How To Dress Casual As A Grown Man (Stop Dressing Like A Teenager)
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The best way to dress casual is wearing an Akatsuki cloak and a Naruto headband everywhere you go.
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I actually just bought what is best described as a cloak (extra Long hooded cardigan) for Christmas! i wear what i want, i spent 6 months in a suit last year, and now I’m branching out into unconventional clothing
This is the way.
I keep both in my trunk in case i ever feel underdressed
For anyone out there who are constantly afraid of how you dress, if there's one thing I learned growing up is that, unless your fashion senses are abysmally broken, it doesn't really matter how you dress as long as you wear it with pride. I live in a big city, Montréal Canada to be precise, where everyone has a different style due to the staggering amount of diversity we have here. No matter what I wear, whether I'm rocking a semi-formal getup or wearing the geekiest shirts I possess, I always get smiles at me or sometimes have strangers strike up a conversation. From what my friends and loved ones told me, it's simply because I exude confidence and approachability whenever I walk or talk to someone.
Your dressing style is a reflection of who you are at your core. I rather you dress in what makes you feel comfortable than trying to dress like someone you're not just to satisfy social norms. Be yourself, don't let shame guide your life. I'm more likely to talk to someone who dresses with passion instead of conformity. Authenticity is everything.
well said. I go out in public and all I see are clones.
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"Your dressing style is a reflection of who you are at your core. I rather you dress in what makes you feel comfortable than trying to dress like someone you're not just to satisfy social norms."
100% agreed. This is a good video (at least I think so) for dressing in this kind of style. And there's nothing wrong with this style. But, I'm someon who dresses up in a nerdy t-shirt and neon, mismatched shorts. That is *my* style. Is it for everyone? No. Is "less adult" than what was showcased here? Arguably. But it's what I'm into, it's what I feel comfortable in. The "casual" outfits showcased in this video I would consider formal and I would feel really uncomfortable in them. Never mind something like a suit. And, with dating, I want a woman to be into me, not the sanitized version. This is who I am, loud and proud. Will so people be turned away? Sure. But if there is someone meant for me, she won't be.
Nah guys. Dress to impress. Some combos should never exist. Cursed is the church guy who wears sneakers to mass
@@5ofspades427 I am dressing to impress, just not in the typical way. I am making an impression about who am I, my personality and my interests. That will undoubtably make a more accurate impression then if I wore uncomfortable clothes that I don't like the look of and don't represent me. What is the point of trying to force the typical style onto everyone?
"Cursed is the church guy who wears sneakers to mass" Church is an entirely different matter. Of course I'm not going to wear t-shirts there.
Lol imagine the internets response if some dude was telling women how they should dress. 😂😂😂
I mean the comments here are already pretty negative with people going like "I dress however the hell I want to" "I won't let a women tell me how I should be dressing"
For real tho. I guess a flamboyantly gay guy could tell them how to dress, just not a straight man or he'd get crucified not to mention youtube would probably shut the channel down for spreading "misogyny".
I mean aren’t gay dudes the best stylist? 😂 shit Caitlyn Jenner was woman of the year 😂
@@steveweast475 Do you take the Naruto top comment seriously?
Right, but dudes want to get chicks, and it makes sense to pay attention to a chick who is telling you how to dress nice, The opposite is much less true.
I'm gonna wear Rick and Morty PJs in public and roll around in the dirt.
How dare you? Grown men wear Adventure Time PJs! Don't you have any style???
Walmart standard. Splendid choice
Pics and video or I'm calling bs.
I dress how I want. The standards I go by are my own. The only person I aim to please is myself.
Why you in here then lil bro
We’re here for observation of female perspective, but if a guy is a badass he’s badass. Too many look a part but aren’t it whether in work skills or maturity. This is a bunch of keeping up with the Jones bullshit. Some of these outfits are for pushover and sexually incompetent men with lousy women.
I agree bro. Dont dress to impress other people, that’s how you fail💯
@@owencampbell7956😂😂😂 Preach!
I wear a uniform every day, whenever I'm off I wear whatever the fuck I want
bro im never gonna stop looking like a 90s-00s skater and there is nothing you can do to stop me. the oversized clothing will live on until im on my deathbed.
Holy shit, you nailed me right on the mark.
I’ll be 50 in December and I was pretty much a full-time skater from 1985 to 1998.
Rockin' those giant Blind jeans and Alien Workshop tee with Muska shoes?!?! Man those were great times!
think anyone should wear what he/she wants anyway so I actually don't get the point of this video.
I mean isn't our modern society about being yourself AND confortable with it, as long as you don't harm other people in any way ?
Also dressing like a retired skater until I die
Useless comment is useless
Would've helped to have more visual examples instead of maximizing camera time on yourself
scanned this and basically saw her. That's a fail
I was thinking the same thing. Exactly!! 😂
My thoughts exactly! Seems like she made this video just to show off herself lol
@@jamesbelan whining Nancy Boys
What did you expect? This channel is all about her lol.
I wear what I want to wear.I’m not here to please anyone.Just be you, don’t let age stop you from being you.
Exactly
I wear what I want, you don’t get to tell me what am going to wear…..
Then why did you seek out this video lol
@@BabyBooie9950 youtube algorithm
@@BabyBooie9950 As TheMiles65 says, I didn't seek it, CZcams put it in my feed.
I’m in my 40’s but I’ve been wearing the same style (3 different pairs) brown leather, low top Timberland boots since I was 17. It is amazing how versatile and timeless leather can be, both shoes and jackets.
I wear the same clothes I wore in Middle school. It all still fits me, I only replace clothing when something crumbles to the ground. Otherwise only when I require something I lack.
@@user-gz4ve8mw9lhows your love life lol
You must get cold in the winter wearing only boots.
If you redo this video again in the future: more images (or even a live model) would help tremendously.
