I had no idea others suffered from this! Just the other day I had to place a gold star 🌟 on my husband’s head for taking the dishes out the dish rack without being asked. Lord help us. 😂
I have to do this for my man anything he does anything. I just started saying “Who’s a pretty bird? YOU ARE!” He hated it at first, but now he struts around acting like one of those cockatiels, screeching. 😂
@@malikthomas8452and women never get appreciated they get taken for granted. 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽. You men are indeed something else- no wonder women opting out. 😂😂
@@sg5720 may speak for yourself, because most women ain’t cleaning ain’t doing nothing that a man could even appreciate what the fuck do man get appreciated for everything that they should be getting appreciated for women say this the bare minimum and you got it backwards man are opting out. We don’t want modern American women y’all are pathetic hence why y’all on the Internet crying every day about how y’all can’t find the man and why are men not coming up to women and why are men leaving? Speak for yourself because reality says different
Sometimes I don't comment when my husband fixes something around the house because i LOVEEEE it when he comes to me himself and tells me "did you see what i fixed?" It's so freaking adorable 😂😂❤❤
I get - hey babe FYI- I fixed a, and b and c. Lucky for me my husband just does what he is supposed to do. He don’t look for praise, he just gets the job done, and by how happy he is with me and our family- all is good. We help eachother and succeed together and appreciate eachother, no expectations for praise when doing what needs to be done anyhow. Some of you men are weak as hell for real. 🤣🤦🏽
bruh, men doing the bare minimum and expecting all the praise from their women are something else bruh 😭😭✋🏽 edit: some of y'all aren't getting it. it is *very* important in relationships to show gratitude and appreciation towards their partner, however, on a spectrum, they shouldn't expect you to throw them a parade for doing the bare minimum, which is what I was pointing out, because there are a lot of men (and women, ik ik) conditioned to expect their partner to do everything, so when they do one thing, they think it should be praised endlessly, showing immaturity.
@angelicapr2570 sounds familiar like the majority of chicks who say they pay their own bills and got their own huh? Glad yall are starting to understand how we feel
@@mrnoitall7596 also, you being butt hurt, saying *we* finally understand the suffering when, in history for like, forever it's always been men in power is hilarious. you guys are finally understanding how *we* feel, and don't you forget it boo
@claireallen-qd9bb its funny wen "yall" get triggered u come with insults. Facts are, men are in power because we are the leaders. It's funny yall want leaders, but also wanna do what u want at the same time. Don't talk about times you didn't live in. We live in the most free time in history. I dont talk about slavery becuz i aint a slave and its been almost 200 years since.I "Yall" always go back 100s of years to make points. Fact is yall got the ball now and yall fumbling it. Not ALL women but the small minority who get it don't say shit. So you calm down with the insults because I didn't insult u hunny bun
What I tell my hubby when he’s done with a big project like installing a new toilet, sink, and painting our new restroom. He wants me to throw him a parade 🤭🤭🤭
After 25 years of marriage I still get excited about anything I didn’t have to do because He beat me to it. Yes. It’s parade material…just like I expect when I get things done. 😀
Women have this distorted ass view of what men expect. The reality is men expect the bare minimum of acknowledgement for everything we do for our women but the vast majority of women are ungrateful. Most women expect access to their man's money, but are not willing to share any of their's. They expect men to work more than them, provide more than them, yet still do half the housework, plus all the male-only jobs at home. Yeah, you can show your man some gratitude, he didn't have to pick you.
Exactly!!! 😂😂😂😂And us?? All woman on the earth that clean everyday, raisen Kids, go to buy grocery, make all the things for Everyone but not for her...We don't have any Statues in the front of our house😂😂😂😂it's sad but sooo true 🥹🥹💖💖💖✨✨✨💯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 God bless all women in the world!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
I promise all we want is to feel appreciated and noticed! My wife thanked me for sorting all the kids laundry and cleaning our bedroom, and man I was beaming! Also before anyone says anything, I do house chores as often as I can when I’m home, but it still feels nice to be praised lol
@moimeself1088 because gratitude and compliments can boost a person's self-esteem and generally make home life more pleasant for either person. Common courtesy and good manners cost nothing. Are you really so jaded that you can't understand that?
