@@BjornAndreasBull-Hansengreat video and I agree with everything. Also I have an interest in Norse mythology, would you know much about the Runes? And what’s your view on Abrahamic religions? Thanks 🙏
As a 35 year old parent teaching his boys to become hard working, respectful, and caring young men I find society itself is becoming a toxic obstacle in that path.
Likewise… I don’t live with my children anymore and the fight to raise them as strong young men and to live with authenticity and integrity is proving very difficult. I feel I now represent a way of life that they are choosing to ignore and there is nothing that I can do about it…
We’re trying to have our first child right now and I’m really worried about this as well. I almost wish there was a course on how to raise children to not be swayed by our awful current culture.
@@AmB39 I would sit with your partner and discuss it in depth Adam, it's an incredibly challenging time to be raising children... food prices and fuel prices escalating, hospitals constantly on the back foot, woke ideologies in 99% of schools, crime is on the rise and wages definitely are not going up any time soon. I'm not trying to put you off I'm just saying so you can prepare mentally as well as financially for whats to come friend! Wish you and your partner all the best for the future.
Thank you very much for trying to build men! My husband and I are trying to do the same with our son. His bio family and foster family bred him to be a huge coward, but he's a good boy, and has been working very hard on choosing to be brave. We hope that the stability and love (and discipline of course) will be enough in this evil and chaotic world!
If you hear the words “alpha”, “beta”, or “high value”, feel free to turn off the video. They have nothing to offer. If you hear “discipline”, “hard work”, or “honesty” and “integrity”, you can feel fairly safe they’re legit.
I was hoping he might show how to catch a swordfish with a pointy stick!🤣😂 The thing is he might have a point, but I really can't figure out precisely what it is.
I’m a 19 year old boy who grew up without a Father. I never realized how essential masculinity is to a young boy until I got older, so much I had to teach myself, but I was able to because of thought provoking content like this that made me question everything. I hope to break the cycle of bad fathers for my kids one day.
If you haven't spoken to your father one on one yet withhold judgement until you do. Never take a single mother's account of events as fact. If he really was a deadbeat screw him.
@Marcus It sounds like he has been White Knighted by his Mother. Women cannot raise a boy to be a man, one needs a man to do that. His Mother picked the wrong man to lie down with or more likely she drove him away. Women are the gate keeper's of sex, men are the gate keeper's of relationships.
Just stay true to yourself;keep on learning and questioning;don’t let others people judgment or misunderstanding stop you on your life quest.Hopefully life won’t be to harsh on you.
My father taught me how to be a man, not explicitly, but through example. He taught me to take responsibility, to care for family, and to try and be the best person you can be.
My Father taught me how to be a man and I am a woman. I know what it takes and I will do everything it takes. It doesn't matter what is between your legs. It is an understanding and effort toward a noble goal.
To those in the comments, don't worry, I consider myself extremely lucky and am very grateful to my parents. Neither of my parents grew up in good homes, so they have worked extremely hard to ensure that I grew up in a healthy and loving household, for which I am extremely grateful.
@@pamelaj25 yep daddy got 7 girls before my little brother came along. He taught us all a trade. He said he didn't want us dependant on anyone else but ourselves.
Smoke, Drink, Be a real A hole is the kind of masculinity I had shoved down my throat. I was told "You are worth only what you have saved." I put more value in good health and good health habits. I feel in better shape at age 76 than I did at age 16.
I don’t think smoking and drinking has anything to do with your manliness or not. What makes you true is minding your own business without judging others.
@@hzj7920 that's the fact the man here has presented in this very comment, I think...being confident and true to one's self ABOVE AND BEYOND any others "thoughts and words..."- and responsible for ACCEPTING *AND most importantly...ADMITTING ones mistakes to MOVE RIGHT PAST THEM...makes a man, this is what I was taughtas the "Native Mind"- way here in the great South West USA, High desert, where a man is made easily by living proper off grid, as MANY hundreds of thousand men, all races have experienced this livelihood...Grateful for the small and LARGE failures, in order to be SUCCESSFUL!!♧IN successful ventures and relationships. I am 47 and raising my now 13 yr old son...never easy, allways worth it:digital life sucks.
My Dad was a strong man. Physically and mentally. His use of his strength was driven by love and respect. And integrity. He would be physically disgusted by dishonesty. Angered by cruelty. He was a firm, but never harsh, kind, warm and loving father. I hope I have lived well in his light. I am old now. And grateful as ever.
Literally admitting that you believe mens only worth as a person, is as a provider.. women are loved unconditionally, men have to sacrifice themselves to be respected..
@@keithfrederick877 It is already too late for most Millennials, fifty two percent of women today are still childless by the time they reach thirty two, as young parents we had alreaady raised our two boys by then and were well on their way in their early teens, glad we did it that way now we get time to relax and enjoy our lives fully.
This poem fits right into place with what hs happened to society over the last fourty years, like the piece of a jigsaw without the picture to follow for guidance, society always lives or dies by the things it creates and by what it makes. This is how our hands and minds have died since our industry has been decimated and then redistributed leaving another fall of man, without his or her hand to eye coordination in place we begin to die as a nation, slowly at first then exponentially once we reach a certain level where training for the future has ceased, and are then unable to fend for ourselves.
There are many nasty vicious predatory females out there. But the answer is neither to become their prey, nor to become nasty vicious predatory males. The proper response to a sick society is to be a Man. You are doing good work, Bjorn.
aye. to detach from anger and resentment. to detach from expectations. that is the way of the warrior as musashi miyamoto said himself. that is a nice observation. the eyes that perceives is weak. the eyes that observes is strong. you are truly an observer. now apply that to the rest of your life and you will be invincible.
Blokes that think money and a smart car pull birds are shallow. More likely to attract a decent girl if you are walking your dog. There is something very masculine about a man walking with his dogs.
Money today is not real money it is electronic and out of sight, like prayers and hopes it is all encompassing, there are many different kinds of materialism, some sustainable and some that need feeding with the ego and anothers energy.
@@amandaduggan9051 due to the forced injections my wife and l have parted ways and for the sake of my children iv left her everything we owned , house furniture car and savings. It’s been twelve months now and l think I’m ready to look for a girlfriend or companion and it will be interesting how that will go for me.
I heartily agree with you Bjorn, these young men are getting sucked in by these ‘influencers’ which are basically narcissistic conmen who get rich at their expense because they have no respect for their victims. I implore young men everywhere don’t give a penny to them or buy the products, apply critical thinking.
i get the conmen's but WHERE THE F**k were their parents when those kids were growing up?! my father was an asshole, real one. but despite that he taught me quite a lot, but what's happening today with "modern parents" is just horrific.
There are some good channels out there. One good one is Hammerhand. His main phrase is integrity, accountability, and controlling your biology. Terrance Popp is another good one, but he tends to lean more towards comedy to get his point across. Both normal Joe's. No expensive suits or cars.
Owning your mistakes, shortcomings, and faults is part of being a masculine man. Knowing your weaknesses and overcoming them is a neverending process of becoming the best you can be. Thank you Bjorn for another inspiring video. Keep Fighting the Good Fight!
This should be the standard for all people... But I am a masculine female, so I think that people should know their weaknesses and shortcomings. I know I can't beat a guy in a fight, but I follow the "talk softly and carry a big stick" mentality.
My father never sat me down and taught me what a man is. He just WAS, and i watched and learned. The alarming divorce rate has cheated many boys from that experience.
my boomer father didn't teach me one single skill. he spent his free time taking naps, watching tv, and going to the bar. we had to beg him to do activities on the week end, and 95% of the time he would prefer going to the bar. i always felt i was behind other guys from my generation and as an adult i finally realized it was because of my absent father. when you become an adult you see the dark side of your parents.
We never watched tv, I took my sons walking in the mountains, shooting and learned them how to build stone walls, anything practical, my grandfathers saying was, don't tell me show me, something that most men who only talk fail to do and or share, talking is cheap if you cannot follow it up with something you have made.
Most of the red-pilled dating coaches are just incel-farming: Selling lonely men a dream on how to get laid and/or convince a woman to actually treat them with some respect. It's a tall order these days for many guys.
Qe are thinking thinking hard about it. Men are men. Put them in place for men they adapt. U can over think and say your weak, but men are weak so we adapt
This alpha/beta/omega stuff is the new mythology, and I get why a lot of young men feel they need it for something to aim for, particularly in these nihilistic times. But the ones going around saying "I'm an alpha" are ridiculous; it's the equivalent of a medieval Norseman going around saying "I'm Thor".
That's entirely the point of Gods you dimwit. You're supposed to emulate them and embody the values they represent... So you can be a more useful person. The alpha/beta thing is exactly the same. Everyone knows what you mean when you talk about alpha behaviour... Men should absolutely not be a caricature but they should definitely be moving away from the traits of the 'beta'
nicely observed and concluded man. always liked what those symbolic things meant rather than what they were imitated as, many examples of so called alphas and then theres actual creators on youtube who subscribe and help mythologise them even more. however i think the alpha beta and omega thing has been gone for a while now and it is now sigma male or gigachad who are basically the mindset and the embodiment of what we should strive for in men, always presented in a meme where he saves a young man from turning completely resentfull or even presented as suicide. and always showing young men to accept the world as it is and see the opportunities in it instead. no man was truly as extreme and personfied as thor was. if any that would be my dad XD (im danish btw) he was an extremefied version of a personality we all know
I knew we were in trouble in the UK when the men's toiletries section in Boots the Chemist was bigger than the women's. I grew up around proper men who appreciated women, were practical, and could fix things and protect their families. They didn't feel the need to prove themselves by showing off or taking unnecessary risks. They just exuded masculinity. I met my man when I was just 18 and we have been together for 50 years. I am not sure relationships can survive that long these days, our youth do not seem to know what a man or a woman is.
