The Power of Emotional Detachment | Overcome Emotional Dependency

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Komentáře • 72

  • @notagain779
    @notagain779 Před měsícem +18

    I like the distinction between detachment and indifference. I struggle with a relative who I believe wants to get closer to me, but I have reasons not to trust her. She doesn't know how I feel. In our family dynamic, it's not at all safe to be open and vulnerable. I stay detached, at the same time allowing for a limited interaction, even though she makes it clear that she wants more from me. I also put a stop to any emotional manipulations. Prompts to get me to open up go unanswered. She doesn't have the right "keys" to my inner self, and I know she's feeling frustrated by me. Thank you, Stoic Mind, for this thought provoking video! (I love the strong sculptures you show.)

    • @stoicismmotivation_official
      @stoicismmotivation_official Před měsícem +5

      I'm glad you found the distinction between detachment and indifference helpful. Your approach to maintaining boundaries with your relative while protecting your emotional well-being is wise, especially in an unsafe family dynamic. Prioritizing your mental health is essential, even if it frustrates others. Thank you for sharing your experience and appreciating the insights from the video!

    • @TheWholeDamnShow007
      @TheWholeDamnShow007 Před měsícem

      Let’s goooo! Good for you man!

    • @womanofvalor1356
      @womanofvalor1356 Před měsícem +1

      You are truly brave and courageous while being compassionate. Outstanding!

    • @sabiduríaestoica-k6u
      @sabiduríaestoica-k6u Před měsícem +2

      It sounds like you're navigating a complex situation with thoughtfulness and self-awareness. It's not uncommon for family dynamics to present challenges in expressing emotions openly and honestly. The distinction between apathy and apathy is indeed subtle but significant, especially when considering relationships where trust has been compromised.🥰

    • @debbiechambers4654
      @debbiechambers4654 Před měsícem +1

      Go with your gut and instincts and not your head, if you don’t trust their intentions then don’t trust them, keep listening to the stoic and thank god daily to keep you strong, manipulative behaviour is a gut feeling that’s usually true 🥰😇🙏🏼❤️

  • @womanofvalor1356
    @womanofvalor1356 Před měsícem +5

    This is critical for Us empaths

    • @chrismurray8483
      @chrismurray8483 Před měsícem +1

      ABSOLUTELY 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 I learnt this the hard way. Now life is easy-and I give my energy who DESERVES it the MOST.

    • @womanofvalor1356
      @womanofvalor1356 Před měsícem

      @@chrismurray8483 how do you discern who meeds it most? Do you have a practice to insulate your spirit from feeling what they are feeling ?

    • @notagain779
      @notagain779 Před měsícem +3

      @@womanofvalor1356 , If I may weigh in on your question about insulating your spirit. I think it's okay to have empathy, but if empathy pulls you into another person's business and it's causing you distress, use some discernment. For example, asking them what they plan to do about their situation, taking yourself out of it, while still lending them an ear with respect, but some emotional distance. This can send the subtle message that you aren't feeling a responsibility to fix their problems for them. In my experience, it has had to be learned and practiced. Each situation might call for more or less involvement of your emotions, depending on whether the person has brought the problem on themselves, or has run into a rough patch through no fault of their own, and is otherwise a responsible person whose need is temporary and reasonable.

    • @womanofvalor1356
      @womanofvalor1356 Před měsícem

      @@notagain779 that is great information,
      That I will utilize . Thank you

  • @janinesantana1
    @janinesantana1 Před měsícem +3

    I've been watching and taking in stoic philosophy videos for the past two year and can say much healing has blossomed as a result. This particular video is the best one yet. GOOD WORK, thank you!

  • @esmonhandle
    @esmonhandle Před měsícem +4

    I learned that by practicing detachment , one get a clear view and a big picture of one's life and what one is trying to achieve in life , what's interesting is how one gets ideas flowing in the head like never before.

  • @jahnabailey8337
    @jahnabailey8337 Před měsícem +4

    I feel so connected to this way of living

  • @christianhenderson8851
    @christianhenderson8851 Před měsícem +2

    I am a man that wants to change, my intellectual brain be free of enemy. Thanks

  • @stoicthinking365
    @stoicthinking365 Před měsícem

    I like how you can tell the difference between distance and indifference. I have trouble with a family member who I think wants to be closer to me, but I don't trust her. She has no idea how I feel. Because of how our family works, being open and vulnerable is not safe at all. Even though she makes it clear that she wants more from me, I stay away from her while still letting us connect in a limited way. Aside from that, I stopped any emotional tricks. When people try to get me to open up, I don't answer. There are "keys" that she doesn't have to my inner self, and I know that makes her mad at me. Thanks, Stoic Mind, for making me think with this movie! (I really like the strong statues you show.)

  • @mmmotiv8ed
    @mmmotiv8ed Před měsícem +2

    Yes, I'm emotionally embodied
    by a force greater than
    anything I've ever imagined
    experienced or expected.
    Love doesn't think twice 💯
    Great is thy Faithfulness ✨️

  • @user-qb4rf9mx6d
    @user-qb4rf9mx6d Před měsícem +1

    The best advice I have ever heard. Thank you

  • @IngeniousDimensions369
    @IngeniousDimensions369 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for being a beacon of light & wisdom on my enlightenment journey.🤝🤝

  • @tiffanydockins9863
    @tiffanydockins9863 Před měsícem +1

    Thank so much for the message and insight 🙏

  • @ENTPhilosopher
    @ENTPhilosopher Před 6 dny

    Thank you loving this detachment has led me to some profound shifts as of recently

  • @joaniezagorsky5735
    @joaniezagorsky5735 Před měsícem +7

    I struggle with this and it ruins my romantic relationships

    • @TheWholeDamnShow007
      @TheWholeDamnShow007 Před měsícem

      Same! I think it’s a childhood trauma at least for me. My mom
      Wasn’t in my life for the 1st 3 years. I was w/ my grandma bc she left for the USA to start a new life.

