# 213: Shift Your Parenting from Production to Connection (Guest: Pastor Kyle Idleman)

Author and pastor Kyle Idleman joins Dr. Meg to reveal why many parents today neglect to connect with loved ones in pursuit of satisfying the never-ending cycle of productivity.
Their conversation underscores the pitfall of this tendency (disconnecting from loved ones) and urges listeners to consciously reorder their priorities to form deep, meaningful relationships instead of only working to tick off the boxes on their to-do lists.
In this episode, you'll learn to:
✅ Identify the root cause of the greater emphasis on productivity over forging meaningful ties
✅ Navigate the tension between accomplishing tasks and connecting with loved ones.
✅ Consciously set aside meaningful time to connect with your loved ones.
✅ Pursue balance and build up the courage to seek help with your parenting.
The key moments in this episode are:
00:00 - Introduction
00:39 - Personal Experience
04:17 - The Dichotomy of Production and Connection
08:48 - Why We Prioritize Production
10:58 - Finding Balance
15:49 - Neglecting Self-Care
16:18 - Asking for Help
19:26 - Bearing Burdens
20:35 - Recognizing Sadness
25:09 - The Vine and the Branches
31:37 - Testing God and Surrender
33:23 - Disconnect to Connect
35:48 - Connection Over Productivity
36:41 - Practical Steps for Deep Connection
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