8 Style Mistakes I've Made & FIXED
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- čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
- Some MORE style mistakes I've made, and how I've fixed them! I hope this video gives you some insight into how I developed a stronger sense of personal style and that it gives you some ideas for your own style journey as well :) x
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+ SIZING
I am 160cm, 5'3, usually AU 6, EU 34 or US 0-2, XS, or Levi's W25. For other jeans (& other stories, reformation) I am usually a W25.
+ ITEMS SHOWN (in order)
SPENDING ON HOW THINGS LOOK
Stripe knit - Sezane James Knit alternative stripe knit bit.ly/3wvSHFi
*Brown trousers - Mute by JL XS bit.ly/3o5Q0pZ
Grey Tank Top - Skims S bit.ly/3EVWbnA
Bone Tank Top - Skims S bit.ly/3mRPmx9
Blazer - Sandro old similar bit.ly/3mQ3aI9
Drape Trousers - Tibi (purchased on sale) old bit.ly/3mQ2ylP
Yellow dress - Ghost old
White dress - Sezane US2 bit.ly/3GWl9EV
BUYING CLOTHES FOR A SPECIFIC EVENT
Silk Cami - Sezane US2 bit.ly/3BMyhsA
Navy stripe knit - APC similar bit.ly/3o9xNrP
Leather skirt - trying it on here, still deciding if I'm keeping - Ganni 34 bit.ly/3CTeeKv
*Pearl earrings 'Bold Pearl Hoop Earrings' mejurifinecrew.sjv.io/P06x5Y
INVESTING IN THE PERFECT BASICS
*White Shirt - Colorful Standard XS bit.ly/3o4r2r2
Blue Shacket - Sezane XS bit.ly/3qeJMXv
Stripe Blazer - Tibi (purchased during sale) old similar bit.ly/3mQ3aI9
Black midi skirt - Sezane same style bit.ly/3GYIOEF
*Sweatshirt - Colorful Standard XS bit.ly/3mQNx3e
Cardigans - Sezane similar bit.ly/3mPYDp9
Trousers - Tibi old
BUYING THE WRONG DUPLICATES
White blouse with peplum - Faithfull The Brand old
Cropped blouse - & Other Stories old bit.ly/3CV8LCG
Long Sleeve with lace - Maje old similar bit.ly/3GYjejj
Long sleeve other - Uniqlo Thomas Maier collection very old
WEARING THE WRONG COLOURS
Pink cardigan shown - Sezane bit.ly/3qaUApH
Blue Green Coat - Tibi (during sale) old alternative stripe coat bit.ly/3wnwIAc
Green Cardigan - Sezane similar bit.ly/3mPYDp9
Navy stripe knit - APC - similar bit.ly/3o9xNrP
OWNING TOO MANY SUMMER DRESSES
yellow dress - Ghost London old
ASKING DOES IT FIT ME WELL
Oversized blazer - Uniqlo J+ SS 2021 Mens XXS bit.ly/3o93aT6
Brown coat - Mango old alternative bit.ly/2ZZvXBN
Plaid coat - Tibi old alternative bit.ly/3wnwIAc
ONLY REACHING FOR BLACK ACCESSORIES
Black APC bag - mini geneve - for everyday I recommend the regular size bit.ly/3bQDnJU
Green bag - Chloe old - called the Darryl
+ WEARING
Sweatshirt XS bit.ly/3mQNx3e
*Earrings 'Small Chunky Hoops' mejurifinecrew.sjv.io/P06x5Y
+ TIME STAMPS
00:00 - 01:00 Intro
01:01 - 03:53 Spending On How Things Look
03:54 - 05:23 Buying Clothes For A Specific Event
05:24 - 07:39 Investing In The 'Perfect' Basic
07:40 - 09:30 Buying The Wrong Duplicates
09:31 - 11:36 Wearing The Wrong Colour
11:37 - 12:33 Owning Too Many Summer Dresses
12:34 - 15:07 Asking Does It Fit Well
15:08 - 17:06 Only Reaching For Black Accessories
17:07 - 18:14 Outro
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I love how you highlighted that there is a difference between having clothes that fit well and having clothes that fit the way people personally want it to. It's very respectful of preferences.
Thank you :)) I noticed in the comments a lot of disagreements about fit i.e. oversized versus classic, but at the end of the day, if it fits how we want, that's all that matters :)
"No amount of logos or luxurious style will compare to the luxury we feel in quality fabrics and in being comfortable."
