Ask Ganjiswag #50 ft Mrs. Swag | Junaid Akram
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I sat down with my wife for the third time to read out your questions and provide best possible solutions. PS: This episode was recorded in March so certain references might sound older. Enjoy.
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00:00 - 01:13 - Intro
01:13 - 06:28 - Answer to questions that why junaid Akram doesn't reveal his wife's face
06:28 - 15:05 - The girl I wanted to marry will become my sister-in-law.
15:05 - 27:29 - Who is responsible for road accidents in Karachi?
27:29 - 36:51 - Being an introvert in today’s job market.
36:51 - 54:48 - “Khaalaa in misery.”
54:48 - 01:09:52 - My in laws pretended to be very religious but when I came to USA, they revealed their real faces.
01:09:52 - 01:17:43 - Relationship getting ruined because of toxic family.
01:17:43 - 01:42:16 - A girl trapped in a bad situation.
01:42:16 - 01:43:06 - Outro and ending credits.
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I can respect her privacy its okay must be cute couple MashaAllah
She is totally right , for me privacy is biggest thing
It doesn't matter Mrs Swag, we respect your privacy and i love audio podcast bcoz we can focus on other tasks as well while listening to audio podcasts ❤️
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- THE GIRL I WANTED TO MARRY WILL BECOME MY SISTER IN LAW -
Brother in my opinion you really need to try and become able to get married to her in the first place otherwise don't let her get married to your brother. Tell your parents about your past. Because if it happens the awkwardness will continue forever causing alot of problems for everyone. In a nutshell, either marry her or stop your brother from getting married to her.
bro email Junaid bhai. Not trying to be some moral policing waala uncle but trying to give you a suggestion to copy this comment, email Junaid bhai and delete this comment.
Agreed
He should tell whole thing to his brother, brothers will understand parents won't. Tell his brother to reject her & he should tell his parents that I like the girl.
Yr aik hi ghar me atay jatay, moo takratee achay lagay gai kya..
@@bilalsajjad Junaid bhai once mentioned that write down in comments if you think you can help someone. No bad intentions. Just wanted to add my opinion/solution. I hope the right person reads it too.
I don't have any of these issues, but I still listen to these podcasts to educate and develop. These podcasts should be turned into sessions and taught in institutions.
True. I think the same.
Lol stop bootlicking
@@human_hope khairiyat?
@@HTrntrs I mean yes it's good but it's no way near the level that you would want it to be part of curriculum of universities and so on. He's just a guy giving his opinion
@@human_hope But at least smth of that nature should be taught, as our parents are rather shy to teach us our basic rights n stuff.
Listening to these emails scares me if I will be able to be a good husband. I pray that Allah makes us the kind of husbands we ought to be.
I think the same about my sis
Its just you need to understand each other give rights and give space to each other
There should mostly be a mutual consent and both should be happy on most decisions
No marriage is perfect until you try to make it
Ps. An advice from a 17 year old after listening and understanding what I've learnt from ganjiswag's videos
it's pretty simple
think before saying
discuss about things not argue and try to understand each others
and both sides needs to do this cuz relationship can't work when 1 is doing all compromises and fulfilling promises
a relationship can work without love but not without respect so yeah try to respect her space and make sure she respects you
man nowadays there are karens present in Pakistan too
toxic women and man both are always behind u so save yourself from them too
@Usama Fayyaz both sides needs to learn more
and he said he is worried that will he be a good husband if he was women he would say about being a wife
We need more man like you. I wish you the best .
These were worst experiences, ever heard!
May God help everyone out there suffering from any trouble. Aameen!
Before listening to your podcast, I never realised that how blessed I am to have supportive parents.
You guys are off the game today!
Khala being Abused Q: Get her to learn some skills like vocational training, Sewing etc. Akhuwat Foundation, Kashf Foundation gives interest free loan for small businesses for such purposes.
@WAJID NABI JOKHIO OK, thanks for the correction, I heard the name, Akhuwat gives interest free for sure.
