I watched the whole episode, basically, the mom also has a childhood hurt that she got from her parents. She wanted to have a happy family but she didn't know how to make it because her parents never gave her love and happiness. At the end of this program, she tries to learn how to be a mom and make a happy family. There are no perfect parents.
I somewhat don't agree and in a way agree too. If she had gone through child hurt herself in past then she would have made sure that her child doesn't go through any of the shit atleast from her side. I agree with yeah she might have gone through herself but don't realise the fact and the same she is doing with her kid. On this particular story I have seen many people sharing their experiences on different media and 95% of them realised the fact that they also had gone through same and do won't do same thing with their child.
@@NV-dk3jz Yes you are right, but i assume that as a person before a mom, it is hard to magically realize what is exactly the problem on herself. She felt something wrong and decided to soleve this problems through this problem. Most importantly, the little boy gets so happy with his mom’s change. I just wanted to cheer the mom up. No perfect person in the world.
people dont change so easily though... I don't think she'll change for very long honestly. To me, it honestly looks like she almost enjoys hurting him.
@@NV-dk3jz Yeah but if you've never received love before, how the hell do you know how to love someone? Its like asking someone who has never learned English before to speak English.
In one Super Nanny episode in Brazil there's one clearly narcisistic mother who despised the 8yo daughter hard and I remember when the mother became afectuous with her and she smiled, but then she looked to the camera and realised it was all faked, her face expression turned SO sad, it was incredibly heartbreaking. Probably it is the same with this little boy but he is still too innocent to notice it. Poor boy.
This was ALL for the camera. She called him ugly for God sake. The lil boy had it right. She doesn't like him. Do a pop-up visit, and I'll bet it's worse for the baby. 😢
I was crying for the boy until I was angry. She called him ugly, discouraged him from studying and then from drawing, the boy clearly has abandonment issues and she still took every opportunity to slip away from him, assh*le behavior. While the dad is useless as ever, cause culture am I right? All dads get a free pass to be useless there. Grandma should take the boy and leave.
Yes she is fed up with herself and showing it on the boy. What i pissed off more is they have another baby. When they couldnt afford without two of them working then why to have another baby.
I don’t believe that mom or the family will ever change that easily. 😢 I feel bad for that boy, but i can see his future situation. Its just gut you know…
all of them can't literally change overnight. We also don't know if they gonna keep their promises. However, I still do hope that they're going to treat him nicely.
That kid is sooooo cute with his wittle glasses. He’s so precious. Some parents didn’t grow up with love. So if if they CAN give it to their kids they choose not to. It’s like “well I never got that so why should you? I came out fine”. And the nerve to want MORE kids?? Sigh…
I really don't understand why people voluntarily have kids when they are unable to emotionally mentally and physically care for them. Who's forcing you to have children? No one.
Unfortunately in Korean society, if the kid is abandoned by a family member, no one wants him. Their culture is different from western culture. Westerner care for the kid eventho it's not their own blood and flesh.
Some parents does not deserve children.. He is still too young to feel all this negativity. I am crying for this Boy.. Hope he will still have a happy childgood despite having this kind of parents.
Yesss like i just starter watching it and tears already started forming in my eyes, i wanted to pack my bags and go to South Korea just to give him the love and care he deserves :'( ❤
@@ktmpn4502they only got help because they could not understand why he has anger issues. This issue could have been solved if they had a little bit of empathy to imagine what he was experiencing. If you have a child you should try your best to raise them, not sit there and think about having more children and use corporal punishment on a 4 year old. 100% parents fault. People should understand that children are an investment , just like a business.
I see everyone talking about the Mom... what about the dad? He can participate more imho. I do feel bad for them because they seem so tired. It's tough from all sides. But at the end of the day they had the kids, the children had no say in being born. Poor little guy just wants some attention from the people he loves most.
Exactly the mom seem to be at her wits end. She has to go work long hours but also is expected to do all the housework and childcare. The grandma has to take the place because the dad does nothing to help. I think alot of women now see the reality of marriage and motherhood and choose to opt out.
