EPISODE 5: Relationships the Godly way
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- čas přidán 2. 09. 2023
- Episode 5 is about how to build friendships and a community. We also talk about romantic relationships, how to identify red and green flags Marriage, and more. Leave any questions below on relationships to be featured on the next episode!
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Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
*My mother is now in stage 4 cancer, please include her in your prayers. I'm crying right now as I type this. But I am hopeful that Lord will heal her. God bless us all!*
Praying over your mom 🙏🏼
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Praying for you and your mom💗
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Heavy on “You have to become the friend you wish you had”Amen 🙌🏾
Yeess!! Exactly that.
"BECOME THE FRIEND YOU WISH YOU HAD"
Love seeing the sibling dynamic lol, I feel like you can always see someone’s goofy side once they get around family
Lmaoooo the beginning 😭. But what you guys are saying definitely makes sense because some tend to only think about how to have a Godly relationship ( marriage and dating) which is good by the way; but forget about how to have a Godly relationship with their friends and family members. As a person who is in a season of singleness it’s truly good for you to learn to love the people that are around you. 1 Corinthians 13 applies to everyone wether it’s your spouse or the people in your entourage. And as of marriage yeah it’s definitely God who’s going to teach you how to truly love your spouse because the person you started dating or married is not going to be the same person in 5 years of marriage people change and grow and for you to be able to be patient with them through it all and keep no record of wrong its definitely going to be the Lord that helps you fight your flesh and anger and pride. So you truly have to seek the Lord and not idolize the gift he has given you which in this case is marriage but Idolize him and thank him for it. It’s truly fun always watching you guys 😂 thank you for letting the Lord use you. God bless you all. And definitely a part 2 would be great💙
Y’all don’t know how much you helping people including me with these videos. May God continue blessing you ❤️
yess
So true
Thank you for this word. Recently on a journey to find Godly friends, but have major social anxiety and hate feeling awkward. I’ve been praying for God to bring friends into my life but yet I am not taking the opportunity to pursue these friendships. Very convicting and what I needed to hear!
People are VERY caught up in their wedding day. Marriage isn’t even a big factor…. a lot of people idolize and are caught up in the fantasy of just having a relationship. People truly have to learn how to be happy by themselves. Some don’t want to do that and feel lonely which is why they’re always seeking a relationship, and when they’re in one, they don’t want to get out of it even when they’re getting treated bad because they don’t want to feel “lonely.” This generation and the older ones have to learn how to love themselves. If you do this FIRST, you will know your worth and you won’t try to rush getting into a relationship or into a marriage. This way you can fully see your partner before you get married while even in the talking stage and have a happy marriage. Of course they’ll need to center it with God for that to happen, but people just really need to learn how to be happy alone. Once this happens (people are truly happy alone and aren’t faking it) everything will be set. Roads won’t be easy, but with God in the center, your happiness/peace won’t be disrupt.
Some people also don’t understand that you need to see every part of your partner before you marry. Every emotion, every bad moment, every good moment… everything before you get married. You don’t want to get married quickly, see them in a certain way that you absolutely hate, and divorce them.. you want to see everything so you’ll know what you’re committing to.
Very true - thanks for sharing 🙏🏼
This really spoke to me today. In a relationship with someone who is "okay" with us deciding to be celibate but is not serious about the reason and is totally fine with sex before marriage. He only agreed because I brought it up among other things. I have decided to fully pursue God but he is a Christian who is not taking God that seriously in my eyes. I have been praying about this relationship and am getting confirmation on things. Thank y'all for this talk. God is really speaking through you guys.
I'm waiting for marriage to have sex. Chasing women is very bad for men who want marriage because it turns their hearts to stone, and then they can't love anyone. I've been looking for my wife, mainly on dating sites, for the past year, and one of my preferences/requirements is that she has to wait until marriage to sleep with me, I always make that very clear, and most girls are ok with that. But I think that's because I'm looking overseas. If I tell that to Western girls they'd probably look at me like I'm crazy! 😂😂😂 So it's nice to know that there are at least a few Western girls who still believe in God's way of marriage.
yess waiting until marriage is important u will find your future good christian woman I pray for u @@stevemacinnis5000 😀
@@stevemacinnis5000 The western Christian women are the ones who look at you crazy when you say you want to wait till marriage to have sex?
Baby girl, you are unequally yoked. That's not God's design. This is the confirmation you need. You can't missionary date. Leave that relationship.
It'll be hard but God is going to bring you through.