Amazing how people can devote their whole lives to the deciding which clothes people should wear. I dress for the evironment I'm in, it's really that simple.
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they like clothes i guess
a friend of mine is always going on about how i should buy at least 1 to 2 good 100$ outfits for times when I want to go out. he will go on for an hour or more if i don't say anything about it lol and it's quite annoying. like.. let me wear and buy what i want to buy. if i can get that 100-200$ outfit for half or even less or nearly the same identical outfit for much less im going to do it.
I'm gonna do a video like that. How to dress when in a bad area 😅... I know too many people that put a Target on their back for no reason.
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Just a tourist here. It seems like there's a lot of emphasis on 'how you will be perceived'. I understand the whole 'first impression' line-of-thought - but the person who would dismiss me because of a first impression is not a person whose opinion and friendship I would value. I'm an older man now. I'm past the 'caring what people think about me' part of my life. If fashion is your thing, by all means pursue it. This seems to be a good channel for this. I definitely agree with the 'no logos' opinion. But confidence, empathetic listening and a good sense-of-humor will get you much more respect than fashion ....at least to the people who matter in your life.
Do not judge a book by its cover, but we do it all the time. Literally all of us do it subconsciously. Yes, even you.
@@steveweast475 When all you have is the cover to go by, yes, that is your first *observation* - but your *judgement* should be reserved until you've read what's inside the book.
@@DrProgNerd I agree wholeheartedly. Also, as an aside, people who spout pseudo-wisdom that begins with "all of us" and finish off with "you also" are precisely the people we don't need in life.
Courtney, you came right on time with this video. Recently, I have been losing a lot of weight, so I have to go through a whole wardrobe adjustment. I want to dress more mature and grown, not only for myself, but to come off like a man to women. Thank you so much, this helped a lot.
I’m so glad it helped! Wonderful to hear about your positive changes. Hugs!
@CourtneyRyan I like the comparison photos you put up, like instead of the denim jacket, this tan one is more modern. Good stuff
Bro loses some weight and immediately turns into gigachad 5000
@@billylocke9633 It's surprising how losing a substantial amount of weight increases your confidence, changes your whole demeaner and clothes look better on you; people pick up on this. 😎
Come off like a man to a woman!! Dude that has nothing to with clothing am sincerely happy you’ve lost weight!! However clothes don’t make the man a confident man makes the clothes !! But I do wish you luck with all things life 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Regardless of age, sometimes a man still wants to feel youthful, a graphic T-shirt can bring out some liveliness from your inner rockstar or skater. Your style should be an expression of yourself, and so while its important to know how to dress as an adult when it's needed, it's also true that adults aren't monolithic, and that it's okay to dress in a way that inspires a younger crowd just getting into fashion to be expressive.
Yep.
The greatest gift humans have contributed to the world is art/popular culture. I think the best way to express yourself is by wearing your interests and passions when it comes to that art.
I hear you. But I'm definitely up there in age, and wearing a Rolling Stones "lips" T-shirt feels like trying too hard. What works for me if I want a graphic T-shirt is something much more subdued-James Perse's "Yosemite" line is a nice option (and feels like heaven) or a classic Armor-Lux Breton-striped tee. Or I'll layer a Henley T-shirt from Merz Schwanen or The Real McCoys over a light tank top or simple neck pendant.
@@miketrotman9720 whatever makes you happy, a graphic t doesn't have to be too graphic if you know what I'm saying 😅 I just don't like the idea that rockers, skaters, or guys who work on guys may seem "juvenile" because they wear T-shirts. I had an awesome mustang in my younger days, and so wearing a t with a mustang on it doesn't seem too childish to me, it's portrays the opposite which is men like cars, men can wear T-shirts without it seeming immature or sloppy
100%
I agree with a lot of this. I'd add that's important to think about colours, too. I look for colours that go with other clothes I own and colours that go with my skin, hair and eye colours.
One idea for casual wear I’ve considered is both denim slacks and also jacket with a sweater. The look I would be going for is almost like a formal suit but completely in denim.
"When you simplify, you diversify..." So true, and it's awesome that this quote rhymes!
Had to make sure it rhymed so people would remember it! 😂
Diversity often comes from embracing complexity and celebrating the richness of different perspectives, styles, and cultures. Simplifying will lead to homogeneity rather than diversity, as it may overlook the unique elements that contribute to individuality and cultural richness. Why not wear a T-Shirt of your last hackathon or Sportsclub? The experiences you made, make you who you are. If you like who you are show it. Confidence is key when interacting with other People. "Pretty" Cloth wont change that.
@@CourtneyRyan Clothing and speak who you are to others. I'm a graphic designer and I'm also 37. I love a design that represents an element of my personality, that might not ever come up in discussion if not for me representing that in my choice of clothing. Granted there is a time and place for everthing, but just because we are males doesn't mean everything we wear has to be plain all the time. My wife loves my since of style, and you Courtney Ryan do not set or control the standard for what's appropriate for a man to wear at any age. You never will ! Also women that believe they do ARE under the category of TOXIC! Dress yourself not the world!
9:40 - I like mixing "juvenile" looking pieces with elevated elements such as the faded blue denim jacket you mentioned here paired with a dress shirt and dress pants using elevated weaves and fabrics along with elevated accessories like a silk neckerchief. I think combinations like these plays with these traditional tropes which then conveys a unique story.
This tells everyone you're a failed hipster that has no idea how to dress.
yeah you just end up looking like someone who doesn't know what they're doing.
wear whatever you want. dont make other people happy, make yourself happy. who cares what anybody thinks
Don't be surprised when people treat you as such. Don't judge a book by its cover, but we do it all the time. I'm sure you do it too, don't even try to deny it, it's in our nature to judge people.
1. I get it loud and clear about keeping it simple and not having big logos on things, but its easier said than done. most cases we have only big logo to choose with color options being black, white brown, grey, blue, green if you´re lucky, some strange tone of yellow, orange - hard to find. Red is almost impossible to find, but colors aside, big logos are almost always on everything (very annoying).
