how did I realise I was a lesbian? | I answer your gay questions!

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  • čas přidán 14. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 39

  • @jesss4642
    @jesss4642 Před měsícem +18

    I got married last year and me and my husband had the same thing with so many people saying 'that's it now, you're stuck for life!' We don't feel stuck at all. We CHOSE to choose each other, forever. If I didn't think I'd be happy with my husband for the rest of my life, or that one person would never be enough for me, I wouldn't have married him or anyone else. It shocks me how many people get married just because it's the 'next step' in a relationship, like you can't live together happily without a ring on your finger. If you don't want to get married, don't! If the person you're with makes your future feel like a prison sentence then you're probably with the wrong person. I can't wait for forever with my husband. I knew he was my person when we met 11 years ago at the tender of age 17. Too many people try to force themselves into societal boxes even when it's not what they really want. We only get one life, live it the way you want to! P.S I am SO excited for you and Holly on your upcoming wedding! I hope you both have a lovely day celebrating your love

    • @storieswithgeorgiamarie
      @storieswithgeorgiamarie  Před měsícem +4

      it's so sad isn't it, like how do so many people view marriage in such a negative way 😩 society has a lot to answer for

    • @DonaldSleightholme
      @DonaldSleightholme Před 21 dnem

      @@storieswithgeorgiamariehave you been following the jay slater case? 🙇‍♂️😑🤷‍♂️

  • @oliviaspages
    @oliviaspages Před měsícem +4

    would LOVE an "ask your lesbian mom" series!!

  • @Hello-dc6hz
    @Hello-dc6hz Před měsícem +3

    I'm 26 and I've only come out to one person, and not even as a lesbian, but as bisexual, even though I'm not. I used to date men so I'm scared they don´t take me serious, if that makes sense. I also spend a lot of my life living in denial. Hearing you talk about it made me finally feel seen. Thank you for sharing

  • @SamuelMcAuliff
    @SamuelMcAuliff Před měsícem +2

    On your idea of how other people think of marriage, it reminded me of when I was growing up. I'm trans, so was raised a girl. I would hear the adult women I knew, family and neighbors, talk so much crap about their husbands, but then turn around and try to sell marriage to me like it was inevitable that I would not only marry a man, but men were also something to be put up with and endured. I was just like, guys you're not selling this very well. Also, while I knew I was gay from the age of ten, I didn't come out to my family until I was 24. It took me longer to realize I'm trans. I only came out to myself as trans five years ago when I was 46. Point being, we all come to our truth in different ways and different times. It's not the when or the how that's important, only that we live freely and opening, and with love.

  • @sarahcox1805
    @sarahcox1805 Před měsícem +7

    Bottoms is hilarious and absurd and I don’t feel like it gets enough hype! 👏

  • @AAnderson87
    @AAnderson87 Před měsícem +1

    Bottoms was absolutely hilarious. My future wife and I were in Boston lugging around our suitcases while waiting to check into our Airbnb, and we came across this adorable community theatre. They were showing Bottoms in a tiny room with less than 20-seats, but it was the perfect place to take a quick rest. We laughed so hard, and it completely woke us up from our minor jet lag! Also, happy belated birthday!!

  • @AstoriaPenrose-wk8zh
    @AstoriaPenrose-wk8zh Před 24 dny

    I identify with your journey so much! I've known I was into women since my early teens, but lived in denial until I was 24 when I met my wife. One of the important reasons we chose to marry is to protect each others rights as well as obviously because we loved one another.
    I'm also very femme presenting and into history, queer history and reading! My gayness is also a big part my personality these days.

  • @noodlesauce2553
    @noodlesauce2553 Před měsícem +4

    I’m still closeted to most people in my life, including my spouse, so hopefully one day I can work up the courage to go to pride

  • @spideath3567
    @spideath3567 Před měsícem +4

    I love Sugar Rush! Watched it not long after I came out and it really helped me feel ok in my sexuality

  • @Arakhor
    @Arakhor Před měsícem

    Ooh, I remember Sugar Rush! (I'm somewhat distressed to realise that it came out in 2005, though!) The theme tune by Blondie, Andrew Garfield before he was famous... Probably one of the very first things I watched specifically because it *was* gay. 🏳️‍🌈

  • @AmandaKrutsick
    @AmandaKrutsick Před měsícem

    If you're a football gay you have to read The Senator's Wife series by Jen Lyon. It's a romance trilogy and one of the main characters is a professional football player and it's a huge part of the plot!

