Kendall Jenner Opens Up About Her Anxiety | Open Minded | Session 1 | Vogue

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  • What is social anxiety and how do you cope with it? In the first episode of Open-Minded: Unpacking Anxiety, Kendall Jenner sits down with licensed clinical psychologist and professor of psychology, Dr. Ramani Durvasula, to discuss the symptoms of anxiety she has experienced from a young age.
    As Kendall opens up about her journey with social anxiety and asks questions from the Vogue community, Dr. Ramani provides tips and tricks for handling social anxiety and re-entering social situations post covid.
    For more information on anxiety symptoms, treatment, and resources please visit: nami.org/anxiety
    For more on Dr. Ramani’s interview with Kendall watch her video at: • Here's Why Dr. Ramani ... and check out her CZcams channel: / doctorramandurvasula
    If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. Connect with the NAMI HelpLine Mon-Fri, 10AM - 8PM (ET) by calling 800-950-6264 or CHAT at www.nami.org/help. In a crisis? Text “NAMI” to 741741, 24/7.
    Special Thanks To
    Derek Blasberg
    Maya Amolis
    Dr. Ramani Durvasula
    Ashleah Gonzales
    Christy Welder
    Jessica Edwards
    Barb Solish
    Katrina Gay
    Dr. Ken Duckworth
    CZcams Health
    Medcircle
    NAMI
    The National Alliance on Mental Illness, is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.
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  • @Vogue
    @Vogue  Před 3 lety +1982

    If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. Connect with the NAMI HelpLine Mon-Fri, 10AM - 8PM (ET) by calling 800-950-6264 or CHAT at www.nami.org/help - In a crisis? Text “NAMI” to 741741, 24/7.

    • @Punchpg
      @Punchpg Před 3 lety +29

      Congrats to everyone who is early and who found this comment 💥

    • @jessicaschmitt9346
      @jessicaschmitt9346 Před 3 lety +5

      hey

    • @LightningSquad
      @LightningSquad Před 3 lety +6

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    • @lisaparker2010
      @lisaparker2010 Před 3 lety +2

      ilysm♡

    • @Smorgasbord.
      @Smorgasbord. Před 3 lety +6

      *I LOVE Dr. Ramini.* Where's the other 9/10ths of the interview? I wish we could see the entire discussion. :)

  • @DoctorRamani
    @DoctorRamani Před 3 lety +12024

    Thank you Kendall for having the courage to share your story! It was an honor to have this important conversation with you. I hope the tips we shared help others who may be struggling with anxiety too.

  • @isabe11e99
    @isabe11e99 Před 3 lety +4401

    She’s already had like 5 obsessed stalkers try and break into her house. I couldn’t sleep at night

    • @sierramilan7410
      @sierramilan7410 Před 3 lety +62

      I would get a condo with 24hr security @ door. Why have a huge mansion with so many entrances people can get to you?

    • @Blahblahblahblahblahblahblah1
      @Blahblahblahblahblahblahblah1 Před 3 lety +217

      @@sierramilan7410 because you shouldn't have to live in fear like that even being her level of famous

    • @sierramilan7410
      @sierramilan7410 Před 3 lety +26

      @@Blahblahblahblahblahblahblah1 that's the price of fame I guess

    • @happywings15
      @happywings15 Před 3 lety +103

      @@sierramilan7410 that should not be the price of fame. Plus Kendall is an outdoorsy person a condo probably gives her no freedom or actual rest because it’ll remind her of the hotels she’s always in.

    • @Blahblahblahblahblahblahblah1
      @Blahblahblahblahblahblahblah1 Před 3 lety +52

      @@sierramilan7410 no it’s not people shouldn’t break into others houses

  • @jordanreesetidwell5661
    @jordanreesetidwell5661 Před 3 lety +1159

    I hate that a lot of people view having anxiety and being shy as being “rude”. My parents don’t understand my anxiety (though they say they do) because multiple times after we have met people my parents have told me that the people probably thought I was rude and stuck up. It’s really does suck.

    • @besmastrawberries3384
      @besmastrawberries3384 Před 3 lety +4

      I am sad for you 😭 , ❤️

    • @jordanreesetidwell5661
      @jordanreesetidwell5661 Před 3 lety +7

      @@besmastrawberries3384 Don’t worry, I’m sad for me too. 🥲♥️

    • @b3anr776
      @b3anr776 Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah exactly

    • @elenasalavator4154
      @elenasalavator4154 Před 3 lety +1

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    • @elenasalavator4154
      @elenasalavator4154 Před 3 lety +1

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  • @ronch550
    @ronch550 Před 9 měsíci +57

    Dr. Ramani is such a blessing to the world of psychology. Didn't know she sat with Kendall Jenner and I didn't know Kendall was having these issues. It's a new way of looking at celebrities instead of just all glitz and glam.

  • @amhieldelrosario2965
    @amhieldelrosario2965 Před 3 lety +4737

    As a psychology student, this kind of conversation makes me happy. Seeing people in the big industry talk about mental health is one of the best ways to show to people that mental illness is true and not just an imagination.

    • @kamresings1696
      @kamresings1696 Před 3 lety +29

      Idk why I read it as psychopath student , I'm sry 😂

    • @simron513
      @simron513 Před 3 lety +31

      Yeah agree and the Internet made sure that no one give a f about her mental health...she knew a huge amount of people will say that she has a lot of money, she is not a real model, she does not have anxiety but still she shared her story and now everything about her makes more sense

    • @pantino21
      @pantino21 Před 3 lety +2

      Yesss.

    • @casiesilverman
      @casiesilverman Před 3 lety

      Word

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials Před 2 lety

      Agree

  • @RoxyReyes
    @RoxyReyes Před 3 lety +15341

    Anxiety being a magnifying glass to only negative things is so true.

    • @mirellanigro4535
      @mirellanigro4535 Před 3 lety +175

      And after it you think "Why was i so scared"?!

    • @plutosprincess
      @plutosprincess Před 3 lety +5

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Nelsongslover
      @Nelsongslover Před 3 lety +8

      @@mirellanigro4535 Exactly 😢

    • @Zyla005
      @Zyla005 Před 3 lety +18

      @@mirellanigro4535 yes absolutely and you cannot move on thinking that "oh i could've done it better"

    • @user-ib6mr6ct6j
      @user-ib6mr6ct6j Před 3 lety

      www.youtubegas.com/watch?v=videoss

  • @Priya_B
    @Priya_B Před rokem +83

    She mentioned numbness as a symptom and Im so glad- I have an anxiety disorder (diagnosed) and I rarely hear people mention this symptom as it can/is a daily physical disability.

    • @dhruvadeshmukh1248
      @dhruvadeshmukh1248 Před rokem +4

      Me too bcx i have experienced that 🥺

    • @11cesarrenato
      @11cesarrenato Před 6 měsíci +2

      anxiety can make you numb bc you feel a lot, feel for the others, fear all over your life and the brain can't handle anymore

    • @JESSEXTO
      @JESSEXTO Před 4 měsíci

      This used to be one of my sisters top symptoms. She’d experience numbness on some of her fingers. She’d run very cold water and it would help. This was years ago and I pray it never happens again. Best of luck to you❤

  • @suzannajayne8283
    @suzannajayne8283 Před 2 lety +450

    How could she not have anxiety? She’s had a lot thrown at her at an early age. Bless her... I know what she is saying and I think she is helpful to talk about it.

    • @odinfeehcu1984
      @odinfeehcu1984 Před 2 lety +5

      Suzanna: I don't think that anything she is doing is shoved down her throat. She has a very loving family esp her mom. She could stop whatever she is doing at any stage in her life if she chooses. So no one is throwing anything at her. She is living a life that she wanted and asked for! We all have different issues in life whether we are just sitting idle or fulfilling our destiny by working hard.

    • @madamchairman2538
      @madamchairman2538 Před rokem +3

      @@odinfeehcu1984 Not true.

    • @asmrmakii
      @asmrmakii Před rokem

      @@odinfeehcu1984 her mother is a narcissist lmaoo, dr Armani literally has a whole channel focused on NPD-narcisstic personality disorder and narcissistic abuse.

