"Lust is spiritual sexual abuse" Yes hun you're right 🙌🏼 I'm in the process of healing sexual wounds, overcoming hypersexuality and this video has been super helpful thank u 🥺💕
I will be turning 19 at the end of the month, and have been considering celibacy for a couple of months now. This just gave me the power and mindful message that it will greatly benefit my soul, and I am so grateful for it. We are all connected, but if we cannot connect to ourselves deeply and fully how do we expect to create. Found your channel because of Hindz, and I'm so grateful that more people are sharing truly honest love and light. Thank you ♡
6 minutes in and I resonate a lot.. I got out of a 7 year long relationship and I recognize the need to be in my own energy. Sex is sacred and I want to be with someone who understands that. I don't want to feel pressured into sex just because I'm a grown woman and it's expected of me. I don't want to rush into sex; there are so many other ways to experience intimacy. I'm working on myself and my self-love, and I trust I will encounter a mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and morally aligned man when the time is right.
Yess!! I love this I have been celibate for 3 years and I truly feel so free and powerful. I don't enjoy sex because its not with someone I truly see myself with so I don't indulged in the act. Men have laughed at me because I know there's a man out there that will love me for me without needing to touch my body because I had it before, he's just no longer her physically so I will wait again. I am more wiser, clearer, feel way more lighter, and gotten closer to God. I know my love is powerful and I don't need to have causal sex to feel that
I love my celibacy. I am recovering and healing from my past wounds, observing my patterns and discovering deep relaxation and self-love. Its my second time practicing it. I went three years the first time and now it's been almost a year. I am waiting for true love. I have been married for 10 years and still not divorced. I am learning patience.
For some reason I've always thought like this about relationships! Some time ago I felt like I was too old school and felt judged. I've experienced celibacy for periods of times in my life even though it was not fully conscious. I had plenty of opportunity but I was not interested. I was in my flow, growing as a person. One of my core values has always been freedom and last year I was convinced by someone with whom I started a relationship that freedom could take the form of polyamory. As an open person having the belief of being to inflexible and old school with this and already being attached to him I accepted and I had really stressful months. I'm not a jealous person but I think you can relate to what I went though. I was not jealous when I started to not care about him, then I would care again and start suffering again. I tried dating other people and my body was telling me a big NO. This was a very unnecessary and traumatic experience for a person who doesn't do drama (I think I'm 95% recovered from this experience). But it helped me get even clearer in what I wanted. Now I personally know what this experience can lead you to. It is not fulfilling and it doesn't make you cool as a woman or as a man. Having sex is easy. Finding a connection and growing your energy together is rare. Thanks for speaking up. It's highly needed. Autonomy and creativity is Sexy and Powerful!!
Thank you for sharing this. I also attempted polyamory with a married man and it crushed me heart and soul. Although my foray into polyamory ended within a year, I still traumatized myself with casual sex for another 5 years after that experience- desperately seeking love and connection from men that didn’t care about me. It is only now I am realizing that intentional celibacy for at least a year is the only way to true healing and connection with myself.
This was incredible - I had multiple epiphanies whilst watching! This is the opposite mode of thinking than the culture I (we) grew up in, which I've felt valued regularity of sex with anyone over real connection. It's always an energy exchange and it's only in the last year or so that I've really appreciated that. I stopped watching porn in December and have decided to be celibate until I find a real connection (14 months so far), but this decision was sub-conscious before it became conscious. Thank you for sharing your realisations so eloquently.
WOW this is exactly what I needed to hear right now. After blocking him on everything and now in hermit mode, purging these heavy emotions and feeling so confused, this gave me so much clarity and I feel so empowered. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom, I feel so honored and blessed
I love this. I’ve been a lot more focused on my sovereignty this past year. Being a hyper-sexualised person by both myself and men - thinking that I was liberating my femininity, actually did the opposite as you say. I was definitely a slave to sexual desire and that lack of control over myself was not cute, and attracted a lot of shitheads. I feel so much more powerful as a woman when I direct that desire toward my creativity and achieving my goals. Like you, I feel compelled to empower other woman in this way too. We teach people how to treat us by the way we treat ourselves. Time to make those old fashioned values, fashionable again ❤
Feminism lasted from 1960-2020. A world wide pandemic showed feminist the value of males. The nofap movement on mens blogs and forums flipped the world upside down. The last conquering nation now has a King, not a queen. During times of war and peace people understand how one is achieved and why the other is necessary.