I watched this and this triggers my childhood pain. I grew up with the same parents. Except that my mother didnt know she was doing it. If I correct her now, she'll take it as an attack against ger and cry. My dad knew his mistake, but he's kinda narcissist and is very good in redirecting the issue. I only see and realized this characteristics of my parents when I turned 30, that time I wondered why I was always depressed growing up, and why I cant stay in a job for a long time, or why I cant fall in love, or why I cant have genuine long friends as i tend to ghost them whenever Im so depressed, as I analyse my upbringing in the past, thats when I realized the characteristics of my parents I listed above. By my experince, this parents will not change. When the child grow up and he starts to pinpoint their mistake, catch them on their mistakes with proof like showong videos or qouting their actions and words in the past then if after this the parents acknowledge and really decided to change and not do it again, thats the only time this family's dynamic will change. But as for me, Im just tired. Nothing can erase a scar because it always reopen as society is filled with triggers. An emotional scar is not like a physical scar that can be treated with laser or cream, because it will always stay in our memory and pain. I dont know if the kid will even be motivated in the future to fix his relationship with his parents and if he'll even wants to stay home. Because if I have a choice, I will leave my parents. The only thing that's holding me back is now that they are 70+, they rely to m. I pity them, so Im staying. I wish I knew the feeling of love - I dont know whats the difference of feeling between pity, sacrifice and love.
you are not alone , I grew up in a similar way and its true that leaves us with big societal and psychological problems. This is still a very sensitive topic and a big scar that I cant get over it
When i saw tht clip i couldnt hold back my tears no child deserves to be treated like tht and i see the boy is deeply hurted and is sure abt this all i hope everythings alright ❤
@nyx95641 I am rly sorry for wht ever right now u are going through but my friend u are the strongest person if u still are going through and u accept and u know if I was in ur place I wouldn't take these all but ik u are strong now live for ur self and show those ppl wht u are !!!!
The thing is the grand maa is really great and is always there for the kids. I feel sad for the way they treat her ( the way her own son treat her has on inoact on the grandson you can tell that he's a negative influence on him) but i think a kid yearns for parents the most and with the birth of his little sister must be thinking his grandmaa is also not there so much. At that age all kids like is to be attended too and are the biggest attention seekers but he's clearly deprived of the love filled gaze of his parents and the guilt of grandmaa pushes her away too. The father is the worst one here just berating his mom, wife and son without any hint of responsibility. I literally cried for the kid been there and i can tell that the mom isn't a bad mom but the circumstances forced her to be that way she's exhausted, struggling to live in a tight paycheck to paycheck situation. The only thing that's problematic about her is the fact that she brings up talks about him not being good looking enough for an arts school while i get the intention in a highly appearance centric country but there's an age to everything and he's just 4 way too young for that conversation. Also, emphasizing their poor financial situation like that will push him further away, build a wall that's hard to transcend no wonder he thunk they don't like him enough. He feels like a replacement it's so obvious he thinks, now that they have his sister; one day they'll leave him if he does anything wrong or piss off his parents, facing seperation anxiety at just 4...
One thing I don't understand is that if both the parents were so much into their jobs , why choose to have children in the first place ? Like you can live happily without a child
These parents don't know how to parent. I feel bad for the grandmother and kids. Everyone looks so tired too. The audacity to say they want more kids.... they can't even deal with the life they already have. I hope they really change and give these babies the best life they can.
this whole video breaks my heart. This kid is adorable and innocent and just wants real love......if not corrected he could act ou tlater in life and be a bad kid. If i could i'd adopt him so fast. seeing him sad was just too much.
i honestly feel like the mom is gonna change not that quick tho like when the mom comes home tired she is probably not gonna want to play but still plays with ji but to an extent and will ask the grandmother or the dad to play with ji and abt the dad… yeah idk
Thank God no child should feel that way. I went through that as a child. I know his hurt. This really upset me because i saw my childhood and it still affects me until today.
This should be considered abuse. I have always thought that people need to get a license to be able to have a child - not just be able to pop them out if they can not take care of them. I am someone who knew I was to selfish to have children so I didn't. People need to take accountability for their actions and quit blaming it on their childhood.
