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  • @aic0809
    @aic0809 Před 27 dny +324

    This man is pure wickedness.

  • @Jasmynshawntel
    @Jasmynshawntel Před 27 dny +290

    He's forever gaslighting her ugh

  • @janedeane3656
    @janedeane3656 Před 27 dny +351

    Dude took an enormous red pill before he got to the show! Sandia can do 15x better.

    • @ddoubleu170
      @ddoubleu170 Před 27 dny +6

      Seriously!

    • @janedeane3656
      @janedeane3656 Před 27 dny +25

      @@ddoubleu170 hes literally projecting while reciting podcast lines about how women are 'too emotional and immature'

    • @afrocaribbelle
      @afrocaribbelle Před 27 dny +14

      ​@@janedeane3656 and has the audacity to tell her she does not have a mind of her own! Clearly he can't think for himself. He sounds brainwashed. How you learn to be a man from those podcasts baffles me. 🤯 Girl, there are great men out there with great mindset and spirit. Run for your life!

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 Před 27 dny +2

      Lol no she can't. And neither can you.

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 Před 27 dny

      Alot of us men have taken the red pill btw. Exposing yall BS.

  • @andreaherron968
    @andreaherron968 Před 27 dny +171

    When a person says that they don't like to be questioned it's usually because they lie alot

  • @_heyitsfrenchy
    @_heyitsfrenchy Před 27 dny +220

    He is so disrespectful toward her

    • @juanyelwhite4027
      @juanyelwhite4027 Před 19 dny

      He is only doing she she allows. This dude would kick rocks because I’m not allowing no peanut head man talk to me or treat me like I am a low class citizen. Ain’t no way in the world I’m dealing with that bull.

  • @ivyind
    @ivyind Před 27 dny +292

    Safaree is over critical of Sandia

    • @TSBOFRLM
      @TSBOFRLM Před 27 dny +25

      Exactly! Narcissism is a spirit and they all act the same!

    • @ruthquetant7375
      @ruthquetant7375 Před 27 dny +35

      Looks like a mix between safaree and bevus and butthead!!

    • @knrb7137
      @knrb7137 Před 27 dny +3

      I said the same thing! When I first saw him, I said that he looks like Safaree.

    • @midheaven_mimi
      @midheaven_mimi Před 27 dny +17

      Not Safaree! 😂😂

    • @Anewme92142
      @Anewme92142 Před 27 dny +4

      😂😂

  • @YaaKesha
    @YaaKesha Před 27 dny +175

    Leave that man alone! Let him be a headache to someone else. Questioning is apart of communication but she wouldn’t have to ask questions, if he provided more clarity and less attitude. RUN!!!

    • @adriennenicoles598
      @adriennenicoles598 Před 24 dny +3

      This is what manipulators do, so you will stop questioning them and just let the abuse happen. Anyone who tries to silence you and make you walk on eggshells in a relationship is definitely someone you should run as fast as you can from

  • @mwakamatembo7606
    @mwakamatembo7606 Před 27 dny +137

    This guy will mentally traumatize her

  • @ceecee8924
    @ceecee8924 Před 27 dny +97

    I love all the women in this comment section recognizing the red flags. We've come a long way. So proud of us 😊

  • @jazzyobiageli2053
    @jazzyobiageli2053 Před 27 dny +126

    The way he talks to her is triggering and it’s painful to watch!!

  • @SierraGINSPIRE
    @SierraGINSPIRE Před 27 dny +170

    When a man laughs at you RED FLAG !

  • @KelliKarine
    @KelliKarine Před 27 dny +194

    I just want to give her a HUG. He can Gooooooo! She doesn't deserve this... Noone does.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa Před 27 dny +10

      She is sooo sweet! She really doesn't

    • @chinenyeodozi7677
      @chinenyeodozi7677 Před 27 dny +5

      Give her a hug for being stoooooopid? He has shown her he has no respect for her and she keeps pushing him. She knows he doesn't want her.

