Finding Alignment In My Life After Being Fired | Alec Fischer | TEDxUMN

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  • čas přidán 13. 11. 2019
  • He got fired. See how Alec fought his way back to success after the difficulty of losing his job by combining passion and purpose in his work. Alec Fischer is an award-winning documentary filmmaker, digital content creator, and nationally featured LGBTQ+ advocate living in the Midwest. At age 17, he created a short documentary titled “Minnesota Nice?” addressing the rising suicide rates of high school students in Minnesota. The documentary led to legislative changes throughout the state and was screened in schools across the world. As a sophomore in college, Alec was named a Dalai Lama Fellow for his advocacy work and has since been featured by sites including MTV, Buzzfeed, The Washington Times, and USA Today. Now a 25 year-old digital influencer with over 50k+ followers across social platforms and founder of two media companies (Fischr Media and GenQ Media), he continues to use digital storytelling as a catalyst for conversation and change. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 277

  • @jacintatate
    @jacintatate Před 3 lety +387

    I was fired this week and I kept my pride refusing to shed a tear... until I reached the door then I cried like a baby.

    • @purnima8255
      @purnima8255 Před 3 lety +10

      Jacinta Tate good that you could let it off and didn’t hold back keeping things inside for months

    • @jacintatate
      @jacintatate Před 3 lety +12

      @@purnima8255 thank you :). I definitely felt better after letting it out. and my family were a huge support for me.

    • @madchen00
      @madchen00 Před 3 lety +44

      I was let go just Friday and even though I knew the job wasn’t a good fit for me... I still cried like a baby. I think it’s just a mentality we have built in most of us to cry even though we know deep down it was for the best. No one likes to get fired, we want to leave on our own terms, not theirs. Here’s to the next chapter in my future!

    • @ditsokar4168
      @ditsokar4168 Před 3 lety +9

      Its sucks bro I know the feeling

    • @bluecollarofthewill
      @bluecollarofthewill Před 2 lety +12

      Same thing happened to me two days ago! I didn’t cry until I was safe in my car away from everyone 😭

  • @shinahereford8582
    @shinahereford8582 Před 3 lety +295

    I was terminated for telling the truth about my workplace. But it definitely is an blessing. Thanks for this

    • @KINNOHA
      @KINNOHA Před 3 lety +5

      me too

    • @efficircus
      @efficircus Před 3 lety +12

      Me too! And believe me it's a blessing. It's your time to shine!

    • @pirokitsune
      @pirokitsune Před 3 lety +17

      Me three. It seems like honesty isn’t a part of “the Boss” mentality.

    • @shaniecem6849
      @shaniecem6849 Před 3 lety +3

      Me too

    • @yashjain1497
      @yashjain1497 Před 3 lety +6

      Lol me 4 just yesterday

  • @2steaksandwiches665
    @2steaksandwiches665 Před 2 lety +125

    Just got fired and I’m owning it. I use the word fired with my family and friends and terminated with potential employers. Be open and honest about it. I just had an interview yesterday and the lady goes… It happens… I don’t really care about that, let’s move on. And I’m probably getting an offer in the next week. Don’t let it stigmatize you. I can empathize with this young man. I also suffer from depression and anxiety. I’m getting help on that but I can tell you that when things are good, they’re good with me. I need to work on when things aren’t good. I’m partially to blame for being fired and if you can’t take ownership of some of that, you need to look back in the mirror.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      @@2steaksandwiches665 Congrats 👏 God bless u!

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      @@2steaksandwiches665 pass this message along if u know any person who's struggling or suffering due to job termination. Cuong's example may enlighten a friend or two...

    • @freefallpilot
      @freefallpilot Před rokem +4

      I have to know now, did you get the offer?! Really hope you did 😊

    • @nostromo7928
      @nostromo7928 Před rokem +3

      Thank you so much for your post. I was fired today. Like you, it was also partly my fault and also like you, I struggle with anxiety and depression + CPTSD. I feel like I really let myself down and am really down on myself. Unfortunately, I won't have any references from this job and I don't know what to do. I really liked the work itself and the people I served. I've just had waayyy too much stress in the last 12 months. My mom died last year and since then it's been one thing after another rapidly like dominoes. I got overstimulated, anxious, angry and depressed and blew up at my coworkers who have similar mental health issues. I just don't know yet how to talk about this in an interview. I don't want to lie and say that I just quit on my own. 😥

  • @Ghostshark83
    @Ghostshark83 Před rokem +56

    I was just fired today. I feel like I don't know where I belong. But now I feel (honestly, somewhat) determined to find my passion and purpose. I will find some sort of employment that makes me happy, even if I have to create it.
    Thank you for this video.

