Narcissist Divorce Settlement Negotiation
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- How to Negotiate a Divorce Settlement With a Narcissist. How to plan for mediation with a narcissist? What techniques is my narcissistic spouse using during negotiation? How to negotiate with a narcissist?
The Complete Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist is a seven part CZcams video playlist: • Complete Guide to Divo...
How to Negotiate a Divorce Settlement With a Narcissist is Part Five.
To view this video on our web site: memphisdivorce.com/divorce/ho...
Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
0:30 - Rule #1: Patience Wins Divorce Negotiations
2:10 - Eight Negotiation Tips for Divorcing the Narcissist
6:47 - Rule #2: Understand Machiavellian Negotiating Tactics
7:51 - Nine Negative Negotiating Tactics Used by Narcissists
14:06 - Conclusion
More resources on Divorcing a Narcissist:
Divorcing the Narcissist: memphisdivorce.com/tennessee-... (Our original post describing the clinical definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and general introduction.)
Financial Abuse, Narcissists & Money: A Divorce Lawyer’s Perspective:
memphisdivorce.com/tennessee-... (Mason’s popular video sharing his experiences and thoughts.)
Divorcing a Narcissist: Six Family Lawyers’ Advice: memphisdivorce.com/divorce/di... (Six nationally recognized family lawyers discuss their experiences and advice.)
Finding a Divorce Lawyer Who Can Handle Opposing a Narcissist: memphisdivorce.com/tennessee-... (Mason’s thoughts on what divorcing spouses should look for.)
Visit MemphisDivorce.com memphisdivorce.com/ Tennessee’s leading family law web resource for readers and lawyers. MemphisDivorce.com answers hundreds of frequently asked questions on divorce, alimony, custody, and more, with videos, our Tennessee Family Law Blog, and a free Tennessee Child Support Calculator app for your smart phone. Discover all you can learn.
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In the middle of a contentious divorce with a narcissist and watching the vid and when tactic 3 in the vid pops up, the video uses a quote from an expert lawyer on negotiating……it was my lawyer! Feeling a bit better. Hoping the clown and bullying tactics end soon. The only thing uglier than divorcing a narcissist is being married to one.
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After having 2 lawyers, i realize that there are some awful snakes out there who steal your money. I'm glad there are good lawyers out there like this one who posted this video who cares about people dealing with narcs.
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I am going through a very difficult divorce and my wife was always a difficult person so no surprise some of the letters from her lawyer.
They are well matched!!
I wish neither of us had to go through this and wish there was an easier way.
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How the divorce going? My ex wife is the same barely going through this 😢
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If your a female with children, your going to get the house, children, furniture, savings, 1/2 491k, dog, alimony for 5 years or more. It does not matter who the narcissit is. The judge rules on the mothers side. Even more if the judge is female. The man becomes instantly homeless and owes 33% of his take home pay. Marriage is such a bad deal for the man.
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I did not realize it then, but I married a narcissist. We cohabitated for multiple years and there were strong signs other people saw, but I didn’t. As soon as the ink was dry on the marriage certificate, outright lying became normal including not using contraceptive despite agreements otherwise. After separation, she never lost an opportunity to harm me. My first attorney, a supposed highly reputable family law specialist attorney, refused to take any steps regarding custody. My green second attorney at least cooperated with making arguments. I taught myself to do legal research and write briefs. If I went on my own against an attorney, I always lost. If I had my attorney present the papers and make the arguments, we almost always won. All three of her attorneys started out a gang-banger, got bogged down with reality, and resigned at the first convenient opportunity.
That was only a tiny part of the whole story which involved me being investigated four times by Probation, six or seven times by CPS, once by the FBI for being the Unibomber, and two or three times by the local police, for supposed physical and sexual abuse of our toddler daughter, and then others over the next couple years. I always cooperated with investigators and always came out clean. I think during the CPS first visit, I was explaining the custody conflict history while the daughter was happily singing to herself a few feet away while swinging on the swing hanging from the living room ceiling. I asked her to put her swimming suit (bikini style) on which she happily did; not a scratch anywhere. The Ex-‘s baseless accusations only stopped when the judge threatened her with jail time for contempt. Knowing what I know now, I would probably still let the investigators in, but would insist on video recording everything for everybody’s safety. Back then, cell phones and recording cameras did not exist.
