Stop Listening to These People
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- čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
- Stop Listening to These People
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Even stage 4 cancers have been put in remission. My cousin (bowel,lung, liver cancer)was told a year ago, go live your life, (3mos max) put things in order. He's still here, holidaying, swimming regularly etc! Fear is the biggest thing impacting on our quality of life. Never give up hope🙏
Wow that’s incredible - many congrats 🎉❤
THAT'S SO RIGHT
Yes!!! You are 100% on this, I was getting ready to write this as well.. how dare any doctor ever say that it’s “incurable” .. you never give up hope..🙏🏼🙏🏼and many people with stage 4 cancers have healed themselves.. even when others thought they wouldn’t.
Radical remission -amazing book about this and the thousands of remissions. By Dr Kelly Turner
My physio told me I'd never get better and she gave up on me. Scared the daylights out of me. It's been a month since then and I've been watching your videos and kept telling myself I'm safe (I have sciatica) and I'm actually seeing positive changes.
Your physio did you a big favour and saved you £££. You're on the right pathway. Wishing you calm
You got this, and keep going 😊 I believe in you
I have sciatica also, I understand you, I was told the same thing, but only I decide what to be in my life!!
Even late stage cancer... my mom recovered from stage 4 non-hodgkins lymphoma when the said it was everywhere and there was nothing they could do and to get her affairs in order. She recovered in 6 months and has been in remission 8 years now. She believed she'd recover and she did.
That is wonderful. I also believe that, but in the moment of recording, I didn't want to make any bold statements about cancer. But I DO agree with you. Love your moms story.
@PainFreeYou I understand that. I've also seen the opposite happen with cancer too. I love the hopeful stories but I think there is room for realism too, especially when dealing with such a life-threatening disease. The most important thing (and I'm learning this from you along with life itself being a teacher of such lessons) is that regardless of what things we must face in life its all about how we respond. We have the choice to respond with fear or with a relaxed, calm, patient, trusting demeanor. Many things we cannot control but our power lies in controling our reaction, even to out of control feelings of fear, we can respond without more fear. And it's adversity that give us the opportunity to practice and get better at this and to me that's kind of the greatest accomplishment in life, control over our reactions to life. In a way you are sort of like Yoda teaching us how to win at thins thing called life. Sending good vibes and lots of love your way.
I have a fun story. My grandma never knew anything about her health, she just lived her life. She did have back pain at times, but did not dwell on it and let it pass. My moms doctor told my mom in the 90s that my moms cholesterol was high and she would have to go on statins. My mom did not like being on meds so ate lots of oatmeal to lower it. It never lowered much because the high LDL cholesterol was genetic. So my mom asked my grandma her mom what her cholesterol was. My grandma said, "Cholesterol? Oh, I do not have any cholesterol." Well, my grandma we found out did have high cholesterol and never went on statins lol. And lived to 102. Point of this story is that the "professionals" are not always right!
My great grandmother on my Moms side..107...my grandmother like 97..My Dads Mom Late 80s...
did that have high cholesterol lol@@woodfloorsjohnny
What an awesome story! ❤
@Ark-ys2up you are correct 👍🏻
My back, nek and all pain is gone❤ only little symptons in my feet ..butt today i was walking outside again. I will not give up. And I told my brain, listen we survived cancer for years, we have 2 new kidneys, liver is ok again, diabetic is under controle...we have so much to live for..its time to dial down the fear and the pain. We are ok. We are safe. We are always safe. In this life and the afterlife..( than the tingles come😂) its not a easy road we travel people. ❤God bless you Dan, we love you❤
Beautiful ❤
I was told the same regarding anxiety ect but DAN you reinforced my own gut feeling that we can cure ourselves thank god
for someone like you positive and straight to the point you are our power to cure ourselves, so thank you ❤
I'VE LISTENED AND READ MANY TMS EXPERTS AND THEY ALL AND DAN ARE ON THE SAME PAGE - THAT TEACHING LOSS OF FEAR IS THE MAIN CHALLENGE.
Thank you for saying all of this Dan, and I would go as far as saying, that even some stage late cancers or correcting myself, any late stage cancer, can be curable…mindset and the will to live..living to the heart’s desire.. There are many known people who have suffered from cancers, and were given no hope and sent home to die who have recovered. Our minds are a lot stronger than we ever imagined. The book by Dr. Kelly Turner -Radical Remission is proof of that. 💜💜
I totally agree.
Dan you are the only sane person on the internet thank you so much x
I’m so glad your voice is the only one I hear loudly over any mind/body influencer! 💜🕯️✨
Me too!
Told many times that anxiety is not curable and IBS is not curable, chronic pain is not curable etc etc etc. I always chose to hear but not LISTEN to them. I knew that yes, there is a way out. I started connecting the dots between emotional wellness/stress and the physical manifestation of them. Does this take commitment? Yes. Is it worth it? Yes. Thank you Dan!
