7 Mistakes Pastors Wives Should Not Make | mildred kingsley-okonkwo
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About a year ago this message Pop on my timeline and I refused to listen to it because I'm not a pastor's wife or praying to marry a Pastor... Well I'm engaged to be married to a pastor in less than 2 months from now and here I am listening to this message 🥺
😂so funny...all the best
Funny enough... this is equally what I'm experiencing today😅
How is it going?
7 mistakes pastors wives should not make
1. Don't fight the church ( God's wife)
2. Don't confuse hospitality to access. Isaiah 39: don't allow everyone access into your home. Have clear boundaries
3. Don't assume you belong to the church. Don't be entitled be grateful whenever your members do something for you.
4. Never take prayer as optional.... YOU CAN NOT FO LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER.
5. Forgetting that you live in a glass house. Don't throw stones be careful.
6. Forget to live for an audience of one. Live to please God.
7. Never forget that you husband he's 1st a man then a man of God. He has weaknesses too.
Wow thank you Pastor M. Receive much love ❤️ from a pastor's wife here in 🇰🇪🇰🇪
Thank you for this.
Thank you Pastor.
Thank you sister
I am one of those who never planned to marry a pastor but it was a plan of GOD. I am glad God is teaching me how to embrace the call.Thank you so much mum for this great insight
Am not a pastors wife and am not married but I just love listening to her 😩😃
I am a guy, even! 😁 She's just amazing!!!
Likewise here I love and celebrate Pastor Mildred
I know right, i learn something everytime i listen to her
Me too o. Like I came to listen cos after all, my future husband is a priest over my head😊
@@ifouzezi Am telling u, so amazing 🥲
“your home is not your church.” 🔥🔥
It took me years as a pastor’s wife to realize that. We have to be careful about who we allow in our personal space. If I would have learned this when I became a pastor’s wife years ago, it would have saved me a lot of heartaches.
I have upheld this early on. Ministry life helped me protect my home. Especially for my children
I want to applaud every pastor's wife who saw this video and clicked on it. I'm a pastors daughter so I have some knowledge from my own experience and also being around a lot of pastors' wives. So, I think I'm not the only one who's first reaction seeing this video was "Here we go again" like she said, the expectations and rules on how to be can be overwhelming. This is why I know that it must have taken courage, discipline, a determination to get it right and HUMILITY for many of us to click on this video. And to my pleasant surprise, it wasn't a bashing or shaming but a space where we could feel safe, put down our walls and listen to someone who understands and isn't speaking from a "high pedestal" I should've expected nothing less from Pastor M. I just felt the need to acknowledge and appreciate the pastors wives who watched, and tell you that God is happy and proud of you. You are mothers of nations so keep equipping yourselves for your role, His grace is sufficient. God bless you🙏❤❤❤
1-Ne pas combattre l'église parce que le mari n'a pas assez de temps pour toi ou la maison.
2-Limiter les visites à la maison(mari, maison, famille)ne pas abuser de l'hospitalité
3-Ne pas croire que vous (femme) appartenez à l'église, ne rien attendre des membres
4-Penser que la prière est facultative
5-Se réserver, se taire, être éveillée car vous êtes un standard.
6-Oublier ce que disent les gens et vivre selon le standard de Dieu
7-Ne jamais oublier que votre époux Pasteur est un être humain, ne pas l'élever au point de Dieu.
As a single lady, I felt chills just listening to you speak 🔥
❤❤ Wow, I was so blessed by watching this video. There is so much I want to say because I’m a young Pastor’s wife and a very new one too. My husband was already a Pastor when I married him and we’ve been married for a year and some months. God bless you so much for sharing this. I was “wowed” from the introduction to the very end. It kept getting better and better at every point and I didn’t even want it to end. I really love the way you backed everything with scriptures. It really kept me going and wanting more.
I don’t know when this video was made but the message is so fresh, practical and real for me.
Obviously, I can say more 😂 but I’ll just end here.
I really like you already even though it’s my first time seeing you or hearing about you. I even want to meet physically 🙈. I pray God grants me that privilege and opportunity.
