spicy book club | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 168

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  • čas přidán 9. 10. 2023
  • Becky and Matt review their latest reads which probes conversations about female vs male friendships, would you want to live forever, and being a life long learner.
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Komentáře • 260

  • @sinfullysarah4647
    @sinfullysarah4647 Před 8 měsíci +111

    Can we get a “Try Guys try reading smut” video? 🤣 Becky could help out!

  • @michellechu6836
    @michellechu6836 Před 8 měsíci +229

    Appreciate Rainey(?)’s producer note in the begining

  • @NonnahsB
    @NonnahsB Před 8 měsíci +177

    “Sudafed” went so unnoticed 😂 she’s hilarious

    • @autumnbond61
      @autumnbond61 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Yes I died laughing 🤣 love me some Rainie

  • @user-nw1wx9im4m
    @user-nw1wx9im4m Před 8 měsíci +210

    Hopping over from Spotify to remind Becky that the dragons absolutely do fuck

    • @JordanTrimarchi
      @JordanTrimarchi Před 8 měsíci +6

      this comment is so funny 😭😭

    • @emilytayte6801
      @emilytayte6801 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Oh my god 😂

    • @emumford7
      @emumford7 Před 7 měsíci +2

      said that out loud as i was listening 😂

    • @laurenmunday9092
      @laurenmunday9092 Před 7 měsíci +1

      I mean.... Katee Robert's has a whole book about it!

    • @megankesler6599
      @megankesler6599 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Literally that’s the whole reason Vi and Xaden kiss in the first place 😂😂

  • @emilyaysse8443
    @emilyaysse8443 Před 8 měsíci +100

    Becky talking about booktok and scythe and fourth wing has left me dead. Becky, please do a live about booktok please!!! Also, you should read Emily McIntyre, you’d love her writing. It’s a good refresh read.

  • @solcarlosofficial
    @solcarlosofficial Před 8 měsíci +117

    I highly recommend having kids watch kids show but in Spanish with Spanish subtitles. That’s how I learned English from an early age and I was always ahead of my classes.
    Kids aboard languages way faster than adults so if you show them only shows in Spanish they pick up the language extremely fast.

  • @sophiekuhn5342
    @sophiekuhn5342 Před 8 měsíci +97

    Becky needs to have a website or blog called Becky’s book club!

  • @kait_pin
    @kait_pin Před 8 měsíci +100

    As a smut audiobook consumer, this episode was so entertaining 😂

    • @kynnwinwin5650
      @kynnwinwin5650 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Same! I want more book club with Becky #Bookclubwithbecky

  • @mackenziemayor5687
    @mackenziemayor5687 Před 8 měsíci +274

    Wait does Becky not know the Love Hypothesis is Star Wars Fanfic????

    • @awsome8118
      @awsome8118 Před 8 měsíci +2

      i was thinking the same thing lol

    • @sundustii
      @sundustii Před 8 měsíci +18

      I feel like a lot of people don't actually

    • @durrtyinsayne
      @durrtyinsayne Před 8 měsíci +5

      WUT

    • @beccastokes1125
      @beccastokes1125 Před 8 měsíci +14

      Adam CARless is 100% based on Adam DRIVEr

    • @illxnoir
      @illxnoir Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@beccastokes1125the names 😭😭

  • @ferisera
    @ferisera Před 8 měsíci +30

    "The beginning of the book is like... a book!" (Becky wipes eyes from crying because she's laughing so hard) That was HILARIOUS!

  • @user-of7yf7rw1p
    @user-of7yf7rw1p Před 8 měsíci +109

    I loved this episode, but it makes me kind of sad that Ariel would have thrived in this conversation 🥺

  • @Hnbryan
    @Hnbryan Před 8 měsíci +55

    Rainie confidently guessing Matt’s Italian word meant Sudafed is definitely me! Hahaha a whole mood

  • @ivyfelldownthestairs
    @ivyfelldownthestairs Před 8 měsíci +42

    The dragons definitely do boink in that book it’s a major plot point lmaoo

  • @rmislucky
    @rmislucky Před 8 měsíci +28

    I think I need a whole episode of Becky taking us through the entirety of ACOTAR now….

