3 Reasons Why Women Over 40 Hate Your Age Gap Relationships
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- In today's video, I'm discussing age gap relationships. Specifically, we’ll explore 3 reasons why women over 40 are often critical of these relationships. If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where your dating choices are scrutinized, you’re in the right place!
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Reason #1: Jealousy and Insecurity
Let’s kick things off with the first reason: jealousy and insecurity. As women hit their 40s, they often feel the pressure of societal standards more acutely. They see younger women with men who may be more successful and established, and this can lead to resentment. They often voice their opinions with comments like, “What do you have in common?” or “It gives off creepy pedo vibes.”
But let’s be real: this intense scrutiny usually stems from their own insecurities. Many older women feel they’re "past their prime" and face the harsh reality that fewer men are showing interest as they age. Meanwhile, many younger women look for older men who are mature, gentlemanly, and successful. It's natural for these older women to feel threatened-especially when they perceive that younger women are seeking out the fathers they never had. This is a key point of tension in discussions about age gap relationships, and understanding this dynamic can provide valuable insight into women’s behaviors and opinions.
Reason #2: Competing with Younger Women
The second reason is that older single women often find themselves competing-quite literally-with younger and hotter women. They’ve invested years into their careers and personal lives, only to face a dating landscape that appears to favor youth. When they see a guy they might have once considered dating going after a much younger woman, it can feel like a personal blow.
This bitterness can manifest in all kinds of negative statements about age gap relationships. You’ll hear things like “she’s too young” or “what can you talk about?” This highlights a fundamental misunderstanding of why many men are drawn to younger women. Men may prefer younger partners for a variety of reasons-beauty, vitality, and sometimes a desire for a more traditional relationship dynamic. Older women’s frustrations often stem from their own experiences and feelings of inadequacy; they just need to recognize that it isn’t about them personally.
Reason #3: Delusion About What Men Want
Lastly, let’s tackle one more significant issue: many women over 40 are delusional about what men actually want in a partner. They often believe that men are searching for women who are financially independent, own a house, and have a respectable career. Don’t get me wrong; these are great qualities, but they’re not the deciding factors for most men.
When seeking dating advice for men, what you’ll find is that the vast majority of men truly value a woman’s beauty, femininity, and kindness above almost everything else. There’s an undeniable reality here: men are primarily attracted to how good a woman looks, her femininity, and her capacity for warmth and compassion. So when women over 40 project their own priorities onto men, it can lead to unnecessary confusion and frustration.
To summarize, these three reasons-jealousy and insecurity, competition with younger women, and a misunderstanding about what men truly value-are why many women over 40 may appear to "hate" age gap relationships. It’s important to remember that just because they voice strong opinions doesn’t mean those opinions are rooted in reality.
Age gap relationships can be fulfilling, exciting, and mutually beneficial. If you’re in one, own it! Adapt the dating advice for men available and navigate your own path confidently. What works for you may not work for someone else-and that’s perfectly fine!
I hope you found today’s discussion enlightening! If you have questions about age gap relationships or other dating issues, drop them in the comments below. And if you enjoyed this video, please give it a thumbs up and share it with your friends. Let’s debunk the myths surrounding age gap relationships together!
Until next time, keep dating smart, stay confident, and remember: the right woman is out there waiting for you-regardless of the numbers. Thanks for tuning in!
They also have a level of arrogance to tell the buyer what he wants...the customer is always right.
Yup. Right on all counts. My friend was dating a girl half his age. 60-30. My then girlfriend hated that fact and used to complain about it regularly. I grew weary of that nonsense. It’s between the couple and none of mine or my X’s business.
Had an ex that did very similar. Like why do you give a damn about their age gap? A lot of women really can't mind their own business.
I am 48 and feel more attractive than when I was 20. I am going back to nursing school, and I have had a couple of my young classmates, women in their 20s, want to go out on a date with me. I am 6'4 and in ok shape, and still getting these women. Coming from a 23-year marriage where my ex-wife just threw me away after being a faithful husband and great dad. Now my ex hates knowing I am dating a younger women and she talks so much crap to my older boys. Guys, we do age like fine wine. Never stop improving yourself.
Hey Silver Bachelor--I just turned 72 and have been divorced for 2 years. I have 4 sons, aged from 29 to 34. They DO NOT want me to start dating again because they are JEALOUS!! They know that I had MANY women before their mother and they absolutely DO NOT want me to bring a younger, hotter woman than their wives to the family Xmas party. Tough nuggies, boys. I'm in the hunt.
I did 50 first dates with older broads (45 to 55) and 9 of 10 of them are undatable. the 1 in 10 had other issues so that "experiment" is over. Done.
