Neurodivergent vs Neurotypical on TikTok Compilation

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 11. 09. 2024
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  • @amberb.6395
    @amberb.6395 Pƙed 2 lety +47

    This just unlocked a memory. When I was about 4 or 5, I was at a babysitters house. Some kid asked if I wanted to help him with something. I said “sure, what are we doing?” He wanted to chase another kid around with a toy trunk and corner her or something like that. Basically chase her but we ended up cornering her. She was yelling, both me and the kid got in trouble for it and I didn’t understand why. I tried asking her why I was in trouble. All I did was help a kid when he asked for it. She didn’t explain why what I did was wrong, expected me to know why it was wrong, and in my eyes I didn’t do anything wrong. To me, it was helping someone that asked for it. Obviously now I know she didn’t want to be chased and it was probably scary for her. But nothing was explained to me and I had to come up with the reason myself. It was like a super annoying guessing game

  • @shadowfox933
    @shadowfox933 Pƙed 2 lety +52

    5:28
    "If a neurotypical spent the day inside your head, what do you think would surprise them the most?"
    *All of the sounds, all of the time.*
    I hear everything. The car pulling in down the street? Yep, and also their garage door. The doorbell? Always, even over cleaning crews with their loud ass vacuum cleaners. Someone dropped change at the other end of the store aisle? Definitely, and pennies sound different than the other coins because they're made of different metals.
    Other people around me just don't hear those things, and it boggles my mind how that's even possible without having actual hearing damage. My parents used to wonder why I loved having noise canceling headphones so much, but then I explained this to them. I used the example of our clocks; I could hear at least one ticking away, no matter where I was in the house
    Autism sensory issues are fun sometimes /s But on a more serious note, it can make for a good response for those weird ice breaker rituals NTs love so much

    • @bettievw
      @bettievw Pƙed 2 lety +5

      I think the thing that would surprise a neurotypical person the most about my head is the tiredness. Everything is annoying, everything is too much. Everything is tiring. I've had depressive symptoms since I became a teenager, but big life events make it so much worse. I wish I could explain to people that I do want to get better, but that the effort that it takes to get out of bed, to talk to people, to be willing to go through discomfort, it's all so overwhelming that it makes me shut down. I wish I could show people that I can see what I'm missing out on, and that makes it so much worse. I will get better, but it's more work than people think it is.

    • @OneSpicyDisaster
      @OneSpicyDisaster  Pƙed 2 lety +3

      this.

    • @abbienormals1669
      @abbienormals1669 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@bettievw I know what you're feeling, Bettie and ShadowFox. Its okay. Wear your headphones and only go to the occasions you're able to.
      /I/ understand.
      You're valid. You're just fine.

  • @abbienormals1669
    @abbienormals1669 Pƙed 2 lety +10

    I have an inner 'voice,' but my inner voice doesn't have sound. It's the impression of words without the sound of them.
    The first time I remember thinking of this was when someone asked if my inner voice was male or female.
    My only answer was... no.
    It's just... not a voice... kind of.

    • @thunderstrum645
      @thunderstrum645 Pƙed rokem

      For me, my voice changes
      Like sometimes it's my actual voice - or at least what I feel like it's supposed to sound like, compared to my voice when talking out loud.
      But if I was watching something recently, and there is a particular character or set of characters or a person/people that I like listening to or if they have a distinct accent or voice, my brain kind of picks it out and uses it in my head.
      Sometimes multiple voices or accents that I hear merge into one, or change fluidly - Sometimes I don't even realize this has happened until I say something out loud and notice my actual voice isn't the same one I'm hearing in my head.
      The voice in my head that I hear is still me, just different.
      I think that's the best I can explain it right now, but I think it's really interesting

  • @-Ray_Moon-
    @-Ray_Moon- Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +2

    One thing that makes me rlly upset that neurotypicals don’t seem to get is that I lost 2 bracelets that mean a lot to me somewhere in the house and can’t find them. They might not have come from anywhere special and one is just a plain chewlery one but they still mean a lot to me.