I cried really hard today because I get to see this video again for the second time and I remembered how I get to experience this because I'm in a broken family. My mother used to compliment be being independent and I'm always showing that I'm proud of it but deep down I fear to express my feeling that I feel alone because I lack of guidance. My father always works tirelessly even before I study, the first thing on my mind when I was a child is that my parents already broke apart and I have to go to my aunt to see my father onece every weekend, holiday or vacation. I chose to stay every once in a while to my father side because I always feel I'm an exception maybe the reason is I grew up in my father side. One time when I was in elementary I heard my oldest brother said that they did'nt invite me to a go to eat outside because I was happy that I'm at the house where my father moved in years later then after that I replied "you did'nt inform me at all" then my oldest brother said that its a decision of my mother to not invite me because they thought that I would refuse. I have two half siblings back then and I'm the youngest in my father's side. I did not resent any hatred towards my siblings or maybe a little because of how jealous back then I am but it was all pin downed to my mother who made me feel that I'm suppose to do everything alone when I was to innocent and a foolish child back then. I'm 16 now and I have another half sibling from my mother again but I don't feel those hatred anymore. It feels so hurtful though to the point where I don't want my parents to be my role model because I got to see what they lack and how can they be manipulative towards their own child. I'm living with my father now with my other two older siblings. I want to open up because I never get to explain what I feel when I'm crying and atleast you won't see it. They taught me everything on what I should be as a parent by making me witness what wrong they did. I feel geum ji's loneliness
this is why they say how every child deserves parents but not every couple deserve a child... in the 1st half he really talked like a grown up. he's polite and well behaved.. such a kind kid. I hope he is now more loved and attended to
This makes me sick to my core that poor little boy I cried for him I don’t have hope for those selfish ass parents they can go to hell I want to hug him and adopt him so bad he adorable and deserves better stop having kids if you can’t even take care of them I hope they don’t get custody over him the grandma is the only person there for them i hope he and his sister goes to a proper care taker or guardian 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤
One can’t just blame the parents and ignore the way society and the state create these problems with high costs of living, material values, and disregard for the family that force both parents to work and leave the kids with others/alone. There is little support except from other family members and where the state does step in it’s socially unacceptable, ie, insufficient.
I know his parents can't give him too much time as he expects but I think the little boy also has some insecurity problem. I don't see him in this episode to play or do any chatting with his little sister. But when his mother said him that she should feed his sister and change her diaper, he really doesn't cooperative with this, rather he starts crying. I may be wrong but I think not only time,play etc, the boy has some insecurity problem which will increase in future if he sees some more affection or love to his parents toward his sister. Please don't totally blame his parents, his mom also being very busy with the sister. It's also happens to us. Personally my sister is 3 yr younger than me. After her birth my mum also gave her most attention to her. But I used to play with her, atleast I used to sit near her when mom was doing households. It's quite natural. 1st child has less attention immediate after 2nd child born. My father was a professor, and he had no time in weekdays. But I or my friends who have siblings had never these type of thought that my mother didn't love me.
I’m so happy he got the happy ending😭- and pls make a video of baby monsters debut… it was a mess, rumours of copying Ive in the dance moves, and the choreo sounds the exact same like Lisa’s song “Money” I need u to discuss it out
I have watched this, and I don't really, really like the mother. she's an idiot and not reliable as a mother. I like grandma though. The father is no help too, but he is slightly better than the mother. Bru. Imagine they keep this sh*ty treatment of J, the suppressed sadness of this child might consume him and he might grow as a crook child or he just went all depressed and unalive himself.
I do hope they were provided family counseling especially mom if she had childhood traumas. If she had abandonment issues like her son, it definitely can prevent her from being thr parent she wants and will continue to neglect her children emotionally. If she never learned love as a child then she wouldn't be able to show it to her son as a mom. Childhood traumas can affect your relationships as an adult too. People are just aren't aware of it.
Almost everyone who is saying that they don’t think that his parents are going to change. Are 90% not even parents! Try to have two infants at home and you will see how exhausting it can get. As you can see the mother recently got to be experienced to be a mother and not everyone is in one go the best super mom. She is clearly exhausted and I suspect that the dad doesn't include himself in caretaking of their children (but that's only a hypothesis) That is why she was trying to make him independent on certain things and let's not forget the toxic masculinity that leads to most of the world population think that a boy needs to act like a man even if you are a child( how much did you hear from parents that a boy must not need to cry because it's unmanly?). Although I'm not pleased with her method...I think she has been already told so I'm not going into depth. Being a mom is hard. I don't even think that she gets time for herself to simply relax. I wish the family and the boy the best and happiness 🤍
My parents were exactly like this to myself growing up. If the child then has emotional problems it is the child that has behavioral problems according to the parents. The parents are creating these emotional problems. This Jun is a scapegoat child.