  • @TheEffinator
    @TheEffinator Před 8 měsíci +21

    Hello, just an FYI - the word Gaelic has two pronunciations and is two different languages.
    Gaelic (pronounced Gay-Lick) is Irish
    Gaeiluc (pronounced Gah-lick) is Scottish.
    The languages are similar and share a lot of roots but they as re two distinct languages. 💜

  • @whereyoubean
    @whereyoubean Před 8 měsíci +41

    Yes, will wait for Maggie Spanish Class 101 and Matt Italian Class 101! 😄

  • @fisaysbiteme
    @fisaysbiteme Před 8 měsíci +60

    The pickpocket lady was ousted as being a right wing racist targeting people on the street without proof of actual wrong doing. She belongs to Lega and "has a sixth sense" about the wrongdoings of the Roma and Sinti people she calls out and chases from public spaces.

  • @sdfba4648
    @sdfba4648 Před 8 měsíci +16

    “My brilliant friend” book series and the HBO adaptation of the same name are both absolutely amazing. Loooooved them!

  • @javeriakhan7240
    @javeriakhan7240 Před 8 měsíci +9

    THIS SCREAMS ARIEL PLZZZZ

  • @emilyf4178
    @emilyf4178 Před 8 měsíci +107

    As a life long book nerd I am so thankful for what tik tok has done for reading I feel like it has brought so much community to readers. I had my little sister read all of the Sarah J Maas books and we sit and talk on the phone about books for literal hours

  • @AprilSay
    @AprilSay Před 8 měsíci +17

    😭 spicy scenes in audiobooks can be a lil intense but tbh its how i consume most books these days so i can get through all my TBR lol

  • @lovestories69
    @lovestories69 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Matt also has the perfect voice for audiobooks!

  • @kaolythaopsychosweetieandm9794
    @kaolythaopsychosweetieandm9794 Před 8 měsíci +28

    I love this PODCAST!!!! I clicked on it so fast and liked it even without watching and listening to the whole PODCAST! lol We love spicy books!

  • @swithheld9905
    @swithheld9905 Před 8 měsíci +10

    aaaaggggh the title makes me so sad - didn't ariel always talk about smutty books? she would have loved sitting with them during this ep :(

  • @sparklingspectrumite
    @sparklingspectrumite Před 8 měsíci +19

    Love the Scythe series, and Fourth Wing is SO GOOD! I cried when it came to Liam…

  • @jaytonmccracken7140
    @jaytonmccracken7140 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Rainie don't forget to update the description with your new job!

  • @andrealghn
    @andrealghn Před 8 měsíci +11

    MATT SPEAKING ITALIAN 🤌🏻🤌🏻

  • @beachgurl141
    @beachgurl141 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Now you guys need to listen to the dramatized adaptations of the ACOTAR series. Audiobooks on a whole different level!

  • @milla4898
    @milla4898 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Rainie releasing an hour early for us!! Bless

  • @luioviedo2416
    @luioviedo2416 Před 8 měsíci +6

    I made the mistake of listening to this while I’m in the office and the physical restraint to not laugh or squeal too loudly was so painful 😂😂😂

  • @_sammydb
    @_sammydb Před 8 měsíci +8

    The pod topic I never knew I needed!!!!

  • @evegerbrandt7906
    @evegerbrandt7906 Před 8 měsíci +29

    As a person who followed the ACOTAR to contemporary romance to dark romance to monster romance pipeline I find it so hilarious that Becky refers to The Love Hypothesis as having gratuitous sex scenes and so spicy because there is one sex scene. The rest is all build up 😂. To be fair I love it and it’s so cute and easy to read but, if you want gratuitous spice… I’ve got better recs.

    • @NatalieGB
      @NatalieGB Před 8 měsíci +2

      Right!? I listened to it in true podcast form as I was driving and literally yelled at my car that that book was like the least spicy of spicy trending books I’ve read. Of my documented 106 I’ve read this year, 105 were probably all spicier than that 😂😂

    • @wildeone27
      @wildeone27 Před 8 měsíci +3

      100%! it’s so funny listening to people talk about how spicy some books are when i read spicier fan fiction at like 13

    • @sillyghost98
      @sillyghost98 Před 7 měsíci +1

      If you could share some gratuitous spice recs please and thank you 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @emmaroesner7106
      @emmaroesner7106 Před 7 měsíci

      Yes please drop one book rec from each category of the pipeline!

  • @simplyprismal6100
    @simplyprismal6100 Před 8 měsíci +12

    Same Eugene I would be chasing Matt all over the gym if I knew he could speak Italian like that

  • @kynnwinwin5650
    @kynnwinwin5650 Před 8 měsíci +3

    This was my favorite episode so far #booknerd but I want a monthly book club dedicated to Becky and her smutty books. I'm def reading 4th wing and love hypothesis next

  • @freakywalrus
    @freakywalrus Před 8 měsíci +9

    OMG!!! My Brilliant friend! They turned it into a TV show!!! It's amazing! I didn't even know it was a book I LOVE THE SHOW!

