Why LDS Young Men Leader Brad Wilcox Believes God's Grace Is The Key To Overcoming THIS New Epidemic

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  • This video is about why LDS Young Men Leader Brad Wilcox believes God's grace is the key to overcoming the new epidemic of loneliness, needing love, and not knowing where to find it.
    Get help to find answers to some of life's most challenging questions with Let’s Get Real with Stephen Jones: A @scripturecentralofficial original series that offers practical insights and ways for navigating life's challenges and heaviest questions. Drawing on the foundation of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the real-life experiences of diverse individuals, this show provides valuable examples of real people acting in faith to help you develop a deeper understanding of topics relating to the History of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ.
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    CHAPTER
    00:00 - Intro
    01:23 - "I don't have any memories before Ethiopia. . . My earliest childhood memories are all of Africa."
    06:04 - "I don't think any other people have ever taught that in a Primary lesson before."
    14:50 - "We took an aptitude test and it said I should be a Priest or a Rabi."
    23:00 - 'There is an epidemic of loneliness. . . of needing love and not knowing where to find it.'
    30:16 - "You get to a point where the only thing you can do is juggle." Brad's experience working full time with a full-time calling as The First Counselor in The General Young Men Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
    43:20 - Even when it's hard, even when it's misunderstood and criticized, I can still keep going because . . ."
    49:13 - "What impact (from FSY) have you seen?"
    54:46 - "We often speak of a covenant as a two-way promise which it is but . . . "
    1:02:44 "What are some of the biggest misconceptions of faith and repentance and faith and grace in general."
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    E0014 of Let's Get Real with Stephen Jones features Brother Bradley Wilcox, First Counselor in the General Young Men's Presidency, of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Brother Wilcox shares how his early life experiences, including his childhood in Ethiopia, have shaped his unique perspective on life's most challenging questions.
    Brother Wilcox takes us through his journey from his early days in EFY to his role in the General Young Men Presidency of the LDS Church. Discover how he manages to balance a demanding professional life with a spiritually fulfilling calling, and the impact FSY is having on the rising generation to help them overcome their heaviest challenges.
    We also discuss common misconceptions about God's grace, faith, and repentance, offering new insights into these spiritual concepts. Whether you're seeking guidance, inspiration, or a deeper understanding of faith, this episode is for you.
    🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications to catch the latest episodes of Let's Get Real and be part of our journey toward helping you and others connect with God to find answers to life's heaviest questions and challenges. Share your thoughts and join the conversation in the comments below.
    Disclaimer:
    THE OPINIONS EXPRESSED REPRESENT THE VIEWS OF THE INDIVIDUAL CREATORS AND GUESTS ALONE AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REPRESENT THE OFFICIAL POSITION OF SCRIPTURE CENTRAL OR THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS.
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Komentáře • 247

  • @stephenbishopp10
    @stephenbishopp10 Před 8 měsíci +38

    I’ve had dinner with Brad at his home when I was a student at BYU. He’s the real deal. A true man of God.

  • @benjaminvandenberghe9726
    @benjaminvandenberghe9726 Před 4 měsíci +28

    I remember one day at BYU I was feeling just down and alone, and I passed by Brad. He just gave me such a genuine smile with so much love, didn't even say anything. I didn't even realize who he was at the time. It really improved my day and I'll always remember that experience, thanks Brad.

    • @brettstapf4754
      @brettstapf4754 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Awesome! I had a similar experience with Bednar at Rick’s.

  • @carriesutter1165
    @carriesutter1165 Před 5 měsíci +22

    Brad wilcox is a breath of fresh air. I'm so grateful for his realism. I feel so much relief!

  • @mindsofbliss8647
    @mindsofbliss8647 Před 8 měsíci +130

    He passed me and my husband in the SLC airport at midnight we were rushing to our gate with our two little children who were sleeping on our shoulders and with so much love, he kindly encouraged us by saying “You got this. You’re doing great! Keep going” and that comment went way beyond the current situation it was the encouragement that I needed in my life in general at that time and I know it was God’s way of reminding me that He was aware of me and my little family. 🥹

    • @KLECKFILESdotCOM4TrueJesus
      @KLECKFILESdotCOM4TrueJesus Před 8 měsíci

      All religion are leading people to the pit. You become consumed by the WORM that never dies.

    • @StarrTrump
      @StarrTrump Před 7 měsíci +1

      Ok Poo poo

    • @haydenhodges34
      @haydenhodges34 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Brad Wilcox is not a speaker of nor for God. Ask any Black person.

    • @mindsofbliss8647
      @mindsofbliss8647 Před 4 měsíci +8

      @@haydenhodges34 I'm sorry if that's what you've come to the conclusion of. That's not been my experience with him and his words. I don't worship him by any means and recognize he surely is an imperfect man but are we not all sinners? Regardless of your personal opinion on him (a side note, I know many people of color who hold him in a high esteem) his words helped me that night to feel God's love for me. And I'm not saying because it was him (my comment is relevant because of the content of the video) that is why it was from God, anyone making that comment to me that night would have made me feel the same way. God works through all sorts of people. May God be with you and may you feel His presence in your life as well and not miss His messages for your because of a hardened heart.