2. Picking based on body type is good, but we mostly get straight type, not V shape i have, plus color options are are even more limited (and yes the logos have to be big on everything). Finding right size is always an issue. Getting the right fit with color preference is impossible without getting it custom made.. Getting the right fit without color preference is still impossible task. Getting anything below L size is hard. Even size M is hard to find..
3. Denim to suit body type again hard to find, most are straight cut. Hardest thing in the world to find to suit body type. Tones narrow it down hard for us. Easiest way to ruin entire look.
3. Shoes tend to do us favors. Still hard to find. To match color even harder.
4. Color tends to be an issue yet again with jackets or ANY type of anything you wear over anything. BIG logos everywhere. Color options are almost non-existent. Size is hard to find above M if even that.
5. LOGOS ARE BIG ON EVERYTHING.
So yeah, its simple basics.
6. Most every store has 75 percent for women to choose what they like. We get 25 percent divided between everything we want to wear - including underwear.
That is a ridiculous amount to choose from.
Getting outfit advice from a sane women is actually a good idea. When my mom would pick out my outfits I always got more attention from girls.
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Hahaha, not my mom or step mom. Those clothes as gifts would forever remain on a hanger in the closet.
@@syz3981how that’s cap? A sane mature woman know what women are attracted on a man
You got other issues if you need more attention from "girls." Dressing up as casual adult is cosmetic vs who you really are. Some of us play cosmetic and need to blend in for special purpose. Doesnt matter how you dress. Its how you carry yourself. Ive seen so many "dress casual" and they are nothing but trouble.
As a 41yr old I agree with simple clothing. That being said, I still get compliments on my geeky graphic Ts when I choose to wear them because they fit well. Don't take your fashion cues from Billie Elish and make sure your clothes fit you, whatever they are.
I agree with people who say it shouldn't matter, but the reality is that it does. From college in to my late 30s, I didn't really care or pay attention until I dated someone who brought it up. Once I started dressing differently, a lot of things changed and the way people interacted with me changed for the better. Sad but it's true.
Exactly, they really just outted themselves as not being "grown men" because if you are actually a grown man you would know how important it is to dress properly. "I dress how I want and I don't care what anyone thinks" is something a child would say.
I grew up being dressed the way my parents wanted to dress during their poverty days, Jordans, graphic tees, i didnt sisnt really care untill I was 24. 25 now and I have grown a cologne arsenal, skin care routine, hair care and now clothing, slimming down, overall a glow up and maturity clicking in 😊
The way I dress is business formal, i adore horween leather boots, good ole maghanni shoes
Ultimately guys, just be self observant. Recognise when your clothing is getting tatty, no longer fits or is perhaps just a little outdated. That said though, do you. I absolutely love what Courtney does, but we also need to remember that this is somewhat her taste in men and her opinion on fashion. Another huge point is that when you are yourself, you attract who likes you for you and you'd never have to pretend to be someone you're not.
Ever since I've started buying my own clothes, I've had compliments about how I dress, and I mostly put this down to knowing myself and thinking outside the box. I know what suits me, and I don't follow fashion which means I often stand out (for good reason based on the compliments haha). If everyone was dressing as Courtney recommended, do you really think we would all flourish, or would this standard then become stale?
As a digital creative, I understand colour theory so implement matching/opposite colours, seasonal palettes as well as what compliments my skin tone. I'm 33 and my dress sense hasn't really changed all that much (except things have become better fitting), i've just brought in new elements. Just do you, but question where you could be going wrong so to not get so comfortable.
Im 34, do you use johnfoos shoes? Like, I do.
I had an epiphany the other day. Most men don’t understand what it means for clothes to fit you properly. We grew up wearing clothes that were too big for us because our moms would buy clothes too big for us because we would grow into them and she didn’t want to waste too much money when we grow out of them. Now we have a generation of men who thinks wearing oversized tshirts and always pulling up your pants is normal.
I agree, as a teen I grew up with the baggy style but as I got older and started to wear clothes that fit me I felt so much lighter 🤷🏽♂️
hello felly Canadian (from Mississauga)... while I totally understand what you mean... I'm also seeing big tall burly men wearing skinny jeans... sooooooo men are either trying to stay young and hip... or just don't care... and the inbetweens, no one notices them!
A man tries on jeans in a shop, realizes they don't fit, and buys them anyway.
Jesus, how correct.@@alexanderasner1689
I wore blue jeans and t-shirts most of my life. When I got older, I switched to sweatpants and t-shirts. Much more comfortable.
My tighty whities are the most comfortable thing I own yet nobody lets me wear them in public. Whatever happened to the "Wear whatever you want" movement?
I wore tighty whities all the way into my mid-30's. I highly recommend giving boxer briefs a try. Much better.
I work in the entertainment/production industry where black is the norm. 95% of my wardrobe is black items or low color keys. I wear black sneakers at work for comfort but other times Red Wing boots or black Birkenstock if the heat is unbearable. If I wear denim it has to be black or very dark non stretch (100% cotton). I'm very happy with my items and the way I dress.
A similar video for young men at work would be good. There seems to be no boundary between casual and work settings since Covid.
I am 60 year old man and can remember the exact day in the 1990s when wearing a suit at work was no longer required at my employer (an investment bank) so its been coming for some time. I haven't worn a suit for 3 years and now am working in an office environment again have had to find a whole new smart casual but professional look. Younger professional men around me just look a mess quite often. I go for smart chinos, brogue shoes, button down or stiff collared short and quarter zip pullover. I do wear more casual when working from home but still need to be online and want to look good on camera in Teams meetings as I often am. I just don't think wearing T shirts, training shoes and even track suits and baggy jumpers is a good look in any work setting.