It's also the 24/7 consumer society where people get bored, want everything immediately and everything is disposable, including relationships. But then this is not exactly new, we've had it for the best part of half a century.
They want men weak and confused, unable to provide, it’s so hard to find a masculine man, past boyfriends have been more concerned with they way they look than I do, constantly obsessed with there appearance, I gave up in the end 🤦♀️ great upload bjorn💛 ps I hope your find your stick😄
I find it so funny that Bjorn is telling us that those "masculinity CZcamsrs" are actually just toxic men and represent toxic masculinity. And instead of explaining to us what healthy masculinity is, Bjorn just sets up a fire and makes some bacon. If that is not the most healthy masculine, most manly thing a man can do to teach others what manhood is then what is? xD
What he's doing is part of masculinity, walking in the woods eating bacon, cleaning his hands on his pants, can you see the new generation doing this? Making their own fire in the woods alone.... In my case I would add a few beers, would take a gun and shoot a few coyotes, fun shit we men like to do.
I grew up in a time when the intact family was the norm (1960s). We had teachers and Scout Leaders who were of the Great Depression/WW2 generation that just oozed testosterone, a few of whom were Veterans. We were surrounded by men and women who showed us how to be masculine without being overly aggressive. We had bullies of course, but something we didn’t realize at the time was that most of those bullies came from some of the few broken homes or had terrible family dynamics at home. My Dad taught us that it’s better to say “it’s my fault” and suffer the consequences, than to lie about it and cover it up. The punishment was double then. Unfortunately today, kids don’t seem to get those life lessons to the same extent that we had (like the bullies in my day) and we’re now seeing the results.
My father was a WWII veteran, and drove a Sherman in the 3rd Armored Division. When he got home, after the war, he became a master mechanic and eventually owned a chain of garages and service stations in Chicago. He was literally the most physically powerful man I've ever met, but he didn't need to display his strength to prove his manliness. He was a gentleman, through and through. He was my role model, in life.
You’re talking about humility… and a lot of us DO have those teachings.. however society is geared towards catering the narcissistic and sociopathic tendencies. Really think about who your hero’s were and think about my generations hero’s… (I’m 25) John Wayne was a lot more of a man than the dude who got famous for being a makeup artist BUT John Wayne wouldn’t be celebrated today. I’m learning the hard way that my parents values actually put me behind.. I care about people, I care about my community, and I’m alone in doing so. It’s stressful. Lmao
@@tbirdddd5818 Funny thing is... I'm pretty sure those "bullies" he's talking about were exactly the type of people who grew up and promoted those narcissistic qualities once they became successful.
@@tbirdddd5818 bullies + success = being able to promote their own unsavory sensibilities when older and more established, what do you not understand my guy?
We are living in a time that allows young men to indefinitely extend their childhood. There are few examples of successful male roll models celebrated in the media and far too few fathers set positive examples for their sons. We raised our son to be a strong, confident man and at 40, he lives to that standard every day.
My grandfather used to say, folks today are forever young, they spend most of their time reading and studdying and never have the time to do anything practical that can put food on their table.
@@daviddanielstephenson2833 They are not even doing that now. I wish they would do some reading but everyone has an attention span of a nat nowadays. Its all about Tiktok likes and stupid challenges that can get you killed for cloat. Disgusting what society has become nowadays.
@@phoenixrising4995 I have no doubt that they are using what are known as shorts, fast avenues of dopamine to kick start their day, instead of typing and or writing something that requires the mind to think for itself. Then on the other hand we have a constant supply of fear from many channels of what may or they think is coming, this is also detrimental to the psyche in many ways and upsets clear and rational thinking.
I came from a divorced family, but luckily I had my step dad. I refer to him to this day as my dad. He taught me what it means to be kind, soft spoken, but also hard working and to be proud of your work. He planted flowers as well as he could weld steel.
In my country, Yorkshire, on mainland Britain, we were taught every aspect of being a Man at school. Sadly our education system became feminised and eventually collapsed in 1970. Seeing these videos has re-kindled my love for the outdoors and I am now working on getting a camper van to enable me as a disabled Man to escape back to nature. Thank you for the inspiration and keep up the good work in spreading the knowledge.
I had the same experience growing up in the 70s in the midwest of the US. We had " shop" class, learning wood working and some light mechanical skills. We also did silk screening, leather works and worked on a variety of other projects as well. Another class was "home economics " which taught things like basic cooking skills, meal planning, creating a household budget, basic home repair. Learning life skills that boys should have on their journey to becoming a man.
@darinhuffman1127 Oh yes, I remember that. In my school we had a fully working forge to learn about making all sorts of things out of steel. Woodwork was held in the room opposite. We had science lessons further down the corridor, where many experiments were carried out. Many a fire, explosion and smell was caused there.
Currently the major issue with women is the fact they are looking for men-boys they can control and use. Being a normal man is not the kind of person they're looking for a relationship... New car, credit card, fancy clothes is what seems to be the trend... Difficult to find the right woman when you're considered as a dinosaur... Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it was very interesting....
Modern men are expected to be domesticated and do the washing, cleaning, cooking, change nappies, etc. The traditional male and female roles seem to be old hat. Give me a dinosaur any day. I don't like blokes who are in touch with their feminine side.
Now read the other comments on this thread that write how they are indoctrinating their sons to be good little gynocentric utility slaves while calling it masculine.
Perhaps had men not been so authoritarian and controlling they wouldn't have opened the path for these things to happen. Had women been seen as team mates and not possessions things would have been better. While I have no desire to control a man I also stay single as I refuse to be controlled. Perhaps it's the veteran in me that caused this. I have seen real men...alive..and mourned at their deaths. I was their team mate....not their property.
Until 3 years ago I kinda lived my life as they say in Italy "con i paraocchi" which means with horse blinders, you are one of those people Bjorn which made me stop and reflect about the true and valuable things in life, you inspired me and I will try to inspire others, stay strong my friends !
Just want to say, this is so cosy and at lack of a better word, wholesome. A chat with a good friend by the fire while breakfast sizzles in the pan. Good times
This is so true. There is a lack of basic self sufficiency skills amongst males. I learnt my skills from my dad, a Royal Navy veteran. He passed his skills to me such as plumbing, electrical work, carpentry, building a fire etc. Having a strong father figure is essential.
@@niilop1107 if only that wasnt disproven several times in the 1700s by miyamoto musashi. he lived a more fullfilling life than all of these moneyhaving material chasing men. he beat 60 men in 1v1 duels to the death. he became a philosophical mind and to this day has created the most smooth and naturally moving martial artists. he build a dojo for others and taught students. he understood life. he also said "theres only one path up the mountain. yes those who take it will come there first and take all its worth. but you will carve your own path and when you reach the top you will not achieve something but rather BECOME something of high value" detach from those things and you will observe reality for the first time in your life.
Fifty years ago, I was in the Boy Scouts, and we would go hiking in the Sierra Nevadas, usually over a weekend but sometimes for up to a week at a time. In the winter, when it was very cold, I would develop a craving for fatty food, especially bacon. I think it was because my body had moved to a higher than usual metabolic rate in order to keep warm. An interesting adaption to being in a cold climate.
I didn't have the fortune to always have a dad to tell me about a lot of this stuff since he always travels for work and is mostly away, so I had to learn about this stuff from the Internet. This video is a Godsend for youngsters, who are looking for a way to understand how to be men. Good work Bjorn
I'm glad you made this. I'm a 23 year old man living in the USA. I think you're absolutely right. The toxicity of the "redpill" or elements of it, is spreading. I'm deeply grateful to see you standing tall against this!
@@bloxnbrixgamer61 Traditional masculinity recognized the strength of men and used it for good. Men worked to protect and serve communities, and those communities valued them. If you look at the ideology of someone like Andrew Tate, you won't find traditional masculinity. Tate owned a webcam porn studio, and was essentially a pimp. The dude even stated that "40%" of the reason he moved to Romania was because sexual assault is rarely prosecuted there. Traditional masculinity is about honesty, integrity, stoicism, strength and community. Strong fathers, not playboys who look for hedonistic gratification even at the expense of others.
@@ST-ly8uf Bro you said the "toxicity of the red pill" there are other moral redpillers out there who spread truth about the modern day women. You brought up Tate because it is an easy scape goat to dismiss the redpill community as a whole.
Men are Warriors and Warriors live by a Code. We seek perfection of Character, Loyalty, Work Smart, Respect Ourselves, Respect Others and Refrain from Un-necessary Violence. We walk a path that can be Stoic, Inquisitive, Reflective, Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Speculative and Applied, we Struggle and we Overcome Obstacles...we are Solution Oriented. We are Unapologetic about who we are.
Great topic Bjorn. I actually had this experience. I'm a combat veteran and a young man in his late 20's who never served in the military suggested to me that because he's played a lot of war video games......... here's what he said; " no disrespect to you but I think I'd be better than you in combat because I gained a lot of experience playing war video games. " There are NO doritos and pepsi breaks in combat. You can't pause combat to take a leak. You won't be puffing a blunt in combat. In combat people shoot real bullets at you. If you run low on ammo in combat you need to adapt, improvise, overcome OR be prepared to DIE! IN COMBAT THE MAN NEXT TO YOU MAY GET SHOT, BLEED REAL BLOOD AND AT THE SAME TIME YOU'RE DEFENDING YOUR POSITION YOU MUST CARE FOR YOUR WOUNDED TEAM MEMBER !