    • @not-even-german4892
      @not-even-german4892 Před rokem

      Both Kendall and Kylie had no childhood... 😏

    • @em-pr5jv
      @em-pr5jv Před 5 měsíci +2

      Agreed. None of the Kardashian-Jenner kids (Kim, Kylie, Kendall, Kourtney, Khloe, etc) had no childhood because they were thrust into the spotlight as soon as they were born and Kendall's mentioned how growing up in the spotlight has been both a blessing and a curse for her. I wish them the best, because nobody can convince me that was healthy for them, especially as adolescents.

  • @-CrystalClear-
    @-CrystalClear- Před 3 lety +2372

    The “scrolling through the comments while watching” squad

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      @jeanenegirard1149 Před 3 lety

      Squad

    • @ShleeeShleee
      @ShleeeShleee Před 3 lety +2

      Just scrolling not watching lol

    • @thanos7308
      @thanos7308 Před 3 lety

      @@ShleeeShleee same😂

    • @LisaGallegos
      @LisaGallegos Před 3 lety

      Yassss

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    @graceslip5354 Před 3 lety +7604

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  • @vuyisekaluphuzi8249
    @vuyisekaluphuzi8249 Před 2 lety +34

    I struggle with anxiety. And when doctor Ramani said people who tend to struggle with anxiety are people who are in tuned. Who are more aware and notice. I felt it. And it was my first time accepting anxiety as a normal and kind of out of my control thing. In the sense that it's not a weakness. It's not because of me. It has an explanation that is not bad.
    And it is true for me. I can walk into a room and sense a mood right away. I read people's body languages and hear their words in a different way. Most call it emotional intelligence. My therapist kind of threw it out there that as intelligent people we tend to suffer a little bit more because we are more aware. It was my first time hearing someone say I'm intelligent. It changed my life. I also came across a video on this channel that spoke about truth seeing people. And you mentioned we also tend to struggle with anxiety. It is hard when you see things that others do not see. Your voice is silenced. You are gaslight. It's heartbreaking to think one has to suffer so much for something that is a blessing. But after this video. I embrace my anxiety. So proud of Kendall. Always been a huge fan. And love love love Dr Ramani.

  • @sophiec3592
    @sophiec3592 Před 3 lety +358

    My 17 year old daughter is dealing with this she used to be so cheerful :( ..... I’m trying my best to help her maybe we’ll watch this together today

    • @domina4893
      @domina4893 Před 3 lety +25

      Give her space and she’ll talk to you when she’s ready :)

    • @LMadeleine
      @LMadeleine Před 3 lety +2

      Stay strong ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @bonniemanana8858
      @bonniemanana8858 Před 3 lety +2

    • @emotionallypink5264
      @emotionallypink5264 Před 3 lety +2

      ❤️❤️

    • @hankhill8344
      @hankhill8344 Před 2 lety +5

      Its called being a moody teenager and it is normal. I pray you don't medicate her.

  • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587

    "anxiety is like a magnifying glass and it magnifies only the bad things"
    wow what a quote

    • @95Misa95
      @95Misa95 Před 3 lety +4

      nice gunhoo pic he's adorable

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  • @MedCircle
    @MedCircle Před 3 lety +4270

    Such an important conversation 💙 We are so honored that MedCircle and Dr. Ramani got to be a part of this

  • @lychee522
    @lychee522 Před 3 lety +51

    I have anxiety AND i couldn't even talk about anything personal even with my "close friends" i just have the fear of them not wanting to listem to my stories and stuff.i still suffer it to this day.i want to try and be more open with my close friends

    • @carmagurl317
      @carmagurl317 Před 2 lety +2

      I used to be like that and have experimented with opening up over the past few years. Most people were open and receptive. And those that weren't I cut them out of my life and felt better for it.

    • @haleyjohnston744
      @haleyjohnston744 Před 2 lety +1

      Omg me too!! I find it so hard now to be myself and I’m afraid that no one wants to hear what I have to say

  • @sarahsnailstudio4362
    @sarahsnailstudio4362 Před rokem +30

    This made me feel so much better about myself, the relatable part Kendall described is exactly how I feel. Sometimes I think I’m crazy until I see that others are just like me.

  • @RoxyReyes
    @RoxyReyes Před 3 lety +7045

    I hope she is able to overcome her anxiety its hard to deal with it celebrity or not.

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +15

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    • @Ideasexplain
      @Ideasexplain Před 3 lety +1

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    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +2

      @@Ideasexplain this same channel

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety

      @@javierbotello4175 hey

    • @Ideasexplain
      @Ideasexplain Před 3 lety

      @@aamanisinghh ok fine done

  • @sarahxox4953
    @sarahxox4953 Před 3 lety +4646

    Anxiety has nothing to do with her privilege. She goes through human pain no matter what’s in her purse. I swear anxiety is worse than physical pain. I’m sad she feels this, and you know fame is probably most of the cause.

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      @alinapaasz1841 Před 3 lety

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    • @sherlock_malfoy5
      @sherlock_malfoy5 Před 3 lety +43

      @@waldekkiepski4229 wtf

    • @pas_du_tout
      @pas_du_tout Před 3 lety +45

      The world is going through a pendemic. Lots of people lost their jobs or loved ones. But yes, we should pity this rich person because she has anxiety. Well what can the rest of us poor folks say? Our life is like a walk in the park?

    • @blech7615
      @blech7615 Před 3 lety

      Absolutely 💯

  • @Giebourassa
    @Giebourassa Před 2 lety +6

    As someone with severe general anxiety since I was 5, I loved that. It shines some light on how it is and how hard it can be and get. I’m happy she opened up about it because for some reason people don’t talk about it. I know I didn’t talk about it for the longest time by fear of people judging and telling it was nothing. In some cases (me) it takes over your life and it’s hard.

  • @lici.x
    @lici.x Před 2 lety +102

    i just love the way she's so open about her anxiety... this actually calmed my panic attack down and im just very thankful Kendall is so honest and open about this.. thank u ♡

    • @Pikaki01
      @Pikaki01 Před rokem +4

      Awareness and acceptance can be very healing. 🌺

  • @rosemaryngugi6328
    @rosemaryngugi6328 Před 3 lety +1930

    When your anxiety is so bad you start running out of breath.

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +2

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    • @haileyburnette137
      @haileyburnette137 Před 3 lety +37

      Yeah and you get panic attacks.

    • @bootlicker
      @bootlicker Před 3 lety +14

      omg yes i always start hyperventilating

    • @amelletae
      @amelletae Před 3 lety +24

      @@aamanisinghh wtf? You deal with your anxiety so you need 1K subs ? Well

    • @betsy635
      @betsy635 Před 3 lety +1

      Wow. It’s so so real.

  • @priyankajain7220
    @priyankajain7220 Před 3 lety +1202

    She was just 10 years old when the whole world started judging her and that must have major impact on her anxiety and should give major credit to Kendall as she has maintained a steady mind and not let every hate comment or others opinion get to her !! Really Respect and Proud about her ❤️❤️❤️

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku Před 3 lety +1

      I am the most famous man on YouTub! This is not bragging! This is the truth! The truth will set you free, dear pri

    • @rotshepherd3817
      @rotshepherd3817 Před 3 lety +12

      Awh, she was just 10 when she became a billionaire, how bad I feel for her 😪

    • @nadinepersaud6182
      @nadinepersaud6182 Před 3 lety +23

      @@rotshepherd3817 tf?

    • @user-lg5ij1cu2n
      @user-lg5ij1cu2n Před 3 lety +7

      She seems more confident than her sisters, she speaks with less of a crutch.

    • @frankalmanzar3492
      @frankalmanzar3492 Před 3 lety +2

      @@rotshepherd3817 lol

  • @yashpreetkaur397
    @yashpreetkaur397 Před 2 lety +5

    I've faced anxiety myself and it really is horrible and seeing Kenny come up and talk about this, litreally makes me so happy

  • @gracemccoy5402
    @gracemccoy5402 Před 3 lety +177

    the part of this video that truly sent me was when she asked Dr. Ramani how to handle anxiety over a loved one who isn't being cautious about covid...weren't you the one who had a massive birthday-halloween party during one of the worst time periods for COVID?? and then told everyone not to take any pictures or videos to avoid being called out??