I came across your channel just today, I think you are the perfect definition of style, with class but without stridency, everything in its right measure, all those things that today are so scarce and increasingly difficult to find. Subscribed
This is so kind of you to say! Thank you so much 🥹
Good, solid advice. I'm 69 and a few years back I was wearing some of those way-to-young styles. I gravitated away from them but never really landed on a look. I like your overall plan, which includes simplifying. And I am always into that. I'm actually going to do a wardrobe update very soon. Courtney, thank you for the help!
My sense of fashion is purely about convenience. I've heard people like Courtney say that one should be dressed up every time they leave the house. I'm not going to do that. I'll stick to the convenience and time saving idea of going grocery shopping in whatever I'm wearing at that moment. If I am wearing my uniform coming back from work and I need to pick something up on the way home, I'm not going all the way home to change into the right style to go pick up dry cleaning or some groceries.
Wear what's comfortable people. Dress up when you're actually headed out on a date or going to an event where you probably shouldn't show up soaked in sweat after the gym.
Totally agree with this. purchasing clothing without paying a premium for logos means you can usually get better quality material on an item of clothing that will stay in style for a longer period of time. Classic men pieces can stay in style for decades like a Harrington jacket or aviator sunglasses.
I personally don’t understand the appeal of Gucci or LV. You are paying a lot of money to purchase a product that makes you look fake rich.
I have a funny story about LV. My wife wanted an LV bag for years. I worked a bunch of overtime one holiday season and saved up about $1200 Cash for her. We took a weekend trip to New Orleans and popped into the LV store down there. You would think the place was full wealthy well-mannered folks. It was full of poorly dressed old ladies that looked like they all smoked a pack a day. Everyone was swiping cards to buy bags. One lady split the bill between a card that reached its limit and another one she had in her purse. The experience changed my wife's perspective. If anyone can swipe a card for it, is it really all that exclusive? We spent that cash on other fun experiences in the city, and never looked at expensive bags again.
One thing I’ve learned, it’s all about the fit. Suit, jeans, athletic attire, t-shirts, it all comes down to fit. Get your clothes tailored, I get just about everything tailored outside of the obvious. Remember this tip fellas, a 100$ suit will hit right if the fit is right.
Amen!
Getting a suit tailored is one thing, getting anything else tailored that you mentioned is just idiotic.
Polos, dress shirts, chinos, jeans, track suits that are too big, blazers/sports coats…anything I deem necessary. *outside the obvious (t-shirts, workout attire, pajamas etc..)
I’m 6’3 245 so getting my clothes tailored is a must.
In fact, I even get my dress shirts custom made now because store bought shirts fit terribly.
Good luck to you
@@CourtneyRyan great video! one thing I’ll add Mrs. Ryan is accessories. A nice watch, pocket square, scarf w/ overcoat, fedora, cuff links, collar stays, it’s the little things that make the big difference.
@@iamme25yago That doesn't make much sense. If you pack on so much muscle to the point your body size is above average, I could see it being necessary to get some clothes tailored. Regardless, the clothing you have available to you might not be what everyone else has.
A sweatshirt, jeans and sneakers in the winter, shorts, sandals and a tee shirt in the summer. Some mixing of the two in the fall and spring. That’s it. I’m thankful I wear a uniform at work and don’t have to think about clothes.
I don't watch all of your content, but man, I really do enjoy it when I watch. Your advice is top notch and the simple layout of your videos is inspirational (as a content creator myself). You really let the content do the talking. Very well done 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Fashion is open-ended and open to individual perspective/ interpretation. There’s no one way of dressing- you can’t say what’s grown up or not, nor what’s business wear or not. I.e. Mark Zuckerberg/ Dana White.
You are so Right!! I didn't use too dress my age. Listening your advice made a big difference. Even my wife loves how I dress. I'm 35 yrs old I use too dressed like a 25 yr old😂.. Thank you Cortney!!!
I’m 25, how did you dress that represented me ?
@@Bigbodipapi I'm into sports ( baseball, football) when I was 18 to 25 I mainly wore Nikes TN and air max running shoes, my home city teams shirts. New Era 59fitty caps But it all depends on what you like. Now since I'm close to my 40s that clothes don't look good on me. My40 new era cap collection I gave it to my 17yr old son. But like I said it depends on what you like. Even for more casual wear I used to wear my home city teams polo shirts....... It all depends what your into and life style you live
A real man dresses how they want, the standards he goes by are his own. The only person I aim to please is myself.
I'm a nutritionist and a martial artist, so normally because of the soreness and because of the need for flexibility I only use 90's straight denim and sweats/hoodies. I only use blanks. Also, I have 3 types of casual jackets, 3 types of hoodies, 3 types of sweats, and 4 types of denim. Then 2 suits. Some accessories and etc. Sometimes I feel a bit juvenile because of the hoodies and baggie clothes. I don´t know if the other people see me that way. What do you all think?
Down 37 pounds and redoing my wardrobe. I needed this to show I am a grown adult, and that I am healthy as well
Good job bro! Keep up the good discipline!
@@woodgie6041 Thanks brother!
>20lbs. here and doing the same!
@@WEEBER13 let's friggin go!!! I'm down 43 now as of this post!
@@theaspiecoach5934 get after it!!
I was a late bloomer when realizing the importance of dressing well and looking put together. As soon as I had a pair of shoes just for the gym and a pair of shoes for actually going out, I immediately got compliments. If you're a dude reading this and you have just that one pair of shoes for the gym, running errands, going on dates AND other special occasions, they probably smell horrible and they make you look like every other "normal" guy. It's really a sea of sameness out there and I was guilty of it for yeeeeeears.
My work boots are the only pair of shoes i own or have any desire to own, take care of your shoes and they'll take care of you.
