Demi Lovato on Relapsing and Being "California Sober"

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  • čas přidán 26. 03. 2021
  • Taken from JRE #1625 w/Demi Lovato:
    open.spotify.com/episode/2zGI...

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  • @bflatblueswoman
    @bflatblueswoman Před 3 lety +1255

    Trying to get sober being a non-celebrity is hard enough. As an ex-addict the title of this video caught my eye. I thought I'd be dead by my own hand before I turned 30, but the survivor in me had other plans. I've been sober 19 years (consecutive😏 )& next month I'll be 61 years old.

  • @AlexanderMacAoidh
    @AlexanderMacAoidh Před 3 lety +5517

    It’s like once you work for Disney as a teen, you’re adulthood is gonna suffer

    • @ene0613
      @ene0613 Před 3 lety +34

      Totally!

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower Před 3 lety +244

      Disney Corporation still brainwashes adults, just look at ABC News reporters funded by Disney corporation, and now sadly Vice.

    • @frqbkpsa4594
      @frqbkpsa4594 Před 3 lety +6

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    • @frqbkpsa4594
      @frqbkpsa4594 Před 3 lety +4

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    • @ene0613
      @ene0613 Před 3 lety +6

      @@dertythegrower good points!

  • @SkarKingg
    @SkarKingg Před 3 lety +1065

    Her laugh woke my dog up and he started barking like a demon attacked his soul

    • @mollylucittrees
      @mollylucittrees Před 3 lety +4

      Ffs hahahahha

    • @annav6998
      @annav6998 Před 3 lety +38

      So sad that is a fake laugh 100%

    • @lukecostello1605
      @lukecostello1605 Před 3 lety +8

      My dog was just fine

    • @yvetterodarte7173
      @yvetterodarte7173 Před 3 lety +3

      😂😂😂

    • @doctaflo
      @doctaflo Před 3 lety +3

      @@annav6998, possibly… probably… still charms the hell out of me… which, i suppose, is the best evidence that she’s been practicing melting middle-aged men since childhood.

  • @jakev4191
    @jakev4191 Před 3 lety +232

    "portland sober" only doing H when it's dark outside.

  • @kmddx7428
    @kmddx7428 Před 3 lety +2996

    I'm Portland sober: I still do a little Ketamine, shrooms and LSD.

    • @robertrossi9364
      @robertrossi9364 Před 3 lety +40

      You have great taste!!! :)

    • @animvloc7287
      @animvloc7287 Před 3 lety +166

      portland sober is where you only slam your heroin above the waist

    • @angeljimenez-hc4eu
      @angeljimenez-hc4eu Před 3 lety +5

      😂😂😂

    • @Matt-yz3iq
      @Matt-yz3iq Před 3 lety +30

      Hahaha .... That’s great. I hate to judge so much but her CA sober line made me cringe

    • @Patrick33194
      @Patrick33194 Před 3 lety +103

      Im an Alabama virgin. Ive never had sex. Except...

  • @Recoveryplus
    @Recoveryplus Před 3 lety +170

    Recovered addict here - in my opinion, addicts are different from regular people because they use drugs to mask deeper issues. I've been clean and sober for 4 years and the idea of altering my mind with any substance seems like the worst possible thing I could do. Once you get you mind, body, and spirit into a balanced state, you sober experience of reality is a thousand times better than anything you get from drugs. I'm grateful that my addiction forced me to do the inner-work that made me realize this.

    • @khorn81
      @khorn81 Před 3 lety +5

      Congratulations on your 4 years! As someone in recovery I completely agree with what you’ve said.

    • @fernvelas3753
      @fernvelas3753 Před 3 lety +2

      Power to you🙏
      Do you think her " California sober" is a good idea?

    • @scottchampeau9672
      @scottchampeau9672 Před 3 lety +20

      I’ll speak for myself. California sober would not work for me. I have 7 years clean and sober. If I smoked it would be a matter of time before I just went and got my drug of choice. Many people go on the marijuana maintenance program. Some do it till they are ready to put everything down and some don’t. Personally I take no chances I like how my life is now.

    • @masonminor333
      @masonminor333 Před 3 lety +6

      Congrats on four years! My sobriety birthday is today coincidentally, and I completely agree. The last two years of being sober would have been impossible if I hadn't abstained completely and worked a program. But more power to her.

    • @DYLWhk
      @DYLWhk Před 3 lety +5

      Drugs are a band aid

  • @kaysha
    @kaysha Před 3 lety +1232

    So many Disney star children lived such a sad life.

    • @theoriginaltunnelfox
      @theoriginaltunnelfox Před 3 lety +36

      Because they all get abused on so many levels and it fux them up!

    • @kjlandon9140
      @kjlandon9140 Před 3 lety +14

      it’s like that everywhere it’s just not known. Just look at foster care aging out statistics
      over 1,000 kids die of abuse every year so it’s unimaginable how many kids are being abused

    • @kevinmcmahon3827
      @kevinmcmahon3827 Před 3 lety +3

      She’s lucky

    • @BudFuddlacker
      @BudFuddlacker Před 3 lety +2

      It’s not sad when they enjoy it while it’s going on

    • @SpinBikerRepair
      @SpinBikerRepair Před 3 lety +3

      Yup... She's miserable and doesn't contribute any of the source of her misery and discontentment at her career. Shaking my head

  • @haydenpettit5829
    @haydenpettit5829 Před 3 lety +420

    I went 1 year 7 months sober and had a relapse in November and I’ve been drinking 20 units a day since. Yesterday was my first day tapering off alcohol. I will be totally sober again and have my life back 💪🏼
    Update: 2 months sober! 🙏🏼

  • @DaBigDirtyNasty
    @DaBigDirtyNasty Před 3 lety +1461

    "weed is an impulse, a psychological addiction"
    Me rolling a blunt watching this: yeah pretty much

    • @mykaylamoe8630
      @mykaylamoe8630 Před 3 lety +15

      Lol me smoking a pinchie watching this

    • @laraoneal7284
      @laraoneal7284 Před 3 lety +4

      Idiots

    • @HighSpeedgg
      @HighSpeedgg Před 3 lety +29

      @@laraoneal7284 fym idiots, weed is great

    • @veronikas.8831
      @veronikas.8831 Před 3 lety +12

      @Robey Collins I vape it everyday and I’m good

    • @soniadossa7265
      @soniadossa7265 Před 3 lety +13

      @Robey Collins yeah it is... a bowl at the end of the day ain’t never hurt nobody !

  • @jackmarquez5822
    @jackmarquez5822 Před 3 lety +1990

    “Seattle Sober” is different than Cali sober seattle sober means you don’t do heroin before 2 PM

  • @gymnastsurfer
    @gymnastsurfer Před 3 lety +59

    i love how he’s joking with her to make this topic a little bit easier for her to talk about

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 Před 3 lety +65

    When you don't want to die...
    Weed helps tremendously, I hope she stays on the right path.

    • @goead
      @goead Před 3 lety +2

      You’re black

    • @tkst0rm
      @tkst0rm Před 3 lety +3

      ? Could you make a stupider comment if you try?

    • @jordanduran1726
      @jordanduran1726 Před 2 lety

      How does weed prevent you from dying??

    • @tomcadogan9047
      @tomcadogan9047 Před 2 lety +4

      @@jordanduran1726 makes you not want to die

  • @Vaporvice84
    @Vaporvice84 Před 3 lety +419

    I'm post office sober. I only drink when I'm on the clock.

    • @acidfruitloops
      @acidfruitloops Před 3 lety +10

      Get paid doing what ye love

    • @ZEH0
      @ZEH0 Před 3 lety +3

      Lmfaoooo this sounds like my office

    • @cadenshoemake4152
      @cadenshoemake4152 Před 3 lety +7

      Good to know the workers are sauced cause it looks boring ash lmao

    • @mobiledetail4you
      @mobiledetail4you Před 3 lety

      Love your user name tho... was telling a friend about the first rule just the other day...

    • @joemc6828
      @joemc6828 Před 3 lety

      😂😂😂

  • @dislikebutton7834
    @dislikebutton7834 Před 3 lety +532

    “My truth” = your perception. Perception is not reality.

    • @dnthmn11223
      @dnthmn11223 Před 3 lety +21

      The deception of perception. #sherlockholmes

    • @finchisneat
      @finchisneat Před 3 lety +41

      To be fair, it is THEIR reality... (Doesn't make it more valid of a truth objectively though)

    • @dislikebutton7834
      @dislikebutton7834 Před 3 lety +22

      @@finchisneat correct. But expecting others to live based off of someone else's "perceived" reality is a problem

    • @danafoley4603
      @danafoley4603 Před 3 lety +18

      There’s just THE TRUTH and your manipulation of THE TRUTH; these crazy people are making sane people feel CRAZY.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @the2ndcoming135
      @the2ndcoming135 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey, a bear is gonna chase us both. I just know how to not let it catch me😂

  • @Calilou52
    @Calilou52 Před 3 lety +53

    Battling addiction right now, I could not imagine going through this with the world watching me, making memes about my OD and getting hate for it every day. I wish her the best!
    Edit: just so yall know ive been off pain pills since April 14th which was my bday and I have yet to even think about going back. Its hard because im in genuine chronic pain but id rather be sober and in pain than be doped up all day unable to feel actual feelings

    • @Rune_fantasy
      @Rune_fantasy Před 3 lety +4

      Stay strong my friend

    • @katherinepoltoratzky6068
      @katherinepoltoratzky6068 Před 3 lety

      Hope you're in community as it's easier to do get through stuff.