    • @matildabanana3516
      @matildabanana3516 Před měsícem +1

      @@haydenhodges34 He used to live in Africa and loved the people there. Maybe you should stop getting mad for other people.

  • @SREprep
    @SREprep Před 2 měsíci +6

    Brad’s mom was my 2nd grade teacher and was the most loving and kind teacher I ever had. He is definitely his mother’s son!

  • @jwestlu1
    @jwestlu1 Před 8 měsíci +75

    Best interview yet. I’ve seen some folks complain about Elder Wilcox online, exaggerating their issues with him. After this, I can see the kind of man he is - a disciple of Jesus Christ who exemplifies his charity and mission. What a guy.

    • @frittandy
      @frittandy Před 6 měsíci

      But do you listen to this presumptuous ignoramus when he speaks?

  • @bestill365
    @bestill365 Před 8 měsíci +11

    About 20 years ago, Brother Wilcox came to our stake and gave a talk. Afterwards we had a dance and I saw him get out there and dance with the kids (obviously no slow dancing). I admired him for that.

  • @jmhatutube
    @jmhatutube Před 8 měsíci +23

    I met Bro. Wilcox at a Stake Women's Conference. I was there as support for the Audio/Video as it was part of my calling on the High Council. I've met a lot of General Authorities, and this was before he was called to the Young Men's Presidency. I had listened to his talk, His Grace is Sufficient, many times. It will forever be in my top 10 as it succinctly taught me how we should understand grace.
    So I shook hands with him and made sure we had everything set up for him. I watched him very closely the whole time. He was always smiling! Every time the organist completed a son, he turned, patted her on the arm, and complimented her. After the meeting, he shook everyone's hand who wanted to meet him. I waited for a while and then jumped in to see if I could talk to him, and get a picture. He gleefully agreed to my request.
    He was so kind, patient, and happy, everything you would see in a man who gave that talk I so dearly love. I don't know him personally, but I love him. He portrays what a true follower of Jesus Christ should portray. He's been a huge blessing in my life ever since then because I can look back to another great example of the kind of person I should be.

  • @confusedwhynot
    @confusedwhynot Před 3 měsíci +4

    We always need to put Christ first in our lives. The next needs to be loving and honest in our lives with those around us. THANK YOU brother Wilcox!!!

  • @johnallred3127
    @johnallred3127 Před 5 měsíci +8

    I'm preparing a lesson for the most important celebration in the universe, Easter. I did a CZcams search for "Brad Wilcox and his thoughts about Easter" (I didn't get to it yet) . I got sidetracked and started listening to his interview with the awesome Stephen Jones. I never knew the fact that he lived his first 7 years of life in Ethiopia. What insights. He is a committed individual that God has placed on earth to be a humble, funny, wise, compassionate servant -- especially to the youth. How blessed to have this kind of man in the world

  • @belogical3961
    @belogical3961 Před 8 měsíci +19

    I love how he said, The only thing I can do is be real. I feel the same way. I do relate very much to a child seeking love still. I have sought love in some destructive places in the past and I can testify that the Savior can turn that place of destruction into a haven of love and mercy to all those that repent of their destructive ways.

  • @Chericherry4
    @Chericherry4 Před 8 měsíci +14

    I see that as I’m passing through the veil, I’m not perfect. But I’m going further because I’m going through the Savior, who is perfect. He recommends me to our Father. Beautiful symbolism.

  • @maryannripley4887
    @maryannripley4887 Před 8 měsíci +28

    Another great interview! Who knew all of this about Brad Wilcox? We rarely get to see the personal side of leaders in the church or the many others you interview. Bringing others to Christ and sharing the good news with each interview. Information that others just aren't able to capture. Such an intimate feeling across the tv screen.....you capture every time. You have the gift of bringing out the best in each person you interview. No wonder it's called "Let's get real!" So real.....every time! Scripture central has hired a gem! Keep up the great work that you are doing!

    • @hewhohasearstohearlethimhe4284
      @hewhohasearstohearlethimhe4284 Před 8 měsíci

      Mormonism is a 100% false manmade abomination. Repent, and learn what the Christianity of the Bible actually is.

  • @nicoledeloncrais5940
    @nicoledeloncrais5940 Před 7 měsíci +7

    His African experience explains so much. I was born into a similar situation and then returned to the "developed" world and just crying 😭 because I just didn't fit. Love Brad so much 😍.