I’ve recently lost weight and I’m buying slim cut jeans, but they’re the stretch denim kind so when I put them on they look fitted, but by the end of the day they look baggy up top around the thigh area. I really don’t want to start buying skinny cut jeans, but I really don’t like how these jeans look at the end of the day
Very happily married grown man here, in part cause my wife has never once told me how to dress. Nor do I tell her. Also, being 50+ I am also so far beyond caring what anyone else thinks. My advice to younger men, would be life is short, be yourself. Don't worry about what others think. Whatever you do NEVER date or marry a woman who won't accept you for you. Or feels to mother you and try and telkl you how to live. Half teh miserable husbands I know are the ones who have to get permission to just do what they love. Usually where most of the divorces come from too. You do need to know how to dress for success and at work, so there yes, you need to learn to look the part of the job you want based on the culture of the company you work for, and that is where maybe some of this advice isn't bad. However at home and on your own live your best life. For me that includes loud Metal band T shirts hawaiian shirts and cargo pants, and whatever shoe is most comfortable atm.....and they will take my blue jean jackets away from my corpse.....maybe.....maybe not.
Stretchiness in jeans is kind of a must also, especially for those of us who don't skip leg day. My old work slacks are getting a little snug after spending the last year getting back in the gym.
Of the women I follow for insight you’re probably my favorite well spoken well mannered traditional classy woman the world needs more women like you. As a man who cares what women think thank you ❤
Absolutely!
Yes. A class act in every way. Thank you for your insight.
Some of us have gone through the family-man generic casual stage and reached a point in our career and midlife crisis where we go full blown into repping all the nerd stuff we loved as teens. For years I admired guys wearing the Voltron shirt until one day into my 40's I realized I can do what I want and I don't have to prove I'm a mature provider/protector anymore. Amazing how well a nerd shirt, cargo shorts and a pair of Jordans rejuvenates me after a 30 year slog of business casual doldrum. My wife loves it too, because she's been waiting for me to learn to have fun again.
If I was single and trying to hook a relationship, her advice is probably spot on.
which brings me to the next point.... I will ask the opinion of a man about my clothing before asking you (for plenty of reasons, don't take it personally).
You realize most men don't care about the way they dress and are gonna be too nice to tell you your fit looks like dog water. When I dressed like that the only person who told me I was dressing poorly was my sister, none of my friends told me my fits were shit when they were in fact shit.
@@steveweast475 who gives a fuck?? early 90's grunge fashion was the best to many
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🎩 *Dressing as an adult involves transitioning from teenage fashion to a more gentlemanly style, showcasing maturity without the need for suits or formality.*
01:10 🧥 *Keeping a simple wardrobe with versatile basics facilitates creating multiple outfits, avoiding loud logos or graphic t-shirts.*
02:36 👔 *Establishing a personal uniform based on preferred styles, lifestyle appropriateness, and body type simplifies daily outfit choices.*
04:15 📏 *Perfecting the fit of clothing, especially denim, is essential for a well-put-together casual look, emphasizing the importance of choosing suitable denim cuts and washes.*
06:06 👞 *Shoes play a crucial role in enhancing a casual outfit, with leather sneakers and loafers preferred over juvenile or unflattering styles.*
08:10 🥾 *Adding quality boots for colder seasons like fall and winter complements a casual wardrobe, suggesting brands like Thursday Boots for affordability and quality.*
09:08 🧥 *Upgrading outerwear, focusing on color, fabric, and texture, elevates the overall look, emphasizing mature choices over youthful styles like ripped or distressed denim jackets.*
10:18 👔 *Dressing like an adult involves simple swaps, not necessarily suiting up, focusing on versatile clothing pieces for an elevated yet casual appearance.*
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i knew it! thank you for the navigation! jeez though, whats wrong with a pair of nikes, or pumas, or a hoodie? all these cats look the same ! i want to clean up, yes, but i want to still be comfortable, and not give myself anxiety trying to over analyze or worry about all this stuff!
Probably depends on your setting. If that casual of dress is typical in your surroundings then go for it. I think a lot of this advice is directed at a work environment.
I once saw job interview advice that said dress for the interview like you would for the job. You wouldn't wear a suit for a construction job and you wouldn't wear carharrt if you were interviewing in a law office.
amen! well said! @@trevorlaporte5951
I've always been jealous of the UPS guys. Simple daily wear that you don't have to pick out.
I don't leave many comments on your videos, but I greatly appreciate your style videos as a 21-year-old college student who struggles to put together outfits. Thank you so much!
Thanks for being here and I’m so glad it’s helpful! ❤️
Imagining struggling to put together clothes
@@Cutthroat__ lol stop it
Hey go check out Marcel Floruss he's really got some nice fashion videos that you might enjoy. Try the older videos since his style nowadays is becoming quite advanced
Dress however you're comfortable and for the situation you're in. I couldn't tell you the last time I cared about what another dude was wearing or even, frankly, noticed. Now if you're single and trying to get someone like Courtney's attention, by all means follow her advice! lol
I live in a country that’s almost always warm. How can I elevate my style without getting heat stroke?
I like the girl who gives a gift to a man.. I got a gift from a girl on this holiday, it showed me how kind she is, honestly, she deserves my thoughts, she 's a high value,put together lady and i liked her taste of choosing gifts. I was like wow! when i opened the gift. This is what I call "loyalty" or "faithfulness" for a long time friendship. Bravo! 👏
There’s an adage amongst motorcycle riders that goes “Ride your own ride.” It simply means that you should ride in a way that suits your comfort level, skill, and ability. Never mind how others ride, or what they might think about your style of riding. As a mature man who works outdoors, is survival minded and driven by the urban environment I live and operate in, my clothing on a given day is frequently chosen with the idea in mind that the day might include unforeseen circumstances. For example, I always wear shoes or boots I can run in (either towards or away from something). In colder weather I’ll wear a good base layer regardless of whether or not I plan on being outdoors. Because I always carry a handgun, pants and shorts need to be sturdy enough to support a heavy webbed belt that securely holds a holster and full size handgun with spare magazines. I love having a wide variety of shirts and jackets that I can wear tucked or draped over my pistol for concealment. I have a close friend in his 50’s who occasionally wears Keds and Hey Dudes (but NEVER at the same time). He dresses much the way I do otherwise, and because he’s a 25 year SWAT operator he gets a pass on the footwear. I enjoyed your video and I did learn a few things to put in to practice.
