Kendall Jenner Breaks Down How Anxiety Affects Her Plans | Open Minded | Session 4 | Vogue
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- How can you stop anticipatory anxiety? In the fourth and final episode of Open-Minded, Kendall Jenner sits down with Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone, to discuss how a negative view of the future can prevent us from living in the present. Kendall and Lori discuss how to know when anxiety is problematic vs. productive, how anxiety impacts memory and exercises for dealing with anticipatory anxiety.
The National Alliance on Mental Illness, is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness. For more information on anxiety symptoms, treatment, and resources please visit: nami.org/anxiety.
If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. Connect with the NAMI HelpLine Mon-Fri, 10AM - 8PM (ET) by calling 800-950-6264 or CHAT at www.nami.org/help. In a crisis? Text “NAMI” to 741741, 24/7.
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Kendall Jenner Breaks Down How Anxiety Affects Her Plans | Open Minded | Session 4 | Vogue
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I already spoke them but I'm sadly in panama , gladly I found some help in the country.
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Thanks!
Just wow!
Amazing video!
Thank you so much for this amazing series!! ❤
It doesn’t matter how much money or privilege you have, anxiety and depression does not discriminate.
Duh
I think she's fine just more attention and all families friends fake I don't believe
She has anxiety because of fame and being followed everywhere.
Obviously 💀💀💀 did that even have to be commented
@@mikaaraneta based on the responses in the comment section, yes.
Anxiety+procrastination+overthinking is the worst combination ever.It plays with your head so much😩
omg it is absolutely the worst. it's kinda so debilitating and tormenting bc you'll absolutely feel guilty and stress out even more due to the procrastination (that was already due to the anxiety associated with the task in question) so it's just anxiety overload. I went through that when I was writing my master's dissertation and I do not wish to ever deal with anything similar ever again
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Omg this is totally me! I’m working on not procrastinating so much so hopefully I can gradually ease my anxiety as well.
YESS but it's been worse lately... literally can feel the breakdown about to happen at some point tonight
Cannot agree more. It's crippling!
It's great that she is speaking out about this. Hopefully these different conversations she's had with them have helped her get better coping mechanisms.
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It was great to have this conversation with you, Kendall! As a therapist, I so appreciate your openness and mission to help others with anxiety. I hope my tips are helpful for your community.
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Hi Lori, If someone is really anxious about eating with people that one doesnt know very well and your hands are shaking during eating. Do you have tips how to calm ? Thank youuuu
People are anxious about putting a food on table for their children to eat. Remember that. Being spoiled and dramatize about it is not the same.
Thank you❤️🙏
Thanks for the tips 😊
Kendall saying: yeah yeah, right, *laughing*, etc. It’s part of anxiety. Worrying the other person thinks we are not paying enough attention.
That intro honestly freaks me out every time.
I agree, not a great intro for an anxiety series... whoever made it clearly doesn't have anxiety lol
Yes not good for an anxiety awareness n management theme.... I thought I was the only one feeling triggered by that.
Same! I dread it every time lol especially when I’m having a really anxious day
I have to skip it every time!
Maybe that’s what they want us to feel like we have anxiety so we can remind ourselves that we are just like her. Like yes we all sometimes experience anxiety at different levels but that intro makes me think about marketing skills and reaching the viewer. It’s psychology all around. Bless you all.
She accepts she is privileged and calls herself "fortunate". Genuine and grateful gesture
Anyone else get anxiety the night before anything really small too? Then you cannot sleep, it just consumes you.
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yes, i'm a big over thinker so that definitely doesn't do me justice.
Yes! I don’t like it @ all!
Only before something something big, but up all night.
YESS
Loved how Kendall is bringing light to Anxiety which is often overlooked
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Bye no it’s not
It is normal to feel anxiety before certain things that may frighten or exite you, or something that you maybe trying to do for the first time.What's not normal is when you're experiencing something called " floating anxiety"
Feeling anxious all the time without a reason is a cause for concern .
yes agree
@@jaidaanderson4746 definitely not lol! Try bringing light to intense mood disorders bipolar and schizophrenia
As someone with anxiety I really appreciate this.
Absolutely
Same
ditto
Just goes to show that mental illness can affect anyone, regardless of privilege, fame, money, beauty…and it’s so great that she, and others with a large public platform are speaking out about mental health. We need to remove the stigma around mental illness and be able to talk about it as freely as we do physical illness.
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yes 100% agree. and the stigma associated with going to therapy. an ex friend of mine always had the most weird and gross reactions whenever someone said they go to therapy.