I was assaulted annually for about a decade by the Ex-, usually during her visitations. She was of equal size, weight, and strength. She often used weapons (pogo stick, baseball bat.) I reported every incident to the police and to the courts. The police took confirming photos of sizable bruises multiple times. Despite the evidence, the DA and the court repeatedly did nothing. When our daughter was in the third grade, I asked her where she would like to live if something were to happen to me. Her two choices did not include Mom. I figured the best unbiased witness to her choices and reasoning would be the court counselor. Unknown to me, during their meeting, the counselor apparent asked the daughter about her relations to her mother. The daughter told about a fight she had with her mother on the school grounds several months earlier. At the next court hearing, the judge on his own initiative issued a permanent restraining order. Several months later, the Ex- came by, wanting to borrow some money. She had stopped payment on a prior check, so I refused to loan her any more money and went back to work. She kicked me in the genitals. I landed on the ground in a fetal position and was wiped out for nearly two weeks. The DA finally took action and the court issued an arrest warrant. They made no effort to execute the warrant and dropped the warrant in less than a year. The Ex- was never inconvenienced for any of her antics at any point. The daughter has wanted nothing to do with her mother for over thirty years now, but gets along fine with all her other maternal relatives (and me.)
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Opposing counsel will attempt to bully you into settling for far less then you deserve. Take your time heading into mediation, expect to get pushed around a little but be firm in your settlement requests/offers.
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Not only is my narc playing stupid, expensive games during our divorce, but he is spoofing my phone number and sending out inappropriate messages. He is also a hacker and knows what my attorney and I say.
The narcissist word was mention billion times. The advice should focus on dos and dont of negotiating during divorce, just like any other situation. Given the divorce is an emotional affair, focusing on labels is not helpful but rather counterproductive. This could’ve been a good advice, but it was converted to something else, like, if your spouse won’t settle because you wanted more than your share, then this spouse is narcissistic! Not practical at all and certainly not helpful.
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What do you do when your lawyer doesn't get you your settlement from the narcissist? My ex is claiming he never received the paperwork to sign and my lawyer is simply doing nothing about it. I don't know what to do next.
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Is there any Attorneys that you could recommend in Florida to help me dealing with a Narcissist, It’s been quite a battle , It’s going on 2 1/2 years and I’m no further then when the divorce was first filed .
Please ..
In the video description, I have a link to an article I wrote with my thoughts on hiring the right attorney. Also check out the videos where some of my colleagues join in on the topic.
Neither spouse wants to move out of the unencumbered marital home.
What happens?
D day soon for me!
What happened?
Great video, thank you for the help. Most is on track! However -- Peskind out of Illinois should be removed. They are not your allies here.
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When you get settlement... Who do you actually get the settlement in reality?
How do you get the settlement in reality
Narcissist, the most misused word in divorce, no diagnosis, no narcissist. Just a handy easy button to explain a woman running away from accountability 😂
The best way to negotiate a divorce settlement with a narcissist. Is don't get married to them, in the first place.
They are expert mimickers, pretending to be almost exactly like you in areas of priority. I was engaged 2 years before marriage and 2 weeks after we married he suddenly showed his true nature like taking of a mask.
@@tamarblomster6826 who is a "victim"? And how are they a victim? Tell me, are you a Mr. or Mrs. Snowflake?
Everyone is on their best behavior ....at about the 6 year mark, the truth comes out and the mask falls off.
That would be nice but most people don't realize they are marrying one because narcissists are experts at masking their behavior until after you are already in a relationship with them.
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BAD advice, DONT start from what you want, instead, start from what is feasible. In respect of children, don’t assume the other party will be reasonable or act in the best interest of the children. Don’t rely on the other party to, post separation, do anything they say they will, unless it is in the form of a Court Order.
I hear you. In this advice made the assumption that starting with what you want is both a) in the best interest of the children and b) this gives a parent a little more wiggle room in the negotiation. In my experience, this is the way to go because many parents won't negotiate every detail. Some points can be "won" without a fight. Also, your attorney will have opinions about local practice I can't possibly know. So, listen to your lawyer's negotiation advice, not mine!
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