Bro. Respect their opinions. Atleast they aren't degrading the questioner or the victim being addressed. Preferably, read the initial disclaimer.
Your wife is a amazing lady, her intellectual is sometimes more than you.
Looking forward to seeing her regularly in these podcasts. Atleast once a week to bhabhi jee ki podcast zaror ani chahiye.
May allah bless her🙌
i dont know why im addicted to junaid akram podcasts
We all are! ♥︎
I think we are living in the last age of life on earth. There was a time when girls and daughters were buried to death and again, now: we bury them alive by being unable to see someone's reality and making decisions blindly on behalf of them. Allah Give us Hidayah!! Otherwise, negativity in relationships will intoxicate the whole society!!!!
Ur words 💯
For the first question boy in love with his sister in law to be, I would say don't disclose your physical closeness with your cousin, that might spoil her image because people here are very judgemental. Sit with your parents and tell them that you are interested in your cousin and you can't accept her as your brother's wife or if parents are not understanding you can talk to your brother about this. He might understand you. But I would say never share that roof meetings or kissing scene with anybody these things become so toxic for women even after ages. Good luck and take care.
06:28 I can't believe you guys didn't elaborate on the brother's dilemma . Whether this 21 year old marries the girl or not, his brother definitely shouldn't be marrying her. These two lovebirds have a long history together which I'm assuming the brother doesn't know about. What happens if the brother finds out about it 10 years from now when they have kids? Why are you causing unnecessary drama in his life and ruining the lives of both your girlfriend and your brother? Stop being a coward and tell your family about your relationship with the girl.
Yeah exactly especially if they have made out illegally.
Which is why there is a Disclaimer before podcast begins
@@iftunasrin 💯😂
About that 10 years thing, agar pata bhi lag jai ke aisa mamla hoa tha to wo bara bhai Kia kar le ga. Baat 10 years purani ha , its not like wo bara bhai 10 yrs baad bhi apna chota bhai ko aa kar maray ga ya qatl karne aa jayiga. Furthermore , i agree with u that he should tell his condition to his parents regarding his relationship with that cousin. Otherwise, koi drama wala scene nahi ha. 10 saal purani baat koi consider nahi karta.
Lastly jo aap ne baat ki ke his brother should not marry her, if he knows that ke oss kay brother ka bhi koi connection ha, then he shouldn't marry her, like that's what I believe. But if he doesn't know any of this and marries her then it's none of his business. It actually all depends on wheather that 21 yr old tells to his parents or not.
Agreed with mrs junaid. This is all about privacy and not to disclose your personal life with everyone.
God blessed you both..
I wish our society had aware and educated people like you guys
yeah but instead we have Karens and toxic people surrounding us
wish we will change our mentality to become better
@@sarwath_fatimee3865 more like Phuppo Furkhandas
Man you're doing a lot for us. Plus your sense of humor is next level. Mr. Ganji and Mrs. Ganji make the perfect couple.
You should do more videos like this with your wife. Views from both of your sides make the video much better and impactful
Introvert Guy! Develop a Trusty and Worthy Group of Friends Circle who can get you placed better eventually into the society.
Introverts find it difficult to start conversation with someone let alone develop a trustworthy group
@@erumyaseen I can understand, if they have good sincere people around them, they will get them involved and motivated so just make good friends. Join Social Groups etc, do the math. Gotta strive to survive in this cruel world.