When we were boys, the kid with the rarest yugioh card, magic card, lots of pokemon or what-have-you was always the 'alpha' of our little kid groups and we foolishly worship them, eating up whatever they tell us because we see them as authority figures on the virtue of owning these rare stuff (as kids) Kinda feels very similar to these weird influencers today, but replace yugioh and pokemon cards with cars, women and expensive shit.
While this already existed to some extent before, I think this mindset was particularly perpetuated when us millennials were growing up and by now it has become so toxic and the norm in society.
Hello from WV USA 🇺🇸 Thanks for all the info you have shared with us throughout your time. So much to learn and ponder. Bless you and hope all goes well for you and your family during these strange and stressful times. 🥰 Congratulations on reaching your target and more!! So glad there are people out there who have the funds to be able to share with you like this. Enjoy your breakfast! 😋
You stated the problem pretty well, Bjorn. The only father figure a lot of these guys have ever had was watching TV or rap videos. The problem stems from sequential generations of missing fathers and offspring trying to synthesize manhood based on comical parodies of it from men who didn't have fathers either.
Not missing Father's, Father's who were driven out of the Family home by the weapon/enforcer/bully boy of the woman (the State). Men the Government is your enemy.
@@TheToolnut Yes, in a sense. The majority leave of their own accord, satisfied and happy that society no longer holds a man to account for the kids he produces. So he does it again and again, and the cycle of sorry-assedness proliferates.
@@dangvorbei5304 Women are the gatekeeper's of sex, men are the gate keeper's of relationships. Women should be very selective about the man they mate with. If he bale's out then she choose poorly. The Chad's and Tyrone's will never commit to you because they have options. The problem with modern soyciety is that women can do no wrong. They are indulged at every turn, they are put on a pedestal and are taught from a young age to be unaccountable. If the modern woman didn't have double standards she wouldn't have any standards at all. Single Mother's are not hero's, they are fallen women. No masculine man with even a modicum of self respect would have anything to do with them.
@atheilred I couldn't tell you what traditional values are propounded by rock videos. I hope they don't embrace drug dealing, gang violence and abandonment of the children you create, though, or you can lump them right in too.
Thank God my Daddy was a good role model. He led by example. He always provided for his family. He taught us pride in workmanship, work ethic, when to be tough, when to dig in and get things done and he always stood up for what he believed in. And did all off these things while treating my Momma like a Queen. I feel bad for all of the ones who don’t have a good Father or Father figure in their lives.
I don't trust any man who doesn't love bacon. love your channel brother. as a man who grew up with no father and have 6 kids of my own and 1 more coming,I appreciate you so much. cheers from San Diego 🇺🇲
I wish I had found this channel sooner. I have longed for common sense dialogue coming from a decent man. I appreciate the way you laugh at yourself, and see the humour in small things. Cooking bacon is a small delight in my little family too. It means the kids are home for Sunday breakfast. The conversation at the table warms me to the point that I know, when I die, my kids will look after one another. They will, hopefully, have the strength to carry on with the best we taught them. And live peacefully, in truth.
It's such a shame that these kind of "influencers" get so much attention, but to make an impact myself I will continue to "do the right thing" and lead by example, hoping some people take notice. Great video :)
Like your outlook on being a man. My Dad was the best roll model for a boy growing up. I'd like to say I turned out like him but truthfully no one could ever walk in his shoes, me included. He was on his own at 13 and had a ruff time to grow up in. Despite all that life through at him, he chose a path of always doing the right thing, always. If a want to be a real man, stop blaming life and always do the right thing, always.
I had a great father. Not fisically strong ,but his mind was strong. He told me many things about the second world war when he was captured by the Germans to work in the "arbeitseinsatz" He learned me many things about how people can act in these situations. He also took me into the wild places that were behind our house. He thought me to find berries and learned what was edible in nature. I still remember our skating in the middle of the night watching a full moon which made it so special with all the snow. I was a girl of eight years old, and now I am a woman of 69. The lessons he learned me are valuable until today. This is what man or father has to do, even if you are not a boy but a girl. I still love being in nature and the silence in nature. It gives me the time and opportunity to overthink everything in life that matters. You are so right, real man are needed.
Im 19. Always enjoyed exlporing tbe swamps and woods by my house as a kid. Now, I find myself going in there and making things like old Irish Shillelagh, bows, etc. Building shelters in there, knowing how to find clean water/ learning which streams are safe. I feel like that is a better representation of masculinity than Jack Murphy or Andrew Tate
At least Tate is a kickboxing title holder, you might not like him or agree with what he as a character says but he doesn't portray something he's not. Jack Murphy,by contrast has no real world accomplishments and has a lifestyle that contradicts what he is selling, they are not close to being similar
@@cthulawha They are both snake oil salesmen and people like you said the same thing about Murphy (Goldman) before he was outted. He was a kickboxing champion? Well according to his own logic, he WAS relevant or high value then. That man wouldn't survive without the support of 100 other men stronger than him and the wealth from his fanbase
@Zen2K4R Dont want to come off rude but Joseph is entirely correct mate. The brain controls everything the body does and may I tell you the main function of the brain is expend the least amount of energy possible. So therefore it is naturally inclined to want to do nothing if there is nothing of immediate danger or risk aka lazy behaviour.
I'm in same age as you and I don't have a fancy car or fancy lifestyle but I do have my wife of 25 years and 5 children and when I come home from work they are always there to welcome me home with love and respect and that makes me feel like a man 🙂
Genx here. My father was a boomer and bought in to the pleasure seeking lifestyle. So for that I thank him in showing me how not to live my life. Through his poor life choices he caused alot of trauma and pain. It made me stronger, the adversity messed me up, so I had to figure it out a bit later in life. Mid 20s. It made me tough and realize as man, no one is coming to save you. If you want something you have to grind it out, take the pain to achieve. Me grandfather thought me more how to be a man , he was of the greatest generation. He was sober, loving , steadfast, loyal, and hard working. That's masculine.
My father is about the best example i could have hoped for. Strong, patient, kind, humble and always lives with integrity. I admire him but i do not envy him. I do not buy into the silly ego, ultra agressive, arrogant guys that promote their "masculine" brand. I would say however that todays world and the majority of todays women are not worthy of the self sacrifice that is the centre of true masculinity. Why make a a beautiful banquette when it will only be ravaged by those who are just as happy to eat from a trough? I will go on living my life, trying to be a better person, to enjoy each moment and to be a blessing to those around me. I will not however shackle myself to a wife or submit to government or other social authorities who neither deserve or appreciate it. The social contract is broken. Hopefully a new contract can be forged once this system burns.
Always great to see you Bjorn! Your absolutely right about men (or males LOL) these days. The fact that so many boys grow up without a masculine roll model is a huge problem. There's also a gigantic lack of respect for the Earth in the last few generations. It makes me sick the way people treat the planet. This is our home and it's become a garbage dump. Stay positive and strong! Peace from Southwest Michigan. ✌💀👍🧠🌌♾⚡❤
You are such a breath of fresh air! So nice to see a man that’s mature and loves his family that is really grounded. You are awesome! Thank you for your videos!
Thank you for your insight, I'm growing tired of these superficial types that celebrate never psychologically progressing past high school values. Caught up in material goods and vanity. I see this as a major problem.
To be truly a man, you don't have to label it. Also: If my "masculinity" is "toxic", then by all means, help yourself. I have other things to do, better people to talk to, greater challenges to take on. AND WALK AWAY. If they are "so brave, so stunning, so smart, so powerful" then "you got it" and i'll just get out of the way.
I watch your videos often and find them interesting. The one which stayed with me was your description of man's place in nature being a place where he can urinate freely. That struck a deep chord in me and got me thinking. Masculinity in this form is primal. However masculinity in my thoughts cannot exist without femininity as the two are ends of a single spectrum. Some men can be very feminine in their ways while some women may be masculine so there is an overlap I'm not thinking about sexuality here but rather about individual nature. It is just about who we are and what we learn to be. For my own part I am a strong male but I need to temper that instinct to make me socially acceptable. This is okay by me and I do this by cultivating a wider range on the male/female spectrum which benefits me as a whole person. The negative masculinity as you describe it is so transparent in the modern world with its hollow machismo and it is little wonder there has been a reaction against it. You are one of the few who can actually argue the case for 'real' masculinity which makes you important as the balance needs to be redressed. Toxic masculinity needs to be challenged but I fear that filming yourself frying bacon with an axe will not provide the credibility necessary to challenge the negative stereotypes. The chats with the coffee hit the spot perfectly.
It's hard because parents don't have as much influence over their children as in times past. I know whatever I tried to teach my kids, the school would teach them the exact opposite. I had been teaching my son some Objectivist principles and he decided to do an essay about them for a writing assignment in school. The teacher wrote a note on the paper that she wanted to speak to him after class and she told him she was very concerned with the ideas in his paper. She actually told him that it is much better to think what everybody else thinks and not have your own ideas.
I'm watching your specific videos about masculinity the last two days. Thanks for that. Helps to bring new views on my way to improve. Greetings from the beautiful Lower Rhine Area
Bjorn, it is much appreciated your quiet strength, it is always misunderstood. For what it's worth, I pray for blessings upon you and your family. Ofa 'atu, stay strong.
I grew up in Dinarian Alps, raised by my grandparents who were both from Great generation and lived through wars and hard life. We never talked about feelings and emotions and we never whined about anything. My grandmother was twice a man than modern city men of today are and modern women that screams how strong they are, totally clueless and not 1/10 of a woman compared to women of old. Majority of humanity right now is just embarrassing.