    • @Edward.Rippett.
      @Edward.Rippett. Před 3 lety

      Same bro. Really cant imagine that either

    • @stee8487
      @stee8487 Před 3 lety +2

      The difference between you and her, is that she has millions of dollars and help at the tip of her fingers.

    • @Calilou52
      @Calilou52 Před 3 lety +4

      @@stee8487 doesnt make it that much easier. So sick of people thinking all addicts would magically be able to get sober if they had a million dollars. No, 99% of them are just gonna look at it as unlimited drug money. So thats different with her just because shes famous too? Makes absolutely no sense. It would only make sense to someone who has no idea what addiction is truly like.

  • @crispybits6737
    @crispybits6737 Před 3 lety +36

    "nothing happens when you get off it" ...tell that to my absolute bonkers vivid dreams

  • @bruv4393
    @bruv4393 Před 3 lety +1580

    top 10 loudest sounds in the universe
    number 2: Demi Lovato's laugh

    • @hakon7269
      @hakon7269 Před 3 lety +8

      Whats the rest of the top 3?

    • @sebastianviteri1250
      @sebastianviteri1250 Před 3 lety +80

      That first laugh made me jump ngl

    • @adamthemango09
      @adamthemango09 Před 3 lety +29

      I know dude i was like...wtf did my volume jump to max suddenly 😲

    • @sorkeror
      @sorkeror Před 3 lety

      @@hakon7269 I think that Disaster Area is number 1.

    • @Trevor_NT
      @Trevor_NT Před 3 lety +18

      Chanel Westcoast is easily top 3

  • @byronmatthews
    @byronmatthews Před 3 lety +1892

    When people say “your truth” it always makes me cringe a little

    • @bryanbryan6108
      @bryanbryan6108 Před 3 lety +4

      Why?

    • @openyourmind333
      @openyourmind333 Před 3 lety +224

      Agreed. Liberal buzzword

    • @TylerDurden9LB
      @TylerDurden9LB Před 3 lety +210

      @@bryanbryan6108 Because it's nonsense.

    • @drewwilson6639
      @drewwilson6639 Před 3 lety +231

      @@bryanbryan6108 because there's literally no such thing! If everyone has "there truth" truth doesn't objectively exist

    • @guccipurse
      @guccipurse Před 3 lety +111

      1000%. Notice how the only people who speak it are Hollywood weirdos

  • @mndlgh
    @mndlgh Před 3 lety +59

    I've never really liked her genre of music, but I appreciate her as a person finding herself. That's not easy, especially for someone who grew up in the spotlight - being judged on every aspect of her life and choices. Glad she's on a better path.

    • @JohnnyFaith
      @JohnnyFaith Před 3 lety +4

      The new album is amazing and I never listened to her and liked it

    • @mndlgh
      @mndlgh Před 3 lety +1

      @@JohnnyFaith I'll have to check it out 😊

  • @krergel1096
    @krergel1096 Před 3 lety +120

    I love the fact that when she laughs she moves away from the microphone because she know it’s gonna be too loud lol I love her

    • @DAVEXXL
      @DAVEXXL Před 3 lety +8

      Performers knowledge

    • @DAVEXXL
      @DAVEXXL Před 3 lety +6

      She has spent more time with mics than joe

    • @pleighboi661
      @pleighboi661 Před 3 lety +1

      she’s the LOML

    • @AdamSmasherReal
      @AdamSmasherReal Před 2 lety +2

      @@DAVEXXL probably mic shaped objects as well

    • @Michael-ei5hg
      @Michael-ei5hg Před 2 lety

      That’s common podcast etiquette lmao

  • @TimeWatch5
    @TimeWatch5 Před 3 lety +4088

    Its crazy how overwhelming life can get when your forced to care what the masses think of you. I wouldn't ever want to be a Hollywood celebrity.

    • @evbbjones7
      @evbbjones7 Před 3 lety +130

      But you don't HAVE to care.

    • @Steve_643
      @Steve_643 Před 3 lety +53

      It’s not for everybody that’s for sure. It comes with a lot of perks endless supply of whatever you want good or bad but every mistake you make growing up is magnified a million times because your famous and opened yourself to public opinion!!!!

    • @noble_norse7786
      @noble_norse7786 Před 3 lety +82

      If you live life caring what the masses think, you're the problem. Learn to be an individual, instead of a collectivist.

    • @devinpledger2251
      @devinpledger2251 Před 3 lety +32

      how can you be forced to care about what people think about you? doesnt even make sense

    • @ghadders1629
      @ghadders1629 Před 3 lety +19

      @@devinpledger2251 you can be conditioned to be aware of what the world is thinking of you. You can be aware of society's judgement.
      Yes you could be strong enough to rise above it
      But thats easier if the conditioning comes when the brain has neurological development if its young the brain makes links on a subconscious level

  • @matthewwagster3016
    @matthewwagster3016 Před 3 lety +549

    Been “California sober” for 12 years and swear by it for me personally. Never relapsed on harder stuff again. More people need to understand the value of harm reduction but as Joe said people want to think of it in absolutes. Recovery is not black and white.

    • @muncher1753
      @muncher1753 Před 3 lety +25

      No doubt. Everyone wants absolutes nowadays, whether it be with politics, drugs, diet, all of this shit. Why should any addiction be solved by going cold turkey or completely cutting it over time.
      Look at people that crash diet, or go on major diets, the fail rate isn’t even astonishing anymore.
      I firmly believe that moderation is the answer to most if not all of these problems. California sober is the essence of being happy.
      I’m Talking as a highly functional alcoholic. Although I do go on extended amounts of time of cold turkey but only because my moderation has gotten me used to Not drinking, as soon as I drink though I fight the need to consume by keeping my consumption moderated, instead of a bottle a night, I drink a bottle in 3-5 days But only if the bottle is opened.
      A way I keep myself cold turkey is by keeping the ‘Cork’ as a barrier

    • @user-rb7ns9yj5y
      @user-rb7ns9yj5y Před 3 lety +2

      100

    • @texasmade0109
      @texasmade0109 Před 3 lety +31

      Great, that may work for you- as you stated, everyone's recovery is different. but for a ton of people, weed and (especially) alcohol, can be an immediate trigger into relapse. This "California sober" (LOL) thing she's doing is absolutely playing with fire. Do not at all be surprised if she relapses. Coming from another heroin addict, I really hope the best for her, but she is literally playing with her life by doing this.

    • @benjamindixon1904
      @benjamindixon1904 Před 3 lety +7

      Yeah and that’s what works for you and that’s great. It didn’t work for me however or anybody else that I’ve known except a few people. Seriously though glad it works for you

    • @nonamesinenomine
      @nonamesinenomine Před 3 lety +4

      I cant smoke weed without being on anti anxiety drugs or it messes my mind up for like a week

  • @saramarshall2957
    @saramarshall2957 Před rokem +8

    The difference between an eating disorder and a drug addiction is that you have to eat. You need food to survive so it actually makes sense to me that you would figure out a way to overcome eating disorder. Drugs are different you don't need them. That is something that once you start doing it is very hard to control

  • @noufalabbasi8488
    @noufalabbasi8488 Před 3 lety +134

    I’m sensing a narcissist in our presence.
    “What a lot of people don’t know..” is the phrase that has been tossed throughout this whole journey.
    She clearly doesn’t know or is willing to admit that all the toxic things that she has been doing IS and will ALWAYS be the source of why she is miserable. That’s why you need to work your ass of in trying to overcome these obstacles that life throws in your way in order to test you and show you that you’re more capable than you think you are.

    • @teri3965
      @teri3965 Před 3 lety +16

      She’s a typical narcissist Entertainer. Sobriety requires humility and Demi can’t spell it. “Treatment Team” Good Lord.

    • @SuzanneM0814
      @SuzanneM0814 Před 3 lety +14

      I used to feel bad for her but then I realized she craves ALOT of attention!

    • @tkst0rm
      @tkst0rm Před 3 lety

      Too hard for a dense as dust druggie.

    • @SolsticeBeautyByJessica
      @SolsticeBeautyByJessica Před 3 lety

      Exactly!

    • @commonsenseisnotsocommon
      @commonsenseisnotsocommon Před 2 lety

      Preach!!

  • @JohnAnderson-wc2fw
    @JohnAnderson-wc2fw Před 3 lety +915

    I really don’t give a shit about celebrities but I hope this girl conquers her demons. Seems like a nice enough person and these struggles are very real. Best of luck to her

    • @KR1298508
      @KR1298508 Před 3 lety +3

      @@SomeOne-qu4ss yes

    • @Juliobrem
      @Juliobrem Před 3 lety +19

      She won’t , if she keeps going to the Left and Atheism.

    • @shonebx
      @shonebx Před 3 lety +22

      Im just not buying into all of this. Yez she struggles with addiction but making the whole show around it pushing all the usual celebrity buttons: bulimia, bullying, being bisexual all of a sudden...