  • @dallintheriault9747
    @dallintheriault9747 Před 5 měsíci +13

    Thank you Stephen and Brother Wilcox. This is absolutely what I needed right now. Grateful to my Heavenly Father for guiding me to this.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Sounds like God knows you. The algorithm is the algorithm, but in my experience, we tend to notice what our soul desires.
      I'm just curious, but no pressure; which part helped you the most?

    • @dallintheriault9747
      @dallintheriault9747 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@@LetsGetRealSJ Im 23 with 2 kids and just finished my first semester as a full time Seminary Teacher. I love teaching seminary a ton but lately my family has been wondering if the sacrifice is worth it. As Brother Wilcox was speaking about his experiences with teaching, it reminded me why I'm doing what I'm doing.
      I especially loved his message on the law of sacrifice and consecration. When he said that he could consecrate his youth to the Lord, I felt the spirit testify to my heart that that is what I can do. Being a young dad and a seminary teacher, there are many things I get to sacrifice. I'm grateful for the opportunity to learn about these two special covenants and learn first hand how they bring me closer to the Savior. Sometimes life feels like I'm juggling, but I am learning how true joy does not come from the world, but from focusing on the Savior.
      Thanks for creating this space to ponder and reflect on the beauty of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ

  • @sionel2604
    @sionel2604 Před 8 měsíci +49

    I was literally just listening to his talk on BYU Speeches about “His grace is sufficient” this morning, Thank you!!!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +9

      That's one of my favorites. It has helped so many people understand Christ's true character.

    • @DevonFine-mz8cu
      @DevonFine-mz8cu Před 8 měsíci +3

      Ya that talk is like a million views very inspiring

  • @beatriceyou1950
    @beatriceyou1950 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I love this sweet man. Thank you elder Wilcox for being you.

  • @johnmtconnolly
    @johnmtconnolly Před 4 měsíci +3

    "This has been a blessing and a pleasure!"
    You nailed it!

  • @KellyMillerldspoetry
    @KellyMillerldspoetry Před 7 měsíci +6

    In spite of our circumstances,
    We know what we're of.
    It's Christ who connects us,
    His Light and His love!

    • @KellyMillerldspoetry
      @KellyMillerldspoetry Před 7 měsíci +2

      See the need.
      Make the difference.
      Bless and lead,
      In each instance.

  • @calebwiederhold7910
    @calebwiederhold7910 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I have meet Elder Wilcox a few times, I love him

  • @emmasueferguson3634
    @emmasueferguson3634 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Brother Wilcox is such a remarkable person and loves the Lord!!!!❤

  • @VincentNoot
    @VincentNoot Před 8 měsíci +15

    Brad Wilcox… I grew up in the Netherlands but my parents had a few cassette tapes with his talks. Seems like a great guy.
    Love the interviewer. So good at listening.

  • @pauladircks5225
    @pauladircks5225 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I listened this so many times and shared with others. Love this serenity testifying how to love everything for God

  • @dianewassell7693
    @dianewassell7693 Před 4 měsíci +3

    The best talk I’ve heard from Brother Wilcox. Thank you.

  • @kathrynhathaway5145
    @kathrynhathaway5145 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I love this talk.He is so down to earth. His message is important. His books are awesome

  • @islandgirl4954
    @islandgirl4954 Před 8 měsíci +43

    I’m so thankful for brother Wilcox and his love for the gospel ❤

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +11

      I second that. This interview answered a few prayers of my own.

    • @janetrobinson2699
      @janetrobinson2699 Před 8 měsíci +5

      I love Brad Wilcox!!!

    • @frittandy
      @frittandy Před 6 měsíci

      But do you listen to this presumptuous ignoramus when he speaks?

  • @christireay2605
    @christireay2605 Před 24 dny +2

    I was at TOFW one year and I had cancer and wore a beanie to the conference so it was evident. The following year I attended and I went to the bathroom and had to pass the front row which had the speakers that were listening to the current speaker. As I walked by he said to me, “I’m so glad you are here..” Now I’m sure he just said it for no reason but for a brief moment it reminded me that I was glad I was there….that I survived my biggest battle. For a second i thought, “does he remember me?” I know he didn’t but I was so taken back and it just made me grateful that I was there…..
    So the next year

  • @franciegwin
    @franciegwin Před 8 měsíci +14

    Brother Wilcox, I was having a really bad evening, with many tears but your interview brought me out of it!! To much gratitude for my Savior!!! Only with Jesus are we worthy!!!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +7

      How cool is this? That is how God works, isn't it? It's often through the words and actions of others.

  • @Jace28142
    @Jace28142 Před 8 měsíci +21

    Listening to Brad brings joy to my heart. His wisdom, love and sense of humor.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +4

      I agree with you. The Spirit was really strong in the room when we recorded.

