Are You A Female Breadwinner? Why You Should Be Proud + Key Relationship Tips! | Clever Girl Finance

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  • čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
  • In today’s video, we are going to talk about relationship tips when you earn more than your partner and how to be a proud female breadwinner. In today's world, it's not uncommon for women to be the breadwinners or sole earners in their homes.
    However, sometimes, this can be a really difficult situation to be in as a woman. Although times are quickly changing, many women still face challenges in their relationships when they are female breadwinners. Let's talk about it! Be sure to share your thoughts in the comments!
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Komentáře • 34

  • @Clevergirlfinance
    @Clevergirlfinance  Před 2 lety +5

    Are you a female breadwinner? Share how you navigate your relationship below! Thanks for tuning in!

  • @tinker2217
    @tinker2217 Před 2 lety +31

    These tips work when you're dealing with a partner that is helpful, not jealous and not a taker. Also helps when they are either ambitious and just haven't hit their stride yet OR they at Least take up the slack in other ways. You can't be with someone that expects you to take care of them Financially AND ALSO take care of the household. No ma'am.

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  Před 2 lety +3

      You are absolutely right. Thanks for tuning in!

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 Před 2 lety +3

      Does such a man exist? 😂😂

    • @abhisekdas1580
      @abhisekdas1580 Před 2 lety

      @@Clevergirlfinance it is ubiquitous fallacy, never work (except getting feminine men) with alpha masculine men.

    • @teresworrell7973
      @teresworrell7973 Před 8 měsíci +1

      As a man I agree with you.

    • @tinker2217
      @tinker2217 Před 8 měsíci

      @@djlivvy46 They do. I just didn't have one. 🫠

  • @mary_gititu
    @mary_gititu Před rokem +7

    I honestly hate it. it has brought a lot of friction in my relationship, and i pray things get better

    • @lovlovlucia
      @lovlovlucia Před 9 měsíci +2

      7 years for me being the breadwinner, I’m getting more and more exhausted. But we are sharing a beautiful toddler, I feel selfish if not have her dad around all but I’m getting to the point about to end this relationship.

  • @nicolewilliams2468
    @nicolewilliams2468 Před 2 lety +11

    Being a female breadwinner is hard; not gonna lie. Still working on a lot of these issues in my own marriage (prior 2 marriages failed due in part to conflict over this same issue)

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 Před 2 lety

      Are you a high earner?

    • @nicolewilliams2468
      @nicolewilliams2468 Před 2 lety +1

      @@djlivvy46 - statistically, yes.

    • @tinker2217
      @tinker2217 Před 2 lety +5

      What issues do you have? I hate that he looks to Me for money. I feel he should at LEAST be able to take care of himself.

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 Před 2 lety

      @@nicolewilliams2468 - are you not attracted to high earning men?

    • @nicolewilliams2468
      @nicolewilliams2468 Před 2 lety +3

      @@djlivvy46 why on earth would I place my future in the hands of someone else’s earnings? That doesn’t make any sense to me.

  • @briannagirl2234
    @briannagirl2234 Před 5 měsíci +1

    NEEDED THIS! In a relationship there is going to be one person who makes more, and it's 50/50 shot. Why the heck do we think it needs to be the man who makes more? Whoever goes for the higher job and education will be default make more. I went to law school for that reason-I'm only 25 and already making 6 figures, so what are my options? give up my career so by default a man can make more than me? Insane. I'm going to own it!

  • @nelliehairstonrma1997
    @nelliehairstonrma1997 Před 2 lety +5

    #5 is my go to goal phrase

  • @alexiscook607
    @alexiscook607 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for the tips. I needed to hear this. It was truly helpful.

  • @saraswatinayagam7123
    @saraswatinayagam7123 Před 2 lety +5

    It feels good to be back.. I have not been able to tune in for so long...Hope you are doing well Bola..🙏

  • @margaretwilkie5406
    @margaretwilkie5406 Před 2 lety +3

    Hello, i am getting your videos twice and i was just letting you know. Thank-you.☺💝

  • @margaretwilkie5406
    @margaretwilkie5406 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi clever girl, i gets double videos and i just wanted you to know. I really enjoy your channel.☺💝

  • @amarachukwufaithokafor8187
    @amarachukwufaithokafor8187 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Communication is worse when your efforts are not appreciated or even denied.

  • @olufunmbiadenubi3909
    @olufunmbiadenubi3909 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the tips. really helps

  • @phobedavis7014
    @phobedavis7014 Před 2 lety +1

    I am sure #2 turned some heads. 🤔

  • @joni3503
    @joni3503 Před 14 dny

    Even with a positive mindset, on both sides, it's still gonna be difficult. The woman will begin to look down on the man, who earns less than she does ( maybe he doesn't have a job at all). She will begin to boss around, like she owns the household, because she is paying the bills. For the children it is a bad example, and a source of stress. They need a mother around. The most important thing is, that she will lose sexual interest in her husband, who is less succesfull than she is. That is where women begin to cheat on their husbands, because they have low esteem of them.
    Women are sexually attracted to men who earn money, who are above them, have a Daddy energy around them, and who are strong protectors of the family. Fixers, decision makers.