okay but lowkey, praise for doing a big job that i usually can’t do bc of my procrastination, laziness and adhd makes me feel so happy, boosts my self esteem and motivates me even more 😭😭
Yeah I cook clean everything but I stopped bc she appreciates nothing at all a dirty women will remain that way if you let em . It really just driving a wedge for me . Just lie to me and say thank you
@@DeoSiege yeah no, i can’t even. i praise my gf and she praises me whenever we complete a big job or we do something for each other or we feel proud of something we did that seems small but is a big deal to us. if your partner can’t do for you as you do for them, then it’s not a mutual relationship. you could love each other all you want, but cooking for your significant other just as much as they cook for you (if they’re able to) and cleaning and doing things for them as they do for you (again, if they’re able bodied and available to) is incredibly important and leads to a mutual and healthy relationship. the girl you’re talking to is lazy and clearly thinks you should do everything-at least that’s what i’m getting from what you told me
He shouldn't. That should be the norm. Unless cleaning and dishes truly isn't smth he's supposed to do, and he went out of his way to do it, no excess praise is needed. If we both have to keep the place clean, why do you need all this praise for clearing the sink once if I do it the other 99% of the time. It's not cute, it's typically selfish and childish. Par for the course w/ men, they all like that
@@daStoRay 😂 why wouldn’t you guys wanna help my guy will hop out of his clothes and on his PlayStation leave them wherever on the floor spill juice and food and than acts like he doesn’t know how it gets cleaned he just knows it’s cleaned when he returns to clean it up he says yes that was a cute answer at first but it’s really getting tired if you can help your lady especially if she has to work full time too ❤️
To be fair I really love verbal affirmation too! When I clean or anything my boyfriend bear hugs me and tells me I did such a good job and it makes me feel so loved.
It's not a bad thing it's just that what a lot of people deal with in relationships is that they are expected to give praise but aren't given any back.
damnn pipoo nowadays so immature and made love war zone, i swear, everyone hve their weakness, as for ladies, it's mood swings and freak out on simple bullshit. so, let men breath they have some cons too.
I'm the stay at home mom and I want that same level of praise from my husband 😂 I'm like, "Did you see the kitchen? And the bedroom? I took out the trash too. Pretty good, right?" And wait for my hugs and praise, haha. Silly, I know, but I love it!
I expect it because my wife expects it lol. We both work, we both have our own set of chores and we both do them willingly and without being told. But she has told me “I just like hearing the praise” so we both do the throat clearing - it’s how we have fun with each other lol
I always praise him when he cleans. The best advice my Mother n Law ever gave me was to acknowledge him when he cleans not because he cleaned but because it is his motivation to clean again. She said it worked every time for her lol and I must say it actually does work.
@@juanitaschlink2028 I used to complain that he didn’t do things right or that it wasn’t my way but with 3 kids and small kids at that I really do appreciate his help. His Mom said the trick is you have to let him know that you seen what he did to help before he asks if I seen that he cleaned and I was stubborn at first but then I realized it was harder with kids and that it did help even if it wasn’t my way and I took her advice lol.
It works for us women too. Humans are just wired to thrive on positive comments. When my husband appreciates my hard work then it motivates me to do more and with a joyful heart! 😊
@@allthingsaremadenew236I used to complain about it not being done right meaning my way but after 3 kids I appreciate it so much. I like to make things and I am trying to find things I like to make to sell and when he like’s something I crocheted I feel more positive or confident about making more of them so I can sell items so I understand that.
@@allthingsaremadenew236 I enjoy giving him acknowledgment too. It’s not something that bothers me. I don’t have to force myself to do it. When we first got together it hurt my ego for some reason but I think now I genuinely want him to be happy and he genuinely wants me to be happy. It took a while to get there though.
Honestly this is absolutely my chronically ill ass hyping my own dang self up after doing some chores, sometimes it's more than i can handle and then the depression kicks in so when i DO get it done, i pat myself on the back😁
This is SO TRUE! That's exactly me at the fridge when my kids are bugging me! The claps, pointing & over the top I LOVE YES I DO! I almost expected you to boop his nose☝️👶😅
They really do need this level of praise and adoration and acknowledgment but then straight up COMPLETELY ignore us when we do the exact same sh!t every single day for everybody in the whole house. If we demanded this level of acknowlegment they would laugh in our face.
