Golden Child My Sister Announced Her Wedding at My Birthday Party, and My Entitled Mom Took Her S..
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- čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
AITA for walking out of my Birthday dinner after my sister and her boyfriend announced they were getting married? (deleted in r/AmItheAsshole)
07:25 2nd story:
My boyfriend (23m) just found out I’ve (20f) been sexually assaulted before and is now mad at me because he thought I was a virgin when we met. (EffectiveRepair8231 in r/amiwrong)
15:34 3rd story:
AITA for announcing we are pregnant too early? (u/SonrisaSunflower in r/AmItheAsshole and r/TwoHotTakes)
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Story 2: No, OP does not need that AH in his life. Dump the friend, and dump the guy - no break is needed.
I second this
Agreed
S2: op nta but ditch bf n friend. Move on n up, you can do so much better.
As a SA victim here, you need to break up with him and drop the friend. This way of thinking is messed up and shouldn't be normalized. Nta.
I still don't get why people value virginity so much?
You only get one sixteenth birthday, sister sounds like she'll have more than one wedding.
lmao reminds me of that story the son didn't attend his father's 4th wedding bc his dog was passing and he said he'll be sure to attend the 5th i was dying laughing.. folks be too dam entitled these days LOL
I need an explanation about this sweet sixteen and why its so important in the usa, i realy dont understand it.
It is not important and has zero relevance. its a vanity excuse
Story Two:
So, she was assaulted at 8, and his first thought is to question "how it fit" and to call her used goods...
Unreal.
Some people dont deserve air privileges
It's dudes like this that don't understand the tiktok vid going around now where "Between a bear or a man in the woods, which would a woman rather see/be around", and be Apauld most (all) chose the bear
@@CG-yb6zji completely understand why women would respond that way to that question. You have no idea what a man in the woods would do to you, but have a SLIGHT idea of what a bear would do to you.
@InkAndPoet One women simply respond, "The bear LIVES there and is of no suprise. The man likely FOLLOWED or was WAITING for someone."
@CG-yb6zj lives in a forested area with a popular trail. Put flowers on it.
County put a disabled man sign because they kepted getting calls, about a man lurking in the bushes( me just tending my natural garden on my land).
That sign and me usually wearing my flower hat gets the women joggers from being mean and throwing things at me, calling me names, or threatening me.
Sheriff tells them I am an Autistic man that works hard for his corner of paradise, it's his property, and I am less then harmless "too helpful" is his words.
Still I am like a bear I just want to not be disturbed and friendly
I cannot believe how many "I'm the bride so everyone do exactly what I want, no questions!" stories I read/hear. When you put in all your efforts into the wedding day rather than the day after, the marriage is already shakey.
No kidding. I got engaged a month ago and these videos are giving me plenty of examples of what NOT to do while planning our wedding.
Story 2 : please break up.. he is a sexual offender in the making! The excitement the comments the outlook the need to have sex on your periods despite you being uncomfortable and being mad about it.. I hope OP saw red and breakup
Op is not a study subject.. it feels like that the BF wants to stay in touch out of curiosity
Story #2 absolutely break up with him and dump the friend too, there is a difference between being assaulted and being a consensual partner
Story 1 OP should go no contact with her toxic mom and golden child sister. If her mother keeps harassing her get a restraining order. I agree with the grandparents her Dad should get divorced. The mom and sister sound like narcissist
At least the dad in the first story has a backbone, a refreshing change from a lot of these stories
just fyi, the way it "ruins" the GC's wedding is that she was counting on having OP as her personal indentured servant for the duration of wedding planning.
Story 2 she needs to expose her hopefully soon to be ex and the friend for what they think and say about an 8 year old getting SA'd. Absolutely repulsive
How does not wanting to be someone's MOH/bridesmaid "ruin" their wedding?
Unpaid labor they could mistreat and still keep the secret of it 'in the family'.
How did you ruin the wedding? Be the maid of honor..then ruin the wedding!!# petty here!
sounds a lot of work
too much drama for people not worth it LOL but i am petty too xD I would as well just for being called bitch.
It’s because golden child didn’t have a slave to do what she commanded for the wedding. Usually the maid of honor has a lot of responsibilities and unfortunately since OP said hell, no, big sister got mad because she didn’t have free labor to do what she wanted.
Story One; I have heard that story quite a lot and it never fails to surprise me at how entitled the sister is and the mother is just letting it. Both of them are so toxic and gotta feel sorry for Op for going through that.
