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    Gaur Gopal Das explains to how to deal with a breakup. He explains different stages of a relationship a boy or girl goes through and breaks it down in a very easy way. Gaur Gopal Das is known to be a renowned Indian lifestyle coach and motivational speaker. He is a part of the International Society for Krishna Consciousness (ISKCON). He shares his learnings, experiences and life lessons online on his CZcams channel which makes him a mentor to millions of people across various age groups around the world.
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  • @shivharesiah93
    @shivharesiah93 Před 4 lety +1640

    Current situation is this of mine.. My personal advice to deal with it just keep silent.. No arguments no contacts. Jusy silent. Of your partener asks anything just shut your mouth n smile. And read some vedas ramayana and before going to bed just listen hanuman chalisa with high volume. Take a deap breathe and say to yourself its ok. Cry scream and wash your face apply cream n go for exercise. Time will proof this incidence going to better for u just trust on it. And as we know nothing is permanent not even our bodies. Love your family

    • @manshgogoi7842
      @manshgogoi7842 Před 3 lety +8

      Thnak you for ur kind information sister;-)

    • @anupamsarkar1079
      @anupamsarkar1079 Před 3 lety +12

      I'm just following the same process. I'm just passing through it.

    • @pushpanjalichhatria6234
      @pushpanjalichhatria6234 Před 3 lety +21

      That’s funny , long time ago I had the same situation and I dealt with same idea which you described. And today I feel like I am the happiest person ever. You just let it out your stress, for me I cry and it makes me more stronger and trouble shooter to deal with the situation. But I used to feel/embrace the sad emotions everything it just like part of your life and you will literally smile even In your worse situation.

    • @vikassinghchauhan5990
      @vikassinghchauhan5990 Před 3 lety +2

      Very true

    • @lunatigamer6425
      @lunatigamer6425 Před 3 lety +15

      hii, you said right from your prespective but i will say just dont be silent. bcoz it will kill you. reason is when you remain silent you start thinking more about yourself. and that will lead to more pain. meditation is good for healing bt not for long term. i just want to say Express everything you feel, think to someone who is your good friend or may listen to you. just dont be quiet it will kill you. quietness leads to overthinking

  • @Heyyy.Prabhu
    @Heyyy.Prabhu Před 3 lety +1025

    To all hearthbroken, just survive this time cause with time everything is going to heal 🤗 you can make it 😀😉

  • @sandhya1942
    @sandhya1942 Před 3 lety +478

    Break up is beautiful when u r with a wrong choice

  • @souravdebbarma5119
    @souravdebbarma5119 Před 4 lety +639

    Talking is easy bt practically survived is toooo hard to handle.

    • @harshitshukla5694
      @harshitshukla5694 Před 4 lety +48

      You have to help yourself, others can guide in good way or bad way.
      You are not robot not a computer that someone will repair you in one click.
      It takes time it has process.
      You have to do it practically, listen to others, learn, earn knowledge, look for new things,
      Look and find ways that how can i contribute to the society.

    • @AK-iy3em
      @AK-iy3em Před 4 lety +2

      @@harshitshukla5694 jay ho baba apaki🙏👍

    • @missioncsir-jrf8656
      @missioncsir-jrf8656 Před 4 lety +20

      I have survived through this and therefore i know how difficult or easy it is. But ill tell u something is that once u heal,there's nothing better than that. ❤️

    • @AnitaGupta-sx9bk
      @AnitaGupta-sx9bk Před 4 lety +2

      Good things are hard

    • @soumadip_skyy_banerjee
      @soumadip_skyy_banerjee Před 4 lety +2

      @@missioncsir-jrf8656 Hmmmm

  • @nishantarora6886
    @nishantarora6886 Před 4 lety +336

    Yes.. It takes years to heal... It's been 1 year and I still feel that it's like yesterday which effects me so badly

    • @urvashipatel5214
      @urvashipatel5214 Před 4 lety +51

      No idea why i felt like replyinf 2 u it was 90's i was living in uae fell in love with a goan boy 4 yrs were together suddenly he started changing...suddenly one day he was gone...i called his mom..explained what happened i was so dumb...i felt used and lost.cut to 10 yrs lateri discovered he was in usa married with an american with 4 lovely kids...internet is a wonderful place.well i contacted him...i needed closure..2 conversation we had in none of them he explained why he left so suddenly. Anyway now so many yrs later i think i was the wrong one...i shld have never let him have that hold over me...i am still single at 47 i have made peace with what happened...but it took many yrs for me to let go.whereas he just moved on without even blinking..

    • @nishantarora6886
      @nishantarora6886 Před 4 lety +24

      @@urvashipatel5214 My pain is not even a single percent close to your pain.. I will pray for you that someone will love you the way you loved that person.. So that the circle of life will be complete and You will overcome the memories of that person and live a happy married life

    • @nirmalkumarsaha4878
      @nirmalkumarsaha4878 Před 4 lety +10

      @@urvashipatel5214 I'm 19 years old and got my heart broken for my first time today only . I just can't realize what was the mistake on my part . She was acting all the way untill now and I didn't realized. She just said we are not compatible and we should not talk with each other . What should I do . My exams are in 3 days . I can't loose my grip over me for this breakup

    • @urvashipatel5214
      @urvashipatel5214 Před 4 lety +17

      @@nirmalkumarsaha4878 hey ....what if i told u it wasnt ur fault... u r 19 yrs old...so many amazing more urs to come dear.... some ppl come into our life to teach us some maybe becoz of karmic reasons..atleast ur heart can feel the pain...she will feel someday what u felt but by sm one else.. stop looking at whats gone...ur studies will make ur future there will b many more ppl who will come and go in ur life .nothing lasts 4ever...be strong.