I want to fight the mom so bad and just give the little boy so much love and hugs i want to adopt the baby so so so much and love him like I really need these parents to act right cause they are making me so mad
Ppl should know that's his mom din't only had him, she also got his little sister to care for. She must must must feel tired.. that would make one of the reason why she keep treat the boy like that. I'm 100% .. sometimes his mom can feel exhausted. She's HUMAN too. Nobody's want to treat any of their childrens that way.
I don't believe the change of parents may they made this change because of the show only. I hope the child services check on him at different periods. I don't trust the parents 🧐
İ agree that the mother have a loooot of problem but i am upset that almost no one is talking about the father he is the real issue here he is not involved with his children at all of course he is gonna say that he wants more because he isn't going through the struggle that his wife and mother are going through and the boy saying that his father is scary when he is mad and avoiding him is such a red flag i am worried that he is being hit by his father for "discipline" the problem is that society expect too much from mothers and only financial support from the fathers even though both parents are working i don't think that people can change so easily and fast they need therapy and especially the father i can tell that he is an abuser and they needs to keep checking on this family
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I watched the whole episode, basically, the mom also has a childhood hurt that she got from her parents. She wanted to have a happy family but she didn't know how to make it because her parents never gave her love and happiness. At the end of this program, she tries to learn how to be a mom and make a happy family. There are no perfect parents.
indeed
I somewhat don't agree and in a way agree too.
If she had gone through child hurt herself in past then she would have made sure that her child doesn't go through any of the shit atleast from her side.
I agree with yeah she might have gone through herself but don't realise the fact and the same she is doing with her kid.
On this particular story I have seen many people sharing their experiences on different media and 95% of them realised the fact that they also had gone through same and do won't do same thing with their child.
@@NV-dk3jz Yes you are right, but i assume that as a person before a mom, it is hard to magically realize what is exactly the problem on herself. She felt something wrong and decided to soleve this problems through this problem. Most importantly, the little boy gets so happy with his mom’s change. I just wanted to cheer the mom up. No perfect person in the world.
people dont change so easily though... I don't think she'll change for very long honestly. To me, it honestly looks like she almost enjoys hurting him.
@@NV-dk3jz Yeah but if you've never received love before, how the hell do you know how to love someone? Its like asking someone who has never learned English before to speak English.
I dont believe this happy ending,people dont change that fast😅
Agree.
Exactly i don't believe it
It's probably just for the show.
In one Super Nanny episode in Brazil there's one clearly narcisistic mother who despised the 8yo daughter hard and I remember when the mother became afectuous with her and she smiled, but then she looked to the camera and realised it was all faked, her face expression turned SO sad, it was incredibly heartbreaking. Probably it is the same with this little boy but he is still too innocent to notice it. Poor boy.
@@karenalves1156which episode?
This was ALL for the camera. She called him ugly for God sake. The lil boy had it right. She doesn't like him. Do a pop-up visit, and I'll bet it's worse for the baby. 😢
I was crying for the boy until I was angry. She called him ugly, discouraged him from studying and then from drawing, the boy clearly has abandonment issues and she still took every opportunity to slip away from him, assh*le behavior. While the dad is useless as ever, cause culture am I right? All dads get a free pass to be useless there. Grandma should take the boy and leave.
Yes she is fed up with herself and showing it on the boy. What i pissed off more is they have another baby. When they couldnt afford without two of them working then why to have another baby.
I don’t believe that mom or the family will ever change that easily. 😢 I feel bad for that boy, but i can see his future situation. Its just gut you know…
Why do they always blame mainly the mother? If the child does not live with his father as well 🙄
all of them can't literally change overnight. We also don't know if they gonna keep their promises. However, I still do hope that they're going to treat him nicely.
fr both parents are at fault! @@ktmpn4502
@@ktmpn4502they said family..