"NEVER at the same time." 😂😂😂
Nah, my baby face entitles me to dress like a teen, comfortable and all. I get mistaken for a high schooler and asked if I’m 18 in late 20s still but building an empire here
These vids never talk about men's shorts. Its 95 out rn. There is no way I'm wearing jeans and leather loafers. My khaki shorts and hey dudes are literally helping keep me alive lol
"these shoes make you look like you gave up on your life..." HAHAHAHAHHAHA Best line ever... Bravo.
You uploaded this a few days after my conversation with my dad about wanting a more mature style since I’ll be 30 this year. There’s no reason why I should be dressing like a high school student. Right now, I’m focusing on getting clothes for work since that’s where I spend most of my time but I’m strategically getting clothes that can be worn at work and if I’m going out with friends. The style at my job tends to be very casual and I dress somewhere in between business casual and casual. Eventually, I want to get some suits and a few really nice dress shoes but considering the fact that I won’t need to wear those any time soon, it would make sense for me to get them.
Suits are tough man. I was lookin at brooks brothers but sets sellout. If you want good dress shoes. Check out Allen Edmond or Becket Simmons
You can start with a versatile pair of dress shoes such as dark brown cap-toe Oxfords. These can be sported with a pair of jeans as well as with suits. Regarding jeans, as said Courtney, selvedge sewing is the best and most robust. Look for raw denim pants, therefore: they’ll adjust to your shape and become a unique piece of clothing over time. If you love them and wear them well, they’ll give you beautiful fades in specific spots of the fabric. 😊
Taylor Stitch makes excellent work style shirts that look good enough to go out in
> You uploaded this a few days after my conversation with my dad about wanting a more mature style since I’ll be 30 this year.
Dude… if you need to consult your dad about the clothes you wear *and you're 30*… 😂
OMG
I just can't 🤦♂
@@vivvpprof what are you talking about?
This video was good and I agree with you. That's what I wear not because it is a fashion trend, it is because it's comfortable.
I'm recently retired, having spent a career wearing suits, ties and leather sole shoes. I donated most of my dress wear to charity and now wear mostly t-shirts, shorts (or sweatpants during winter months), and running shoes daily. I've earned it.
In the last year I have moved from graphic tees to Fresh Clean Threads solid color tees. Pairing that with Bonobos has been a big upgrade from too large jeans and graphic tees.
Shoes are different story because nice boots like you showed rarely come in wide (4E+) sizes, so we’re left with whatever is available.
Thanks for the free tips. I think a lot of men just need simple to follow guidance.
Awesome, informative video! As a 55-year-old living in a climate where shorts and t-shirts are the outfit of choice 9 months a year, I've swapped out the concert T's and Marvel T's for Ralp Lauren T's as an example. No crocs or sandals for me. Switched to Cole Hahn canvas or leather sneakers and upgraded to good denim. I had to stop dressing like a 12-year-old at some point...hahaha.. I realize that MOST of your content is aimed at your target audience of 20-30-year-old guys, but us "old men" watch, too. Thanks for all you do for us!
Yep she doesn't know that, I'm from 702 also. Yup exactly agree, its hard to dress up in WOOL SLACKS when it's 110
Some models of croc look very “grown up”, just avoid the childish ones
Tommy Bahama in Las Vegas Town Square is the best dressed hot weather clothes I know of. LINEN helps, but not much, it's just shorts man! When it's that hot out.
Ironically, once I turned 40, I stopped caring what others thought of me and began dressing like a 12 year old again...😅
@@giovannibermudezjr This comment for the win, you are the real GOAT. It's all about surplus and second hand stores for me from here on out, and if my style annoys anyone in my family there's always Christmas and my birthday 😉😉😉
I would add that a properly fitted pair of flat front pants in colors like dark brown, navy blue, dark olive green, and khaki are a great way to break away from only wearing jeans.
Your behavior and attitude means more to me than anything else. Your outter exterior lasts for so long. This will never hide the fact that you are an A-Whole. People will know if you are a great person. A "grown man" is not defined by how you dress. Not unless you deliberately go out of your way to look strange. Then I can see a question or two being raised.
I second the motion for Thursday boots. I watched a video of a guy in the UK who wore them for an entire year trekking through the various countries in all sorts of weather conditions. They held up superbly. One of the great things about these kinds of leather boots is that they develop their own unique patina over time, so that your pair of boots are distinct and unique to you.
I enjoyed this video. I definitely agree with simplicity and the ability to layer. Think timeless looks, and that would mean classic. I will admit that I don't think about numbers of combinations (my walk-in is pretty large), but I build on seasons, and I think to rotate with the months.
Sounds like you have a good thing going to me! 🫡
important to remember that denim is better as an investment so buy good quality and tailor your fit instead of buying cheap that kind of fit right. Also you only need to get measured once, from then take your well fitted jeans along with your new one and ask for it to be tailored identically.
pro tip, denim with a small % of spandex or similar material for that comfortable stretch that gives you optimal mobility
This is good reinforcement, thank you.
I worked out the plain fitted T-shirt and dark slim jeans thing a while ago - more out of laziness/simplicity than because of any sense of style (plus you save cash by not wearing ‘branded’ Tees).
Can team those two simple base items with a casual sports jacket, cardigan or classy fitted utility jacket. Same with footwear. Dress it up with leather shoes/boots, or even down to a pair of fresh/clean Vans slip-ons (…beachside locale). Can also add a flat cap, scarf etc to suit weather conditions.