    • @chloestevens4607
      @chloestevens4607 Před 2 lety +13

      Exactly all celebs are fake

    • @gidgetm5593
      @gidgetm5593 Před 2 lety +2

      Agreed

    • @arianarunpop9884
      @arianarunpop9884 Před 2 lety +2

      @@chloestevens4607 " all" okay buddy thats a reach

    • @chloestevens4607
      @chloestevens4607 Před 2 lety +1

      @@arianarunpop9884 how is that a reach they don’t share everything which not saying they should they fabricate things when they rave about products they are sponsored and some of them pretend to be nice but are really mean and rude

    • @arianarunpop9884
      @arianarunpop9884 Před 2 lety +1

      @@chloestevens4607 you said " all" meaning every celeb to exist and thats bs.

  • @rhiannareynolds4596
    @rhiannareynolds4596 Před 3 lety +3070

    To everyone asking what can Kendall Jenner be anxious about, here are few things I’d be anxious about if I was in her position! :
    1 being famous and everyone knowing me and coming up to me and talking to me
    2 what I look like constantly
    3 flying all around the world
    4 stalkers
    5 my private information becoming public knowledge
    6 if my friends are actually my friends or people using me

    • @nurtured-channel2953
      @nurtured-channel2953 Před 3 lety +174

      Is true ....it's a lot of pressure

    • @jokesonyou222
      @jokesonyou222 Před 3 lety +40

      exactly !!

    • @kamingyan1446
      @kamingyan1446 Před 3 lety +73

      Sounds exhausting already pffoeee

    • @user-tm5dw8if1z
      @user-tm5dw8if1z Před 3 lety +36

      you know what you have signed up for have not you .so do not victimize yourself

    • @uncoolkid2734
      @uncoolkid2734 Před 3 lety +99

      Also people constantly judging her and saying that she's the worst model of the industry!

  • @harryblox3938
    @harryblox3938 Před 3 lety +380

    What we need to remember while watching this..is she's not only opening up about her anxiety..
    1. she's opening up FACE TO FACE with someone,
    2. opening up WHILE RECORDING,
    3. and opening up with the intentions on MILLIONS of people of hear her words... takes guts.
    So much respect for you kendall

    • @rotshepherd3817
      @rotshepherd3817 Před 3 lety +12

      4. She's a billionaire influencer that will literally get even more exposure for this

    • @ezraadams8592
      @ezraadams8592 Před 3 lety +3

      well said.

    • @rianasharma4373
      @rianasharma4373 Před 3 lety +6

      @@rotshepherd3817 right because God forbid she actually opens up to share her story right

    • @BooskieBae
      @BooskieBae Před 3 lety

      www.youtubegas.com/watch?v=zipsua

    • @51844mj
      @51844mj Před 3 lety +2

      Everyone opens up about it it’s not new

  • @elliotwright9625
    @elliotwright9625 Před 2 lety +2

    I love how she actually filmed this. The idea of therapy and anxiety and talking about everything is so important to destigmatise

  • @najsierracolvin8577
    @najsierracolvin8577 Před 3 lety +142

    just talking about anxiety makes me feel even more anxious and it sucks

  • @gilini977
    @gilini977 Před 3 lety +2363

    this kinda explains why so many people who meet her think shes “rude.”

    • @redrobotmonkey
      @redrobotmonkey Před 3 lety +101

      Not boring? Cause she is Boring AF.

    • @milarsejemba313
      @milarsejemba313 Před 3 lety +138

      @@empire1322 You really sound jealous of this gal and its absurd...you are the species that have given her this illness, you act like you know her yet you dont, the problem with you species you, you will hear a rumor and spin it like its true...she is a human being, if she is rude its for a reason, celebrities are also human beings but people like you expect them to be perfect and worse want them to live your miderable lives for you..leave the gal alone and let her live!

    • @alisyaanajmi
      @alisyaanajmi Před 3 lety +239

      @Sidemen AFTV Clips & More doesn't matter how much money that she has, she's still a human

    • @saram7347
      @saram7347 Před 3 lety +58

      I’ve seen her on the show since being a kid... she’s rude full stop

    • @givenkupar5133
      @givenkupar5133 Před 3 lety +9

      I am also "rude"

  • @AshleeyPless
    @AshleeyPless Před 3 lety +1576

    Everyone always says that when they meet Kendall, she was rude. I have social anxiety too and it's not that we are trying to be rude, we are just scared and feeling judged.

    • @95lamp
      @95lamp Před 3 lety +88

      Nahhh she just thinks she’s above others .

    • @Lilfairyxo
      @Lilfairyxo Před 3 lety +34

      @@95lamp I feel like this could be true but I hope she really takes these lessons to heart. She still has room to grow.

    • @arcanesigma
      @arcanesigma Před 3 lety +17

      @@95lamp even if we did something good or bad, people will always have something to say.

    • @intuitivediane
      @intuitivediane Před 3 lety +4

      Wow this is my daughter to a T. This interview was so important. I hope more get an understanding of anxiety

    • @sofiarou7603
      @sofiarou7603 Před 3 lety +8

      @@95lamp no people with anxiety act rude to people when their feeling judged cuz they take their insecurities on other ppl

  • @orionbrooke
    @orionbrooke Před 2 lety +13

    using the term loosely while saying you’re feeling anxious is valid. anxiety is a natural human reaction to adrenaline. anxiety DISORDER or PANIC disorder is a whole other level.

  • @sarabadara
    @sarabadara Před 2 lety +52

    Dr. Ramani, I love how down to earth and real you are in any situation. This is a great snippet and a very informative video!

  • @fhamirah
    @fhamirah Před 3 lety +643

    Remember when Kylie was pissed at Kendall not being sociable enough? That was probably her anxiety starting to kick in.

  • @kay6798
    @kay6798 Před 3 lety +528

    It’s so nice seeing a public figure come out about anxiety and social anxiety. I feel like people don’t talk about social anxiety specifically enough, and when it is spoken about people often stigmatize it

    • @playagrymm
      @playagrymm Před 3 lety +11

      Same. I have social anxiety and my mom minimized it and said it was just shyness

    • @anneambulo1027
      @anneambulo1027 Před 3 lety +1

      yes this.

    • @themadp
      @themadp Před 3 lety +2

      Yes. So refreshing.

    • @LisaGallegos
      @LisaGallegos Před 3 lety +1

      Same! I used to have AWFUL social anxiety until I started taking lexapro. It def saved me!

    • @kay6798
      @kay6798 Před 3 lety

      @@LisaGallegos I feel you on that but it was sertraline for me!! Meds can do wonders lol

  • @Goat.Mama1381
    @Goat.Mama1381 Před 2 lety +20

    It helps a little for me to know that someone of Kendall’s status, is the same as mine, or anyone else’s for that matter. Thank you Kendall for sharing your time and experiences with us!

    • @IndigoAngel1448
      @IndigoAngel1448 Před 10 dny

      It must be hard for someone working in media everyday too.

  • @michellem4692
    @michellem4692 Před 2 lety +6

    I could watch many hours of this, it's so helpful to hear that others get it and to hear all the analogies and tips, etc.

  • @claudiamonte27
    @claudiamonte27 Před 3 lety +2183

    Having anxiety attack is not a joke. There’s a lot of things running in my mind and I sometimes wanted to commit suicide.

    • @user-lt2vx9kv4e
      @user-lt2vx9kv4e Před 3 lety +94

      Please stay strong, i wont say time heals but it does make everything better

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +10

      Hi I've also been going to through some stuff and I'm trying to go past that and re start my life! So I've been trying to get 1k subs it would mean alot if you can help

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +13

      I hope you are okay love

    • @Maria_hm417
      @Maria_hm417 Před 3 lety +4

      That's me.

    • @kayaydayslie1666
      @kayaydayslie1666 Před 3 lety

      😂

  • @biancaarendse8594
    @biancaarendse8594 Před 3 lety +1958

    It must be scary having anxiety and being a celeb. You're scared that people are watching and judging you.. When in fact, they actually are.. So it's not just in your head

    • @dawnaire4414
      @dawnaire4414 Před 3 lety +100

      I know a lot of people want to be famous, but to me it seems like a total nightmare... everyone watching you. Ick.

    • @sumeya1923
      @sumeya1923 Před 3 lety +36

      @@dawnaire4414 idk why anyone wants fame ? Maybe they mean they want the good attention and being rich ? Cause all the negatives make me feel sick😩

    • @dawnaire4414
      @dawnaire4414 Před 3 lety +5

      @@sumeya1923 I agree!

