Why The STRUGGLE GETS REAL For The
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- Insight on why the struggle gets real for the narcissist and they struggle without you.
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They end up playing themselves because they're too stupid to quit while they're ahead. They're so busy trying to hurt you that they hurt themselves. They're actually that stupid.
So true and I thank God mines kept picking cause he picked me right out of his life
Yep. Stupid is as stupid does
Yes indeed very much so. Narcissist do not love themselves. They will destroy themselves trying to destroy their ex . A shame is at least the equivalent of the narcissist 😊
They will NEVER b happy with ANYONE...those r sad people...they need JESUS
They lost the best thing that ever walked into their life. They know it.
They will stay miserable, unhealed and destined to search for what they will never find until their final breath.
Thank you Heavenly Father for Telsha 🙏🏾, helping set so many of us free, in Jesus’ name!
Yesss… Amen 🙌🏽
He’s struggling, do I care no. All the people involved in this are suffering anyway. No one got anything out from this.
Same here. He was assassinating my character to people before they even met me so I already knew it was doomed. He’s an evil, lying, misogynist clown and he and his flying monkeys will all get their karma for disrespecting me. I’m so glad I got away❤️🩹
I am set completely free from the Narcissist by the power of the Holy Ghost 🔥! God is now taking me from HEALNESS TO WHOLENESS TO BOLDNESS AS ONLY AS HE CAN 🙌
When I have moments from time to time that I feel anger and resentment toward my ex, I quickly remember that he'll never experience love, true joy, genuine happiness. I escaped that monster and I have those things in my life again. I have a real life filled with real emotions and real relationships with those I love and care about. That is impossible for him and I don't feel one bit sorry for him. My life is real. Full of ups and downs, but it's 100% real. Narcissists live and die never experiencing what it means to be human.
Hopefully in their next life they won’t come back as a fly that dies in 7 days lol
This 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾✔️
If they try to make you feel guilty for not having empathy towards them when they fall. Just remember the narcissist caused your downfall and kicked you repeatedly when you were down. Im not saying to be happy during their collapse but you dont owe them a damn thing.
I PRAY FOR GOD TO BREAK THE NARCISSIST SPIRIT OVER ALL GOD’S CHILDREN 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yup we gave our all to these people an all they done was abuse it 💯 BUT NEVER AGAIN!!!!
Thank you.....yes they needed us more than we ever needed them. Thank you Jesus for setting us free. Amen
That crook was sleeping on the floor of another man’s home belly empty marriage to a us citizen changed his life and mine ugh!! Romance scams are real. Fake Christian hailing from Nigeria 🇳🇬
She hit the nail on the head for me... i gave literally everything i could to this man until i gave up ....I was exhausted and so codependent and wrapped up in this man I lost myself and lost sight of who I was by the time it was over I thank God for the 3 years that I have been away from him thank you Miss t you have saved my life
Yes, I gave and gave until it all gave out. So true. Love yourself beautiful people.
Girl yes what’s the saying I coined… I gave more than enough❤
I need to hear more about narcissists always devaluing their current supply no matter how impressive they are- looks, youth, status, money etc. I need to hear that they will never change and the cycle never ends. Nobody can ever satisfy them or be good enough. Knowing this helps me move forward.
This video truly blessed me and gave me so much confirmation!!!!! I was married to an extreme narcissist for 11 years, drained me mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, and after much prayer and hurtful experiences with him, GOD told me to LEAVE!!!! I finally left, and got my peace & joy back, and he’s been miserable ever since! Not my problem anymore! Thank you Jesus 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Tell it Ms. Tea...the mold was broken after me...I gave my ALL...but NO MORE.. I'M FREE!!!! I LEFT NEVER 2 RETURN AND MY LIFE NOW IS BLESSED EVEN THE MORE!!!