*YASSSSS QUEEN, PREACH* so true. Not that I can afford any luxury items tho. T_T But comfort should really be #1 priority in my opinion. An outfit that "looks good" but is uncomfy will eventually make us not look good, especially since we would end up looking less confident, irritated, worried, burdened, sometimes even pained while trying to endure wearing such clothes.
THANK YOU so much! So glad this resonated with you too :))
Pieces competing vs. complementing each other is such a well thought out point. Loved it! Thank you for this video 🙂
Thank you for watching :)) It's something I recently learnt myself and has really helped me with knowing what to add/avoid xx
I’m a new-ish follower and I just have to say your content it so refreshing!!! It’s nice to see actual tips rather than just a bunch of hauls - thank you!
Yay, welcome :) Thank you for following along! Super happy you enjoy this type of content - always looking to make sure my channel is not just a series of hauls/new-in :))
Ugh, the wrap dress! My frenemy. They make my body look bomb, but they are surprisingly high maintenance. I constantly have to adjust the belting and/or the clevage. I am always self aware and uncomfortable while wearing them.
Absolutely can relate to this myself! It's a love/hate thing for me too :) Thank you for watching x
Such a good video! I've seen a lot of videos about wardrobe curation but this is the first time I've heard anyone talk about competing duplicates and I think it will be a really helpful idea for me to think about going forward. Thank you!
So happy you found something helpful here :) Thank you for watching ! x
yes on the coloured accessories! i actually wear my black back the least and i love my pink and red bag.
video suggestion: I would love to see you do "what I would wear in..." (insert different countries or places to travel). it would give us a taste of travel that many of us have been longing for. also you seem well traveled and like you would have some thoughtful ideas on what to pack for different places. love all of your content!
I think you would make a great teacher, I am really learning through your videos and I never get bored! Although my style is different from yours I love the outfits you show and how you explain the process of putting them together. Looking forward to the next video ❤
Thank you Katerina! It's funny I actually worked as a teaching assistant/tutor for a few years so maybe that's showing through haha. So happy you like the videos and I'm super excited to keep sharing them :) x
The part about the duplicates is really interesting. And I agree that a major factor to consider is lifestyle for sure. I have a thing for pretty skirts and dresses too but reach for shorts and trousers more in every day life as they often are more practical in my day to day life.
Yes, everyone has different style and can have different basic items. Great point and I totally agree!
Thank you so much :) xx
Such a great video! It's so nice how you direct your speech to the camera and show so many examples in the video!
I loved this video! I've never seen an content like it, and I absolutely adore yours sense of style! Have you considered ever making a video on the Kibbe body types and how different clothes can emphasise or de-emphasise body features? Id really love to hear your take xx
This video is so helpful, Helen! I learned a lot from this and actually have fallen into the "basics" and black bag trap. Good thing I watched your video before purchasing a new bag 😍
Haha Linda, thank you! :) Hope you love whatever you end up finding! Thanks for watching x
I never get tired of hearing your soothing voice, your tips are unexpected and precious as always - thank you!
Love your story about the orange shell sandals. Really shows that our style is something that stays with with us it regardless of the trends.
The only dupes I have are white t-shirts, especially long-sleeved ones for autumn through spring. I like having different weights and necklines to choose from, and they’re a staple for me.
I agree that a denim jacket is hard to style. I wore one regularly for my entire life until about 3 years ago, when I wore it out and didn’t replace it. I was able to get by with a bouclé cardigan and a short trench coat. Now, I’ve just purchased a vintage denim jacket for fall, but it’s an “interest” piece - fitted with a ruffled collar and a peplum. I have a few very plain, solid colour maxi skirts in heavy linen. They are mainly for church and can look a bit severe. I need to have a jacket that is casual but helps to lighten up the vibe :)
Love the distinction between clothes that fit vs how you want them to fit! I have multiple tops that “fit,” but I end up not wearing them because I want more room in the underarms. If it doesn’t fit how I want it to I end up fussing with it nonstop or won’t wear it.
Great tips once again! Having competing pieces seems so basic, yet everyone (myself included) does this! It makes sense by logic, to get something you already own - obviously the basic/piece is subconsciously in mind as something that already works, so it's a matter of being more cognisant of what's already in the wardrobe. Also loving how you've stressed that in personal style, we can wear clothes differently to how they're pictured on the models!! Well-explained overall, thanks for this video!
Thank you :) It makes so much sense, but sometimes when the shops release the same pieces it can definitely be tempting! xx
Your videos are so helpful and relaxing. Thank you very much for all the tips
Hello there! This was such a great informative video! Although I’d quite like to kindly disagree with you at 8:30. For example I do own a white turtle neck. I’ve been wearing it so much lately that it’s been hard to keep up with the washing, since it’s been such a staple for me, I can’t go without it. Due to this I’ve now purchased a white long sleeve with somewhat of a lower neckline. Those two pieces will compete now but not in a bad way since now I’ll always have a white top to wear.