    • @StephieGsrEvolution
      @StephieGsrEvolution Před 3 lety +17

      Yet, they not only CHOOSE the spotlight, but sell their souls for it.
      Yeah I'll save my compassion for the people not in the mega millionaire/billionaire class.

    • @rotshepherd3817
      @rotshepherd3817 Před 3 lety +23

      It must be very scary having shortness of breath on your private jet

  • @KitKat_293
    @KitKat_293 Před rokem +6

    I liked when the therapist pointed out how Kendal made her feel comfortable and welcome by opening her body language and not being aloof. For me it’s a really nice quality in someone who is anxious but really doesn’t want others to feel that way and goes out of her way to be welcoming. She seems like a genuinely nice person tbh

  • @barbaramontserratcampero236

    I'm glad Vogue is raising awareness on anxiety but I wish they could go a little bit deeper. Because anxiety has a lot to do with a low self-esteem and the need to be liked by everyone. Competitive and narcissist people also feel anxious when they feel they'll show weakness or imperfection. So, anxiety can be the consequence of a much more complex disorder or problem to solve. It's hard to get over anxiety if you haven't worked on your ego. It takes effort to admit that our mindset can be based on toxic principles.

    • @FreeJulianAssange23
      @FreeJulianAssange23 Před 2 lety +3

      It is such a relief to hear narcissistic and competitive people experience anxiety and not just shy people pleasers.

  • @jadejahouchins860
    @jadejahouchins860 Před 3 lety +488

    As someone who deals with anxiety and depression I’m glad that she’s using her platform to talk about this! I know it’s hard but even one person sharing their story can make a world of difference

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety

      Hey I've also had anxiety and if you did aswell I feel very sorry for you but remember that yourl are loved! I am trying to reach 900 subscribers and it would really help me if you can support! Please take care

    • @dopevines3175
      @dopevines3175 Před 3 lety

      How many years will your mother live
      Ignore -1 year
      Like - 15 years
      Sub - infinity years!!

    • @aquilabolokang572
      @aquilabolokang572 Před 3 lety +1

      I also feel like society undermines the impact that anxiety and depression has on our lives.

  • @brih.8360
    @brih.8360 Před 3 lety +355

    Social anxiety is a hard struggle when u want to be able to open up to ppl and be friendly but it’s so overwhelming

    • @geensjc
      @geensjc Před 3 lety +2

      Omg yes

    • @harleydesx
      @harleydesx Před 3 lety

      can someone please tell me if i have anxiety. i’m too scared to tell my mom to get me a diagnosis.
      - i feel too aware when i hang out with people, for example this is how it feels, it’s like knowing that ur breathing or blinking 24/7.
      - i shake when i get into arguments w ppl.
      - i cancel plans bc i would rather stay in even if i love the person sm
      - when i get in trouble or i’m abt to, i feel like i can’t breathe and i start freaking out.
      - i hate hate hate facetiming sm
      - i’m always nervous i’m awkward or too boring for someone, i also overthink a lot

    • @ALEXA-mu3oy
      @ALEXA-mu3oy Před 3 lety

      @@harleydesx same and im diagnosed with anxiety

    • @harleydesx
      @harleydesx Před 3 lety

      @@ALEXA-mu3oy omg i’m so sorry :( does it get better?

    • @elaina751
      @elaina751 Před 3 lety

      @@harleydesx this happens to me so much :((

  • @alexismerrilldragonqueen6552

    I LOVE Dr. Ramani. Best person in the world for Kendall to talk with about her anxiety.

  • @maribelgarcia5308
    @maribelgarcia5308 Před 3 lety +3

    This conversation help me to understand that I’m not the only one with anxiety 😥 I have been struggling with this since 2014 😔 this has affected my life so much. Kendall I hope you get better!

  • @glow_soul
    @glow_soul Před 3 lety +546

    I always felt like Kendall had such a bad attitude. Now I’m realizing we are much more alike than not. I know I’d never be able to survive as a celeb like her.. I respect her a lot more after being so vulnerable.

    • @asvir9110
      @asvir9110 Před 3 lety +21

      I agree. I like seeing this side of the story. I’ve never been big for the Kardashians; never loved or hated them. Much respect to Kendall for sharing her side.

    • @user-is1qr8uj1f
      @user-is1qr8uj1f Před 3 lety +1

      MANIPULATED ACT TO MAKE U FEEL THAT WAY

    • @thebean9576
      @thebean9576 Před 3 lety +2

      Shame on you judging people

    • @valsayeshah6702
      @valsayeshah6702 Před 3 lety

      yeah and sometimes we forget to think about what the other person maybe feeling by judging them only based off of the bads or unintentional mistakes they do

    • @helenomstreken7577
      @helenomstreken7577 Před 3 lety

      Yo she chose this lifestyle. You dont just get famous.

  • @MariaHernandez-mh8lu
    @MariaHernandez-mh8lu Před 3 lety +110

    I’ve had social anxiety since I was little. I’m 19 now and it has affected me more than ever. People always saying “oh you’re so quiet you should talk more” or “why don’t you talk more” making it a choke saying “you talk a lot hahah”. People don’t realize that words can sometimes hurt. Please if ur reading this don’t ever say that to anyone you see who suffers with anxiety or who is quiet. Im glad Kendall shared her story! ❤️

    • @user-lg5ij1cu2n
      @user-lg5ij1cu2n Před 3 lety +5

      It's rude, I don't know why people think that will get someone to talk more, it doesn't make them feel more comfortable.

    • @user-lg5ij1cu2n
      @user-lg5ij1cu2n Před 3 lety +2

      I'm 35 and have had social anxiety since childhood. I wish I'd done more sooner, workout, stay healthy, make an effort to see friends and built new relationships. You're still young.

  • @k.g.m.254
    @k.g.m.254 Před 3 lety +82

    Thanks to Kendall for being open and vulnerable! This is the side of her I'm glad she's showing to the world. Dr. Ramani is beyond brilliant. She has a gift very few have.

  • @ojasvashishtha4453
    @ojasvashishtha4453 Před rokem +2

    It's soothing to listen to her. When you listen to someone who has the same issue as you. You feel empowered and you're not alone to feel that way.

  • @sophialittle3155
    @sophialittle3155 Před 3 lety +2846

    i love how honest she is and knows how privileged and blessed she is

    • @lanastevanja7381
      @lanastevanja7381 Před 3 lety +225

      Honest with what? Saying that she feels anxiety over covid but making birthday party with 100 people in the middle of pandemic? Come on,wake up.

    • @EyeSEeYous
      @EyeSEeYous Před 3 lety +30

      @@lanastevanja7381 maybe she felt anxiety, because of being alone and maybe her fear was taken away, by going crazy and don’t caring about anything. This sometimes really could help. Not saying that people should just forget what is happening in this world, but also maybe you sometimes need that.
      I mean it’s never good to make a big party, when a serious virus is going around and I will never think that this is acceptable.
      What I am just trying to say is that I could maybe understand why she did that, which of course still won’t change anything about her doing something really wrong.

    • @davidjameslopez
      @davidjameslopez Před 3 lety +5

      She Does! Her Dad Bruce Stuck that in her brain

    • @lanastevanja7381
      @lanastevanja7381 Před 3 lety +46

      @@EyeSEeYous She could 've made party with 4 people, no need for 100. And she had "no social media" cards. LA was in the red zone at the time and most 25 people were allowed. She had 4 times more people. No excuse.

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      @elenasalavator4154 Před 3 lety +14

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  • @imkkate
    @imkkate Před 3 lety +1498

    I honestly feel like a lot of the time when people have had bad experiences with Kendall it’s due to her anxiety. I feel bad for her

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +6

      Hey I've also had anxiety and if you did aswell I feel very sorry for you but remember that yourl are loved! I am trying to reach 900 subscribers and it would really help me if you can support! Please take care

    • @taylor2443
      @taylor2443 Před 3 lety +104

      this is very true. i’m really quiet irl and i don’t really speak unless spoken too and a lot of people said she’s rude. i think it’s just anxiety tbh

    • @stantamara1959
      @stantamara1959 Před 3 lety +12

      Yes thats true . They say she is rude💔

    • @imkkate
      @imkkate Před 3 lety +28

      @@taylor2443 same I would be the same way if I was in her shoes :/ I hate talking to people and I come across as rude

    • @Laura-in9kg
      @Laura-in9kg Před 3 lety +50

      I agree, I immediately thought of that bc she just doesn't strike me as rude, she just seems shy and is probably anxious in a lot of social situations

  • @journeyinspirit
    @journeyinspirit Před 2 lety +3

    I know exactly what that feeling is. Dealing w panic disorder for 6 yrs and it’s been HARD but I’m still here.