    • @nununicole9408
      @nununicole9408 Před 27 dny

      What did Chris do wrong exactly besides ask her to speak for herself and stop letting other people dictate how and when she moves as a grown woman

    • @malakaimusa1476
      @malakaimusa1476 Před 26 dny +7

      ​@@nununicole9408It's the way he says it. He is mean. She is trying to communicate how she feels and he doesn't give a damn. What partner tells their other partner you were doing this pointless crying. Naaaahhh fam

    • @lamino8-tg6ro
      @lamino8-tg6ro Před 21 dnem

      Some black women are so desperate for a man. This guy is so rude😏

  • @SpiritualQueenVibes
    @SpiritualQueenVibes Před 27 dny +128

    He's not even all that he really should calm down he's feeling himself way to much

    • @thepearl7289
      @thepearl7289 Před 27 dny +10

      and, he becomes less and less each time he opens his mouth

    • @TY00000
      @TY00000 Před 18 dny

      WAAAAAY too much

  • @patienceisavirtue
    @patienceisavirtue Před 27 dny +127

    He doesn’t like to be questioned?!?!?!!! Chile!

    • @GotGood77
      @GotGood77 Před 27 dny +11

      I dated someone like this who said he didn't like to be questioned. Even about the simplest things and it brought me down

  • @dearmingmogul2010
    @dearmingmogul2010 Před 27 dny +129

    I don’t know what show this is, but he doesn’t like her at all. If they are in a relationship he has no respect for her. She needs to leave him alone quickly !!!!

    • @elizabethasikpo2847
      @elizabethasikpo2847 Před 27 dny +11

      He doesn't like women period. He said it in so many words in the 1st episode.

    • @dearmingmogul2010
      @dearmingmogul2010 Před 27 dny

      @@elizabethasikpo2847 that makes so much sense. This was hard to watch and it’s just the clip. What show is this?

    • @pcserialmom4560
      @pcserialmom4560 Před 24 dny

      @@elizabethasikpo2847
      Right, when he said he doesn’t trust women.

    • @pcserialmom4560
      @pcserialmom4560 Před 24 dny

      @@dearmingmogul2010
      It’s called “The Never Ever Mets” and it comes on Fridays at 8pm ET. These are people who had an online relationship and just finally met for the first time on this show.

  • @Purpose-es8ce
    @Purpose-es8ce Před 27 dny +58

    Nothing has to be this hard. Let him be.

  • @afrocaribbelle
    @afrocaribbelle Před 27 dny +36

    "i don't really like being questioned." Girl, run!

  • @GotGood77
    @GotGood77 Před 27 dny +69

    Ooo omg I know someone exactly like this. Rude and narcissist. He is a professional gas lighter x10. He is so full of himself. Then saying she's talking to him crazy when she is trying to communicate. This was actually triggering to watch omg

  • @desrenerankine9983
    @desrenerankine9983 Před 27 dny +51

    Girl leave that boy too many red flags.. ruuuuun

  • @avionelle
    @avionelle Před 27 dny +35

    If gaslighting was a person...🤦🏾‍♀

  • @Neisyjay
    @Neisyjay Před 27 dny +99

    This is hard to watch

  • @SierraChantal
    @SierraChantal Před 27 dny +19

    If a man has such a negative view of you and you aren't even in a serious relationship yet, you should just cut your losses.

  • @sweetrose_5
    @sweetrose_5 Před 27 dny +19

    Someone doesn't have to TELL you they DON'T want YOU... when
    THEIR actions show it 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @nellyismotivated7839
    @nellyismotivated7839 Před 27 dny +34

    Chris is a narcissist! She can do much better.

  • @stvvbee
    @stvvbee Před 27 dny +19

    Why is this young lady still tolerating this crazy man?