@@ktmpn4502do you not see who's in the video rn? Stop making this aby gender and sit down
That kid is sooooo cute with his wittle glasses. He’s so precious. Some parents didn’t grow up with love. So if if they CAN give it to their kids they choose not to. It’s like “well I never got that so why should you? I came out fine”. And the nerve to want MORE kids?? Sigh…
Sounds like my mom
I really don't understand why people voluntarily have kids when they are unable to emotionally mentally and physically care for them. Who's forcing you to have children? No one.
They aren’t going to change, I can tell already
Please check on the kid every month. If things still not working, send him to someone that’ll definitely treat him well and care for him.
Unfortunately in Korean society, if the kid is abandoned by a family member, no one wants him. Their culture is different from western culture. Westerner care for the kid eventho it's not their own blood and flesh.
The world want to adopt him 😭❤️
The line forms behind me! Maybe they should have waited to have another baby. Poor little guy😢
the way his mom speak to him, theres no fucking way you can change in 1 day knowing the fact that you enjoy to dispise your own child everyday.
Some parents does not deserve children.. He is still too young to feel all this negativity. I am crying for this Boy.. Hope he will still have a happy childgood despite having this kind of parents.
His so adorable i can't helf myself for this little boy so hurting watching him 😢
Yesss like i just starter watching it and tears already started forming in my eyes, i wanted to pack my bags and go to South Korea just to give him the love and care he deserves :'( ❤
How can they treat their child so bad? Such parents are emotionally unavailable, I just bawled my eyes out. They treat you the way they got treated.
I don’t’ even want kids but I think even I can be better than them at parenting. Tells a lot about the situation… poor kid
I think they are blaming the parents too much, they are both busy and if they didn't care about the child they wouldn't have gone to get help.
@@ktmpn4502They were on the show for money i’m pretty sure
@@ktmpn4502they only got help because they could not understand why he has anger issues. This issue could have been solved if they had a little bit of empathy to imagine what he was experiencing. If you have a child you should try your best to raise them, not sit there and think about having more children and use corporal punishment on a 4 year old. 100% parents fault. People should understand that children are an investment , just like a business.
@@ktmpn4502they went to ask for help because they found the child’s anger issue problematic…
@@ktmpn4502 lol, calling your son "not handsome" is a sign of bad parenting, they deserve the blame🥰
I see everyone talking about the Mom... what about the dad? He can participate more imho. I do feel bad for them because they seem so tired. It's tough from all sides. But at the end of the day they had the kids, the children had no say in being born. Poor little guy just wants some attention from the people he loves most.
you don t know everything is women ' s fault on this fuc**d up planet? hahah 😬 ( sarcasm obv ) the fateher is bad too
Exactly the mom seem to be at her wits end. She has to go work long hours but also is expected to do all the housework and childcare. The grandma has to take the place because the dad does nothing to help. I think alot of women now see the reality of marriage and motherhood and choose to opt out.
The father was the worse
I watched this and this triggers my childhood pain. I grew up with the same parents. Except that my mother didnt know she was doing it. If I correct her now, she'll take it as an attack against ger and cry. My dad knew his mistake, but he's kinda narcissist and is very good in redirecting the issue.
I only see and realized this characteristics of my parents when I turned 30, that time I wondered why I was always depressed growing up, and why I cant stay in a job for a long time, or why I cant fall in love, or why I cant have genuine long friends as i tend to ghost them whenever Im so depressed, as I analyse my upbringing in the past, thats when I realized the characteristics of my parents I listed above.
By my experince, this parents will not change. When the child grow up and he starts to pinpoint their mistake, catch them on their mistakes with proof like showong videos or qouting their actions and words in the past then if after this the parents acknowledge and really decided to change and not do it again, thats the only time this family's dynamic will change. But as for me, Im just tired. Nothing can erase a scar because it always reopen as society is filled with triggers. An emotional scar is not like a physical scar that can be treated with laser or cream, because it will always stay in our memory and pain. I dont know if the kid will even be motivated in the future to fix his relationship with his parents and if he'll even wants to stay home. Because if I have a choice, I will leave my parents. The only thing that's holding me back is now that they are 70+, they rely to m. I pity them, so Im staying. I wish I knew the feeling of love - I dont know whats the difference of feeling between pity, sacrifice and love.
you are not alone , I grew up in a similar way and its true that leaves us with big societal and psychological problems. This is still a very sensitive topic and a big scar that I cant get over it
When i saw tht clip i couldnt hold back my tears no child deserves to be treated like tht and i see the boy is deeply hurted and is sure abt this all i hope everythings alright ❤
i was that child, but my condition was worse than him. I never got over it and here i am now, full of problems
@nyx95641 I am rly sorry for wht ever right now u are going through but my friend u are the strongest person if u still are going through and u accept and u know if I was in ur place I wouldn't take these all but ik u are strong now live for ur self and show those ppl wht u are !!!!