  • @tasneemdawood5762
    @tasneemdawood5762 Před 3 lety +3

    Omg. I deal with her symptoms every day. I wake up feeling like that like I can't feel anything or my heart feels like it's sinking and I've never thought it could be anxiety. Even feeling nervous and shaking uncontrollably

  • @angelinagudino132
    @angelinagudino132 Před 3 lety +309

    Shout out to Kendall Jenner and Vogue for doing something impactful and relatable like this...zero words for how comforting it’s been to hear the words of others.

    • @katerinakol5558
      @katerinakol5558 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you for this comment! This is exactly how I felt!

    • @usernameed
      @usernameed Před 3 lety

      Relatable?! HA! Yeah it’s SO EASY to relate to a billionaire princess.

    • @angelinagudino132
      @angelinagudino132 Před 3 lety +5

      @@usernameed anyone can have anxiety. Whether you’re dirt poor or stupid rich. Educate yourself!

    • @justintime6242
      @justintime6242 Před 3 lety

      @@angelinagudino132 but only one side of that equation has every resource in the world to get help. Educate yourself.

    • @angelinagudino132
      @angelinagudino132 Před 3 lety +2

      @@justintime6242 you think I am not aware of that? I don’t have the resources myself so I continue to struggle with anxiety. You’re trying to start an argument with a person who is on the spectrum of being broke and lacking resources like many others and unlike Kendall Jenner. So hostile to the wrong person dude

  • @adaanlar1935
    @adaanlar1935 Před 3 lety +817

    I love how Kendall is just super honest and intimate with us

  • @nancytsai4724
    @nancytsai4724 Před 3 lety +3

    so happy to see Vogue and Kendall do something that can have a tangible impact on the lives of many. Excited to see the other episodes.

  • @liesjelualockse6377
    @liesjelualockse6377 Před 2 lety +6

    Love how you said the nice things about anxiety! We don't hear that enough. Looking at my own anxiety that way helps me find a way to embrace it so I can live a balanced live with it :) Daily training my body and mind to interact better through using both to influence the other is the other key I found :)
    🙏💚

  • @ItsMaddieHere
    @ItsMaddieHere Před 3 lety +1623

    to everyone saying she doesn't have the right to have anxiety and therefore empathy because of her background; anxiety is not exclusive to the under-privileged.

    • @tplep367
      @tplep367 Před 3 lety +47

      Exactly, anxiety doesn’t discriminate

    • @michellel128
      @michellel128 Před 3 lety +26

      Actually any person of any circumstance can have anxiety and wonderfully stated by Kendall she knows she is blessed and she is grateful. She still has real feelings as a person. She is brave to discuss it and I appreciate your concern for others in destigmatizing anxiety for anyone in the world 🌎

    • @ItsMaddieHere
      @ItsMaddieHere Před 3 lety +23

      @@AnnaRusseller While you're right in saying Kendall has much less to worry about in her life such as financial issues, resources, etc. anxiety is simply more than being worried about certain things.
      Anxiety is a *mental illness* that can be caused by a number of issues such as personality type, hormones, genetics, reactions to triggers, traumas or previous events (all of which can muster a different reaction depending on person to person).
      You say that I fail to understand that underprivileged people may be more vulnerable to day-to-day struggles and systemic consequences; I never acknowledged this yes, but I never dismissed or debunked this fact.
      I simply said that anxiety; again a *mental illness* , which is caused by more than just worries whether trivial or serious, can in fact affect everyone no matter their background, worries, personal life, struggles, etc. I myself am lucky enough to have never had to worry about when my next meal would be, how I was going to afford to keep a house, etc. but it doesn't mean I don't suffer immensely with anxiety. I do. Because of circumstances/events personal to my own life, character, genetic makeup, etc. and therefore mental state/reaction.
      Anxiety often brings on worrying. Worrying *is not* anxiety. Comparing the two is ineffective and like comparing apples to oranges.

    • @AnnaRusseller
      @AnnaRusseller Před 3 lety

      @@aw3346 Do you know what the term “disproportionate effects” means?
      It’s very helpful to understand the actual meaning of discrimination.

    • @AnnaRusseller
      @AnnaRusseller Před 3 lety

      @@aw3346 In the case you make of undermining- that’s a conclusion a lot of people like to jump to when others think something ought to be acknowledged simultaneously. It’s called intersectionality- and there’s a lot of theory regarding minority status having direct influence on one’s socioeconomic position, etc. Same goes for having a direct influence on one’s mental health. So yah. You can google all this too, there’s a lot of studies.

  • @aman-duhgeorge1931
    @aman-duhgeorge1931 Před 3 lety +432

    I always knew she had anxiety.
    That's why we don't see a lot of her personality cause she doesn't want people to judge her for who she is. Also people with anxiety are usually very private about their lives.

    • @mhealll
      @mhealll Před 3 lety +12

      This just blew my mind, I feel like you just taught me what I need to do to ease my anxiety, which is being more open and not being so fearful of being judged.

    • @yesterdaywasADTR
      @yesterdaywasADTR Před 3 lety +3

      Very very true. You just described me to a T. 😕

    • @luccianalewis9473
      @luccianalewis9473 Před 3 lety +4

      She is aware of her anxiety but as celebrity until now she hasn't been an advocate for it or join a mental support group or donate for it. She just complain about it.
      Other celebrities have the same mental issues as her but they use their power to educate persons about it.

    • @yovanna4015
      @yovanna4015 Před 3 lety +9

      @@luccianalewis9473 Stop judging.

    • @aman-duhgeorge1931
      @aman-duhgeorge1931 Před 3 lety +5

      @@luccianalewis9473 I think it's because people criticize her and her family so much that it took so much time for her to come out of her shell a little bit. I mean think for yourself how she is constantly judged for everything. Anyone would distance themselves and speak less in front of people when they are judged so much.
      Also maybe after the massive support and praise she got for being so 'cool' and 'fun' after that makeup video with kylie and hailey's never have I ever video she got encouraged enough to do this.

  • @jonathanbevan7462
    @jonathanbevan7462 Před rokem

    Anxiety is very challenging I can understand how much pressure must exist in a family like hers, in essence to succeed and be perfect. I've had severe panic attacks and my life is very fortunate.

  • @dANIELcEVALLOS1
    @dANIELcEVALLOS1 Před 2 lety +2

    I have a really bad case of social anxiety. It's the worst, but it's comforting to know that you are not alone. Thanks for this little talk! 💕

  • @harpreet2001
    @harpreet2001 Před 3 lety +812

    Everyone literally thinks she’s rude but I think that’s just her anxiety. She’s been in the spotlight since she was like 9 and whenever anyone has something to say about her or her family it’s always negative. I feel like she just has her guard up and puts on a face because she thinks everyone hates her. I love her and I’m glad she’s doing this series.

    • @Cmonbilly
      @Cmonbilly Před 3 lety +63

      nahhh i’ll disagree. she’s definitely rude and stuck up. just go on tiktok and see the videos of her completely ripping apart her mom and being a terribly rude daughter

    • @rachd4794
      @rachd4794 Před 3 lety +21

      I agree. And also when you’ve had anxiety for a while, your nervous system is more sensitive, meaning you’re easily put in a fight or flight state. In this state, you can have a short fuse and everything seems triggering. So when she snaps at people, that can be a result of system being super sensitive. Obviously I don’t know her, but when it comes to lashing out on her family, I can see why that would be her reaction. As far as her being rude to other people, take that with a grain of salt. She’s hounded by people constantly. I’m sure I’d be less than friendly as well.

