Overcoming Insecurity + the #1 Tip for Relationships feat. Sahil Bloom | Ep. 318

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  • čas přidán 19. 05. 2024
  • We are so excited to sit down with entrepreneur/speaker/overall inspirational human Sahil Bloom to talk about love, life, career, and unhinged male behavior. He shares how he spent so many years having negative self-talk and seeking external validation, and how he overcame his insecurities and found his identity. He also shares why extremes of self-help advice don’t work and his realistic “ABC system” to achieve your goals. And we talk about relationships - his #1 tip for long-lasting partnership, the secret to how he and his wife have made it work so long, why who you choose to partner with is so important, where to find the people who embody what you’re looking for, and how male insecurity is the root of all bad behavior. Before Sahil joins us, it’s a circus of storytelling - a hilarious/embarrassing incident that happened to Rayna right before recording, our new vibrator debut, power ranking of guys who have stayed with Rayna, and Ashley’s anniversary.
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Komentáře • 36

  • @Sahil_Bloom
    @Sahil_Bloom Před měsícem +28

    Literally the most fun I’ve ever had on a podcast. You two are amazing. So much fun. I can see why you’ve connected with so many people out there! Gems!

  • @vanessarondinone5181
    @vanessarondinone5181 Před měsícem +5

    Rayna has the best laugh!!!! 😂❤ I loved that story about Tessa!!

  • @kaila8175
    @kaila8175 Před 15 dny

    Wow ! The part about choosing your wife during planning process hit me hard. My husband choose his family and caused huge deal and fight among us. He didn’t wake up from this aspect of viewing the marriage yet, so we’ll see if there’s progress.

  • @sobeydaelizabethcortes8381
    @sobeydaelizabethcortes8381 Před měsícem +4

    This episode was great, love to hear the male perspective

  • @alwayslauramay624
    @alwayslauramay624 Před 20 dny

    Thank you so much for this ep! I didn't realise how much I needed to hear all of these things but I did and I'm glad I watched it :)

  • @Alisondanielle
    @Alisondanielle Před měsícem +3

    You both are glowing!!! Ive been a subscriber forever and its so nice to see how much you both have changed. love you both!!!!

  • @jennaschwartz5604
    @jennaschwartz5604 Před měsícem +2

    Maybe the guy meant he respected her enough not to have sex casually knowing he wasn’t into her. Most likely the guy just didn't want to have sex with her.

  • @gabl4381
    @gabl4381 Před měsícem +1

    such a great episode! so knowledgable and great to hear a male perspective. Can we give more loyalty to the other men in this world lol

  • @sailorvvvxo
    @sailorvvvxo Před měsícem

    Rayna: Ashley, you've never had a boyfriend. In all these longgg years I've known you, you have NEVER been with a boyfriend.
    Lol... chill 😆 I used to hate when people used to tell me "how single I was, and how they can't imagine me with someone"... excuse me for not having a boyfriend to share time and space with, now she has a solid boyfriend because her standards were probably high... naturally people are different when they are single because they can do things how they want and when they want... that's the point of being single. I feel like I can relate to being impatient... but while I've gotten more patient with my boyfriend, I still think I'm impatient! hahaha trying to work on it.

  • @Bianca_urfavbrunette
    @Bianca_urfavbrunette Před měsícem

    LOVE those chairs!! Where did you find them? ❤

  • @kcksum-
    @kcksum- Před měsícem

    just got my tour tickets for the opening show in vegas!!!!!!

  • @bethanybrennan8371
    @bethanybrennan8371 Před měsícem +3

    I can’t even watch this podcast anymore. There’s just way too many ads.

    • @amandarichards7157
      @amandarichards7157 Před měsícem +6

      Fastforward boo

    • @bethanybrennan8371
      @bethanybrennan8371 Před měsícem

      @@amandarichards7157 I do that lol but then there’s about ten minutes of the actual pod it’s frustrating

  • @celinacorvea1939
    @celinacorvea1939 Před měsícem +1

    What happened to hot neighbor?? Didn’t he live with Rayna for a bit?🤣

  • @K-wx6ki
    @K-wx6ki Před měsícem +1

    Any guy who says that either has an ED or is not interested

    • @nataliek.8076
      @nataliek.8076 Před 29 dny

      i agree it’s just an excuse to say he’s not interested which is equally as douchey but

    • @ceciliamac4283
      @ceciliamac4283 Před 16 dny

      What’s an ED? English is not my first language 😅

  • @sailorvvvxo
    @sailorvvvxo Před měsícem

    i'm looking for a guy in finance... 6'5.... hazel eyes? 👀

  • @shirleemyrick6106
    @shirleemyrick6106 Před měsícem +3

    Ashley’s demeanor has 180 changed since being in a relationship. I’m still waiting for her to acknowledge how her perspective on dating has changed so much from when she was single. Now she’s talking about living with her new bf which was against all her life morals about a year ago. Not even a thought in her head. But zero acknowledgment now? Should we have taken any of her advice pre-relationship?

    • @Daveydubbz
      @Daveydubbz Před měsícem +3

      It was gradual, we watched her grow. She didn't suddenly change. She was open to it and manifested it.

    • @sailorvvvxo
      @sailorvvvxo Před měsícem

      i dont think she was ever against living with a boyfriend?

  • @K-oz3mz
    @K-oz3mz Před měsícem +8

    27:22 I guess Ashley will continue lying about how she homewrecked a fan's relationship and the fact that her "man" went to the show with his then-girlfriend 😂 Massive cringe. Sis was so desperate for a relationship that she decided to settle for a deadbeat nearly 20 years younger than her. Ooop. What happened to only wanting to date high earners?🤭

    • @samm2751
      @samm2751 Před měsícem +3

      I’m guessing you’re the ex?

    • @K-oz3mz
      @K-oz3mz Před měsícem +2

      @@samm2751 Nope LMFAO, nice reach though😂 This is literally well-known information, use Google search babe! I personally would LOVE for that ex to come forward and expose Ashley for the scum that she is.

    • @K-oz3mz
      @K-oz3mz Před měsícem

      @@samm2751 Nah but nice reach lmfao. This is known information, use Google search babe! I WISH the ex would come forward and expose Karen- oop, I mean Ashley- publicly lmao

    • @K-oz3mz
      @K-oz3mz Před měsícem

      @@samm2751 Karen- I mean Ashley keeps deleting my responses but nah, I wish I were the ex cuz I would publicly expose her lmao

    • @K-oz3mz
      @K-oz3mz Před měsícem +5

      @@samm2751 NOPE! And stop deleting my comments Ashley🤭 That just tells me you're scared/guilty LOLOL

  • @ladyNR08
    @ladyNR08 Před měsícem +1

    Waaaay too many adds guys. It's getting unbearable,and I love the pod and I love you,but COME ON: it's your sponosrs(wich you have a lot);the youtube ads (also A LOT,I'm getting an ad every 7-8 minutes or so);and then the self promo...I'm sorry,I can't anymore

    • @ladyNR08
      @ladyNR08 Před měsícem +1

      correction*: I'm getting TWO youtube ads every 7-8 minutes or so