    • @benpainter6874
      @benpainter6874 Před rokem +3

      Got fired today. I know exactly how you feel. I feel like I'm the only one companies don't want. Feel useless but I know there's gotta be something out there.

    • @KyleGravesLive
      @KyleGravesLive Před 10 měsíci +3

      Me too , got canned today. Hope you find your dream job ✌️

    • @katielewis6575
      @katielewis6575 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I see you left this post 8 months ago. How are you now? I just got fired Friday and I can’t shake the grief.

    • @mrbeasty5449
      @mrbeasty5449 Před 7 měsíci

      @@katielewis6575hey are u there?

    • @Mr.Stopmotion89
      @Mr.Stopmotion89 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Same got fired after coming back after getting covid

  • @sub_z3r000
    @sub_z3r000 Před 4 lety +100

    got fired from my job that gave me full benefits for free three weeks ago. now i’m a 21 y/o pursuing music, and side jobs while dodging peoples disappointment in me

    • @alig6616
      @alig6616 Před 2 lety +5

      The same thing happened to me. And you know what, success is totally what you perceive it to be. Getting fired sure did humble me, it it also reminded me how little I truly cared about the societal expectations of “success” and that I needed to rewrite what success looks like to me. I wish you nothing but blessings and success (whatever your perceive that to be) in your life. Keep sharing your music and keep on keepin on, you’re unstoppable ❤️

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

    • @benpainter6874
      @benpainter6874 Před rokem

      Me too. I can't keep a regular job

  • @poonphansukhumsawad3110
    @poonphansukhumsawad3110 Před 4 lety +148

    I was fired two days ago. This helps a lot. Thank you Alec

    • @purnima8255
      @purnima8255 Před 3 lety +10

      It’s going to be fine. It would pass. Sending you blessings!

    • @jeffreyscottwest7842
      @jeffreyscottwest7842 Před 3 lety

      I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex job back without any stress or delay.. He helped me get mine back... Text Dr Frederick on WhatsApp
      (+161,7465,5953)

    • @jeffreyscottwest7842
      @jeffreyscottwest7842 Před 3 lety

      I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex job back without any stress or delay.. He helped me get mine back... Text Dr Frederick on WhatsApp
      (+161,7465,5953)

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety +3

      you'll be alright, everything will be okay, be positive cheers

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety +3

      I hope you can find a job soon, cheers

  • @ceceparra
    @ceceparra Před 3 lety +142

    Truly inspiring. Left an extremely volatile work environment with an emotionally abusive boss and this helped lift my spirits and realize that I deserve better.

    • @markitaliah8278
      @markitaliah8278 Před 2 lety +4

      Relate alot

    • @tinaanderson200
      @tinaanderson200 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes, me being survivor 💪 I'm sick 😫 of the verbal and mental abuse

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      @@markitaliah8278 I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      @@tinaanderson200 I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @ALu-nq8rf
    @ALu-nq8rf Před rokem +19

    I got fired a week ago from one of my two jobs, and aside from losing my health insurance, i feel just a huge sense of relief at the idea of never being BOH again, never having to interact with certain people again.

  • @averyhurtsgaming
    @averyhurtsgaming Před 2 lety +35

    I got fired from my job as a Personal Trainer today. I’ve never been so disappointed in my life and never been fired from a job ever

    • @angelfortunee4302
      @angelfortunee4302 Před rokem +3

      How are you now? Rooting for you

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

    • @KyleGravesLive
      @KyleGravesLive Před 10 měsíci

      I got canned today , moving forward

  • @wifferstess2824
    @wifferstess2824 Před 3 lety +30

    I read somewhere that whenever someone says "you can't", "get real", etc, that is usually out of fear. Often it means "they can't".

    • @martonszekeres1836
      @martonszekeres1836 Před 3 lety

      They can, though. They're the ones working at the company we're not getting hired at

  • @bestisyettocome905
    @bestisyettocome905 Před 3 lety +84

    I lost my job 5 years back... Started something of my own. However, still I cannot forget that traumatic experience. I am not sure how I can erase that experience.