  • @CynNage
    @CynNage Před 27 dny +24

    I don't know why it takes us to realize that dudes not be into us, we just forcing things 😭
    Go home nana, you deserve so much better ❤

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn Před 27 dny +3

      The pillow talking and mind games. When they isolate you, telling you one thing- then switching up the very next second. It shocks the system, especially if you honestly have no bad intentions towards the guy to begin with.
      A lot of times you actually do leave these kind of guys alone- then they come back around on the sly- trying to connect or communicate with you. I bet he’s that type too. SMH

  • @mauryabrown6949
    @mauryabrown6949 Před 27 dny +11

    Using the word immature while being immature 🤯😳
    His emotional intelligence is telling, not being able to provide reassurance n clarity n the talking stagiest of a relationship is crazy

    • @nunucantgetin
      @nunucantgetin Před 23 dny

      hes gaslighting the HELL out of her and its scary to watch! now she just sits there and takes it and NOW sides with him?? 😧 he has her brainwashed it’s SAD. i wish she would’ve brought up to the therapist him saying he sleeps with women then stops talking to them a few days later! he continues to paint this picture of her being “annoying” and overly emotional. 😵‍💫

  • @rayecaters2u
    @rayecaters2u Před 27 dny +20

    God will bless Sandia with A 👑.
    My Haitian sista deserves better! 🇭🇹

  • @SunshineKK99
    @SunshineKK99 Před 27 dny +11

    This is what emotional abuse looks like! Right here!!!

  • @kegomoditswehendriks5028
    @kegomoditswehendriks5028 Před 27 dny +9

    This girl showing us how some of us are in relationships that are not working out

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 Před 24 dny

      You’re right that’s why people want her or so bad

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 Před 27 dny +29

    I wonder if this show has a quitting clause.
    Penalty for not making it to the end of the show.

    • @ddavis8988
      @ddavis8988 Před 27 dny +4

      @camary99
      Nobody is disputing that. But there have been plenty of reality show participants who stayed on and kept trying because of the check. Can't ignore that. Right or wrong.

    • @camary99
      @camary99 Před 27 dny +2

      @@ddavis8988 I totally agree! 👁️👈🫶

  • @lucys6996
    @lucys6996 Před 27 dny +18

    Beautiful one. Please remove yourself from this madness. You deserve 1000x better than this mule.

  • @BeautyGraphicDesigner
    @BeautyGraphicDesigner Před 27 dny +18

    It’s giving lemme get my clout from this show 🤔 Homegirl should’ve left THE MOMENT he expressed that she’s not his girl. Like duhhh that’s obvious but why are you going out of your way to share that esp when you’re here to see if there’s any romantic potential. 🥴

  • @mwakamatembo7606
    @mwakamatembo7606 Před 27 dny +15

    We need the full episode 😢

    • @LOfficielM
      @LOfficielM Před 27 dny

      If you have HBO Max, the episodes are on there.

  • @elizabethwangui8028
    @elizabethwangui8028 Před 27 dny +26

    This guy is Toxic

  • @nashudaaugustine4686
    @nashudaaugustine4686 Před 26 dny +5

    He is manipulating her, making her feel like she is crazy. He is emotionally abusing her. Making her feelings invalid and then saying everything is good and perfect. She needs to know her worth.

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk Před 27 dny +12

    If I can’t ask questions, it time to go!

  • @caramel-cutie065
    @caramel-cutie065 Před 26 dny +7

    He acts like he can’t STAND her! The disrespect of it all is so cringe worthy. And does he realize if she goes home, he’s going home too? Uuggh.🤦🏽‍♀️. And one more thing, these two remind me of Paige and Chris from Married At First Sight. Jesus take the wheel.

  • @sheenahill9819
    @sheenahill9819 Před 27 dny +10

    She’s dealing with a narcissist

  • @ZanasWorld2.0
    @ZanasWorld2.0 Před 27 dny +7

    Is she doesn’t walk away now, she’ll learn the hard way.

  • @twentyshadesofkay2882
    @twentyshadesofkay2882 Před 17 dny +4

    This man showed her exactly who he was on day one when he was talking to the men. He's verbally abusive. She has low self esteem to allow him to keep disrespecting her.

  • @AshBoogie24
    @AshBoogie24 Před 27 dny +10

    If she don’t leave that man !

  • @tonyathorpe2064
    @tonyathorpe2064 Před 27 dny +10

    These two aren’t a match.

  • @ivannaturner8276
    @ivannaturner8276 Před 27 dny +14

    SOME OF THESE FOLKS ARE JUST FAKIN TO TO STAY ON TV!!🙄🙄🙄

  • @stacyo.1080
    @stacyo.1080 Před 26 dny +4

    Girl, he doesn’t like you so please move on. You deserve someone who is kind and loving to you. I hope you are no longer with this fool.