Amen
He’s calling me and have a new supply lol I’m good on that
Amen
God is good 👍🏽
Ugh he got a new supply you are painted white now that he taking to you again outta block that bird unless you got some child or children with him then use the courts to keep him at bay that’s what I’m doing currently
Hello, 15 weeks without the satanic narcissist!!! I was in narc town this afternoon, her pub is still closed-i was near the door-no infos, i don't know what happend-could be anything!!!! I still don't hate her, i don't wish her harm and i forgive her!!!! Now it's not of my responsibility anymore!!!!
shoutout to the backwards walking giraffes 🤣💀
Nuthin but the 💯truth! When I left , he went down immediately.. pitiful..
Gosh l want the same testimony lol
My ex is dependent on someone else for every thing… shelter / home / place to crash, employment, money to eat, clothing… Funny he always had money for weed & 2 packs of smokes daily but never had money or motivation to do anything more. We could have had it all but looking back, IDK why in the world I even WANTED to try building with him?!?! Lord thank you for saving me from that spell I was under. 🙏🏻
Listen very carefully. They do not struggle without you. They already had back up supply before they even left you so they’re onto the next supply before you even officially break up. They don’t need you. They need supply..
Which is why, even with other supplies, they want yours too !
A malfunctioning appliance (u) they replace with another one(another one) that’s new or functional in the way they need-hg Tudor you tube okuurrr😂
@jessicatobias9371 facts
Remember the new supply isn’t identical to you. They tend to downgrade. Basically they miss your energy supply AND whatever perks came with being with you. They’re just with the next victim while they groom whoever is up next in their secret rotation.
This is good information...In all actuality the ex narc did not HAVE ANTHING 2 OFFER me especially bcuz it was a lie...Y WOULD I GO BACK??? Let us think about it...
I finally maxed out and cut communication with my narcissistic ex bf. I realize who he really is, and he knows it. I was always giving and forgiving. I have learned to let go and let him know that I want nothing to do with him. He is trying to get me to be his a "friend." I am DONE with him, and he can't handle it! I wish him well in life without me in it! Power, love, kindness, mercy, grace, forgiveness, perseverance, courage, clarity, sanity, peace, hope, and joy that I showed him, I now show myself. I thank God every day that I am no longer being manipulated, gaslighted, and made to feel less than! There is such power and release in shutting them out. He discarded me so many times , i got the final discard and he keeps trying to pull me back in NOT HAPPENING! The last time he almost drowned me in his poisoned pool of confusion. NO!!! I AM GOOD! THANK YOU, LORD!!!🙏🙌👏🏼
I am Super glad I stumbled across this page!!!!
WHEN I WALKED INTO THAT CRUSTY BIRDS LIFE I CHANGED THE GAME WITH LOVE , PEACE AND ME BEING ME.. I ALSO CHANGED THE GAME BY LEAVING THAT DUCK WITH MY ABANSCE 💯 LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Me too, I watched him for several months and planned my exit quietly. He didn't see me pulling that rug from under him.
@@kokopuffs1986 I'm proud of you we got this 💕💯💪🏿
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I feel so silly for answering his call yesterday after a month and a half no contact. He cried, begged, and asked me over and over again if I’ve slept with someone else. I didn’t answer his questions nor did I react to his lovebombs. We hung up & I haven’t heard from him yet. I’m disappointed in myself for allowing him access to me for several hours. I should’ve stayed SILENT and not let him hear me speak 🤦🏻♀️ now back to square one. He’s now sniffing coke, drinking alcohol, & sleeping around to cope with losing me. He has an arraignment coming up & his attorney said he’s looking at a minimum of 4 years. Part of me misses him and wants him back but I’d rather be dead than make that mistake.
You’re still standing on business because you did notmlet him come back, and that’s a win. Keep standing strong. If you went NO contact for a month and a half, you can do it again. You got this.
@@tburgess25 thank you for this! I was beating myself up for what I did but you have a point. I did not react to his advances nor did I let him back in. He’s called six times today already. I think I’ll just change my number & be done with this man once and for all.
He seems to be very happy without me on his probably 6th woman in 9 months.
He is miserable as hell😅 6th woman in 9 months and you consider that happy….. no boo that’s misery. He is looking for a woman like you but he can’t find one 😂
@@Gracecalledfavourfacts. He is bored with each supply and also miserable. If he was happy he wouldn't be with the 6th woman 😂😂😂😂
Period 😂
30 day free anniversary/no contact
God bless you.....stay strong. 🙏
God bless you....stay strong 🙏
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3 years for me 🎉🙌
Everything you said is so very true!