ugh! yes. yes. yes. I absolutely love this. thank you so much for speaking your truth - it resonates on so many deep levels. I have been going through my own journey, having given away so much of my power, of my sexual energy, in the past, because men made me their "muse". i played the game for too long, until i realized i have no interest anymore in existing as an idealized projection of the perfect free woman ("free" on the surface, but nothing but a onedimensional version of it, a male-gaze version of it). now i am truly freeing myself and feel better and more embodied than ever. and my energy often gets confused as an invitation, my embodiment of different archetypes gets confused with shallow projections of them that serve the male gaze - but i have nothing but pity for those who confuse it, they are looking for something they lack in themselves. and it is not my responsibility to fill it.
I felt chills throughout the video. This is Divine Timing for me! Not one lie told! Feel like I've been battling what my spirit wants versus my flesh. I truly believe that there is someone out there for me, but I'll admit I have doubts at times when I think about the current state of the world, especially the dynamics between females and males. I haven't had sex since spring of 2020 and I broke up with my ex in winter of 2020. An almost 4 year relationship was beyond repair at the time, even though I really wanted to make it work. He didn't respect nor care for why I didn't want to have sex at times (I was struggling with depression and other things) and it eventually lead him to "joke" about finding someone else to him actually doing it...You and Hindz have introduced me to the importance of transmuting this innate and powerful energy from a lower level to its highest form. I actually wasn't aware its something I was doing about 3 months after my breakup. I tried to have "fun" with myself, but felt empty, drained & unsatisfied. Writing my feelings about it afterwards eventually turned into a short story to help me heal my trauma. I believe I needed to see this video to intentionally be celibate to fall in love with myself again and truly recognize & honor myself. It's like I realized I haven't been sexually active due to circumstances rather than being intentional. Thank you for sharing this!
I’m so happy I found your channel today. You articulated the feelings and thoughts I’ve had especially regarding a recent relationship. A part of me kept asking myself why I wouldn’t just “put out” and be chill, but my core knows I just can’t. That lustful energy you mentioned as non-consensual and described as spiritual attacks, I recognize it now more consciously.
You’re literally spitting facts. I felt chills watching your video and I know that when that happens I need to pay attention because my soul is telling me something. Thank you
Resonate a lot with me! It’s been 2 years of celibacy and no sex by choice to nurture and get back to my creative power. Its a special journey! I feel like i am ready now, sex is so beautiful and deep ✨ i met BEAUTIFUL souls and we connected on a deeper level without sex, thats a thing
This was beautifully said and validated everything I’d been feeling and experiencing recently. Thank you for putting out this message and being brave enough to go against the grain of false “sexual liberation”
Thank you for speaking the truth. We need this. People want the truth.. they just don’t know what the truth is. You have spoken it. Thank you. I love you
wow. THANK YOU. SO SO SO much for sharing this. It's so beautifully put into words. It's crazy how much it resonates with a very deep intuitive feeling i always had about sexuality/sexualizing and/or physical intimacy but I always felt weird about it because no one shared/expressed the same idea. So thank you for being the expression of this part, for it to have been a reminder and a spark to revive this part of me, to give importance of my connection to my intuition
Thank you Gazelle. This video affirmed to me so many thoughts I’ve been having and you articulated my thoughts so ….. thoroughly. There is experience, deep reflection, and graceful wisdom you impart in this. So much gratitude. I feel I can breathe a little lighter now.
We are so much more, than just the parts of society. Most of us have forgotten our divine value. Your ideas truly hold inspiration and mindfulness. It was smooth for my awareness and felt really safe. Thank you for the effort to speak about this, you really know what you are doing and it is amazing. btw the clip is really beautiful, it's carrying the beauty of the process and the present moment.