  • @MissLaddyd1
    @MissLaddyd1 Před 27 dny +5

    Chris is there for the tv appearance. There will be no relationship. This is the start of an abusive relationship if she thinks it's worth her effort

  • @MarianSylla
    @MarianSylla Před 27 dny +13

    This guy used this lady to get on the show. He’s not remotely interested in having a relationship with her whatsoever. He just wanted screen time.

  • @shaneilrushing6337
    @shaneilrushing6337 Před 27 dny +10

    He is mean smh she did really good holding her composure

  • @meandmy2cents309
    @meandmy2cents309 Před 26 dny +3

    He’s not even looking at her. The disrespect is beyond ridiculous. Why is she still talking to him?! My bags would have been packed.

  • @juliajulia1835
    @juliajulia1835 Před 23 dny +3

    He doesn't like her, she needs to realise this. He's always critical at the same time being mean about it.

  • @njokindungu6770
    @njokindungu6770 Před 25 dny +3

    "I will show you then" Sadia when will you leave?? at this point I'm just blaming her

  • @no1strawberricherri
    @no1strawberricherri Před 26 dny +2

    I can’t wait to see this episode with their session with Dr. Ramani! It should reveal to Sandia everything she needs to know and how to stay away from Chris.

  • @cosmic_sunflower3864
    @cosmic_sunflower3864 Před 12 dny +1

    When things get to this point, your absence and silence is all that man needs.

  • @priscillap7861
    @priscillap7861 Před 27 dny +6

    He doesn’t like her

  • @wellok5778
    @wellok5778 Před 27 dny +14

    Arrogant

  • @plovie9376
    @plovie9376 Před 27 dny +8

    Honey you are worth more than this..he isn't what you want

  • @WALLACE0000
    @WALLACE0000 Před 27 dny +12

    RRRRUUUUUUNNNNN YOUNG LADY

  • @lyrene6029
    @lyrene6029 Před 20 dny +2

    We accept the love we think we deserve. -unkown

  • @PM-xd6nv
    @PM-xd6nv Před 27 dny +3

    Sandia needs to go watch Tony Gaskin’s “He Don’t Want You!!”.

  • @shawnburt2265
    @shawnburt2265 Před 22 dny +2

    Chris is disrespectful to her and treats and speaks to her like a child, girl run this man is no good for you

  • @katrinaraymond9726
    @katrinaraymond9726 Před 24 dny +3

    I really cant see a match between these two, how did they get this far 😮

  • @MarjorieParaison
    @MarjorieParaison Před 27 dny +6

    Seafarer Chris is stressful and for the Miami screeeets

  • @relaxwithnature6532
    @relaxwithnature6532 Před 23 dny +2

    He’s right because if he spoke to me like that it’s a wrap.

  • @alphineapondi2668
    @alphineapondi2668 Před 27 dny +12

    That was cringe to watch 🤪

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz Před 27 dny +7

    If one quits, do they both go home?

  • @Mary-os9eq
    @Mary-os9eq Před 25 dny +2

    Sandia, please give up. He is not worth it. The same way he got up and walked out on you , you need to reciprocate.❤

  • @janedough6410
    @janedough6410 Před 24 dny +2

    Sandia is fully aware of Chris mindset day one. IDK why she's hanging around for the abuse.

  • @lakia1015
    @lakia1015 Před 27 dny +5

    RUN GIRL RUN

  • @asteriatuvatilamagnus3037

    she deserve better than that

  • @Sheiswavy2
    @Sheiswavy2 Před 26 dny +2

    Oh honey he crazy and you can tell he was never allowed to express his emotions as a kid bc look how he is suppressing her emotions. She needs to leave asap

  • @stacylewis410
    @stacylewis410 Před 27 dny +3

    He narcissistic. He don't like her instead just letting her go he breaking down her self esteem.

  • @EAO-ql8hk
    @EAO-ql8hk Před 21 dnem +2

    He only said positive things about her and she only said negative things about him…Hmm, why might that be?🤔 I wonder

  • @checurtis6758
    @checurtis6758 Před 26 dny +2

    Be done ma’am!