    • @urvashipatel5214
      @urvashipatel5214 Před 4 lety +9

      @@nishantarora6886 hi nishant...i had lessons to learn..maybe i am still learning...maybe i wasnt meant to have a relationship in this life. Whatever it may be but all those who came taught me that i am responsible for my happiness...do not give power to some 1 else for ur happiness.even though i have cried n experienced pain 4 yrs...i wish them luck n forgive them..let karma do its work.

  • @gauravisop5949
    @gauravisop5949 Před 3 lety +87

    There's difference between break up and heartbreak, i had 5 break up which i really don't care but 1 heartbreak which broke me into pieces, 1 girl made me feel what other 5 girls couldn't do combinedly...

    • @user-zf8el5ms4h
      @user-zf8el5ms4h Před 3 lety

      let me help you get back that specific girl back into your life again in less than 3 days

    • @user-zf8el5ms4h
      @user-zf8el5ms4h Před 3 lety

      W.h.t.z.a.p.p me: (+.1) (5.1.5.) (9.9.4.) (0.2.7.9)

    • @zubairbasheer1900
      @zubairbasheer1900 Před 3 lety

      I'm into same situation bruh!

    • @khima-ke-maze
      @khima-ke-maze Před 3 lety +2

      May be you broke heart anyone of those 5 girlsor may be of all 5

    • @fatgirlboy9341
      @fatgirlboy9341 Před 2 lety

      must be the pretty one

  • @banditarajkhowa1251
    @banditarajkhowa1251 Před 3 lety +21

    I'd once thought that I would never heal outta the worst heartbreak of my life. Take time. With time, everything gets healed.

  • @DRaaz7
    @DRaaz7 Před 3 lety +131

    Literally, No One can give an exact answer how to heal break up... its all bout time and self-motivation.... loving yourself and try to reach the impossible goal... finally broke up 5 days back after months of fights, ups and down after 7 years of an open relationship. I was committed all these years. She dumped me, at last, saying she has started dating someone and literally have no feelings for me. But I have started doubling my gym and cardio session with impossible dietary habits and trying to join masters after years. I am 34 and trying to start from the day ahead I met her 8 years back. And the time was also same DEC 2013. I do have heavy chest/ pain every day after a few hours but I talk with myself and try to convince me that she is not going to come back in my life and love me again. I am 34 and still confused but I know I will survive this disaster.

    • @ddshhrss
      @ddshhrss Před 3 lety +1

      It's gonna be alright, buddy.

    • @srihari5673
      @srihari5673 Před 3 lety +4

      I too feel the same way...even I'm too having a heavy chest pain.. can't even laugh with my whole heart... I can feel the chest pain every minute

    • @eengineer9651
      @eengineer9651 Před 3 lety

      Where r you from 😊

    • @srihari5673
      @srihari5673 Před 3 lety

      @@eengineer9651 Chennai

    • @DRaaz7
      @DRaaz7 Před 3 lety

      @@eengineer9651 Nepal

  • @aryan1922
    @aryan1922 Před 3 lety +78

    If you're chasing them , that means they are running away from you .don't chase anything in your life.
    Thought ,money , people just be normal life is simple you just need a clear vision to see.

  • @ashkesh1551
    @ashkesh1551 Před 4 lety +140

    Dear those facing stuff like break up or had someone close who changed all of a sudden...remember there are also people like u who love truly so search out for someone just like u ...there are billions of people And trust me you'll find someone like u .Be strong !

    • @ankitamondal6412
      @ankitamondal6412 Před 3 lety

      I hope so

    • @sitaraman6546
      @sitaraman6546 Před rokem

      My relationship was 2 yrs long, we started dating at 2022, he was so perfect, he promised me that he will be with me no matter what....then he went for medical College, and suddenly, last night he messaged me that he doesn't love me anymore.

    • @sitaraman6546
      @sitaraman6546 Před rokem

      He has fallen in love with another girl of his college

    • @vitaminprotein9669
      @vitaminprotein9669 Před rokem

      Lmao shaadi sirf ek baar hi hoti hain India mein janab ..second shaadi is never like the first one

  • @motivationalmoto719
    @motivationalmoto719 Před 3 lety +161

    He cheated on me after 2 years of realationship....he is the one who said to me he will die if I don't love him and will end his life if I don't love him🥺 i don't know what to do and how to get over it he break-uped with me 3 times and this is the 4th time...all this 3 times I just thinking that he will be with me forever but he got someone this time....what he done to me is unforgettable and unforgivable...I can't think about that day January 29 ...night..I asked him who I am to u boo he said I don't know...and said I want breakup...on 30th I called him and begged him to not leave me....but he gone.... saying something that a girl can nevr want to hear from a boy that she loves for ever.....he will never hear my sound in his entire life....he will miss me and will realise that how much I loved for him and cared for him like littile baby.....I am just tearing apart...and my mom is continuously asking me what happand to me....my face is always like crying and what happand to me on that night killing me ....I want to overcome from this...I got strength from reading the comments there r lots of people like me who get cheated.....I am believing that my almighty father will help me.....here is a smile for everyone 🙂 we r STRONG....