    • @Nah-ah
      @Nah-ah Před 3 lety +30

      The term “celebrity”... is just a label! They are human beings, like the rest of us, WITH demons!

    • @unguelootay3084
      @unguelootay3084 Před 3 lety

      @@Juliobrem FIRST ITS COLLECTIVE BARGAINING THEN STRAIGHT TO HEROIN!!!!!

  • @elleramsay1832
    @elleramsay1832 Před 3 lety +973

    Demi: I suffered from an eating disorder after being called fat
    Joe: Chris Pratt used to be a fatty

    • @LydiaTaylorMusic
      @LydiaTaylorMusic Před 3 lety +87

      I caught this too I thought it was weird af for him to say to a bulimic person haha

    • @morning_light8993
      @morning_light8993 Před 3 lety +44

      She wasn’t even fat 🥲

    • @sailorjayr9069
      @sailorjayr9069 Před 3 lety +19

      @@morning_light8993 i know. shes always been beautiful.

    • @sailorjayr9069
      @sailorjayr9069 Před 3 lety +82

      this response, is in a nutshell, pretty much the sum of all joe rogan's podcasts. he blurts out the most retarded things at the most inappropriate times. im guessing thats why hes got the following that he has?

    • @deborahrose8621
      @deborahrose8621 Před 3 lety +10

      @@sailorjayr9069 You mean like the measly 10.5 million following?

  • @jtotherock7244
    @jtotherock7244 Před 2 lety +18

    I'm glad I stumbled upon this. Never knew her really. She's a very nice person. I feel bad she went through what she did, but God gave her a chance to live again from her mistakes, and that's how we know she is an amazing person. Hopefully she's keeping her positivity.

  • @ronnie-lynn
    @ronnie-lynn Před 3 lety +26

    I’m Canadian sober. Marijuana is legal across our entire country. Every province it’s legal. So I assume it’s similar to California sober. But because not all states in America is it legal so that makes sense to me! I use it for chronic pain and I micro dose edibles I buy at a local dispensary and it’s such a healing medicine! I gift from Mother Nature!

    • @camille8010
      @camille8010 Před 3 lety

      I'm canadian and I wish it really wasn't legal. I had no health issues before. Now I had to move appartments 3 times because my neighbours smoked weed and it made me sick. Not just a slight headache, I wouldn't be able to sleep, I'd cough my lungs out for hours, I'd have a terrible migraine, mood swings, hoarse throat... to name a few. And to make matters worse, I work from home. So I couldn't work anymore and the authorities can't be bothered because it's FUCKING LEGAL. So yeah, as much as the junkie kids enjoy their new drug, a lot of people suffer from THEIR choices and everyone would be better off without it.

    • @sheenaldeo
      @sheenaldeo Před 3 lety +1

      @@camille8010 that hilarious. Unless there are nonstop smoking, then there’s no way to affect you that much, unless you have some sensitive lungs and health issues. So it sounds like a YOU problem. Seems pretty selfish to wish that other people should be penalized for using something natural like weed, just because you happen to have a sensitivity to it.
      Not very Canadian sounding to me.

    • @camille8010
      @camille8010 Před 3 lety

      @@sheenaldeo It sure sounds like you know my health condition far better than my doctor. perhaps you should give him a call and explain your medical analysis ? I don't have any lungs issue or sensitivity. And yes, the secondhand smoke was almost always there. The reason is simple, the person smoked once a day, and the smell and vapes infused in the walls and pipes. It would slowly disperse throughout the day, constantly making me cough and more and more sick from the exposure. As for the "natural" origin of weed, water is natural , why don't you drown in it ? or, wait, even better, I'd like you to try the all-natural-cure Belladonna? I'm sure you'll appreciate it :D. You really shouldn't accuse me of being selfish when you're the ones IMPOSING your choices on others and ruining other people's lives. Secondhand smoke is a huge problem, and its all because of your selfishness. Half the population is affected negatively by smokers, and the other half is actively ruining themselves. If we remove weed and cigarettes, 100% of the population will be in better health. Who's been selfish? Imagine if I ate a whole lot of junk food, but you're the one getting fat. Wouldn't you be mad??

    • @johnmarron8654
      @johnmarron8654 Před 2 lety

      @@camille8010 lol go away Karen 🤣

    • @camille8010
      @camille8010 Před 2 lety

      @@johnmarron8654 hehehe It's the "I-dont-know-what-to-say-cause-kairos-is-right-but-i-dont-want-to-admit-it" attitude for me. It just made my day :p see ya pal.

  • @stephena.smithburner133
    @stephena.smithburner133 Před 3 lety +2602

    She laughs like an evil vilian from Disney sitcom in the early 2000's.

  • @brettgaramendi9394
    @brettgaramendi9394 Před 3 lety +803

    As an idahoan who doesn't pay attention to celebrities, why the hell did she call us out? 😂

    • @SFbayArea94121
      @SFbayArea94121 Před 3 lety +143

      Because they always need someone to blame. It’s the way of HollyWEIRD

    • @Opocrious
      @Opocrious Před 3 lety +8

      Should she have used Mississippi (fmous 50th) instead? Maybe she should use a Dakota or better yet, Delaware.

    • @mikem565
      @mikem565 Před 3 lety +51

      She's just making an example of someone online talking shit

    • @DannyBScaping
      @DannyBScaping Před 3 lety +42

      It's kinda like saying timbucktoo..or the boonies or south kakalaca.. relax Mr. Offended.

    • @hardmack
      @hardmack Před 3 lety +58

      Because they have to denigrate everyone not of their "tribe". In LA saying youre from Idaho, means youre at least three "-ist's" and leftist isnt one of them.

  • @JD-eu5bp
    @JD-eu5bp Před 3 lety +26

    “Drugs saved my life,” me too!! I’ve wanted to die for a good portion of my adolescence and adult life, and drugs for me were akin to a temporary mental/psychological death. I always used to say that drugs were the next best thing to death...dude I’m so glad I’m not alone in this 🤣 and it’s been 4.5 years since I’ve had to use anything like that...thank god for weed and therapy

    • @marzwolfe4037
      @marzwolfe4037 Před 3 lety +2

      This is how I feel as well!! It’s comforting to know others feel the same way

  • @PoisonJarl71501
    @PoisonJarl71501 Před 3 lety +56

    This poor girl will never recover. She’s just going to spend a lifetime relapsing. She’s obsessed with staying relevant and in social media. And that obsession is going to keep too many negative things in her life. Her latest tweet being complaints about there being low cal and disgust free froyo and how it’s preying upon people. She can’t even process there are people who can’t have sugar or don’t want to get fat eating 1500 calorie bowls of froyo. Smh

  • @petercruz1993
    @petercruz1993 Před 3 lety +444

    “I’m so sober, yet still so unhappy”
    Trust me, she’s being extremely honest here

    • @jeremyhassell7911
      @jeremyhassell7911 Před 3 lety +40

      She's not sober either so...

    • @AM-ry8is
      @AM-ry8is Před 3 lety +4

      that's what the bud is for

    • @EJxSB
      @EJxSB Před 3 lety +11

      @@jeremyhassell7911 how isn't she lmao. Cause she smokes weed. Oh my fucking Lord

    • @r8der_756
      @r8der_756 Před 3 lety +55

      Uhhhh Yeah....I smoke weed all the time. If you don’t believe it’s another form of a getaway you’re stuck in the trap 😂...that being said I still love my weed 😂

    • @lxLanarchyxl
      @lxLanarchyxl Před 3 lety +13

      @@EJxSB its definitely an altering substance with that being said it is better then heroin....

  • @unidentifiedbeing8149
    @unidentifiedbeing8149 Před 3 lety +731

    I literally dropped my phone when she laughed. Scared the crap outta me.

    • @diddleytwot4901
      @diddleytwot4901 Před 3 lety +26

      First laugh woke the household up and second one I turned it off , what a snowflake

    • @shayrockmusic
      @shayrockmusic Před 3 lety +35

      that cackle was horrendous.. no microphone awareness.. guess I'm awake now

    • @petethemeatmeat6634
      @petethemeatmeat6634 Před 3 lety +19

      Not that big of a deal like y’all are making it, smh

    • @Weird782
      @Weird782 Před 3 lety

      My eyes definitly doubled in size

    • @user-dc1dr9kr8x
      @user-dc1dr9kr8x Před 3 lety +18

      She laughs wonderfully, if you have a problem with laughing perhaps you should look in the mirror

  • @amyleal7796
    @amyleal7796 Před 3 lety +11

    I am so grateful for you, that you shared Demi’s documentaries. They are relatable to me; as far as, being bullied, abused, raped and a lot of other things I don’t want to talk about.
    If there was a way; please, I’d like Demi to know, by her displaying her courage to own her own demons, battle them, and be able to talk about it on camera, gives me hope & a bit of strength to keep going.
    Also, thank you for your documentaries. I refer to them, at times; and then I feel less alone.
    God bless you, Demi Lovato, and everyone who put this together.

    • @toris5605
      @toris5605 Před 3 lety

      I hope you’re doing okay! ♥️

    • @amyleal7796
      @amyleal7796 Před 3 lety

      @@toris5605 I am doing, average. Praying, Demi’s story, and her songs, keep my outlook, positive. They help me to keep to my goals, hour by hour; within my sufferings.