@@HassanAchieved Firstly it's "land", secondly of course Linked in is just an avenue and not the most used one anyways for PK. It's more for well established jobs. For PK, rozee.pk is far more useful. Establish profile there. use FB jobs page. That works brilliantly. Use location filters
1:27:55 - classic Junaid bhai " Tu hai kaun"
I was just waiting for you to upload a video and here it is. I'm so happy... You rock Ganji
First of all I would like to thank Mrs swag for being a part of this podcast. I have learnt a lot from junaid sir (things that I didn't learn from 17 years of education and nondody from my family or relatives ever discussed that 'brown family thing'). I am a woman and I like to stay private and that's completely fine and I can relate to every single thing you mentioned. I highly appreciate you because you came and explained everyone about your notion regarding this matter although that was never compulsory for you. This gesture shows you are such a humble human being and I have not seen you, never met you in person but still I have huge respect for you in my heart. As far as your family is concerned that's your decision if you want them on camera or not and the very important point regarding the consent of the child, you have already discussed that, shows how concerned you are about your kids. Kudos to you for being so smart and responsible woman. Your privacy is highly respected and appreciated. Boundaries are life saviours Love from Islamabad ❤️
Congratulations for 50 episodes
You're a godsend, Junaid!! Your videos are therapeutic!! SO PROUD!! 🔥❤️❤️ Keep these videos coming!! You're a ray of hope in such depressing times!
To the trapped girl in the bad situation, you are surviving narcissist abuse
54:48 *For USA Waale Bhai:*
If you or your wife have any friends in the US, then ask them if they can let you stay with them for some time, if they agree, then in that time you and your wife can both work and make some living, and get your own house.
And have an restraining order simple
This.
Or just manage to save up some money to start their own life. Also, FINALLY I hear a story about a husband married from Pakistan who’s dealing with tons of BS and not the wife. Feel sad for him but glad for once the guy isn’t the A-hole.
Move out. It's insane you still living with in-laws. That's the problem. Work (you both) and move out of house and raise your son. Your wife need to support you. May be good idea to go out for a vacation and discuss with her. In USA you can do so many things. Stop looking other and cut off from people who are adding burden on you. Family first specially your son!
BIG UPS to Mrs. Swag for talking about online privacy 👏👏
To me, it's despicable how people are showing off their lives online, and letting companies like Facebook and TikTok store their personal data for 'advertisement'. Seems like y'all are literally happy about being controlled by corporations when they feel like doing so.
Brother really respect your contribution towards our society, yes you are doing this for us as well as yourself(mainly).
My point is, just don't ruin your mentally state because of money (involves marketing of yourself)
Yo not because of money, is channel pe to junaid ki reach hee nae hai.
Allah bless you both partners.. Really two sensible people together giving opinions on issues.. Great 👍
This session really helps alot Junaid !
For last girl i hope things change around you and you find all happiness more then deserve
So basically everyone wants Victoria Secret models, foreign passport, academically qualified but with hijab, house wife and stays within home :D
and basically you are accusing everyone
and so are expectations are from women side:: highly qualified masters from a top uni, earns 2-3 lakhs pak rupees or abroad with 10,000USD atleast, seperate house, owns a car, young, handsome fair skin, big eyes , ,what the hell
Yeah and all these qualities can be in a woman. It is not necessary that a woman should be wearing jeans or short clothes to feel independent and successful, many women in Pakistan are MashaAllah succeeding, and their dressing is modest.
such toxic things
women demands are pretty similar but sadly both sides will endup marrying there PHUPPO KI BETI OR BETA
@@sarwath_fatimee3865 no marrying a cousin is not bad. But bullying one due to lack of these qualities is bad
Flow chart !!!! 😂
That part is hilarious.
Ur wife is such an amazing lady u r very lucky stay blessed
Ma'am we all respect your privacy
Atleast I do
And its your right which noone can take away from yourself
You both are right. Keep your privacy in your circle.
Our public is so non-sense and ignorant. They don't know how to respect any other person.
For the girl in US set hostage, please if someone is well connected with attorney circles, there are solicitors who offer their services voluntarily or any professional referral to discuss with them and link that girl with lawyer could at least take her out of that heinous cell . There must be civil charitable societies in US sponsoring legislative assistance “regardless of their resident permit status”
Too easy for me to type but will take a lot I know. My prayers are with her Anand feel pity on her ruthless dad.
Even if this girl on Green Card she F**K them... I live in Houston TX and have an attorney in my circle hit me up I might help.
The girl can find some good attorney contacts by joining and posting on Soul Sisters Pakistan. If you are listening, girl, we only live once, please grant yourself the bare minimum human right: Freedom!
