சுமங்கலி பிரார்த்தனை செய்முறை விளக்கம் Sumangali Prarthanai
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- What is Sumangali Prarthanai
This is a function meant for women, married with Husband being alive. In this function the Blessings of the departed Sumangalis, those whose deaths precede the death of their husbands are sought and those who died young before getting married.
The ladies who sit for the puja represent all the women of the family who are no more alive.
The function is presided over by the elderly lady members of the family.
Usually the kartha is a sumangali from the family.
What to buy & when to do
The menu for the feast is also very similar.
9 yds saree in silk or cotton needs be bought along with a blouse bit.
Preferable colors are red, yellow and green.
Tuesdays and Saturdays are to be avoided.
Fridays during the Waxing of the Moon (Valar Pirai) is advisable.
Wednesdays/Thursdays are also permissible.
Ashtami,Navami Thithis are normally avoided.
Panchami is preferable.
Who has to do & How many people
If the daughter is getting married, the event is done before the marriage. In the case of a son getting married, this is performed after the marriage, with the Daughter-in-law conducting it.
7 ladies and 2 young girls (preferably below the age of 10) are invited to participate in the function, to take part the feast and receive thamboolam.
The total number of ladies should always be in Odd numbers.
The maximum number of ladies allowed normally is 11.
What to give
Those to be invited, kumkum, haldi, oil, shikakai, vasanai podi are to offered at their home a day earlier
On the morning of the day, wash the 9 yds saree & a blouse bit with madi (shuddam) after bath & dry.
Pooja procedure
Kalyana kolam/Rangoli in the entrance, and semman & tie “ mavilai” at Home.
For the pudavai kalasam - put a square kolam, (padi kolam), over that keep a palakai & put kolam on that.
In front of that, put a kolam to keep the vazhai elai (banana leaf).
On both sides of the Pudavai(Sareee) kalasam put kolam for 2 elais , beside for elais facing North, East is preferred next
Fold the dry saree so that the “ pallu” comes on the top.
The corner of the same should face N. Fold the blouse & keep on that.
What to keep along with the saree
On the saree keep the following:
A small mirror
Oru kavuli ( 100 no:s) vethalai
Kali paakku
Urundai manjal
Nalangu manjal - (mix of haldi and chunnambu) on a vethalai
& bananas
Flowers - Malli, Kathambam or Roses
Maruthani on a vethalai
A ball of haldi & water on a vethalai
Chullu vella urndai in a vethalai.
A gold chain.
In a “ kudam” - water to which cardamom powder and dry ginger powder are added.
One sombu( Vessel for storing water) of panakam
One sombu of neer mor.
Coins to give ladies with vethalai pakku
On the kolam in front of pudavai kalam, put double nuni elai, one overlapping the other.
(Edge) Nuni should face North.
On other kolams, place elais and Water for Drinking.
Start before or after Rahu kalam.
How to invite
When the ladies arrive give them manjal mixed with water, to wash their legs, apply and welcome them.
Then give them chandanam(sandalwood paste), kumkum & flowers & ask them to take their seat near the elais.(plantain Leaf)
Offer all items on menu to the pudavai kalam first & then serve clockwise to other elais.
Show “ doopa deepam” to pudavai kalam first & then to all ladies.
The “ conducting person” should take in the hand akshathai & flowers, sprinkle below the pallu of the saree in the pudavai kalam & pay your respects( in mind) to all the deceased sumangalis of the family.
Show karpooram (Camphor) .
Now offer a teaspoon of Water to the pudavai kalam and to all women in their hands.
They are to drink it , start eating.
After everybody finishes eating, again offer a teaspoon of water to thepudavai kalam & move the pallu corner to the North.
One of the daughters in law should eat the pudavai kalam sappadu.
After meals the ladies should be given naeer mor, panakam & chukku vellam.
Then smear haldi on their legs and apply nalangu.(Mehendi)
Offer flowers, maruthani, chandanam & kumkum.