    • @tryingtochange1958
      @tryingtochange1958 Před 8 měsíci +3

      @LetsGetRealSJ Brother Wilcox was my son's 5th mission president (long story) in Santiago Chile East. President Wilcox came in and stabilized that mission. He was their when Elder Holland was their and Elder Oaks wss in the Philippines. My son loves that man. Tremendous interview. It amazes me how the destroyer works. Comments here, I can only smile. Thank you for doing this interview.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +3

      I bet he knows my brother-in-law, he was also on that same mission. @@tryingtochange1958

  • @andycarrillo1477
    @andycarrillo1477 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Brad Wilcox’s powerful devotional talk on His grace being enough changed my perception of the Church’s erroneous policy that members must first work and do all they can do and Christ would make up the rest: His Grace Is Enough.

    • @jamesnielsen1220
      @jamesnielsen1220 Před 3 měsíci

      It’s a misunderstanding of that verse. “After all we can do” means in spite of what we do, meaning we are saved by grace and not our works. Works will determine our reward after this life, but not our salvation.

    • @andycarrillo1477
      @andycarrillo1477 Před 3 měsíci

      @@jamesnielsen1220so mortals who receive their Second Anointing are guaranteed their highest reward because of their wealth and prominence in the church?

  • @kennethyoung7564
    @kennethyoung7564 Před 8 měsíci +12

    When I was a teenager I was so insecure I didn't make one single friend in Highschool. Now I am 40, and have never been in a single relationship.All my friends from college have moved on, gotten married, etc. There are few people who have experienced the loneliness I feel....some of the younger generation may feel some lonliness, but I don't believe it holds a candle. Not that it is a competition.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +11

      I was reading through these comments and as I read yours I couldn't help but feel so much love for you. I'm so sorry to hear that you have had this experience. I don't have any cliche comebacks or empty phrases, just that I see you, my friend. I see you.

    • @livinthedream4479
      @livinthedream4479 Před 8 měsíci +4

      My heart goes out to you. May you find peace from the only one who gives it. Love and prayers for you

    • @natandjoec
      @natandjoec Před 8 měsíci +3

      People can be mean. There are many days I wish I didn't have to associate with anyone. There are very few relationships worth keeping, in my opinion. Wish we lived close. I would love to be friends with someone who seems to value a relationship.

    • @Jo145330
      @Jo145330 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Dear Kenneth, your comment is sitting hard on my heart. I have also known loneliness but not to compare with what it sounds like you experience.
      How do you cope? My world was in books for most of my youth.
      When Brother Wilcox talked about being held by the prophet I could feel a longing for that kind of recognition and love. I hope you will find peace and rest for your soul. Sometimes I feel like it will only be when I am back in my true home.
      Prayers for you,
      Joanne

    • @brandymcmanus7088
      @brandymcmanus7088 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Online dating? That's how I met my husband. 👍

  • @Kalamabbfan
    @Kalamabbfan Před 7 měsíci +3

    This is an amazing discussion. I am not through with it yet, but I just had to interject. Today in Sacrament Meeting, the Sacrament Prayers were in Chuukese and a baby was blessed in Spanish. This is a Ward in the Longview Washington Stake in Southwest Washington State. The Church is truly international.

  • @travisrichey4814
    @travisrichey4814 Před 8 měsíci +13

    I love this man and his authentic perspective! He makes me feel soooo normal.

    • @jgclarke0352
      @jgclarke0352 Před 8 měsíci +1

      And simultaneously like I can do better and yes it's possible.

  • @marilynspriggs5350
    @marilynspriggs5350 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Brother Wilcox came to yr Stake Conference last year and gave to wonderful talks. It was a pleasure to listen to him. It was truly inspiring.

  • @frittandy
    @frittandy Před 6 měsíci +3

    The best thing you said, dear Wilcox, is that you are a juggler. Exactly a juggler.

  • @judgeedwards8665
    @judgeedwards8665 Před 8 měsíci +39

    Thank you so much for doing these interviews Stephen! I’m preparing to serve my mission next year and your videos help build my faith and desire to serve. Brad Wilcox is an absolute legend as well. You’re awesome, keep doing what you’re doing!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +8

      I love making these. Good to hear that these are helpful in your preparation to serve the Lord. I think about my mission every day. I served in the Porto Alegre North Mission. The experience brought me closer to Christ and changed me forever.

    • @viniciustoffoletto6650
      @viniciustoffoletto6650 Před 8 měsíci

      you speak português then hahaha sou brasileiro@@LetsGetRealSJ

  • @kassidyflake3956
    @kassidyflake3956 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I am so grateful to have sit down and watch this. Keep Juggling! Thank you Stephen and Brad.

  • @tryingtochange1958
    @tryingtochange1958 Před 8 měsíci +18

    "I'm not standing alone."Thank you, brother Wilcox. It is only through His Grace that we can come unto the Father.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +3

      This was one of the most powerful parts of the interview for me as well. Thank you for sharing. I also loved when he broke down the I Stand All Amazed Hymn. "Standing in awe". "He proffers me." Powerful.

