how to design your dream life 👸🏻✨
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- Sharing alll the questions & exercises to help you design your dream life, from clarifying what you want, to planning, prioritizing, and taking action! If you want to dive deeper and truly commit to this path, check out my online course on Creating Your Dream Life → www.lavendaire.com/course/
Blog post with the full list of questions: www.lavendaire.com/design-dre...
// more videos on life design
→ how to figure out what to do with your life: intentional living | bit.ly/2WvmZHB
→ how to make a vision board | bit.ly/2QGITlm
→ vivid vision exercise: journal prompts | bit.ly/2Bfbwyf
→ "imaginary lives" exercise from The Artist's Way | bit.ly/2LoCrN9
// timestamps
0:00 intro
0:52 1. dream life questionnaire
2:59 what most ppl get wrong
3:17 2. create a vision board
3:57 planning & executing
4:05 3. prioritize: foundations first
4:51 4. dreamlining exercise
6:33 5. build a rough timeline
7:50 6. break it down
8:27 creating my dream life in phases
9:44 my guidelines for my dream life
11:00 building lavendaire: why it felt aligned
12:26 building financial freedom
13:20 the journey continues
14:43 what's important
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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
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This sentence is still echoing in my mind.
"You're a light in this world. Your light is unique and incomparable to others"
Love you
✨✨✨✨
I NEEDED this! I've been feeling kinda lost, again, lately. I'm 35 now, but still have a dream I want to come to fruition. So, thank you, sincerely.
Hope you accomplish your dreams
good luck
Your dreams will come true!
You are not alone ❤
I feel like I am constantly GO GO GOing that I never stop to think and reflect on these questions!!! I'm so excited to journal and answer these questions!!!
Sometimes slowing down is the best thing you can do for yourself❤️
I feel the same way! It’s so good to stop and think about what you truly want
@@Astro_molldoll i need to remember to stop and breathe eeek
mhm 🤧 need to spare some time to reflect once in a while
yes!! it starts with intention :)
Aileen first off.... Thank you SO much for this!! I am 58 years old, am trying to get back my health, and embarrassingly still trying to get over "fear of failure" and figuring out my purpose in life!! This morning, I was decluttering my phone home screen and your channel icon that I have on my screen screamed out to me and I felt a push to come here, so thankful I did!! As I'm listening to you giving all of this BEAUTIFUL and heartfelt advice, I wanted to cry but instead, smiled because THIS, EVERYTHING you spoke of is what I've SO wanted and SO need right now!! And I am a visual and creative person but never even thought of, or had the time in putting together all you spoke of!! God bless you and thank you Aileen, you are such a BEAUTIFUL soul!! I can't wait to answer these questions and I cannot wait to start "living MY dream life.... "Better late than never" is my motto!!💖🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼
I appreciate you so much!! Wow, sending you lots of love & support for your dream life 🙏🏼
@@lavendaire Aww thank you Aileen, so appreciate you!! I watched your 20's video, so inspiring and going to show it to my 14 and 9 year old granddaughters so that when they become of age, they know that with dreams come goals and, they too can live the lives of their dreams!! I wish more young people would heed your advice!!💖🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@aida087 YEAHH THAT’S AWESOME I hope ur granddaughters follow that journey
It is never too late to be what you might have been. George Eliot - British author
@@anthonammal7998 I've always loved this quote thank you!! 💖🥰🙏🏼
Wow you look like a fairy princess 🧚🏻✨ maybe a fairy godmother helping us make dreams come true with practical magic lol 😌
haha yesss sending you sparkles thru the screen ✨✨
Discover yourself and REdiscovering yourself if you have to! Having a detailed plan on what life you want to live will not only make it more real, it’ll hold you accountable!
From a self love content creator to another; loved this video Aileen. Discovering ourselves is so important! ❤️
yes girl! sending you lots of love ✨
@@lavendaire Thank you so much! Sending you a warm virtual hug! 🤗❤️
This is actually perfect timing. I have been really struggling with depression and anxiety lately, and this reminded me that I have the power over my own life and my own desires. Thank you, Aileen. You are truly changing lives.