I’m so excited that’s why I can’t stop bubbling 😂. Ok I’ve stopped 😅. God bless you so much Pastor M❤. Thank you 😊🙏🏽
My first question is where were you 14 years ago when I got married 😊😊 but I know God's time is always the right time, my sister I just want to thank you for this wonderful teaching, all these mistakes you are teaching I have made them and I just pray that there is still time for me to rectify them. Please continue teaching is cause when I got married I was never taught about prayer or how to pray for my marriage, my husband,myself, my children . All what I knew to pray for was to pray for the ministry , pray for the church pray for the pastor, we got so good at praying for all these things but never did someone teach me to pray for my own things. i just wanted to say thank you women of God
I'm a Pastor's daughter. This helped me tremendously to even cover my own Father.
me too, i now realize the reasons for some of the things we've faced as a family over the years. I understand now that we aren't like everyone else, we don't have that luxury. Effectively upping my prayers now. Cant wait to share this video with my mom🙏 God bless pastor M
GOD BLESS YOU AND GREET YOUR MOM FOR BEING THERE FOR THE CHURCH, FAMILY, AND THE ANGEL OF THE CHURCH. THE LORD WILL HELP YOU ALL TILL THE END.
One more thing ma, please 🙏🙏 can you do this more often? Talking to pastor's wives more often. Sincerely I need more of this as a young pastor's wife. Or if you have a platform where you mentor young pastor's wives in ministry, I will love to register. Thank you so much!
As a pastor's wife, this has changed me. It's my first listening to you ma, but you have inspired me ans blessed me.
Me too sis. This was just what I needed. Awesome words of wisdom.
Thanks for sharing this mom , I’m engaged to a pastor now and I’m trying to learn as much as I can to be a support to him and good with people although we can’t please everyone
I think we have something in coming. Being engaged to a pastor. God's wisdom is in excess for us in Jesus name.
@@thepreciouspeopletv we’re waiting
@@thepreciouspeopletv well welcome your newest member 😁😁
@@Jennykuri thank you 👏🏽
This has really blessed me as a Pastor's wife💖Thank you Pastor Mildred💖
If u are d only reason tube n insta was invented its so worth it.i thank God 4 ur life.thanks for blessing us with ur msges
These are valuable tips for anyone in any position of influence. Thanks so much Pastor Mildred for such commitment to excellence.
Thank you
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@@grace2excell to God
Clear distinction between hospitality and acess. 🙏🙏🙏👏👏madam God bless you, am not a pastors wife but I find it very useful 👏👏👏👏👏watching from🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲
I don't understand, how someone will be desiring to be a pastor wife and say na only pastor wants go marry... shey you don hear the work involved
Thinking prayer is optional💥🔥🙏♪🤲Prayer is our breadth in this life...husband and wife must pray before bed and before leaving your marital home and even in between the hours of the day💥🔥🙏🤲🙌👌thank you Pastora for speaking this truth.
When you marry a Pastor that's the time you will know all the prayers you've prayed was just introduction now your getting to the body
So true so true
😄😄😄egbami ooo
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I needed this message, and I'm not even a Pastor's wife! God knew I needed pastor M, so He put her on my stream. I'm binge watching. Can't get enough!
I woke up this morning & God told me to find an answer as to how I must develop myself in the ministry because I’ve been stuck. I’m not in love with a pastor but im in love with the Pastors son who is as involved in the ministry. Being a member of the church/leader/evangelist doesn’t mean I’m prepared to marry the pastoral ministry & I’ve been terrified because I’ve been feeling neglected, shaken, misunderstood & depressed. The Lord presented me these answers. this video has shown I’ve been doing it all wrong & I must change & receive the wisdom of the Lord. Even if things do not work out with him God has called me to prepare. I cannot be more grateful for this video. May the Lord continue to bless your ministry.
Am a pastor’s wife.. it is extremely challenging honestly.. not fun at all..i wish you had a mentoring program where you can share more with us ma.. most times i really need someone to talk to..behind all d fake smiles and facade am really hurting inside..
Am with u on this. The stress is not easy.
I'm with you as well. Let's us prayerfully consider encouraging each other weekly. God bless you tremendously
Wow Prophet/Pastor wife here, I understand, more grace to you both! And joy in the midst
Same here...May His grace be sufficient for us all🙏🙏
Truth,
Maybe coming together to see what the Lord will help accomplish.
I pray for grace and mercy upon all the helpers in ministry ( pastor's wives).
Strength is released upon you 🙏
Thank you. I am not married to a Pastor but this was helpful n insightful even to a single Christian woman
tenor
Am a Uganda in Jordan am grateful for teaching me.