  • @ja-kaz
    @ja-kaz Před 8 měsíci +8

    Stephen you knocked it out of the ballpark with this interview! I’ll be expecting an interview with Pres Nelson. No pressure

  • @jeranjarman
    @jeranjarman Před 8 měsíci +4

    I love this guy's message but I still haven't forgiven him for making me sing a primary song verse he made up with my entire graduating class at BYU-I! My family drove in for that, man 🤣 Great message, Bro Wilcox and Steven! FSY was an incredible experience for me as a counselor, and I'll forever be humbled and honored by my opportunity to be a part of that sacred 2022 year, for all my shortcomings.

  • @TrebizondMusic-cm6fp
    @TrebizondMusic-cm6fp Před 8 měsíci +10

    I used to be in Brad's ward when I was a teenager. His energy and love have followed me in my memory ever since. I wish I had known that about him playing in _My Turn on Earth_ ! That's a favorite in our house.
    The need for validation... I've been hearing a lot from therapists (maybe more from their disciples) lately about how it's better to learn to self-validate, or to be emotionally self-sufficient. I took the Church's Emotional Resilience class last year and there was a lesson on validation that seemed to directly contradict things I've heard even from LDS therapists.
    I've been thinking about this a lot lately: the atomisation of Enlightenment Liberalism and Progress Theology. The wish to find mortal human beings with whom it might be safe to open up, and the appeal of concluding that's impossible and that it's much safer to keep yourself closed off - to people, anyway. The verses about Jesus being our Friend mean a lot more to me than they used to. If you can't rely on people to understand and validate you, you can at least rely on God.
    That part about juggling was very inspiring, thank you.

    • @tim-hypnotherapist
      @tim-hypnotherapist Před 8 měsíci

      You are 100% correct about the misunderstanding of validation. I clear the subconscious trauma caused by toxic shame.
      Solid core level love for yourself provides that internal validation.
      External validation needs is a cup that is never filled.

    • @TrebizondMusic-cm6fp
      @TrebizondMusic-cm6fp Před 8 měsíci

      @@tim-hypnotherapist Let me see if I understand you. If I pay you, you can hypnotize me so that I'm free of my trauma of shame, and then I will also be free of the desire that other people would see, hear, and understand me as I am?
      Too bad I can't afford any kind of therapy.

    • @sadiegirl1243
      @sadiegirl1243 Před 7 měsíci +1

      The church is so far behind the times when it comes to the types of therapy that really help people. EMDR therapy is a great way you can deal with trauma.

  • @tinxonfski
    @tinxonfski Před 7 měsíci +4

    This was one of my favourite podcast conversations of all time! So much the reflect on. Thank you.

  • @FinallyMe78
    @FinallyMe78 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Wow. I love Brother Wilcox, but this interview was amazing.

  • @whatevermax
    @whatevermax Před 8 měsíci +4

    Awesome job with Brother Wilcox Stephen!!! He truly is a blessing to everyone that has the opportunity to know him and be around him. He so brightly shines the Saviors light and never his own. “That the Glory be thine” is all he wants and to bring a little peace, love, and joy into the world wherever he can! Always love your podcast Brother Jones! Keep up the good work brother of mine!😉❤️

  • @ruthannsolomon2794
    @ruthannsolomon2794 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I loved this talk. ❤️ Bro. Wilcox is one of my favorite people to listen to. He makes living the gospel real.
    BTW, when I was a child, I knew I couldn't be a teacher because I would never be able to do a bulletin boards! Bless the teachers! As an adult, I realize that I could more easily master a bulletin board than a classroom of children!

  • @JellyfishLighting-Michael
    @JellyfishLighting-Michael Před 5 měsíci +3

    This was really a great interview. Thank you.

  • @RDR-xl8qc
    @RDR-xl8qc Před 2 dny

    Brad, I enjoyed your talk last night at the Joseph Smith Sr. and Lucy Mack Smith Reunion. I enjoyed hearing your memories of M. Russell Ballard and having his son Craig on the stand was a real treat. I. Enjoy your smile and laugh, you have such a positive outlook on life. Thank you for all you do, it was a pleasure to meet you and shake your hand. May God continue to bless you as you serve the young men, that is what I did in my early years. I went to Philmont Scout Ranch twice, one on a 84 mile hike with 15 Scouts when I was in the Bishopric and the other time when I was over the Young Men on the High Council. I took my own two boys and had our picture taken with Hartman Rector Jr.. I have always enjoyed my service in the Lords church. I have been married 45 years and I am just now reading your book “Marriage”. Thank you brother!

  • @emjm9383
    @emjm9383 Před 5 měsíci +2

    fantastic. everyone should watch.

  • @stephtimms1776
    @stephtimms1776 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I'm so thankful to the Lord and his servants, including the Aaronic priesthood holders who administer to us things like the sacrament. Its so nice to see one of the Brethren on a podcast. Thank You!