If a man does what he feels comfortable with and not trying to be something someone else tells him to be he should become masculine naturally because that's what he was born to be. All the instincts should move him in that direction.
I am 26 and have recently become very motivated towards self improvement and hard work. These are two things that our society does not value. We have grown to value complacency and laziness, looking for the easy way in life. I wasted most of my 20’s with bad habits and laziness. In retrospect, I should have spent that time on building skills and working hard. I just found your channel now, but thank you for the gentle encouragement.
You do pretty good for an old man. Haha. I'm 60 years old and over the years, I realized that the less I have the happier I am. Fancy new cars, and these big clap trap micromantions, that are popping up in subdivisions all over the place are just vanity. I learned from my dad, who grew up in the great depression, that working hard for what you have, can make you appreciate it more. It is better to be humble and kind. I enjoyed this video.
Bjorn, your commentary on masculinity over the years have always been so insightful on your channel. What’s been occurring in the media space with certain influencers and trends has been appalling. Thanks for your always graceful and straightforward and stoic thoughts my friend. They are needed. Cheers ✊🏼
The generations of fatherless boys and girls is tragic and it is extremely upsetting that much of this 'new world' does not at all realize the very necessary aspect of certain gender roles. My work involves working with children in 'alternative provision' in terms of their education, and more often than not they are in residential homes or foster homes. I am not exaggerating at all here; every single case has the root problem of an absent parent - most often the father. I am not saying single parent families cannot work, and of course not all couples are perfect, but we need to put the issue of raising our next generation at the forefront of what we do as families and as a society. The breakdown of certain gender roles and the promotion of.. lets just say 'novel' lifestyles, has unequivocally contributed to the pernicious collapse of modern society. The sad truth is, in mainstream society, masculinity absolutely is becoming outlawed, you can easily tell just by the daily discourse that surrounds the words and connotations that people readily attribute towards masculinity. It's very refreshing to know that others see that what is being pushed as masculinity is pretty much the opposite. I wish all those 'boys' would spend less time shaping their eyebrows and taking perfect pictures, and maybe watch a Clint Eastwood movie every now and then.
For real. I worked at a retail job for 4 years (and a few others) and seeing simple things like how different men order their sandwiches was horrifying. I was screamed at and yelled at and physically threatened by lots of men (I was NOT intimidated lol. I was friends with the officer we always had on duty and he had my back. A REAL man). It oozes insecurity. So many of them needed fathers to show them small mistakes others make can be reacted to gracefully and without aggression. Or even just simple patience in waiting. As you said, rap videos did all the work there.
There's healthy masculinity which is rare, and then there's toxic masculinity which is rampant these days. I'm happy to be a middle-aged woman now who is invisible to those toxic men and the kind of crap I had to endure from them. Things like Cat-calls, whistles, sexist comments, man-splaining etc. The only trouble is, now I'm looked upon as worthless because I don't attract that kind of attention from men. My experience, lessons I've learned in life and collected skills have no value because I'm not deemed "F-kable" by strangers; the very strangers who would only value a woman for that. And that my friend, is toxic. I would like to live in a society where elders and crones are valued for their experience, stories, knowledge etc
@@greenghost6416 sorry if I was unclear; I'm married and my husband is a fantastic father. I'm glad to have videos that help me to understand how to support my sons' growth and maturity.
A real man listens to good advice, like from Bjorn. A real man takes no part in scams or being scammed, regardless of who or what. Be not overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Bjorn is a good man. Also, Brian Peckford, Patrick McNulty, James Corbett, ... and also add to the list _________________________.
Thank you Bjorn for speaking out about this. I share your thoughts about these channels as I think any right thinking person does. I agree that they are toxic, disgusting and immature. My belief is that these men who promote the stereotyping of women as materialistic, untrustworthy, disposable and worthless past the age of 30 have chronic personality disorders. Their audience is mainly men under 30 who have little real world experience with women and whose fathers were not in the home or any kind of role model. They are sold the idea that the key to a happy life is to make millions, use your wealth to attract women but never let your guard down. It's really very sad. There are also videos on the Cole Hastings channel that also speak out about the negativity of these messages.
Personality disorders? Or prescience? Have you TALKED TO a girl under 30 in the last twenty years? No, you haven't. They're VACUOUS, self-entitled and deluded. MGTOW is common-sense nowadays. Wahmen aren't worth the spit you'd use to............... well, you know.
Glad I finally found a real man on here to say it like it is
Thanks!
@@BjornAndreasBull-Hansengreat video and I agree with everything. Also I have an interest in Norse mythology, would you know much about the Runes?
And what’s your view on Abrahamic religions?
Thanks 🙏
😅😊😅@@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen
@@BudgetGainsByJJpagan stuff 😢
@@andre1987eph ???
As a 35 year old parent teaching his boys to become hard working, respectful, and caring young men I find society itself is becoming a toxic obstacle in that path.
Likewise… I don’t live with my children anymore and the fight to raise them as strong young men and to live with authenticity and integrity is proving very difficult. I feel I now represent a way of life that they are choosing to ignore and there is nothing that I can do about it…
We’re trying to have our first child right now and I’m really worried about this as well. I almost wish there was a course on how to raise children to not be swayed by our awful current culture.
As a 26 year old with a a very young 3 yrs I couldn’t agree more. Society makes this a very difficult job.
@@AmB39 I would sit with your partner and discuss it in depth Adam, it's an incredibly challenging time to be raising children... food prices and fuel prices escalating, hospitals constantly on the back foot, woke ideologies in 99% of schools, crime is on the rise and wages definitely are not going up any time soon.
I'm not trying to put you off I'm just saying so you can prepare mentally as well as financially for whats to come friend! Wish you and your partner all the best for the future.
Thank you very much for trying to build men! My husband and I are trying to do the same with our son. His bio family and foster family bred him to be a huge coward, but he's a good boy, and has been working very hard on choosing to be brave. We hope that the stability and love (and discipline of course) will be enough in this evil and chaotic world!
If you hear the words “alpha”, “beta”, or “high value”, feel free to turn off the video. They have nothing to offer.
If you hear “discipline”, “hard work”, or “honesty” and “integrity”, you can feel fairly safe they’re legit.
@@Holmnielsen- I've never heard a woman mention integrity either.
This is so simple yet encapsulates so much. I love it. Mind if I steal it?
@@TheToolnut you haven't met me or the people in my daily life then. Please consider improving your environment
This
Alpha and beta are the other possible names to refer to narcs.
"Let's talk about healthy masculinity...while I fry bacon with an axe."
You're a legend!
I was hoping he might show how to catch a swordfish with a pointy stick!🤣😂
The thing is he might have a point, but I really can't figure out precisely what it is.
I think I should send him an anglo saxon lyre to top it off and really tie it together.
I love bacon
I was about to write exactly that 😂😂😂
It’s a beautiful thing!!!
I’m a 19 year old boy who grew up without a Father. I never realized how essential masculinity is to a young boy until I got older, so much I had to teach myself, but I was able to because of thought provoking content like this that made me question everything. I hope to break the cycle of bad fathers for my kids one day.
If you haven't spoken to your father one on one yet withhold judgement until you do. Never take a single mother's account of events as fact. If he really was a deadbeat screw him.
Either your Mother had bad judgement or she drove him away.
@Marcus It sounds like he has been White Knighted by his Mother. Women cannot raise a boy to be a man, one needs a man to do that. His Mother picked the wrong man to lie down with or more likely she drove him away. Women are the gate keeper's of sex, men are the gate keeper's of relationships.
@Marcus That is what I was getting at. Maybe I didn't word that last sentence as well as I should have.
Just stay true to yourself;keep on learning and questioning;don’t let others people judgment or misunderstanding stop you on your life quest.Hopefully life won’t be to harsh on you.
My father taught me how to be a man, not explicitly, but through example. He taught me to take responsibility, to care for family, and to try and be the best person you can be.
my father and mother taught me what not to be, trough their own example
My Father taught me how to be a man and I am a woman. I know what it takes and I will do everything it takes. It doesn't matter what is between your legs. It is an understanding and effort toward a noble goal.
@@pamelaj25 So true.
To those in the comments, don't worry, I consider myself extremely lucky and am very grateful to my parents. Neither of my parents grew up in good homes, so they have worked extremely hard to ensure that I grew up in a healthy and loving household, for which I am extremely grateful.
@@pamelaj25 yep daddy got 7 girls before my little brother came along. He taught us all a trade. He said he didn't want us dependant on anyone else but ourselves.
A viking hiking in the woods, cooking bacon with an axe, talking sense into people... Nothing in the so called "manosphere" can get close to this
Hiking Viking
He has to rename his youtube channel now.
What does “manosphere” mean?
Aye pal
Smoke, Drink, Be a real A hole is the kind of masculinity I had shoved down my throat. I was told "You are worth only what you have saved." I put more value in good health and good health habits. I feel in better shape at age 76 than I did at age 16.
WOW great deal John I wish I could claim the same Im 68 and with this spinal stenosis Im hurting lately and feeling 98
I don’t think smoking and drinking has anything to do with your manliness or not. What makes you true is minding your own business without judging others.
Wide words buddy.
Me too! Going to be 76 in December and I feel fantastic! I walk 6 miles every other day and no medical issues.