    • @user-mn6li2yv4d
      @user-mn6li2yv4d Před 2 lety +11

      And how u doing now . I am 33 . I quit my abusive job . I have some savings . I want to start something even small . I hate ‘boss culture’ . I hope u r doing fine and happy

    • @bestisyettocome905
      @bestisyettocome905 Před 2 lety +8

      @@user-mn6li2yv4d Better than what I was doing in my job. Atleast peace of mind... Regarding financials.. Thas okay. I want to live happy then to be rich. Leaving peacefully is better any day.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      How about 10 yrs with a dead-end in site! Das wut happened to my neighbor!
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      @@user-mn6li2yv4d I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @CDMButterfly
      @CDMButterfly Před 5 měsíci

      EMDR can work for that.

  • @irishduran
    @irishduran Před 3 lety +67

    At every moment of your life, you are good enough for the world. ❤️

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @TheCereLove
    @TheCereLove Před 3 měsíci +2

    I needed this, i was wrongfully terminated in the worst way, defamed, accused and lied on just to get me out. It sucks being attractive, smart and hardworking.

  • @kingerin23
    @kingerin23 Před 3 lety +49

    I just lost my job this week and this definitely helped me get out the funk I was in!

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @morgancoetzee4219
    @morgancoetzee4219 Před 2 lety +35

    I got laid off because I was getting replaced by a new automated system. I was all smiles and understanding. Till I drove away from the office. I then started bawling my eyes out. However I do think it's a blessing as I drove extremely far and barely saw my family and friends because of that job. Just a little lost to be honest but I'll find my way

    • @angelfortunee4302
      @angelfortunee4302 Před rokem +1

      Hey, I am so so sorry about this. I am rooting for you. Please move on, you can, I'm sure you are probably trying to upskill, stay on course you can and you are valuable

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @benpainter6874
      @benpainter6874 Před rokem

      I feel you. I can't hold down any job. No one wants me. Things will get better.

    • @monishagowda8928
      @monishagowda8928 Před rokem

      Things will definitely get better. Rooting for you💛💛

    • @dali-wk6oe
      @dali-wk6oe Před 6 měsíci

      Same

  • @YumegakaMurakumo
    @YumegakaMurakumo Před 2 lety +12

    It's been 9 days since my last employment. I come back to this video and hear "I was fired on the 5th of January" my birthday. Then I get fired on my birthday of this year.
    I guess I should see this as a birthday gift to PUSH myself to do what I actually want to do for a living. Every time I see 3️⃣3️⃣ I am reminded of what I need to do.
    I am *UNEMPLOYABLE* like many of us are. The thing is to keep up that encouragement and motivation going in such a harsh world we live in. To keep pushing forward because no one is going to save you except yourself.
    As I apply to job after job after job, I think to myself...This is ridiculous, this is no different than a freelancer hunting for animation/art etc. clients...
    This video is a huge drive for me to continue to push myself in what I actually want to do for a living.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @kademmohammed6836
    @kademmohammed6836 Před 3 lety +20

    "if none of these companies are gonna hire me, that's OK,...i'll hire myself"
    Where i am right now !

  • @Renewed-Value
    @Renewed-Value Před 3 lety +38

    Thank you, Alec. My facility decided to close. My last day is the 25th of Sept. My first son was born last year and we just bought a house two years ago. I'm trying to figure out how I can look at this as an opportunity rather than a burden.

    • @ichoosehope
      @ichoosehope Před 2 lety +1

      I have only five days left on my job. Glad I found this video.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @thisgirlkarenn
    @thisgirlkarenn Před rokem +5

    I lost my job (of 11 years) 6 months ago. I was optimistic, clear and driven for the first 4 months. After no success with job applications and interviews, I started a flower business (my dream for the last 10 years).
    I received brief, sporadic moments of progress but tonight, I've consumed all of my savings and my bank account reached -$183. I worry about my next meal and about the upcoming bill that will be declined. I'm heartbroken and scared.

    • @nostromo7928
      @nostromo7928 Před rokem +3

      I hope and pray that things have improved for you since you posted your comments. I relate very strongly with your words. Trying to remind myself that it gets pretty dark before the sun rises but it always rises (just lost my job too.)