The real answer is, for me… I don’t really care that much about keeping things particularly clean. I just know my partner cares. When I do a bunch of cleaning I’m doing it for her and it feels nice to be acknowledged for it.
@@bignasty389 i bet you'd start caring pretty quick if she stopped cleaning entirely. at least when you ran out of clean dishes to eat off of, if not before.
You are so right.... IF they sweep the just the kitchen floor... they want this reaction, and they think it doesn't every need to be swept again. No matter how old they get, they look for this acknowledgment, but they don't give it to her.
That last part is too true. Men want a fucking parade thrown for the most basic shit even though we're doing 90%+ of the work with virtually no appreciation. I swear when I give my boyfriend food he just hums and ignores it, I actually have to stand there waiting until he says "thank you". I cook everything from scratch and sometimes it feels like he just doesn't care. 2-3 hours of cooking every single day for nothing. When he takes 15 minutes to clean the bathroom he acts like he just ran a marathon
@@hywodena A red flag perhaps. like seriously im a woman and i used to be someone who dont give praises alot because i'm quiet stoic and introverted( only goes out once a month) until my mom started to praises my every work done soon after i finished college and left home. it was like that for long time without returning her praises and then i started to feel guilty that she keeps doing that and soon i started to praises her works too. At first it was kinda hard but then i got used to it and it indeed improve my personality to be more optimistic, confident and enthusiastic talking to people. A person who cannot give an ounce of praises for the person for a long time is just sad. i'm 31 and it took me years to change. Although still i does have difficulties getting along with people, but it is nowhere near how i used to be in the past.
I praise my husband all day and thank him though the night if it means I don't need to do dishes 😂 how much easier is it just to be thankful for the help than having to do it yourself... He feels so proud and happy he helped. it will happen more often because you saw his hard work and you were just as happy in real life as he imagined you would be in his head... Win win
I really hope that hasnt been your experience.. I hope your self esteem gets up, and that you meet better women. I find that sometimes its a location, thing! Have a great weekend❤ God Bless ❤✝️❤️
My husband rarely does anything around the house, so when he does I use all the complements I could think of to show him how grateful I am and how I wish this to be a more common occurrence. 😅
Been married 33 years, when someone does a good job, just praise them. Makes them feel better and you appreciate them more. And I’ve also realized us women need to point out what we do too, just casually mention what you are doing. Just make things nicer. I appreciate him and he appreciates me!
Not the child like stance while circling the fingers from satisfaction 😂😂😂😂
Lie
And not a guy using iloheem shit
@@mckoy1999😂 TRUTH
HAHAHAHAH
WHY WOULD CZcams MAKE THIS AI COMMENT UPDATE??? NOW BOTS ARE GON RUIN EVERYTHING 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂@@mckoy1999
The “thanks for cleaning up” just wasn’t enough 😂
Yes it’s was 😂
@@saliloveniall162yeaaa no it wasnt 😂
If you expect a birkin
Then we expect a smirkin
If you expect some money to spend
We expect something from the back end
😂😂😂
That ain't gonna get no more, not even for me
He wasn’t suppose to get a thank you for cleaning his own house
“You are husband material!” That’s going to keep him floating all day 😂
Lmaoo
I would be on a high all day long, I mean even my pussy got wet😂😂jkjk
He's going to be flying 😂
🤣
All year
Not the "👉👈" Got me cackling 😂
🤣 same
😂😂😂
ahaha
The face she made behind the fridge😂😂😂😂😂. Priceless
Relatable af 😂😂😂
Gathering all her scruples
That is me right there.
Relatable.