I was in this exact situation up until about a month ago. I was so afraid to let go because I struggle with being alone but let me tell you... God has prepared me for the decision I made to honor Him. Chase God, you will not regret it.
That’s crazy it’s like you guys are talking specifically to me, this is the answer I needed😭😭😭
i tried to watch this video a month or so ago and closed out of it, finally today i gave it another try and this fed my soul this morning. Thank y’all, and God bless you both
this video has been on my watch later since last week and today I finally went for it. so glad I did because this is exactly what I needed today. just wanted to thank the both of you for sharing your light and knowledge w us
_Bro of course I wanna see a part 2. I just turned my life on the holy spirit. And then I just realized that God send me you guys to improve my life. So I thank God.LOVE❤
I'm still learning about Jesus and growing my relationship with God and I resonated with everything you guys spoke about and how it was explained. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and your perspective. ❤
Just started watching this channel, and it is Blessing me tremendously. Appreciate you all for this channel
Thank y’all frl. May the Lord keep using y’all
OMG EVERY POD CAST YALL DO IS ALWAYS SO ON POINT ! Y’all touch every aspect of truth and you guys tell no lies ! Every point you make I’m like AHMENNNNNN AHMENNN! YESSS!!!! Getting the right message out without confusion is a blessing to my ears!
This was needed and I'm happy that you both created this podcast/channel. You both drop gems individually and together. I have worldly friends but not Godly friends and I became more introverted during the pandemic but I had to work on myself and still work on myself. Also, I have to put myself out there now. My mom is a mentor but I need more outside of my mother.
Man this was very much needed.This confirmed a lot of things,I really appreciate y’all.Y’all are dope I love it.
I love watching your videos! This is giving me the guidance and wisdom I have been praying God for recently. May He continue working through you both.
I just found y’all and I’m so glad I did. Y’all are great
Such a good talk I thought it was the end of me and mine yesterday and so grateful we are returning to the same vision. Love the pyramid analogy of seeking God separately and meeting at the top
Thank you for sharing this insightful video on building godly relationships. It's a reminder that true love and connection are rooted in faith and values. This wisdom is invaluable for those seeking to navigate relationships in a way that honors God.
You guys are extremely full of wisdom. Thankyou for this. May God Bless You!!
Amen community and connection and having positive energy and godly support it so great and needed! Right we want to be reflections of God and for others around us to pray and be close to the Lord too.
So glad I stumbled upon your podcast. Please keep this content coming. Truly has been a pleasure to watch these videos and see you all bring light and awareness to the word. Thank you for upholding the kingdom!
I learned a lot from this video i appreciate the analogues they opened my mind to a new way of living and i thank yall for that🖤
Y’all ate on this one!! So good!! God was speaking through y’all
Really needed something like this during this season God has me in. He always knows what we need when we need it. Really appreciate this video and I'm looking forward to seeing what else this channel gives advice on. Stay blessed - New subscriber ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank y’all for freely and joyfully giving biblical guidance on how to have Godly relationships. You guys are amazing 🙌🏽
I’m soo glad I came across y’ll 🙏🏽🙌🏽 this video speaks soo much volumes 😍😍
I loved every bit of this!! Thank you 🥰
Finally a good Christian podcast definitely love this ❤ keep grinding y’all god bless
This was so good 🙏🏽 first time tuning into the podcast, I love your hearts and the way you both explain things ❤
so overjoyed that this video is here! it taught me so many things thank you and god bless you
i love when melody sings "heavenly BOND"
I absolutely loved this! Thank you!
This helped me sooo sooo much and opened my eyes a lot. Pray for me 🥺
y’all, this podcast is richhhh. very rich with keys to the Kingdom fr. love love love the vibes. thank you God for guiding me to this channel. 😭I love to Jesus😚🤌🏾
Amen, Thank you guys for this wonderful word! Really love this conversation, God bless y'all!
So many great points ! You gotta keep praying
this was amazing and very humbling! amen!!
I’m so glad I came across this video. So many good points!
Waouh all the glory to the Most High for speaking through your mouths. God bless you guys!
God bless yall!! This was another worddd yet again! The Holy Spirit shines thru you!
Appreciate you guys really needed to hear this.🙏🏾
I totally loved this video so much I kept nodding and saying yes 😂❤ keep on spreading the good news guys, love y'all
Spittin heat !🔥 praise God🙌🏼
I enjoyed this!! Thank you for sharing this topic.
this conversation was beautiful, thank you both.