  • @D0vin00
    @D0vin00 Před 2 lety +10

    This only works IF you’re well mentally and haven’t been heavily traumatized or burned out!

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      U r still better than my neighbor Cuong!
      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and many other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his major, mental illness conditions. He likes to put up a tough, fake front in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
      U r definitely a good person in our society!

  • @halfbakedpotatoe6351
    @halfbakedpotatoe6351 Před 3 lety +26

    Brother let me tell you
    Whenever I get to a happy place
    Able to stand on my feet again
    Bounce back from where I am today
    I will remember your name
    And your words

    • @halfbakedpotatoe6351
      @halfbakedpotatoe6351 Před 3 lety +2

      All it took is one month of grinding
      I was lucky, a lot of times
      But I made it
      Thanks man
      And many others who motivated me through their words
      Thank you

  • @nc5total
    @nc5total Před 3 lety +37

    I’ve been trying to find a job for a year now.. rejection after rejection.. seems much harder to stay optimistic when you have a family who depends on you, because I never sleep anymore .. smh . Holding on

    • @scotchwhisky6094
      @scotchwhisky6094 Před 2 lety +1

      Getting fired looks bad on your resume that's why you're not getting hired.

    • @dustybrammer8279
      @dustybrammer8279 Před 2 lety +2

      I pray you’ve found a job and have healed.

    • @bestisyettocome905
      @bestisyettocome905 Před 2 lety

      Pray God for a good job.

    • @ichoosehope
      @ichoosehope Před 2 lety

      How are you today?

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @saniasingh1867
    @saniasingh1867 Před 3 lety +15

    I am fired from my job today, it's lockdown here rn. I am feeling dead inside. Wanna go away from everything and cry properly. Just need some blessings.

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety +1

      I hope you found a job by now, cheers, keep being positive

    • @saniasingh1867
      @saniasingh1867 Před 2 lety +3

      @@higherpurpose1212 thanks, yes I have a job now. Thanks for you concern and reply. Appreciate it.❤

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety

      @@saniasingh1867 I hope I find a job within 3 months when I leave my current one either end of the year or first quarter of next year. Really no longer motivated by this current job.

    • @saniasingh1867
      @saniasingh1867 Před 2 lety

      @@higherpurpose1212 am sure you will🌈 where are you from though?

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety

      @@saniasingh1867 Australia

  • @higherpurpose1212
    @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety +22

    Great talk. I just tendered my resignation letter today , being with the company for 15 years, since there is no other option, got pushed out. I know I will be okay even though I haven't been sleeping mostly due to anxiety, but I know I will be fine as long as I tell myself that I can handle it, that job is not my life...

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @Simplentertainments
      @Simplentertainments Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing your story. I too have been having terrible sleep, that roll ball into negative thinking tendencies.

    • @trina7723
      @trina7723 Před 11 měsíci

      How are you doing now?

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 11 měsíci

      @@trina7723 I found a job, it's stressful and I don't sleep much thinking about how and when I'm gonna quit. I only get good sleep with help from alcohol, but I'm trying to do my job as best as I can, I just don't want to leave too soon because I'm trying not to leave a bad impression with my GM and senior mentors, but I'm waiting for the right time, perhaps in 2 or 3 months when I've saved enough to last for rent and bills.

  • @pirokitsune
    @pirokitsune Před 3 lety +17

    This is great. I got fired for reporting damage to a vehicle for Amazon. And because we drivers are contracted and not a true part of Amazon our individual company owners can do what they want with us. It’s been a few months and I’m still angry about it. But this really helps. Working for a boss who thinks his employees are “disposable like paper cups” isn’t good for anyone.

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety +1

      I hope you found a job already that you enjoy, be positive, cheers

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @kristenraszeja663
    @kristenraszeja663 Před 3 lety +8

    Yes I am so inspired I feel so connected to your story. I am in the mean time of being fired but knowing there’s more for me I need to realize I have more to give.