  • @dra6ke
    @dra6ke Před 3 lety +227

    Well, Demi just got triggered and pissed at a small business and tried to destroy them. So despite the weed, she still seems pretty miserable.

  • @bob11002009
    @bob11002009 Před 3 lety +471

    Maybe Demi lovato should come to grips with the fact that maybe the Hollywood life is NOT for her. Some people can’t handle it. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. Sadly, the money and the lifestyle traps you in that world. You can’t stop.

    • @planetruther
      @planetruther Před 3 lety +8

      Best comment!!!

    • @IIInewtmasIII
      @IIInewtmasIII Před 3 lety +46

      It’s not just the lifestyle and money. Even if she would decide to become a nurse tomorrow and give all her saved money to people in need.
      A person like her can never get back to normal life, she crossed a Line of fame that her anonymity is gone forever. She can’t just live in the suburbs like Jane Doe from Ohio can..

    • @bob11002009
      @bob11002009 Před 3 lety +20

      @@planetruther yes there’s no turning back once you hit that level of fame. I can only imagine having that kind of pressure on me 24/7. The body weight issues, paparazzi, crazy fans, expectations, not being able to be yourself and acting for the sake of your career. You literally sell your soul to be in that business. And yes it has its perks. More money than you can spend, adulation, popularity, attention. But it comes at a price. It seems like she’s not happy in that life at this point. But she’s at a level where you can’t just get out. She has a lifestyle that she can’t turn away from. Some people live the celebrity life easily. The pressure never gets to them and they make it look easy. Her not so much.

    • @Scarlitcorpse
      @Scarlitcorpse Před 3 lety

      True

    • @rodneysettle8106
      @rodneysettle8106 Před 3 lety +1

      Gene Simmons from KISS has never needed drugs or alcohol in his life but he was probably a sex addict. He actually respected his mother and what she went through with the holocaust that he would never embarrass her by using drugs or alcohol.

  • @neverscammed1163
    @neverscammed1163 Před 3 lety +86

    dont do drugs kids

    • @stefangoetz7489
      @stefangoetz7489 Před 3 lety +7

      should've been the title

    • @simon6013
      @simon6013 Před 3 lety +2

      wrong comment section. Should be more like take drugs responsibly :D

    • @glitchinthematrix555
      @glitchinthematrix555 Před 3 lety +4

      Drugs is a very broad word, saying don’t do drugs doesn’t even make sense.

    • @mathewsabater1126
      @mathewsabater1126 Před 3 lety +1

      @@glitchinthematrix555 "don't do drugs" theres drugs in everything 😂😂😂

    • @Sunflower-hh6gc
      @Sunflower-hh6gc Před 3 lety +2

      Caffeine, sugar, Advil, alcohol, mushrooms, Kratom, are all drugs. Unfortunately, society has dictated which are acceptable, regardless of benefit to harm potentials.

  • @jondadinosaur7479
    @jondadinosaur7479 Před 3 lety +27

    Weed is a drug,, tylenol is a drug,, being sober is a fight that you will fight for the rest of your life

  • @shvonnemarie
    @shvonnemarie Před 3 lety +13

    Mad respect for her, I hope she’s happy and healthy 💕

  • @dan.r9220
    @dan.r9220 Před 3 lety +319

    honestly the fact joe didnt bring up mushrooms is a miracle

    • @kaylantiz
      @kaylantiz Před 3 lety +2

      why would they end it after she mentioned plant medicine .... u ok?

    • @jamesschumann10
      @jamesschumann10 Před 3 lety +2

      Face?

    • @SynthApprentice
      @SynthApprentice Před 3 lety +2

      "Have you ever tried DMT?"

    • @monsterkis
      @monsterkis Před 3 lety

      @@jamesschumann10 fact dummy

    • @littlelam3691
      @littlelam3691 Před 3 lety

      I was waiting for it and kinda hoping. She has a mushroom room in her house, so I assume she knows the value...

  • @budfox2337
    @budfox2337 Před 3 lety +596

    After an Narcotics Anonymous meeting, I said to the guy running it. I drink and smoke weed occasionally, Are there any type of meetings for people who drink or smoke weed, but don’t do heavy drugs. He said “ya, it’s called a fucking party, are you serious ?” I laughed so hard and yes it was a serious question.

    • @francismeowgannou5322
      @francismeowgannou5322 Před 3 lety +26

      Haha, I remember in highschool, a kid's Christian Mom called the police on him, who tore up his room, and tried to send him to rehad after finding a baggy of weed.

    • @MichaelPhillips-jw4bj
      @MichaelPhillips-jw4bj Před 3 lety +63

      looool.... In all seriousness though, Alcohol is a INSANELY powerful drug. 50$ worth of booze can easily kill you (and put you in worse state then crack, opiates/opiods, etc) . The substance is prettty addictive. What makes things worse society really makes it so easy to drink long enough to become addicted (sports events,dancing, family events etc). I once was getting the shakes after december to january. i had so many family,bar,hockey,new years events and got wasted at every one . The physical withdrawl is one of the few that can truly kill you by itself. I had methadone doctors tell me serious alcohol withdrawl is more dangerous then opiate withdrawl. Normally it takes a co morbidity for morphine withdrawl to kill you. This isn't the case with alcohol.... To me its pretty crazy you buy such a insanely powerful stubstance but not another... Im for more liberty but for far more harsher drunk driving penalties. Like 10 years license revoke at least for driving SERIOUSLY drunk (not just 2 beers )

    • @stephenurban1051
      @stephenurban1051 Před 3 lety +45

      @@MichaelPhillips-jw4bj i hate how drinking is socially acceptable

    • @kevinmonaghan4678
      @kevinmonaghan4678 Před 3 lety

      @@MichaelPhillips-jw4bj there are a lot of drugs that affect the GABA receptors and share a similar withdrawal risk as alcohol does, it’s just that alcohol is the most common and well known of all of them. Glad you’re alright after all that.

    • @Nicholas-ze5vv
      @Nicholas-ze5vv Před 3 lety +1

      @@stephenurban1051 It depends in what society. A few decades ago it was illegal.

  • @sandragarcia4667
    @sandragarcia4667 Před 3 lety +13

    That’s crazy Overdosing does mess up your vision and hearing it’s so scary. I overdosed on my seizure medicines because I was taking the wrong dose On accident and I was basically blind for a week

  • @Evacer
    @Evacer Před 3 lety +13

    It's sad that after JRE moved to Spotify, I pretty much stopped keeping up with it, then I came back to CZcams because Spotify doesn't even know how to broadcast video.

    • @taylorcliff6609
      @taylorcliff6609 Před 2 lety

      wonder how many people feel the same. i watched every JRE video, then when he moved to spotify i never bothered. was that quick $100m worth dropping half your audience.

  • @jones9309
    @jones9309 Před 3 lety +482

    Demi: "I had three strokes. A heart attack and multiple organ failure and I still have brain damage from it."
    Joe: "What kind of brain damage?"
    Demi: "I have blind spots in my vision and I also had hearing loss from everything."
    Joe: *"That's crazy.. Have you ever tried DMT?"*

    • @tblightningbolt8902
      @tblightningbolt8902 Před 3 lety +2

      how original of a comment

    • @rogerhinds4062
      @rogerhinds4062 Před 3 lety +26

      @@tblightningbolt8902 no man it was necessary.

    • @mokrodog
      @mokrodog Před 3 lety +5

      Not funny

    • @albundy7198
      @albundy7198 Před 3 lety +46

      I’m calling BS on three stokes ive seen ppl have a single stoke and you can still clearly see the effects so her having 3 stokes and a heart attack and look completely normal 2 years later I’m not buying it. Plus a heart attack and organ failure but need no surgery’s give me a break I could be wrong but I doubt it? If anyone knows the truth let me know.

    • @Introvert32
      @Introvert32 Před 3 lety +18

      @@albundy7198 she’s clearly a liar

  • @nicholascash7002
    @nicholascash7002 Před 3 lety +1077

    I think Joe did a real good job asking the tough questions while making sure his guest didn’t get too uncomfortable with it.

    • @NR-gp2il
      @NR-gp2il Před 3 lety +29

      Great interviewer

    • @hbb7528
      @hbb7528 Před 3 lety +4

      💯

    • @kurtfromLA
      @kurtfromLA Před 3 lety +9

      Joe is not an addict so he isn't an expert on addiction

    • @shogunguy
      @shogunguy Před 3 lety +7

      @@kurtfromLA you dont need to break your leg to be an expert on broken legs, same goes for addicts. Use your brain.

    • @spyveemcspyvo5619
      @spyveemcspyvo5619 Před 3 lety +21

      @@shogunguy actually, it's not remotely the same. Not even close.

  • @butcherboyy4473
    @butcherboyy4473 Před 3 lety +12

    11:13 joe laughing when Demi talking bout people being addicted to throwing up 😂😂😂

  • @bobbyyong2484
    @bobbyyong2484 Před rokem +4

    Watching this has given me a newfound respect for Demi Lavato. I wrongly assumed things about her based of the tidbits I would come across about her life. This is a person who after going through addiction and mental turmoil, decided to own her truth, as she said, and found a way to rise above it. Kudos to you @Demilavoto. Im not particularly fond of her genre of music but I'm definitely a fan of her as a person now that I've heard how she is overcoming her addictions that started as a preteen. I'm rooting for her and wish her all the best.