    • @alinayazmine2191
      @alinayazmine2191 Před 3 lety +5

      I agree but she comes off stuckup

    • @qazedc3
      @qazedc3 Před 3 lety +1

      That's literally me 😖

    • @KS-di4df
      @KS-di4df Před 3 lety +7

      @@Cmonbilly her relationship with her mom is definitely unique though, like her mom was basically managing her as a public personality since she was 8. I think if we as normal people have expectations of how she should behave towards her mom without knowing what that’s like it’s not really fair. Like, she talked about having shortness of breath as a 10 year old and going to her mom, then now realizing that was probably anxiety, you have to wonder if she has resentment towards her mom for that time in her life. Also I do think Kris kind of encouraged her kids to act bratty and over the top sometimes for the cameras, but when you grow up with that it’ll actually become the normal dynamic.

  • @smar6617
    @smar6617 Před 3 lety +329

    What some people don’t understand is that anxiety can’t be shut off. It always just there lingering and we feel it, it’s just horrible.

    • @user-un8jx8yo7z
      @user-un8jx8yo7z Před 3 lety +2

      They're trying to relate to people with a normal amount of anxiety. You can be really stressed because of things going on in your life and not have an anxiety disorder. But some people never relax it's always looking over them like the telltale heart.

    • @davedaniel4824
      @davedaniel4824 Před 3 lety +4

      May I suggest breathwork/meditation. Anxiety is, in my opinion, due to a sense of danger - which provokes a whirlwind of disparate cycle of incoherent thoughts - in the search of the perfect solution. As a perfect solution is a concept finite in time - it is impossible. By breathing extremely slowly and deeply, you allow yourself a mental break, which will allow you to decipher the real issue (if there's any), and tackle it, one step at a time - in the moment. As you tackle the issue, one step at a time, you witness your ability to be powerful - not powerless. That is, in my opinion, the ultimate goal that we search. And once we are powerful, it is of necessity that we continue practising breathwork to remain available for ONESELF - and not be defined by the concept of one's power - which is a trap.

  • @beatricec8994
    @beatricec8994 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you so much, I finally feel like I'm not alone and that someone really understands what it feels like living with anxiety

  • @tz8222
    @tz8222 Před 2 lety +6

    honestly one of the best vogue videos out here i love the entire mood and calm vibe. beautiful

  • @Yeyomania1
    @Yeyomania1 Před 3 lety +459

    Who knew doctor Ramani before watching the video? She's just wonderful.

    • @user-rm7wu7gk8w
      @user-rm7wu7gk8w Před 3 lety +1

      🙋🏻‍♀️ love her

    • @TheYokebreaker
      @TheYokebreaker Před 3 lety +3

      I totally fangirled 🤣 "Wait, is that Dr Ramaniiii?!?!!"

    • @soilgrasswaterair
      @soilgrasswaterair Před 3 lety +4

      @C Gibson Dr. Ramani Durvasula had already reached huge platforms. It’s one more😌💕
      Have you read her books? She has one that’s called ”Don’t you know who I am” that one came out in 2019. Great book!

    • @maryteal2225
      @maryteal2225 Před 3 lety +4

      Yep!! Ramani is the reason I clicked on the video!! 💜

    • @michaeldrummondsofficial
      @michaeldrummondsofficial Před 3 lety +7

      I honestly clicked for Dr. Ramani lol

  • @josephinebrevig8748
    @josephinebrevig8748 Před 3 lety +719

    Dr. Ramani is as authentic as they come. She's such a gem for this world. I'm so glad i discovered her CZcams Channel. At the end of the day, we are all human and have feelings regardless of privilege. Wishing Jenner well in her journey.

    • @harleydesx
      @harleydesx Před 3 lety +5

      can someone please tell me if i have anxiety. i’m too scared to tell my mom to get me a diagnosis.
      - i feel too aware when i hang out with people, for example this is how it feels, it’s like knowing that ur breathing or blinking 24/7.
      - i shake when i get into arguments w ppl.
      - i cancel plans bc i would rather stay in even if i love the person sm
      - when i get in trouble or i’m abt to, i feel like i can’t breathe and i start freaking out.
      - i hate hate hate facetiming sm
      - i’m always nervous i’m awkward or too boring for someone, i also overthink a lot

    • @amreenrahman8625
      @amreenrahman8625 Před 3 lety +1

      @@harleydesx u probably shouldn’t really ask people on the internet because we aren’t really doctors 😅 but if u feel out of place or feel like ur not really yourself in the situations u have mentioned it is good to get it checked out with a doctor, u should tell a trusted adult or family friend
      parents if you can’t ask ur related family. I have some of the things u have mentioned but I think it’s normal for ME because I can control it but it keeps happening but I know what to do, but if you can’t control yourself and it’s becoming worse go to the doctors because if you shake in arguments or are alarmed you have the option to go. Please don’t overthink those and get stressed out remember there are many people out there with anxiety and it’s something that can be TREATED with the right doctors, also ur mom loves you so if you tell her make sure that you are confident and u know that she would understand because she did raise u and this is something important for a mother to know or she will be worried for u. So please don’t panic and tell someone trusted and go to the doctors before saying to yourself that you have anxiety ☺️☺️🤗🤗🥰🥰 I’m also here for you

    • @SkullKing11841
      @SkullKing11841 Před 3 lety

      @@harleydesx Yeah that sounds like bad anxiety.

  • @kimberleyferreira3477
    @kimberleyferreira3477 Před 2 lety +47

    The short of breath, feeling like people staring at you. Oh that sounds so familiar. It's terrifying.

  • @sanikamordekar7073
    @sanikamordekar7073 Před 2 lety +5

    I get panic attacks and sometimes they are so intense and its so true that when people use the word 'anxiety' so randomly. I hate it. Its a real thing. Everytime i get a panic attack i feel like this time if i pass out, i will die.

  • @pamelanicoletv1782
    @pamelanicoletv1782 Před 3 lety +1291

    Love that Kendall is brave enough to open up about this!!!!!

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +1

      Hi I've also been going to through some stuff and I'm trying to go past that and re start my life! So I've been trying to get 1k subs it would mean alot if you can help

    • @bekindtoyourself2650
      @bekindtoyourself2650 Před 3 lety +17

      She's lying. It's another kris plan

    • @sashab9611
      @sashab9611 Před 3 lety +20

      @@bekindtoyourself2650 nah they let defo using it for publicity and I’m not one to defend Kendall but don’t invalidate her anxiety when it clearly is a real and thing.

    • @priyainampudi963
      @priyainampudi963 Před 3 lety +11

      @@bekindtoyourself2650 people like you are why it’s so hard to de-stigmatize mental health issues, y’all either think it’s not real or we’re just seeking attention by being vocal about it

    • @mondaysandtuesdays6842
      @mondaysandtuesdays6842 Před 3 lety +2

      @@bekindtoyourself2650 anxiety is super common so I don't think she is. But I do think it's a bonus marketing move to redefine her image while also possibly helping people haha

  • @shruthy9305
    @shruthy9305 Před 3 lety +1308

    To people reading this, anxiety is real. Please be kind to the people who go through such stuff on daily basis. TPWK

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +4

      Hi I've also been going to through some stuff and I'm trying to go past that and re start my life! So I've been trying to get 1k subs it would mean alot if you can help

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +18

      I love 1d

    • @shruthy9305
      @shruthy9305 Před 3 lety

      @@aamanisinghh done💕

    • @gimmeanohyeah4408
      @gimmeanohyeah4408 Před 3 lety +11

      hi I love 1d as well!

    • @Hello-ww7xr
      @Hello-ww7xr Před 3 lety +7

      I have had actual panic attacks that last for a few hours w/ uncontrolled palpitations and I hate it when other people say "I have anxiety"

  • @kayleensouth7263
    @kayleensouth7263 Před 2 lety +38

    I have went thru A LOT in my life but by far the worst feeling in the world is anxiety. Sometimes you can have panic attacks when you aren't even worried in your mind and sometimes you will experience different symptoms that you never experienced before and like Kendall said the best feeling is knowing others have gone thru it bc it does feel like death.

  • @mimiasmr5797
    @mimiasmr5797 Před 2 lety +18

    Honestly knowing that someone like Kendall has this too is improving my life. It's something that I I have also struggled with this for so long and felt like a freak this whole time. People would always comment on how quiet I was or that I seemed uncomfortable and that I should just be myself. Like thanks for the advise, I am TRYING... Honestly this helps me accept myself so much more. I know nobody else that has it except my ex boyfriend and even he would sometimes say that I was "odd". And my brother is the most social butterfly that has ever lived I mean Im happy for him but also I get compared obviously.. Now I know that I'm not weird, I'm just like Kendall and probably a million other really cool people that suffer in silence. I would also never have guessed that she has it, she seems so cool.