  • @DoubleDee126
    @DoubleDee126 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @flchung928
    @flchung928 Před 3 lety +15

    Thank you for sharing this! I’m pushed out of my job, but I see this as a blessing in disguise. I am going to focus on the bigger picture and put the focus on adding value to the world.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      You're still valuable and young. Please read the following real example 🙏 n remember ur worth!
      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @thejoymovement2659
    @thejoymovement2659 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Well said! As my friend, Rachel Macy Stafford shares, "When we see each other's scars, we love each other more." Impressed by your courageous vulnerability and your passion to inspire others during a difficult season of life. Wishing you great success in all you do!

  • @nicolekoning2812
    @nicolekoning2812 Před rokem +2

    This is exactly what I needed to see. I just went through a tedious interview process and when they heard I was previously dismissed all the good work and professionalism went out of the door - people make mistakes and people can change. These things should not be held against you. I am so inspired by your story! Thank you. I will try to remain true to myself, and recognize my self-worth! I am worth it. I am valuable.
    I love your Ted Talk.

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 Před 3 lety +5

    Great soul. Destined for greatness. Patience Persistent n Passion. Greatest strength is your self belief. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @wilsonz9232
    @wilsonz9232 Před 3 lety +4

    Love you bro thank you for this helpful story

  • @dr.patricelittle9494
    @dr.patricelittle9494 Před rokem

    This 🔥. Thank you for your transparency

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this awesome video Alec 🙏
    I was laid off last Wednesday a few days shy of my 5 year work anniversary.
    It was a shock to me and everyone else in the company. And...a definite blessing. Your words have given me energy and strength. Thank you so much 🙏🙏

  • @ExcelTutorials1
    @ExcelTutorials1 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the video. Got fired today, but this is inspirational!

  • @andrearobinson2512
    @andrearobinson2512 Před rokem

    This is an amazing talk. I can relate to it in many ways including turning a five minute story into a 30 minute story 😊

  • @roxannerodriguez7075
    @roxannerodriguez7075 Před 3 lety +13

    I work thru a temp company, where I spent over 6 months working for the same company. Welp.... Last week they chose not to have me back. :/
    I don't know why, and I can't talk with them, I can only talk with the temp company. It sucks... There's other temp work out there, but I had friends there and knew what I was doing and was close to having enough hours put in there, to be hired by the company itself... Today, I'm watching Ted Talks all morning long. I need some motivation! Thanks for listening! 💜

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @ashleydream182
    @ashleydream182 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you for this!! I so needed it!💕✨

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      God bless u 🙏. Da grind is difficult. It's alright to be down. Everyone is down even rich people.
      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @sartikaharahap6603
    @sartikaharahap6603 Před 2 lety +10

    I got laid off last week after working for 7 years without any notice t. I was a journalist working in media. its crazy times! I do believe in myself! I'll get through this besides this a video makes me feel so much better! I know what I'm gonna do now! the universe has my back, be positive and keep having faith. thx for this Alec!!! Namaste!

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +2

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @marcorossi3390
    @marcorossi3390 Před rokem

    great speech and motivating attitude thanks

  • @stefaniecurtis815
    @stefaniecurtis815 Před 4 lety +13

    I needed to hear this! Thank you for sharing your story 🙏

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @oscarswain3238
    @oscarswain3238 Před 3 lety +2

    I needed this. You are a nice soul. Thanks

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @hallemadeleine5239
    @hallemadeleine5239 Před 4 lety +10

    Love it Alec!!! Your journey is so incredible - thank you for sharing your story with world and inspiring others!

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @HDBackpackPro
    @HDBackpackPro Před 6 měsíci +1

    I just got fired yesterday. I don't know what to do in life. I don't really have any passions or jobs I want to try. But first I will take some me time before i start looking.

  • @juliaevans9521
    @juliaevans9521 Před 2 lety +10

    So glad I found and listened to your talk which really put my situation into perspective and reminded me I can be successful independently.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @AndreCoelhoMatos
    @AndreCoelhoMatos Před rokem +2

    I’m about to lose my job in the coming weeks. I’ve hired a lawyer and he is helping me get at least what I’ve earned. Had no alternative after my boss cornered me.She harrased and bullied me for four years, suddenly tells me I’m going to be put on a Performance Review with no prior warning at all (99% of those end up in termination), which conveniently would happen just before I’m entitled to get a bonus.
    I couldn’t say anything about it as I was an overseas sponsored worker, so I kept it all inside until my permanent residency visa came in the mail, and then I just lawyered up and I’m fighting for my rights.
    I can’t wait for this to be over and be free from that boss, but I am afraid of being a failure after since I’m not going to leave on good terms and that will impact my employability