You speaking like a doctor 😎🖕😎®️
@@afeef6649 lol nope just someone who has experience with mental illness 😊
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I have said it before and I will say it again: just because someone struggles less than someone else doesn’t mean that what they’ve been through should be invalidated. There will always be someone who has been through something harder; everyone deserves empathy and respect regardless.
I started therapy because of my anxiety this year, I dropped out of college 4 months ago because I couldn't deal with it anymore it was eating me alive. I have no clue what the future holds but my mental health is way more important than ANYTHING else.
I didn’t drop out but abandoned my academic year you are not alone. I say the same thing, health comes first. Ironically I ended up abandoning because of being scared of the future but oh well
You’ll figure it out! I wish u the best! I went through this, you didn’t ask but my advice is to just let go off the fact that u didn’t finish college. That thought always ate at me after I dropped out, so just let it go. College will always be there to finish, but once u damage ur mental health by trying way too hard to get that degree, it’s hard to heal. So props to you by starting early and prioritizing yourself first!
@@pandasnot1778 this is so true. 💯
@sophie that’s okay! If you can, please reach out for help to anyone, friend or family. Just someone hearing you out and not saying anything is the best. But also, I haven’t gone to therapy yet, but constantly trying to let go of your past failures is a important, you didn’t choose to struggle with mental health. It takes time, but remember that you didn’t drop out to spiral again, you deserve that peace of mind. If therapy is accessible, please take it! Ur family would want you healing instead of ruminating and going crazy.
I'm honestly loving how Kendall is opening up to us, she's such a gem
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Never new there was a term for having anxiety about anticipating events. That is me to a T! Now I know where to start at least
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Yes 😭😭 i always thought that it was just the "overthinking" thing but it turns out to be anticipatory anxiety, it hits me hard!! But im glad to know some ways to try present as much as possible, thanks to this!
Kendall has been expressing her anxiety for years here and there and I feel like most people didn't take her seriously. But now, I am glad she has this platform to really dive deep into it (:
A part of my anxiety is definitely that too the point I cancel doctor appointments or am glad when plans fall through because I don’t have to worry about it any more.
i feel you, however i just went to the doctor and discovered a nutritional reason for what sets off my anxiety. maybe they will prescribe medical marijuana too, worth thinking about
I love how open she is,no fake reactions
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I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve had a panic attack cuz I was stressed about having a panic attack it’s so trippy
Can we love her even more? I love how she feels so real and transparent.
Hats off to Kendall and Vogue for creating this awesome content! Watching this, I feel like I'm doing an open session with my therapist. This really help me becoming more comfortable during my session. Because now I know that a lot of people are doing this too, and I know that I'm not alone. Thank you guys 💖
I’m really loving this series
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I have to admit, this pandemic insolation has really had me down.It has been more than a year, and for the first time in my life I find myself crying sometimes because worry and frustration. I watch one of Kendall's interviews and her strength, honestly about mental anxiety has helped me so much. I can't thank her enough for her genorocity in sharing tools that we can all use to help battle these negative feelings. ❤
I remember someone telling me that “financial stability does not equate to emotional stability” and that really is true. Sometimes, it even makes you more stressed with the fact that you feel that you don’t have the right to be stressed.
I've had my very first panic attack EVER last night and it sucked so bad. I couldn't breathe right. I felt like I was having a heart attack.
They say I'm overreacting. But I had no control over it, it controlled me for a horrifying 30 minutes.
I'm glad there are educational videos like this bringing awareness to anxiety. It gave me the information I needed to understand what was happening to me.
As someone that experiences this, especially with public speaking/giving presentations just like Kendall, I realize that it is more common than I thought. This video was very helpful and I really respect Kendall for doing this and opening up
Exactly! Its so bad, I can barely finish my presentation, I always get choked up :( I hate it
@@bianka94825 Over 85% of people experience it, you are not alone.
@@melanie851 in my class I was the only one and it sucked
My voice is always cracking, my professors always gives us report and ask to us to speak infront to practice but still it always scares and end up with a shaking voice as always😔
I do get panic attacks and it is so frightening. They can be so unpredictable. Feels good to know that I am not alone.
She is such a Scorpio! Looks hard and mean but has a soft heart ! Love her ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm a Scorpio, your summary was perfect,thank you.