  • @CarlosRomero-pl9tk
    @CarlosRomero-pl9tk Před 8 měsíci +8

    love this man, talking about being real, this guy is the real deal.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +1

      I agree. I've seen his fruits up close and personal. How he interacts with individuals when there are no cameras is so personal and filled with so much love.

    • @CarlosRomero-pl9tk
      @CarlosRomero-pl9tk Před 8 měsíci

      his talk on grace changed my whole perspective on life bro. I'm glad hes part of this work!@@LetsGetRealSJ

  • @deegold6233
    @deegold6233 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Wow, this podcast brought me to tears. I have the privilege of working with the Aaronic Priesthood in my branch, the youth of this day always amaze me. I believe they were sent here in these latter days to serve a purpose.

  • @brandymcmanus7088
    @brandymcmanus7088 Před 7 měsíci +3

    This made me cry 😭❤️.

  • @samantha8578
    @samantha8578 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I'm so grateful for this 💕

  • @blairenceparging2446
    @blairenceparging2446 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Hi Stephen, been watching your show for a while and only recently made the connection that you were the one who played Elijah Abel in the Green Flake movie. I thought you gave the standout performance in that film and brought a lot of much needed dignity to that role. Wanted to congratulate you on a great performance!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +7

      Thank you. That role changed my life. I always told myself if the opportunity ever showed up again in any way, I would take it no matter what. It was an honor to help tell his story. It helped me see forgiveness in a different way and I couldn't help but realize after all Elijah went through he stayed. He wasn't perfect, but kept holding on. I have an episode coming soon where I discuss my experience with one of the leading Elijah Abel scholars. Be on the lookout for it soon my friend.

  • @lyndsiemmiles
    @lyndsiemmiles Před 8 měsíci +4

    This has filled me so much as I have listened today. Thank you. Can't wait to share this with my family.

  • @libertyyates5472
    @libertyyates5472 Před 8 měsíci +4

    My first time listening to this. I absolutely love this and have subscribed. Profound doctrine ! Such a great channel. Thanks to both Stephen and Brother Wilcox!!

  • @Ily779
    @Ily779 Před 8 měsíci +8

    I love real people, he’s one of those people who are just real.

  • @laloifilealofi9628
    @laloifilealofi9628 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Love the feeling of the Spirit, the Saviours' love ❤️ and prayers

  • @kimhulbert8449
    @kimhulbert8449 Před 8 měsíci +4

    This was so powerful.

  • @kgarnold8938
    @kgarnold8938 Před 8 měsíci +8

    loved it. Great way to start my Sunday.

  • @Jan-qv8ku
    @Jan-qv8ku Před 8 měsíci +4

    Thank you!
    This is SO helpful! 💛💛💛

  • @noahheaton4005
    @noahheaton4005 Před 8 měsíci +2

    So good. One of my favorites yet!

  • @tinacarvalhoBodyandHealth
    @tinacarvalhoBodyandHealth Před 8 měsíci +3

    Africa is the core of heart. Pls keep going in this direction.

  • @WaydeJames
    @WaydeJames Před 4 měsíci +2

    I am new to you channel Stephen and I have really, really enjoyed your content. I am learning so much through your interviews. Thank you for the content your bring to me. Be well and continue the coarse, Brother James

  • @myramays4606
    @myramays4606 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you for these interviews. They are so inspiring!

  • @InAllThingsBearHisName
    @InAllThingsBearHisName Před 8 měsíci +2

    I loved this interview ❤thank you.

  • @twoplustwoequalsfour48
    @twoplustwoequalsfour48 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Amazing interview. I love you guys!!

  • @poljke9110
    @poljke9110 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you Brad, you've mad a tremendous impact on my life. Thank you.

  • @MsEva9470
    @MsEva9470 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you that was great with knowledge and understanding 😮

  • @t.thompson9977
    @t.thompson9977 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Brad Wilcox is great guy……. Thanks for sharing

  • @franciegwin
    @franciegwin Před 8 měsíci +3

    Yes, only with Jesus are we worthy!!!

  • @baddcyclist6401
    @baddcyclist6401 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This is an amazing channel! Life changing.

  • @hollydudley9200
    @hollydudley9200 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I really love your podcasts, they always fill me with the spirit. Thank you for what you are doing.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 3 měsíci

      I’m glad you love it and that the Holy Ghost is having an influence in your experience. More to come.’

  • @dinocollins720
    @dinocollins720 Před 8 měsíci +6

    So excited to watch this!!! Bro Wilcox was my professor at BYU and is an amazing man! Don't have time tonight but gonna watch this tomorrow!!

  • @spencerclark2269
    @spencerclark2269 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Such an incredible episode, he is truly an incredible man.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci

      No guile. You can feel that even more when you are with him. In the studio he went out of his way to connect and help everyone there feel seen and noticed.