  • @kristenraszeja663
    @kristenraszeja663 Před 3 lety +9

    I am so grateful to hear your story. It makes me not wanna give up

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @kirab3971
    @kirab3971 Před rokem

    Thank u. I needed this

  • @birktiyonas8319
    @birktiyonas8319 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I got fired the day before yesterday because I confronted the manager for wrongfully accusing me which btw he mistook it for a disrespect and developing an attitude. But am happy because I let myself fight my own battle

  • @shannongaeta4234
    @shannongaeta4234 Před rokem +3

    This is brilliant! That’s for saving me from my thoughts and helping me understand that I can hire myself doing what I love.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @sarah23sbmg
    @sarah23sbmg Před rokem +1

    Well done Alec. Inspiring

  • @destinyemcgill4621
    @destinyemcgill4621 Před 3 lety +4

    This helped me. Thank you!

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @pigsinpyjamas9410
    @pigsinpyjamas9410 Před 7 měsíci

    And this is why so many people are starting their own business. Take care out there x

  • @maruscuizzatto9551
    @maruscuizzatto9551 Před rokem +8

    I was fired today through a whatsapp message; thumbs up if you are trying to feel motivated right now

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @ughchelsey
    @ughchelsey Před 3 lety +3

    I needed this talk. I love it :)

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      U r still better than my neighbor Cuong!
      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and many other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his major, mental illness conditions. He likes to put up a tough, fake front in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
      U r definitely a good person in our society!

  • @michelleray3043
    @michelleray3043 Před rokem +1

    ah! thank you for this. those dreaded questions.. what've you been up to? what's your schedule like? how was your day? do anything fun lately?

  • @djcrank4life
    @djcrank4life Před 2 lety

    Thank You :)

  • @Simplentertainments
    @Simplentertainments Před rokem +4

    Summary:
    Losing financial stability sucks, but losing your soul is way worse. Life is hard, and people around you can either make it harder or easier for you.
    3 things that can help:
    1. Find what ignites your passion and purpose. If you can’t find anything, try new things!
    2. Find a therapist. Your friends and family might always be there for you, but they can’t help you overcome some of the mental block/challenges as a professional therapist could.
    3. Surround yourself with people who can and will lift you up. Either those who keep you inspire or those who support you even if they’re not 💯 sure what you’re going through.
    The best of luck of all of us out there who lost our jobs and who still have a flame of passion inside, no matter how small.
    We got this! 🔥

  • @jtjohnny1021
    @jtjohnny1021 Před 3 lety +10

    Just got let go and it's painful

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @RoseaneBFlower
    @RoseaneBFlower Před 2 lety +4

    Well done Alec 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 For more people like you in the world.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @djamz4479
    @djamz4479 Před 2 lety +3

    Very nice. Well done.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      U r still better than my neighbor Cuong!
      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and many other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his major, mental illness conditions. He likes to put up a tough, fake front in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
      U r definitely a good, useful person in our society!

  • @scudberries2126
    @scudberries2126 Před 4 lety +6

    This was awesome

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @jackienjeri2404
    @jackienjeri2404 Před 6 měsíci

    I have lost mine..and feel really awful...but I believe all will be well

  • @SongofaBeach2012
    @SongofaBeach2012 Před 7 měsíci

    I was unfairly fired by a toxic boss in September. I never gave up looking for another job and yesterday I had 2 interviews one of which ended up hiring me on the spot! Never doubt yourself, visualize what you want and deserve in an employer, apply apply apply and realize theres always something better!

  • @davidmawira1593
    @davidmawira1593 Před 2 lety +5

    Got fired at the end of April, Budget cut. I hope I'll find a job to help my family and pay bills.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      Condolences 🙏 Dave. I know u won't let up cuz u got a fam. Tuff time ⏲️ makes u tuff dude. I've had da same job for like 10 yrs. Not much money since I choose to work pt especially last yr n this. But hey I work n stay busy with chores n exercises. I get to go places! Enjoying it is also essential! ☺️ hope u find a job and also enjoy da tuff times with ur fam 💪. God bless u.
      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @davidmawira1593
      @davidmawira1593 Před rokem +1

      @@small_fries7573 thanks bro for the word. I got somewhere finally,

  • @CDMButterfly
    @CDMButterfly Před 5 měsíci

    I just got fired for the first time after working ten years. Sad and angry, and also motivated to start my own business.