    • @tanha8432
      @tanha8432 Před rokem +1

      Iam also like u & always feel like this 😭😭 have a gd day sis ♥️

    • @mimiasmr5797
      @mimiasmr5797 Před rokem +1

      @@tanha8432 awwweeeee thanks angel!! you tooo

    • @tanha8432
      @tanha8432 Před rokem

      @@mimiasmr5797 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @beomgyusbear
    @beomgyusbear Před 3 lety +320

    Props to her opening up about this. Its hard for someone like her who is labeled as “perfect” to come out about something like this because thousands of people will always say its for attention

    • @comradeleppi2000
      @comradeleppi2000 Před 3 lety

      True

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety

      Hi I've also been going to through some stuff and I'm trying to go past that and re start my life! So I've been trying to get 1k subs it would mean alot if you can help

    • @shamailaxo6749
      @shamailaxo6749 Před 3 lety

      @@aamanisinghh I subscribed to you

    • @orlaryan9478
      @orlaryan9478 Před 3 lety +6

      Absolutely. People often invalidate celebrities mental issues. Everyone’s human❤️

    • @user-ib6mr6ct6j
      @user-ib6mr6ct6j Před 3 lety

      www.youtubegas.com/watch?v=videoss

  • @karinakaplun6025
    @karinakaplun6025 Před 3 lety +485

    You can’t control anxiety, ppl with anxiety sometimes can’t really control of how they act especially in public, and that’s why ppl think they are being rude, when in reality they just can’t control it. I’m glad Kendal opened up about it, it makes me feel a little less lonely.

    • @kenishahammond3935
      @kenishahammond3935 Před 2 lety +2

      Check out psilocybin mushroom. It can heal anxiety and depression. I've done it and it healed me completely. Be careful if it's not legal in your area yet.

    • @deejungk828
      @deejungk828 Před 2 lety +4

      Karina Kaplun • of course you can control anxiety....thats why this video was explaining ways to STOP THOUGHTS that sabotage your Peace.
      Rather than ve a VICTIM of your thoughts, Remember to be a VICTOR with your thoughts!

    • @CatalinaFOIA
      @CatalinaFOIA Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly 💯 and there is nothing wrong with needing a prescribed medication to help cope with severe unrelenting anxiety, especially when you've tried everything and it is literally out of your hands, there is no controlling it... it becomes an autonomic response (fight or flight).

    • @user-wd8nd2pu8l
      @user-wd8nd2pu8l Před 2 lety

      @@deejungk828 Sounds good. But I think I'm gonna apply it...

    • @suras8984
      @suras8984 Před rokem +1

      A guy I was dating told me that it seems like nothing ever bothers me. Little did he know how much I was struggling internally everyday. It surprised me that I came across that way. Also happy to know I was not coming across negatively to anyone.

  • @MATriangle
    @MATriangle Před 3 lety +2

    This is just what we need. So beautiful honest connections between them two, that felt I was part of it.

  • @kaseydavidleboeuf2761
    @kaseydavidleboeuf2761 Před 2 lety

    I have social issues associated with my mental health. It’s nice to have someone like Kendall share her story. It gives me that little bit of hope for my future.

  • @betsy635
    @betsy635 Před 3 lety +81

    The palpitations and panic attacks in the middle of the night are real. It’s so hard to face it. So to anyone facing it, I wish you nothing but the best and nothing but healing and peace of mind.

  • @montgomeryclift2480
    @montgomeryclift2480 Před 3 lety +74

    An important lesson I learned: anxiety is really getting better with age, because you know yourself better and you don't take yourself too serious anymore.

    • @eo1203
      @eo1203 Před 3 lety +7

      Thats the best ever advice! When I get the same thoughts over and over, I start to be like, alright, it's gonna be fine just like every time lol

    • @elizabethcruz6080
      @elizabethcruz6080 Před 3 lety

      Thank you !

  • @BigBrolls
    @BigBrolls Před 2 lety +12

    Kind of surreal watching the top authority on all things narcisism having a conversation that is not about narcisism with one of the world's biggest narcisist.

    • @eilzmo
      @eilzmo Před 2 lety +1

      how do you know she's one of the world's biggest narcissists? you can't even spell it, i doubt you fully understand what it means

    • @BigBrolls
      @BigBrolls Před 2 lety +1

      ​@@eilzmo uh-oh... here we go.

  • @jeansalazar9297
    @jeansalazar9297 Před 3 lety +119

    Is anyone counting how many times Kendall says "right..." or "hmm." On the other hand, I do love & admire she's actually trying to raise awareness for mental health

    • @BeautifulMisfit
      @BeautifulMisfit Před 2 lety +33

      I noticed this. But this is actually part of her social anxiety. And it works in two ways.
      firstly when the other person talks she becomes anxious that she might not listen perfectly to them, so she makes those sounds to show she IS listening and understands.
      secondly because a socially anxious person has anxious thoughts which distract them, so by making those mini agreements with what the person is saying she’s also blocking the anxious thoughts and reminding herself to pay attention.
      It’s a coping strategy.

    • @deejungk828
      @deejungk828 Před 2 lety +8

      @@BeautifulMisfit its also performance anxiety....to be so aware of yourself that you constantly make noises when another is offering instruction means you aren't retaining anything except a memory of your own performance of listening.

    • @deejungk828
      @deejungk828 Před 2 lety +4

      Jean Salazar • yes. Her noisy listening was distracting....but I did feel the urge to hug her or do something to bring her calm.

  • @Itzkeisha
    @Itzkeisha Před 3 lety +2567

    Ughh I love Dr Ramani , she has impacted my life in many ways already !!🤘🏾🤘🏾

    • @koko..56
      @koko..56 Před 3 lety +20

      HEYYY KEISHA

    • @greenElement
      @greenElement Před 3 lety +21

      Had to click when I saw Doctor Ramani with Kendall

    • @Smorgasbord.
      @Smorgasbord. Před 3 lety +16

      Same. She's effortlessly brilliant.

    • @jaxenaz
      @jaxenaz Před 3 lety +2

      She’s amazing

    • @reylime2991
      @reylime2991 Před 3 lety +13

      Think we can all agree Ramani is our hero

  • @stephanies3246
    @stephanies3246 Před 3 lety +953

    I remember a restaurant hostess doing “reviews” of famous people who came into her restaurant. She said Kendall didn’t say a word and the other person ordered for her. She was implying Kendall was a diva/snob. It was probably the poor girl’s anxiety. #judgenot

    • @alinayazmine2191
      @alinayazmine2191 Před 3 lety +153

      Yep, that's why people say you shouldn't judge off of one time experiences because you have no idea what they were or are going trough.

    • @jazeljoyceguillermo4033
      @jazeljoyceguillermo4033 Před 3 lety +68

      its normal for people to do that, like I do that cause I get nervous.

    • @observantori4893
      @observantori4893 Před 3 lety +34

      Wow. Which goes to show that anyone can have anxiety famous or not. It doesn’t discriminate. How many of us with anxiety, social anxiety in particular, get someone to order/pay for us. 😅most, if not, almost all of us. I know, I know that scenario too well ✋🏽

    • @jo-yy7ni
      @jo-yy7ni Před 3 lety +28

      i know someone who has anxiety and i always order/ask anything for her

    • @KL-pk7wu
      @KL-pk7wu Před 3 lety +8

      I get that she has anxiety especially when there’s like a big event or something but having so much that you can‘t even order something? I‘m sorry but you have to get over these things....

  • @cjay5995
    @cjay5995 Před 2 lety +1

    Dr Ramani is the best hands down she makes me feel so calm its amazing I love all her videos God bless this woman she has so much wisdom and she is so humble ❤ 🙏 love her ! Thank you for helping alot of people

  • @JaneDentonGaming
    @JaneDentonGaming Před 2 lety +6

    I really like Dr. Ramani's videos she's so clear, concise and relatable.

  • @intriguedheart6479
    @intriguedheart6479 Před 3 lety +257

    Dear viewers; there’s nothing wrong with listening to someone talk first, and then responding back after they’ve shared what they’re talking about with you.

    • @bingbongcentralhq
      @bingbongcentralhq Před 3 lety +38

      You can tell that she's socially anxious in this interview.