@@hzj7920 that's the fact the man here has presented in this very comment, I think...being confident and true to one's self ABOVE AND BEYOND any others "thoughts and words..."- and responsible for ACCEPTING *AND most importantly...ADMITTING ones mistakes to MOVE RIGHT PAST THEM...makes a man, this is what I was taughtas the "Native Mind"- way here in the great South West USA, High desert, where a man is made easily by living proper off grid, as MANY hundreds of thousand men, all races have experienced this livelihood...Grateful for the small and LARGE failures, in order to be SUCCESSFUL!!♧IN successful ventures and relationships.
I am 47 and raising my now 13 yr old son...never easy, allways worth it:digital life sucks.
My Dad was a strong man. Physically and mentally. His use of his strength was driven by love and respect. And integrity. He would be physically disgusted by dishonesty. Angered by cruelty. He was a firm, but never harsh, kind, warm and loving father. I hope I have lived well in his light. I am old now. And grateful as ever.
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I'd rather take instruction from a Bull-Hansen than a Bull-Shitter.
The dude is a gem of CZcams.
Thank you, that is very kind of you to say.
❤this comment! I may adopt it along with this video as explanatory material, conversing with people worthy of it’s use in my life😅!
As long as we have men like Bjorn, our society is not lost . Thank you
Thank you, Eliza.
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Another CZcamsr stated, "Boys take and Men give." I thought that was beautifully simple. 💪
Literally admitting that you believe mens only worth as a person, is as a provider.. women are loved unconditionally, men have to sacrifice themselves to be respected..
Same anology as to be seen but never heard, very soul destroying for those who have to endure this kind of abuse.
@The Glorious White Male One that takes payment from smart phones, thank god for modern technology.
And modern women take, and take, and take. When women start to be traditional women again, they will get traditional men.
@@keithfrederick877 It is already too late for most Millennials, fifty two percent of women today are still childless by the time they reach thirty two, as young parents we had alreaady raised our two boys by then and were well on their way in their early teens, glad we did it that way now we get time to relax and enjoy our lives fully.
"Hard times create strong men,
Strong men create good times,
Good times create weak men and
Weak men create hard times..."
This poem fits right into place with what hs happened to society over the last fourty years, like the piece of a jigsaw without the picture to follow for guidance, society always lives or dies by the things it creates and by what it makes.
This is how our hands and minds have died since our industry has been decimated and then redistributed leaving another fall of man, without his or her hand to eye coordination in place we begin to die as a nation, slowly at first then exponentially once we reach a certain level where training for the future has ceased, and are then unable to fend for ourselves.
Strong men and women may create strong boys and girls too.
There are many nasty vicious predatory females out there. But the answer is neither to become their prey, nor to become nasty vicious predatory males. The proper response to a sick society is to be a Man. You are doing good work, Bjorn.
aye. to detach from anger and resentment. to detach from expectations. that is the way of the warrior as musashi miyamoto said himself. that is a nice observation.
the eyes that perceives is weak. the eyes that observes is strong. you are truly an observer. now apply that to the rest of your life and you will be invincible.
Just say no to them.😮
Materialism is an immature and shallow trait, money cannot buy class or Masculinity!
Blokes that think money and a smart car pull birds are shallow. More likely to attract a decent girl if you are walking your dog. There is something very masculine about a man walking with his dogs.
@@amandaduggan9051 Good luck with finding "decent" girls.
Money today is not real money it is electronic and out of sight, like prayers and hopes it is all encompassing, there are many different kinds of materialism, some sustainable and some that need feeding with the ego and anothers energy.
@@greenghost6416 by the name amanda im assuming shes a woman
@@amandaduggan9051 due to the forced injections my wife and l have parted ways and for the sake of my children iv left her everything we owned , house furniture car and savings.
It’s been twelve months now and l think I’m ready to look for a girlfriend or companion and it will be interesting how that will go for me.
I heartily agree with you Bjorn, these young men are getting sucked in by these ‘influencers’ which are basically narcissistic conmen who get rich at their expense because they have no respect for their victims. I implore young men everywhere don’t give a penny to them or buy the products, apply critical thinking.
Absolutely!
Yep! I wish critical thinking was more common than it is, the world would be a much better place.
@The Glorious White Male or maybe he wants to make a living?? Most of these people hes talking about have 100x or even 10000x his networth
i get the conmen's but WHERE THE F**k were their parents when those kids were growing up?! my father was an asshole, real one. but despite that he taught me quite a lot, but what's happening today with "modern parents" is just horrific.
There are some good channels out there. One good one is Hammerhand. His main phrase is integrity, accountability, and controlling your biology. Terrance Popp is another good one, but he tends to lean more towards comedy to get his point across. Both normal Joe's. No expensive suits or cars.
Owning your mistakes, shortcomings, and faults is part of being a masculine man. Knowing your weaknesses and overcoming them is a neverending process of becoming the best you can be. Thank you Bjorn for another inspiring video. Keep Fighting the Good Fight!
Works constantly for me too.
Ook the bacon roght5
This should be the standard for all people... But I am a masculine female, so I think that people should know their weaknesses and shortcomings. I know I can't beat a guy in a fight, but I follow the "talk softly and carry a big stick" mentality.
Those things should be part of being an adult in my opinion.
Well said
My father never sat me down and taught me what a man is. He just WAS, and i watched and learned. The alarming divorce rate has cheated many boys from that experience.
my boomer father didn't teach me one single skill. he spent his free time taking naps, watching tv, and going to the bar. we had to beg him to do activities on the week end, and 95% of the time he would prefer going to the bar. i always felt i was behind other guys from my generation and as an adult i finally realized it was because of my absent father. when you become an adult you see the dark side of your parents.
I've heard this same story over and over again.
~Gen-X
Pretty much my father, except that instead to going to the bar, he would send me to study and then ingnore me.
That sounds like intervention tv show, always the parents fault or someone elses fault.
@@1888bry
Nah, Boomer parents just sucked.
We never watched tv, I took my sons walking in the mountains, shooting and learned them how to build stone walls, anything practical, my grandfathers saying was, don't tell me show me, something that most men who only talk fail to do and or share, talking is cheap if you cannot follow it up with something you have made.
Bacon frying over an open fire, fresh brewed campsite coffee, and the smells of the woods as you start your day...sounds like a life of perfection!
Most of the red-pilled dating coaches are just incel-farming: Selling lonely men a dream on how to get laid and/or convince a woman to actually treat them with some respect. It's a tall order these days for many guys.
I don't understand what the point this comment is?
I agree but at the same time its better than to be lazy and weak
Qe are thinking thinking hard about it. Men are men. Put them in place for men they adapt. U can over think and say your weak, but men are weak so we adapt
@@greenghost6416 that's a you problem, the statement is very simple.
@@greenghost6416 It's a fantasy comment.
This alpha/beta/omega stuff is the new mythology, and I get why a lot of young men feel they need it for something to aim for, particularly in these nihilistic times. But the ones going around saying "I'm an alpha" are ridiculous; it's the equivalent of a medieval Norseman going around saying "I'm Thor".
That's entirely the point of Gods you dimwit. You're supposed to emulate them and embody the values they represent... So you can be a more useful person.
The alpha/beta thing is exactly the same. Everyone knows what you mean when you talk about alpha behaviour... Men should absolutely not be a caricature but they should definitely be moving away from the traits of the 'beta'
what a wonderful insight! I never thought of "omega-alpha" as mythology elements
nicely observed and concluded man. always liked what those symbolic things meant rather than what they were imitated as,
many examples of so called alphas and then theres actual creators on youtube who subscribe and help mythologise them even more. however i think the alpha beta and omega thing has been gone for a while now and it is now sigma male or gigachad who are basically the mindset and the embodiment of what we should strive for in men, always presented in a meme where he saves a young man from turning completely resentfull or even presented as suicide. and always showing young men to accept the world as it is and see the opportunities in it instead.
no man was truly as extreme and personfied as thor was. if any that would be my dad XD (im danish btw) he was an extremefied version of a personality we all know
I knew we were in trouble in the UK when the men's toiletries section in Boots the Chemist was bigger than the women's. I grew up around proper men who appreciated women, were practical, and could fix things and protect their families. They didn't feel the need to prove themselves by showing off or taking unnecessary risks. They just exuded masculinity. I met my man when I was just 18 and we have been together for 50 years. I am not sure relationships can survive that long these days, our youth do not seem to know what a man or a woman is.
I agree. Myself, I am at the level where you use the same oil for your axe as for your beard.
@@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen I dread to think about what my husband puts on his beard; engine oil probably.
It's also the 24/7 consumer society where people get bored, want everything immediately and everything is disposable, including relationships. But then this is not exactly new, we've had it for the best part of half a century.
You did the right thing, you married when you were in your prime.
@@TheToolnut Yes, and we had the best years as teenagers in the early 70s.
They want men weak and confused, unable to provide, it’s so hard to find a masculine man, past boyfriends have been more concerned with they way they look than I do, constantly obsessed with there appearance, I gave up in the end 🤦♀️ great upload bjorn💛 ps I hope your find your stick😄
I know what you mean. It’s almost like a beauty contest between me a and women
Thats just complexes and ego, but ofcourse you wouldmt want to be with a man that isnt taking care of himself?0
A man can take care of himself but many men are openly competing with women in terms of appearance…is that masculine?
What age group are you referring to ?
Iv noticed this with the young men at work in the last ten years I’m 55 so I’m referring to the 25/35 set.
What is your hymen status?