I was deeply disturbed to see the child neglected by his mother
I think mom is having postpartum
The thing is the grand maa is really great and is always there for the kids. I feel sad for the way they treat her ( the way her own son treat her has on inoact on the grandson you can tell that he's a negative influence on him) but i think a kid yearns for parents the most and with the birth of his little sister must be thinking his grandmaa is also not there so much. At that age all kids like is to be attended too and are the biggest attention seekers but he's clearly deprived of the love filled gaze of his parents and the guilt of grandmaa pushes her away too.
The father is the worst one here just berating his mom, wife and son without any hint of responsibility. I literally cried for the kid been there and i can tell that the mom isn't a bad mom but the circumstances forced her to be that way she's exhausted, struggling to live in a tight paycheck to paycheck situation. The only thing that's problematic about her is the fact that she brings up talks about him not being good looking enough for an arts school while i get the intention in a highly appearance centric country but there's an age to everything and he's just 4 way too young for that conversation.
Also, emphasizing their poor financial situation like that will push him further away, build a wall that's hard to transcend no wonder he thunk they don't like him enough. He feels like a replacement it's so obvious he thinks, now that they have his sister; one day they'll leave him if he does anything wrong or piss off his parents, facing seperation anxiety at just 4...
Want to hug this little angel so bad 🥺❤oh baby you deserve the whole world ❤sending alot of love and blessing 💔🌺
One thing I don't understand is that if both the parents were so much into their jobs , why choose to have children in the first place ? Like you can live happily without a child
These parents don't know how to parent. I feel bad for the grandmother and kids. Everyone looks so tired too. The audacity to say they want more kids.... they can't even deal with the life they already have. I hope they really change and give these babies the best life they can.
this whole video breaks my heart. This kid is adorable and innocent and just wants real love......if not corrected he could act ou tlater in life and be a bad kid. If i could i'd adopt him so fast. seeing him sad was just too much.
I don't know after that much hate and criticism they get after that viral clip it's really hard to tell if they still take good care of the kid .
They have to make part 2 because everyone is mad at his parents action😂
There is lot of pressure to have kids in so many cultures. You really have to go thru it to understand
The mom was disgusting. People should cure themselves before having kids and continuing the abuse.
Just the mom?
I know that the mom will not keep her promise and it heals my heart for the child
i honestly feel like the mom is gonna change not that quick tho like when the mom comes home tired she is probably not gonna want to play but still plays with ji but to an extent and will ask the grandmother or the dad to play with ji and abt the dad… yeah idk
Thank God no child should feel that way. I went through that as a child. I know his hurt. This really upset me because i saw my childhood and it still affects me until today.
So the mom is just like a regular dad
Thanks for the translation!
I am afraid that the parents are just in on this because of course, they'd get some pay from being on TV or something
Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children...
Thanks for this!
Broke people should never BREED!! 🎤
Lol, then the human race would've died off a long time ago.
Goodluck to these parents when j grows up and they get older already they will end up in old folks home
Thank you for the translation!
Im sorry but what is wrong with these parents!!!
You are the hero we don't deserve. Thanks for saving me hours trying to find this episode.
This should be considered abuse. I have always thought that people need to get a license to be able to have a child - not just be able to pop them out if they can not take care of them. I am someone who knew I was to selfish to have children so I didn't. People need to take accountability for their actions and quit blaming it on their childhood.