In a plate keep lot of vethalai, pakku, gundu manjal, coconut, kumkum bharani, comb, mirro, coin, 2 bananas, blouse piece - keep in their pallu.
Give akshathai in their hand, do namaskaram, take blessing.
Menu.
Paruppupayasa
Thayirpachadi
Vella pachadi.
Vazakkai curry.
avarai or kothavarai curry.
Poosani Kootu .
Pitlai(Paakalkai) .
Mor kuzambu .
Kadalai paruppu sugar kosemalli .
Paasiparuppu savoury kosemalli .
Coriander thogayal .
Ginger, mango pickle.
Curry leaf thogayal.
Banana.
Mango.
Jackfruit .
Ulundu Vadai .
Sojji appam .
Thengai sadam.
Lemon rice .
Kalathukku paruppu .
Ghee .
Curds.
Honey.
No Appalam or Vadams.
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thank u mami nice information
Such a lovely tradition, hope all are doing it
Thank you
Tq maam
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Very useful information to me. Vazhltha vayathilai vangukiren. Thank you so much for appa, amma.
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Maami superb information .... Yengathula yaarum Sumangali ah pogala .... Yenga amma kkavadhu pannanum
Thanks mami ..for wonderful explanation..
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I thank very much for the long expected & awaited information! Very well explained in n a very simple way... including all the necessary information! Very useful information to everyone sho believes in our tradition & culture!
God bless you both with long healthy life and happiness with your extended family...
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Every vedio of yours extremely nice! Keep it up!
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Thank you madam. You have explained very well. 🙏
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Thank you very much for sharing information mami...
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Pramatham...thanks...for details...Arumai...
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Namaskaram Mama,Mami. Thank u. Solla varthagale illa. Rombha sandhosham. Eriseri panna solli kodunga mami
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Very nice Mami
Thank you.
Informative
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vibhavlakshmi poojai patri sollunga...tamil l 108 potri yapdi soldrathunu sollunga plz mami.
Thank you very much Mami.. I do not have in laws (from the time of marriage now 21years) to tell me this formality. Even my sisterinlaw's don't know. Once again my heartiest thanks
Welcome
Mam,lalitha devi pooja seyum murrai patri chollavum,lalitha calisa
tamil lyrics share pannavum
Nice nice amma
Thank you.
Thanks for the useful video, maami. Please tell about, santhoshi maa poojai
Thanks.
Will try.
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Nice video. We wet the saree, semi dry it and then do the kosuvam. Kalyana samaiyal but with all country veggies. We also give panagam, sukku powder and powdered jaggery mixed. Then vethalai chunnambu with paaku vechu madichu to eat after food, nalangu for leg, marudhani and then thamboolam.
Oh...thanks for sharing the information.
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Nc video
Thank you.
Plz show.. how to tie the saree.. and how to decorate..
Thank you for this information..
Can we do this Pooja on 2/08/2019 that is on Friday. Since because I used to do this Pooja on Tuesdays.So had to clarify with you.
Yes...2/8/19 is Valarpirai Friday.
Romba romba thanks mam enakkaka upload pannathukku my name Ramakrishnan mam thank u so much
Oh..sorry.
The name shows Ram and Krishnan separately so I mistook.
Thanks for the comments.
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Maami, namaskaram.
Ungar kurala kketta than samaikkave thonnarathu. Naangalum mdu simmakkal anjeneyar kovil pakkam aaham. Sairam Namashivaya vazhga valamudan
Thank you.
Vaazhga Valamudan.
Sumangali prathan prathai sembala epti panrathu mami
Thanks Mami. Velaikapu seemandam tradition pathi podungo Mami.
Ok
Yenga family la ellarume ungal channel la follow panranga
Romba romba nandri.
