love you guys.
Nooo you gotta buy a new bed!! Love your podcast, reminds me of ranting and cry-laughing with my friends ❤ keep it up!
This was my 1st thought!
I used to have the worst most horrific nightmares known to man. Everything caroline is describing and more for decades. And I'm not gonna lie, I still get nightmares occasionally, BUT when they were at their worst, I started taking ashwagandha extract and dramatically reduced my nightmares and when I did have them they were much less visceral. Highly recommend.
why do I feel that this is turning into a horror movie any second now..?!
YAAAAY, a CZcams channel for the pod!!!
I relate to the to do segment 1000%. I am at the point that I am annoyed every time I have to eat because it’s just one more thing to do! Just wait until you have a house with a yard, you will never be the same.
Caroline: I will say I am a scientist and a researcher, so anything that I say is science.
Jess: Your experiments! ... BEAKers!
I love you two! 🤣
Oh, finally on youtube! So glad 😍
You girls make me laugh!!! And I am praying for you Caroline! This is a real thing! And please buy a new freaking bed! Shit does attach to things!!! I pray for the Holy Spirit to fill your life and your home!!! Looking over your shoulder is not a good feeling or normal! Just sayin.. 😅…. And yeas this happened to me and it was wicked!! To a point where I can feel something flying around my bed as I had sleep paralysis! I prayed and prayed and it has gone away for years now! I was also raised Cath so that explains alot!!
Okay I have another word that I was shook by the pronunciation. How do you say the word “rifled”? Like a rifle or like riff off? I always thought it was like the gun, but I was listening to an audio book and the narrator said it like riff-led. Please don’t say I’m the only one who thought this!
Personally I think it's rifle
I too think it’s rifle
Audiobook narrators often get words wrong
I'm over 50 and I thought it was lackSadaisical too! 😂
I used to have paranormal nightmares paired with sleep paralysis when I used to go to church and believed in demons . Now I have an occasional nightmare with murderers or sex predators :(
You are the sound in my home ❤
I've been listening and looked here last week to see if there were recordings - so glad you are doing both now!
YAY FINALLY WITH VIDEO!!!! 🎉🎉🎉
YES FINALLY ON YT!!!!!!
Finally on youtube 😍😍😍 awesome to see your faces!
I just caught up on last week’s episode… I laughed so hard I had tears streaming down when you talked about the gay brother couple 😂
DJing is performance art. That is all.
It’s great to be seeing you now. Love your banter!
My recollection is that "going postal" came out of a handful of postal workers shooting shit up. Like postal workers had a collective meltdown back in the day kinda like school shootings today.
I have the same issues in my bedroom, and it's been going on since I moved into the house 20 years ago. Never happened to me before this house. I've saged, prayed, I've had a priest bless it, pray, sprinkle holy water, and in fact, it stayed the same....NO change, in fact activity increased for a while. Now it's just back to weird things ...I stopped sleeping in that room, even though the entity does move around from room to room. If anyone knows how to fix this, I'm all ears.
Happy to see the video pod here!
PERSON WITH SLEEP PARALYSIS HERE! there is nothing wrong with your house youre just having bad sleep paralysis. Avoid sleeping on your back and being very very still before bed (i know that doesnt really make sense but I dont know how else to describe it.) also this is silly but sleep with a stuffed animal or pillow in your arms it might help ground you!
I also pronounce lackadaisical the way you two do! grew up north of San Francisco.
Imma say something that may be unpopular.......... DJs are to music as interior designers are to domestic products. You take things that are great on their own and in the right hands, create an experience that's larger than the sum of their parts.
I love this episode and also seeing you guys now! Thank you guys! I laughed a lot 😂. Actually I have the same problems with those kind of dreams as you Caroline. So you are not alone 😘. I would be also interested in some helpful tips 😅. ❤love you guys! #excitedforthenextepisode
I have seen some of the comments right know and I have the feeling that it is all about taking actions. Maybe the reason for this kind of nightmares is the deep feeling of being powerless. Maybe it’s more like a thing you have to solve with your inner child 🤔. My therapist told me that dreams are related to parts of our self (it, I and Over-I).
I am just figuring it out 😅
I’m sorry if some things are not so understandable. English is not my mother tongue 😜.
Best luck an greetings from Germany 😊
Love y'all! Dealt with sleep paralysis for a while. For me I avoid sleeping on my back or falling asleep super hard and fast. Usually would happen if I was super tired and my Nonna would wake me abruptly doing dishes at 1am 😂❤. If the sleep paralysis does strike and you become aware but are still stuck in the dream. Instead of fighting I'll Invision I am just falling through the sky and that usually helps me relax and wake up out of the terror. Sorry you are dealing with the awful nightmares. Sleep paralysis sucks.
