5 Minute Therapy Tips - Episode 18: Couples Therapy

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  • čas přidán 5. 10. 2017
  • This time I would like to talk about couples therapy. Oh my gosh! How can you talk about couples therapy in 5 minutes? But let’s talk about the opening of a couples session. When couples come into therapy often times they are supercharged to talk about the complaint, and complaint usually has to do with someone else changing their state.
    We are excited to share with you our new CZcams series which will explore topics such as Client Problems, Professional Issues, Clinical Concerns, and Methodology with new episodes every Friday!
    with Jeff Zeig, PhD
    Presented by:
    The Milton H. Erickson Foundation
    www.erickson-foundation.org
    Sponsored by:
    Evolution of Psychotherapy 2017
    December 13-17, 2017
    www.evolutionofpsychotherapy.com
    Images:
    Andreas Steiner
    www.mastersofpsychotherapy.de

Komentáře • 103

  • @biancawilliams5190
    @biancawilliams5190 Před 2 lety +10

    I like this approach. I actually listened to this with headphones on so I could hear his clear whistling through his talking. Nothing bothersome about it, just worth mentioning.

  • @Ryan-wf7sh
    @Ryan-wf7sh Před 2 lety +9

    This guys got a wicked strong old man whistle

  • @StevenMcAllisterBEST
    @StevenMcAllisterBEST Před rokem +3

    That whistle goes hard

  • @kennethmiller1245
    @kennethmiller1245 Před rokem +4

    I had a couple of brief interactions with Dr Zelig at the first evolution of psychotherapy conference. I watched a questioner’s complete demeanor change when Dr. Zelig responded “to the question.” Actually he responded with care to the struggle of the questioner building on the competence of the questioner. I saw Dr. Zelig for a moment in passing to thank him. As I did, dammed if he didn’t do the same thing to me! I think part of his gift and skill is the ability to find and extend competencies he finds in others.

  • @nesschapman212
    @nesschapman212 Před 2 lety +5

    Some great, quick ideas, thanks!

  • @jazminlonery7291
    @jazminlonery7291 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you! This is all very helpful for my midterm!

  • @karenforresterlara7616
    @karenforresterlara7616 Před 2 lety +9

    This video was very helpful, thank you for taking the time to post it and sharing it. Great ideas and information, will look further into the work of Milton Erickson.

  • @roxannemichelle6483
    @roxannemichelle6483 Před rokem +2

    This video is so good and important to work things out and opportunity for this couple with their marriage

  • @changinglivespowercouple4661

    Very important session. I like it.

  • @smaganas
    @smaganas Před 2 měsíci

    This is fantastic!!

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor Před 3 lety +4

    This was really informative thank you 👍🏽

  • @miriammclean3888
    @miriammclean3888 Před 3 lety +4

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  • @julest5767
    @julest5767 Před měsícem

    thank you. this was helpful!

  • @parvathibai132
    @parvathibai132 Před rokem +2

    Brilliant

  • @Lr8_youtube
    @Lr8_youtube Před měsícem

    - solution focused therapy
    - metaphor : what do u want in your partner?
    what u want in the relationship

  • @StevenMcAllisterBEST
    @StevenMcAllisterBEST Před rokem +1

    Noticeable differences got me 😂

  • @ariananendelsk.3886
    @ariananendelsk.3886 Před 5 lety +10

    What can you do for this relationship?
    What were the things that were GND ?
    What are you really looking for in your relationship?

    • @marcelmartinez7889
      @marcelmartinez7889 Před 4 lety

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  • @joshmeyer2375
    @joshmeyer2375 Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks

    • @miriammclean3888
      @miriammclean3888 Před 3 lety

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  • @WonderTracks
    @WonderTracks Před 2 lety +4

    To me this was too abstract to be delivered in such a rushed manner me thank you very much anyhow!

  • @postergirl2772
    @postergirl2772 Před 5 měsíci

    ok this video is a great tip thank you [I'm a highschool student at an early college I start mental health next year as a junior and my friends use me as their therapist and now I got my first couple incident and needed frantic help, will update on how it goes]

    • @tommac21
      @tommac21 Před 5 měsíci

      Absolutely useless

    • @tommac21
      @tommac21 Před 5 měsíci

      Don't waste your t8me or money going to college for this. All this is is a opinion they give you. I'm a bartender and I help more people then any psyciatrist,, coach or therapist out there

  • @bhavyajotarora9216
    @bhavyajotarora9216 Před 2 lety +2

    Came to this video after searching for the Ted talk of Cary and Sherry

  • @skc8130
    @skc8130 Před 2 lety

    Whoa with the whistling lol

  • @user-xp9if3ew1k
    @user-xp9if3ew1k Před 3 lety +8

    What can You do for your couple?:-great question!!thank you!