  • @hiVanderLinden
    @hiVanderLinden Před 8 měsíci +4

    I would have so many submissions if this does become a recurring section of the pod 😂

  • @rubberducky1433
    @rubberducky1433 Před 8 měsíci +2

    ah i’ve been waiting all day for this 🥰 thank you

  • @prudencethewitch140
    @prudencethewitch140 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Rainey needs to discover the whole line of silhouette mystery/ suspense romance novels. All short, spicy, light reads.

  • @emgermain
    @emgermain Před 8 měsíci +3

    Loveddddd fourth wing the spice level is maybe 1🌶️ lol

  • @lovestories69
    @lovestories69 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Omg this is sooo funny! Becky making Matt read the smutty excerpt was hilarious! They should do this more😂

  • @alexiarosas8756
    @alexiarosas8756 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Im here for another episode like this and have Matt read like icebreaker or something 😂😂😂

  • @caitlincrum9240
    @caitlincrum9240 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Please add the suggested weekly segment!! It’s such a funny idea 😂 love you guys ❤

  • @thiel_spencer
    @thiel_spencer Před 7 měsíci +3

    14:35 I feel seen, lmao, I am VERY dyslexic and I took ASL instead of Spanish (or another spoken foreign language) in high school, and while I'm sure it was easier for me, I can 110% tell you whenever I had to fingerspell a word I royally fucked it up. The dyslexia will always get you 💀💀

  • @maclaycampbell2042
    @maclaycampbell2042 Před 8 měsíci +15

    I was diagnosed with Dyslexia in elementary school so I never took a Spanish class, they would go to Spanish and I would go to an intensive reading class and that helped so much! But when I got to high school I needed a language so I took ASL because it was only offered to students with disabilities! And I loved it! Definitely look into learning ASL. Start with the alphabet, then move to finger spelling, and definitely don’t forget about learning numbers (it’s different in ASL)!

  • @faierieprince
    @faierieprince Před 8 měsíci +14

    As a librarian I'm obsessed with this ep lol
    Also I read Fourth Wing a couple of weeks ago while I was on medical leave post surgery at the suggestion of fellow librarians. I binged it in like 4 hours. Sooo good. Romance stuff isn't usually my jam but I was so invested.

  • @user-yy5fu9in1t
    @user-yy5fu9in1t Před 8 měsíci

    Absolutely loved this! More book talk, por favor! 🫶🏻🙌🏻 highly enjoyed hearing Becky talk about Scythe.

  • @PinkCandySkies13
    @PinkCandySkies13 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I just finished Fourth Wing bc of this recommendation and HOLY FORKING SHIRT BALLS it’s my new favorite book of all time ty Becky I owe you big

  • @nadarocker7605
    @nadarocker7605 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yessssssss more bookcasts please!!!

  • @marte.sh0020
    @marte.sh0020 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Well now I need Matt to reed from acosf😂

  • @whereyoubean
    @whereyoubean Před 8 měsíci +5

    4:12 Oooooh Matt reading in Italian.... wooooooo beautiful❤

  • @boopmcgoo
    @boopmcgoo Před 8 měsíci +2

    i really appreciate the warning and time stamps at the beginning, very considerate ❤ i don't always feel like hearing/reading smut lol

  • @leesue8752
    @leesue8752 Před 8 měsíci +32

    So sad they're talking about spicy books without Ariel ☹

  • @DannaALopez
    @DannaALopez Před 8 měsíci +2

    My two worlds collide!! My favorite podcast and my favorite book types 🤣❤️❤️❤️

  • @kathleenuclear
    @kathleenuclear Před 8 měsíci +11

    Rainie, you are so precious! You are doing an incredible job.

  • @mead0ws0vergrown
    @mead0ws0vergrown Před 8 měsíci +13

    i loveeeee reading smut but becky’s so right there absolutely has to be a lead up/ build up of tension otherwise it just comes across as silly

  • @moonchild271
    @moonchild271 Před 8 měsíci +2

    so glad for Rainie's note cause I listen to podcast on speakers😂

  • @kimweaver7788
    @kimweaver7788 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Hi! Do Becky, Matt, or Rainie have public GoodReads accounts we can follow? I would love to see what books they read and rate!

    • @aliflanagan7669
      @aliflanagan7669 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Same! Nd I would love this to be a recurring segment, talking abt books they've read recently

  • @chou8220
    @chou8220 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I see book in title, I click 😂😂

  • @claudiaalioto1720
    @claudiaalioto1720 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Love hearing Matt speaking Italian!! As an Italian speaker, I love to hear my language being spoken

  • @syrandawileydenavarro657
    @syrandawileydenavarro657 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Just finished fourth wing! So excited to listen ❤

  • @fefedundee
    @fefedundee Před 8 měsíci +1

    YES TO MATTS SMUT CORNER!!!