  • @JMcDonald2001
    @JMcDonald2001 Před 2 lety +5

    I was fired 6 years ago from just doing my job as a bagger i was there best bagger for 3.5 years and it still haunts me and i plan to work at the same place but a different location how will i know i can learn from my mistakes

    • @SimpleLifeAlways81
      @SimpleLifeAlways81 Před rokem +1

      You can do something better than bagging. Try cashier jobs.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @matteoluciano7514
    @matteoluciano7514 Před rokem +2

    Got fired, thanks that i found this vid

  • @koechjapheth8485
    @koechjapheth8485 Před 4 lety +18

    Got laid off coz of covid. Comforting to know am not alone and that this could actually be an opportunity

    • @techandtravelbyakash9858
      @techandtravelbyakash9858 Před 4 lety +2

      I am with you bruh. I too got laid off due to covid

    • @carltoncoleman454
      @carltoncoleman454 Před 4 lety +2

      Use this time to look for business opportunities.

    • @aravindj6550
      @aravindj6550 Před 3 lety +1

      @@techandtravelbyakash9858 same here.

    • @saniasingh1867
      @saniasingh1867 Před 3 lety

      The same has happened to me today. I am certainly not feeling good about it either but my mother is helping me out with some positivity that I can use.

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Před 2 lety

      everything will be alright, it's part of life, cheers

  • @KaLiMpOnGWaLa
    @KaLiMpOnGWaLa Před rokem

    great video for me its very inspiration for me also

  • @KarisaKarmali
    @KarisaKarmali Před rokem +6

    THEY were not good enough for you! 👏

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @woffee_8
    @woffee_8 Před rokem +1

    I just got fired and it's my fault , I was feeling scared and anxious after going to the doctor for one day, and since one day of kind of not going to work got me so scared, I then didn't go for 5 days ,the the same cycle of doubting if I'm good enough or just thinking what people will think, got me. I feel lost now, I don't know what to do.

    • @Deepanshu302
      @Deepanshu302 Před 8 měsíci

      I am in same situation can we talk. May be I will feel better . I am lost

  • @Poppomatic64
    @Poppomatic64 Před rokem +2

    I think im about to get fired, bracing for it

  • @ChristopherDonnerArtist
    @ChristopherDonnerArtist Před 2 lety +4

    Not gonna lie . I needed this

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @scottyh8494
    @scottyh8494 Před 10 měsíci

    Brilliant…

  • @muhammadsidqil2174
    @muhammadsidqil2174 Před 2 lety +4

    I feel really awful I failed to meet the standard of the search and rescue in my country regardless that I passed all of the courses they sent me overseas. I feel like a failure.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @lavender_stars
    @lavender_stars Před měsícem

    was fired on April 12.. been procrastinating for a week, let's see if this changes anything :(

  • @truthseekerjesusfollower6393

    I keep getting fired non stop it’s happening smh

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @uncommonman6210
    @uncommonman6210 Před 2 lety +7

    I GOT FIRED TODAY 😞

    • @SimpleLifeAlways81
      @SimpleLifeAlways81 Před rokem +1

      Did you find a job?

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Sorry man. I hope this next example motivate u! True story.
      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @TheCoolOwen
    @TheCoolOwen Před 2 lety +6

    Been fired 4 times. They wouldn’t know talent if it hit them upside the head with a bag of nickels.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem +1

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @eggmcmuffin1030
    @eggmcmuffin1030 Před rokem +4

    I’m about to get fired. Pretty scared and highly stressed out waiting for it. I wish they would just do it already. What are the chances I win the lottery to make up for this? 😢

    • @renesoriano9641
      @renesoriano9641 Před rokem +3

      I hope you pick yourself up man I wish you the best, same thing is happening to me I’ll see how it goes

    • @eggmcmuffin1030
      @eggmcmuffin1030 Před rokem +2

      Update: I did actually purchase a lotto ticket and lost $2. But I still have my job!!! I hope everything works out for you too. Don’t give up!

  • @diadeltrus
    @diadeltrus Před 8 měsíci

    I was fired from my first ever dream job and I'm gonna make it worth it.