    • @anuragkumar6548
      @anuragkumar6548 Před 3 lety +4

      Yes you are strong enough to face it God bless you always be happy 😇❤

    • @markstevn3561
      @markstevn3561 Před 3 lety +5

      My mind is unstable her photo with her husband is flashing in my eyes when ever i close

    • @adityapandey2820
      @adityapandey2820 Před 3 lety +2

      May God helps u siss

    • @rishutripathi9596
      @rishutripathi9596 Před 3 lety +3

      Feeling the same now....Loved her most..she was my world...Now need someone with whom I can share and forget past..I will try to flush out past soon too..

    • @motivationalmoto719
      @motivationalmoto719 Před 3 lety

      @@anuragkumar6548 Thanks bro

  • @AayushGoyal
    @AayushGoyal Před 4 lety +455

    Set a goal and crush it, best way to deal with breakup/rejection of any sort.

    • @manishapant1023
      @manishapant1023 Před 4 lety +4

      Absolutly correct

    • @Darkknight-ft7rq
      @Darkknight-ft7rq Před 4 lety +3

      Well said👍

    • @anamikaroy7529
      @anamikaroy7529 Před 4 lety +2

      Absolutely right 👍❤️

    • @adi9781
      @adi9781 Před 4 lety +1

      #ThukraKeMeraPyaarMeraIntekaamDekhegi

    • @madhurimachakraborty4353
      @madhurimachakraborty4353 Před 4 lety +20

      I am trying to put my mind on things that I have planned through this two months of breakup that lasts about 7 yrs..and whenever I think of his smile that I cannot get to listen from now on, his eyes I cannot able to stare at them...all I can do is crying , leaving my focus aside, and just pretend that I am completely okay Infront of my parents....God, this is so devastating...but always give myself this motivation that I have to prove myself right, independent .. those insults really hard to bear..but still fucking love him, still now....missed him badly....but I know he will never ever come back to me again... I really don't know how to overcome this feelings...

  • @purpleblack427
    @purpleblack427 Před 3 lety +22

    If somebody gets dumped , cheated , or taken for granted , there's a thing called "NO CONTACT" use it you won't regret that. No contact is amazing , it all about yourself and teaches you to work on yourself ...... The more you forces on that person you gonna loose your dignity and respect , so use No contact , and one day you will attract a amazing person . God is great.

  • @BappanNath
    @BappanNath Před 2 lety +11

    This comment section is just healing place ❤️❤️

  • @ubuntu5776
    @ubuntu5776 Před 4 lety +200

    Guys just be sure about one thing that, initially ull feel its tough and not able to get over it but, trust me guys time heals everything just gather some nerves and set high standard goals to yourself and get out of that mediocrity. We deserve better. Not everyone we lose is a loss. Let's make this as a strong kickass motivation than weakness. This a just a small part of life just like other tragedies. We cannot control other people actions their minds but we can do justice to ourselves by staying away from them. Some ppl are shit, just accept it analyize it and move ahead. Don't punish yourselves pls love yourself and fmly..they are our true well wishers and want to only see us succeed. YOLO. So let's make this life enriching and best magical story ever written. God is with us with pure ppl. Get some confidence u have got better bigger purpose in life, than thinking about someone who wouldn't even care. Means your whole relationship was meaningless. Think guys Think

    • @nikhilkhamkar4589
      @nikhilkhamkar4589 Před 3 lety +9

      This is one of the most beautiful advice I have heard. It is soulful!! Thank you

    • @bhuvaneshwarij1326
      @bhuvaneshwarij1326 Před 3 lety +2

      But 3 years hua..n not over it😔

    • @arumugamanitha6832
      @arumugamanitha6832 Před 3 lety +2

      True words.... Heart touching....👍👍mam

    • @ragamaivunnava313
      @ragamaivunnava313 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you Soo much

    • @Jishanth1993
      @Jishanth1993 Před 3 lety +3

      @@bhuvaneshwarij1326 hello ji, i too hav this pain, we should not question ourselves like whats wrong in my part, what made them to react like this, whichever i did to them conveyed bad but i did everythng in a good intend. First of all we should stop finding the answers which will not be answered by them, life partner should have good understanding about us, if that is lacking, problem is with them. Something happened harshly to give u better life it seems. We all will do mistakes, when we admit our mistakes and feel sry, our soulmate will understand , if someone fails to understand and react it harshly to the extend of breaking up indicates this is not our soulmate. Just construct certain thoughts and move on. There are ppl who alwys respects us , we might failed to recognise them, from now on just divert urself and have some new routines with our loved ones who actually respects us, care us ie frnds and family. Hoping for good recovery, including myself.

