Relations Types of Love and the Power of the Woman part 4

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  • čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
  • Relations, types of Love, and the Power of the Woman is part 4 of our " Love and Relationships" series. In this lesson, we learn from the man's perspective how it looks not to disempower his responsibilities and power.
    Episode 1: Two-way relations elevate or kill you. • Relations and Inner Po...
    Episode 2: Two types of love and the power of the woman Don't baby your man
    • Relations, 2 types of ...
    Episode 3: Relations, Two Types of Love and Woman Power
    • Relations, 2 types of ...

Komentáře • 73

  • @Tarolyn17
    @Tarolyn17 Před 7 měsíci +58

    This is was so helpful for me. I met a guy, within the first few weeks he got upset cause I told him no to something he wanted from me. He threw a temper tantrum, much like your husband described. I’ve never run faster from someone.
    Don’t let people tell you you’re over analyzing when you notice these behavioral patterns in people. They are real and if they are showing a side of themselves that is different from the things that they are saying, take heed to that.

    • @berdhanya
      @berdhanya  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @2brainylike
      @2brainylike Před 7 měsíci +8

      Running away is not always the answer unless he was asking something morally unjust of you, but having the language to communicate to him what you were feeling and what your idea of a healthy relationship is may have been helpful. He may not have been fools Gold, he could've just never experienced a woman like you. Eh, nevermind me...just another perspective.

  • @soulsparkadventures
    @soulsparkadventures Před 7 měsíci +59

    That’s how you know- that he can’t answer it. Because he’s independent in his actions so whether you are acting in a certain way or not it’s irrelevant. Great video gracias x

  • @yaelli
    @yaelli Před 7 měsíci +6

    I love that you call it "babying" and not "mothering". Emphasizes how unflattering that is to him.

  • @Mayflower2004
    @Mayflower2004 Před 7 měsíci +5

    “What you see is what you get” wow! I like this phrase. So true. Men especially are the least out of the sexes to be changed.
    If you want a strong, confident and masculine man as a husband, if you are not seeing it in your now boyfriend, cut off the relationship fast and remain happily single till the kind of man your heart desires comes by.
    Talking from experience.
    Thank you mam for inviting your beautiful love to contribute in this episode.❤👌

  • @kyezhalee4678
    @kyezhalee4678 Před 7 měsíci +32

    I am not perfect and know that I wilbever be but something I wish to work on is being secure as a woman. I find my past trumas stealing the joy of my present romance. I also feel like I have not acquainted myself with my true self as I have allowed myself to change to suit the needs of those in my life. This was very insightful for me and I appreciate the time you've both have put aside to share this wisdom.

  • @fatima3pk
    @fatima3pk Před 7 měsíci +26

    Amazing! Please keep it going... most people, including me, hold a distorted view of feminine and masculine energy, and we suffer greatly. Thank you!!!

    • @Eboni-J
      @Eboni-J Před 7 měsíci +1

      To acknowledge that is so profound and says so much about your self-awareness. I commend you ♥️ This is very true and because so many of us are looking to heal and reconcile this part of us, I believe there is hope for humanity and our future.

  • @FPT84
    @FPT84 Před 7 měsíci +22

    Basically dont feed his childishness! Don't entertain that part of him. Give attention to the man traits and focus on praising them than the childishly behavior

  • @2brainylike
    @2brainylike Před 7 měsíci +16

    As a woman soon to be married, this is right on time. I needed to hear and see what that looks like in real time, thank you for bringing him.

    • @friktermind
      @friktermind Před 7 měsíci +2

      All the best! May everything best you need in life guide you!

    • @minkz002
      @minkz002 Před 7 měsíci +1

      All the best 💫💕 wishing you both well.

  • @kenyarodriguez3853
    @kenyarodriguez3853 Před 7 měsíci +4

    He was basically like "I don't know. I'm not a baby that needs to be babied so I wouldn't know how to answer that" 😂

  • @rashkehof2458
    @rashkehof2458 Před 7 měsíci +20

    There's a lot of cleaning up to do, we have become so dysfunctional by the traumatizing stuff that has been put upon the human race for so long... At the other hand: you are explaining all this in such a beautiful manner, it makes it all a lot easier to understand and to do! I hope many people will find this way of living with themselves and others soon, so that this beautiful planet will thrive! Thank you Berdhanya!! 💗

  • @goldenlioness5140
    @goldenlioness5140 Před 7 měsíci +7

    This is a energy exchange both me and my partner has had. We both have co dependency attributes so we have needed from the other what we accually shoulf give ourselfs... He wanted me to be his mother and I wanted him to be my father. This has destoyed our intimacy and sexual attraction... Thank you for this knowledge. I know where to begin changing this dynamic, if its even possible.

  • @celiaortiz7556
    @celiaortiz7556 Před 7 měsíci +5

    This is the type of talk I wish I could have with my parents/family about what I'm experiencing with my partner/child's father. Thank you for the non judgement and the loving approach you take to this topic. Thank you for taking time to do this because women like me, who are experiencing this, especially on an abusive level, so badly need this!

  • @everythingisalie5320
    @everythingisalie5320 Před 7 měsíci +4

    What you see is what you get. Take it or leave it. Not cganging to their expectations.
    So needed to gear this video. Thankyou such calm wise people

  • @angelagholson4988
    @angelagholson4988 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thank you, Mr. Matthew.