I cried really hard today because I get to see this video again for the second time and I remembered how I get to experience this because I'm in a broken family. My mother used to compliment be being independent and I'm always showing that I'm proud of it but deep down I fear to express my feeling that I feel alone because I lack of guidance. My father always works tirelessly even before I study, the first thing on my mind when I was a child is that my parents already broke apart and I have to go to my aunt to see my father onece every weekend, holiday or vacation. I chose to stay every once in a while to my father side because I always feel I'm an exception maybe the reason is I grew up in my father side. One time when I was in elementary I heard my oldest brother said that they did'nt invite me to a go to eat outside because I was happy that I'm at the house where my father moved in years later then after that I replied "you did'nt inform me at all" then my oldest brother said that its a decision of my mother to not invite me because they thought that I would refuse. I have two half siblings back then and I'm the youngest in my father's side. I did not resent any hatred towards my siblings or maybe a little because of how jealous back then I am but it was all pin downed to my mother who made me feel that I'm suppose to do everything alone when I was to innocent and a foolish child back then. I'm 16 now and I have another half sibling from my mother again but I don't feel those hatred anymore. It feels so hurtful though to the point where I don't want my parents to be my role model because I got to see what they lack and how can they be manipulative towards their own child. I'm living with my father now with my other two older siblings. I want to open up because I never get to explain what I feel when I'm crying and atleast you won't see it. They taught me everything on what I should be as a parent by making me witness what wrong they did. I feel geum ji's loneliness
I can’t believe his parents, he deserved the whole worlds love. ❤
I think she's have post partum depression. She needs help
Yeah and the father isn't helping at all
Father is lazy looser @@marcell3891
We need a pt 3 !!
IF I EVER SEE HIS PARENTS ITS ON SIGHT
Do a video of babymonster! I really want to hear your opinion ❤
Make a vid on baby monsters debut pls it was a mess
this is why they say how every child deserves parents but not every couple deserve a child... in the 1st half he really talked like a grown up. he's polite and well behaved.. such a kind kid. I hope he is now more loved and attended to
Can u make a video on baby monsters atrocious debut?
OMGGG thank you i thought i was the only one who HATED it they clearly ripped of bp and their whole pre-debut and debut was messy
I loved the music video the lyrics… idk
@@danielogunbowale7260well bp did the same to 2NE1 if you’re in that mindset. All… ALL yg groups have the same essence so don’t whine about it
@@Blackhairmlssimp I’m not whiny tho just point something out
Why have kids when you know you won't handle them properly? And now if they have one, they has to take care of the kids properly
My childhood was bad too but I never treated my son like that I hope the parents really changed for good.
This makes me sick to my core that poor little boy I cried for him I don’t have hope for those selfish ass parents they can go to hell I want to hug him and adopt him so bad he adorable and deserves better stop having kids if you can’t even take care of them I hope they don’t get custody over him the grandma is the only person there for them i hope he and his sister goes to a proper care taker or guardian 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤
i cant wait for babymonster review
One can’t just blame the parents and ignore the way society and the state create these problems with high costs of living, material values, and disregard for the family that force both parents to work and leave the kids with others/alone. There is little support except from other family members and where the state does step in it’s socially unacceptable, ie, insufficient.
I know his parents can't give him too much time as he expects but I think the little boy also has some insecurity problem. I don't see him in this episode to play or do any chatting with his little sister. But when his mother said him that she should feed his sister and change her diaper, he really doesn't cooperative with this, rather he starts crying. I may be wrong but I think not only time,play etc, the boy has some insecurity problem which will increase in future if he sees some more affection or love to his parents toward his sister.
Please don't totally blame his parents, his mom also being very busy with the sister. It's also happens to us. Personally my sister is 3 yr younger than me. After her birth my mum also gave her most attention to her. But I used to play with her, atleast I used to sit near her when mom was doing households. It's quite natural. 1st child has less attention immediate after 2nd child born. My father was a professor, and he had no time in weekdays. But I or my friends who have siblings had never these type of thought that my mother didn't love me.
What’s wrong with her? 😭
They need to do an update on him and check if he’s okay… And see how the parents are doing.
Hes a lefty have that boy be an artist so he can escape from these narcissistic parents when hes older😢
This little guy is so sweet and deserves so much better
I guess all we have to do now is hope that they all stick to it… I hope this little boy is happy
Someone adopt yhay kid and report these parents . She and her hubby wont chnge itd just for tv. Jm worried bout him 😢😢
I hope it's not for the cameras
Where to watch the full episode with english subtitle? Plsss
I’m so happy he got the happy ending😭- and pls make a video of baby monsters debut… it was a mess, rumours of copying Ive in the dance moves, and the choreo sounds the exact same like Lisa’s song “Money” I need u to discuss it out
@@yongboxandmin o-
I wanted to adopt Jay....and i genuinely interested in adopting
I have watched this, and I don't really, really like the mother. she's an idiot and not reliable as a mother. I like grandma though.
