How Self Realization Affects and Changes Your Relationships
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
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People externalize their own fractured internal relationship with themselves on other’s so they don’t have to deal with it in the present. We have all done this at one point or another. It’s all about becoming conscious and returning to awareness. The more aware you become, the less you blame the world around you and find true freedom. Also, I know I said “heal ourselves”. By healing I mean becoming aware. Not that there is anything broken necessarily. Awareness naturally brings resolve and connection with self and all.
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I personally think that identity has a lot, or everything, to do with relationships. Or our place in the world of other people. And I've had this strong impression that it is built out of truth and untruth, in the way that a form is shaped from a block. So that we are all a little bit of everything, and then we form our identity by discarding aspects which don't fit with the image we're trying to fit into, which we try to fit into because we're trying to fill a role in the world of other people. And we try to do that because the world of other people is our greatest resource and so we have a builtin desire to fit in. Even if fitting in means taking the role of a misfit. But what is even more scary than being one of the misfits, is being nothing at all. Or being so many different things that you don't even know who you are, because you sort of fit in everywhere and nowhere. And you can't tell if that makes you authentic because you have a weak identity, or fake.
Actually, I'm really just saying all this to show you how much I know about stuff. Cos you're really attractive. It's not meant to be offensive, even if it is. It's just the truth.
Trauma/wounding - stagnant energy/blockages. Health/awareness - energy in motion/alchemizing through forms.
Excellent video, very enlightening.
Beautifully articulated, so much truth. My family members labelled me as the black sheep, scapegoat, laughing as if thats a bad thing. Now it doesnt upset me as i know the real meaning. Thanks for sharing Janelle. ❤
@@tedwilson1477 Good for you and I the black sheep are usually the cycle breakers. Let them laugh. If you’re not there already you’ll stop caring about rejection because of how much it happened to you and more able to be authentic. 😉 Much love ❤️
@@Janellerose444 Yes I carried on following my heart/path which triggered them all. I was isolated. I went through panic, ptsd, depression, it broke me but somehow I managed to find the light to follow in the darkness. I'm still here and still follow my path. I never let them change my loving joyful spirit, I never took revenge, and although I wouldn't wish it on anyone, it's shown me how powerful the love we already have inside us truly is, and as a result I now love who I am ❤️
Ive been into the astral world sleeping. I just woke up to your video, as slowly ive realised.. its a video playing.
As you was talking about the subconscious. Ive wandered between them lines. Acually engaging with people. Multiple scenes but one beeing.
Listening to you like my higher spirit.
Telling me guidance. Release. And how you love me.
Thats been crazy yo.
Hey Janelle, your words really land with me. As my awareness has grown, I've realized I don't have to hold onto a version of myself that no longer serves me. Letting go of people who aren't a good vibrational match has been so freeing. It's incredible to see someone as young as you sharing such profound wisdom. Thank you for that! 😮🎉
Exactly what I needed to hear as I isolate from a family get together, to protect my energy and peace. Thank you for the uplifting words ❤
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Really needed this. thank you.
I can’t explain how much your videos help ❤️💙 I had to leave all my family behind and this really helped
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Hi Janelle! 🙂❤👍✌ Another reason that relationships are hard, is that we all have 83 problems and most of us have the 84th problem as well(the desire to not have problems.) So in a relationship, we have twice the number of problems to deal with, and it takes a lot of patience to deal with other peoples problems, when we already have so many of our own. A relationship presses our buttons and shows us all the places we are stuck. If we cant be successful in relationships, we will be unlikely to succeed on our spiritual path, so we cant just isolate ourselves and avoid the pain of life. Relationships are neccessary, I agree 100%.
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because all timing is perfect. Once seen/experienced, you can't unsee ;-) x
eating some gummies and listening to you beautiful is amazing!!!
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I spotted your Owl :-). Hello
I wonder how I can pick my friends wisely sometimes...🤔
@@emma-laurentinepasse-carlu7190 It’s a challenge for sure. We pick them vibrationally. I’ve found the best connections have been the ones that randomly came into my life, but often the ones that left the fastest too.
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*...check your Birthchart(southern Indian astrology). Moon will be in your 11th house(your friends come fast & leave you faster).*
Wow that's so interesting! Thank you for responding
In my own self unfoldment, I am finding myself less drawn to relationships. It feels like when I try to label someone as a "friend" or "lover" that's when they slip away. I wonder if it's a new Age of Aquarius phenomenon, where our relationships are becoming more about accepting everyone as they are, rather than possessing and controlling each other with arbitrary labels. It's more about being present and loving in the moment with others, enjoying their company rather than what they can do for you. The heart wants to be free!
I feel this. Same process in my life and idk if it’s the age of Aquarius or simply an individual stage of growth but it’s real for sure
Edit that. I am watching your video again and tonight, it feels as if you’re talking directly to me. New unit of time, for sure! You have an amazing talent to connect. Thank you. 🙏
You are brilliant. Excellent in your communication.❤
This is so true. I recall a woman who had Self-realization and told me she almost regretted it. Why? Because she no longer felt a need for her husband. In fact, it can be and in my experience often is the case, that others find Self-realized people difficult because they don't seem to need anyone! I also applaud you for bringing up the subject of narcissists. I recently looked into their characteristics (see Prof Sam Vaknin, for example) and realized the often profound negative effects they have on others in making people feel unworthy, even to the point of suicide. Having identified at least two textbook cases in my life, I have cut them off. The levity afterwards is palpable.
Hi your video was recommended to me congratulations on your channel
Amazing timing
Needed to hear this today
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Incredible video, thank you 🙏
You spoke to me at exactly the right time
It's spooky how these things work out...
Very wise words…the Greeks figured it out long ago….Know Thyself
Loving this 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you
Thanks a lot Janelle! I ❤you too!
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What’s your best way of finding others on a similar wavelength? It seems like an intuitive vibe kinda connection, but I wonder how susceptible that is to projection and wishful t thinking. Maybe there are some more factual markers or “tests” to see if it’s worth trying to become more intimate with someone in your life.
@@url4345 It’s hard to pin point anything. I’ve never really gone off logic when it comes to deep relationships. It’s just happened. Sorry it’s not tangible as you may want. You can’t be in the vicinity of someone if you aren’t on a similar frequency. Vibration is synonymous with feeling. Other people appear to show us a reflection of what we give to others. So I usually just let people appear in my life and usually I am taught a very deep lesson I may or may have not wanted. Some or blessings some are lessons. Relationships are so tricky, but make life beautiful if we can embrace them for the massive expansion they gift to us. I hope some of this helped.
@@url4345 I want to add that we attract things, circumstances and people in our life that reflect our hidden or suppressed aspects to wake us up back into awareness. Back into the innocence before someone said who we were was wrong. So relationships are always going to be this way! It’s so tricky! So the key is awarnesss. It’s a journey though, not a place to arrive. We’re constantly being nudged into the direction of looking at what we repressed as to relieve it and be more authentic and relationships are a huge opportunity for that… they come and go and come and go and every now and then one or two may stick. Love to you.
@@Janellerose444 Thank you, beautifully said.
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Do you have a favourite terpene?
Are you pointing to marijauna?
@@Janellerose444 terpenes are in all flowers. I didn’t even know cannabis was a flower until 6 months ago. They things they confuse us with, or the things we confuse ourselves with.
I am in love with you ..Jasmin from Sweden