Sir we respect your decision of not revealing your wife's face
yeah
It is not his decision. It is his wife's decision. Itna podcasts sun kr bhi smjh ni ai kya?
I HONESTLY WAITED FOR THIS SOOOOO BADLY! YOU'RE A TRUE INSPIRATION FOR PEOPLE OF PAKISTAN! ESPECIALLY THE YOUTH! YOU NEED TO BE THE POWER! MORE SUPPORT TO YOU! PROUD OF YOU MAN!
Privacy is most important particularly in a society like ours and in general as well. +1 to Mrs. Swag 3:00
Bohat shidat sey intezar rehta hai junaid bhai apki videos ka lovee them
AmaziNg epi..Ur wife is Intelligent woMan i like listening to her as well..Good Job Keep it up!
Lots Of Love And Respect For you junaid bahi. MOST sensible Person. Mashaa Allah
If someone want privacy and don’t wanna being see why forcing or even talking about it … all is matter she trying to solve some people problems and trying to give positive in life and you guys should appreciate it and take positive way ..
Definitely feel the same as you guys do about some of your questions. They are enraging at some times.
01:09:52
You must've left him when he asked you to convert. Because it shows his mentality that religion is first for him not you. You could've lived with him without converting. And you're giving money to his family. And guy is still not supporting you. The guy is selfish
Yup
Love Jihad. We should start converting Muslim women to Hinduism now.
Sir your sense of humor is great.
Big Fan of yours ❤
I respect her choice n Wisdom! what a brave soul more power to her ❤❤❤
Mr. Ganjiswag not coming sloww
Hear your podcast everyday😎
Mrs Swag should start her own channel and make her own content.
Bhai ideas nae do , junaid bhai complex ma ajynge!!
@@hassancharania5636 😂😂
She doesn't want to be on the internet as she said, she want a low-key private life
App mashwaray na do 🤣
@Urdu Writes who said farigh log CZcams pe content create kartay ha?
Mashallah junniwag and hairyswag may you guys live happy af
Great work.
May Allah increase you in knowledge
Ameen.
Request: Please make a podcast on professional etiquettes.
This is saddening episode, but many things to learn from this episode.
I’m sorry for all the girls out there, specially at 1:26:00, a girl got betrayed by a man even after knowing him in for years!
And I can’t even relate to it that properly k aik khulli dhulli aurat ko qaid kar diya. I’m sorry to all girls.
Inshallah I will strive to fight such monsters even if it has to be my close friends.
I have been following you since a long time and have watched all your ask ganji swag episodes. You are an amazing person but I believe in some topics your wife has some amazing perspective . I would like to suggest your wife to also start 'Ask Mrs Swag'
what a balanced and thoughtful lady she is 😍
Good job guys. Keep up the good work
Its good ro see junaids face on the podcast since it makes the video more interacting. What u guys can do for your videos is keep the normal setup junaid sitting in his usual position n his wife can sit behind the camera n he can talk to her like he talks to the camera man. It wont show her face but she'd still be part of the podcast since we can hear her. I think all of can agree to this idea it will make podcasts more fun.
I have been following these podcasts since ep 1 and i am now a huge fan... many congrats for hitting half a century 🤗🤗👍
Very nice to hear Mrs. Junaid.
To much addicted to ur Podcasts & PSL❤
This guy in US with in laws problems. You can contact me. I am usually considered do it all ad know it all and guide people with many things.
Many families in US do similar things. I am in California. I have been in US since I was 17 and know both Pakistani culture and US very well. Things could be very easy in US if you are willing to be completely independent and do what it takes
@WAJID NABI JOKHIO my question is for women who have been living in USA for long time and is citizen and so is husband. But having issues to get out of problems.
Great job! Appreciated ✌🏼
"Houston acting like London"🕵️🙋🏼♂️
Fleet🔥🔥
Addicted of your Podcasts
I feel so bad for the girl who wrote last email
Your wife is awesome!!!!