  • @pursefirst22
    @pursefirst22 Před 3 lety +1127

    She’s definitely the pretty girl that tells u she’s got issues but u ignore it and find out what she was talking about halfway thru the first date.

    • @XtremeConditions
      @XtremeConditions Před 3 lety +51

      Kidding aside, when someone tells you who they are, you aught to believe them. At least I general, unless they have warped views of themselves to the negative eg annorexia, but you get what I mean.

    • @patrickparson9628
      @patrickparson9628 Před 3 lety +8

      bro are you talking about like.. 3 years in?

    • @neighborhoodhighfiveguy2225
      @neighborhoodhighfiveguy2225 Před 3 lety +6

      Ha. Been there, done that.

    • @kiaratulei3427
      @kiaratulei3427 Před 3 lety +4

      ahhaa

    • @mayorebfarnum8114
      @mayorebfarnum8114 Před 3 lety +19

      she is pretty? average at best

  • @Ethan2Tone
    @Ethan2Tone Před 3 lety +221

    Its crazy how many of the beloved outgoing shining stars of my childhood were truly in more pain than my 7 year old self could imagine. Especially the Disney stars. I'm glad some of them are able to find peace in this world.

    • @elcid9054
      @elcid9054 Před 3 lety +6

      Bro they were rich and famous. Please stfu

    • @dixonoliver2360
      @dixonoliver2360 Před 3 lety +2

      @@elcid9054 “more money more problems”

    • @elcid9054
      @elcid9054 Před 3 lety +9

      @@dixonoliver2360 I’ll take those problems over my poor person problems

    • @jvngkooktae6006
      @jvngkooktae6006 Před 3 lety +6

      @@elcid9054 lmaoo Right I was kinda sad to but f it really.

    • @jdbsoccer100
      @jdbsoccer100 Před 3 lety

      @@elcid9054 grass is always greener. Right now, in your mind, it’s easier to kick drugs than make more money and move up the socioeconomic ladder. Maybe once you’re wealthy and have all the stability and materialistic things you want, making money would be a lot easier than kicking a drug

  • @flubb831
    @flubb831 Před 3 lety +7

    I haven’t listened to the podcast since the switch to spotify and I really think I havent missed out on anything

  • @amyleal7796
    @amyleal7796 Před 3 lety

    One more: I love your sound, and some of your songs that I could get a hold of. They are inspiring, and sometime they make me cry.

  • @nicolanimo8014
    @nicolanimo8014 Před 3 lety +280

    shes trying not to die. its gotten that deep but i hope she gets through this

    • @SnailHatan
      @SnailHatan Před 3 lety +23

      @UR DADDY oh, look, a hungry cave troll.

    • @vanessabyrne7323
      @vanessabyrne7323 Před 3 lety +11

      @UR DADDY No one wakes up and wants to do "herion" you start with pills it progresses! If it was just as simple as "don't do heroin" we wouldn't have the epidemic in America. You should go educate yourself remember: You important, you special , you SMART"

    • @angelgjr1999
      @angelgjr1999 Před 3 lety +1

      It’s kind of hard to empathize with someone like her from the POV of an average Joe. She was a Disney star by 12. She was probably a millionaire by 18 and has never worked a “real job”.

    • @nicolanimo8014
      @nicolanimo8014 Před 3 lety

      @@SomeOne-qu4ss who hurt u

    • @francia.v
      @francia.v Před 3 lety +5

      @@angelgjr1999 that doesn’t mean she isn’t a person and goes through real like problems. She was raped at 16. I was raped at 19 the first time and have a regular job. It doesn’t matter what you do for a living, people go through shit, have emotions, and cope in different ways.

  • @AcidDaBomb
    @AcidDaBomb Před 3 lety +199

    I have a friend thats a former alcoholic, he lost his job, his family, his kids, everything. Went to rehab, come out, was good for a bit but was totally unhappy. He started drinking again, but before he got too addicted he started smoking weed. He doesn't drink any alcohol, he has a good job back, visition with his kids, and he smokes in the evenings and is in a good place and this has been going on for years.

    • @miguelangelrabago
      @miguelangelrabago Před 3 lety +2

      TRUFAX

    • @jdbsoccer100
      @jdbsoccer100 Před 3 lety +7

      That’s awesome. Works for some people doesn’t for other. I have a buddy deep in alcoholism and I just don’t see how he’s going to get out of it:/ 29years young and his hands tremble when he’s not drinking

    • @ericagibson747
      @ericagibson747 Před 3 lety +4

      @@jdbsoccer100 he can do it but only if he wants to. No ones too far gone, but they have to want it - that’s the hard part. He’s so young! It wasn’t until I was 30 when I wanted to do/be better. I’ve been California sober for several years now and I believe weed has helped keep me sober. My emotions just go crazy sometimes and it’s uncontrollable... having a joint ready for me in the evening gives me something to look forward to when I’m struggling. And that truly makes all the difference.

    • @moffit1
      @moffit1 Před 3 lety +3

      Dunno how your making this claim that suddenly he will be cured because he smokes weed ,I smoked weed for years gave up because I had mental issues ,but I will tell you one god damn thing,there's no way in hell are your more productive than alcohol your worse your can't work you can't function and if you smoke weed full on like I used to it's smoke eat sleep smoke eat sleep ,how's this make anyone functual?

  • @norenegarza4506
    @norenegarza4506 Před 3 lety +5

    “when someone tells you not to look at the sun but you look any way I’m that kid “ me too ... 💀😂

    • @brie1796
      @brie1796 Před 3 lety +1

      I know I was like gurl I can relate to that as well😂

  • @baobanger
    @baobanger Před 3 lety +3

    I love her so much! I hope she is doing well now omggg. Demi is such an inspiration person I just love her and wishing her well 😞😞😞

  • @Wolversquall
    @Wolversquall Před 3 lety +298

    California sober = find another addiction that gets you high, but you won’t die . You still be addicted to something but it’s healthier than hard drugs

    • @FoulBundy
      @FoulBundy Před 3 lety +29

      @@bigbrotheriswatching2680 Super edgy bro. You're the king. Each time you copy and paste this, an angel gets its wings..

    • @BrokeMalone
      @BrokeMalone Před 3 lety +11

      Yeah except smoke damages mad organs and if u inhale shit for 10 years str8 it is gona cause damage

    • @GayFrogsTho
      @GayFrogsTho Před 3 lety +2

      @@bigbrotheriswatching2680 Side splitting stuff my dude.

    • @iknown0thing
      @iknown0thing Před 3 lety +1

      Imagine that...

    • @billymanley2298
      @billymanley2298 Před 3 lety +8

      You dont get physical addiction to weed like you do with heroin or crack. Its mental addiction that only effects weak minded people. Weed addiction is a choice dont misinform people.

  • @CrayolaCoffeeBean
    @CrayolaCoffeeBean Před 3 lety +427

    How to heal from addiction and depression in LA: move.
    “I’m working hard not to offend anyone” - GIRL! That’s the problem with PC/woke culture. You’re caring so much about everyone else and everything around you that you have no sense of yourself. You’re suppressing (and in some cases oppressing) yourself to the point of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual illness.

    • @jimmyboimazarti1234
      @jimmyboimazarti1234 Před 3 lety +24

      Yep she blaming everything else for her problems instead of her self...

    • @zeldababe1
      @zeldababe1 Před 3 lety +4

      That's the truth

    • @beautifulwithbrain8827
      @beautifulwithbrain8827 Před 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/0rVOYamBjjc/video.html

    • @huskierules
      @huskierules Před 3 lety +10

      To be fair, part of being on that level of fame includes being aware about everyone else and everything around you. That level of success and wealth can really only be achieved when they are a part of youre priorities.

    • @DankSi
      @DankSi Před 3 lety +2

      Guess what-the places with the highest depression and addiction aren't LA

  • @yeetusdeletus9
    @yeetusdeletus9 Před 3 lety +57

    Joe, please get her back on the podcast so she can talk about surviving froyo, it must have been traumatic for her

    • @angie675
      @angie675 Před 3 lety +3

      I mean for god sake‘s isn’t frozen yogurt diet ice cream? It’s awfully ironic that she gets pissed off about sugar free options when she’s in a diet ice cream shop haha

  • @solmichelle12
    @solmichelle12 Před 3 lety +7

    I feel like I got more information about what happened and how she is now physically and what she’s doing to recover more here then her actual docu series

  • @tundralife5570
    @tundralife5570 Před 3 lety +143

    My daughter suffers from depression and anxiety. There’s no conversation or amount of love that makes it go away. You just learn to cope and keep moving as I see it. It’s very sad and there were no warning signs I could identify. I couldn’t help thinking , I hope my daughter doesn’t find herself in this place in her life where hard drugs become the answer or worse. I’m a tough dude and can take a lot, but watching my beautiful, intelligent, loving and driven daughter go through this...man words can’t explain. I wish the best in the future for Demi, my daughter and any others who suffer from these things as well. 🙏

    • @rhyswatson7223
      @rhyswatson7223 Před 3 lety +7

      Try CBD oil bro

    • @rhyswatson7223
      @rhyswatson7223 Před 3 lety +1

      For your daughters anxiety and depression that id

    • @electron-Volt
      @electron-Volt Před 3 lety +16

      Hang in there. At least she has someone like you in her life, that is so valuable.