Rocking on
You are so truly amazing and inspirational Thank you Bless you ❤
If someone can pretend you don't exist or neglect you and intentionally harms you consistently then they don't deserve you! Remember, No one deserves to be mistreated.
Pockets touchy that part😂😂😂😂 I can laugh now Going on 3 years no contact 🎉🎉🎉🎉Thank u Telsha I have been rocking with you going on 3 years you got me through ❤❤❤
Me to 3 years 🎉🙌😂
God is good. God covering me I’m really a church lady truly I asked God to forgive me I love God my reading the word is more fasting and praying for my strength . I am glad to know what was wrong.Glory Be To God🙏🙏🙏
That's right Ms. Telsha. THESE WALKING BACKWARDS GIRAFFE'S!!! 💯💯
I'm still in the regretting stage of healing. All that I missed out on and wishing I didn't try so hard to make it work with them. I'm very angry that when I left they just play the victim. It's so disgusting.
Thank you TELSHA ❤. 🙏💯💞💪😘 No "One" person is ever going to be enough for a narcissist... Maxed Out 💔❤️🩹😞😇😇💪💞💯🙏
I maxed out a month ago, stay strong💪🏾
I thank Our Lord God for this woman,she is helping to encourage and uplift my and others alike,to know that Our God love us so much that he did not allow that evil person to harm our lives that God kept us to live and see the downfall of our adversaries.My ex who did all that to me is living everything she have spoke about over 30 years.He is still trying just like she said to come back,but my God and the support and love of my children are keeping me focused to never let him back.
AMEN. QUEEN. NO PEACE AT ALL. YOU'RE SO BERY TRUE ABOUT THEIR FAMILY NOT WANTING TO DEAL WITH THEM. THEY PUSH THEIR PROBLEMS OFF ON SOMEONE ELSE. I'M TOUCHING AND AGREEING WITH WOMAN OF GOD IN JESUS SWEET NAME I PRAY AMEN ❤❤❤❤
My soon to be ex told the insurance company I passed away, I guess so he can try to collect some money. The insurance company contacted me then submitted a fraud complaint on my behalf. Now how desperate is that? Make that make sense!
How dangerous is that you mean
Next level delusional 😂🎉
Action has consequences she must suffer for her evil Action and it is justify for her evil doing and I don't feel sorry for her at all and what she going through now I can careless now because she did it too me and others with no remose and payback is blank straight up from heaven gate their is no love lost from me ....
Good for u Gerald . Consequences are results of our choices and mine were uhm super questionable yet still having to manage the aftermath ugh. Child custody etc yuck for the next 13/15 years what a huge choice with huge consequences can’t change it can only accept it dealing with a narcissist daddy now😂
"That's on Period" 😂❤, Let them birds suffer in there mess , Clowns 🤡🤡😂, Continue to stay No Contact✌🏾Much Love Ms. Telsha ❤️❤️, GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏾❤️
I needed to hear this! I’m healing as we speak! Thank you so much for this.
My soon to be ex narc husband is sitting on a bar stool every night playing victim in our divorce while he has new supply. I'm flattered I take up so much space in his head. I'm living a peaceful life. And I will never be able to live without him. I practice self love and live happily.
My ex narcs family dont even deal with him. Hes homeless since i put him out and he cant even go to their house to stay
Good For You! God Bless You! He Is Getting His Karma!
Yup they are miserable !
Thank you for every single video it’s helped me understand NPD on a different level and made me aware of what I have been through without even knowing. It’s Brang everything to light and I’m so grateful to you ❤
His parents literally tried to put him off on me when we got married, yup. 43 years old still living with mom and dad, and an alcoholic and a narcissist smh.
My ex narc friend in church said he has other people to do things for him when I told him I had another job and I couldn't take him to the store anymore he called me a sucker. We haven't spoken to each other in over a year and a half. I have a peace of mind. He did a smear campaign on me to other people in church. Oh well.