I had no idea others suffered from this! Just the other day I had to place a gold star 🌟 on my husband’s head for taking the dishes out the dish rack without being asked. Lord help us. 😂
"Omg King
You is smart
You is brave
You is beautiful"
😂
😂😂😂
😂the help
LMFAO
That's all I want to hear
I have to do this for my man anything he does anything. I just started saying “Who’s a pretty bird? YOU ARE!” He hated it at first, but now he struts around acting like one of those cockatiels, screeching. 😂
Absolute Father Material right there XD
HAHAHAHA HE REALLY IS HUSBAND MATERIAL
This is the comment of the year I'm dying and can visually imagine the strut and screech 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
The way she always have that meeting with her personalities before acting is so funny😂😂
Fr 🤣🤣
The accuracy!!! 😂
Man frl show some appreciation for my effort lol
😂right!
I feel so honored to make the likes at exactly 1K
@@malikthomas8452and women never get appreciated they get taken for granted. 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽. You men are indeed something else- no wonder women opting out. 😂😂
@@sg5720 may speak for yourself, because most women ain’t cleaning ain’t doing nothing that a man could even appreciate what the fuck do man get appreciated for everything that they should be getting appreciated for women say this the bare minimum and you got it backwards man are opting out. We don’t want modern American women y’all are pathetic hence why y’all on the Internet crying every day about how y’all can’t find the man and why are men not coming up to women and why are men leaving? Speak for yourself because reality says different
Sometimes I don't comment when my husband fixes something around the house because i LOVEEEE it when he comes to me himself and tells me "did you see what i fixed?" It's so freaking adorable 😂😂❤❤
Now I know why my wife does that. 😂😂😂
Like a child lol
You need to grow up lady
@@wealthNwisdom63You need a life
I get - hey babe FYI- I fixed a, and b and c. Lucky for me my husband just does what he is supposed to do. He don’t look for praise, he just gets the job done, and by how happy he is with me and our family- all is good. We help eachother and succeed together and appreciate eachother, no expectations for praise when doing what needs to be done anyhow. Some of you men are weak as hell for real. 🤣🤦🏽
The knees got me weak 😂😂
bruh, men doing the bare minimum and expecting all the praise from their women are something else bruh 😭😭✋🏽
edit: some of y'all aren't getting it. it is *very* important in relationships to show gratitude and appreciation towards their partner, however, on a spectrum, they shouldn't expect you to throw them a parade for doing the bare minimum, which is what I was pointing out, because there are a lot of men (and women, ik ik) conditioned to expect their partner to do everything, so when they do one thing, they think it should be praised endlessly, showing immaturity.
Right! Like sir weren’t you doing this sh*t when you were single? Wanting a gold star for adulting. 💀
@angelicapr2570 sounds familiar like the majority of chicks who say they pay their own bills and got their own huh? Glad yall are starting to understand how we feel
@@mrnoitall7596 bruh, you act like all women do that when you say "y'all".... when we don't, which is why we *specified* . call down hun 💀
@@mrnoitall7596 also, you being butt hurt, saying *we* finally understand the suffering when, in history for like, forever it's always been men in power is hilarious. you guys are finally understanding how *we* feel, and don't you forget it boo
@claireallen-qd9bb its funny wen "yall" get triggered u come with insults. Facts are, men are in power because we are the leaders. It's funny yall want leaders, but also wanna do what u want at the same time. Don't talk about times you didn't live in. We live in the most free time in history. I dont talk about slavery becuz i aint a slave and its been almost 200 years since.I "Yall" always go back 100s of years to make points. Fact is yall got the ball now and yall fumbling it. Not ALL women but the small minority who get it don't say shit. So you calm down with the insults because I didn't insult u hunny bun
What I tell my hubby when he’s done with a big project like installing a new toilet, sink, and painting our new restroom. He wants me to throw him a parade 🤭🤭🤭
AND YOU SHOULD 🎉🎉
@@accurategamer7085Amen !
You got a new restroom?
New restroom hell I'm throwing a parade for you...❤😂😂😂 GOOD HUSBAND MADAM...
After 25 years of marriage I still get excited about anything I didn’t have to do because He beat me to it. Yes. It’s parade material…just like I expect when I get things done. 😀
They will clean up ONE time, and they want a damn parade! 😂😂😂😂
Women have this distorted ass view of what men expect. The reality is men expect the bare minimum of acknowledgement for everything we do for our women but the vast majority of women are ungrateful. Most women expect access to their man's money, but are not willing to share any of their's. They expect men to work more than them, provide more than them, yet still do half the housework, plus all the male-only jobs at home. Yeah, you can show your man some gratitude, he didn't have to pick you.