People used to tell me that I was a negative person, having all these “what if” thoughts and being emotional and crying about it because I was too anxious and scared about what was going to happen in the next minutes of my life and I couldn’t focus on anything and would end up just fighting with the few people I trust. I thought this was just my personality and I just need to grow up and change. Nobody told me I had anxiety issues. It was until i watched this series, particularly this episode, that It registered to me that I might have anticipatory anxiety. So I have been looking for a good doctor around my area now, hoping I could talk about it. So thank you for creating contents like this!
i dont wanna self diagnosed but that's so much same with me ,i'm sometimes being perfectionist and doesn't give a room for a small mistake, that's really make me anxious and it's really hard to control that feelings like i mean try to stop those anxiety of worrying about something that doesn't actually happens. Omg that's so true.
These sessions are probably the best things Kendall has done as an influencer
this makes me feel so good knowing I'm not alone in the things I struggle with. thank u kenny:)
Out of context but I love her hair and makeup on this.
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I had the same exact reaction as Kendall when the psychotherapist was talking about how stress could affect your memory, mind blowing..
I can totally relate.. didn’t even know I had this type of anxiety. Omg. Thanks for speaking up about this Kendall!
She's really bold nd really cheerful
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I am kendall and kendall is me I relate to every single thing she said
Same. There is a lot of us and that makes me feel better.
Same except for the financially stable part lmao
Something that always helps me, when I feel those dreaded anxiety thoughts coming: just to label it ("oh, here we go again, another anxiety bout") and then NOT RESISTING. This is key! The more I resist, the stronger it becomes. It's like craving a donut. If you say no to it, you'll want it more and more, and eventually you have to indulge - and end up having three or four. If you tell yourself to not think about an elephant, what happens? The urge to think about elephants couldn't be stronger. So if you try to resist anxiety, it will only get stronger. You have to embrace that it may always be there, it may always come up, and that's okay! It passes.
hi Kendall🥰 i just wanted to thank you so much for speaking about your anxiety on vogue. I have been going through the same and still can’t really accept my anxiety symptoms but hearing that someone has experience the same made me feel that finally someone could understand what i‘ve been going through because all the people around me never delt with this kind of issue and i never felt that someone would really understand me and what is happening with my body. i just wanted to let you know that i appreciate you opening up about this topic so much and just thank you for sharing your story 💗💗
Respect. Thank you Kendall Jenner for being open, honest and beautifully human ❤
"I'm stable financially." That's one way to put it.
Okay what u want her to say if she says she’s rich people will say she’s bragging
@@chloevassallo6844 lol k
ikr she’s so incredibly tone deaf, talk about humble bragging
literally no one can say a word without y'all just coming at everyone's necks. what other way is she supposed to but it? she just stated that there was zero bragging.
@@ririschannelx it is humble bragging? most people would say their rich. she’s got more money than u get over it
I love how grounded she is even with all the fame and money she is really grounded and worries about people can’t believe this is the last part ! Really have a lot of respect to her ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much Kendall, Vogue, and Mental Health Professionals I really appreciate this conversation. I hope there's more episodes to come talking about mental health issues. To everyone who are experiencing anxiety and other mental health illness, always remember that you're not alone. ♥️✨
These have really helped me understand and truly realise my anxiety, so thank you vogue and Kendall
As a ( retired) NHS high intensity psychotherapist, many of my patients told me that, due to anxiety, their memory was impaired. This can be the case, but its far more likely that, in my professional experience, their attention was mostly directed to threat, or they were preoccupied, and didn't notice as much. Their memories were fine, but their attention and thoughts were distracted. We can only remember what we attend to.
How do you stop having memory loss and remember things better with anxiety? I feel like it gets worse as the days go by
Yes! This happens to me all the time. When I get really anxious I essentially black out.
i’ve always admired Kendall’s personality, she was always my favorite K/J sister, always tried to be real and show us the viewers her genuine self but due to societal standards she always had to (and i’m assuming here) show her pretty smile to cover up what is really going on in that moment. glad she’s opening up more 🥰✨
I love how open she is about her anxiety🦋. Been wanting to shoot a video on my channel to talk about anxiety in general. It is really real
Kendall has really been opening up lately
That’s so true….i can feel each and every line in this conversation
I want a season 2 of it focusing on PTSD, trauma, eating disorders and identifying toxicity in general and when and how to cut them off.
I loved this series sm. Inshallah she finds the guidance and methods that will ease her stresses and calm her mind.
Absolutely love this series and it’s helped and taught me a lot
I've always found kendall so likeable.
I love thats she's a scorpio, for one.