I respect and the way you love and care your queen.. what a nice couple..Allah mighty bless you.
The major problem of drivers in Pakistan is that if someone has a Suzuki or a Hiace, they always mess with the people with good cars because they know that the person with the Prado will save his car because Suzuki repairs cost something around 1000 rs
While if you have to repair a prsdo it will cost you millions
Before getting married, it's essential to discuss and clarify important aspects like lifestyle, career, and having children. Living together should be about creating peace, support, and love for each other. If one partner is unhappy or disturbed, it affects the other's peace and happiness. We see many examples of this in real life. Everyone faces problems, challenges, and hurdles, but it's crucial for both partners to understand that you cannot face these battles alone. There are many wonderful people who do understand this, and I hope every man and woman gets to experience the happiness and joy that marriage can bring. Ameen
I like you but now I love your wife’s intelligence and the way she answers the question
Love
Hira Afzaluddin (Florida )
Nice comment
Usama Mushtaq ( Lahore)
@vision k chota bheem ko mera salam kehna xD
@vision k rajkumari Indumati ❤️🙌
made for eachother
@vision k what
Man hearing these email i am glad I am a good husband and keep my wife happy and give her freedom.
Ask her if you're a good husband or not. Don't decide it yourself.
who are you to give her freedom?
Hats off to you both 💯❤
Google podcast par kab upload hongay . last 49 wala bhi upload nahi hua wahan.
We need more intellectual partners like you guys in Pakistan.
10:06 "Bhabhi ko Chabbi de di" :D I laughed hard there lol.
Lieraly starting my day with Ask Ganji Swag, haven't even left the bed yet, 7:33AM in SG 😂❤️✌🏻🇸🇬
Lub U Junaid Bahi nothing else.
JazakAllah.
Masha Allah you guys are very good counselors.
Literally I've become a big fan of your wife
This episodee made me cry idk if i can continue watchin ask ganji swag
Yarrrr apki wife k talking style exactly meri khala jaisa h or mjhe itni familiar c feel hoti hn ❤️
I’m just so sad for Khala , I will pray for her. Allah asaani paida kery. Ameen
Ameen
Junaid bhai atleast ap camera me ajaya karen, Bhabhi ko behind the camera rakha karen. Wo feel nahi aati apko dekhe begher.
BTW really appreciate your work.
Respect ur wives words in the beginning...regarding privacy...so glad she said it
1:13 she is perfect she knows she cant control everyone thats why she avoids all the negativity 💯💯💯
Such an amazing guy 4:20 see how he empowered his wife. He keeps his life reserved that is why I love him my CZcams channel is a result of inspiration from his side.
Love you Junaid Akram Allah bless you all.
The guy living in US can easily start working a minimum wage job, if they are a couple 2 people on minimum wage (usually you get 2-3$ more than minimum wage at most places) can easily afford a 1 bed apartment, if you have been living there for 5 years and still can't do anything in a country like US then idk what you've been doing
Respect all abt his wife not showing herself but deep inside me I still want to see her😀
We'll go to London
@@samuelkhan99 WELL Iam in London.
@@sarahshahzad9071 lol. Speak to Junaid Akram and make further arrangements
@@sarahshahzad9071 yeah I think you can
Where are his podcasts on Spotify? Can't seem to find it.
Same here.
@@nimrahbhatti6399 they used to be there, must removed it ig
Spotify pakistan doesn't have podcasts, they are not available in Pakistan
Sirr..😍
22:00 ye wali story ap ne pehli b sunai thi junaid bhai. I remember in your previous podcasts.
unable to find any of your podcast on Spotify
It isnt available in pak
@@shikamaru7394 ohh
Yay ms ganji is back
Congratulations on half-century keep it up.
Congratulations 50 eps
Good Answers
57:15 🤣🤣 junaid bhai’s reaction
57:15 Mother OF Twists
Alfred Hitchcock and Quentin Tarantino died hearing these Twists
HAHAHAHAHA OH SHIT SUCKHS!!