This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you so much for posting. My situation is somewhat the same, with some interesting differences mixed in.
This teaching is awesome! I would like to see more of this taught in the churches to the Body of Christ! These are the real life issues that need to be taught instead of regurgitation of the same sermons year after year.
Amazing! Thank you for sharing. This validated a lot of steps we had to take in order to turn around the relationship between my husband and his daughter who was being alienated by his npd ex wife.
So happy I found this… Dec 2022.. a girl teenager who decided out of the blue she now wants to come over the same schedule her 5yr old younger sister… 🙏🏼 help us all.
My God, he touched on every single issue that I am dealing with right now with my boyfriend. I see no future with this man if he doesn't set boundaries and get his spoiled daughter under control. The giving away spousal love issue is particularly the problem Because his six-year-old thinks she is his girlfriend and that she can passively aggressively Push me off of him whenever I try to hug or kiss him or out hug and kiss him In jealousy that I just did it.. Or get mad that he gives me flowers and didn't buy her flowers too. Or ask me when I'm leaving so she can sleep in the bed with him. Or at breakfast asking when are you and mommy going to be back together again because i want you back together....I'm sick of him laughing about it and not correcting it.
My advice for you is not to get married. If he’s not taking it seriously now, it will only get worse when you marry. I wish I thought about that before getting married to someone with kids.
You just watched an amazing video that is spot on about how to resolve these issues, so what are you waiting for? Watch this video with your boyfriend, then go from there. Most importantly PRAY
wow thank you for your correction and rebuke from negative behavior. thanks for the practicality of this message as well as the infusion of scripture. It was a beautiful blend. God Bless you
Me and my husband are a blended family and we are very solid and happy. Yeah it can sometimes come with its issues but ultimately family is family no matter the DNA. My husband even is going to adopt my two daughters with rapidadoption.com and it's awesome that we are finally able to do that. Thanks for sharing your opinions on different issues that can come up in a blended family.
I knew about blended family’s as a child. I’ve saw it and still do with my mom and dad. My mom was single and merried my dad who had 2 teenagers. But my half sister’s mother passed away, so there mother’s parents raised them. My mom and dad had Us later ( 3 kids later) I’m 3 years older than my 1st half sister’s kid, that’s when she merried her husband. So her 3 kids don’t call any of us aunt and uncle, because my mom had a little boy after me 6 years later. So I’m just Beth . And the one 3 years younger than me has 2 kids and I’m just Emily or Beth to them also. And the other half sister’s 2 son’s don’t call me aunt either . So yes I understand how My mom feels , I’ve seen it. Thay except her now years later but for a long period of time thay didn’t.
My wife puts my stepdaughter first and has said shes her favorite. We have a child together and she has 2 my boys who are step sons. Evrytime we go to store my wife and stepdaughter is always thinking of just stepdaughter and it's not fair to all the othe 3 children. I try to discipline stepdaughter not dmto do something my wife's excuses come example she probably accidentally clicked on a bad vidoe when there's multiple videos of girls dancing and she's watching them to learn how to dance provocative and or wife says well the boys do this, it's always a competition with kids or when we argue about something else
I wish my wife would watch all the videos together but she gets angry wirh me and hates when it comes to biblically being a wife or mother it's ignored 😢. Pray for us bcuz idk how much longer I can take it it's been 4yrs now and I'm about to throw in the towel.
How can this man say a new lover comes first? If you and your child were together through hard times and you love your kids first and didn't even know your new spouse, so when you divorce for a 3rd time the 4th spouse comes first again over your kids? If the spouse came first you wouldn't be divorced in the first place! Remember that. Kids come first. Girls are 4 times higher in sexual abuse from stepfamilies so if the stepfather comes first the daughter should be beaten and raped as a gift for him. I was that stepchild that was never put first, went to school hungry, no new clothing because he said i am a girl and girl are traders to a family. Mom says 3rd husband has to come first. Unconditional love is for your kids, conditional love is with a new lover that can change
he is right. the spouse needs to come first.I'm having the same issue as a stepparent to a 12 year old boy and his mother. It needs to be heeded.Spouse comes first. Its easy for the mother to make the children first and neglect the spouse.so easy!This man is right. Put in the work to make the spouse first and your family will be solid.
Its people like you who need to stay alone for the rest of their lives and just marry your kids. Because you clearly don't know that balance is required to have both And prioritized both equally
Step kids cannot inherit from a step parent look it up! Unless adopted. What happens is the money goes to the stepparents and then they get remarried again and your kids lose out! This guy is wrong! U need to protect family heirlooms foe your kids! What you worked for will end up to someone else's family
You are saving my marriage with every word of this video. GOD bless you♡
When I hear the words blended family I shit in my pants.
No no no blended family for me
Out of the many blended family videos I have watched so far. Yours gave more solutions than issues.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you so much for posting. My situation is somewhat the same, with some interesting differences mixed in.
This teaching is awesome! I would like to see more of this taught in the churches to the Body of Christ! These are the real life issues that need to be taught instead of regurgitation of the same sermons year after year.
Amazing! Thank you for sharing. This validated a lot of steps we had to take in order to turn around the relationship between my husband and his daughter who was being alienated by his npd ex wife.
One of the most powerful message I really needed this.
I'm certainly going to watch the previous video and this one, over and over. again, I wish I'd watched this 6 years ago. Thank you, Pastor.