Half of them caused a broken home despite their ex being a "good man and great father". Why would she look twice at me?
The other half said their ex is a narcissist. So, she's attracted to that type (and she's unable to take any responsibility).
I'm pretty sure you realize the narcissist was right in front of you, not the ex. As the late great comedian Patrice O'Neal used to say, "Let a woman talk long enough, and she will eventually tell on herself."
Only if they are insecure is a woman over 40s going to give grief. Some of us we're 8+ when younger so can comphered when they were in thier twenties and thirties so can understand and are happy for you and they comphered
"Why women hate your age gap relationships" The first thing I would recommend to young men is that you should care about how women feel as much as women care about how men feel. That's a really good starting point.
Same women were dating guys who were older than them when they were in their 20s in their prime.
The reason why they hate it is because it reminds them how they are no longer in the prime of their beauty and fertility
And beauty and fertility is the most precious thing a woman has to give.
A man's most precious thing is his social status and wealth.
So a mid age man and young women are exactly at the same level of status as each other. At their prime.
The same women who object to you dating 25 year olds are the same women who did not want to date you when you were both 25.😊
Lol..not always true. I only dated guys my age or a year older.
I have no interest in being someone's step-dad. If I meet a woman she has kids, those kids are her responsibility and the responsibility of the biological father, not me!
I've been called lots of things over my lifetime (I'm 63), but one thing I'll NEVER be called is stepdad.
The part about the makeup and hair ……. Very true
Spot on SB! I enjoyed this video. Subbed immediately.
We’re not competing for your attention. We want young hot guys too.
Pro tipper the 'ladies'---Pass on the Karen haircut.
Im sort of like you in the fact younger women have been attracted to me thru most of my life. But now at my advanced age its different . Im not good at going up to a woman I might be attracted to ask a question , not knowing what to say. especially If I am attracted. What if its a losing proposition , boyfriend or husband might be outside waiting. At my age now 79 , not ugly , not fat , but the age is there. Either way old men need love to provided its with the right person. Im not desparate to the point of taking just anyone although Im a nice guy I have to draw the line to someone Im not interested in for dating purposes.
Do you find a lot of single older women about? Was in a tango class the other day and plenty of gals.
On point ☝️
I find it strange how older women seem to forget what a man looks for in a partner. When women are young they often take care of themselves, exercise, and eat right; in part because that makes them attractive. But after marriage or with age they simply seem to forget or just stop caring. I think most women only put in any effort to catch a man, but then stop caring after that. The old single ones are often just bitter of not having an easy time anymore in my opinion.
That sad thing about married women, is the man they chose to live the rest of their life with, is getting the worst version of the woman. He should be the best man for her, as he is specifically chosen for marriage, and should be treated as the best one. But more times than not, married women stop caring about being attractive so the women shows him the least respect of any man she has been with.
Many men give up on their looks as well not just women.
Right, they let themselves go, but think that all their achievements will get them what they want, they think they know what men want when they look at it from a woman's perspective, which is a big no. Also, this feminist doctrine and all of them being beautiful and 10s gets them to be delusional.
I follow Rich Cooper and the algorithm brought you up. You guys are like 2 peas in a pod. 😂
I don’t disagree…at all. I DO go to the gym, am over 40 (43) and I’m happily married to a stud. My husband is 8 years younger than me so I take care of myself to keep up.
Same here! I’m 56 and go to the gym daily and am very fit so is my man.😊
I don’t care about a college degree.
Facts
100% agree
👍🏻Maybe because I’m a father at 50yrs old, but I don’t ever see myself dating a woman in her 20s 30s. I’d feel like her father. And you know that relationship isn’t going to last
Sounds like a you problem. You see children, we see grown as women.
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@@poindextersheelturn436some people grow with age
Yeah I’m mid 20s. Personally I find it weird if I were to introduce a guy to my parents and they’re the same age. My mom is 50s. My dad is 60s. Then again I’ve never dated a guy that old. Oldest was 39. He was attractive but our interests didn’t match. I like older guys and find them very attractive because they are stable. 40s is fine too. I’ve dated a guy a year older than me and we were not in the same life stage. He wants to be adventurous and wait to have kids. I’ve never been a risk taker. I have my whole life to be adventurous. I’m ready to have kids because I crave to have a family. I’ve been ready since 22. Freezing eggs, I’d be willing to do, but I have a biological clock. I’m not trying to wait.
@anonanon7553 I did once introduce my mother to a chap who was 21 years older than me and three years younger than my Mother. I was in my early 30s at the time. We went for dinner - they had a great time as they had far more in common than he and I did. 🤣
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