That second story is horrible. That poor OP! She deserves so much better 😢
Story 1: a birthday is a celebration of someone's entire life so far. To announce anything unrelated to the person celebrated is a public declaration that you believe their life to be worthless.
Story 2: OOP is dating a narcissistic, gaslighting creep. She needs to cut contact with her ex & that “friend”.
Story 2: That relationship is done. He is trash,no better than the guys that SA'd OP. The "friend" that OP talked to is disgusting. Maybe she needs to have OP's experience. Will she consider her attacker/s as her sexual partner when talking/revealing to her BF about her past. They have no decency, compassion, and intelligence. OP needs to get into therapy. She's a danger to herself. OP should tell his parents Why she broke up. Tell them what he said,, how he acted. We already know her parents are useless and disgusting.
I hope Reddit gave her resources for programs or support groups that she can look into.
1. I have this kind of a sister and mother...
2. OP needs a safe space, good support, a hug, and the rest of her surrounding needs to get the sh*t beat out of them.
How dare they!
3. The brother is a sh*t head in all aspects.
I don’t know why the guy didn’t put the update for story 1 . But op sister fiancé broke up with her . He apologized to op . Op dad and mom are getting a divorced her mom went bat shit crazy threatening to harm op . Also op sister might not be op father bio daughter
tried looking it up to confirm (lot of people are lying bout updates nowadays especially on this channel) but the op deleted their account so i guess i'll never know wether you are lying or not
@@randomloseranddull1560 the post is literally a year old but it had 2 updates the only you saw that edited in and the other from the same account before they deleted it
What the fuck is wrong with the people in second story?
the family and ''friend'' are cowards who fear any sort of conflict, while the boyfriend (hopefully ex now) is just a creep
OOP YOUR mom knew that's why she wanted them open first because your birthday is NOT IMPORTANT to her. Tell your sister a actual birthday present would have been better
IKE? Op should have looked at her with a straight face and said, "so where's my birthday present?" And repeated it if necessary.
Do not even go to the wedding , much less be maid of honor
Story 1 how petty of the sister to steal op's thunder. Good riddance.
Story 1:if op gave her sister a moh present on her birthday she would definitely be pissed
S1: The sister and mom are only mad because OP refuses to be their legal slave for the golden child's wedding.
S2: Anyone know the Tanjiro face meme where he looks at Zenitsu? That was my reaction to this....this thing called a boyfriend. WTF is wrong with the boyfriend, OP's 'family', and OP's 'friend'? And anyone who thinks sa victims aren't virgins need help.
OP tell your sister you are too young to be MOH right now but you'll consider it for her next one.
Story 2: lots of victims don't like to think of their abusers or assaults as their "first" anything. Because 1: it sad. Heartbreaking Point blank. 2: "firsts" are very romanticized, so to victims having a first time end up being... the total opposite. 3: when people talk and think about first time with physical stuff it's assumes/implies consent.
A.k.a. if you were raped you may not ever want to think about it as your "first" because that implies it was sex, and sex implies there was consent. That's why even though i can see the boyfriend's and friends' perspective. It's still a very hurtful one to a victim, and they need to understand that and apologize if they truly never meant it in that way.
But the OP has no obligation to teach them that.
None of these were really satisfying and seem incomplete.
Op in the 2nd story. I have never meant this more, but you need to run not walk away from that guy. Also, ditch the dumbass friend as well.
How did the sister not know that hijacking someone else's big day is tacky?
Story 2: Dump him!!! Poor OP needs to leave that town.
Story 2: yeah, getting Chat GPT as an autocorrect is a really bad idea.