OMG! Loving this podcast. So glad I found you
Omgg the dreaaaam I was asking for iiit for ao long thank youu let me think of something else to ask for 🍭🍭🍭
I grew up in Anne Arundel county and have always pronounced lackadaisical with "lax" as the first syllable. But I also grew up saying beFesda so 🤷🏼♀️
*in Caroline’s voice* BITCH! Podcast video on CZcams! And yes I heard that A spotify Ad! Ahhhh so excited for this podcast to take off and for more people to listen! Love you two!
Lmfao the burp
St. Jude's is purportedly for all children, whether or not they can afford their treatment. This could/would only exist in a country that refuses to join the rest of the world with universal health care. Here in Canada you don't need to "AFFORD" health care. We just receive it. ALL of your health care is profit-driven.
I only know lackadaisical because it was an SAT word. Another word I notice a lot of people mispronounce is "supposedly." Many people pronounce it "supposaBLY."
Creepy late comment, but has Caroline changed or started taking new medications? I know my SSRI's started my sleep paralysis and nightmares, when I switched meds the dreams stopped. Love this podcast by the way!
Love the podcast! It's awesome you're on CZcams now!
I never normally comment on anything anywhere, but please get a new bed or look into getting some sage or something to try and clenze the energy in your bedroom! Not sleeping well is so bad for over all heath in so meany ways!
Maybe try sleeping on the sofa in the living room for a night and see if that helps?
Supernatural stuff freaks me out so bad! My cousin had a few spirits or whatever they are move into her house and one waysshe said worked to get rid of one was to ask it to leave and another pissed her off so bad cuz it was messing with her sleep she just screamed at it and told it to f*off and it went away (she lived next to a graveyard)
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Would love you SO HARD if you shared the previous episodes on CZcams even without video! (Just do a solid background of your logo) so happy the CZcams gods led you to me.
There's like 20 minutes of nothing at the end of this video. And yes i did listen to all of it just in case there was some secret content that only die hard fans will get to see. Ha! Jokes on me. Also, I'd do it again.
RE “taking crazy rants seriously”: I have a similar humor style and I call it doing “bits” and I prefer a dry style so I have had major issues saying ridiculous things because I find it funny and assuming that sarcasm can be inferred and having new friends think I’m a very dumb person 🤷♀️ that’s the game.
For Casey Kasem go back and watch the original 1984 Ghostbusters he’s on there as well briefly…lol 😂
Also great song by 🎶 Indeep: Last night a DJ saved my life 🎶. It was also on a radio station in the game Grand Theft Auto: Vice City, channel Fever 105 😂
Cannot believe that guy dumped you over something said on the podcast!
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Also, I'm from Spain and I've been living in the US for 13 years and the first time I ever heard the word lackadaisical was in Caroline's video. I had to add subtitles to figure out how to spell lackadaisical so I could google what it meant and I didn't even noticed it was mispronounced, so there's that 🤣
Seinfeld: "a show about nothing". Podcast: "this podcast covers absolutely nothing at any point in time"
Hahaa we ALL learned it as “laxidasical” !! It just sounds better than lackadaisical 😂 F those critics! I’m gonna keep saying it wrong.
We must’ve heard it on tv? Or did they just teach it that way? How did we all get it wrong?! Hahaaa super funny
Sorry for the spam comments. I also had paranormal nightmares and my sisters and I had a ghost in our room (also came in with some object) and the ghost intervened one night and the nightmares stopped. My point is you need another ghost to stop the mean one. I don't remember being afraid of the good ghost. But that was a crappy week. It only stopped when the room ghost intervened. This isn't meant to be actual advice. Just what happened to me. Please don't attempt to get another ghost. That's how you get Amityville Horror.
I also thought it was pronounced LAX and I too am a smarty-pants who looks down on everyone else. I am having trouble accepting this.
Haunted houses are the opposite of boring content
Lackadaisical - the lack of enthusiasm 😅
Caroline, maybe you should get a new bed. Seriously, not a good idea to sleep in one that someone died in. Love your blogs!!!
I feel like I heard somewhere that Saint Jude's will give a discount on a bill if the child will appear in advertising
I thought St. Jude was free, which is why they rely on donations
@@bprett you might be correct they may be just paying the patients I tried to look it up after I posted and couldn't find the source
"Going postal".....yes, it refers to killings.
I totally thought it was LAXADAISICAL too. What!?
Question for Jess, who are your favorite comedians?
Lol love Jason Mraz because of that
His Mr A-Z album title is so mf corny, and his song Wordplay is so representative of the kindergarten thing lmao sounds like a song we'd get in english class or something. He's got bangers on bangers tho, Butterfly is so good, it's so groovy
Also love that the pod is on yt. i've been listening on spotify while walking and will probably keep doing so but i like to have a box to put my comments in, because i don't use instagram that much
Caroline what did you say about why you have emotions in Dreams?
You are being torn - pulled into an over scheduled life.
Maybe try to create some space to be reflective and not feel pulled apart?