As you clearly stated at the beginning: those are just what proved right for you. I’m stating this for everyone who might also find a piece of clothing they just absolutely adore.
Sending much love and health in this tiring time!
OMG yes to the basics advice! I think you can wear something for a very long time even if it's a little more designed or styalized as long as it is within your range of style
I really like the way you make your videos It makes me more openminded about my personal style. I also love blazers and the colors blue and green so I absolutely love seeing your outfits :>
So glad we share a similar love for blazers and colours :) Thank you so much for watching! xx
Orange shell shoe sounds adorable! I had red heart sunglasses 🕶 👡 🐚
Really love this video, Helen ❤️ Buying wrong duplicates is something I do a lot and this makes it some many pieces being less used. I also love the point about wrong basics. I feel basics are very different for everyone depending on their lifestyle and style preference. For me, I love blazers but it gets less used in my wardrobe because I work in tech and blazers can look a little more formal
Hey Harnish :) Thank you for watching! A great point, basics will look different for everyone - as you said, dress code can definitely play a huge part :)
Great video! I liked what you said about the fit; how well it fit me vs. how I want it to fit. Also totally agree about comfort! If I have to worry about the clothes and what it's doing, it's not enjoyable. I want to wear my clothes and feel confident that I look good and not have to worry about it when I go about doing stuff. I find that my personal style do change and evolve as I go through different seasons of life.
Really love your videos!🤍
You've answered "why I do not wear the lovely, white/cream blouses in my wardrobe"--they COMPETE with each other! I'll be sure to remedy by ensuring my purchases are complementary. Once again, an informative video presented clearly and with a such a warm manner. Thank you.
Loving this 😊
Thanks for sharing your style journey and tips.
Great topics to consider when trying to find my personal style.
Very good advice! Thank you! Re: denim jacket: it is too boxy and overwhelming on your dainty graceful frame: I agree that something draping is more flattering on you.
I had to smile when you said you had to many summer dress. I so guilty of that too 😅
Great video and so true! I HAVE to know where you got those brown pleated pants!!!! I've looked EVERYWHERE for pants like that!
I have been watching your videos and am learning so much. And yes; for years I kept looking for the Perfect Jean and the Perfect white shirt; before I finally came to realisation that I wear neither of those! I focus on midi skirts and culottes/ trousers!
Please continue to do what you are doing! (:
Thank you Gwen! I can fully relate to this, as I also spent YEARS looking for jeans + white tee too :) Thank you again for your support x
I agree with "reaching for black bag". I always purchase black bags since black is the safest color but I don't reach out for black bags as much as I thought. Black bags I wear the most are those with some elements such as studs, quilting, or chain straps and bag charms.
Excellent advice about duplicates! Thank you. I also like your advice about black bags/accessories. For the longest time I’ve been on a search for the “perfect” black purse to help go with everything, but the color kept turning me off. I also find it a bit boring. By of going the other direction and finding something colorful will help give me that pop.
Thank you :) !! So happy you enjoyed the tips. I know exactly what you mean as I did the same thing too :)
I make so many of these mistakes especially the duplicate pieces, glad I’m not the only one :)
Definitely not the only one :) I think we've all done it before! Thanks for watching :)) xx
Really practical tips
🥰 love it my dear!
So glad Emily!! :) x
Enjoyed your video even tho I am 66years old. You look lovely in all your outfits and your advice travels to any age.
Thanks look forward to your next one
This video is super useful, especially the tip about wrong duplicates, I’m so guilty of this 😅
Thank you so much :) Don't worry, I think we've all done this one before :)) xx
I really related to your comments about competing items. I think for me this happens when I don’t wait for the perfect item but buy something that is ‘close enough’. Then when I find the exact thing I was looking for and buy it, I no longer reach for that original item, even if it is still a great item.
I love your style 💕
Your explanations are just so On Point. Thanks again Helen, I’ve watched this three times already 😅
Oh I'm so happy you enjoyed this!! Thank you so much xx
I like to wear wrap dresses with trousers or skirts. It prevents me from worrying about flashing anyone :). And when it comes to basics, you are absolutely right, not everyone's basics is the same and many need to realize that.