When you mentioned the media, Euphoria immediately came to mind before you even said it. Another good one is the movie "Angus, Thongs and perfect snogging". I recently watched it with new adult eyes and it was such a cringe fest. I'm on an intentional celibacy journey and this video resonated deeply with things I've been realizing about my own past patterns. Thank you for your videos ❤
After 7years of "friends with benefits" with the same person who I also believed was my friend, my eyes were opened to the fact that I no longer enjoyed our arrangement & that I was only doing it because he enjoyed it. I was, for the longest time, willingly engaging in something that nolonger served me, in order to keep him fullfilled. How insane is that?... But, in meditation, I realised "you cannot blame someone for using you, when you allow yourself to be used" only I had the power to change that narrative. I was allowing myself to be used as his personal 'cum station' but as soon as I removed sex from our equation, I could finally see him with clear eyes... That man never loved me... let alone respected me. That was a tough pill to swallow but as much as seeing the truth hurt my heart, it definitely set my soul free😮💨 Taking your power back can never be a bad thing. 2024 I'm celibate & sober. Period🧘🏿♀️
This was like listening to the most wonderful song that soothes the soul. So deep, so honest...this is a start to a great book that anyone seeking true autonomy and self love would want to read again and again. Thank you for this share, wisdom and enlightenment, Gazelle 🌸✨
Thank you. 💜 I've been celibate since 2012/13, it happened naturally, and I feel so blessed by the process. BUT, I've struggled from time to time with self-gratification..... it can be a struggle.
Finally sb speaking about the sexualization of kids! I 100% agree. I’ve always wanted to cultivate that feminine energy in me, being gentle but confident, graceful but critical thinker. Could u make a video on how to celebrate femininity?❤😊
I always felt like i gave creative energy to all the guys i have had sex with in the past and im greatful to hear you talk about it because its like confirmation for me that its true what i felt
Such a great video!! Ive personally been celibate since forever, years literally at this point and I wont change that unless it is The One, to me thats a very easy and logical thing. I put all that energy in painting or i go for a run or anything really, its not a huge deal except that it seems weird to other people. I think its such a good topic to speak on and the points you make feel super important, and make me feel more 'normal' about my own choices, thank you! also- your video is so pretty
I found your channel through watching Hindz and I'm SO grateful for BOTH of your energies. Hindz helped me heal through this heartbreak, helped literally get me off the sofa and clean my space, to sit back into the love for self, and now from watching this - wow. Now, now is time to step into this rebirth, this flourishing of my divine feminine essence. This breakup has been the best thing to happen to me, I found myself in my solitude, my creativity is flourishing and my relationship to sex feels like its finally healing. Thank you for inspiring me to make the commitment to myself to go celibate again. I only did 2 months the first time because I fell inlove with my previous partner, who was also celibate at the time. There was more growth needed before I was ready to tap into this energy, but now is the time. Big love to you, thank you xx p.s. I'm loving the fact your Earth to Gazelle, my creative name is Earth to Ersa - just another confirmation from the universe! Grateful beyond words.
OMG. Thank you SO MUCH for this. This explains everything that I have been going through the last few months. I was spiritually raped and had lost my magikal powers specifically from a ‘girlfriend’ who wanted nothing more than sexual lusts and acts from me. I wanted none of it!!! Thankfully my angels listened to my prayers and removed this person from my home. Next is the rope cutting I need to do.
It's been 3 years since my last encounter. I wasn't in a good place and realized very quickly that the lifestyle I was living, I wasn't happy with. When you look at yourself in the mirror and can't see yourself, it definitely makes you want to change some shit.
This is a really great video. I have been on my own journey with self discipline and have come a long way over the past year by turning into someone who is in control of their mind and body's desire (well not totally). I have completely changed my diet, exercise, the people I hang around with, what I invest my time into. But restraining from sex with another is not something I have mastered at all. In fact I have been so distracted lately by lust and even when I have received what I was craving - it was empty and meaningless. I think fear is one of the biggest things which keeps me going back, because I am fearful of not meeting someone and receiving love. We like to compare and second guess our own journey in comparison to others who are in relationships. It's just so illogical. I realise how this is a major lack of emotional maturity because I am letting my emotions lead me and not my heart. The answer is to go inward and trust our timing. I love what you say about how celibacy will strengthen our relationship to god and surrendering to trust. It's so refreshing to see someone express all of this so openly and honestly. You have inspired me and for sure planted some seeds.
I practice celibacy out of respect to Divine creation, Divine connections, to myself and the one I will ❤. At forty+ I have been unconsciously guided to resonance to the ideas of my body not being used, by me or anyone else. To the creators creation: Thank you for this beautifully decorative harmonious space To just be.