🤣👌👍👏
Specifically certainly!!!
Exactly!!! 😂😂😂😂And us?? All woman on the earth that clean everyday, raisen Kids, go to buy grocery, make all the things for Everyone but not for her...We don't have any Statues in the front of our house😂😂😂😂it's sad but sooo true 🥹🥹💖💖💖✨✨✨💯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 God bless all women in the world!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
You damn right 😁
I promise all we want is to feel appreciated and noticed! My wife thanked me for sorting all the kids laundry and cleaning our bedroom, and man I was beaming!
Also before anyone says anything, I do house chores as often as I can when I’m home, but it still feels nice to be praised lol
How adorable 😊
Why do you need to be praised or thanked for adulting? Confused 🤔
@@moimeself1088Its his Love language... he's telling you what he needs. Give him what he wants, not what you want
Yesss❤❤❤
@moimeself1088 because gratitude and compliments can boost a person's self-esteem and generally make home life more pleasant for either person. Common courtesy and good manners cost nothing. Are you really so jaded that you can't understand that?
okay but lowkey, praise for doing a big job that i usually can’t do bc of my procrastination, laziness and adhd makes me feel so happy, boosts my self esteem and motivates me even more 😭😭
Yeah I cook clean everything but I stopped bc she appreciates nothing at all a dirty women will remain that way if you let em . It really just driving a wedge for me . Just lie to me and say thank you
@@DeoSiege
yeah no, i can’t even. i praise my gf and she praises me whenever we complete a big job or we do something for each other or we feel proud of something we did that seems small but is a big deal to us. if your partner can’t do for you as you do for them, then it’s not a mutual relationship. you could love each other all you want, but cooking for your significant other just as much as they cook for you (if they’re able to) and cleaning and doing things for them as they do for you (again, if they’re able bodied and available to) is incredibly important and leads to a mutual and healthy relationship. the girl you’re talking to is lazy and clearly thinks you should do everything-at least that’s what i’m getting from what you told me
@@DeoSiegeyou deserve better
I have adhd too! But yeah if I don’t get praise at least once a month I’ll assume my efforts are wasted.
@@Thomas_Winters
no literally 😭😭
My dawg snapped when he did the “hit em with that flex”😂😂😂🤦🏾♂️
that was the dougie....
@isthatcreed9386 Both of y'all are wrong. He hit "The John Wall"
@LupinKing yes the arm flex was "the John wall" but the feet was the dougie and he put "the john wall" apart of the dougie
I stg! My dude washes one dish and be like, "Babe, did you see the sink"
This!!!!😂
He shouldn't. That should be the norm. Unless cleaning and dishes truly isn't smth he's supposed to do, and he went out of his way to do it, no excess praise is needed. If we both have to keep the place clean, why do you need all this praise for clearing the sink once if I do it the other 99% of the time. It's not cute, it's typically selfish and childish. Par for the course w/ men, they all like that
😂😂😂😂😂
@@carissalarocque4484Stop yapping because It’s never that deep.
@@Ma-kf3fgcant believe 15 miserable ass people agreed with that comment. What a sad world we live in. Dating world shot, relationship world, shot.
"We goin to be zesty with this one"❤️🔥🔥🔥🗣
That’s how I be feeling 😂😂😂😂 if I give him an extra compliment maybe he’ll keep it up ❤
@@daStoRay 😂 why wouldn’t you guys wanna help my guy will hop out of his clothes and on his PlayStation leave them wherever on the floor spill juice and food and than acts like he doesn’t know how it gets cleaned he just knows it’s cleaned when he returns to clean it up he says yes that was a cute answer at first but it’s really getting tired if you can help your lady especially if she has to work full time too ❤️
To be fair I really love verbal affirmation too! When I clean or anything my boyfriend bear hugs me and tells me I did such a good job and it makes me feel so loved.
aww cute❤
W girlfriend. W boyfriend. I hope you two make it!
It's not a bad thing it's just that what a lot of people deal with in relationships is that they are expected to give praise but aren't given any back.