One thing I admire about aileen is her beauty glow from the inside. ✨ she has such beautiful soul 💛
love u ✨
I’m living for this fairy god mother/ princess Aileen aesthetic😭💞 So cute!🌸👑🧚
My ideal dream life look like having peace of mind, joy, financially independent, exploring the world, being nice and kind to others, finding joy in little moments.💓
hi Aileen! I recently just graduated college and didn't realize that I was on autopilot until my senior year of college. It finally hit me that I was just following and doing what others and my parents wanted me to do. But I too, desire the things you wanted in life; financial freedom, doing what you love, being creative, helping others, freedom, work whenever and wherever you want, and all that! I have started journaling more to figure out what I want and what my dream life would look like and it's helped me so much with being more clear! I can't wait to incorporate these questions that you have in your video to my journal! Now, it's kinda the hard part, figuring out how I can achieve these desires and what to do to get to each step.
This is such good perfect timing! Im currently in a gap year. Figuring out what to do in my life before I go to uni next year. I have plenty of time to think about the things you have told me. When i heard your story about starting lavendaire, i smiled because i found ur channel a few years after u started which was around 2018 or 2017. Im very happy your channel has become successful since then! Thank you so much for ur advice Aileen!!!
wow, enjoy your gap year! ✨
my dream life is traveling as a digital nomad for most of the year :) working online, passive income, and enjoying my days in a new city with other cool people... so more cool cosmopolitan than backpacker with one set of shoes haha working to make this happen by next year!
this honestly sounds so fun!
How are you planning to give back to the community or make the world a better place?
I started creating my 2023 vision board today and it's such a fun exercise 🥰 i am building my dream creative career and am enjoying every step of it. I am also trying out dreamlining exercise as well.
This is my recent FAVOURITE Lavendaire video! I rewatched it to jot down all the questions and steps 💗 it’s truly a wonderful video~ inspiring and helpful 🥰 thanks for making it for us, Aileen
yay! happy it helped ✨✨
I have been raking my mind all day trying to find the best answer to what my dream lifestyle looks like ever since I came across the question on a random post today, this video definitely puts everything into perspective esp when it comes to setting the intention
I felt the goosebumps every time I flipped through my past Artist of Life workbooks. Thank you for these tools that you created, Aileen! I am working towards my dream life 😍
Journey of self discovery has always been hard to pursue because of the external factors, social media effects, and the ego preventing us from considering our flaws and living by them but not through them. Love the video and its simplicity. Thank you ♥
Thank you for making this video! It was everything I needed to hear at this point in my life. Also, thank you for sharing that you still live at home with your mother, while you are still building and creating your dream life! This was so inspiring and doing the journaling exercises made me dream life feel so much more tangible!! ❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏 a lot of these things seem obvious but getting from knowing to DOING can be a difficult first step and you help outline that process SO well!! The way you frame this is just so great and helpful!!
So proud of you to achieve what you had defined as your dream life! 💜
Thank you for All the positive vibes 🌸💖
To be honest having a hard time right now...its like i can't figure out what to do next...its like i am lacking behind and i can't find any meaning in it. I know what my dream life looks like but i don't know where to start, that is it even for me? Can i achieve it? My heart goes for everyone who is struggling and for lavendaire who makes such amazing videos to remind that dream life is possible🌼❤
i feel you on this!
thank you for this! I needed it and I can't wait to dig deeper in what I truly want in my dream life. Sending so much love to everyone on here! You got this
Eileen you do such great work. I’m so happy and grateful I came across your channel. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever really contemplated what my dream life looks like. Thank you for making these exercise videos. I can’t wait to dive into this idea.
This puts so much clarity. I worry about so many things that it’s making me anxious every day. There’s much I want to learn about my self and the things I want for my self but there are people I love that I also want to support. Hay… I know it’s going to take a long time to get there but watching your video just added more light to the things I want my self to have. Thanks Aileen! 💜
She helps us sooo much with our lives ❤✨
She deserves the world ❤❤
This is so helpful to me right now; graduated a few months back and currently have zero plans and directions on what I want to pursue next or do with my life. This video really helped and made me think through what I truly want.
I never thought about setting parameters like you described. I needed that! This has given me so much more clarity. Thanks!
Hey Aileen, I've been watching your videos from last year. You are truly a inspiration! Honestly, for the couple of years, i struggled exploring what i really wanr in my life and now i found it. Thank you so much for this video🥺💙💜💟
Watching your video today felt like a rays of sunshine on my face. I'm at the beginning of this process but it feels so late for me like I've always been expected to know what to do and find a profitable job but here I am, just finished university and not knowing what to do with my life. I feel pressure to figure it out as quickly as possible so your video felt really refreshing and comforting. Thank u!