Wow! This was beautifully spoken and visably capturing. I resonate with alot of what you put out here. Thank you for sharing. This is everything! You're amazing 🧚🏽♀️💖🌺💖🌺💖🌺💐🐛🦋
I fully support and encourage you to produce the very show you mentioned doesn’t exist. You’re right. It doesn’t. And we need it. And we also need you to create it for us, and the generations after ours. 🙏
I think masturbation is the biggest addiction tho, i don't know why they re trying to make us believe its something safe to do, that its actually good for our health.
Last time I even touched somebody was in October, it feels so freeing to take my divine power back. Your videos are life changing! Everything you said resonate deeply in my womb. 🧿
yes thank you so mucho. our creative and sexual energy is so valuable, it's time we act like it and truly nurture ourselves like we rightfully deserve.
Oh shit this is juicy🙏🏽✨💛 i love your authenticity. Keep honoring your truth! Thanks for bringing this up I relate to it. I’ve been celibate for almost 2 years now! Very random but you might want to look into goddess Artemis or Diane. Sending good vibes🌻🌻🌻
I followed your linktree on Twitter & I honestly needed to hear this video & ironically… I had a little Deja Vu while listening & that just gives me confirmation that I was supposed to receive this message. Thank you!
I watched this in its entirety and I would do it again. This is so good. Its like when you watch a bomb movie and when you watch again, you see or hear something you didn’t notice before… Welcome to Canada ❤
I have prayed search the inner part of my heart and soul and realize I'm called to a higher purpose and I chose to be celibate and even if it I'll never get married I accept my celibate journey and lifestyle. My purpose is much higher than casual sex and mindless living. I'm a spiritual being and I will walk in my divine purpose.
"Lust is spiritual sexual abuse" Yes hun you're right 🙌🏼 I'm in the process of healing sexual wounds, overcoming hypersexuality and this video has been super helpful thank u 🥺💕
May I ask how do you overcome it? Hyper-sexuality.
I will be turning 19 at the end of the month, and have been considering celibacy for a couple of months now. This just gave me the power and mindful message that it will greatly benefit my soul, and I am so grateful for it. We are all connected, but if we cannot connect to ourselves deeply and fully how do we expect to create. Found your channel because of Hindz, and I'm so grateful that more people are sharing truly honest love and light. Thank you ♡
So proud of you! ❤️
At 19 pace yourself
@@siobhanmcgregor2557 everyone has their own journey
6 minutes in and I resonate a lot.. I got out of a 7 year long relationship and I recognize the need to be in my own energy. Sex is sacred and I want to be with someone who understands that. I don't want to feel pressured into sex just because I'm a grown woman and it's expected of me. I don't want to rush into sex; there are so many other ways to experience intimacy. I'm working on myself and my self-love, and I trust I will encounter a mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and morally aligned man when the time is right.
Yess!! I love this I have been celibate for 3 years and I truly feel so free and powerful. I don't enjoy sex because its not with someone I truly see myself with so I don't indulged in the act. Men have laughed at me because I know there's a man out there that will love me for me without needing to touch my body because I had it before, he's just no longer her physically so I will wait again. I am more wiser, clearer, feel way more lighter, and gotten closer to God. I know my love is powerful and I don't need to have causal sex to feel that
I love my celibacy. I am recovering and healing from my past wounds, observing my patterns and discovering deep relaxation and self-love. Its my second time practicing it. I went three years the first time and now it's been almost a year. I am waiting for true love. I have been married for 10 years and still not divorced. I am learning patience.
This video holds profound power to change the whole world
Yes! Thank you!
Agreed! ❤️
4 months celibate! this video came in perfect timing. Im so proud of myself for reclaiming my energy
So proud of you! & We love divine timing. 🤍✨
Divine timing is REAL. Feeling so blessed and filled with gratitude after this. Thank you luv so very much💜
Yes!! My pleasure, truly. ❤️
For some reason I've always thought like this about relationships! Some time ago I felt like I was too old school and felt judged. I've experienced celibacy for periods of times in my life even though it was not fully conscious. I had plenty of opportunity but I was not interested. I was in my flow, growing as a person. One of my core values has always been freedom and last year I was convinced by someone with whom I started a relationship that freedom could take the form of polyamory. As an open person having the belief of being to inflexible and old school with this and already being attached to him I accepted and I had really stressful months. I'm not a jealous person but I think you can relate to what I went though. I was not jealous when I started to not care about him, then I would care again and start suffering again. I tried dating other people and my body was telling me a big NO. This was a very unnecessary and traumatic experience for a person who doesn't do drama (I think I'm 95% recovered from this experience). But it helped me get even clearer in what I wanted.