Wow...! I thought I knew what to expect until I watched and stayed glued till the end. Thank you Mama! You are indeed a blessing to the body of Christ, God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
"When you get to the point where your mind is renewed you will only know that it's the word that works"🙌. This one hit me.... Thank you very much Ma you are truly and inspiration. Been learning so much and seeing the results already since I started following you about a week ago and the Lord is still doing Marvellous things as I continue to follow your spirit filled teachings. Love all the way from Cameroon 🙏
amen🙏
Wow ma
I can't explain the GRACE you carry ma. I am always blessed by the words of wisdom from your mouth. I have sent this message to almost all the Pastor's wives I know. This message is very key. I am also learning even though I am a single. God bless you more in Jesus name.
I made this mistake in my early marriage, but now am correcting them, right now my hubby is not understanding it
ah this one is for any wife oo, not only for pastors wives. truly blessed me oo. "your husband is first a man before he is a man of God." chai. Thank you PM for this teaching
amen🙏
It my first time to know you mom bt lein a lot thank you for your wonderful teaching 🙏🙏🙏
I as a man so blessed by this message and the presence of God while listening, thank you ma ! May the Lord increase you.
This message is from above
No person can say these things except God be with them
I like how it exudes from you ma that you are indeed a branch of our Lord Jesus Christ.
This message has made me pray more.
I love the manner with which you explain things, especially thinking that our husbands as pastors are infallible. God bless your ministry ma
Yes this is applicable to all of us woman life learnings, that's why I liked it when she said "you cannot do life without prayer". Just try doing life without prayer and see fire flames. Im sending my appreciation to you Pastor Mildred all the way fro..South Africa Pretoria.
This is awesome! I simply love your teaching woman of God. Would love to listen to more of your teachings. I think every Christian sister should listen to your teachings.
I am very certain God made me stumble in this message for a greater reason. 41 minutes transforming a hundred added years of previous snd current lives of many women.
My first time watching this woman and my innerman says yes. Anointed cool voice to convince the confused.
I personally Thank you ma.
This is not only for pastor ‘s wife, it concerns every conscious Christian women. thank you very much. God blessed you
Pastor Mildred is a big gift. This is the best message on pastors' wife I have ever listened to. She's not sarcastic in her message like some that I know. I can recommend this to my wife because your manners is something to emulate
Amen. Fact
Thank you so much ma for this. I am currently engaged to a pastor and I am in the category that never wanted to marry a pastor but here we are. I've been looking for things to help me navigate and make the transition. This is super helpful. God bless you ma. Everything is spot on.
That was great ,Thanks
Pray until you become prayer 🤣🤣Love that! Thanks for this powerful message 🙏🏼🙏🏼
That’s help me a lot thanks 🙏🏽 you
Your husband is first a man he's human ..Amen and Amen and Amen ,💥🔥🔥🤲🙌👌❤♥🧡💙
Thank you mama.... Learnt alot
Absolutely beautiful
You are indeed a blessing to this generation ❤
Lovely!.
Thank you. I am blessed.
Amen thank you Lord for this
This was so helpful!
Same here sis
That's awesome❤
God bless you Ma
God bless you real good
God bless u so much ma
I'm blessed
Wow!! Awesome. So down to earth.
Words of wisdom.😇
God bless you ma'am.
You are replaceable
Prayer is not an option
Thank you.
Chai! this prayer point ehhn 🙌
Thank you Ma..
I love your messages, thanks a lot dear
Wise words.
Thank you PM
Thanks Ma I learnt a lot
Thank you Pastor M, pls ma, hope there will be Part2 of this message for the pastors. 7 mistakes a pastor must not do to his wife or family. I really need it ma plsssss
And for pastor's children too
O my goodness I Love you so much
Thank you
Thank you for this Pst M.
Thank you very much ma
I love to join Parent praying group
God bless u ma... More grace
Thank u madam
Thank you so much
Thank you for this
Powerfull yhoo.
Woww
Wow thank you for the teachings
I love this... Thank you ma
I love that wisdom.
Thankyou
Thank you ma'am
Thanks for sharing, very elaborate.
Great wisdom
Good stuff. Thank you!
This was such a blessing. Thank you.
Good advice
powerful word indeed
I love you ❤️
This blessed me🤗thank you so much ma
I love listening to you maam
Thank so much.... this was beautifully put...
Absolute wisdom! Thank you
So informative thank you amen
Thank you this has been really helpful
I'm really blessed
More grace ma I love that ma