Congrats on 30k Dan! You’re killing it 💯🙌🏽 sending you and your family all the best wishes from sunny Dubai ✨
Love from Amsterdam❤
Worldwide fans❤🎉
Rename your diagnosis in a positive way. Telling your body the negative diagnosis reinforces it. I have”Regenerative disc ease” and now gallop my horse after 12 years as an invalid.
I was told I'd be in a wheelchair and I am 77 and still walking!!!!!!
Me too. At 10yrs old, was told by doctors, PTs & nurses i will never walk. I WALK. Can't run, so what.
YaY !!!@@maryjohnson753
I really like this format. Handheld Camera conveys more this sense of directly witnessing someone speaking. There's something about these micromovments and setting in nature that is in itself calming. Sitting down on my couch now regularly, and instantly letting go of tension. It also starts to translate into days where I decisively don't watch them because I have the feeling I don't need them all the time, because I'm already able to deal with stressful situations much better. Thank you for these videos. 🙏
I feel this today in substance abuse recovery. My anxiety is awful high today. I’m over 8 months off marijuana.
You are so empowering. So glad I found your channel. I have been dealing chronic fatigue, brain fog , h pylori & gastritis. Been feeling so hopeless & helpless since it's been years. I am glad i found about nervous system disregulation. I use somatic practices, mindfulness & yoga to create safety in my body. But I tend to go down the rabbit hole when the symptoms flare up.
I wanna ask you how do we keep this knowledge in our awareness most of the times & how do we have a rock solid belief like you in our healing?
This video on creating an unshakable belief will help:
czcams.com/video/H0F_TPKd8Pk/video.html
Then, To understand more, Watch my entire fast start video playlist to learn what's going on and what to do about it. DansFastStart.com
Thank you for making this video Dan. I really needed to hear it. I think I know what vertigo influencer you're talking about. I follow them and it's one I take very seriously. So when I saw that one recently about VM not being curable as someone with VM and 24/7 dizziness and who started using a PRT coach based on Alan Gordons teachings etc last month with the hope of getting rid of my dizziness seeing that threw me. It actually had my symptoms going up for a week because I started questioning things. It also seemed very unlike that person because they usually talk about neurosplasticity and chronic dizziness being curable personally in their groups so it left me baffled that that appeared on their Instagram account. As for me, I've already heard many (and I'll keep listening to) success stories about people with what I have getting better following these methods and I'll keep doing what I'm doing since I've been seeing some small progress already in the past month. But it meant a lot hearing it from you since that particular post had been bothering me since it came out. (Though I can't find it anymore so don't know if they took it down...)
Good to see that you seem to be getting better from your cold, Dan!
resonate with the person who said they have never had time off from symptoms - this was me for a long time post vaccineissue - i guess its hard to say how long one does the work for before they notice the pain dialing down ?? my feet have been very uncomfratble for days now - flare type situation although i do try to not use that term - id love to hear just one story of v issues healing to feel even more confident in moving forward
Thank you❤ getting better❤
Thanks for calling out the naysayers Dan. Not knowing the solution does not equate to cannot fix it. Glad you are feeling better!
Thank you❤ for helping us🙏🏻.
I was cheering all the way through this! Also, when I commented on your "What would you do if you knew that you were okay?" video that I would dance at my uni's annual gala party, you replied "Go for it!" and I went for it! Nothing too crazy, and not for very long, but I did it and I felt very little fear and so so so much joy. Thanks for letting us borrow your optimism!
🔥🔥🔥 fire video today! Thanks brother
Appreciate it!!
❤ Goodmorning Dan.. Thank you these videos, I listen to you every morning.. I Appreciate you and the time you give to make these videos.. They help !
I have kinda lost the hope of getting better. How do we build that rock solid belief in our healing?
I understand. This video: czcams.com/video/H0F_TPKd8Pk/video.html
...and this playlist: DansFastStart.com
It’s kind of ironic that I don’t believe my Drs when they say I’m okay, (now, but trusted to much before and in other ways) when I have been gaslit by other Drs. However! That experience has nothing to do with what’s going on now! Thank you for helping me see this more clearly!!!!!!!!
I’ve always said I’m the cynical optimist 😅 I shall borrow some of yours until I get it! I’ve been practicing not freaking out as you suggested and it’s really been helpful.
I pray that I can join the group same day, in Sweden it hard when you on disability pension.
I get so frustrated some times that I can’t afford things like this that maybe would help any recovery.
I know Dan works sooo hard! so I understand that it must cost to join but some months I don’t have that kind of money left to eat, so I am grateful for this fee videos.🙏🏻
I am sooo tired of this fear and al my symptoms I want to be a happy mother again.
Thank you I had a dr say burning mouth syndrome is forever and I will have it forever I said how did I get it she said bad luck
Stop listening to people who say you cannot get better. All that means is that THEY have no clue how you got it or what to do to help you. But you CAN get well.
You are an amazing soul. Absolutely relevant and accurate knowledge, wisdom and guidance as always. And so much humility. Thank you.
Thank you. I will continue to say that you have helped me so much. I hope someday I can repay you.