When I first saw this thumbnail, I was not expecting much as I have seen some videos where the advices given were ridiculous or impractical. Your video on the other hand is spot on. Your observations and suggestions are truly accurate. Great video. Godspeed.
As a father of a very energetic 2 year old my uniform continues to be track pants, hoodies and running shoes just like in high school.
Those lines on the denims are there for a purpose and can only be found on a rider's denim for better grip of the fuel tank so that your legs are not slipping around at high speeds. I don't own a pair of such denims but i ride bikes and that's how i know
Great video! I'd also argue the same applies for women as well. Feels like grown women in the WFH era live in sweat pants and yoga pants all the time. If you're out of the house, dress up a little! Was just watching a movie from the 60s last night and it's amazing how elegantly Americans used to dress. People seem to live in their pajamas now!
100% agree!
Yes, I agree with your comnent on pajamas. I don't care if you are a teenager or older man or woman, pajamas are what you wear around the house. Wearing pajamas out in public is beyond tasteless. It's inappropriate.
@@CourtneyRyanYou reference tight jeans on a man leaving nothing to the imagination for women. Yoga pants or tights on women do the same for men. "We appreciate you showing your goods, but...." There is always a time and a place. I find elegance and maturity in a lady's attire is something I appreciate more than anything. Yet, in our modern culture, a male is "villianized" about speaking anything about a woman's attire.
I about died of laughter when you started ragging on the Hey Dude loafers, "they make you look like you simply gave up on life", I couldn't agree more. Also I agree that any shoe made of leather is automatically superior when it comes to elevating men's fashion.
Thursday boots are legit and great quality. I have had a pair for 2 years that I wear almost every day, a little leather cleaner and oil makes them look new every month. Their chelsea boots are very comfortable to and have sole options for if you live in winter climates
Shits on Hey Dudes and then implores you to wear abysmally uncomfortable leather loafers. There's a reason we wear Dudes and it's comfort and simplicity.
I used to think “I’ll dress however I like” Now that I am 30, the idea of dressing more like my age is appealing. I want to improve this area of my life. Thanks for the advice
As a man in my later 50’s, I have to ask why anyone would want to look like an adult. Aging Sucks™ .
Because dressing like a teenager is much worse as a man
@@jjshebanow haha
@@josephcarlson7276 lol
@@jjshebanow Yes, you want to keep a "young" outlook on life, but you also don't want to look like you're desperately holding on to 18 in your 50s... it looks pathetic.
“Gave up on your life.” That one made me laugh. 👍
I won’t wear jeans anymore they bug 🐜
I’m an electrical contractor not a white collar guy.
I’m have tattoos and my lifestyle is active, Muay Thai, yoga, weight lifting and surfing.
I’m rough around the edges, I laugh loud, and cuss more than I should.
What is my style Ms. Lady?
I appreciate the video but would add that clothing is a situational tool. If you're going to a bank, what should you wear? Depends if you're using the drive up ATM, going inside to a meeting with a personal banker, going there to clock in as a branch manager, or going there to carry out a heist.
The jacket that shares the same sewing pattern as a denim jacket is traditionally called a duck coat, or a sport coat, after hunter's attire. For bros out there looking for one try and find one with the slanted pockets like a hoodie pouch because it'll extend the utility outta the jacket. Very classic, very much versatile. All good picks from Courtney.
Hi Courtney. As always, I appreciate your take on men's fashion. I am over forty five and have been concerned about giving a teenage vibe. The advice you gave will help in regards to my physical presentation and it's also my aim to attract a mature woman. Keep up the good work and thanks again 🙂.
Tips:
1. Buy quality when its on sale. I shop at the end of a season and get 30-70% off.
1.1 Save or invest the savings so that your money is actually doing some work.
2. If its too big but quality, buy it and get it tailored. This should be mandatory for suit jackets.
3. Get clothing that compliments your skin tone. Im lucky that black, white, dark blue, light blue/cyan/turquoise, light pink and even dark green seems to look good on my skin tone.
3. White v neck teeshirt + decent jeans (dark or light) + clean , slim sneakers seems to get me the most looks from woman.
i wore a suit for work for decades. I still feel good in one. Casually, I never wear jeans, I find the material too hot and heavy. Much prefer cotton twill or a cotton/linen blend.
Happy new year Courtney! I’m a man (like majority of your viewers) and I love your videos so much, especially your fashion type of videos. Keep up the good work and I hope all is well.
Aw I’m so glad! Thanks for being here 🥰 always appreciate your comments!
I've always been really offended by the concept of fashion. The idea that someone can know me or even judge me based off of the clothing I wear grosses me out. Where do I find the women who don't care?
Being offended that someone judges you on your appearance is odd..human nature. Prostitutes don’t care
Imagination Land. All women (human) are shallow and judgmental to some degree.
Everyone is judging, at least subconsciously, yourself included. I don't believe for a second you wouldn't judge two women differently if one was wearing a mini skirt with low cut blouse and another wore jeans and a t-shirt. It doesn't have to be about fashion, is how you present yourself to the world, you want ir not not it says something about you. I would advice you to look for a woman who has a similar sense of style as you. If you are all about comfort when go for woman who also prioritize comfort over fashion and don't wear any make-up.
Fair point@@renenetatm8222
I wear clothes that are comfortable for me. I *DON'T* wear clothes because I'm *OBSESSED* with *relationships.*
Honestly, unless you're looking to impress someone (find a romantic partner), in my opinion it doesn't matter what you wear as long as it's not grossly inappropriate. I'm 29 and I go out wearing hoodies, tracksuits and just anything that's comfortable for casual. The only time I'm dressing up is for work and social events. As long as you're dressed appropriately for whatever environment you're in, that's good enough. When I was a teenager and in my early twenties, I was very style conscious and would dress up just to the corner shop and pick up groceries. I think part of getting older (at least for me) is not over thinking about "fashion" and looking good to random strangers you probably won't ever seen again, just wearing what you like to wear. None the less if you are looking to dress to impress, this video is spot on. Nice little CZcams recommendation.