  • @stephaniecardona9175
    @stephaniecardona9175 Před 8 měsíci

    Omg I love this episode. So fun and lively. It’s so girl talk. I’m into it.

  • @tessainwood1587
    @tessainwood1587 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Love this book/reading episode! I want to join this book club 😂

  • @purelife9013
    @purelife9013 Před 8 měsíci +23

    My friend wrote a murder mystery, smut, romance!
    It’s called ‘Sins of Seduction by Nicole Banks! Very spicy and amazingly written! 🌶️

    • @ericafiala5105
      @ericafiala5105 Před 8 měsíci

      That sounds so interesting. I added it to my list.

  • @emmaroesner7106
    @emmaroesner7106 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Felt the same way that Love Hypothesis was a nice reset but damn when Matt started reading it and used those ssss I was like… this is dirtier than I remember 😂

  • @fearlessfit8952
    @fearlessfit8952 Před 8 měsíci

    I almost screamed when Becky mentioned the Scythe series! One of my all time favorite books😍

  • @daenaparuginog1510
    @daenaparuginog1510 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I listened to this at work and I had a really hard time trying not to laugh throughout the entire episode!!

  • @jessicaunderwater
    @jessicaunderwater Před 5 měsíci

    I know I am late to watching this but OMG I LOVE SCYTH and I love that they are talking about it. My favorite genre of books. So glad Becky loves them too.

  • @Namite0001
    @Namite0001 Před 8 měsíci +1

    The way I'm getting back into reading bc I couldn't handle imagining the audiobook narrator narrating the smut in Red, White, and Royal Blue 😂

  • @fefedundee
    @fefedundee Před 8 měsíci

    AHHHFREAKING AMAZING!!! Yes Fourth Wing!!! So here for this!! Also would love to have more of these and Becky you need to get into the SJM universe!! Like STAT!!!

  • @AprilSay
    @AprilSay Před 8 měsíci +10

    Fantasy book rec from me is Bitter Medicine by Mia Tsai! It incorporates Taiwanese folklore and fantasy elements and is sooo good.

  • @lyrichooey3430
    @lyrichooey3430 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I would LOVE to follow any of these guys on goodreads

  • @luiber4493
    @luiber4493 Před 8 měsíci +2

    i get matt back AND he's talking about elena ferrante???? this is too good to be true

  • @user-rl5vd4zn1l
    @user-rl5vd4zn1l Před 8 měsíci

    I loved Matt's book pick! The second book in that series is my favourite!!

  • @sophiekuhn5342
    @sophiekuhn5342 Před 8 měsíci +9

    Matt should be a voice actor because he is so funny and I love Becky and rainies reactions

  • @remy2718
    @remy2718 Před 8 měsíci +2

    As someone who has learnt multiple languages: You don't have to be particularly smart to learn a new language. Everyone can do it, but the key is lots of exposure, not classroom instruction.
    You need to listen to a lot of native audio to be able to perceive all of the sounds of your target language, and reading is a great way to broaden your vocabulary. Having the background knowledge of how sentences are structured, how verbs are conjugated etc. definitely helps but the crucial part happens without you even noticing: your brain is constantly analysing the patterns and with enough exposure, you'll internalise the "rules" and be able to apply them without the need to consciously think about them. You can achieve native-like fluency in any language. Heck, my native language isn't even my primary language anymore.

  • @rebeccaclow6663
    @rebeccaclow6663 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Love the book chat! This is a great episode. A little clarification on some pronunciations; words derived from Scots Gaelic are said Gah-lick whereas words from Irish Gaelic are said like Gay-lick.

  • @gretaholland
    @gretaholland Před 7 měsíci

    Can they please do an episode where Matt reads an entire book, I love his voice ❤

  • @LouisaWordsIWriteCrazy
    @LouisaWordsIWriteCrazy Před 7 měsíci

    There was a short story collection in the Scythe series called Gleanings that came out in November last year, and one of the stories was about an art class taught by someone who grew up in the time before they solved death. Gleanings had stories from various points and perspectives in the world, and if you love the series, I'd recommend it! As for my favourite smutty book, I can't narrow it done more then anything by Katee Robert. The Dark Olympus series is really big right now, and so good!