If I got it right, Dan's solution relies primarily on staying calm and indifferent (as far as possible) and NOT trying any fix/ 'body work' i.e. 'teach the brain and trust the body' because there's nothing wrong with your body. The more you try to fix the body, the farther away you move from recovery.
What's not so clear is whether you should set yourself a goal or a deadline for recovery. Do being hopeful and not having any expectation go hand in hand?
You are the best❤ stay well
Great video Dan. Keep these videos coming! They make sense & do work.
Dan, question for you. How to feel the emotion of fear and let it go so it does not linger and bring the symptoms up?
Be kind & talk nicely to your brain. Talk like it's your best friend. Dan's videos give explains.
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Can you please give examples what to say to yourself / youre brain, when we are in the moment of fear becouse the symptoms are very bad at that moment.
Me: ok brain, I know you're just keeping me safe. I know I'm ok. We can live a pain free life.
He has a really good video on safety messages to give to your brain on his channel that I use often.
@@Faith51 do you have a link. Thank you
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So when the doctor says you have numbness in your legs and feet because of lumbar stenosis the only way to prevent this is lumbar fusion how do you convince your brain that nothing is wrong?
Do the assessments to see how your symptoms are behaving. I walk you through the entire process in todays video on Oct. 15th, 2023. czcams.com/video/oP5HNA-668Y/video.html
Grazie mille 🙏
Yes, this guy Dan makes sense!
If he told you to RUN that would be amazing and probably cure a migraine 😂
i got bursitis from tetanis inj that was administered too high up on arm. It started hurting more and making awful clicking popping and grinding sounds in shoulder bursa area with any arm movement just hours after. Four months later, its still the same, pain and those crunching sounds. Scans read bursitis. I've read this can be permanent and even get worse into frozen shoulder and losing complete mobility of arm. I'm terrified and this has ruined the quality of my life not to mention fear and anxiety all night and day. please help...
Two years ago a urologist diagnosed my pain as chronic pelvic pain syndrome or chronic nonbacterial prostatitis. I have tried everything I have encountered as possible treatment with no effect. For the last two months I have been focusing on TMS being a cause. Now just today on another channel that specializes with TMS, I received a comment from the channel owner, that chronic nonbacterial prostatitis inflammation is not caused by TMS. 😐😐😐 Who should I listen to or not listen too?
Listen to Dan. Bruce Lipton MD explains that your mind changes your blood ph levels & cells to heal you.
Hi Dan.
Iam having this insomnia problem, I tried the tips on your video it helped for two weeks and again iam having setbacks.
Can you help me with some tip as to how to stop your racing mind while you are completely unable to sleep?
During the day when these fears come I try to tell my mind iam ok and divert myself in other activities but in the night these thoughts are so dominant that iam unable to keep my Calm.
Ism trying to breathe, count numbers etc but nothing is working
Good video and lot of things I do agree..
Nice message.
However I see a missing part of a puzzle.. Which I found it in a book i recently read.
Apparentlly the answer is not actually in the brain..
But in another place which that book dives in throughly and make so much sense
There is also a video that can be found on CZcams be that is baaed on that book 📙
What is the book?
czcams.com/play/PLA66A9F907E9E9E23.html&si=GKhHij6T3x-6YSJa
Have you ever read the actual book? It's seems is in the best seller book since 1950 and sold I don't know how many millions since then. It clearly explain the difference between the brain and the 2 different minds we have. The difference is huge apparently.
What book, you haven't mentioned it. @@seafabian66
@@PainFreeYou the title is dianetics the modern science of mental health.
Dan, give me a straight answer, please: Is Chronic (male) Pelvic Pain curable if one wholeheartedly embraces the TMS approach? The flares are often so sickening and draining that it's hard not to lose hope. Thanks
Am sure a few years back there were two guys with this issue. You have nothing to lose. Go for it. This space the right place .
@@1STBUCKLEY Thanks. It's just that the pelvic floor is a mighty complex area and I am yet to figure out how much of the pain is attributable to the brain's rewiring. Is doing the 'mind work' enough to see you through or are there issues intrinsic to the pelvic floor that need to be addressed as well? Does one approach CPPS from the same basic premise one would rely on to treat fibromyalgia or migraine, for instance?
@@dr.amitabhamukherjee3601I’ve heard pelvic pain is related to the jaw
@@dr.amitabhamukherjee3601 Yes this does work for CPPS because my pain is gone. I still get flare ups in my pelvic floor though they're becoming more rare. I'm not fully recovered cause I still struggle with sleep issues. I'd definitely recommend what the other person said in watching the success stories of guys with the same condition. That said it's going to take time and effort to remind yourself it's not actually your pelvic floor but your mind creating that sense of tightness. Therefore, it's your mind's perceived fear that needs to be remedied. I'd also recommend Dan's fast track playlist to understand this whole thing better.
@@dr.amitabhamukherjee3601 hi bro...your mind is trying to protect you from perceive danger because of your fear,thoughts...so your job is tell yourself there is nothing wrong with you and by accepting your symtomps for now and let the time pass..relax into feelings and dont try to get rid of...accept everything thoghts,sensations,feelings..do not fight them...