My #1 Piece Of Dating Advice To Any Guy In College
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- čas přidán 12. 03. 2020
- Here's my advice for Nick who is going to college in Boston and says he doesn't go out, doesn't feel like he relates to anybody, has zero friends and people think he's weird...
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Even I m facing similar problem, people are thinking as if I'm wierd. I want to make friends but I don't know how to be a good friend for long time. People just move on after couple of months
I went throw that i can relate but I'm wondering what's the update on your side
Balance is important. My dad passed away in October too so for me having friends and at least some socialization once or twice a week is important. If I didn't socialize at all I'd be pretty depressed right now. My dad and I hung out almost every day since I had to take care of him since he was in poor health since i was finishing high school. We had a really close bond and it was really heartbreaking when he died. He helped keep the stress and pressure of school and my mom at Bay. Now I at least need to socialize with someone other than my mother at least once a day. You don't need to focus on girls that much in college but it's important to keep the socializing muscles strong so when you actually meet someone you like whether now or later down the road, you'll have an idea of what to do. Tripp gave me advice like this before on his live chats. It's not to say avoid girls or not have sex if the opportunity come up. But you should be putting minimal effort into it during your college years. You don't want to tie yourself down with someone too quickly, enjoy your twenties. I don't plan to get married till my early mid 30 s.
The way you hear and advice is very crucial and tells us terrible mistakes often. No socializing really kills badly.
It doesn’t kill believe it or not . It’s the safest place, no attachment no heartbreak not needing or waiting for anything from anyone
@@Classic_literature Are you heart broken? Or you just want to live alone forever?
@@sheikhsameer3917 basically what it means is they would rather be alone and avoid heartbreak than deal with it from people who are by nature inconsistent , superficial , and self absorbed
Admist all the confusion surrounding my mind now in my last year at college..
That's all I was waiting to hear, thankyou man 💜
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Thank for this advice. College is the time we gather important knowledge for the future career.
Thank you for this advice Tripp
Social skills are paramount. He's already proven he's had drive. But with the amount of stuttering and doubt, along with him being socially pushed aside hints that his social skills may be dwindling. I would suggest he catch up on social skills since that blows any kind of success via drive out of the water. No girl likes to be with a boring dude even if he's filthy rich and successful. Not one. Elon Musk is a prime example. Being below average to poor in social skills is a downward spiral of torturous hell that most people don't pay attention to until they're in it.
But some guys really don’t have time to socialize. I didn’t at all in college party cuz I loved my studies and cared about doing well. That made me weird to people since a lot of other people were just doing it for the gpa. I actually took time to really learn what I was learning. Outside of class and just homework. Does being a intellectual or studious guy make me boring? Maybe to some but I am sure not to all. Just opening the dialogue further. Hope I am not sounding defensive or like I am criticizing you.
@@acdragonrider I think one thing doesn't exclude the other.
@@acdragonrider also, If you wanna be successful in your field, you HAVE to develop social skills. It is just as important as intellectual stuff
Litterly going through the same thing except in a freshman...
Same here. 21 and haven’t even been kissed and gonna be graduating college in hopefully like 4 months. So girls are in the back burner right now and I’m gonna become a dating and sex king after I graduate. Good thing I still have the hand to meet my needs.
I feel that man. Same here. Im graduating next winter so I'm just gonna get through school
Girls are always gonna be there 👌
Lol
give us an update?
Don’t worry about it dude. I was a virgin until 20. Now 22 graduating college 15 bodies and counting with 2 dimes that I had short term relationships with. At 20 I was scared to death thinking something was wrong with me. Relax it will happen man just get out there when you can👍🏻
Find new friends that are more like you. People that work, work out, etc. find your group!
Imagine calling into get dating advice and the alleged “dating expert” just tells you to not focus on dating..........
Or why not join clubs that you are passionate about. That's why I did and the chances of meeting new girls have increased well.
Good advice
A question I have is, why should college students focus on their studies? Right now I have no dating experience and I thought it would be helpful to gain experience in college, but I can’t gain experience if you say to focus on studies
It can be helpful but the whole point of school is to get an education not get laid. If you can date in college great, if not don't make a big deal out of it. I used to be super insecure about not have gotten laid and I'm 23. I saw all these guys with girlfriends and having sex. I was kinda jealous. My dad used to tease me too. He'd say if you can't get laid in college you might as well hang your dick up. His actual advice it not worry about women cause I'll have all the time in the world to worry about women when I become rich if that happens or just when I start making my own money. Besides the spectrum of maturity of women is all over the place in college. You may me way ahead of the college students based on your maturity. I grew up real fast when my dad passed away.
Focus on managing ur time. If you manage ur time well, u can have a job, go to the gym, have good grades in school, and still be able to date. The key here is you are going to HAVE TO date girls in your classes because you wont be able to join clubs. Attend class and talk to everyone around you. Eventually, you will notice the people who sit around you will change to mostly females or cool guys. That isn’t a coincidence, they want you to talk to them. It happened to me.
@@kagoatleonard4019 what do you mean by clubs?
Wait.....what happened to the this weeks live? I saw it on my list ready to watch yesterday, now its gone????
Sorry bud. There will be another on next week and so on. Hope to see you in the chat.
I'm a 34 yo virgin with 4in 400 lbs with extremely low confidence,I lost a ton of weight before it didn't do anything to me what kind of advice can you give to me JW
Make going to the gym and changing your body your #1 passion in life. Not only will you see changes on the outside but your confidence will soar too. That's really the best benefit of going to the gym, not the looks and physical qualities but the renewed confidence, positive outlook and decrease in stress. Good luck.
thank you Tripp! I’m going to college in 6 months!
Thank him for what? He didn’t do anything.
Meeting girls in the gym? 🤷🏽♂️
Resume: Focus on school instead of girls bur dont give it to the extreme
My tip to the young guys out there. Try everything to get the girls NOW! Very very soon ALL the interesting, cute and attractive women are married or at least in a relationship. Then, if you have standards, and you are not with a woman, sex life is over. I have not seen an attractive, single women in over 30 years.
>I have not seen an attractive, single women in over 30 years.
Are you serving a prison sentence?
@@720pGoatSoup No, but I am sure in prison are more single women 😬 Don't get me wrong, I do find attractive women. I also find lots of single women. But I never ever find attractive, single women. Attractive women & single is a contradiction in terms.
Stop giving advices for stupid shit and instead start giving some for corona, i dont give a shit about my crush, i want to live
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Trash advice
This video isn't dating advice, it's advice on how to do well in college. Dislike.