Someone give these guys a show!! the new Martin and Gina....😂ifwt
You ain’t lyin ❤
Ayeeeeee😂😂😂😂
GIVE THEM A SHOW!!!!
🎉
😂😂 fr they're great actors too
Lmaoo ngl this be me, I love cleaning for the compliments I get from my bf😭❤️
His Lil shy dance is so adorable 🤭
I literally just experienced this aaand I reacted the same way she did….I guess they need that…when I clean, I don’t 🤷🏾♀️
Same when yall pay the bills
@@fashionlife5348 Who gets praised for paying the bills tf? 😭
@@QueenK-popUnniewomen make it a habit to post when there paying there own bills
@@K-qm4kt okay but who praised them when they posted it?
@@K-qm4ktbecause yall made a point to hate independent women AND also hate gold diggers
Too relatable.. When I clean my husband doesn't even bat an eye, but when he cleans up he has to make sure and tell me about everything he did
that's not okay.
That's a red flag. It either goes both ways or no praise.
damnn pipoo nowadays so immature and made love war zone, i swear, everyone hve their weakness, as for ladies, it's mood swings and freak out on simple bullshit. so, let men breath they have some cons too.
@@olamideakinbobola9051 you are a red flag yourself, who asked ur toxic opinion, just move on.
@@Blank_Ent Clown
Everytime I came home from work my husband always starts the conversation by telling the things he had done from A to Z
Why is this so accurate 😂
Them dimples killing the game!
I came gor this comment. Her dimples are so lovely
facts
I'm the stay at home mom and I want that same level of praise from my husband 😂 I'm like, "Did you see the kitchen? And the bedroom? I took out the trash too. Pretty good, right?" And wait for my hugs and praise, haha. Silly, I know, but I love it!
Great job! You go girl! You're awesome 🎉
😂😂🎉you're awesome for that
Isn’t that what you should be doing? lol
@@nickilema1074do u expect to get a raise when u do your job well? Well stay at home moms don't get breaks, paid, or promoted.
@@nickilema1074 it is still a lot of work regardless and a little bit of appreciation would not harm anyone.
This guy actually a great actor.. he's so good with the expressions
I expect it because my wife expects it lol. We both work, we both have our own set of chores and we both do them willingly and without being told. But she has told me “I just like hearing the praise” so we both do the throat clearing - it’s how we have fun with each other lol
WHY IS THIS SHIT SO ACCURATE LMFAOOOO
I always praise him when he cleans. The best advice my Mother n Law ever gave me was to acknowledge him when he cleans not because he cleaned but because it is his motivation to clean again. She said it worked every time for her lol and I must say it actually does work.
Right on. Positive enforcement. Just like training a dog 😂. It works tho, my mum taught me the same.
@@juanitaschlink2028 I used to complain that he didn’t do things right or that it wasn’t my way but with 3 kids and small kids at that I really do appreciate his help. His Mom said the trick is you have to let him know that you seen what he did to help before he asks if I seen that he cleaned and I was stubborn at first but then I realized it was harder with kids and that it did help even if it wasn’t my way and I took her advice lol.
It works for us women too.
Humans are just wired to thrive on positive comments.
When my husband appreciates my hard work then it motivates me to do more and with a joyful heart! 😊
@@allthingsaremadenew236I used to complain about it not being done right meaning my way but after 3 kids I appreciate it so much. I like to make things and I am trying to find things I like to make to sell and when he like’s something I crocheted I feel more positive or confident about making more of them so I can sell items so I understand that.
@@allthingsaremadenew236 I enjoy giving him acknowledgment too. It’s not something that bothers me. I don’t have to force myself to do it. When we first got together it hurt my ego for some reason but I think now I genuinely want him to be happy and he genuinely wants me to be happy. It took a while to get there though.
Cant be more accurateeeeee. "You're husband material" and the legs closes while playing with fingers are killing meeee. Her face, her faceeeee😂😂😂😂😂
These two are my favorite 😻
Yup. I make sure my husband hype me up after I clean too. Compliment my above average cleaning skills 😂😂
My husband is the same way when he cleans our place once a year, and if I'm not around, he would text me about it.