But throughout this series, I've also come to realize that I experience anxiety quite regularly, and I've always played it off by convincing myself I was just an overthinker. However, a lot of the things discussed (anticipatory anxiety, social anxiety, etc.), I relate to, so much. I will get anxious weeks before something, I will even get anxious before stepping out of the house by myself, to do something as simple as go for a walk or to put the garbage out. My stress almost always leads to a headache, and more. But this entire series has really opened my eyes.
I love how she doing this and being vulnerable♥️
my anxiety is extremely like kendalls like i can relate to all of it and its so nice to know someone like her deals with that as its normal
I hope this series never ends. It is so informative and helpful, thank you Vogue, Kendall and all the health professionals !
I love Kendall even more with this series talking bout anxiety ❤️❤️
Im really glad that she talked about that because I'm the same and I know I'm not alone
this episode was so good!! The questions were so informative and smartly selected. Thank you :)
Anxiety is the worst n I understand exactly how she feels an amazing tip ive gotten thats helped sm is remembering its not all abt me. Making things ur afraid to do more abt others than abt u helps a lot.
thank you vogue and especially Kendal for sharing your anxiety. I think that this would help many people with anxiety and that's great. this series is so helpful and informational.
Can’t believe this series is over 😩😩😩😩
I absolutely get it when the therapist said its negative view of future and they construct meanings of little dtails in their mind. It is so frustrating . The problem is I know I should not be thinking like that, but when a situation takes place Ican't help it at all.
One of the best series on Vogue 👏🏻
I loved the 54321 method definitely trying that
I applaud her for bringing attention to this serious issue.
i’m not sure if i have anxiety because i haven’t been diagnosed but i relate a lot to these videos w kendall
kendal your vulnerability is SO relatable and beautiful
Whoever pitched the idea of this series/sessions about anxiety and mental health in general, THANK YOU. 🙏🤍
Anxiety is REAL!!!
I feel what she’s going through. I ❤️ her articulate speech & honesty 🤩
Can they do this with Harry Styles next
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omg i see your comment on pretty much every vogue video ever asking for zendaya lmaooo
my last 8 years abused by anxiety and thank you so much for this interwiev and friendly/helpful close 🎊
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I'm so proud of you for fighting your anxiety and I'm so happy for you for doing this. Be always present and think how everything about you is okay. ❤️
I also have an anxiety and I came here for support. This literally saved me 🥺
This series was phenomenal, and I’m glad she had the courage to shine light on such a sensitive and overlooked topic.
These videos have helped me tremendously and the advice those professionals gave was very beneficial for me.
Thank you Kendall and we love you.
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I've never love anything more.than this series
Thank you Kendall and Vogue and Mrs. Lori for creating this helpful session
I understand you Kendall. I myself have anxiety disorder.
She is so honest ❤️
Re: memory loss, the duplicity of neural synapses make it impossible to dictate direct responsery activation
i love this video. thank you vogue and kendall and therapist
Would be nice to have subtitles on this series, so it can be shared to non-english speakers.
I just have been listening to this and just keep looking into her eyes 💓
I had no idea this was a thing but THANK YOU for sharing. I feel soooo connected to this and feel this way so often. I'm so glad to know I'm not alone.
She said it right. People who are perfectionist tend to be have anxiety bouts. Like I wanna be good in studies, be beautiful, have the great figure. I know somewhere that Im human and everyone is different. But still I end up thinking about them. And more recently, the covid situation is making me more restless. Glad to learn about the 5-4-3-2-1 exercise. Im gonna do this. Thank you
helpful, now i've relised im having anxiety for years now
Keep doing these vogue!!!
Wish this conversation last longer!
Thank you Kenny for talking about this🤍
I feel like every human has anxiety. I never met someone who doesn’t ? Anyone out there the is confident enough say that they don’t have a level of anxiety ?
There's a difference between having been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and having regular anxiety. Also, the symptoms are different and more extreme than normal anxiety that everyone normally has
Thank you so much for these videos about anxiety! It has helped me so much!?
The best way to deal with this is to always say "I hope I screw this up", so you tell yourself you want to get it wrong.
It's genius. Kyle Cease wrote a book about it.
I knew I had this type of anxiety but I didn’t know the name of it until now!
I can’t say anything but just say it’s fantastic and helpful❤️ thank you Kendall, thank you vogue
absolutely love this series! so well done
I like how she is using her platform for this x
Thank you soo much Vogue for these series 💕
I’m just reading “ Maybe you should talk to someone” by Lori Gottlieb! Thanks Kendall for being willing to talk about anxiety 💋❤️👍🏻