I think beeing a grown man is recognizing that you shouldnt give a fk about what others think about you
As a grown man, I disagree. Dressing in appropriate clothes for the situation with proper fit shows you're competent and is a form of politeness.
That is why I wear a canvas sack everyday. I don’t care! 😂
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No that just makes you an ignorant man.
Nobody cares until everyone is 🤭 at them.
so you go to a job interview and come with a star wars shirt?
So in a nutshell: Don't wear any colours that you can't find in a cappuccino.
I wouldn't call her advice terrible. I think its simple and good advice for men that don't care what they are wearing but still want to appear like they care to attract females. However, you will definitely end up looking like the majority of men between 20 and 35 because most of them are wearing exactly what she has been describing as a good style for men.
I personally think that adult men can absolutely pull of bolder colours as well. You just have to be confident and secure about it.
what to replace loafers with?
I cannot stand them, how they fit, how they feel and how they look.
What is the alternative to those?
Style should be an expression of one's self. Worrying about what people think about what you're wearing as an adult. If a graphic tee, and cargo pants is your style rock it. If a 3 piece suit is your style rock it. Whatever your style is rock it. It's the confidence of the person wearing the clothes that makes them feel mature or immature. If someone is judging you because you're wearing a graphic tee or a hoodie with a logo or whatever you like that simply means that's one more person you don't need in your life. They weren't going to accept you for being you, and you don't need that toxicity in your life. Confidently live your own life, rocking your own style, and it won't matter if that's graphic Tees and Jeans from a big box store or a layered outfit from upscale brands in the latest trends from a fashion district as long as you like what you wear it with confidence that is mature style.
I have to admit I'd rather be alone than follow such advice, as fine as it is.
Thing is I'm French so the rules are a bit different here and I feel like I'd only attract shallow women and I've had my fill of those.
Tshirt and jeans will be enough, what feels comfortable. Keeping it simple and minimalist.
T-shirt and jeans is a great choice! Sounds good to me lol
Faxx whatever makes you feel more comfortable and add in a little bit of what she said but contour into what you like
"Find your uniform" was really great. I Struggled for years with dressing casually- in fact, as a lawyer- I have a ton of suits, and just started wearing suits everywhere to make my life easier. I would mix athleisure clothes with formal clothes and I would look like a mess. A few years ago I decided to step into dressing with a outdoorsy and southwest theme and it made my life easier. (LLBean, Orvis and Patagonia clothing). Great advice as always thanks Courtney!
I'd say you "should" dress according not just to your age but also body type and other features. In my case for example, I'm 38, in theory I should dress more casual like a young adult in the 40s, but I'm just 165cm tall, I used to be VERY fit until I was 30--31 and still keep a lean/fit body, and thanks to genetics and a healthy lifestyle I've always looked easily 6 years younger than I am.
The same happened to my mom (people though she was underage when she married, and she was 20) and I had a very hard time with women up until being 26-27 and above because I looked "too young" and "like a teen" to most of them, like "not manly enough".
Think of people like Michael J Fox or Elijah Wood. Now, despite being 38, people always think I'm around 30 and I mostly wear jeans (good slim fit) with hoodies (some with graphics, some without) or white shirt, and sneakers (some colorful, some not), usually matching my hoodie with the sneakers. I wouldn't be able to pull it off if I looked older, and I know it's going to look a bit weird when I'm 45 or something like that, but having the heigh of a teenager, the bodytype of a teenager, and facial features of a 30 years old intern, I can get away looking good and "appropriate to my age" with looks more adequate for a young college graduate in his mid-late 20s.
Sometimes I've had to wear a suit for work and I've been told it looked "strange of me" precisely because my physique gave the impression of a teen in Prom Night instead of a "man wearing a suit", because I've been both lucky and unlucky with my "Michael J Fox perpetual teeange" kind of looks.
i don't believe in dressing your age. always thought that was complete nonsense
Following too many fashion influencers I always look at my bank and wardrobe and get disappointed. First time seeing something which can be done with my own wardrobe and not to spend extras unnecessarily
Wonderful
Yay! ❤️
The irony of the title.. no “grown man” needs or wants women’s advice on what to wear. Pretty sure this video is targeting women, so they can say “see, she agrees with me” to their boyfriends or sons.
Did you just assume this person's gender?
@@SilkySmoofe yes
@@DiogoSilva-uq2so you know what they say about assumptions my friend
@@SilkySmoofeshe’s a chick/hot. No assumptions here.
Thank you for your content! I appreciate a woman’s perspective on how to dress my age. I turned 50 last year and finally ended a toxic 8 year relationship and relocated to my dream city with my company. I took the opportunity to purge stuff that looks like my son would wear or no longer fit due to weight loss from all of the stress. I went down to maybe 6 shirts and 4 pairs of pants that fit well and a few sweaters that I can rotate depending on what accent color I want to coordinate with the outfit. I looked at well dressed men around me and took cues from their style and found items I already owned that I could throw in but I also bought a few new pieces such as a nice pair of dress casual shoes that I can pair with either pants or the right jeans to give myself options. Now just need to take my new look and get out there and meet some new people! 😊 Thanks Courtney!
I hope you take care of the inside-you as well as the outside. Good luck.
what if I really do not like to wear denim, I find jeans the most uncomfortable piece of clothing ever. do you know any good alternatives for pants for warm weather (I live in Texas)
These days, with everyone wearing "hey dudes", Crocs, flip-flops, tank tops, and cargo shorts, if you put the slightest effort into upgrading your style as you suggested in this video, you'll look like a BOSS! Nicely done Courtney!