Now I personally know what this experience can lead you to. It is not fulfilling and it doesn't make you cool as a woman or as a man. Having sex is easy. Finding a connection and growing your energy together is rare. Thanks for speaking up. It's highly needed. Autonomy and creativity is Sexy and Powerful!!
Yes!! 🌹🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing this. I also attempted polyamory with a married man and it crushed me heart and soul. Although my foray into polyamory ended within a year, I still traumatized myself with casual sex for another 5 years after that experience- desperately seeking love and connection from men that didn’t care about me. It is only now I am realizing that intentional celibacy for at least a year is the only way to true healing and connection with myself.
celibacy is so sacred and beautiful
I needed this 😭 Thank you for this. It came at the right time. You are out here saving Souls. Keep going girl, cook.... and don't you stop. ❤️❤️☺️
This was incredible - I had multiple epiphanies whilst watching! This is the opposite mode of thinking than the culture I (we) grew up in, which I've felt valued regularity of sex with anyone over real connection. It's always an energy exchange and it's only in the last year or so that I've really appreciated that. I stopped watching porn in December and have decided to be celibate until I find a real connection (14 months so far), but this decision was sub-conscious before it became conscious. Thank you for sharing your realisations so eloquently.
WOW this is exactly what I needed to hear right now. After blocking him on everything and now in hermit mode, purging these heavy emotions and feeling so confused, this gave me so much clarity and I feel so empowered. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom, I feel so honored and blessed
I love this. I’ve been a lot more focused on my sovereignty this past year. Being a hyper-sexualised person by both myself and men - thinking that I was liberating my femininity, actually did the opposite as you say. I was definitely a slave to sexual desire and that lack of control over myself was not cute, and attracted a lot of shitheads. I feel so much more powerful as a woman when I direct that desire toward my creativity and achieving my goals. Like you, I feel compelled to empower other woman in this way too. We teach people how to treat us by the way we treat ourselves. Time to make those old fashioned values, fashionable again ❤
Feminism lasted from 1960-2020. A world wide pandemic showed feminist the value of males. The nofap movement on mens blogs and forums flipped the world upside down. The last conquering nation now has a King, not a queen. During times of war and peace people understand how one is achieved and why the other is necessary.
Love this! I am just embarking on my intentional celibacy journey, and comments like yours gives me hope that it will be an amazing journey.
ugh! yes. yes. yes. I absolutely love this. thank you so much for speaking your truth - it resonates on so many deep levels. I have been going through my own journey, having given away so much of my power, of my sexual energy, in the past, because men made me their "muse". i played the game for too long, until i realized i have no interest anymore in existing as an idealized projection of the perfect free woman ("free" on the surface, but nothing but a onedimensional version of it, a male-gaze version of it). now i am truly freeing myself and feel better and more embodied than ever. and my energy often gets confused as an invitation, my embodiment of different archetypes gets confused with shallow projections of them that serve the male gaze - but i have nothing but pity for those who confuse it, they are looking for something they lack in themselves. and it is not my responsibility to fill it.
I felt chills throughout the video. This is Divine Timing for me! Not one lie told! Feel like I've been battling what my spirit wants versus my flesh. I truly believe that there is someone out there for me, but I'll admit I have doubts at times when I think about the current state of the world, especially the dynamics between females and males. I haven't had sex since spring of 2020 and I broke up with my ex in winter of 2020. An almost 4 year relationship was beyond repair at the time, even though I really wanted to make it work. He didn't respect nor care for why I didn't want to have sex at times (I was struggling with depression and other things) and it eventually lead him to "joke" about finding someone else to him actually doing it...You and Hindz have introduced me to the importance of transmuting this innate and powerful energy from a lower level to its highest form. I actually wasn't aware its something I was doing about 3 months after my breakup. I tried to have "fun" with myself, but felt empty, drained & unsatisfied. Writing my feelings about it afterwards eventually turned into a short story to help me heal my trauma. I believe I needed to see this video to intentionally be celibate to fall in love with myself again and truly recognize & honor myself. It's like I realized I haven't been sexually active due to circumstances rather than being intentional. Thank you for sharing this!
