Neurofeedback in Couples Therapy: Expert Insights with Dr. David Helfand

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In this captivating episode of the NeuroNoodle Neurofeedback Network Podcast, Jay Gunkelman and Dr. Mari Swingle welcome Dr. David Helfand, a licensed psychologist known for his groundbreaking work in integrating neurofeedback with couples counseling. Discover how this unique approach is helping couples navigate the challenges of their relationships through the lens of neuroscience.
What You'll Learn:
The transformative impact of neurofeedback and brain mapping on understanding and resolving conflicts within relationships.
Success stories from couples who found renewed hope and deeper connections through Dr. Helfand's innovative counseling methods.
The role of remote neurofeedback sessions in making relationship therapy more accessible and effective for couples everywhere.
Insights into the brain's role in communication, conflict, and connection, offering couples new tools for improving their relationships.
Dr. David Helfand shares his expertise on leveraging neurofeedback to enhance couples therapy, providing both therapists and couples with new strategies for fostering love, empathy, and understanding.
Visit Dr. Helfand's websites for more information:
LifeWiseVT.com for comprehensive psychological services.
MarriageQuest.org for details on his specialized couples retreats.
BrainMapVT.com for insights into his neurofeedback services.
Join us for this enlightening discussion that bridges the gap between neuroscience and emotional connection, offering new hope for couples striving to improve their relationships.
Key Moments:
1:36 Chat with Jay Gunkelman and Dr H
2:17 Dr Mary Tracy Happy Birthday mention clip
2:38 dr Mari swingle pops in
3:53 Dr H 2nd time on the show clip podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
4:41 Dr Helfand uses Brainmaps to help in marriage counseling
9:45 fundamental communication skills
10:45 Skills taught during neurofeedback are in the cortex somewhere
11:54 How does qeeg come into play
12:28 2 examples of couples eeg causing issues in relationship
13:56 Jay Gunkelman Screen Share peronsal inter connectivity
14:55 Healer Healee Connection
19:42 Perfect pitch with 2 individuals marital overtone
21:52 Barbara Brown
23:25 Both People have high Beta- Beta FZ "Divorce Signature"
24:53 Anterior Cingulate
25:30 Ketamine and K-Hoe
32:00 Couples enter dissaociate state
32:32 Ruth Lanius and Tomas Ros Clips
36:55 Childhood trauma
37:50 Giving the gift of control via Thermometer exercise
39:29 Anna Wise annawise.com/ Mapping Arrousel
40:28 females trouble regulating Temp
40:58 Respiration
43:34 wire couples together and tech looking at resu;ts
44:18 Breathing Training
45:24 Virtual option?
46:50 Mindlift learn.myndlift.com/
49:58 Clients like virtual sessions
Dr H's Background
After high school I enrolled at the University of Vermont to study psychology and philosophy. During that time, someone introduced me to neurofeedback, and I found a local mentor who was open to training me and providing first hand experience of the process. I remember shortly after my 21st birthday, I did my first session. That night I went out with friends and had absolutely zero interest in drinking. I remember thinking that was very odd, and I told my mentor the story the next week. He said, “Well that makes sense. The relaxation you used is also for drug addiction.” Wow, I was completely hooked after that experience.
I needed some space to explore my own wellness after college, so I moved to Boston and bounced around a few different jobs in the mental health field to make money. During that time, I also became certified in Kripalu Yoga and started a yoga business teaching at studios, professional offices, and in people’s homes. I retained my interest in neurofeedback, but I realized that I wouldn’t be able to really make it a career unless I had more education.
I was accepted at William James College where I graduated with a doctorate in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in Health Psychology. During my studies, I also worked as a neurofeedback technician, and I was hired in my post doc training to start a neurofeedback practice in a pre-existing mental health facility. I quickly realized that in order to provide the best support to clients, I needed to blend all of my training in hypnosis, mindfulness, yoga, couples therapy, and of course neurofeedback.
I started LifeWise in 2017 as a culmination of my vision for helping others. It has taken a few different forms over the years, and the business and I continue to grow and adapt to meet the needs of the community. It has been a rewarding, humbling, and fulfilling experience the la