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  • @The_magic_mountain33
    @The_magic_mountain33 Před 5 lety +5

    My girlftiend always says i don,t listen and i got a mouth problem. It makes me sad cause i usually don,t know what i said that angers her. Number two i got bad ears and i get tired of her getting mad so i prob do not listen so good at times. I love her an cry alot and we arent liveing together now but she doesnt want to actually breakup but i only get to go over to her house 1 time a week to see her and also cutt her big field of grass. My actual address is still at her house as im staying at my parents for the last 5 weeks an hour away. Any suggestions? Im thinking after 3 months im just stop trying if im not back in her place. What should i do honestly? Some1 help

    • @Lovesiclemedia
      @Lovesiclemedia Před 5 lety +2

      Update? Did you move back in?

    • @paulinashanks1305
      @paulinashanks1305 Před 4 lety

      Get your own house adulting is not always easy

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    • @The_magic_mountain33
      @The_magic_mountain33 Před 3 lety

      @@Lovesiclemedia yeah.. We still hit rough points at times .. How are you ?

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      @The_magic_mountain33 Před 3 lety

      @@paulinashanks1305 hi how are you doing Pauline..

  • @frankayala1604
    @frankayala1604 Před 4 lety +2

    JND 😃

    • @ileardgz7691
      @ileardgz7691 Před 3 lety

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  • @showmethescience2514
    @showmethescience2514 Před 3 lety +1

    Just not getting his message.

  • @TGregers
    @TGregers Před 3 lety +7

    That whistling though lol

  • @malottcounselingservices6969

    I feel the conflict here is not taking into consideration that he is talking to therapists, not clients. I am a professional clinical counselor and did not have any problems following his train of thought; however, I am intimately acquainted with solution focused brief therapy and Milton Erickson’s life’s work. I would never counsel from that level of academic dialog. As I said earlier, he is relating some information to clinicians, not patients. I don’t think many of these videos are well categorized. This is something CZcams needs to improve-where academic material is being introduced and presented. It can lead to more confusion than the intended goal to benefit the therapist/viewer.

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    • @lisahe31
      @lisahe31 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree with you, I found this very informative. I too work as a counselor and I know that he was talking to the clinicians, with this video

    • @katebarnes3414
      @katebarnes3414 Před 2 lety +1

      It says in the title 'for therapists' ?

  • @weo1weo1weo1
    @weo1weo1weo1 Před 2 lety +3

    your mic is picking up your "s" sounds and making them very sharp I am getting a headache listening to the vid :"(

  • @timwhistine2564
    @timwhistine2564 Před rokem

    Drop the acronyms and talk English using words! It helps.

  • @deskreverse
    @deskreverse Před 4 měsíci

    The sharp whistling noise with the S's are really distracting 😬

  • @kianasunshine6874
    @kianasunshine6874 Před 4 lety +73

    I really tried to understand!!! He seems very wise & I trust that I can learn from him. but i LITERALLY CANT UNDERSTAND anything he’s saying or FOCUS ON anything other than his whistle. I’m so sorry

    • @jaelyng2353
      @jaelyng2353 Před 4 lety +1

      Same

    • @julutram823
      @julutram823 Před 4 lety +1

      😂

    • @boogyjuggy
      @boogyjuggy Před 4 lety +4

      try again, wake up, get out of your mind

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  • @sabertoothwallaby2937

    I have ten total toes yo

  • @user-jr4vt6xr8c
    @user-jr4vt6xr8c Před rokem

    didn't watch but why they give her more time to talk in couples therapy its not fair i barely get a word in edgeways too much time they gang up on me and my drinkin

  • @h.a.n.na17
    @h.a.n.na17 Před 4 lety +1

    PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE SOMEONE SET UP A GO FUNDME PAGE FOR DOING COUPLES THERAPY FOR MY LONG TIME GUY ND I. MY INSURANCE WON'T PAY FOR COUPLES THERAPY.

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    • @judibrookslmft2748
      @judibrookslmft2748 Před 2 lety +1

      Your insurance will probably pay for "family therapy" or "individual therapy" and you bring your partner in to your sessions. This is done frequently and acceptable (I'm a therapist). Wishing you well!

  • @tommac21
    @tommac21 Před 5 měsíci

    Oh th8svguy is hilarious. Like any9ne such as him can do anything for a relationship. Especially with this nonsense. What a scam. Nobody can help a relationship except the 2 involved. People save your money and time. I would just sit there and laugh my ass off

  • @h.a.n.na17
    @h.a.n.na17 Před 4 lety

    HELP ME I'M POOR .

  • @cn2120
    @cn2120 Před rokem

    Was it just me or was it hard to listen to. The guy whistles the whole time lol

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    @ballettobrenton7045 Před rokem +3

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