Rompa santhosam
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Thank you for sharing this information amma. Aadi puram, varalakshmi pooja epady panrathunu ethu mathiri demo panni kaminga amma plzzz
Sure.
Mami nalla vevaram
Dear Ms.Jeyashri , Is this poojah for the people who died only as sumangali ,and or for unmarried females died after attending age ,and or for female children died within 5 yrs of age as little kids too ?. We are originally from South Tamilnadu. In our father's house , it seems 2 little கன்னிs ( below 5 yrs of age ) have died long time back and வழி வழியாக our parents and all relatives were doing கன்னி poojah now and then regularly. They white wash the poojah room and the adjacent room and conduct கன்னி poojah the same late evening with proper cleanliness only in that particular grandpa's house. ( Red small kid's skirt , flower & sweet பணியாரம் and பஞ்சாம்ப்ரதம் they keep ) . But now for the past 10 years, this pooja is not at all done, as no one is living there in that house anymore. Also , it seems that கன்னி still exists there is உக்ரம் in the same house and asking for poojah. Our relative ( my சித்தப்பா's wife , a widow currently lives in another city and her daughter lives in USA ie the owners of that house ) have decided not to sell that house to anyone to avoid future problems. Now me and my சித்தப்பா's daughter live in USA. Both our daughters here in USA in age 20s suffered with severe health and other problems for the past 8 years ( still some effect continues ) . Is it good to go to that particular house where that கன்னிs still exists during our India visits and do கன்னி poojah or is it good enough to do கன்னி poojah here in US alone or is it good to do poojah in both the places ie here in US & in India during our visits ?. If so, once in how many years ?. If you are not sure , could you please kindly get suggestion from experienced ,concerned persons and let us know .
Please tell sumagali prarthana Samayal Mami. Radhe Krishna.
Will try.
Thank you.
For seemantham, during which month of pregnancy the pondugal should be performed. Seemantham ll be done in 8th month bt for pondugal which month? Plz clear my doubt mami🙏
It is purely family practice. We keep pondugal before marriage only.
Does these have any vedic pramanam. Or just each ones practice mami ?
Srivaishnava sampradayathula kamyarthama entha vratham kidaiyathey. Even varalakshmi vratham is not a part of srivaishnava practice.
Each family practice only.
Any reason for that?
Black color serkacudathu. Kannipen srthuthan five members than kanaku
Is it only brahmin specific ritual or any sumangali can participate..? Is 9 yards compulsory for all the invitees
1. No.
2. No.
Thani kootu... will be in the menu
Yes.
Before calling sumangalis inside ,we used to tell the names of deceased sumangalis.
Yes we do too and clap hands while calling out the names :)
Mami 7 mugam vilaku etharathuku sonningale 1 vilaku ethanuma 2 ethanuma Mami pls sollunga
One
1 more doubt,can you put a video on how to prepare vazathandu poriyal,mainly cleaning of vazathandu. How to remove all the naar?
Sure.
amma sathya narayana poojai video upload panunga pls
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Mami maligai chamangal puthusa.vanganum.illaiya? Pavadi thuni vangi kanya ponnukku kodukanum illaiyo.
1. Amam
2. Amam
Any specific cast is there to celebrate this Sumangali poojai??
Absolutely no caste distinction in my opinion. It is having an "all women lunch program" in honor of all the deceased women in the family. If it is not a part of your family tradition you can arrange for lunch, thamboolam etc. may be avoid keeping the 9 yards saree, serving food in front of the mirror. I don't find anything wrong in doing it. Best wishes.
Any one can do according to their wish.
வரலட்சுமி பூஜை பற்றி சொல்லுங்கள் மேலும் வரலஷ்மி பூஜைக்கு மூன்று சுமங்கலிகளை கூப்பிட்டு செய்யலாமா மேடம்
Video la podren
Can you show how you decorated with banana leaves and tying the saree
It will be very useful for all of us because you have shown the decorated part only
Thanks dear
Will try
Hi madem .my mom died 3 yrs back as sumangali.i got married this year.