A great way to make it work for you :) ! Thank you so much for watching x
My complexion is very close to yours and I totally get you in wearing the wrong colour. In my case I personally love almost any shade of pink in me since it's a "me" colour. Regardless of undertones, what makes or breaks your style is how you feel wearing that colour. Thanks for this content! :D
Thank you so much :) I love that pink is a you colour!! Honestly, when you love the colour, I feel like it often just looks great as there's more confidence in the outfit :))
I’m definitely guilty of number 1 and then I just never wear the piece because I feel uncomfortable in it. I do need to really think more about what outfits I create. Sometimes what I do is I buy an outfit so like I buy 2 pieces that I think go together. These tips are all amazing and some I think I’ve unconsciously started doing
Thanks Michelle! :) So glad these tips are useful hehe xx
perfect basics to me are the basics that work well for your style and weather. ive recently found im very much into layering with shirts and turtlenecks so those are 'perfect basics' to me, but they might not at all be useful to others
new subscriber here, save me so much during xmas shopping thanks!
You know what ? It's the exact opposite for me, pink is a color that I wear all the time but any blue piece of clothing I bought was a mistake x) I totally agree with the point but it was funny that it was the opposite for me
You made great points in this video, thanks !
I wear mostly dresses, but I find that simple, solid colored ones are much more versatile and less memorable. A floral print one with a lot of details will be noticed again, not so with a simple cream, white, black or navy one. They can also be changed into different looks easily with layers and accessories, and can be dressed way up or down. I just love the comfort of dresses and skirts.
Very true. Made a lot of these mistakes by myself.
Thanks for watching :) xx
I really love that light pink sweatshirt you wore at 9:46. It's just my opinion and I totally understand if you don't like that one. XOXO
I have the same issue with my denim jacket, just small and not as relaxed as I'd like it. Meanwhile, I have this lovely cropped white blouse that's oversized everywhere; the shoulders fall off, the sleeves are looooong (I don't exactly mind it), but for those reasons I haven't really worn it.
Hi Helen, thanks for all the tips👍 Where do you buy your vests? I really like them and they look great on you😉
Hi Rosanne :) They are from skims (never thought I'll be a skims kind of person but these are very comfy) and I have the exact styles in the description.
Did you end up purchasing the Ganni leather skirt? I loved it
Great video! I just wonder where the brown trousers or skirt at 8:34 is from? I love that color and I feel like it would look great in my wardrobe.
Hi :) They are from Mute by JL - I also have them linked in the description if you're interested xx
Comfort first. I agree, quality, natural-fiber fabrics make all the difference. I never feel good in an acrylic sweater or polyester top, I would rather save up and buy cashmere and silk, or cotton and linen for summer, even though I might get fewer items.
True! Esp for the summer time, I have a shared love of natural fibres :)
Can you please make a video all about blazers and what to look for (both fitted and oversized looks) I love the look of blazers but every time I buy one it just doesn’t look good on me and I just can’t figure out why.
Yay- you do you👌👍💪👏❗️
Can you link the sweater that you wear in 1:01? I love the color it looks so good on you
hahahah, I thought there wasn't another person who liked blazers as big as mine, but then I saw you :)
where's the pink sweater from (not the sezane cardigan)??
Where is the raspberry pink bag from?
Are your Levi’s the ribcage fit?
thank you
Thank you Anna!! :)
What brand is the raspberry pink bag?
For me I’ve started duplicating my favourite pricey items with more affordable dupes
That way if I have an outfit I love to go out woth, then I have an option of it that I can wear at home.
I’m 61, and my style and body have changed over the years. I’m not sure we can figure out the perfect personal style because it’s always evolving. Lifestyle, body, coloring (fading), etc., or just what we like best, keeps changing. I try to keep my clothes on the classic side now, so that I’m not always buying trendy items. I seem to wear longest the simple styles in natural fibers. I find that many prints, elaborate styles, unusual shapes and details (like statement collars) tend to date quickly. If I buy more than I use, it’s almost always because of a comfort problem, especially with footwear.
I agree that the perfect personal style is not possible, as we are evolving day to day - our lifestyle and also our preference :) That being said, I think if we are flexible and restyle things, we can always make it work :) x
I have a weakness for white blouses, I’m trying to stop buying new ones!
I love your style and I think its because we like the same color palette and I also like things to be oversized. Pink however look so good on me as well as burgundy and maroon. Anyway, would love to see more style videos from you. Xoxo 💐
Thank you so much! :) Love that you know your colours xx
Hi Helen and subs, Can anyone explain how to return Sezane items from Sydney? I am confused by the instructions on the website!? How do I get a return label? Do I take the package to UPS? 😭 Please help!
Hi :) I go through their website - there’s a return area and I usually get a Auspost label to print. I then drop it off at any post office :)
@@DailyHelenJ Thanks Helen! And thanks for your channel ❤
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Thanks for watching xx
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