I find it so funny that Bjorn is telling us that those "masculinity CZcamsrs" are actually just toxic men and represent toxic masculinity. And instead of explaining to us what healthy masculinity is, Bjorn just sets up a fire and makes some bacon. If that is not the most healthy masculine, most manly thing a man can do to teach others what manhood is then what is? xD
The opposite of what those guys are
What he's doing is part of masculinity, walking in the woods eating bacon, cleaning his hands on his pants, can you see the new generation doing this? Making their own fire in the woods alone.... In my case I would add a few beers, would take a gun and shoot a few coyotes, fun shit we men like to do.
Instincts its in us all just look inside and not outside.
you listen without hearing.
Anyone else get a pop up ad plugging testosterone pills on this video? Very subtle CZcams….I wish I was joking
I grew up in a time when the intact family was the norm (1960s). We had teachers and Scout Leaders who were of the Great Depression/WW2 generation that just oozed testosterone, a few of whom were Veterans. We were surrounded by men and women who showed us how to be masculine without being overly aggressive. We had bullies of course, but something we didn’t realize at the time was that most of those bullies came from some of the few broken homes or had terrible family dynamics at home. My Dad taught us that it’s better to say “it’s my fault” and suffer the consequences, than to lie about it and cover it up. The punishment was double then. Unfortunately today, kids don’t seem to get those life lessons to the same extent that we had (like the bullies in my day) and we’re now seeing the results.
My father was a WWII veteran, and drove a Sherman in the 3rd Armored Division. When he got home, after the war, he became a master mechanic and eventually owned a chain of garages and service stations in Chicago. He was literally the most physically powerful man I've ever met, but he didn't need to display his strength to prove his manliness. He was a gentleman, through and through. He was my role model, in life.
You’re talking about humility… and a lot of us DO have those teachings.. however society is geared towards catering the narcissistic and sociopathic tendencies. Really think about who your hero’s were and think about my generations hero’s… (I’m 25)
John Wayne was a lot more of a man than the dude who got famous for being a makeup artist BUT John Wayne wouldn’t be celebrated today. I’m learning the hard way that my parents values actually put me behind.. I care about people, I care about my community, and I’m alone in doing so. It’s stressful. Lmao
@@tbirdddd5818
Funny thing is...
I'm pretty sure those "bullies" he's talking about were exactly the type of people who grew up and promoted those narcissistic qualities once they became successful.
@@shelbyspeaks3287 what’re you on about?
@@tbirdddd5818 bullies + success = being able to promote their own unsavory sensibilities when older and more established, what do you not understand my guy?
We are living in a time that allows young men to indefinitely extend their childhood. There are few examples of successful male roll models celebrated in the media and far too few fathers set positive examples for their sons. We raised our son to be a strong, confident man and at 40, he lives to that standard every day.
That's because women now own and operate the world and men are kicked out of the home for some feminist reason or the other.
Good way to put it ...extend their childhood
My grandfather used to say, folks today are forever young, they spend most of their time reading and studdying and never have the time to do anything practical that can put food on their table.
@@daviddanielstephenson2833 They are not even doing that now. I wish they would do some reading but everyone has an attention span of a nat nowadays. Its all about Tiktok likes and stupid challenges that can get you killed for cloat. Disgusting what society has become nowadays.
@@phoenixrising4995 I have no doubt that they are using what are known as shorts, fast avenues of dopamine to kick start their day, instead of typing and or writing something that requires the mind to think for itself.
Then on the other hand we have a constant supply of fear from many channels of what may or they think is coming, this is also detrimental to the psyche in many ways and upsets clear and rational thinking.
I came from a divorced family, but luckily I had my step dad. I refer to him to this day as my dad. He taught me what it means to be kind, soft spoken, but also hard working and to be proud of your work. He planted flowers as well as he could weld steel.
In my country, Yorkshire, on mainland Britain, we were taught every aspect of being a Man at school. Sadly our education system became feminised and eventually collapsed in 1970. Seeing these videos has re-kindled my love for the outdoors and I am now working on getting a camper van to enable me as a disabled Man to escape back to nature. Thank you for the inspiration and keep up the good work in spreading the knowledge.
Congratulations.
You live in a beautiful part of the world to do that.
I had the same experience growing up in the 70s in the midwest of the US.
We had " shop" class, learning wood working and some light mechanical skills. We also did silk screening, leather works and worked on a variety of other projects as well. Another class was "home economics " which taught things like basic cooking skills, meal planning, creating a household budget, basic home repair. Learning life skills that boys should have on their journey to becoming a man.
@darinhuffman1127 Oh yes, I remember that. In my school we had a fully working forge to learn about making all sorts of things out of steel. Woodwork was held in the room opposite. We had science lessons further down the corridor, where many experiments were carried out. Many a fire, explosion and smell was caused there.
Currently the major issue with women is the fact they are looking for men-boys they can control and use. Being a normal man is not the kind of person they're looking for a relationship... New car, credit card, fancy clothes is what seems to be the trend... Difficult to find the right woman when you're considered as a dinosaur... Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it was very interesting....
Modern men are expected to be domesticated and do the washing, cleaning, cooking, change nappies, etc. The traditional male and female roles seem to be old hat. Give me a dinosaur any day. I don't like blokes who are in touch with their feminine side.
Go to church and you will find good women.
Now read the other comments on this thread that write how they are indoctrinating their sons to be good little gynocentric utility slaves while calling it masculine.
Perhaps had men not been so authoritarian and controlling they wouldn't have opened the path for these things to happen. Had women been seen as team mates and not possessions things would have been better. While I have no desire to control a man I also stay single as I refuse to be controlled. Perhaps it's the veteran in me that caused this. I have seen real men...alive..and mourned at their deaths. I was their team mate....not their property.
Both men and women are stuck. World population has stalled first time in history. I and many honestly have no idea how to proceed.
Bjorn, thank you for posting this. Trying to raise boys in this world is not easy. I have been a subscriber since you had 22k followers.
Until 3 years ago I kinda lived my life as they say in Italy "con i paraocchi" which means with horse blinders, you are one of those people Bjorn which made me stop and reflect about the true and valuable things in life, you inspired me and I will try to inspire others, stay strong my friends !
Just want to say, this is so cosy and at lack of a better word, wholesome. A chat with a good friend by the fire while breakfast sizzles in the pan. Good times
This is so true. There is a lack of basic self sufficiency skills amongst males. I learnt my skills from my dad, a Royal Navy veteran. He passed his skills to me such as plumbing, electrical work, carpentry, building a fire etc. Having a strong father figure is essential.
Being a man, is about how you live your life. Having a lot of money doesn't make you more masculine than the man who doesn't have as much.
Money is power and power is the most important aspect of a masculine man.
@@niilop1107 wrong
@atheilred if you are in a difficult situation, such as stranded in the wilderness. Your money won't save you.
@@niilop1107 if only that wasnt disproven several times in the 1700s by miyamoto musashi. he lived a more fullfilling life than all of these moneyhaving material chasing men.
he beat 60 men in 1v1 duels to the death.
he became a philosophical mind and to this day has created the most smooth and naturally moving martial artists.
he build a dojo for others and taught students. he understood life.
he also said "theres only one path up the mountain. yes those who take it will come there first and take all its worth. but you will carve your own path and when you reach the top you will not achieve something but rather BECOME something of high value"
detach from those things and you will observe reality for the first time in your life.
Fifty years ago, I was in the Boy Scouts, and we would go hiking in the Sierra Nevadas, usually over a weekend but sometimes for up to a week at a time. In the winter, when it was very cold, I would develop a craving for fatty food, especially bacon. I think it was because my body had moved to a higher than usual metabolic rate in order to keep warm. An interesting adaption to being in a cold climate.
Rocket Science.
I didn't have the fortune to always have a dad to tell me about a lot of this stuff since he always travels for work and is mostly away, so I had to learn about this stuff from the Internet. This video is a Godsend for youngsters, who are looking for a way to understand how to be men.
Good work Bjorn
Thank you!
I'm glad you made this. I'm a 23 year old man living in the USA. I think you're absolutely right. The toxicity of the "redpill" or elements of it, is spreading. I'm deeply grateful to see you standing tall against this!
Muh toxic masculinity is what you really mean.
@@bloxnbrixgamer61 Traditional masculinity recognized the strength of men and used it for good. Men worked to protect and serve communities, and those communities valued them.
If you look at the ideology of someone like Andrew Tate, you won't find traditional masculinity. Tate owned a webcam porn studio, and was essentially a pimp. The dude even stated that "40%" of the reason he moved to Romania was because sexual assault is rarely prosecuted there.
Traditional masculinity is about honesty, integrity, stoicism, strength and community. Strong fathers, not playboys who look for hedonistic gratification even at the expense of others.
@@ST-ly8uf Bro you said the "toxicity of the red pill" there are other moral redpillers out there who spread truth about the modern day women.
You brought up Tate because it is an easy scape goat to dismiss the redpill community as a whole.
It's not about men only. I'm a woman and I think it's about adulthood. Today generations struggle to grow up into mature human beings.
Masculinity isn't toxic. The absence of it is.
It's dangerous too. It's absence is the breeding ground for the narcissist. Manipulating one's way through the world, and consuming the other.
You do represent the authentically masculine for me. Just like your collegue Jonna Jinton represents the truly feminine.
It’s just a shame she lives in Sweden and never talks about what a complete disaster her country has become like she should be.
Truly. Like becoming an influencer and not having children.
@@comtaar2245 good point... Do you have a better example though? They are really hard to find..
@@thatperformer3879 Mass immigration from 3rd world countries is destroying Western Civilization! It is called "The Kalergi/Pan-European Plan"!