  • @blackk_rose_
    @blackk_rose_ Před 3 dny

    oh wow I'm totally at that point where I'm afraid to say the words to my family but would definitely just confirm if they asked and they don't. and I'm pretty sure at least my parents are very much aware, but I feel like they're waiting for me to say it. but I probably only will if I'm ever in a serious relationship

  • @daguard411
    @daguard411 Před měsícem

    I do honestly hope you find that special place of being completely happy!

  • @emmajade2426
    @emmajade2426 Před měsícem

    Omg I loved Sugar Rush, definitely need a rewatch!!

  • @tiredgirlreads
    @tiredgirlreads Před měsícem

    All of this resonates so strongly with me. Comp het truly made my journey so much longer as well despite knowing since 11 years old that I didn't have feelings for boys. I'm 26 years old and relate to your experience of feeling off about talking about relationships with family. Regardless of sexuality I feel like it's so awkward to talk about liking someone hahah thank you for your vulnerability on the topic and happy pride month 🌈

  • @jjjtpln
    @jjjtpln Před měsícem

    Take this for what you will. I like to wake up early, take my meds, and lay down and think until they kick in. Then I keep thinking.
    Anywho, I like to listen to something while I do and today your voice came to mind as something very pleasant and soothing and so here I am.
    *cheers*

  • @bumblemee5661
    @bumblemee5661 Před měsícem

    glad to have stumbled upon someone who also has football players as their nr 1 celeb crushes :D

  • @CattyoKitty
    @CattyoKitty Před měsícem +1

    Cue to me binging Sugar Rush for the 100th time since I was a teenager.

  • @daniellegillett4801
    @daniellegillett4801 Před měsícem

    Yesss I watched sugar rush when it originally came out, amazing show!

  • @stephaniec3619
    @stephaniec3619 Před měsícem +2

    I live in Canada and the right to get married was passed in 2005. I didn’t realize how long that took in the UK! I’m now wondering if Elton John got married to his Canadian husband here. I just realized that Canada was only the third country to do that!

  • @meljstephan
    @meljstephan Před měsícem

    I've never gonna to a pride event because I may be queer, but I'm not an extrovert 😂

  • @davidbrennan5973
    @davidbrennan5973 Před měsícem +3

    Random question but what did you think of the seven husbands of Evelyn Hugo?

    • @ElijahTheForerunner
      @ElijahTheForerunner Před měsícem

      Matthew 19:12 says God prefers same-sex marriage and confirms transgender people are born that way.
      JESUS was TRANSGENDER, a female man returning as a female woman in a lesbian relationship with a male woman.

  • @emma-leighsmith6695
    @emma-leighsmith6695 Před měsícem

    I watched sugar rush!!!

  • @smm855
    @smm855 Před měsícem +3

    Feelings on Our Flag Means Death? 👀

  • @kristinab8326
    @kristinab8326 Před měsícem +3

    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🖤

    • @ElijahTheForerunner
      @ElijahTheForerunner Před měsícem

      Matthew 19:12 says God prefers same-sex marriage and confirms transgender people are born that way.
      JESUS was TRANSGENDER, a female man returning as a female woman in a lesbian relationship with a male woman.

  • @Deldelo-
    @Deldelo- Před 11 dny

    When straight people have to declare their sexuality- then so will I. Until then it’s none of their business or concern 👍🥰

  • @aresrichardson6024
    @aresrichardson6024 Před měsícem

    would recommend the original L word and imagine me and you :)

  • @ElijahTheForerunner
    @ElijahTheForerunner Před měsícem +3

    I always knew I was gay but didn't fully realize it until 19 because I didn't understand it was even a thing.
    Matthew 19:12 says God prefers same-sex marriage and confirms transgender people are born that way.
    JESUS was TRANSGENDER, a female man returning as female woman in a lesbian relationship with a male woman.
    Male or female is determined by gender located in the soul not sex characteristics.

    • @lynncrf
      @lynncrf Před měsícem

      Jesus was not trans and saying he was doesn't help with trans rights. God also doesn't "prefer" same sex marriage because that didn't even exist in Biblical times and there was no way for gay couples to have kids before ART.