    • @Lakirk2023
      @Lakirk2023 Před 3 lety +12

      Going through this with my son. I feel for you and your daughter. Try to stay hopeful. I know its difficult. One day at a time.

    • @Rockenstein68
      @Rockenstein68 Před 3 lety +14

      Get her to a therapist, she might be repressing a trauma.

  • @idontcare736
    @idontcare736 Před 3 lety +143

    She laughs like Yzma from emperor’s new groove

  • @kdowney77
    @kdowney77 Před 3 lety +3

    i love their banter!!! they seem super comfy together!

  • @smOVERCOMINGITALL
    @smOVERCOMINGITALL Před 3 lety +6

    My brother was a hard core addict. He smoked weed or was "California sober" and it didn't stop him from ODing. Does that mean it won't for everyone...no but there's a reason why they advise against it in early recovery. I'm a huge fan of her voice. I say it that way bc frankly over the years I stopped liking her as a person but I still think she's one of most gifted singers of my generation. With that being said she has some serious mental health issues on top of her addiction. I hope for the love of everything she is staying away from the stuff that could kill her but it's not a secret she has codependency issues with men or "love" and the idea of it and self worth issues. She needs to actually address these things out of the spot light or we will hear about another incident on the news. IMO. Everytime she "comes back" there's a level of performance about it. She's copes with work...she needs to cope with something else. I've followed her since I was a teenager. Followed her story and every recovery stint and her OD. There's a pattern. I hope she breaks it and find what works. I want the best for her. If that's "California sober" sure. Whatever idc. But if it ends in another OD I wouldn't be shocked.

  • @ZenGarage
    @ZenGarage Před 3 lety +254

    I'm 46, hit rock bottom a few years ago, got help, therapy, meds then finally I quit smoking weed. That was a huge step. Soon after quitting weed I got off the meds. A year off the meds and I've quit smoking nicotine. Now I'm working on drinking less. You either get mentally stronger, or you don't.

    • @MagklJellyBeanPastelLucidDream
      @MagklJellyBeanPastelLucidDream Před 3 lety +6

      It's all on how you handle yourself. Some people make momey from those pruducts. Cannabis, alcohol, it should all be in moderation, idk why people suffer and use substances to cope. I used to, it was really bad. It didn't work, it was just like when I'd cut. It never works, just makes you think you've escaped. Makes you feel like you found a safe place within the pain, and that never works. It's like staying in an abusive relationship, just isn't healthy. Take care.

    • @MagklJellyBeanPastelLucidDream
      @MagklJellyBeanPastelLucidDream Před 3 lety +3

      @@marcomelbourne I would, and I still use cannabis. Just not the same anymore, not as much.

    • @dukebox86
      @dukebox86 Před 3 lety +14

      It's all about progress, whether someone is choosing moderation or complete cessation, and whether or not that will be now or forever. People are affected differently on an emotional and chemical level and progress cannot be compared. People should always be encouraged to reflect on what they are doing and feel empowered to admit failure with condemnation. Giving support is the most critical aspect of rehabilitation and our society is so fucking awful at it.

    • @MagklJellyBeanPastelLucidDream
      @MagklJellyBeanPastelLucidDream Před 3 lety +4

      @@dukebox86 really well said, I liked reading that.

    • @ft-sd6ux
      @ft-sd6ux Před 3 lety

      Try GABA supplements from a health store. It works great

  • @cameronn661
    @cameronn661 Před 3 lety +1128

    holy fuck that laugh is insane

  • @QuickStix26
    @QuickStix26 Před 3 lety +44

    Like Elton John said in her Doc, there can't be a middle ground when you're trying to get clean. It's either all or nothing.

    • @Vanessa-mp2ec
      @Vanessa-mp2ec Před 3 lety +5

      Not everyone in recovery needs to be “clean.” I haven’t used an opioid in 5&1/2 years but I have never stopped myself from having a drink when I’m with friends and it works for me. 12 steps aren’t the only path to recovery.

    • @maryjane6657
      @maryjane6657 Před 3 lety +5

      Wrong. Been clean from heroin from 2 years, don't even smoke weed. I can still go out and have a few drinks on occasion without over doing it. 12 steps work for some people but I view them as dogmatic and never maintained my sobriety trying to follow them. Recovery is different for everyone

    • @flogoph13
      @flogoph13 Před 2 lety

      Yes maybe you two can get away with it, but that is very very rare when you are an ADDICT 95% of addicts can not just go enjoy a “couple” casual drinks with their friends that is very rare! Most addicts it has to be all or nothing it is very dangerous for most of us to even try to casually have a couple drinks because more times than not it will cause a full blown relapse why even risk it….good for you if you can do that but for the majority of us it does not work unless it’s all or nothing….so I completely agree….

    • @maryjane6657
      @maryjane6657 Před 2 lety +4

      @@flogoph13 I'm not telling you to go out and relapse, I think it is great you are 100% abstinent because that is a very hard thing to do and an amazing accomplishment. But I know many former addicts who do not adhere to the AA/NA idea of recovery and do live their life without waking up every day reminding themselves that they are an addict. I also know many former addicts who adhere to the AA/NA abstinence and that is what works best for them. Like I said, recovery is different for everyone. It's not a linnear process

  • @CMoore8539
    @CMoore8539 Před 3 lety +5

    I understand what she is saying and I’ve seen many people in Recovery who use something. For me, I will never trust my self to drink again. I hope the very best for her!

    • @faithprice8960
      @faithprice8960 Před 3 lety

      I don’t know you, but I wish you the best in your recovery 🥺 may you find the happiest version of yourself

  • @abbebajrami7561
    @abbebajrami7561 Před 3 lety +262

    Joe ”not addicted to weed just smokes everyday” Rogan

    • @bonechip01
      @bonechip01 Před 3 lety +11

      @ghost robles If you compulsively consume a drug, it's addiction. I won't be taking any heroine, thanks.

    • @jackweaver1846
      @jackweaver1846 Před 3 lety +4

      @ghost robles I guess you can have an opinion on what addiction is, but scientifically speaking you’re wrong

    • @elontusk9898
      @elontusk9898 Před 3 lety

      Doesn't he do sober october? A month of no weed or alcohol.

    • @scopethepope10
      @scopethepope10 Před 3 lety +1

      Top comment honestly

    • @SHANEWHEATON
      @SHANEWHEATON Před 3 lety

      @ghost robles That's physical addiction.

  • @dariomouratidis6775
    @dariomouratidis6775 Před 3 lety +406

    When she started laughing I thought an evil Disney Princess broke into the studio

    • @cortezphenix9569
      @cortezphenix9569 Před 3 lety +10

      lol; as I read this, I heard the laugh (0:57).

    • @stevetortas9217
      @stevetortas9217 Před 3 lety +7

      Had to listen to this podcast with the volume abnormally low because of her loud laugh

    • @JC-cv3up
      @JC-cv3up Před 3 lety +2

      Dude spot on like cruella deville type of shit

    • @greatsoutherntrendkill79
      @greatsoutherntrendkill79 Před 3 lety +2

      I thought wow, she’s fucking beautiful!

    • @strika52
      @strika52 Před 3 lety +2

      She should do it. Great voice and laugh for it

  • @TeznaGFX
    @TeznaGFX Před 3 lety +7

    i smoke everyday and its making me mentally ill , highly dont recommend

  • @marissaslater8184
    @marissaslater8184 Před 3 lety +59

    She seems happy and healthy. I’m glad she’s alive and safe

    • @Angelaaa1015
      @Angelaaa1015 Před 3 lety +7

      She is fake and likes the attention. She uses her addiction for money.

    • @brie1796
      @brie1796 Před 3 lety +8

      @@Angelaaa1015 No she doesn’t u don’t even know what ur talking about lmao

    • @1inamillion367
      @1inamillion367 Před 3 lety +6

      @@Angelaaa1015 you sound like someone who never went through nothing. People like you are the problem🙅🏾‍♀️

    • @sardonicus76
      @sardonicus76 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Angelaaa1015 Yep, it’s a grift. And a very lucrative one at that. She’s been using the same formula for years and her gullible fans still haven’t sussed it out.
      The formula goes like this: get addicted, go into rehab, get “clean”, release an album of mediocre songs about how difficult it is being famous/addicted/overwieght/bullied by haters, do the talk show circuit to promote the album and tour, make a bunch of money, get addicted (again) and repeat as nece$$ary.

    • @faiali2895
      @faiali2895 Před 3 lety +4

      sardonicus76 you sound miserable af. let her live b

  • @BlackPilledWhite
    @BlackPilledWhite Před 3 lety +1461

    “I’m working so hard not to offend anyone.” - (Famous Name Here) How ridiculous a world we live in that people are being forced to live under a blanket of paranoia and oppression inflicted on them by a class of privileged loud mouthed Twitter hypocrites.

    • @Macheako
      @Macheako Před 3 lety +42

      It’s so ridiculous.....no one seems to know WHY it ever happened to begin with....