    • @womanofvalor1356
      @womanofvalor1356 Před měsícem

      @@TheWholeDamnShow007 are you resentful ?

  • @DorisWard1
    @DorisWard1 Před měsícem +1

    I really need to learn detachment.

  • @debbieaderinola1825
    @debbieaderinola1825 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for this!

  • @susanaespolong1518
    @susanaespolong1518 Před 26 dny

    Very self-empowering. Thank you very much.

  • @briandorsey682
    @briandorsey682 Před měsícem

    Fits me like a glove. Thank you!

  • @EdwinChibesa
    @EdwinChibesa Před měsícem

    Indeed it is an eye opener.

  • @eslynethompson9973
    @eslynethompson9973 Před měsícem

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @SamuelKonrad-jn3hg
    @SamuelKonrad-jn3hg Před měsícem

    This is super informative and is something I definitely need to and will practice. Eye opener. Thank you.

  • @kimmie9398
    @kimmie9398 Před měsícem

    ❤thanks!

  • @regismannas3448
    @regismannas3448 Před měsícem

    This is an excellent piece of information.

  • @krystalmerical9447
    @krystalmerical9447 Před měsícem

    Thank you for the reminder, I needed this right now in my life!

  • @Cheat-le7zw
    @Cheat-le7zw Před měsícem +1

    It caught my interest when I seen it I thank you for thanking me of having patience the end out come it almost always comes out better.

  • @nasirmahmood7874
    @nasirmahmood7874 Před 11 dny

    Thank you.

  • @sashikalakalupahana9180
    @sashikalakalupahana9180 Před měsícem

    Thank you 👍❤

  • @ishnnah0557
    @ishnnah0557 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much, its so interesting topics, I need this...❤❤❤❤

  • @EdwinChibesa
    @EdwinChibesa Před měsícem

    Blessed are you all listening to these powerful insight 👍🙏

  • @eileenmarter6993
    @eileenmarter6993 Před 2 dny

    Thank you

  • @rodneymiller682
    @rodneymiller682 Před měsícem

    Powerful and informative!!

  • @user-wv4bx9yr9t
    @user-wv4bx9yr9t Před měsícem

    Awesome

  • @pameet1
    @pameet1 Před měsícem

    Thanks

  • @veronicamorin447
    @veronicamorin447 Před měsícem +1

    I'm trying to do it in a healthy way 😢

  • @hejayali8523
    @hejayali8523 Před měsícem

    Amazing

  • @EdwinChibesa
    @EdwinChibesa Před měsícem

    Very helpful ❤

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 Před měsícem +4

    We're all gonna make it brahs

  • @KitaraAlex
    @KitaraAlex Před měsícem

    Great job and great practice and which changed my life 🧬 nice 👍 inspiring thanks 🙏👍❤

  • @OmazuruCastle-wo4qb
    @OmazuruCastle-wo4qb Před měsícem

    I expected this podcast to be more connected to life reality then being read.

  • @thomaswipf7986
    @thomaswipf7986 Před měsícem

    I like detachment vs indifference

  • @bonganiemmanuelcebekhulu722

    Listened till this far.

  • @krisgilliland488
    @krisgilliland488 Před měsícem +1

    These videos are saving my life right now.
    Thank you so much .
    🤍

  • @HereNnow24
    @HereNnow24 Před měsícem +1

    I'm having a problem with emotionally detaching from my narcissist ex

  • @NykkyCamacho
    @NykkyCamacho Před měsícem

    Yup

  • @anitalindsay6658
    @anitalindsay6658 Před měsícem +1

    helpful

  • @irisbeauty4493
    @irisbeauty4493 Před měsícem

  • @IsraelaNavarro
    @IsraelaNavarro Před měsícem +1

    I like it

  • @BethGage-bo8fw
    @BethGage-bo8fw Před měsícem

    👍

  • @mathiassari3933
    @mathiassari3933 Před měsícem

    👏🙏🌸

  • @ahnanda68
    @ahnanda68 Před měsícem

    Something happened after covid in the emergency room and my mom's death it's a little different now I thought I was good at first but I guess it's now a little more mature wellness

  • @pjproudify
    @pjproudify Před měsícem +1

    When I was in school I had many, many best friends. To this day I wonder why I kept changing best friends. I find it extremely difficult to find a best friend having grown older. Is that normal? Do people have too much baggage as we age? I thought that age is supposed to come with wisdom.

    • @notagain779
      @notagain779 Před měsícem +1

      @pjproudify, You might have gained more wisdom with age than you realize. It's likely that you're becoming more choosy about who you let into your inner circle. I think this is inevitable as we age, since we have had so many layers of experiences building up over the years. Baggage isn't always bad, I think. We have learned!

  • @einarbragason6182
    @einarbragason6182 Před měsícem

    💯%👂🧘‍♂🧠💪👍

  • @pjproudify
    @pjproudify Před měsícem +1

    Debt free is the new rich.

  • @JackDaniels-sf6hs
    @JackDaniels-sf6hs Před měsícem

    Lol 18:30 you got that right

  • @jameka4682
    @jameka4682 Před měsícem

    🩷

  • @richarman4440
    @richarman4440 Před měsícem

    Thanks this is important to me

  • @ianrobert6239
    @ianrobert6239 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you.

  • @BethGage-bo8fw
    @BethGage-bo8fw Před měsícem

    👍