  • @rishavsingh6279
    @rishavsingh6279 Před 3 lety +52

    You need to very strong guys. In this world if you are soft hearted you will be suffering a lot

    • @rishavsingh6279
      @rishavsingh6279 Před 3 lety +1

      @Muskan Dubey yes

    • @rishavsingh6279
      @rishavsingh6279 Před 3 lety

      @Muskan Dubey you are right about it.. But don't worry time will heal everything life is all about this only..never expect anything from anyone. Even from.your parents also

    • @rishavsingh6279
      @rishavsingh6279 Před 3 lety

      @Muskan Dubey i know but sometimes its better to let the things happen that's only the way to get rid out of it

    • @rishavsingh6279
      @rishavsingh6279 Před 3 lety

      @Muskan Dubey you are welcome

    • @Chalapathi.marella
      @Chalapathi.marella Před 17 dny

      100% correct

  • @preetipatel6091
    @preetipatel6091 Před 4 lety +104

    Highly required for my current situation 💔💔

    • @tonmoyborah5113
      @tonmoyborah5113 Před 4 lety +2

      Mee too bro...it hurts

    • @preetipatel6091
      @preetipatel6091 Před 4 lety +2

      @Siddesh Nair _ tysm.... That's a very good advice 😊

    • @tonmoyborah5113
      @tonmoyborah5113 Před 4 lety +1

      @Siddesh Nair _ yes...true

    • @tikaramchettri6921
      @tikaramchettri6921 Před 4 lety +2

      Let me join you bro ,meherma Suntay he aashu aaja ta hay

    • @UAreNext
      @UAreNext Před 4 lety +5

      Make yourself busy in work and do physical workout. Try not to hangout with friends who are in relationship till things calm down for you. Spend more time with family. These few things would help you.

  • @rajputmohini3813
    @rajputmohini3813 Před 4 lety +189

    If chase ain't mutual change the directions.🌸.....and not everybody u lose is loss 🙂...... who so ever reading this believe in time ....time is very powerful ...it will heal everything ...u gonna be perfectly fine..🧡

    • @luckyroll4642
      @luckyroll4642 Před 4 lety +1

      Thank u dear 🙏

    • @rajputmohini3813
      @rajputmohini3813 Před 4 lety +6

      @@luckyroll4642 ☺️ believe in universe ..it definitely has some better plan for you.....stay blessed 🌸

    • @prithwirajbhardwaj9295
      @prithwirajbhardwaj9295 Před 4 lety +2

      @@rajputmohini3813 yes. Afterall the most powerful law is the law of attraction! Think positive stay positive! 🌸

    • @rajputmohini3813
      @rajputmohini3813 Před 4 lety +1

      @@prithwirajbhardwaj9295 🥰

    • @prithwirajbhardwaj9295
      @prithwirajbhardwaj9295 Před 4 lety

      @@rajputmohini3813 ping me on insta prithwi_rush let's talk!

  • @biswajitguchait4496
    @biswajitguchait4496 Před 4 lety +261

    Duniya ..... Thi
    Duniya ...... Hai
    Aur duniya ...... Rhegi
    So, dukh mat banao

  • @shreyaameriya4013
    @shreyaameriya4013 Před 3 lety +8

    I guess time doesn't heal anything...but it gives you the immense power to deal with those sorrows

  • @gautamisangle6299
    @gautamisangle6299 Před 4 lety +72

    His laughter itself is so much positive!

  • @pabloescobar9830
    @pabloescobar9830 Před 4 lety +311

    That question exactly refers to my current situation...

    • @mr.anonymous0054
      @mr.anonymous0054 Před 4 lety +6

      Be strong buddy . Hope u get over it very soon

    • @pabloescobar9830
      @pabloescobar9830 Před 4 lety +11

      @@mr.anonymous0054 Thanks buddy... Trying very hard to get over it...but it's becoming impossible in this lockdown period.

    • @nevergiveup7985
      @nevergiveup7985 Před 4 lety +9

      @@pabloescobar9830
      Brother,it's OK,accept it,move on,nothing is impossible..everything is possible..what you think..you become..try to calm down your mind, do meditation and listen good music,talk with your good friend. 👍

    • @PankajYadav-hh2vg
      @PankajYadav-hh2vg Před 4 lety +2

      Going through same bro still hard to believe this happened

    • @chouhankapil9065
      @chouhankapil9065 Před 4 lety +1

      Same here

  • @Phoenixmusic786
    @Phoenixmusic786 Před 4 lety +137

    Main kuch sikhu ya na sikhu en session se.. But inki English se bahot sikh rhu hai🤘🏻

  • @debasismaths1205
    @debasismaths1205 Před 3 lety +11

    He proves that spirituality doesn't mean you have to escape from the reality, specially coping with the modern world.

  • @mamtachauhan5325
    @mamtachauhan5325 Před 3 lety +3

    Watching and learning from you too Ranveer. Recently i have started to see some of your videos and they are like real good. Gaur Gopal Das ji is already my motivator and mentor. Thanks for bringing out the perfect questions.

  • @Rajat_1725
    @Rajat_1725 Před 4 lety +3

    Love the topic.... I'm going through the same situation now....very helpful 👍👍🙏

  • @sarhak01
    @sarhak01 Před 3 lety +1

    Same situation happened with me too... Thanks to Guruji for his videos... Helped me a lot to deal with the situation

  • @yashaswitiwari9047
    @yashaswitiwari9047 Před 3 lety +7

    1:24 thats what i did for months.
    "Its okay" is such a powerful sentence after the tough time.

  • @gunjanvig8121
    @gunjanvig8121 Před 4 lety +3

    I so needed this today!

  • @khizersohail3385
    @khizersohail3385 Před 4 lety +5

    Explained amazingly!!! Time is key❤

  • @sonam9157
    @sonam9157 Před 4 lety +8

    Your videos are worth watching. I live them all... Keep motivating us. ❤

  • @athiraadhi8452
    @athiraadhi8452 Před 3 lety +19

    I didn't thought my relationship will end up like this we were like best friends couples etc he taught me meany things how to react to bad peoples and everything now he left me but I cant overcome this pain I cant live without him its killing me inside I cant even eat sleep now iam like a dead body without any feelings

    • @michealjake4081
      @michealjake4081 Před 3 lety

      I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest💯💯

    • @michealjake4081
      @michealjake4081 Před 3 lety

      He helped me bring back my ex few days ago without any delay🥰🥰

    • @michealjake4081
      @michealjake4081 Před 3 lety

      Watzap him 🤳

    • @michealjake4081
      @michealjake4081 Před 3 lety

      _+2::3::4::8::1::6::4::4::3::4::6::0::6.....