Yes! Needed this! Love your content 💜💖
this video came in a perfect time. I began my uni this year and I've been feeling kind lost in life, I'll answer those questions for sure.
love your channel and how you inspire me every time I watch your videos
Thank you so much 🥺. You always save my life by posting relatable content ❤️😭
Everything you said hit me so hard! I am currently trying to figure out my life. I also don’t want to go down the path that everyone expected me to go down with my major. But because of this I’m lost. I have a dream life I want to build, but I have no idea where to start and I begin to second guess myself, feeling like I can’t catch up with society. I really needed to hear what you said, it gave me the confidence to be at peace with myself and move at my own pace💕💕
This is no coincidence! I seen a video similar to this one back in 2018 when I found out about Aileen. I was going through a lot then, had no direction in my life and had major anxiety. Now, I’m working my dream job and starting to live a life that I’m proud of. It’s cool how things come full circle.
Upon completing every question in the dream life questionnaire, I feel like I have a clear goal in mind.
I feel powerful understanding myself and knowing the five w's in my dream life.
Love you
This video has helped me so much! I had to watch it twice. Once to soak everything in and another to write everything down. I know people say this every year, but I really think 2022 will be the year of change for me. I don’t want to be in the same place I was this year. Thank you so much!
wow! i NEEDED this, for real, just got out of collage and i'm trying to figure out HOW I can do what i want, make a living out of it and BELIEVE in my dreams. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
Lavandaire is the absolute best. Such a kind and inspirational person ❤
Hello, I’m 20 years old I just turned 20 in September and I found this video at the most perfect time. I realized the day before my birthday that this is a new chapter in my life and I am transforming weekly! Yesterday I went through your videos and saved all the ones about creating the life of your dreams and being productive because I realized I am unorganized. You are the perfect person for me to learn from because it is simply put pretty! You are helping me create and put into words the life of my dreams. Knowing Is half the battle and you show me the other half I need to get where I want to be. I am very thankful for you sharing your journey and Sharing your day to day life. It is so amazing and important. Thank you💓💓sending love from Louisiana!
I’m watching it before my internship today. And give me lots of motivation!❤️🔥
I still have time this morning so I’ll do those exercises right now!!!
BTW, I’m practicing English by shadowing your video everyday! Thank you very much for sharing it on your Instagram story the other day!❤️🥺✨
The criteria you wanted is exactly the same as mine. Omg everything is aligning perfectly for me! This video is meant for me! I am halfway there and I am so grateful to have found you, Lavendaire🌹✨ Thank you😘
oh , i was thinking to design my life newly....and our queen posted right away...thanks you Lavendaire
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Someone: Says "heck"
CZcams: Be gone
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I was thinking about that topic now and wow the video was released,I love you 💕
And thank you for always giving me a good energy🥺 ✨
Enjoy spending your time with these questions + exercises! Remember, you don't have to have all the answers. Take your time :)
Check out my online course on Creating Your Dream Life → lavendaire.com/dreamlife
See the list of questions on the blog post → www.lavendaire.com/design-dream-life/
I want to be a successful youtuber but I am never getting views on my videos. I have been trying for 5 years now. I started Following Lavendaire 3 yeArs back And I have seen Tremendous growth in her . Idk What's wrong with my videos . I am so disappointed I think my videos will never go viral . It seems like everybody who said CZcams is not for you was correct . I have failed 😞😞😞😞😞
These questions made me reflect what I really want in my dream life 💕💕💕
You look like a fairy with your little magic hand gesture. 🪄
You need islam to be perfect and happy 😊 let your self know islam ☪️
If someone can answer my question I would really appreciate it. Should I do the life that I want for myself within the next few years? Because I might end up changing my mind and wanting to move someone new but I am worried that I will always be chasing a different dream life. Any tips?
You don't know how the right time your video helps me.
Thank you lavendaire!