Such a beautiful reflection. I’m so proud of you and your growth. ❤️🌹
I’m so happy I found your channel today. You articulated the feelings and thoughts I’ve had especially regarding a recent relationship. A part of me kept asking myself why I wouldn’t just “put out” and be chill, but my core knows I just can’t. That lustful energy you mentioned as non-consensual and described as spiritual attacks, I recognize it now more consciously.
You’re literally spitting facts. I felt chills watching your video and I know that when that happens I need to pay attention because my soul is telling me something. Thank you
❤️❤️❤️
Resonate a lot with me! It’s been 2 years of celibacy and no sex by choice to nurture and get back to my creative power. Its a special journey! I feel like i am ready now, sex is so beautiful and deep ✨ i met BEAUTIFUL souls and we connected on a deeper level without sex, thats a thing
Please do more “talking” videos like these or start a podcast. The information you preach really hits me in the way I need it to
I definitely will! ❣️
This was beautifully said and validated everything I’d been feeling and experiencing recently. Thank you for putting out this message and being brave enough to go against the grain of false “sexual liberation”
As a SA survivor, this message and perspective is really beautiful and empowering. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 💫
Thank you for speaking the truth. We need this. People want the truth.. they just don’t know what the truth is. You have spoken it. Thank you. I love you
I love you too! ❤️
*"A mind that can not overcome lust is a mind that is weakening its purest form of creativity." Wow! @ **18:17*
you have no idea how much I needed this 🙏🏽 blessings ✨✨✨✨
Blessing to you! ❤️🌹✨
🍃Such a potent message 🔥🔥🔥
🙏🏾♥️ thank you for listening!
wow. THANK YOU. SO SO SO much for sharing this. It's so beautifully put into words. It's crazy how much it resonates with a very deep intuitive feeling i always had about sexuality/sexualizing and/or physical intimacy but I always felt weird about it because no one shared/expressed the same idea. So thank you for being the expression of this part, for it to have been a reminder and a spark to revive this part of me, to give importance of my connection to my intuition
I agree! We cannot be controlled only mislead. Thank you for that reflection! ♥️
I LOVE YOU. SPEAK YOUR TRUTH QUEEN. you make me laugh, cry, and praise! I adore your work!
I love you too! ❤️✨
@@GazelleMonet
please don’t ever stop making content i love ur words
Thank you Gazelle. This video affirmed to me so many thoughts I’ve been having and you articulated my thoughts so ….. thoroughly. There is experience, deep reflection, and graceful wisdom you impart in this. So much gratitude. I feel I can breathe a little lighter now.
This thumbnail made me subscribe and I love when this vid randomly gets recommended to me!
Love the song in the beginning
We are so much more, than just the parts of society. Most of us have forgotten our divine value. Your ideas truly hold inspiration and mindfulness. It was smooth for my awareness and felt really safe. Thank you for the effort to speak about this, you really know what you are doing and it is amazing. btw the clip is really beautiful, it's carrying the beauty of the process and the present moment.
I think this video just saved my sanity…my life. Bless you soul sister
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Your message has arrived in Brazil, i love It. Thank you for sharing.
When I say this is exactly what I needed to hear. I've been struggling on my celibacy journey but this is the talk I needed.
I’m using this video for my Leo New Moon shadow work ✨ Much Gratitude 🙏🏾
When you mentioned the media, Euphoria immediately came to mind before you even said it. Another good one is the movie "Angus, Thongs and perfect snogging". I recently watched it with new adult eyes and it was such a cringe fest. I'm on an intentional celibacy journey and this video resonated deeply with things I've been realizing about my own past patterns. Thank you for your videos ❤
After 7years of "friends with benefits" with the same person who I also believed was my friend, my eyes were opened to the fact that I no longer enjoyed our arrangement & that I was only doing it because he enjoyed it. I was, for the longest time, willingly engaging in something that nolonger served me, in order to keep him fullfilled. How insane is that?... But, in meditation, I realised "you cannot blame someone for using you, when you allow yourself to be used" only I had the power to change that narrative. I was allowing myself to be used as his personal 'cum station' but as soon as I removed sex from our equation, I could finally see him with clear eyes... That man never loved me... let alone respected me. That was a tough pill to swallow but as much as seeing the truth hurt my heart, it definitely set my soul free😮💨 Taking your power back can never be a bad thing. 2024 I'm celibate & sober. Period🧘🏿♀️
This was like listening to the most wonderful song that soothes the soul. So deep, so honest...this is a start to a great book that anyone seeking true autonomy and self love would want to read again and again. Thank you for this share, wisdom and enlightenment, Gazelle 🌸✨
Thank you so much! 🌹🥹✨
i smiled, cried and shook my head up and down the entire time. thank you. i really needed this.