Thank you for your service, God bless you guys ❤
This is so good ❤ I told a man, when he asked that I was looking for; consistency, kindness and authenticity. It was hard to put on a show with those attributes 😂
first pod i listened to. Yall gained a new fan. Love from Tampa FL
This is just a confirmation I just received.Thank you Lord we breaking up today!!!!!!!
I got to subscribe… when it first started I said omg he loves her…. Then to find out it’s his sister it makes so much more sense
I don’t really have anything to say. I just felt the need to comment. Thank you 🙏🏾 You really Helped Me Today ❤
Love love love this!
This beautiful!! Thank you for this conversation 🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
this is fire frr, the most genuine duo and real content🔥
Love this message!!!
Amen! I love you guys already😄
If I’m staying with them I’m saying, I love them too much and I don’t love my God that much! And
The explanation on being equally yoked!
This is gold, I ditched my movie night to finish this❤️
You guys really do have sound doctrine!!! Y'all said it RAWWWW
This helped me so much thank you. I feel so lonely on this walk and I don’t know who to connect with. I don’t have a community. But I need to step out
Very helpful, Made me realize alot about myself! Amen
Talk guys! I felt & related to every subtopic. I admire you guys perspectives and intimacy with the Lord. Definitely gained a new follower 🫶🏽 keep going.
I literally found y’all like 2 days ago and I feel so blessed I did!! It’s truly a blessing to see people my age going after God’s heart. I love y’all and grateful for y’all!!
Question: what are y’all views on tattoos???
Melody, what’s Rudy’s story ? Lol bc i know y’all met young, did he become a Christian around the same time as y’all?
Thank you Jesus for showing me this video 🙌🏽
the way that this video has answered most of my thoughts and prayers… okay I see u Lord 👁️👄👁️
Being intentional and being intent with the people you select to give your ENERGY to.
I approve this message 🤲🏾I appreciate this podcast an
I’m a new supporter Thank you for this uplifting video 🤍🙏🏾God bless you both.
This was such a great convo! so edifying and encouraging, keep going guys and the rapture comment at the end lets gooooo!!!!
okay immensely giving thanks to Jesus for this channel thank you I needed to hear this from true followers of Christ
Just found this podcast but enjoying it 🙏🏽🙌🏽
OMG, I LOVED THIS EPISODE SOOO MUCH
very eye opening video to say the least appreciate yall making this.
Thank you for this conversation!
The “bro” and the “are you dumb” I felt that, that is me 😂 Also emphasis on keeping your requirements for your future spouse in private, the devil is always listening! But again thank you for this conversation, this really resonated. Even as a 28yr old, thank you for your wisdom! Job 32:9 - “it is not only the old who are wise, not only the aged who understand what is right”. Bless you guys!!! ❤️🔥🙏🏼🙌🏼
Wow this was so good and edifying yes please make a part 2
Beautiful points ✨
This was great! Much needed🤍
This was so good! Thank y’all for speaking truth and sharing. Mark 3:33-35 really freed me in this area of my life. We know to love our worldly friends well but this comforted me when having to create boundaries. Basically loving them from a distance. Y’all stay blessed 🫶🏾
Can you explain this verse because I don't understand please
First time watching you guys I loved this God bless you❤
God bless you for this.❤🥹
Speaking facts 🗣️I love this
Love this podcast! Part 2!
Part 2 PLEASE !!
amen
thank you for the pod
Keep doing what you're doing, You're hitting on deep topics that people need to hear. I love that! I encourage you to continue to keep studying God's word and telling people about Jesus. I can tell that you're studying God's word. Keep giving out them gems.😂
this is soooo goood amen
Can you go more into detail on friendships? The different types of friendships and how to deal with growing apart from a very dear friend bc I am now walking in faith and she does not believe in God.
This video gave me faith ❤️
I love you guys so much ..Learning a lot ❤️🫶
This was so powerful!🫶🏼
so good!!
Y’all convicting me omg!!!
We need another video of knowing God and knowing of Him.
love this ❤
This is so good ❤
I love that triangle analogy ❤️
Amazing, please keep posting never stop!! you guys are a big help honestly... may God bless you and anyone reading this comment
Thanks for the blessing, God bless you too! Wow, a beautiful young girl watching videos like this?! Amazing! Well, I assume you're young, and I'm pretty good with guessing ages. I'm gonna try to guess your age, ok? You can just say wrong or right, but I'm just doing it for fun lol. Let me see...I'm gonna say you're 22, is that right? How old do you think I am? (Please don't say 30 🤦🏻♂😂)
God Bless You Too Sister 🫂♥️