Aileen, I love it✨❤️
Thank youuu so much
Love the positive vibes
Thank you for sharing your experience and explaining the steps so succinctly. I am actually in my 50s and 10 years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer: I was 44, a single mother of a 5-year-old boy, and thousands of miles away from my family. This diagnosis was a wake-up call, so I started my personal growth journey. I am waaaaay happier now, happier than I have ever been. I have started working on that dream life. I know it takes time and effort, but it's totally possible and definitely worth it. I will keep watching your videos and taking notes.
You're my favorite artist of life, Aileen. 💖 The way you help and sums up your idea, really motivates me to strive and become a better version of myself. Hope everyone watching your videos, be the successful version of themselves in all areas of their lives.
AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Making-love]💞
(◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over
CZcams: This is fine
Someone: Says "heck"
CZcams: Be gone
#однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾
Thank you for sharing your story. The design part is very important. I'm always very impatient in the journey. It took me 2 years to figure out my path too! Thank you, for letting me know I'm not alone, and that everyone has their timeline, we just got to control what we can control and give ourselves credit.
OMG I'VE BEEN NEEDING THIS, MANIFESTED😭💜💖
Thank you for this aileen, can't wait to watch this❤
thank you so much for this. i have been watching your videos for a few years now and I can say that, through your helpful videos, i have been able to figure out what my passions are and getting closer to my dream goals!! you are an amazing human being. much love
you are literally like my internet life coach haha :)
You really inspired me to love my self and be myself, love your vids, thanks... YOU'RE MY HEROOOO😭😭😭💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💓
Saved this to watch today as my Sunday selfcare.🌸 You're always my number 1 inspiration to designing my dream life. I'm on my journey and I'm loving it. It's very fulfilling. -Much love.From one of your silent fan💓
Omg I'm so grateful for you, thank you thank you thank you! Your so relatable the things you knew you wanted I want to , gotta go start my vision board xx
woww your words are so powerful to me. it's really encouraging. thank you for sharing ❤️
I want to focus on my education, starting a career I enjoy, my spirituality, and my fitness first. I feel like I don’t have to worry about money since the money will come once I start my career. I have a part time job now, but I’m not in lack (thankfully).
I watched the Vivid Vision video last night 😯 and now this came out. Not coincidence at all 🥰
This is such a timely video! I always feel like I never have enough time to myself. Now, more than ever, I feel the weight of it. I am so ready for my dream life to start! I’m going to make time this weekend to start dreaming! Thank you so much! 🤍✨
this was your sign to start! ✨
I really loved your today's video ❤ I noted all the questions and now I'm going to answer them and reflect on what I really want and then break it down into smaller goals! *-* again Thanks for this beautiful video. I really appreciate your creativity.
Imma check that vision board video next *-*
I have phases of dream life
Phase 1) I’m in school, studying and dating. I’m in a cute studio apartment and I’m working from home. I have a dog and a cat and I’m meeting interesting people
Phase 2) I’m working and traveling, having fun (still single) and becoming more cultured
Phase 3) I’ve settled down, own a farm and rescue dogs and other animals. Maybe I get married and adopt kids. I’m homeschooling them and creating a better generation. I’m independent and at at peace with my life. No regrets
Get a governess. May be helpful.
Love this video, it's contents, and the cute emojis in the title 🥰
I recently got a new job that I really fulfills me and now feel like the rest of my life can fall into place. This video is just what I needed to finish building my dream life ✨
Beautiful! Congrats 😍
How someone can put most relatable video at most relatable time
Love you loads🧡
Years of following you, love you, thank youuuu ❤️👍🏻
Your content is always all about the situation I am currently facing 💜
AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Making-love]💞
(◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over
CZcams: This is fine
Someone: Says "heck"
CZcams: Be gone
#однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾
Love the princess dress! As always, thank you for your work ^ ^
as a visual learner this helps me so much
thank you Aileen!
Thank you for putting this out. Your voice, it's so soothing, I don't know if you have been told before. But I found it to be so.
I feel suuuper inspired by you! Thank you! I love your channel!
Wow! This is so helpful. Thank you so much and please do more videos like this. They're really helpful.
This video was even better than I expected 👏👏👏 THANK YOU!
Thank you for your guidance, I really appreciate it!
I'm super grateful for this video of yours? This is truly an answer from the Universe for what I have been praying for! Thank you so much!
I totally understand the desire to have a physical close knit group who shares your same values. I have the same values as you and I struggle to find them in my area too!