  • @truth4190
    @truth4190 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This channel is a blessing

  • @102984
    @102984 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Love you President Wilcox

  • @geoffshelley2427
    @geoffshelley2427 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I feel a responsibility to do "my part". but as Bro Wilcox alludes to that essentially means saying yes, accepting and seeking His grace ongoing, letting God prevail. Acknowledging that I am better w Christ.

  • @tim-hypnotherapist
    @tim-hypnotherapist Před 8 měsíci +5

    Stephen, of course, Brad Wilcox is spot on about the ‘New Epidemic’ and sadly this epidemic has been exponentially growing for 100 years. The root cause of this epidemic that no one is talking about is ‘Toxic Shame’. Toxic shame in our very early years is what leads us to not love ourselves to our core. Not loving ourselves to the core leads to anxiety, procrastination, depression, addiction and other maladies.
    My mission in life now is to help people clear this trauma of toxic shame and teach themselves to love themselves to the core.
    Trauma is not what happens to you, it is how you feel about what happens to you.

    • @jamesbayless5842
      @jamesbayless5842 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Would it be worth while to explore the sources of the shame, that result in trauma?

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +4

      Thank you for sharing this. Trauma and shame is a huge issue in our day. Shame is a focus on self, whether by others or ourselves. For me, I've found the more I focus on Christ, the more easy it is to handle (Matthew 11:28-30). It isn't easy for us but it is for Him. Easier said than done though.

    • @benzun9600
      @benzun9600 Před 8 měsíci +3

      stoicism teaches this. It is not what happens to you but how you interpret what happens to you. The culture of the last 30 years in the USA have created victim mentalities.

    • @jamesbayless5842
      @jamesbayless5842 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@benzun9600 "we are not responsible for our victims. Our victims are responsible for dealing with our harm."

    • @tim-hypnotherapist
      @tim-hypnotherapist Před 8 měsíci

      @@jamesbayless5842 that is exactly what I do. You hit the nail on the head. Then I clear the trauma like it never happened.

  • @kathrynhathaway5145
    @kathrynhathaway5145 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I love his books and talks

  • @tamragoodrich6067
    @tamragoodrich6067 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Exaltation is our lofty goal and gift from our loving God as we give our all to know God.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +1

      Your right. Without Jesus Christ, this would be impossible.

  • @rabinredulla8798
    @rabinredulla8798 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Wonderful❤️

  • @Croaven
    @Croaven Před 7 měsíci +1

    Love the video. One note to make though, when the people were chanting "line of Juda" it was not to somehow say he is replacing Jesus. They believe that their kings are direct descendants from King Solomon, who was obviously of the line of Juda. True or not you will never convince them otherwise.

  • @DevonFine-mz8cu
    @DevonFine-mz8cu Před 8 měsíci +1

    I had no idea of his BG very cool

  • @jarenstrader8412
    @jarenstrader8412 Před 8 měsíci +6

    So powerful! What a spiritual giant! I loved the part about how God will be with you during the highs and lows...blew my mind! If you know, you know. Also, Stephen you are so good at interviewing because you genuinely want to learn and are so authentic. Keep it up my man! God is good and the church is true!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +1

      Brother Wilcox helps me want to be more like Jesus Christ. The good thing though is, that neither he nor I have to be perfect because Christ is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and love my friend.

    • @jgclarke0352
      @jgclarke0352 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I was literally reading your comment as I listened to that part about the highs and lows and it hit like a ton of bricks. So powerful

  • @Standfortruthandrighteousness
    @Standfortruthandrighteousness Před 8 měsíci +1

    Some of my favorite parts were watching you react and respond. I felt like I was looking in a mirror!

  • @emariemcc
    @emariemcc Před 7 měsíci +1

    I agree you don’t have to be able to speak the same language as my husband had a great friend in our ward in Florida who knew very little English and my husband knew no Spanish yet they became friends

  • @davidwood1256
    @davidwood1256 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Yes Lonelyness . Part of the Lord's Church on earth and continually alone. Will local leaders EVER wake up ??

  • @GMMXX80
    @GMMXX80 Před 8 měsíci +4

    There's an opening in the Quorum of the Twelve. I, personally, would like to see him fill it

    • @Jace28142
      @Jace28142 Před 8 měsíci

      My sister and I agree!

  • @roberthall9452
    @roberthall9452 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I think I needed to hear his very last line.

  • @lanajohnson2424
    @lanajohnson2424 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Bro Wilcox, such a good man!

  • @JBirdBird06
    @JBirdBird06 Před 8 měsíci +2

    He's going to be an Apostle one day.

    • @christopherjones2669
      @christopherjones2669 Před 8 měsíci

      Not even general authority today. PhD from Wyoming is not enough.

  • @Rjrupert555
    @Rjrupert555 Před 3 měsíci

    Because the Churches PR department told him that this would be a good topic for him to talk about to make people think they are really Christian.