    • @vedanshsingh1202
      @vedanshsingh1202 Před 3 lety +1

      I am also going through the same

  • @sanchitamandal834
    @sanchitamandal834 Před 4 lety +8

    I just love this man. Both of them ❤

  • @ayushimishra1285
    @ayushimishra1285 Před 4 lety +4

    Thanx for this video must needed ❣️

  • @goodoleclassics.
    @goodoleclassics. Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you prabhuji...this was a much needed advice....feeling blessed!

  • @devisangaran2634
    @devisangaran2634 Před 3 lety +1

    All your videos very inspiring and awakening and I love 💜 all the inspiring and awakening message of Master Gaur Gopal. Abundance of Divine blessings to you and Master. Tqvm Divine Soul🙏🙏 for sharing such valuable messages. 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜🌹🌹🌹

  • @turgutalp8039
    @turgutalp8039 Před 3 lety +14

    Listen to everyone Human Being irrespective of religion.. I am going through very difficult times as my gf broke up with me a week ago.. The steps guru is speaking are worth while... Thanks for your golden words 🙏

  • @mr.digantapaniya9273
    @mr.digantapaniya9273 Před 3 lety +5

    I got my all answers thank you 🙏🏻🙂

  • @keshavcodex4173
    @keshavcodex4173 Před 4 lety

    The guy you become during podcast and in hindi channel is totally opposite and that is really amazing. I learn alot of things from you even from few months the english I spoke is much similar to you, and the tweets you put daily are also very inspiring. You are my great mentor. I LOVE YOU BROTHER.

  • @wanderer_ankur
    @wanderer_ankur Před 3 lety +1

    Had a beautiful relationship .. both love each other till date .. her mother knew about us but intentionally got her engaged to someone else without her will .. definitely she is a very kind human being and her parents was her first priority .. I don't know what to do .. she made me such a good person .. thought of losing her always used to shook me to the core and now i am facing that day

  • @siddharthvavhle5204
    @siddharthvavhle5204 Před 3 lety +19

    To whomever this happen I just simply suggest that time heals everything give time some time and just think why you want to be with someone who cheated or don't want to be with you have some self-respect and self worth and guts to let go and it's a part of process !!!

  • @ArpitaDas-lr8wf
    @ArpitaDas-lr8wf Před 4 lety +6

    Sometimes it's the ultimate to find out solution

  • @MayavatiBanerjee
    @MayavatiBanerjee Před 3 lety

    Thankyou for asking this exact question 🙏🏿 .

  • @rhudalukrocha778
    @rhudalukrocha778 Před 3 lety

    Thanks I really love this speech

  • @manjeetpatel6625
    @manjeetpatel6625 Před 3 lety +3

    I really want to speak like him, he speaks really good

  • @pavanipresents5484
    @pavanipresents5484 Před 4 lety +9

    It would be so helpful for me if this video has been released three years back.

  • @kgcefriends8790
    @kgcefriends8790 Před 4 lety

    Whatever the solution is, but he has explained it in very simple and nice words ...!!!

  • @mayurjoshi9365
    @mayurjoshi9365 Před rokem

    Perfect steps said sir.
    As I am going now with it.i can feel it too . thanks for guidance

  • @Darkknight-ft7rq
    @Darkknight-ft7rq Před 4 lety +110

    Same thing happened with me... everything was goin smoothly but all of a sudden he changed

    • @shradhabatrabatra8134
      @shradhabatrabatra8134 Před 4 lety +4

      That happened with me too , stay strong buddy, more power to you ❤

    • @ashkesh1551
      @ashkesh1551 Před 4 lety

      Same

    • @efresh7545
      @efresh7545 Před 3 lety +10

      See there are two major points if some has changed suddenly may be they have some other works or may be they are talking with some one just leave them and dont beg or plead let them go if they come don't ask anything or dont judge just accept them but if they leave celebrate the situation because they are not attached to our future... learned a lot through my 8 years relationship just break the chains and move on

    • @shradhabatrabatra8134
      @shradhabatrabatra8134 Před 3 lety

      @@efresh7545 🙌🙌

    • @travelwithabu2695
      @travelwithabu2695 Před 3 lety +3

      Yesterday all of of a sudden I came to know that I was getting cheated... But it broke my heart... I loved her more than anything.... I don't know how to explain the pain I am having now 😭😢😢😢😔😔😔😣😣😣😣💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @mamathabandari346
    @mamathabandari346 Před 4 lety +3

    The host had good questions for guru ji. Even he was a kind of hilarious nd maintained his confident while having conversation with guru ji. A bit hard to sit down with guru ji like that (straight to the wise man) He handled the entire show well.

  • @varunsachdev8769
    @varunsachdev8769 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for this video.