My mom thali is given to brother. Wife.
Thali is needed for the pooja .or shal i pray with saree
Not compulsory.
Thanks for the information Mami. How often can we do this?
Before any important festivals at home.
Please amma varalakshmi pooja video poduga please
Sure.
Ayyangar Kitchen thanks amma
Madam is this pooja done for girls to get married soon.????
Yes
kartha sumngaliyaathaan irukannamaa ..i mean kalyaanam aanavalaa irukanamaa?.. kalyaanam aagatha pen pannalaamaa?
pannalaam.
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dhanyosmin
Manni suhashini and sumangali parthanaium ouna?
Illai.
Suhasini pooja is done during Navratri praying Goddesses.
Sumangali prarthani is praying the deceased women in the family (died before their husbands).
Age attend panra function pathi detail aa sollungo mami please
Will try
age attending function details soolunga
Amma vaibava Lakshmi pooja video poduga please amm
Will try.
Thanks amma 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Pls solango
Mami ennu naraya vidios upload pannungo.naraya vishya share pannungo.
ok
After... eating..pannagam, beer moru,and sukku vellam...we give
Neer moru
உங்கள்சுமங்கலி பிரார்த்தனை மிகவும் பிடித்த து அழகாக விளக்கம் கொடுத்து உதவியதற்கு நன்றி
unga ph number kudikuma
manja pongal pannanum illaiya
Oru oru aathu vazhakkam.
மாமி வருடம் ஒரு முறை செய்ய வேண்டுமா நாங்கள் எங்கள் வீட்டில் ஆடி வெள்ளிகிழமை இது மாதிரி பூஜை செய்வோம் ஆனால் சுமங்கலிகள் யாரையும் கூப்பிடுவதில்லை மிகவும் பயனுள்ள தகவல் மிகவும் நன்றி🙏🙏உங்கள் குரல் எனக்கு மிகவும் பிடிக்கும்
Nandri.
Eppo mudiyumo appo. Varudam oru murai seidal nalladhu.
பதிலளித்ததுக்கு மிக்க நன்றி எங்கள் வீட்டிலும் இந்த வருடம் முதல் 7 பேர் வரவழைத்து செய்யலாம் என்று இருக்கின்றோம் மாமி மிகவும் நன்றி 🙏🙏
மண்ணிக்கவும் அந்த புடவையை என்னுடைய நாத்தனாருக்கு கொடுக்கலாமா
சுமங்கலி பிராத்தனை தளிகை என்ன என்ன பண்ணணும் மேடம் சிலபேர் கல்யாண சமையல் . சிரார்த்த சமையல் எனக்கு சொல்லுங்கள் நன்றி
after deepavali
கொஞ்சம் உரக்க பேசி இருக்கலாம்
சுத்தமா கேட்டக வில்லை, (Audio very low)
athu ponnoda serthu 5 pera 6 pera
5 per.
maami aathula maatu ponnu pannalaamaa
amma sumangali illai
maatu ponnu sumangali
thangai innum kalyaanam aagala
so yaar pannalaam ... maattu ponnu mattum pannalaamaa?
maattu ponnu pannalaam.
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dhanyosmin
Amma my anni is 30yrs old she committed suicide she’s sumangali what Pooja I must do for my anni who’s dead please tell amma
You can do this pooja calling sumangalis and provide them food.
You may also check with the seniors at your home.
Ayyangar Kitchen thank you amma
ESSpppo
Could not understand.
மாமி சுமங்கலி பூஜை வேறு ....தை ,ஆடி அம்மாவாசை க்கு or ponkalukku vettel இறந்து போன கன்னிக்கு சேலை வைத்து கும்புடுறோம் ......ரெண்டுமே ஒன்று தானா மாமி....இரண்டு பூஜையும் ஒன்று தானா மாமி
Rendum onnu dhan.