Thank you Telsha!!!! I thought the new supply would solve his problems
THATS A SAD LIFE TO LIVE, TO BE PUPPETIERED BY A DEMON🙄😬🧐😶🌫
O I UNDERSTAND THE POWER OF ME" INDEED" GOD IS MY STRONG TOWER!!!!
IM JUST MAXED OUT AND WAITING FOR GOD TO REMOVE THIS BIRD!!!!
"They knew they needed you, but the game was to make you think that you needed them"
GOD, please give me more and more downloads and divine strategies to NEVER EVER allow any of these individuals into my life, my space again, in JESUS MIGHTY NAME! AMEN
THANK YOU SO MUCH. I REALLY NEEDED THIS.
Your so right I heard the new supply kicked rocks😢
Hi Ms. Telsha. My honest opinion of why I ever went back to a narc, the reason is so superficial. To be honest, some of the ones I liked were sexy and had strong sexual energy, a nice voice, well dressed and attractive and a strong feminine energy. So for me I liked being that sexually stimulated and aroused all day, the women I was with made me feel aroused. Who wouldn't want to feel extremely sexual everyday, and walk around with a sexy woman on their arms, who also makes you look good when you go out, lol is why I picked them! They love them, they high heels, and I loved that they would dress nice for me! 😂 Thank you for sharing today, this made me self reflect! 💯🙌🙏😊❤️👑
Good afternoon /morning Ms tea always speaking truth no matter what those narcissists will always be miserable nothing no one can say or do to fix them only Jesus can but do they want to be delivered and healed no they love evil tragic and lost.
This message is confirmation praise the lord Jesus blessed by this message praying 🙏 ❤
Ms. Tea ur hilarious 😅
I still love the narc, but I would never ever take him back I dont know if I will survive either. Have felt like dying since I blocked him in october last year. Even my mum is a narc. I blocked my mum two days ago so I guess my mum will not be in my life. And she had a smear campaign on me 2 days ago, called the police on me also chikd service. And now she is having my daughter the sick narc she is lying on me and smearing my name and have my daughter in 3 weeks. I hate my mum. I will hate her forever.
My narcissist is fine he’s in a new relationship getting married and having a baby all in less than a year. Glad their doing well and she’s getting treated better then me
You look great! Thank you so much for your videos ❤
Powerfully spoken and as always right on point, blessings beautiful we love you
Thanks & Amen💜🙏🏾
She's so beautiful!
Thank you Miss Telsha for another excellent, brilliant, wonderful, helpful, inspiring, healing......video!!!
You are helping us so much!
God bless you and our beautiful community.
Love and hugs from Germany! ❤
Hi Sista Tea, It's been a long time since I have been watching your videos. They have always been great!! Sista Tea, when you mention the narcissist's dusty britches, and pockets clapping in the back... LOL, LOL I think to myself, no Tea, didn't go there. Oh my word!!! You are so Precious, and helpful in helping to heal those of us, that gave these birds, our total all!! God Bless You Beloved Sista, Tea!!🥰😘💯🤣😂
I holler every time you say two walls 😂
Mrs T you are so funny 😂
Amen Ms. Tea
Thank u GURL!!! ❤️
look for me in someone else aint won't find me
I just want to say thank you !! You have helped me healed me
This one is for me for sure!!!
I do not agree, as long as their needs are being met by other supply they do not care, they will hoover while in another relationship for additional supply thats all. But they just miss access to you ànd not you, so don't ever think these demons who can detach from you and move on in the blink of an eye need you.
Thankful for universal downloads! Amen
“In Jesus name. AMEN- OK!? 😂🥰
Thank you sis❤
My narc is doing well has a kid and engaged guess he found the one
🥰 you rock !!!
Shalom
THANKS A LOT, ❤
Your so right
Does this include parents?
Yep, parents too..
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He left wanted a divorce went to mommy’s house she babied him and she enabled him she should of told him to go home and work it out! So I left and started dating having fun!!!!!
Love you😊
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Hello, how are you my friend?Are youHello, how are you my friend? Are you OK?
YA PLAYED YOURSELF, BACKWARDS WALKING GIRAFFE NARCS🦒🦒🦒
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