You, this message and everything you exude is exactly what I needed. Divine you are and divine I will be.
You are inspiring me strength. 🖤 Your words makes me feel seen/ they pour light onto a very important subject that affects us all
Thank you. 💜 I've been celibate since 2012/13, it happened naturally, and I feel so blessed by the process. BUT, I've struggled from time to time with self-gratification..... it can be a struggle.
2023 has been my year of celibacy and it completely changed my relationship with my body and sensuality. I love this. Gorgeous discussion and imagery.
Finally sb speaking about the sexualization of kids! I 100% agree. I’ve always wanted to cultivate that feminine energy in me, being gentle but confident, graceful but critical thinker. Could u make a video on how to celebrate femininity?❤😊
Working on one for next month! ❤️
@@GazelleMonet thank uuu 🥹💗
I always felt like i gave creative energy to all the guys i have had sex with in the past and im greatful to hear you talk about it because its like confirmation for me that its true what i felt
Yes, spirit over everything!
soooo true. it’s refreshing to hear someone else with these same thoughts other than myself ♥️
Such a great video!! Ive personally been celibate since forever, years literally at this point and I wont change that unless it is The One, to me thats a very easy and logical thing. I put all that energy in painting or i go for a run or anything really, its not a huge deal except that it seems weird to other people. I think its such a good topic to speak on and the points you make feel super important, and make me feel more 'normal' about my own choices, thank you! also- your video is so pretty
I found your channel through watching Hindz and I'm SO grateful for BOTH of your energies. Hindz helped me heal through this heartbreak, helped literally get me off the sofa and clean my space, to sit back into the love for self, and now from watching this - wow. Now, now is time to step into this rebirth, this flourishing of my divine feminine essence. This breakup has been the best thing to happen to me, I found myself in my solitude, my creativity is flourishing and my relationship to sex feels like its finally healing. Thank you for inspiring me to make the commitment to myself to go celibate again. I only did 2 months the first time because I fell inlove with my previous partner, who was also celibate at the time. There was more growth needed before I was ready to tap into this energy, but now is the time. Big love to you, thank you xx p.s. I'm loving the fact your Earth to Gazelle, my creative name is Earth to Ersa - just another confirmation from the universe! Grateful beyond words.
OMG. Thank you SO MUCH for this. This explains everything that I have been going through the last few months. I was spiritually raped and had lost my magikal powers specifically from a ‘girlfriend’ who wanted nothing more than sexual lusts and acts from me. I wanted none of it!!! Thankfully my angels listened to my prayers and removed this person from my home. Next is the rope cutting I need to do.
I really value your aura and appreciate your channeling and interpretation of energetic exchanges.
Grateful for you & sharing your wisdom Queen! I needed the encouragement
It's been 3 years since my last encounter. I wasn't in a good place and realized very quickly that the lifestyle I was living, I wasn't happy with. When you look at yourself in the mirror and can't see yourself, it definitely makes you want to change some shit.
I love you and I’m grateful for you putting this into the world. The way I relate to all you’ve expressed. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 💜
This is a really great video. I have been on my own journey with self discipline and have come a long way over the past year by turning into someone who is in control of their mind and body's desire (well not totally). I have completely changed my diet, exercise, the people I hang around with, what I invest my time into. But restraining from sex with another is not something I have mastered at all. In fact I have been so distracted lately by lust and even when I have received what I was craving - it was empty and meaningless. I think fear is one of the biggest things which keeps me going back, because I am fearful of not meeting someone and receiving love. We like to compare and second guess our own journey in comparison to others who are in relationships. It's just so illogical. I realise how this is a major lack of emotional maturity because I am letting my emotions lead me and not my heart. The answer is to go inward and trust our timing. I love what you say about how celibacy will strengthen our relationship to god and surrendering to trust. It's so refreshing to see someone express all of this so openly and honestly. You have inspired me and for sure planted some seeds.