    • @rickymcu
      @rickymcu Před 3 lety +35

      Ya how did Rogan not jump on that one?

    • @austen855
      @austen855 Před 3 lety +7

      Fascist

    • @chana7141
      @chana7141 Před 3 lety +3

      Couldn't have said it better 👏🙌

    • @cuntpuncherino
      @cuntpuncherino Před 3 lety +2

      Yes.

  • @GIJake-oo9ir
    @GIJake-oo9ir Před 3 lety +198

    I'm sober today God is good.

    • @ng8565
      @ng8565 Před 3 lety +3

      Nice! Keep it goin

    • @tonydardi332
      @tonydardi332 Před 3 lety +5

      Awesome bud. Stay that way there’s a great big world out there to enjoy. Have fun!!

    • @Noah-pr2or
      @Noah-pr2or Před 3 lety +9

      That was soley your hard work bud. Own it.

    • @andrikpozos6194
      @andrikpozos6194 Před 3 lety +3

      Im off a perc 30 rn and love it too much😪maybe next week lmao thats wassup tho bro keep it up

    • @nein9nein
      @nein9nein Před 3 lety +1

      I'm not sober and you shouldn't be either it feels good man just do whatever drug you were doing

  • @CLAIR.L
    @CLAIR.L Před 3 lety +13

    I can really relate to this and I even learned something about myself. I just want to give Demi a hug

  • @ScrawnyRonnie89
    @ScrawnyRonnie89 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish her all the best. Recovery is a lifelong commitment and takes alot of work but it is worth every bit of it.

  • @DanielTyson1
    @DanielTyson1 Před 3 lety +297

    Joe: “ You’re doing a great job whatever you can see” 😂😂😂😂😂 cheeky

    • @mrkdemeritt
      @mrkdemeritt Před 3 lety

      Funny as hell

    • @hunglo_ren
      @hunglo_ren Před 3 lety +4

      Yea I’m callin bullshit on the severity of her “blindness”

    • @kellymarie199811
      @kellymarie199811 Před 3 lety +2

      @@hunglo_ren lol it’s not your place to “call bullshit” on someone who survived an overdose but nice try 💯

    • @inveteratecrusader4882
      @inveteratecrusader4882 Před 3 lety +3

      @@kellymarie199811 What are you? The overdose Nazi?

    • @christhefiend
      @christhefiend Před 3 lety

      @@dthtoangls Good sport? How about not dig at people like an asshole.

  • @thirdeyek5155
    @thirdeyek5155 Před 3 lety +267

    I’m a recovering opioid and cocaine addict. Tried abstinence. Never worked. I am Cali sober! I am in medical assistant school & got my cosmetology license. It’s not one’s business or place to tell anyone what they should do for their recovery.

    • @drooleybob
      @drooleybob Před 3 lety +31

      // It’s not one’s business or place to tell anyone what they should do for their recovery.//
      Bull-fucking-shit. Experts and professionals ought to.

    • @amarillo856
      @amarillo856 Před 3 lety +2

      Good job! ♥️ Stay strong

    • @julieheffernan784
      @julieheffernan784 Před 3 lety +1

      ❤ proud of you

    • @WeyTheGreat
      @WeyTheGreat Před 3 lety +2

      I read that as cosmology license and was so confused. Congrats though!!

    • @mtaylor935mt
      @mtaylor935mt Před 3 lety +3

      But didn’t you have people that worked with you and guided you through recovery?

  • @LaLaBlahBlahh
    @LaLaBlahBlahh Před 3 lety +2

    Really hoping for the best for her, she’s been through the ringer. Everyone’s experience with recovery is different, but as someone who’s worked in the field of addiction for quite a few years, I have yet to know of anyone who has successfully managed to stay on a substance like weed or alcohol once they reached the level of addiction that she was at. Most people go through years of trying to find this elusive “balance” to eventually land on the finding that total abstinence is the only thing that works long term. There are outsiders though who find it does work for them and she has a lot of great resources at her disposal and what sounds like a strong support network, so maybe it will be what’s best for her. Either way wishing her good luck 🤞

  • @ediannareyesovalle9636

    Girl I am grateful that you shared your story. It seems tough to be in addiction and near death experience. I can’t imagine. Pray that things get better for you and you continue to do whatever you need to get better. Weed does have a lot of benefits as long as it is not done in excess, the right amount does have benefits. Also the different kinds, for different purposes is also something to look into. :)

  • @jopo7996
    @jopo7996 Před 3 lety +547

    She's like Miley Cyrus without the cigarettes.

  • @Kh1011001
    @Kh1011001 Před 3 lety +352

    * Joe cuts cameras *
    Joe: So what went on in Disney

    • @TherealBlooze
      @TherealBlooze Před 3 lety +58

      @Luis Collado who da fuk is dis guy?

    • @lebm878
      @lebm878 Před 3 lety +21

      @Luis Collado Found the shill

    • @whodafook3202
      @whodafook3202 Před 3 lety +20

      @Luis Collado yea, YOU got it all figured out !..... get over YOURSELF bud 😂

    • @Kh1011001
      @Kh1011001 Před 3 lety +18

      @Luis Collado it's not theories, it's fact. Take your son to Disney world and let him jolly off on his own. Guarantee you'll never see him again.

    • @juansebastiansuavitaagudel9241
      @juansebastiansuavitaagudel9241 Před 3 lety +4

      @Luis Collado What you have not seen the symbolism and the amount of celebrities have spoken out? eve jfk talked about it, tupac LMAOOO. The word conspiracy to make it seem like its only told by "crazy people"

  • @pinggoys
    @pinggoys Před 3 lety +9

    Demi has the most infectious laugh ever.

  • @dannooooooo
    @dannooooooo Před 2 lety +2

    ive dealt with an opiate addiction for over a decade now, starting in my mid teens. my first few periods of sobriety (a couple years of time in total) were spent in 12 step programs. I love the people i met in those rooms and I'm eternally grateful for the way those meetings helped me understand myself, but, I've also never been apart of such a dogmatic group. I ran and chaired a meeting for around a year and had a lot of time talking to people in the rooms, and NO ONE supports anything but abstinence. And I get it, for some people that's all they want and all that they have found to work, but it never worked for me, especially since I'm an oddity and have never had a problem with anything outside of opiates, and still havent. When I drink I only have a few drinks and then go to bed, and then wont drink for 6 to 8 months. I also smoke marijuana now (legal in my country) and have one puff of my pipe in the evening before bed. But whenever I'd try to talk about this I'd be shamed and told it just hasn't happened yet, and you get treated like a moron for thinking your different or thinking that you have the 'magic' answer. I just don't have the compulsion for those substances because I can't function normally on them, they are just nice for a vacation or sleep, but opiates made work more bearable, made me less anxious, helped me talk to strangers, quieted painful thoughts, and more so I just wanted to always feel like that, I was essentially self medicating with something dangerous. I now micro dose 300mg of mushrooms every other day for the anxiety and feel great. So I understand not wanting to be totally abstinent and the difficulty of sharing that with other people in recovery.

    • @johnofficer9362
      @johnofficer9362 Před 2 lety

      It’s an outside issue in AA just like Suboxone or methadone . Do I think I can smoke weed no. But what other people think is different cause it can help. Outside issue

  • @Bogusuap
    @Bogusuap Před 3 lety +195

    I'm 5 years sober . Best thing in my life to move away from NYC and stop drinking. No other stuff for me 100% sober.

    • @barcrafty817
      @barcrafty817 Před 3 lety +15

      What are we? your sponsor? Go to a meeting and tell your story to other quitters.

    • @idonknowhoami
      @idonknowhoami Před 3 lety +53

      @@barcrafty817 who hurt you lol

    • @thomasjackson1075
      @thomasjackson1075 Před 3 lety +2

      You sound like you really need a drink.

    • @zedbazipq
      @zedbazipq Před 3 lety +11

      Good job keep it up bro

    • @nickfury5587
      @nickfury5587 Před 3 lety

      You guys are something else 😂

  • @brodyharris7631
    @brodyharris7631 Před 3 lety +1002

    I love how celebrities will say it's no ones business but then releases a documentary about their addiction

    • @BRLambert4
      @BRLambert4 Před 3 lety +179

      I think it's bc there is a difference when you get the chance to tell your story as opposed to people telling stories about you.

    • @India_Denisee
      @India_Denisee Před 3 lety +48

      I think it’s because then she can say it herself
      but in interviews and things it can easily be taken out of context

    • @Tarrik12321
      @Tarrik12321 Před 3 lety +20

      People in general have a bad habit of putting their business on front street then getting mad when ppl give their opinion 😂

    • @Gfresh1620
      @Gfresh1620 Před 3 lety +2

      Big facts

    • @rayn.2688
      @rayn.2688 Před 3 lety +13

      “Its no ones business” means I cant talk about it because i havent found a way to sell the info yet

  • @cowboycadillac7058
    @cowboycadillac7058 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m a recovering alcoholic and addict, my main substances of choice are alcohol coke and weed but I’ve tried just about every substance under the sun. I am totally helpless to my weed addiction, I start smoking and I can’t stop, then I graduate back to sipping and sniffing. Props to Demi man, proud of her, never been a fan, but I’m definitely proud of any recovering alcoholic/addict finding their path in life w out substance abuse.