  • @SmokeNShoot
    @SmokeNShoot Před 3 lety +2

    Kinda through the same situation. And I too get anxious a lot sometimes thinking about her being with someone else. But I just tell myself "It's Ok. It's ok. Happens." I too started listening Hanuman Chalisa first thing in the morning and it is so comforting. I don't know how but it is. Started feeling positive using affirmations. So everybody who is going through it, just understand that it was necessary to build you up for a tougher life ahead.

  • @bidhandas7711
    @bidhandas7711 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you sir,

  • @tr-GoodVibes
    @tr-GoodVibes Před 3 lety +12

    Live with yourself !
    Do things that you used to do . Those things that give you postive vibes !.
    My best wishes to all .,,❤️

  • @venieaswar2845
    @venieaswar2845 Před 4 lety +2

    Very well said

  • @TheGamerRonak
    @TheGamerRonak Před 3 lety +2

    Im dealing with same and my close friend suggested me this video thanks for this

  • @98phani
    @98phani Před 4 lety +25

    I’m emotional,depressed n anxious got tears watching

  • @souravghosh2677
    @souravghosh2677 Před 3 lety +26

    What if he has no one to pour out all the feeling, what if that one person who broke up and left is the one person for you.😞😞

    • @kbjaya1781
      @kbjaya1781 Před 3 lety +1

      Sourav Ghosh same aisich aur koi b frnd milta tab bolna a sab un say tab aap happy honge.

    • @sachinshetti4405
      @sachinshetti4405 Před 3 lety +1

      there might be someone, friends or family , and if nobody then talk to your self. Pour it out all . Forgive the person. Forgiveness feels better. Holding and fighting for it is an endless and a hard journey. May God Bless You.

    • @wamiqsalar
      @wamiqsalar Před 3 lety +1

      Talk to god... through prayers and patience... you'll find peace...your prayers reaches directly to god...and ask him to detach your heart from that person...

  • @haritas9
    @haritas9 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes, me too got crushed, dumped and used. It hard to accept the reality and face again new challenges in uncertain situations. Life is cruel for sensitive people like me. Im getting hammered from all end. Yet I'm trying to find my lost inner spark.

  • @Vivek_Yadav99
    @Vivek_Yadav99 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you won't be enough .... ❤️🌸

  • @nirmalkumarsaha4878
    @nirmalkumarsaha4878 Před 4 lety +90

    I'm 19 years old , I was friends with a lovely girl I met in college . We started with friendship and we grew into very close friends . I did have a feeling for her and one day I just confessed bmand she also said yes. We had a few rough patches but we sorted and solved it together. All of a sudden she started this conversation with me about breaking up . I thought she was joking and when she told she was not joking I just felt something in my stomach as if someone have kicked you and at the same time gave you a ko punch . It felt like that . I was noticing that she wasn't telling me things that we used to share . I thought something is wrong with her . I just can't believe I have lost her. I know don't keep expectations and hope but I'm a human I'm not a robot . I just can't believe we won't even be friends anymore. Maybe what happened is for good , may almighty help me in this time

    • @anitakumari9055
      @anitakumari9055 Před 4 lety +13

      I can understand what kind of problem you are facing due to your recent break up. It's ok to faced such kind of things in life. This is a high time to recognize yourself that how much you have changed and learn after break up.Just wait for a good time may be God has some good plans for you why so because if something happens wrong with you or you have lost something which was very especial for you that hurt time left you with nothing but that can change your perception and dignity of your life so,think positive

    • @harshitshukla5694
      @harshitshukla5694 Před 4 lety +4

      You have to help yourself, others can guide in good way or bad way.
      You are not robot not a computer that someone will repair you in one click.
      It takes time it has process.
      You have to do it practically, listen to others, learn, earn knowledge, look for new things,
      Look and find ways that what can i contribute to the society.

    • @suchismitabiswas99
      @suchismitabiswas99 Před 4 lety +9

      Dude this stomach upset wala feeling ..!! So familiar !! Oh god !😂 . Just remember you arent alone in this . Every body gets their heart broken at some point in their lives.

    • @m2610k
      @m2610k Před 4 lety +6

      Same here I'm 19 yrs old my ex cheated vth me already he had 2 gf's in his life he hideen those things from me then left me and now he try to spread rumors about me that I'm bad i'm characterless and bla bla & bcoz of that i hv suffered a lot and now suffering too

    • @Himanshu1602
      @Himanshu1602 Před 4 lety +4

      @@m2610k you'll be fine, just keep going with your life. Sometimes no response is the best response.

  • @tathagatasil1164
    @tathagatasil1164 Před 4 lety +3

    Pronam Swamiji🙏🙏🙏

  • @sohaibgaur8496
    @sohaibgaur8496 Před 3 lety

    The healing process we want is already in us🙏 start searching yourself slowly slowly

  • @siddharthpatell1218
    @siddharthpatell1218 Před 3 lety +1

    Loving a person is amazing feeing event and at the end that list leave us, I Just got break today and csnt forget her

  • @chirkutgroup6274
    @chirkutgroup6274 Před 3 lety +4

    One of the most difficult and confusing litrelly it seems like every thing get finished

  • @theunknown4399
    @theunknown4399 Před 4 lety +18

    0:02 my personal favourite moment

  • @mahimagarhwal5496
    @mahimagarhwal5496 Před 4 lety

    Thanks alot...