The father is no help too, but he is slightly better than the mother.
Bru. Imagine they keep this sh*ty treatment of J, the suppressed sadness of this child might consume him and he might grow as a crook child or he just went all depressed and unalive himself.
Bro make a video on baby monster song batter up
The mom looks very tired.
True
I do hope they were provided family counseling especially mom if she had childhood traumas. If she had abandonment issues like her son, it definitely can prevent her from being thr parent she wants and will continue to neglect her children emotionally. If she never learned love as a child then she wouldn't be able to show it to her son as a mom. Childhood traumas can affect your relationships as an adult too. People are just aren't aware of it.
That way alot of people korea have depression early because his parents not enough love theam not enough care to theam
But why the dad is not doing more? Is all about the mom or the grandma ?!
Thank God his Grandma loves him. I hope those parents are ashamed.
Sultry you gotta do a video about babymonster's horrible debut,like i can't wait for your opinion about this song
You seem just as bright as sultry hahaha
I hope the grandmother takes care of him
The dad know do the same and spend time with the son, at least take turns
now you are babymonster & MAMA videos behind
Almost everyone who is saying that they don’t think that his parents are going to change. Are 90% not even parents! Try to have two infants at home and you will see how exhausting it can get. As you can see the mother recently got to be experienced to be a mother and not everyone is in one go the best super mom. She is clearly exhausted and I suspect that the dad doesn't include himself in caretaking of their children (but that's only a hypothesis) That is why she was trying to make him independent on certain things and let's not forget the toxic masculinity that leads to most of the world population think that a boy needs to act like a man even if you are a child( how much did you hear from parents that a boy must not need to cry because it's unmanly?). Although I'm not pleased with her method...I think she has been already told so I'm not going into depth. Being a mom is hard. I don't even think that she gets time for herself to simply relax. I wish the family and the boy the best and happiness 🤍
Evil parents,they are pretending just imagine when there is no camera
My parents were exactly like this to myself growing up. If the child then has emotional problems it is the child that has behavioral problems according to the parents. The parents are creating these emotional problems. This Jun is a scapegoat child.
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I think it is called untreated postpartum.
How can i watch the whole episode with English sub? Anyone?
What u think about babymonster debut
This video isnt abt babymonster pls move on
Alguien sabe donde puedo encontrarlo sub español?
I want to fight the mom so bad and just give the little boy so much love and hugs i want to adopt the baby so so so much and love him like I really need these parents to act right cause they are making me so mad
Poor little boy!
I want the neighbours and anyone in that building to make regular checks on Grandma and Eo Han.
Would having cumpulsary parenting education before getting marriage license be usefull ? Instead of a show doing the teaching ?
Ppl should know that's his mom din't only had him, she also got his little sister to care for. She must must must feel tired.. that would make one of the reason why she keep treat the boy like that. I'm 100% .. sometimes his mom can feel exhausted. She's HUMAN too. Nobody's want to treat any of their childrens that way.
Main culprit is father, he can't take care of two wants a another child too useless freak
I'm too young but i would love to adopt him 😔
I don't believe the change of parents may they made this change because of the show only.
I hope the child services check on him at different periods.
I don't trust the parents 🧐
What is the title of this show?
İ agree that the mother have a loooot of problem but i am upset that almost no one is talking about the father he is the real issue here he is not involved with his children at all of course he is gonna say that he wants more because he isn't going through the struggle that his wife and mother are going through and the boy saying that his father is scary when he is mad and avoiding him is such a red flag i am worried that he is being hit by his father for "discipline" the problem is that society expect too much from mothers and only financial support from the fathers even though both parents are working i don't think that people can change so easily and fast they need therapy and especially the father i can tell that he is an abuser and they needs to keep checking on this family
THEY TURNED OFF THE COMMENTSSSSSDSSS
I'm really kinda overwhelmed that I've not the perfect, as we know? What the heck is perfect
But really my parents are way way way better than them
wo these are some next level bad parents lol
Also the dad seem to be the opposite of the mom. He’s fine actually
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