  • @HayleyPhoebe
    @HayleyPhoebe Před 3 lety +2

    As an ALANON kid I was always warned that alcohol was the getaway drug and found those that say pot is actually haven’t had to deal with addiction or have an addict directly in their lives. Some studies have also found that pot helps those with hardcore addictions stay off the bad stuff but at the end Of the day it’s one day at a time, one hour at a time or even one minute at a time cos pot won’t kill you but alcohol and other drugs will

  • @boardonfire4
    @boardonfire4 Před 3 lety +807

    When someone says “my truth” rather than the truth U know there’s gonna be some tap dancing

    • @adamcromwell2876
      @adamcromwell2876 Před 3 lety +12

      Goggins would not approve...

    • @Askalott
      @Askalott Před 3 lety +31

      Says the dude chugging alcohol in his photo.

    • @Velereonics
      @Velereonics Před 3 lety +19

      It's just vernacular. When libs say that and they aren't being aggressive, it just means "my understanding is X"
      We don't know very many things 100%. Not that there isn't a such thing as objectivity but when it comes to why people do things and how things affect other people, it's just educated guesswork and our ego plays a big role in our perspective.

    • @Velereonics
      @Velereonics Před 3 lety +3

      @Benghali In Platforms And what is that result? Did you read what I wrote? They use it when they're talking about their perception of reality. Again, objectivity is definitely a real thing in certain contexts but in others it's not.
      If you pick unnecessary fights you're going to end up strung out. Some things radlibs are doing are extremely problematic but the existence of the term "my truth" is not one of them.

    • @Velereonics
      @Velereonics Před 3 lety +3

      @Benghali In Platforms No, actually.
      Your issue is that you're lumping them all together. I'm right wing, but I'm not right wing in the way Ben Shapiro is, as an example.
      There are marxists on the left. They are concerned with class, eg Ant*fa (not sure if that's a censored word).
      There are cultural marxists, these are trans activists, third wave feminists, race essentialists. Power+privilege people, basically. The term "cultural marxist" is a lot more vague than "marxist." I've seen it used to describe a ton of groups on the left and right.
      She falls more into that second category. In LA though, people like her are intensely nonconfrontational.
      Listen to where she uses the term. She's saying "even when I say what I believe to be true, I have to be careful because I'm a celebrity and I only work if my reputation is intact."
      I think like with Marxism you're conflating all uses of the term with the most aggressive use of the term. She's not attacking truth. She's saying she's sincere when she speaks. That's a good thing, I would think.

  • @gregfalls9293
    @gregfalls9293 Před 3 lety +304

    1:00 Lordy THAT is a laugh

    • @RickySpanish1313
      @RickySpanish1313 Před 3 lety +1

      Power

    • @bigbrotheriswatching2680
      @bigbrotheriswatching2680 Před 3 lety +6

      would love to ... "R" is the 18th letter in the modern English alphabet ... "ape" is an animal that joe rogan likes "demi lovato" is in this video ... "in the mouth" is where I put food

    • @FREEGEMS
      @FREEGEMS Před 3 lety +37

      @@bigbrotheriswatching2680 Have you tried offing yourself instead

    • @anthonyelwick3600
      @anthonyelwick3600 Před 3 lety +5

      She totally made it up

    • @daakrolb
      @daakrolb Před 3 lety +3

      A phony one.

  • @rachaelbooher933
    @rachaelbooher933 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow! I wasn't expecting to love this clip. She was so honest and real! In many ways her story resonates w/ me

  • @TancheapMcFatass
    @TancheapMcFatass Před rokem +1

    I know this post is old but I love the Cali sober term, I battled 10+ years of serious alcoholism and finally went to rehab back in July 2021, I waited over a year until I regularly smoked weed again and I found LSD and psilocybin mushrooms to be the most therapeutic experiences I've ever had, never been happier or in better physical shape or most importantly had such great bonds with my friends and family that they all forgave me for because I was a seriously horrible violent abusive alcoholic and deep down my family reminded me that I was better than that and they never gave up on me even when I became suicidal. I am so grateful everyday now even though I'm not technically sober-sober I don't do things that destroy my life and i enjoy safe drugs responsibly. God gave us everything here let's make the best of it

  • @trilldex6378
    @trilldex6378 Před 3 lety +64

    I don’t understand why people still slander Demi Lovato for being a struggling addict. At least she’s still alive. She could’ve been dead already. She got the second chances that Amy whine house or Mac Miller didn’t have

    • @Helllow1012
      @Helllow1012 Před 3 lety +9

      She isn’t a bad person. She isn’t going out in the world and hurting people like some people do when they are hurting inside. She takes her issues out on herself. Anyone that has something negative to say about her because of her addictions are ignorant people.

  • @gigidodson
    @gigidodson Před 3 lety +572

    If you have an addictive personality, you can be addicted to anything.

    • @Velereonics
      @Velereonics Před 3 lety +24

      If drugs are a coping mechanism for you and not something you did exclusively for fun, you might not actually have addiction running in your genes, which is essentially what you mean by an addictive personality.

    • @kieran17
      @kieran17 Před 3 lety +23

      There is no such thing as addictive personality.

    • @billycrunches8117
      @billycrunches8117 Před 3 lety +4

      The addictions gene is not a considered-able factor because we know that environments predict gene expressions.

    • @trinityizzard6821
      @trinityizzard6821 Před 3 lety +29

      And her food addiction is proof of that... Addiction can affect any area of your life... There are so many red flags going on in these interviews, it's scary...

    • @smOVERCOMINGITALL
      @smOVERCOMINGITALL Před 3 lety +23

      Replacing the drug of choice doesnt make it any less of an addiction. Idk why we stopped considering weed a drug. It's legal in a lot of places...cool but her controlling the fact she can have alcohol and weed just to prove she won't die from meth or heroine is not recovery. Imo. It's the same damn thing we just simply look the other way.

  • @miaaa8936
    @miaaa8936 Před rokem +1

    I was addicted to a lot of things and I smoked weed my whole life too. But when I got off everything else I depended HEAVILY on weed then that became another addiction for me. When I didn’t have it I’d have full blown panic attacks, shakes, racing thoughts, paranoia, insomnia, couldn’t eat and overall just be veryyyy mean to people over nothing. So I had to stop smoking and completely find myself before I could try it again. I tried it again bc it was never the problem until I stopped the hard stuff, and I realized I was using it as a numbing bandaid

  • @jasminesparkle1919
    @jasminesparkle1919 Před 3 lety

    Godbless you demi i feel sad for your deep suffering like so many stars . Your music has lifted me so many times. There is an amazing clinic in North Brook called the mind eye institute which have an amazing therapy for specialist glasses for stroke survivors who suffer with vision problems. God speed keep getting better 💗

  • @blinkybill2198
    @blinkybill2198 Před 3 lety +198

    "couldn't see what shoes went with my outfit" me looking at my black Nikes I wear with everything

  • @nicobythebeach1
    @nicobythebeach1 Před 3 lety +146

    You can totally hear her vocal power in her laugh.

    • @kellymcphaul2793
      @kellymcphaul2793 Před 3 lety +16

      Yes thank you, that’s the perfect description.

    • @DanielTyson1
      @DanielTyson1 Před 3 lety +2

      Exactly what I thought 😂 that laugh is powerfull

  • @LolliPops-
    @LolliPops- Před 3 lety +25

    I'm so proud of her being so honest and happy. Weed unfortunately can cause Schizophrenia if you have a family predisposition, and she mentioned her dad had Schizophrenia. So I'm glad her treatment team is aware of what she's doing and they know her history so she can stay safe ❤️

    • @finchisneat
      @finchisneat Před 3 lety +4

      That's not quite correct. Weed has not been shown to cause schizophrenia at higher rates than those that do not smoke weed. A strong cannabis trip however could be a stressor just like losing a parent or a bad breakup which also causes schizophrenia.
      To be clear they sure aren't 100% sure but the rate at which it occurs is nearly identical between pot smokers and non-pot smokers and the idea is that a stressor precipitates the schizophrenia and that it would have to be there already and we can be that stressor.
      So to reiterate as of now the research shows you can only get schizophrenia from Cannabis if you were going to get it anyway.
      That being said schizophrenia usually happens in the early twenties whether induced by cannabis or by natural stressors and I would definitely caution people from doing it too young. I first started when I was 12 but only tried it and started using more regularly around 17 and have major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder social phobia, OCD and unexplained disabling stomach pain. I've obviously had other issues in my life but I think a lot of the mood ones have to do with early cannabis and alcohol use.

    • @gee2541
      @gee2541 Před 3 lety

      @@finchisneat Wow I thought weed was known to help with mental health issues such as ocd, depression, anxiety, etc. I’ve been contemplating trying it since I’m dealing with severe depression but I’m not sure

  • @daisyruiz6700
    @daisyruiz6700 Před 3 lety

    I want to say thank you to both of you for speaking about this. I don't often watch or listen to your videos but when I do I feel like my husband is around and I'm waiting for his laugh or " yeah yeah exactly bro" and well my husband passed away December 13 2019 because if an overdose from fentanyl.