  • @malakaimusa1476
    @malakaimusa1476 Před 26 dny +2

    Wow this guy is crazy. How do you speak to someone like this??? Don't even play me, if you want to leave you can leave. Naaah he doesn't like her at all. He is incredibly mean

  • @terriewithme144
    @terriewithme144 Před 27 dny +2

    I can't wait for them to sit down with Dr Ramini!! A narcissist therapist.

  • @toribabe1000
    @toribabe1000 Před 15 dny +1

    She was raised well

  • @43francis81
    @43francis81 Před 26 dny +2

    Get UP and RUN GIRL!!!

  • @PhetogoNoore
    @PhetogoNoore Před 24 dny +1

    When someone shows you who they are believe them.

  • @itsquitab
    @itsquitab Před 8 dny

    OWN Production Companies has a talent for finding the most disrespectful men. Bring back All the Single Ladies

  • @twylamoses1471
    @twylamoses1471 Před 16 dny +2

    He’s a narcissist he’s going emotionally damage this woman she need to go home

  • @billiangadi1186
    @billiangadi1186 Před 21 dnem

    Im in Kenya and could only watch the episodes on CZcams. How can i access the rest? The website says its not available in my region 🤦‍♀️

  • @tahwillow667
    @tahwillow667 Před 23 dny +3

    He’s doing too much 😭

  • @MarthaBurleson
    @MarthaBurleson Před 8 dny

    When a man dont like to be questioned. He has secrets and is not genuine

  • @bippityboppityboo2u
    @bippityboppityboo2u Před 26 dny +1

    His behind needs to be humbled in the worst way. Sis run and never look back..hes rhe type to teybtonqin you back only to neglect you even more...very toxic

  • @marieeleonaregeffrard81
    @marieeleonaregeffrard81 Před 26 dny +3

    Sandia you can do MUCH better than this.

  • @asimenyemwakyanjala1363
    @asimenyemwakyanjala1363 Před 26 dny +2

    Forcing things. please let him be

  • @jnieviepierre4916
    @jnieviepierre4916 Před 17 dny +2

    Girl run

  • @lovenessfrank95
    @lovenessfrank95 Před 27 dny +4

    this guy irritates me

  • @webdev9977
    @webdev9977 Před 24 dny

    Who would’ve known Oprah loved drama so much

  • @neshamojanay9423
    @neshamojanay9423 Před 23 dny +1

    I don't think Safaree particularly care for Sandia.

  • @chanelmitchell1632
    @chanelmitchell1632 Před 23 dny +2

    He's Abusive.

  • @Zee-mu1zj
    @Zee-mu1zj Před 27 dny +1

    He doesn't give a sh** about her, man! ...So sad

  • @LoneliseNtshuntshe-jr5ow
    @LoneliseNtshuntshe-jr5ow Před 20 dny +1

    Sandia you worth more than you, this dude is a boy who disrespect you, that's it I would never fight for a relationship with someone like him never

  • @hanneliehector7365
    @hanneliehector7365 Před 16 dny +1

    How do we climb through the screen and handle this for lil sis..cause sir sir….oooooo🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

  • @workingmomnc3013
    @workingmomnc3013 Před 27 dny +1

    Hes werid and they talked online 😂😂😂😂

  • @twentyshadesofkay2882
    @twentyshadesofkay2882 Před 27 dny +2

    He's verbally abusive

  • @heathab...._-_
    @heathab...._-_ Před 27 dny +3

    He gives me gemini and Aquarius vibes

    • @afrocaribbelle
      @afrocaribbelle Před 27 dny +3

      He gives me i grew up without any father figure/ male role model to teach me how to be a man, so i learned from those redpill podcasts.

    • @serveriamanning6313
      @serveriamanning6313 Před 27 dny +1

      Oh please..he gives azzhole vibes..idgaf about his sign.

  • @NikkiRich174
    @NikkiRich174 Před 26 dny

    Honestly If She Like It I LOVE It... 🌹Colored 👓 & Narcissism Does Not Mix!

  • @chanelmitchell1632
    @chanelmitchell1632 Před 23 dny

    "I'll show you then" and he has