But I’ve discovered in my dream life is that I’m meant to share my mess as a message to help others who feel lost, confused, stuck, or hopeless in their journey of life and feel less alone. I’m learning to sculpt out the time to get serious and dedicate to my blog and CZcams. I plan on uploading my video next week about my return and updates cos ya girl was gone for awhile and is ready to get down to business!
I always love your content and resonate with all your videos. Wishing you continued love, success, and happiness! 💕
love this - wishing you the best!! ✨
My new favorite video! And perfect timing, I am finally building my dream home after a five year journey. The home is in another state, so this is the perfect time before moving, to get straight on what my dream life in my new home closer to family, will look like! So excited about creating the intention and the plan! 💖
Looking forward to more videos about creating passive income! Thanks for this video 😊
Wow amazing! Happy for you 👏🏻💓
I loved this video, so helpful and thought-provoking! What you do is meaningful for sure❤️
This came at the right time! ☺️💚 I was sitting for long hours yesterday thinking how to build the life I want (again 😅). But, I ended up organizing my phone apps because seriously, I didn't know how or where to start (again 😅). I super loved the questions! Never thought any of those, really. This feels like bringing us closer to making our dream life a reality.😊
Very important that we need to know exactly what we want in life, so we can take the right actions towards them. Loved this so much!! ❤️😭❤️
Thank you again, Aileen. ☺️🌸
To everyone - May all your dreams come true!! ☺️💚
Thank u Aileen 😘 for this amazing video, really a most needed one at this time. Actually I was very sad abt how I am gonna create my dream life but after seeing this video I got a clarity ❤️👍
iloveyou!!thanks for this✨💗
Watching this video after Aileen's latest video.. in this video she says she is dreaming about her oen home... And her latest video was a vlog of moving in with Wilson into her OWN home.
I feel so proud of her and I feel inspired that, if she can, I can too 💖
Hi, I wanted to jump in to say thank you.
You-
Amazing
I really think you can change my life, and that you are already changing the lives of so many people.
I love you
I wish you only good, joy and that you will continue to upload videos to your channel :)
Love
Avivit (from Israel)
Thank you so much for sharing..Literally, made my day❤
This channel truly help me alot with everything 💜
AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Making-love]💞
(◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over
CZcams: This is fine
Someone: Says "heck"
CZcams: Be gone
#однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾
Thanks for all those questions ☺
You and your channel is so awesome 👍 thank you for teaching me about visualization!
Omg Aileen you’re so beautiful you look like a princess!! 👑💖 loved this video and love you!!
Love you Lavi!!!💜💜💜
You have no idea how much this helps...
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Thank you, your videos are always so practical 😍😍😍
Will watching this again and again 💖💖💖 thank you for sharing aileen, as always your video help a lot and very meaningful to me 🥰
- Quais as características da minha vida dos sonhos?
- Onde eu quero morar/viver?
- Como estou passando meu dia-a-dia?
- Quais são os hábitos diários na minha vida ideal?
- Como um dia típico na minha vida se parece?
- Como uma semana típica na minha vida se parece?
- Como meu ano geralmente se parece?
- Quem são as pessoas a minha volta? E quantas vezes a gente conversa ou vê um ao outro?
- Que tipo de comida eu estou comendo? Como eu estou jantando?
- O que eu estou fazendo por diversão? E quantas vezes eu faço isso?
- Quais bens materiais eu tenho?
- Que coisas imateriais eu tenho?
- Como eu passo minhas férias? Para onde eu viajo?
- Quanto dinheiro eu estou fazendo? Como eu estou usando o meu dinheiro?
- Como eu vou dar de volta?
- Como eu me pareço?
- Como eu me sinto?
I love your hair colour, rlly matches the vibe of the video😝😚!!
Watching right now. Love all your vids, you are one of my inspiration. Love from the Philippines
Thanks so much for sharing those questions and exercises! It sounds like Law of Attraction.
This is so hard for me because I'm such a bohemian soul. I like to be unstructured and spontaneous, that's what truly makes me happy, to be able to get up in the morning and decide that morning how I want to spend it. Feeling free to direct my own paths.
this
and that's okay and that's beautiful! living in the present :)
Maybe working backwards and working out what would give you the freedom to live where you want etc.
Loved it, nicely explained , gonna try it out