  • @stephenkollenborn6015
    @stephenkollenborn6015 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Its by grace we are saved after all we can do since our own merits alone will bring about salvation

    • @hewhohasearstohearlethimhe4284
      @hewhohasearstohearlethimhe4284 Před 8 měsíci

      Wrong! You are completely blind, lost, deceived, and snared into a 100% false con artist made abomination/religion/cult. Repent!

  • @madogg152
    @madogg152 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I grew up NON LDS. I never heard that 4 letter word starts with "L". The family was toxic beyond your imagination, to say the least. I am not married, and feel beyond hope because of the requirements for exaltation. Be grateful for your normality. There are people in this world who suffer beyond your capacity to believe or imagination. I don't like being condemned to the Devil's domain because I can't say that word and lack humanity and Christ like qualities.

    • @kollington2380
      @kollington2380 Před 6 měsíci

      Well, we also teach that God understands your situation and will give you more chances to fulfill those requirements. There's more hope than you think, you just need to push your hand farther down instead of letting it float on the surface of what you think is the case

    • @williampaul7932
      @williampaul7932 Před 3 měsíci

      God has a plan for you, but it's a long road, not a short one!

    • @madogg152
      @madogg152 Před 3 měsíci

      @@kollington2380 I don't give up. I have a testimony that if denied, I would be in Big Trouble in little China. However, being an unmarried old fart, exaltation doesn't exactly fit the puzzle as per the 12 etc.. Additionally, I have a background that actually scared one bishop.

  • @rkn2800
    @rkn2800 Před 8 měsíci +5

    I don’t believe in anything the Church leaders say anymore except for those things that are actually helpful. I don’t believe in surrendering critical thinking to these humans at the head of the Church, people who practice double-speak, who do perverse things sometimes (looking at you, Paul H Dunn, who used to be my hero till I found out his amazing stories were lies) and deserve public criticism. When they say nice things that actually encourage positive self-esteem without caveats (e.g. only if you do as we say and perform rituals that we prescribe and follow the Word of Wisdom, in which over-eating is as much a sin as drinking alcohol), then fine, but I also find such encouragement from non-LDS sources too. Have a nice day, Mr Wilcox.

    • @bballer2324ify
      @bballer2324ify Před 8 měsíci +3

      Ok… so all church leaders are guilty of Paul H. Dunn’s actions? You seem to be holding them to an unrealistic standard. Not believing ANYTHING the church leaders say is as bad as what you’re professing they are guilty of. How about this: don’t put them on pedestals, don’t demonize them, still use critical thinking, and be appreciative that they’re willing to take criticism like yours and remain steadfast.

    • @rkn2800
      @rkn2800 Před 8 měsíci

      @@bballer2324ify Nope. Not all. Its the Church that says ALL Church leaders must be respected and never criticized. Other Church leaders remain my heroes. Its never an all or nothing scenario, but the Church does teach that all leaders must never be criticized. I’m not gonna do that. Dunn sure deserved criticism, public or private (I really did love the guy), and the next leader that lies or has questionable ethics will get the same from me. I am not interested in blasting my views publicly or in social media, but this video triggered me. This is the first time for me and sure got aggravated.

    • @MrBillmechanic
      @MrBillmechanic Před 8 měsíci +1

      amen!! same old mormon hoseshittt comes at us every time, although sometimes in different barns.

    • @benzun9600
      @benzun9600 Před 8 měsíci

      Church leaders lost credibility with many faithful when they pushed the covid vax nonstop. Truly sad on for both sides

    • @rtharalson
      @rtharalson Před 8 měsíci

      ⁠​⁠​⁠@@bballer2324ifythis is the perfection argument. Show me the platform the place where we rank and file get to critique the brethren. What Sunday school class can we actually speak out loud out disagreeing with the canceling the word Mormon or problematic aspects of embellished stories by dr Nelson for faith. Airplane engine on fire, gunpoint, Korea baptism.

  • @metacomputer
    @metacomputer Před 8 měsíci +2

    You get a Tony Soprano vibe from this guy.

  • @lanelebaron
    @lanelebaron Před 8 měsíci +1

    Love listening to the show! Not trying to be rude, the transitions or segments are kinda annoying and distracting. Do you have a unedited version without all the extra sounds and transitions? 😅

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +1

      If you send me your email via Instagram DM, I can send you a link to an unlisted version without the sounds. Thanks for the feedback. I’ll keep this in mind for future episodes.

    • @dnetlayton3456
      @dnetlayton3456 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I agree. Loved the content, just not the jarring transitions.

  • @cheers1061
    @cheers1061 Před 8 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @tammyiraheta5010
    @tammyiraheta5010 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Is there ANYWAY.... to get this translated to Spanish???? There are so mAny Hispanic converts and members that could benefit hearing this!!!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  Před 8 měsíci +1

      Let me see what we can do asap. I’ll update you asap.

    • @tammyiraheta5010
      @tammyiraheta5010 Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you so much!!@@LetsGetRealSJ