  • @splitraven7060
    @splitraven7060 Před 8 měsíci

    I’m about to be terminated. I feel anxious 😬 a both happy and sad. It’s good thing at the end of the day. Time for a change.

  • @elroycorreia7432
    @elroycorreia7432 Před 3 lety +5

    Hi, I got fired for speaking about what is wrong.

    • @shaniecem6849
      @shaniecem6849 Před 3 lety

      I can relate

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @scotchwhisky6094
    @scotchwhisky6094 Před 2 lety +9

    Get fired then work another job. Rinse and repeat until you're too old to work. This is the reality for the average man, you're screwed from the start.

  • @varunishere
    @varunishere Před 2 měsíci

    I was fired for telling truth & became target of someone’s bad mood.

  • @zedroastersinc6616
    @zedroastersinc6616 Před rokem

    5 months now. Been rough but I just got my Degree last month and hopeful for the future

  • @lovarou
    @lovarou Před 3 lety +8

    I cried twice while being fired lol

    • @oriverde
      @oriverde Před 2 lety +5

      Twice? I have cried more this week than all this year combined

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Aww. Feel bad 4 u. At least u r humbled 🙂 unlike...
      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @charmmorningstar7530
    @charmmorningstar7530 Před rokem +2

    I got laid off today. Don’t ever work for Wells Fargo!

  • @donnabright7022
    @donnabright7022 Před 2 lety +1

    I pit pit positive manifestations constantly, to the Universe several worked for me

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @reilwaystation9511
    @reilwaystation9511 Před 2 lety +4

    I used to work in a startup company for 3 years watch the company grows and work hard to grow it now it have 3 offices. New guys came then me and my Senior both of us are fired (my violation is about not maintaining the companies equipment not my job but It's fine) now I'm just trading the forex market I'm not yet an expert but I hope I can be good at this.

  • @nivea878
    @nivea878 Před rokem

    how many rejections i encountert in my life🤣 i speak to much or they just think no way this man is complicated

  • @Xray_Mike
    @Xray_Mike Před 8 měsíci +1

    Nothing this man said was at all helpful. I'm still unemployed and broke.

  • @mohamedmustafe2059
    @mohamedmustafe2059 Před 2 lety

    If you want to stop your job get in the link

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @juliomiranda2131
    @juliomiranda2131 Před 6 měsíci

    I might get fired for violating 2 safety policies and I probably deserve it.

  • @manisharani674
    @manisharani674 Před 3 lety +2

    Someone please help.. cz I got to know that I might b fire soon.😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney Před 3 lety

      What happened !? I am in the same boat I’m scared 😭😭

    • @gregh6961
      @gregh6961 Před 3 lety +1

      I'm in the same boat too. My performance tanked because of my mental health and I have a meeting with HR this week. I think they're going to put me on a PIP

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      @@SharlenesJourney Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      @@gregh6961 Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
      Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.

  • @HaiNguyen-cz2bj
    @HaiNguyen-cz2bj Před rokem

    bruh this aint help.

  • @jasonchui5166
    @jasonchui5166 Před 2 lety +1

    The jagged birch apparently mend because idea cranially rush atop a determined shield. faint fair, past stranger

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 Před rokem

      Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
      I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
      Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
      Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
      Almost no social interactions outside his family.
      Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
      I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
      People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.

  • @BigBossGR
    @BigBossGR Před 3 lety +1

    This is all nonsense. How do you pay rent? What if you dont have creative skills?

    • @awood9214
      @awood9214 Před 3 lety +11

      The point is to not give up. If you have to take a low paying job just know it's only temporary. Life can be difficult, but don't make it worse by letting bad times turn you into a bad person. Give yourself time to breathe, reassess what you want outta life, then go get it. Best of luck to you bro

    • @feliciachow7172
      @feliciachow7172 Před 3 lety +3

      Uber delivery?

  • @marci2222
    @marci2222 Před 10 měsíci +1

    im 16 and just wanted a summer job. i have no experience, im shy, i have no social skills and im slow on doing things but still got to be a waitress on a 4 stars hotel. i lasted 2 days and they fired me. i know my expectations shouldn't be so high but i still feel useless and unmotivated to try another job bcs the only jobs out there are of this type 🥹 i dont know if i should cry or something like that lol