  • @niveditha3825
    @niveditha3825 Před 3 lety +1

    This Man is Epic person 🙏 his way of narration and examples and expressions and also being sarcastic & Jovial as per generation while narrating lessons is appreciable 👏Glad we have him to learn in living better. 🙂

    • @traceykimmiller193
      @traceykimmiller193 Před 3 lety

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  • @gursewaksingh3416
    @gursewaksingh3416 Před 4 lety +40

    Wait why I m watching this
    Even I don’t have any gf
    But crush’s are countless 😁😁😁

  • @bismahamid4211
    @bismahamid4211 Před 3 lety +3

    It takes one week to involve in my work and to achieve my goal the way I have to walk on to achieve goal and next way of involved in my friends and field people 😁

  • @RohitVerma-bj3ml
    @RohitVerma-bj3ml Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks a lot I was eagerly waiting for this kind of video where the guruji helped me out how to overcome this situation

    • @traceykimmiller193
      @traceykimmiller193 Před 3 lety

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    • @RohitVerma-bj3ml
      @RohitVerma-bj3ml Před 3 lety

      @@traceykimmiller193 That suggestion for me means alot Tracey, I'm from India and here we merry eachother by our caste and religion mostly, but in my case she recently got married with someone else, my current situation is like I've everything but she is not with me I'm completely alone.. just trying to fight with my loneliness

  • @rooparonanki
    @rooparonanki Před 4 lety +1

    Its very hard to be in practical.....but again and again...i exclusively watch your videos to just control.and handle my self from these marriage emotions...........all relations are one step and marriage is totally a different one........if everything goes well....all.is well.....if not...then ...thats the real power how we survive proves us😐

  • @kakon1565
    @kakon1565 Před 3 lety +4

    I can feel how it feels...stay strong guys ...this phase will pass ,you'll heal and you'll be happy again keep trust 💕

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      @biancadelarosa7986 Před 3 lety

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  • @yosloslweuis6771
    @yosloslweuis6771 Před 3 lety +8

    Break of a wrong relationship is a path through which u can go ahead. Dnt expect from ur past,leave them,U shoud start love wth urself which leads a happy life. Leave ur past and see ur future and start ur new journey ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @stellabrian5996
      @stellabrian5996 Před 3 lety +1

      I recommend you to a great man,who can help you manifest whatever u wannna manifest💯💯

    • @stellabrian5996
      @stellabrian5996 Před 3 lety

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      @stellabrian5996 Před 3 lety

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      @stellabrian5996 Před 3 lety

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    • @yosloslweuis6771
      @yosloslweuis6771 Před 3 lety

      @Muskan Dubey it's may be tough but in future u get gd results,

  • @himadriboruah8923
    @himadriboruah8923 Před 3 lety

    This vedio motivated me to move on

  • @arnabsaha5270
    @arnabsaha5270 Před 3 lety

    Omg this is the best thing I have watched today ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sonam9157
    @sonam9157 Před 4 lety +27

    Perfect Ranveer. You really making my life sorted ❤

  • @queenrose7486
    @queenrose7486 Před 3 lety +8

    True, accept , admit your depression and embrace the pain and then slowly you ll be out..... Let karma do the rest.... Nowadays, either people don't marry their loved ones or they don't love their married ones....complicating lives...

    • @naughtymon2138
      @naughtymon2138 Před 3 lety

      Will karma actually works ?

    • @queenrose7486
      @queenrose7486 Před 3 lety +1

      @@naughtymon2138 ,ofcourse 100% yes , it works . I have seen people suffering out of their karma. Even I have suffered mine . If not immediately, little later you will suffer . What you sow is what you reap.

    • @naughtymon2138
      @naughtymon2138 Před 2 lety +1

      @@queenrose7486 but I have seen some people who cheat and hurt someone badly and are living happily in their life and the person who gets cheated and get hurted just by doing good of her is suffering a lot .

    • @queenrose7486
      @queenrose7486 Před 2 lety +2

      @@naughtymon2138 , may look like that, or maybe they pretend to be good . Or maybe they will suffer a little later..... just ignore them, if it hurts you badly, just think or set your mind that they don't exists anymore...this will help you to be out..for your good..Just Be Positive in good or bad situation and just cry out and surrender to God... crying is healing...
      Keep doing good...Be good and the good will come to you....

    • @naughtymon2138
      @naughtymon2138 Před 2 lety

      @@queenrose7486 thanks a lot who you are .

  • @anuradhajoshi5638
    @anuradhajoshi5638 Před 4 lety +2

    Awesome 👍

  • @Sneha_B111
    @Sneha_B111 Před rokem

    I have experienced a breakup too, I just want to tell everyone that heartbreak is like a storm, it comes at a high speed and eventually it will also fade away after some time. So take things slowly and give yourself unconditional love and care during that storm.

  • @PrashantSingh-rp6mf
    @PrashantSingh-rp6mf Před 3 lety +4

    You know what is the worst feeling
    When they say
    "I don't feel the same for you".

  • @hafsadolly6830
    @hafsadolly6830 Před 4 lety +4

    It can be the only time you can mould yourself best version
    😥😏

  • @imlechuzz
    @imlechuzz Před 3 lety +1

    Heart breaks cannot be defined but one thing felt was like a big stone kept some where near heart is burning inside with lots of negetivity in brain...

  • @gantausha4638
    @gantausha4638 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks

  • @priyanshugupta9171
    @priyanshugupta9171 Před 3 lety +3

    I really wish i could have someone to talk to uncensored and unedited ,
    there is a lot of burden over me but no one to talk to
    Hard times really .
    but i will act like a real man who are not looking for anything and are willing to take the hit on their chin.