@@johannakunze3300 you might try. Sydney Watson,Brittany Moore on mrctv, girls on the right
Men are Warriors and Warriors live by a Code. We seek perfection of Character, Loyalty, Work Smart, Respect Ourselves, Respect Others and Refrain from Un-necessary Violence. We walk a path that can be Stoic, Inquisitive, Reflective, Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Speculative and Applied, we Struggle and we Overcome Obstacles...we are Solution Oriented.
We are Unapologetic about who we are.
That background along with your soothing voice calms me and gives me peace of mind. Thank you for all you do.
Great topic Bjorn.
I actually had this experience.
I'm a combat veteran and a young man in his late 20's who never served in the military suggested to me that because he's played a lot of war video games.........
here's what he said;
" no disrespect to you but I think I'd be better than you in combat because I gained a lot of experience playing war video games. "
There are NO doritos and pepsi breaks in combat.
You can't pause combat to take a leak.
You won't be puffing a blunt in combat.
In combat people shoot real bullets at you.
If you run low on ammo in combat you need to adapt, improvise, overcome OR be prepared to DIE!
IN COMBAT THE MAN NEXT TO YOU MAY GET SHOT, BLEED REAL BLOOD AND AT THE SAME TIME YOU'RE DEFENDING YOUR POSITION YOU MUST CARE FOR YOUR WOUNDED TEAM MEMBER !
There's some stupid people out there, just ignore them and move on. Thank you for your service.
@@ironpumpkin0182 i appreciate that!
Oh god that is one of the stupidest statements someone has said🙈
I say let him have that victory. Those games are so popular people get rich streaming it. It's almost a sport
Risking your life to advance the interests of the globalist imperialists doesn't make you a man, it makes you a sucker.
My dad always said "help people when you can, never back down and dont do anything you would be ashamed to tell your grandchildren "
When we were boys, the kid with the rarest yugioh card, magic card, lots of pokemon or what-have-you was always the 'alpha' of our little kid groups and we foolishly worship them, eating up whatever they tell us because we see them as authority figures on the virtue of owning these rare stuff (as kids)
Kinda feels very similar to these weird influencers today, but replace yugioh and pokemon cards with cars, women and expensive shit.
While this already existed to some extent before, I think this mindset was particularly perpetuated when us millennials were growing up and by now it has become so toxic and the norm in society.
Hello from WV USA 🇺🇸
Thanks for all the info you have shared with us throughout your time. So much to learn and ponder. Bless you and hope all goes well for you and your family during these strange and stressful times. 🥰
Congratulations on reaching your target and more!! So glad there are people out there who have the funds to be able to share with you like this.
Enjoy your breakfast! 😋
We're WV too.
Best state!
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Greetings from Morgantown!
@@Docneg Hello from Martinsburg!
@@JenniferMoleski Hello from Martinsburg!
Discovering an unpretentious man posting meaningful content has been a breath of fresh air, literally . . . Thank you, Bjorn!
You stated the problem pretty well, Bjorn. The only father figure a lot of these guys have ever had was watching TV or rap videos. The problem stems from sequential generations of missing fathers and offspring trying to synthesize manhood based on comical parodies of it from men who didn't have fathers either.
Not missing Father's, Father's who were driven out of the Family home by the weapon/enforcer/bully boy of the woman (the State). Men the Government is your enemy.
@@TheToolnut Yes, in a sense. The majority leave of their own accord, satisfied and happy that society no longer holds a man to account for the kids he produces. So he does it again and again, and the cycle of sorry-assedness proliferates.
@@dangvorbei5304 Women are the gatekeeper's of sex, men are the gate keeper's of relationships. Women should be very selective about the man they mate with. If he bale's out then she choose poorly. The Chad's and Tyrone's will never commit to you because they have options. The problem with modern soyciety is that women can do no wrong. They are indulged at every turn, they are put on a pedestal and are taught from a young age to be unaccountable. If the modern woman didn't have double standards she wouldn't have any standards at all. Single Mother's are not hero's, they are fallen women. No masculine man with even a modicum of self respect would have anything to do with them.
@atheilred I couldn't tell you what traditional values are propounded by rock videos. I hope they don't embrace drug dealing, gang violence and abandonment of the children you create, though, or you can lump them right in too.
Thank God my Daddy was a good role model. He led by example. He always provided for his family. He taught us pride in workmanship, work ethic, when to be tough, when to dig in and get things done and he always stood up for what he believed in. And did all off these things while treating my Momma like a Queen.
I feel bad for all of the ones who don’t have a good Father or Father figure in their lives.
Treat a woman like a queen and she will treat you like one of her subjects.
I don't trust any man who doesn't love bacon.
love your channel brother. as a man who grew up with no father and have 6 kids of my own and 1 more coming,I appreciate you so much. cheers from San Diego 🇺🇲
Thank you, and congratulations!
I wish I had found this channel sooner. I have longed for common sense dialogue coming from a decent man. I appreciate the way you laugh at yourself, and see the humour in small things. Cooking bacon is a small delight in my little family too. It means the kids are home for Sunday breakfast. The conversation at the table warms me to the point that I know, when I die, my kids will look after one another. They will, hopefully, have the strength to carry on with the best we taught them. And live peacefully, in truth.
Real man will be always a genuine creature.
It's such a shame that these kind of "influencers" get so much attention, but to make an impact myself I will continue to "do the right thing" and lead by example, hoping some people take notice. Great video :)
Like your outlook on being a man. My Dad was the best roll model for a boy growing up. I'd like to say I turned out like him but truthfully no one could ever walk in his shoes, me included. He was on his own at 13 and had a ruff time to grow up in. Despite all that life through at him, he chose a path of always doing the right thing, always. If a want to be a real man, stop blaming life and always do the right thing, always.
I had a great father. Not fisically strong ,but his mind was strong. He told me many things about the second world war when he was captured by the Germans to work in the "arbeitseinsatz" He learned me many things about how people can act in these situations.
He also took me into the wild places that were behind our house. He thought me to find berries and learned what was edible in nature. I still remember our skating in the middle of the night watching a full moon which made it so special with all the snow.
I was a girl of eight years old, and now I am a woman of 69. The lessons he learned me are valuable until today.
This is what man or father has to do, even if you are not a boy but a girl. I still love being in nature and the silence in nature. It gives me the time and opportunity to overthink everything in life that matters. You are so right, real man are needed.
Im 19. Always enjoyed exlporing tbe swamps and woods by my house as a kid. Now, I find myself going in there and making things like old Irish Shillelagh, bows, etc.
Building shelters in there, knowing how to find clean water/ learning which streams are safe. I feel like that is a better representation of masculinity than Jack Murphy or Andrew Tate
Yes. And i tell you as a tarnished man,be honorable. Your honor is precious
At least Tate is a kickboxing title holder, you might not like him or agree with what he as a character says but he doesn't portray something he's not. Jack Murphy,by contrast has no real world accomplishments and has a lifestyle that contradicts what he is selling, they are not close to being similar
@@cthulawha They are both snake oil salesmen and people like you said the same thing about Murphy (Goldman) before he was outted. He was a kickboxing champion? Well according to his own logic, he WAS relevant or high value then.
That man wouldn't survive without the support of 100 other men stronger than him and the wealth from his fanbase
Traditional masculinity is a natural thing. Being lazy and entitled can and must be broken at a young age, as being lazy is also a natural thing
Our countries could be healed by having youth corps and the associated hard work
@Zen2K4R Dont want to come off rude but Joseph is entirely correct mate. The brain controls everything the body does and may I tell you the main function of the brain is expend the least amount of energy possible. So therefore it is naturally inclined to want to do nothing if there is nothing of immediate danger or risk aka lazy behaviour.
Being lazy is not a natural thing. People enjoy being productive.
Great informative video as always Bjorn, what you do is exactly part of what masculinity is really about. Best from the UK.
Thank you. I take that as a great compliment!
@@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen It's always a pleasure hearing your insight.
Watching you there is like being with you, enjoying the same experience. I didn't want to leave! But thank you for the wonderful time 😊❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
I'm in same age as you and I don't have a fancy car or fancy lifestyle but I do have my wife of 25 years and 5 children and when I come home from work they are always there to welcome me home with love and respect and that makes me feel like a man 🙂
We love you, Bjorn! Never stop being who you are. It gives my spirit joy when I know there is a new video up to watch.
Same here
Genx here. My father was a boomer and bought in to the pleasure seeking lifestyle. So for that I thank him in showing me how not to live my life. Through his poor life choices he caused alot of trauma and pain. It made me stronger, the adversity messed me up, so I had to figure it out a bit later in life. Mid 20s. It made me tough and realize as man, no one is coming to save you. If you want something you have to grind it out, take the pain to achieve. Me grandfather thought me more how to be a man , he was of the greatest generation. He was sober, loving , steadfast, loyal, and hard working. That's masculine.
My father is about the best example i could have hoped for. Strong, patient, kind, humble and always lives with integrity.
I admire him but i do not envy him.
I do not buy into the silly ego, ultra agressive, arrogant guys that promote their "masculine" brand.
I would say however that todays world and the majority of todays women are not worthy of the self sacrifice that is the centre of true masculinity.
Why make a a beautiful banquette when it will only be ravaged by those who are just as happy to eat from a trough?
I will go on living my life, trying to be a better person, to enjoy each moment and to be a blessing to those around me. I will not however shackle myself to a wife or submit to government or other social authorities who neither deserve or appreciate it.
The social contract is broken. Hopefully a new contract can be forged once this system burns.
Your comment was most interesting sir... thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Always great to see you Bjorn!