  • @HollyOak
    @HollyOak Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Some really good information in this, thank you.

  • @sadlittlesnail6424
    @sadlittlesnail6424 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    1:25 i’m diagnosed with adhd and i don’t have an inner monologue. it’s more like loose pictures/concepts. i can’t imagine having an inner monologue, honestly. like i can kinda talk to myself in my head, but it takes the same effort as talking normally. there’s always a song going, though.

    • @OneSpicyDisaster
      @OneSpicyDisaster  Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Omg the song!! Yes! I’m opposite. I cannot picture things in my head. There are always thoughts floating around in my head
 like thousands
. But it’s hard to grab one.

    • @fennaknaepen9906
      @fennaknaepen9906 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      I am on the autism spectrum and I have both.
      I have always had multiple people talk in my head. You have 'me' and my 'thinking companion', the last one is like a person who just discusses things with me like what I want to eat or something. I also have my 'bitch voice'. She's just a bitch and I don't like to talk about her.
      I also have pictures when I am writing or I am drawing or when I'm going somewhere.
      Does that make sense?

    • @ellieragsdale4398
      @ellieragsdale4398 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@fennaknaepen9906 Same! I have a companion in my head so I can have mental conversations with myself, or others (this companion can shapeshift and imitate other people's voices). I also have a birch voice that often comes out when i have mental conversations with people i don't like (who i would never say that stuff to in real life, but I'll think about it over and over again.) Also, my inner monologue is a bunch of talking and images stitched together, and the more thought trains I have at one moment, the more things stitched together.

    • @fennaknaepen9906
      @fennaknaepen9906 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@ellieragsdale4398 mine can imitate other people too!!!

    • @Sharkie.illustration
      @Sharkie.illustration Pƙed 2 lety

      I don’t have an inner monologue and a can’t see pictures I’m my head. Nor do I get songs stuck in my head. I can get the concept of words or songs but there is no sound accompanying it. I used to have all that but I lost it when I was 7 in hospital

  • @milamila1123
    @milamila1123 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    5:28 The rows of dusty, yet neatly organized filing cabinets inside my mind, representing my excellent long-term memory, and the pool of rainbow-colored randomness and junk representing my terrible, terrible short-term memory.
    Oh, and that one door in the corner filled with random shit, ex special interests and hyperfixations.

  • @Quunkle
    @Quunkle Pƙed 2 lety +2

    1:27
    An answer to this question
    Deaf people have been none to say they think in sign language, so there fore technicaly wouldn't be thinking in a voice and many off then can be nerodivergent. Also people could possibly think in words and images. This means that,like ADHD, it could be like looking at multiple things at once or has multiple images flashing through their mind, this also signifys that they would be fast readers. Also many people with dyslexia have no inner monologue, though this may only be with reading. One of the comments on this video has informed me that it also can be sounds or of sorts but no direct noise or accent but I thought that was what everyone had so I have decided to add that in.
    I conclude my case
    Pls add any information I have missed and any combat points in the comments

  • @Dw5653
    @Dw5653 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    People talk to illicit an emotion?........ OOOOHHH! Okay I get it now. How weird

  • @-Ray_Moon-
    @-Ray_Moon- Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Also as an autistic person I sort of don’t have an inner monologue, I mean I do but like I don’t because 80% of the time I have an internal picture monologue, not a word one :)

  • @lor3nz42s2
    @lor3nz42s2 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    2:11 not having an inner monolgue is a dyslexic thing.

    • @OneSpicyDisaster
      @OneSpicyDisaster  Pƙed 2 lety +2

      My fiancĂ© doesn’t. He is ND. It’s so weird to me

    • @alexwhat8582
      @alexwhat8582 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      ...I'm dyslexic... I've an inner monologue, never knew that was a thing... though I also have adhd and dyspraxia and kinda think maybe I've autism but who knows, so maybe the monologue comes from a different department of me messy brain...

    • @draalttom844
      @draalttom844 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      I am dyslexic, i have deveral monologues in my head