  • @deepsangel9153
    @deepsangel9153 Před 4 lety +15

    At present wat im going through it... not that easy to get rid of the depression..

    • @IRFAANKASHMIRI
      @IRFAANKASHMIRI Před 4 lety +1

      Open urself before someone u trust ,u will feel lighter

    • @IRFAANKASHMIRI
      @IRFAANKASHMIRI Před 4 lety +2

      @@Jyotiyadav-mn5ko Don't give up , fight it to get rid of depression

    • @IRFAANKASHMIRI
      @IRFAANKASHMIRI Před 4 lety +1

      @@Jyotiyadav-mn5ko I know ,itz hard but know ur capabilities , recognise urself who u r .word has no end where it has bad days ,change ur mind ,go ahead ,fund happiness in smipler things ....don't overthink ,let things gooo

    • @Jyotiyadav-mn5ko
      @Jyotiyadav-mn5ko Před 4 lety +1

      @@IRFAANKASHMIRI thanku🙏 i will try to forget all things

    • @IRFAANKASHMIRI
      @IRFAANKASHMIRI Před 4 lety +1

      @@Jyotiyadav-mn5ko yeah good 🤗
      Stay tuned on my channel for upcoming videos on coping strategies

  • @imlechuzz
    @imlechuzz Před 3 lety +1

    Sach mein yaar kya feeling hai it's so so so difficult for a person like me to handle for me attachment is everything the person who was met yesterday can be easily forgetted or may be one month too but what about years related it's not about the days it's about the time spent it's about those daily routines which is snatched all after a breakup how to survive those moments which is heart breaking to accept can't find a way seriously yaar like it's easy to suggest someone or motivate someone but when it comes to us no words to explain like fud money clothes gifts whole nature even we get after a breakup feels like nothing beyond that pain...

  • @conscienceboostup7813
    @conscienceboostup7813 Před 4 lety

    Great !!!

  • @yshubayshuba4332
    @yshubayshuba4332 Před 3 lety +3

    Wen a person leaves u completely it's easy to forget but wen he is in touch avoiding n again get in touch is like killing me either to live r die unable to forget nor to leave

  • @nirjashah759
    @nirjashah759 Před 4 lety +4

    Yess I am depressed.I am living with all uncertainties about a person whom I love.I dont know whether he is loyal or not.

    • @vatsRobin
      @vatsRobin Před 4 lety +1

      Continue till last and give your best.. If they cheat.. Just smile.. Feel sorry for them.. They can't feel love.. Just continue.. If a person even cheating on you don't mean to end up relationship dude.. This world and all our ego tell us... You with him or her so I not going to love you anymore.. Stop be childish.. If you think they cheat.. Tell them like.. Anything about anyone they do like that but continue.. Even when they left you really.. They can realize they Did wrong.. I hope never happen that and best wishes. Cheating a part of love.. If these nonscence not happening then how I feel the beauty of love keep smiling and spread love #humanity comes always first

    • @Himanshu1602
      @Himanshu1602 Před 4 lety

      Either confront him about it or leave him, don't invest in something if you are unsure about it.

    • @chandnisharma5432
      @chandnisharma5432 Před 3 lety

      if you have doubt with loyalty, leave. you dont love her or him. If you have any confusion talk to them directly. if they are available and understand you, will clear you their situation. If they are not available and cant understand and get bothered by you, you are not worthy for them.

  • @simrandeepkaur3252
    @simrandeepkaur3252 Před 3 lety +1

    Imperfections r beautiful..♥️♥️

  • @user-ms6ue6yu3c
    @user-ms6ue6yu3c Před 4 lety +1

    Thankyou

  • @poornimakokare998
    @poornimakokare998 Před 3 lety +4

    When once the trust is broken it is very much difficult to trust again ......

  • @amandeepkaur-mr5tb
    @amandeepkaur-mr5tb Před 3 lety +3

    Going through hardest part of my life. It feels impossible that the void can ever heal

    • @mellawilliam2961
      @mellawilliam2961 Před 3 lety

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @mellawilliam2961
      @mellawilliam2961 Před 3 lety

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      @mellawilliam2961 Před 3 lety

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      @mellawilliam2961 Před 3 lety

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    • @amandeepkaur-mr5tb
      @amandeepkaur-mr5tb Před 3 lety

      @@mellawilliam2961 yes i need it. i am not able to think straight what sort of life i need to imagine

  • @gurrah3628
    @gurrah3628 Před 3 lety

    Ys .. accept nd learn from neg time .. it's ok .. every one goes through it 🙏tc

  • @prabhsohal7702
    @prabhsohal7702 Před 3 lety

    you are too good guru g

  • @shrikantDhatrak
    @shrikantDhatrak Před 3 lety +3

    Breakup is a wake up call subah ho gayi mamu aage badho 😅

  • @amitkarn3740
    @amitkarn3740 Před 3 lety +4

    I am dealing with the same because I thought there is no use holding on. It's real tough but one thing for sure I am not going to call that person and say I am hurt.
    I just want to get all these negativity out of me.

  • @mayur6984
    @mayur6984 Před 3 lety +1

    This is amongst mine Three most liked podcasts on your channel other two are with Jay Shetty and Dr. Vivek Bindra🙏🏻

  • @freshmemes8819
    @freshmemes8819 Před 2 lety +1

    Just the thing is change your self, Be stronger then first,Be sucessful The hole life will be changed.