    • @emotionallypink5264
      @emotionallypink5264 Před 3 lety +2

      Word!

    • @jeremysmith9694
      @jeremysmith9694 Před 2 lety +1

      Haha. Glad someone else noticed this. Pretty annoying. I was thinking, she won't get much help if she can't listen to what's said.

  • @carlosdifo7762
    @carlosdifo7762 Před 3 lety

    Omg guys I wanna thank you so much for sharing this information. I ve suffered anxiety my whole life and watching this has been a huge help to me , so thank you 🙏

  • @madisonsolano
    @madisonsolano Před 3 lety +2

    i absolutely love this conversation, i truly feel seen! this is great❤️

  • @fridav8943
    @fridav8943 Před 3 lety +303

    Tbh I had anxiety my whole life since I was a child but being a teenager it has gotten worse and during quarantine it has gotten so bad,I had to tell someone because it was too noticeable. It’s really bad and sometimes I feel like crying under my mask when going outside. I love when people talk about this because it makes me feel less alone and more comfortable.

    • @ericalynn4296
      @ericalynn4296 Před 3 lety +2

      same im 14 but i cant remember a time in my life where i didnt have anxiety

    • @harleydesx
      @harleydesx Před 3 lety +2

      can someone please tell me if i have anxiety. i’m too scared to tell my mom to get me a diagnosis.
      - i feel too aware when i hang out with people, for example this is how it feels, it’s like knowing that ur breathing or blinking 24/7.
      - i shake when i get into arguments w ppl.
      - i cancel plans bc i would rather stay in even if i love the person sm
      - when i get in trouble or i’m abt to, i feel like i can’t breathe and i start freaking out.
      - i hate hate hate facetiming sm
      - i’m always nervous i’m awkward or too boring for someone, i also overthink a lot

    • @rachelcindy5385
      @rachelcindy5385 Před 3 lety

      sist we are same..

    • @bucktownxxx
      @bucktownxxx Před 3 lety +3

      I feel like the mask actually helps b/c it hides my face so I feel protected in a way. I attract a lot of attention b/c of flashy stuff I do, wear, car I drive, etc and while I want the attention it also has a double effect of causing anxiety b/c people keep looking at you.

    • @harleydesx
      @harleydesx Před 3 lety

      @@rachelcindy5385 omg :)

  • @XKamaLamax
    @XKamaLamax Před 3 lety +581

    its actually so sad, majority of people always seeing celebrities as "mean and stupid" and they usually think like oh what are you talking about you have money etc etc but no wtf they are humans too like what do you mean? they have problems too

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety

      Hey I've also had anxiety and if you did aswell I feel very sorry for you but remember that yourl are loved! I am trying to reach 900 subscribers and it would really help me if you can support! Please take care

    • @brantortiz9327
      @brantortiz9327 Před 3 lety +4

      @@aamanisinghh you are commenting this everywhere. You originally said that you were trying to reach 1K

    • @brattygoblin125
      @brattygoblin125 Před 3 lety

      @@aamanisinghh virtue signaling for subscribers, parasitic behavior

    • @soysaucetina
      @soysaucetina Před 3 lety

      it sucks cause they're also expected to be perfect, with eyes watching them always

    • @pythonanywhere3392
      @pythonanywhere3392 Před 3 lety

      Why are we mad at celebrities, but not politicians? That's really weird.

  • @amourlashai
    @amourlashai Před 2 lety +5

    Kendall is so genuine. I love this. Thank you for sharing your journey with us Kendall. ✨

  • @syriana9575
    @syriana9575 Před 3 lety

    wow this helps alot as someone who struggles with social anxiety thank you, i also want to share that breathing techniques really help and relaxes ones mind when feeling like the anxiety is at its's worst

  • @mermolee
    @mermolee Před 3 lety +258

    No tea no shade. I find her take of covid interesting considering her bday party.

    • @harleyann1113
      @harleyann1113 Před 3 lety +7

      Was thinking the exact same thing .. but not trying to discredit her in anyway

    • @wsomebodyr7979
      @wsomebodyr7979 Před 3 lety +6

      It could have been her family or friends who organized everything and she might have been extremely anxious but didn't have a thing to say. I had a situation like that. Guess we'll never know.

  • @sierra6248
    @sierra6248 Před 3 lety +172

    I knew I have anxiety, but when Kendal explained that she would sometimes feel likes she’s dying or her heart is failing, I didn’t know that was anxiety and I didn’t know that I had it that bad

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +2

      Hey I've also had anxiety and if you did aswell I feel very sorry for you but remember that yourl are loved! I am trying to reach 900 subscribers and it would really help me if you can support! Please take care

    • @dean8705
      @dean8705 Před 3 lety +10

      Sounds more like a panic attack.

    • @SO01j20
      @SO01j20 Před 3 lety +3

      @@dean8705 synonymous with anxiety sir

    • @dean8705
      @dean8705 Před 3 lety +4

      @@SO01j20 yeah but a panic attack and general anxiety are not the same.

    • @kayleetate6670
      @kayleetate6670 Před 3 lety +2

      Me too I thought I was dying it’s so scary

  • @sewlybutsurely
    @sewlybutsurely Před 5 měsíci

    my favorite sessions. honestly as someone who has not a lot of people to talk to about my anxiety, these videos are a lifesaver

  • @pinklites803
    @pinklites803 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. It shows that you are a human being with real issues like everyone else! ❣️

  • @poldenodink9520
    @poldenodink9520 Před 3 lety +408

    Goshh I hate anxiety.. I have social anxiety tho.. sometimes I feel like people don’t get what it can do with a person. If you’re reading this whether you have anxiety or not I want you to know that you’re not alone! ❤️

    • @smriti1712
      @smriti1712 Před 2 lety +6

      I have social anxiety too and it get's bad like reallly bad......but I have seen people telling it casually like it's nothing😶

    • @isabelamaya6346
      @isabelamaya6346 Před 2 lety +5

      I used to have really bad social anxiety. It got so bad i could not have dinner with my family i got so red. I felt like a freak. Its not that bad anymore, I learned that I need to stop avoiding it and just face it. Really uncomfortable, at first. Things that help me: been nice to me, compassionate, and recognize little milestones for example I talk today to an stranger. It doesn’t matter if I got red, or studder just congratulate myself for doing it and slowly increasing the challenge. Remember that it might be uncomfortable but you just have to push through. Just like you do when you are training for a 5k run, you learn to train feeling the sore muscles. Its not nice but eventually it will get better.

    • @shrutisingh5991
      @shrutisingh5991 Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much.❣️❣️

    • @kristinrobinson996
      @kristinrobinson996 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yes i have social anxiety to and it takes over my life. I've been on Paxil for over 20 years and i can't get off because the side effects are the worst.

  • @hollychanel9449
    @hollychanel9449 Před 3 lety +429

    I don’t care what anyone says; no amount of money or fame can make battling anxiety/depression/mental illness any easier and celebrities shouldn’t be made to feel otherwise.

    • @aamanisinghh
      @aamanisinghh Před 3 lety +2

      Hey I've also had anxiety and if you did aswell I feel very sorry for you but remember that yourl are loved! I am trying to reach 900 subscribers and it would really help me if you can support! Please take care

    • @user-tw4vv2dx5p
      @user-tw4vv2dx5p Před 3 lety +30

      But people who have no money can't go to therapists and can't get help...

    • @rachelamtaylor
      @rachelamtaylor Před 3 lety +1

      i completely agree!!!

    • @hollychanel9449
      @hollychanel9449 Před 3 lety +22

      @@user-tw4vv2dx5p yeah I get that, I’m one of them, but that doesn’t mean we can completely disregard their feelings too. you can’t silence people just because they have money

    • @rennydanston6507
      @rennydanston6507 Před 3 lety +15

      That’s really not true. You can access infinitely more resources and have FAR more people looking out for you. Does it guarantee that you’re HAPPIER? No. But it’s not fair to say that it’s not any easier because OBJECTIVELY at least, it is

  • @amandakate1247
    @amandakate1247 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m glad they mentioned the “Social Bends” post-covid a lot of us are experiencing in 2021 after society started slowly opening up. Totally relatable 💯

  • @AP-fr4pl
    @AP-fr4pl Před 2 lety +1

    So relatable and so helpful!!! Can’t thank you enough 🙏🏻