😂😂😂
LOL!! 2 funny !
once a year? 😟 hopefully that’s not true girly 😭🙏
@iluvmycats_ It's true. It doesn't bother me, though. At least, he cooks every now and then, and I love his cooking.
@@yagomi32 OH OKAY 🫶
I do this to my wife and I remind her that since you criticise error, you must praise good works and milk it.
I too love❤and adore the child inside my Man 😊
Her face before the praise😂😂😂
Honestly this is absolutely my chronically ill ass hyping my own dang self up after doing some chores, sometimes it's more than i can handle and then the depression kicks in so when i DO get it done, i pat myself on the back😁
Now, that's completely understandable!!
Good for you!
This is SO TRUE! That's exactly me at the fridge when my kids are bugging me! The claps, pointing & over the top I LOVE YES I DO! I almost expected you to boop his nose☝️👶😅
If my husband did this, i would surely giving him more compliments
They really do need this level of praise and adoration and acknowledgment but then straight up COMPLETELY ignore us when we do the exact same sh!t every single day for everybody in the whole house. If we demanded this level of acknowlegment they would laugh in our face.
The real answer is, for me… I don’t really care that much about keeping things particularly clean. I just know my partner cares.
When I do a bunch of cleaning I’m doing it for her and it feels nice to be acknowledged for it.
Exactly 😢
Exactly is so sexist it’s seem that they don’t said that to they wife and to all women in general because they expect us to do it 😢
@@bignasty389 that's your parents fault, for not teaching you the importance of cleanliness
@@bignasty389 i bet you'd start caring pretty quick if she stopped cleaning entirely. at least when you ran out of clean dishes to eat off of, if not before.
Y’all are hilarious. Imma screenshot this for when I want a good laugh.
...youre going to screenshot a video...?
Screenshot??
Wut??
You can create a "funny videos" playlist and make it private.
@@shahzebatif05I think they meant the comments.
God thanks my man does that without anything ❤
Her dimples are gorgeous ❤
You are so right.... IF they sweep the just the kitchen floor... they want this reaction, and they think it doesn't every need to be swept again. No matter how old they get, they look for this acknowledgment, but they don't give it to her.
That last part is too true. Men want a fucking parade thrown for the most basic shit even though we're doing 90%+ of the work with virtually no appreciation. I swear when I give my boyfriend food he just hums and ignores it, I actually have to stand there waiting until he says "thank you". I cook everything from scratch and sometimes it feels like he just doesn't care. 2-3 hours of cooking every single day for nothing. When he takes 15 minutes to clean the bathroom he acts like he just ran a marathon
@@hywodena A red flag perhaps. like seriously im a woman and i used to be someone who dont give praises alot because i'm quiet stoic and introverted( only goes out once a month) until my mom started to praises my every work done soon after i finished college and left home. it was like that for long time without returning her praises and then i started to feel guilty that she keeps doing that and soon i started to praises her works too. At first it was kinda hard but then i got used to it and it indeed improve my personality to be more optimistic, confident and enthusiastic talking to people. A person who cannot give an ounce of praises for the person for a long time is just sad. i'm 31 and it took me years to change. Although still i does have difficulties getting along with people, but it is nowhere near how i used to be in the past.
I’m acting just like this next time I clean 😂😂😂
Let us know how it goes! 😂 I swear, we're just supposed to do it, they want a cookie!
@@OriginalMeanGirl got you 😂😂
Maybe you should act like her next time your partner cleans
😂
@@shireads2954 good idea 😂😂😂
Love every second of this!!! So true
I praise my husband all day and thank him though the night if it means I don't need to do dishes 😂 how much easier is it just to be thankful for the help than having to do it yourself... He feels so proud and happy he helped. it will happen more often because you saw his hard work and you were just as happy in real life as he imagined you would be in his head... Win win
You better give me my praise woman!😂❤
Yeah for the bare minimum 😂😂😂
@@zizojaezekeom3565 Stay single. At least your cat will tolerate you.
Why is it men need praise when they do basic household chores, but women don't?