  • @Remembranza
    @Remembranza Před 7 měsíci +3

    Just by sitting next to each other and having this conversation you can feel the energy they both exude which basically speak for itself and speaks very loud to me, you both are such a gift just by being; and then the teaching, so rich!! Amazing, thank you both!

  • @elisakovacs8020
    @elisakovacs8020 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thanks guys - these are invaluable 🙏 this knowledge should definitely be shared ❤

  • @MmMm-cz2ul
    @MmMm-cz2ul Před 7 měsíci +4

    That is very beautiful video and so honest sharing. Very helpful. Thank you so much ❤ bless you both 🦋

  • @ZastroWorld
    @ZastroWorld Před 7 měsíci +16

    Very interesting, I don't think I have seen any information like this online. I also think it's great that there is both the male and female point of view. I look forward to more videos in your relationship series. What is your view point on males cheating?

    • @berdhanya
      @berdhanya  Před 7 měsíci

      thank you for sharing and for the suggestion on the male cheating

  • @oceanmcewen
    @oceanmcewen Před 7 měsíci +1

    thank you both ❤

  • @dancingriverwonderful9786
    @dancingriverwonderful9786 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I really enjoy this series and looking forward for more wisdom teachings

  • @eyayatouji4323
    @eyayatouji4323 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Great couple
    Inspiring tips thank you for sharing

  • @TreasureSeasons
    @TreasureSeasons Před 7 měsíci +2

    appreciate your discussion shared - thank you

  • @prairiecherie5743
    @prairiecherie5743 Před 7 měsíci +18

    The maiden, the mother, the crone.

  • @slovenika9108
    @slovenika9108 Před 4 měsíci

    what a wonderfully relaxed couple! enjoyable to watch these two beings..

  • @createa.googleaccount713
    @createa.googleaccount713 Před 7 měsíci +4

    You have our undivided attention & I can easily clearly hear you! Thank you so much for considering your listing audience ❤ 😊☺ I very much appreciate your channel, it's nice to have 2 Wise People Sharing Wisdom 💫🙏🏻

  • @themadfriends
    @themadfriends Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your good good questions. They really enrich my perspective and attitude!

  • @claregiuliani8436
    @claregiuliani8436 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I love this! So simple and clear and revealingly about the traps we fall into ❤

  • @BronxGirl2022
    @BronxGirl2022 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Powerful video

  • @Shininglight_throughart
    @Shininglight_throughart Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you so much for these! You both are sooo reminding my grandparents ❤ such wisdom, sending love ❤

  • @StyleNectar
    @StyleNectar Před 7 měsíci +1

    Oh so beautiful! Thank you for another fantastic class❤️🙏🕊

  • @khaleil777
    @khaleil777 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Awww I love this

  • @cosmixpixie6909
    @cosmixpixie6909 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Beautiful

  • @annebonny5104
    @annebonny5104 Před 7 měsíci +1

    ❤ Thank you so much!

  • @mubikarimjanovnabob8779
    @mubikarimjanovnabob8779 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you❤❤❤

  • @bianca-rq5wy
    @bianca-rq5wy Před 7 měsíci +3

    Hi very interesting and beautiful to listen to you two , i think every person loves in his own natural without thinking and analizing this things couse love is love and that's it if is functioning is from God !

  • @GrasshopperRDG
    @GrasshopperRDG Před 7 měsíci +4

    Yes! Very helpful`❤️❤️💯!
    -💚*🙏🏽

  • @swts4k
    @swts4k Před 7 měsíci +8

    Internet parents ❤

  • @emmaphilo4049
    @emmaphilo4049 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I like the what you see is what you get :)

  • @AIRocks-xm4lr
    @AIRocks-xm4lr Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you for such an open discussion. What does it mean for a woman to be insecure? I have seen my borhers being adult babies who expect thier sisters to even act like mother, so I have learned how to baby men around me, and even have learned how to over-burden or blame them for not considering me a baby. Any thoughts about it...

  • @friktermind
    @friktermind Před 7 měsíci

    I wish for more men to find this video as well!

  • @purpurina5663
    @purpurina5663 Před 7 měsíci +4

    How do you support a man when he is sick or in need without mothering him?

    • @Tashi298
      @Tashi298 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Good question. I would like to know to.

    • @GigiSupreme
      @GigiSupreme Před 7 měsíci +6

      Nurturing/caring for (as when sick) is not the same as mothering.

  • @QueenofHolland123
    @QueenofHolland123 Před 7 měsíci +1

    In every woman there IS a baby as well!

  • @africancat2740
    @africancat2740 Před 7 měsíci

    @Berdhanya. Prepare your husband before or write script that way his thoughts flow and he expresses himself best

    • @berdhanya
      @berdhanya  Před 7 měsíci +12

      That is precise a modification I don't need to do, he is what he is, any " preparation" takes away what he need to learn by himself.- not because I have a vision he has to follow.

    • @africancat2740
      @africancat2740 Před 7 měsíci

      @@berdhanya the script that he writes on his own too . They are his thoughts and words . Maybe note down key points . If I ask you to mention your favorite artistes on the spot you won't be able to. But if I ask you to write them before and discuss it's better

    • @kenyarodriguez3853
      @kenyarodriguez3853 Před 7 měsíci

      @@africancat2740 who's youtube video is this? It's hers. They can do as they please with their channel. A lot of us understood what he said and we appreicate his wisdom. If you don't like it, watch something else. Simple.

  • @saramarchesi2247
    @saramarchesi2247 Před 7 měsíci +3

    So much peace u two emanate. Clarity in peace🤍 thank you 🙏🏻