I practice celibacy out of respect to Divine creation, Divine connections, to myself and the one I will ❤. At forty+ I have been unconsciously guided to resonance to the ideas of my body not being used, by me or anyone else. To the creators creation: Thank you for this beautifully decorative harmonious space To just be.
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I totally agree with you. Thanks for talking about this
incredible and prophetic words
The intimacy and connection your craving from another is the intimacy and connection that you need to give yourself through creation👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Saw this at 111 comments! Resonating so hard, and saw this at the perfect time.
I rly needed to hear this, thank you ✨
Goddesses Goddesses Goddesses killing me softly with your words singing my life with your words. Muahhhhhh I Love you, Thank you Queen!!!
This whole video is like a thousand powerful affirmations ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
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Gazelle, everything you said in this video resonate with me because spirit has guided me to a space that you speak of. Thank You For Sharing!
Wow! This was beautifully spoken and visably capturing. I resonate with alot of what you put out here. Thank you for sharing. This is everything! You're amazing 🧚🏽♀️💖🌺💖🌺💖🌺💐🐛🦋
I fully support and encourage you to produce the very show you mentioned doesn’t exist. You’re right. It doesn’t. And we need it. And we also need you to create it for us, and the generations after ours. 🙏
I think masturbation is the biggest addiction tho, i don't know why they re trying to make us believe its something safe to do, that its actually good for our health.
Yesssss Girl im Glad i found you
Last time I even touched somebody was in October, it feels so freeing to take my divine power back. Your videos are life changing! Everything you said resonate deeply in my womb. 🧿
yes thank you so mucho. our creative and sexual energy is so valuable, it's time we act like it and truly nurture ourselves like we rightfully deserve.
I will keep watching/listening to this video and your wise words from time to time until my love, my soulmate finds me 💜
You are such a blessing to women ❤
Omg girl!! Divine timings of this video and everything you said I felt it!! ❤️❤️❤️
The instrumental to open the episode is so soothing
I loooove this video. Thank you so much for making it. It has put so many of my thoughts and feelings into words.
✨Ma’am❤ where have you been all of my life?! 🙌🏾 thank you for this message✨
Oh shit this is juicy🙏🏽✨💛 i love your authenticity. Keep honoring your truth!
Thanks for bringing this up I relate to it. I’ve been celibate for almost 2 years now!
Very random but you might want to look into goddess Artemis or Diane. Sending good vibes🌻🌻🌻
Thank you! And wooow you just put me on! 🤌🏾❤️
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I followed your linktree on Twitter & I honestly needed to hear this video & ironically… I had a little Deja Vu while listening & that just gives me confirmation that I was supposed to receive this message. Thank you!
I absolutely love your video style soooo immaculate😭
This is beautiful. U are so wise and articulate in ur speaking of emotions
You are a gift. I adore what you offer to the world. Thank you!
This whole video was beautifully said and at the perfect time omg I love this message thank you sm!!
i am on my celibacy journey and this video has illuminated how far I have to go. I feel overwhelmed
Life is the greatest journey you will ever go on
Thank you! 🙏🏼🌺 This is amazing
I watched this in its entirety and I would do it again. This is so good. Its like when you watch a bomb movie and when you watch again, you see or hear something you didn’t notice before… Welcome to Canada ❤
I came across the channel today. This is my second video today. I love this. I will subscribe.
Everything you said is so valuable! Will be sharing 💕
Thank you so much! ❤️
This Intro Is Stellar 🤌🏿 Top Tier!
Yes! Yes! And YES!! 💜
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Alyssia sent me here 💫✨ thanks sis
Ohh who’s Alyssia? And you’re welcome honey! ❤️🫶🏽✨
These trends are a trap!
This channel is an experience
Thank you thank you for this. It’s needed so much!!!
I love your content and space. Thank for sharing. 💕
I have prayed search the inner part of my heart and soul and realize I'm called to a higher purpose and I chose to be celibate and even if it I'll never get married I accept my celibate journey and lifestyle. My purpose is much higher than casual sex and mindless living. I'm a spiritual being and I will walk in my divine purpose.
I don’t know where you came from but CZcams got it right with putting you in my recommended. 🎉
Hear from your Twitter thread. Really needed these words