Amazing, amazing message. It hit all aspects I was searching for. Thank you for the wonder advice.
Very true 👍 timely advice thank you
Reading all of these comments, there is so much good that has come from this sermon! So wonderful!
We love you that did help us lots 🙏
Wow.......I wish I would have found this video 4 years ago! Thank you so much for it.
This was so helpful. Thank you!
So happy I found this… Dec 2022.. a girl teenager who decided out of the blue she now wants to come over the same schedule her 5yr old younger sister… 🙏🏼 help us all.
You got that right! Nothing ever comes back!
My God, he touched on every single issue that I am dealing with right now with my boyfriend. I see no future with this man if he doesn't set boundaries and get his spoiled daughter under control. The giving away spousal love issue is particularly the problem Because his six-year-old thinks she is his girlfriend and that she can passively aggressively Push me off of him whenever I try to hug or kiss him or out hug and kiss him In jealousy that I just did it.. Or get mad that he gives me flowers and didn't buy her flowers too. Or ask me when I'm leaving so she can sleep in the bed with him. Or at breakfast asking when are you and mommy going to be back together again because i want you back together....I'm sick of him laughing about it and not correcting it.
My advice for you is not to get married. If he’s not taking it seriously now, it will only get worse when you marry. I wish I thought about that before getting married to someone with kids.
You just watched an amazing video that is spot on about how to resolve these issues, so what are you waiting for? Watch this video with your boyfriend, then go from there. Most importantly PRAY
All I can say is thank you.
wow thank you for your correction and rebuke from negative behavior. thanks for the practicality of this message as well as the infusion of scripture. It was a beautiful blend. God Bless you
Me and my husband are a blended family and we are very solid and happy. Yeah it can sometimes come with its issues but ultimately family is family no matter the DNA. My husband even is going to adopt my two daughters with rapidadoption.com and it's awesome that we are finally able to do that. Thanks for sharing your opinions on different issues that can come up in a blended family.
+Meredith Warner I have heard of Rapid Adoption, me and my husband are considering their services.
8 years later still changing the lives of marriages.
This video is from 1993
Come on now, I have to tell my wife everytime I give my child some money? Really?
I knew about blended family’s as a child. I’ve saw it and still do with my mom and dad. My mom was single and merried my dad who had 2 teenagers. But my half sister’s mother passed away, so there mother’s parents raised them. My mom and dad had Us later ( 3 kids later) I’m 3 years older than my 1st half sister’s kid, that’s when she merried her husband. So her 3 kids don’t call any of us aunt and uncle, because my mom had a little boy after me 6 years later. So I’m just Beth . And the one 3 years younger than me has 2 kids and I’m just Emily or Beth to them also. And the other half sister’s 2 son’s don’t call me aunt either . So yes I understand how My mom feels , I’ve seen it. Thay except her now years later but for a long period of time thay didn’t.
My wife puts my stepdaughter first and has said shes her favorite. We have a child together and she has 2 my boys who are step sons. Evrytime we go to store my wife and stepdaughter is always thinking of just stepdaughter and it's not fair to all the othe 3 children. I try to discipline stepdaughter not dmto do something my wife's excuses come example she probably accidentally clicked on a bad vidoe when there's multiple videos of girls dancing and she's watching them to learn how to dance provocative and or wife says well the boys do this, it's always a competition with kids or when we argue about something else
I wish my wife would watch all the videos together but she gets angry wirh me and hates when it comes to biblically being a wife or mother it's ignored 😢. Pray for us bcuz idk how much longer I can take it it's been 4yrs now and I'm about to throw in the towel.
How can this man say a new lover comes first? If you and your child were together through hard times and you love your kids first and didn't even know your new spouse, so when you divorce for a 3rd time the 4th spouse comes first again over your kids? If the spouse came first you wouldn't be divorced in the first place! Remember that. Kids come first. Girls are 4 times higher in sexual abuse from stepfamilies so if the stepfather comes first the daughter should be beaten and raped as a gift for him. I was that stepchild that was never put first, went to school hungry, no new clothing because he said i am a girl and girl are traders to a family. Mom says 3rd husband has to come first. Unconditional love is for your kids, conditional love is with a new lover that can change
he is right. the spouse needs to come first.I'm having the same issue as a stepparent to a 12 year old boy and his mother. It needs to be heeded.Spouse comes first. Its easy for the mother to make the children first and neglect the spouse.so easy!This man is right. Put in the work to make the spouse first and your family will be solid.
Jesus prohibits remarriage.
But people cherry pick the parts of scripture to satisfy their lust.
Children are suffering
@@davidregi7571 cite to me the words from Jesus himself that say so
Its people like you who need to stay alone for the rest of their lives and just marry your kids. Because you clearly don't know that balance is required to have both
And prioritized both equally
Don't think I want a blended family, seems like way to much work and war and not worth it.
God's intent was to not blend families. Now adays though, that's the reality.
Patrick Amos Jesus was a stepchild
Straightoutofchiraq Joseph also knew Mary didn’t sleep around with another man... big difference!!
@@5822huron Lol no he was not. he was his early father.
Step kids cannot inherit from a step parent look it up! Unless adopted. What happens is the money goes to the stepparents and then they get remarried again and your kids lose out! This guy is wrong! U need to protect family heirlooms foe your kids! What you worked for will end up to someone else's family