  • @SajR5520
    @SajR5520 Před 7 měsíci

    The laughing in this one was amazing 😂

  • @lauraderaeve5017
    @lauraderaeve5017 Před 8 měsíci

    Yess love scythe and fourth wing

  • @virginiaraffaeli8332
    @virginiaraffaeli8332 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Matt learning you speak Italian has made my day! Congratulazioni davvero! E dolcissimo sapere che stai leggendo l'Amica Geniale di Elena Ferrante. Non è solo un capolavoro della letteratura Italiana, ma è anche un bellissimo libro sulla psicologia femminile. Love you all YCSWU squad

  • @AlmsG8
    @AlmsG8 Před 5 měsíci

    More of Matt reading smut please!
    He really should look into it as a career 😍😂❤

  • @_Blackset
    @_Blackset Před 8 měsíci

    we need a becky book club

  • @manuela8038
    @manuela8038 Před 8 měsíci +4

    ah Matt!! I'm really happy you're reading my brilliant friend in Italian, cause I've read it in Italian and I'm not from the Naples area and I found it hard as well!! Really, props to you!!
    Also, there's a 4th book!!
    Also, whoever is reading this comment y'all should read it (or watch the show) cause it's really interesting!
    updated comment to say this as a translation student we have specific classes on technical, legal and economics vocabulary and I had a class on medical interpreting, very hard but so cool!

  • @wwx-lwj-ai-ni
    @wwx-lwj-ai-ni Před 8 měsíci

    I totally feel Matt @ the 14:00 mark. I'm learning Mandarin and watch a lot of shows. One was a variety show about a group of celebs working on a small farm. So much convo was about cooking/animals/hobbies/etc and I felt like i was nailing it. Then i tried to watch a show about musical theatre and was completely lost when judges gave notes.
    Me: "They're saying something about singing a song and that's as much as I'm grasping 😅"

  • @JocelynLowary
    @JocelynLowary Před 8 měsíci

    The way I gasped when Matt started speaking Italian. 🥵😱😂🫶🏻

  • @tayloralexa6237
    @tayloralexa6237 Před 8 měsíci

    you’ve convinced me to read the fourth wing 😂

  • @fandomart4382
    @fandomart4382 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Rainie, a suggestion for you "murder,mistery, romance"=Haunting Adeline
    I mean.... It's kinda got everything HAHAHAH

    • @evegerbrandt7906
      @evegerbrandt7906 Před 8 měsíci +2

      The absolute horror on her face… I can see it now 😂

  • @whereyoubean
    @whereyoubean Před 8 měsíci +5

    You missed the episode numberrrr in the title

  • @MoritAzul25
    @MoritAzul25 Před 8 měsíci

    45:46 Random side note, I love the editing here. I like that we can see Becky & Matt but also the tiktok at the same time rather than just one of them holding up their phone 😅

  • @juliaaaaaa4327
    @juliaaaaaa4327 Před 7 měsíci

    We need a whole booktok segment maybe like once a month !

  • @kaley8989
    @kaley8989 Před 8 měsíci

    i would absolutely love more book themed episodes
    i haven’t read haunting adeline (and definitely don’t plan on it) but there’s definitely some ~scenes~ in it that you can read
    also becky should definitely try six of crows, i think she would like it

  • @whereyoubean
    @whereyoubean Před 8 měsíci +4

    Before Korean Englishman, Jolly, Try Guys, Trypod, Guily Pleasures and YCSWU... I’m not a youtube video watcher / listener.. but now.. I watch more youtube videos than movies and series 😂😅

  • @lizburch20
    @lizburch20 Před 8 měsíci

    The gasp I gasped when Matt started reading 😂

  • @kathrynm5074
    @kathrynm5074 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Ranie gets so red during the smut scenes. It's so adorable. I have read these smut scenes and listening to them even in a fake group is so embarassing!!

  • @somshunsun
    @somshunsun Před 8 měsíci +2

    Y’all I’ve been on a smut kick lately and imma find a passage for y’all

  • @kotamundaca3398
    @kotamundaca3398 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Here for all the shadow daddies 👏🏼😮‍💨

  • @hp6964
    @hp6964 Před 7 měsíci

    I love Scytheeee omg. Neal Shusterman is pretty popular but I hear more people talk about Unwind than the Scythe trilogy. I was happy to hear her talk about it 🥰

  • @hellobobbita
    @hellobobbita Před 7 měsíci

    RAINIE! I graduated *several* years before you, but ASL was my absolute favorite class at Tufts. I wish they had more than 3 semesters, and I still regret not finding a way to keep practicing/using it after I graduated. But it's never too late to learn--lifelong learning woohoo