@@Words-of-encouragement.-. at least my cat cleans himself without me having to praise him lol
@@lydiamissy2811and are actually loyal and don’t demand sex 24/7 lol
We need to know we’re loved too. Tell me I’m the GOAT😂😂 😂
Sooooo truee..i rarely praise my husband but everytime i did, he smiled like a happy child..lol
This 100% absolutely what I want to hear!!
His happy face 😂
Like a lil boy waiting for mommy to give him praise for doing his best 😂😂😂
No matter how old we are or how old we get.We all wanna feel appreciated ❤😂
Yup, we big kids...
Small gestures of appreciation will fuel us to fetch the moon for y'all
The hype is so extra. He done sauced it all the way up! 😂😂 They're stinking funny! 😂😂😂😂😂
I just did this with my man 🤣🤣🤣this is too on point 😂😂😂
Girls want the same reaction too. It's human to want to be acknowledged for your hard work.
She said "thanks for cleaning up. " That's infinitely more gratitude than you'll ever get from 99.8% of women. That's a good woman.
I really hope that hasnt been your experience.. I hope your self esteem gets up, and that you meet better women. I find that sometimes its a location, thing! Have a great weekend❤ God Bless ❤✝️❤️
Who hurt you?
The due diligence dougie is zesty AF 😂😂
😂 yup! Be having to praise them just a like a kid who cleaned their room without having to ask😭
😂😂😂
His reactions are priceless! 😂
She has beautiful dimples❤ Wonderful couple ✨
LOL!! I see no lie in this entire skit!! 100% Truth!
Like children. Such delicate egos.😂😂😂😂😂😂
FACTS 👌🏾😂 I low-key suspect y'all been knowing this and still don't wanna give us our props 😏. Little encouragement goes a mighty long way.
We act 1% children and 99% adult
Woman act 1% adult and 99% children
My husband rarely does anything around the house, so when he does I use all the complements I could think of to show him how grateful I am and how I wish this to be a more common occurrence. 😅
Ngl the "thanks for cleaning up" just felt like it was enough for me
That was more like "thanks for cleaning up...LIKE YOUR SHOULD"
Oh my lort!
This is hilarious!!! She be talking to him like he is a little boy and he is eating it up!!!
Literally the biggest babies that's why we can't get enough 😂😂😂
Yo thank you for a solid good laugh, homeboy got me pegged, I’m that dude I must admit 😂😂
Yall funny af and on point 😂😂
This is my husband when he cleans my car. I don't be noticing until he tell me so he ain't wrong lol
Tbh if I’m living with someone for over 60 years I don’t want praise, it’s a job I got to do if she is at work or doing other things.
Exactly, he definitely needed a spirit boost 😂😂
Taking a moment to breathe is so relatable
Can’t appreciate the cleaning he did especially all the scrubbing he did 😂
Not the fingers and the knees. I cant. 😂😂😂
Every man deserve a praise
Men wait for praise even when washing a spoon Lol 🤣❤️
Those compliments made me feel good. You better talk to your man like that😂😂
they should do a video where guys clap and cheer when she pays the bill on the date
@@vg1024 Oh my God, it made me feel good, too.
Omg yesss! My husband needs that over happy approval when he helps out around the house. And I love to show him he's appreciated. Adorable.
((YES)) YES we do!! We definitely deserve it..
The thanks was already way more than he deserved too 😂
🤣omg I'm so done
Okay this was cute as hell y'all! 😂❤
It’s the knock knees I can’t 🤣🤣🤣
It's the deep breaths for me 😂😂😂😂
Been married 33 years, when someone does a good job, just praise them. Makes them feel better and you appreciate them more. And I’ve also realized us women need to point out what we do too, just casually mention what you are doing. Just make things nicer. I appreciate him and he appreciates me!
So true🎉 Acknowledgement must be given for every single detail of effort made😅😂🎉
You re both so brilliantly hillarious 😂😂😂😂😂❤
Ngl I expect this kind of excitement when I clean, even when it's things that fall under my responsibility 😂
Every man can relate lol 😂
That's all it takes ❤ jus a lil praise 😊
This is so true, it's like the first time ever this got clean.
LOL LOL LOL I love this! Men do behave like children and love praise!!! LOL She did the thing.
😭😂😂rolls eyes and walkssss awayyyyyyyyyyyy