Your absolutely right about men (or males LOL) these days. The fact that so many boys grow up without a masculine roll model is a huge problem. There's also a gigantic lack of respect for the Earth in the last few generations. It makes me sick the way people treat the planet. This is our home and it's become a garbage dump. Stay positive and strong!
Peace from Southwest Michigan.
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Hey Bjorn, I’ve been a subscriber for a few months. This is definitely what men need to hear. These new influencers are leading young men astray.
There does seem to be a lot more dolly mixture types who identify as anything other than a man. Very worrying for the female of the species.
@@amandaduggan9051 Two sides of the same coin. Alas, the way the way they try to influence our girls is no better.
You are such a breath of fresh air! So nice to see a man that’s mature and loves his family that is really grounded.
You are awesome! Thank you for your videos!
Thank you!
Thank you for your insight, I'm growing tired of these superficial types that celebrate never psychologically progressing past high school values. Caught up in material goods and vanity. I see this as a major problem.
To be truly a man, you don't have to label it.
Also: If my "masculinity" is "toxic", then by all means, help yourself. I have other things to do, better people to talk to, greater challenges to take on. AND WALK AWAY.
If they are "so brave, so stunning, so smart, so powerful" then "you got it" and i'll just get out of the way.
Based
I recently thought I should check to make sure I was still subscribed because I hadn't seen you in awhile. Glad to see you back.
Thank you for talking about this . Guys like Andrew tit need to be called out , they are misleading a lot of young people
I watch your videos often and find them interesting. The one which stayed with me was your description of man's place in nature being a place where he can urinate freely. That struck a deep chord in me and got me thinking. Masculinity in this form is primal. However masculinity in my thoughts cannot exist without femininity as the two are ends of a single spectrum. Some men can be very feminine in their ways while some women may be masculine so there is an overlap I'm not thinking about sexuality here but rather about individual nature. It is just about who we are and what we learn to be. For my own part I am a strong male but I need to temper that instinct to make me socially acceptable. This is okay by me and I do this by cultivating a wider range on the male/female spectrum which benefits me as a whole person. The negative masculinity as you describe it is so transparent in the modern world with its hollow machismo and it is little wonder there has been a reaction against it. You are one of the few who can actually argue the case for 'real' masculinity which makes you important as the balance needs to be redressed. Toxic masculinity needs to be challenged but I fear that filming yourself frying bacon with an axe will not provide the credibility necessary to challenge the negative stereotypes. The chats with the coffee hit the spot perfectly.
I bought a 20 acre farm mostly so I can pee where ever I want.
It's hard because parents don't have as much influence over their children as in times past. I know whatever I tried to teach my kids, the school would teach them the exact opposite. I had been teaching my son some Objectivist principles and he decided to do an essay about them for a writing assignment in school. The teacher wrote a note on the paper that she wanted to speak to him after class and she told him she was very concerned with the ideas in his paper. She actually told him that it is much better to think what everybody else thinks and not have your own ideas.
I'm watching your specific videos about masculinity the last two days. Thanks for that. Helps to bring new views on my way to improve.
Greetings from the beautiful Lower Rhine Area
“Waking up to the sound of bacon in a frying pan after spending a night in the woods… That’s a good life.“ AGREED!
Bjorn, it is much appreciated your quiet strength, it is always misunderstood.
For what it's worth, I pray for blessings upon you and your family.
Ofa 'atu, stay strong.
The only thing that I see wrong with this video, is that you need several more packages of BACON!!!
Question is if real masculinity is still allowed now. As you I live in Scandinavia and as I experience it men are expected to act as women nowadays.
If you need to be allowed by others to be a real man,then youre not worthy yet to be one.
@@CheisYang Well said. 👏🏼
Not sure wtf you are talking about
Filter your water dude…just filter your water!…and then not just the water becomes clearer!
Move were its in style
Colorado, USA Bjorn, you are so important to our world! My husband also watches with me. I count myself fortunate that I found a good man.
Elsker dine videoer Bjørn, bliv ved med at give din feedback og dine tanker til folket!
Tusen takk!
I grew up in Dinarian Alps, raised by my grandparents who were both from Great generation and lived through wars and hard life. We never talked about feelings and emotions and we never whined about anything. My grandmother was twice a man than modern city men of today are and modern women that screams how strong they are, totally clueless and not 1/10 of a woman compared to women of old. Majority of humanity right now is just embarrassing.
It was a woodpecker that agreed with you Bjørn, As do I
Thanks, and yes, they are very territorial in that particular area. The woodpeckers, that is, haha.
13:19 "and they try to be so tough", cooking with saw & axe, no chopsticks available
Thank you Bjorn.
I hope to teach my son close to as well as my father taught me. It's a tall order.
Love the axe spatula, Bjorn! Great video.
If a man does what he feels comfortable with and not trying to be something someone else tells him to be he should become masculine naturally because that's what he was born to be. All the instincts should move him in that direction.
We are the same age, and it's allways a plesure listening to you!
Stirring bacon with an axe - LOVE it! Bet that tasted wonderful. Thanks as always for your real streams!
I am 26 and have recently become very motivated towards self improvement and hard work. These are two things that our society does not value. We have grown to value complacency and laziness, looking for the easy way in life.
I wasted most of my 20’s with bad habits and laziness. In retrospect, I should have spent that time on building skills and working hard.
I just found your channel now, but thank you for the gentle encouragement.
You do pretty good for an old man. Haha. I'm 60 years old and over the years, I realized that the less I have the happier I am. Fancy new cars, and these big clap trap micromantions, that are popping up in subdivisions all over the place are just vanity. I learned from my dad, who grew up in the great depression, that working hard for what you have, can make you appreciate it more. It is better to be humble and kind. I enjoyed this video.
In the 1950s (post war) they invented “teenagers” for a reason ..
be polite, be gentle, be strong. be honest
Bjorn, your commentary on masculinity over the years have always been so insightful on your channel. What’s been occurring in the media space with certain influencers and trends has been appalling. Thanks for your always graceful and straightforward and stoic thoughts my friend. They are needed. Cheers ✊🏼
The generations of fatherless boys and girls is tragic and it is extremely upsetting that much of this 'new world' does not at all realize the very necessary aspect of certain gender roles. My work involves working with children in 'alternative provision' in terms of their education, and more often than not they are in residential homes or foster homes. I am not exaggerating at all here; every single case has the root problem of an absent parent - most often the father. I am not saying single parent families cannot work, and of course not all couples are perfect, but we need to put the issue of raising our next generation at the forefront of what we do as families and as a society. The breakdown of certain gender roles and the promotion of.. lets just say 'novel' lifestyles, has unequivocally contributed to the pernicious collapse of modern society.
The sad truth is, in mainstream society, masculinity absolutely is becoming outlawed, you can easily tell just by the daily discourse that surrounds the words and connotations that people readily attribute towards masculinity. It's very refreshing to know that others see that what is being pushed as masculinity is pretty much the opposite. I wish all those 'boys' would spend less time shaping their eyebrows and taking perfect pictures, and maybe watch a Clint Eastwood movie every now and then.
For real. I worked at a retail job for 4 years (and a few others) and seeing simple things like how different men order their sandwiches was horrifying. I was screamed at and yelled at and physically threatened by lots of men (I was NOT intimidated lol. I was friends with the officer we always had on duty and he had my back. A REAL man). It oozes insecurity. So many of them needed fathers to show them small mistakes others make can be reacted to gracefully and without aggression. Or even just simple patience in waiting. As you said, rap videos did all the work there.
There's healthy masculinity which is rare, and then there's toxic masculinity which is rampant these days. I'm happy to be a middle-aged woman now who is invisible to those toxic men and the kind of crap I had to endure from them. Things like Cat-calls, whistles, sexist comments, man-splaining etc. The only trouble is, now I'm looked upon as worthless because I don't attract that kind of attention from men. My experience, lessons I've learned in life and collected skills have no value because I'm not deemed "F-kable" by strangers; the very strangers who would only value a woman for that. And that my friend, is toxic. I would like to live in a society where elders and crones are valued for their experience, stories, knowledge etc
As a mother raising five sons, I really appreciate your wisdom.
My mom raised three boys... you got your hands full, that's for sure. 😁
Get some real male influence for your sons.
@@greenghost6416 sorry if I was unclear; I'm married and my husband is a fantastic father. I'm glad to have videos that help me to understand how to support my sons' growth and maturity.
A real man listens to good advice, like from Bjorn. A real man takes no part in scams or being scammed, regardless of who or what. Be not overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Bjorn is a good man. Also, Brian Peckford, Patrick McNulty, James Corbett, ... and also add to the list _________________________.
Thank you Bjorn for speaking out about this. I share your thoughts about these channels as I think any right thinking person does. I agree that they are toxic, disgusting and immature. My belief is that these men who promote the stereotyping of women as materialistic, untrustworthy, disposable and worthless past the age of 30 have chronic personality disorders. Their audience is mainly men under 30 who have little real world experience with women and whose fathers were not in the home or any kind of role model. They are sold the idea that the key to a happy life is to make millions, use your wealth to attract women but never let your guard down. It's really very sad. There are also videos on the Cole Hastings channel that also speak out about the negativity of these messages.
Personality disorders? Or prescience?
Have you TALKED TO a girl under 30 in the last twenty years? No, you haven't.
They're VACUOUS, self-entitled and deluded.
MGTOW is common-sense nowadays. Wahmen aren't worth the spit you'd use to............... well, you know.
This world has many males/females, but very few men and women. Because moral character and solid backbones are in short supply!
Always good videos Bjorn stay well and best regards to you and everyone from the UK 🇬🇧😄😗