It would've been so easy to just tell the family about the engagement at the end of the birthday evening, but te sister clearly wanted everything about her
When my fiance and I first got together I didn't tell him I was SA because that is something I don't like to bring up, why would anyone? I eventually told my fiance what happened when I was comfortable, to me it is a very personal and painful thing that I won't just tell anyone, he is the first person to know everything that happened. I have family who knows about it because it was a family thing, but they don't know the details and I like to keep it that way because I don't like talking about it and i would rather forget. Plus I would like to point out that people who aren't virgins claim to be "born again virgins" when finding faith or simply choosing to claim back their virginity for their partner. Besides being SA or roped isn't something that I would say is equal to losing your virginity. It's a loss of innocence and it puts a twisted view on what intimacy is supposed to be. The BF saying OP is "used" or "unclean" ti me makes it sound like he is saying it was OP's fault for getting SA and that is victim blaming and is disgusting. OP is NTA and it wasn't her fault and she isn't dirty the people who SA her are disgusting and dirty for taking advantage of a vulnerable little girl. And to anyone who has been SA I'm so sorry that it happened to you, it wasn't your fault and you never deserved that. I apologize if this comment brought any negative feelings of terrible flashbacks but I felt the need to address the topic. God bless and give you peace, most importantly have a wonderful evening/morning/night. ❤
Story number 3 tell your sister to not worried about the miscarriages because my mother trying to conceive me and my brother she had four miscarriages two of them before me two of them after me before my brother so tell her not to worry about the miscarriages that don't mean much😊
Sometimes fibroids can prevent carrying a fetus to term, and fibroids are the most common tumor in the female reproductive organs, so it is unlikely that knowing her mother had them or not would have any bearing on her own fertility. The serious hereditary reproductive issues are ovarian and breast cancer from the BRCA gene, and a blood test can determine whether she is a carrier.
Angelina Jolie's mother died from ovarian and was a BRCA carrier. When Jolie found out she was a carrier she had a double mastectomy and had her ovaries and uterus removed as is recommended.
So Mr. Gingerbread Man decided to run run run as fast as he could, and now he doesn't like the consequences 🙄 OP if he ever finds you and starts to harass you again, have the c and d papers ready
The Minecraft video pissed me off more than the stories 😂
S2: don't tell men about your traumas. They will use it against you.
Story 2: the friend is an even bigger AH than the BF and he’s pretty awful. OP doesn’t need either of them in her life.
I would say, okay i'll be MoH, but I aint planning or organizing anything, since I am a literal child, and that is adults work
Blastoid. Here's an idea hey Nick, it's not my fault that your friends will do it now about your kids. Help you.
23:20 😂😂😂😂😂
It is infuriating how bad at redstone the person in the background video is. Mon dieu.
Ello to anyone who needs to here this, sex is consental. If someone is a virgin and get SA, they are still a virgin. SA is not consensual.
I literally just read this less than an hour ago.
Hopefully the Dad leaves the shitty wife.
S2 ok SA doesn't just involve ra*e, and noone who is SA is dirty at all but I can also see where OPs BF is coming from, she should of told him the truth from the start, I realise how hard it is to explain these things but if your willing to have sex with someone than you should have the confidence to tell him about the abuse just in case something happens and he needs to help you. I get where your coming from that you feel that ra*e isn't sex cos you didn't consent to it but as sad as it is it is sex but he's not right at all with how he reacted to your abuse
Bro story three just sound like a feminist propaganda story
Boy stop speaking reddit and speak the Kings English.
@@classicrockkid345
I can't speak reddit because I never use Reddit not only that half of these stories are incels are feminist propaganda stories
@@cameron765 then don't listen to them if you don't like them. it's that simple!
@@randomloseranddull1560 god your slow did u not read my comment
@@cameron765 if it's "feminist propaganda" then why did I go to highscool with fuckers just as stupid and cruel?
Story 2: good rage bait... there's no way your gf is crying about sa and your response was "how did it fit" 😭😂
Also not a virgin
Story 2 well she isnt a virgin
Give her a break. The poor girl has been raped multiple times by family and is from a culture (I'm guessing) where the only valuable thing about a woman is her intact hymen at the time of marriage. Her bf feels that way and likely her entire extended family thinks that way. Bf was just covering his true nature up until that time.
And add to that that Op has never told anyone or received any therapy at all for what criminal acts were done to her and has to see her various rapists all the time. I'll let her define virginity for herself in this case.
And you clearly ain't a fucking person then. Cuz last I checked, people don't fucking act like you.
@@shells500tutubowell said
I would refuse to even go to that wedding and tell her I'll go to the next one.
Ok I am in support of OP IN 2ND STORY but she is not a virgin....yes she was assaulted and that's horrible.....but she is not a virgin if someone has forced on her or had forceful intimacy....if there's penetration that's not virgin and if there's not a penetration then yes you are a virgin
So, by your "logic" straight men are virgins 🤔🙄😮💨
@@danihomes7697 Of course not, ravenclaw is talking about someone with a vagina. I suppose for a man it is just someone who has not had sex where his penis was inserted into someone else's genitalia, however that may happen (excuse the graphic text).
By your logic all men are virgins and women become not virgins soon as a tampon is used.
Ya, the bf and the friend are all SA apologists. Esp since she was 7 when it happened.
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