People Tell A Pastor Why They Don't Believe In God

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  • @weirdestcalebtv269
    @weirdestcalebtv269 Před 4 lety +10739

    I loveee how this wasn’t an argument and a true conversation.

    • @majicrabbit5217
      @majicrabbit5217 Před 4 lety +30

      Lamster66
      Ya, we all believe what we think 😂
      ( I’m an atheist btw)
      They just didn’t explain it as well

    • @youtubepolice1463
      @youtubepolice1463 Před 4 lety +9

      I think that it is great that hey do this

    • @youtubepolice1463
      @youtubepolice1463 Před 4 lety +3

      Genius that’s scary

    • @milkyway6812
      @milkyway6812 Před 4 lety +16

      Idk... I don't think it was really a conversation, she just said yeah mhm mhm yeah yes,

    • @milkyway6812
      @milkyway6812 Před 4 lety +3

      @@Lamster66 yes but I just wish the nonbelievers would of asked her some questions

  • @kidsbodey4390
    @kidsbodey4390 Před 4 lety +1712

    im surprised that one girl held it together talking about her brother. i thought i was gonna cry

  • @haraldisdead
    @haraldisdead Před rokem +1183

    My heart goes out to the girl who lost her twin.

    • @fallonvandrunen4336
      @fallonvandrunen4336 Před rokem +22

      She thinks she will never see him again.
      Think about that process of emotions.

    • @alberto6169
      @alberto6169 Před rokem +9

      @@fallonvandrunen4336 Uh?

    • @PiercetheUnshucked
      @PiercetheUnshucked Před rokem +46

      @@fallonvandrunen4336 as an atheist that is what we think happens. Death to us is just death. Nothing after

    • @fallonvandrunen4336
      @fallonvandrunen4336 Před rokem +4

      @@PiercetheUnshucked Always found that really interesting.

    • @PiercetheUnshucked
      @PiercetheUnshucked Před rokem

      @@fallonvandrunen4336 what religion are you from?

  • @willjen6595
    @willjen6595 Před 11 měsíci +46

    “There’s always gonna be conflict in religion because religion is man made”

    • @Lilla_Jatten
      @Lilla_Jatten Před 9 měsíci +4

      Back in high school, in the religion classes. My teacher said a lot of things about why religion exists, and one of the things that stood out to me was the realisation that we technically created religion. Sure, people say that it was god who made the rules for the Holly Book, but at the end of the day. We were the ones who actually made it, for either a control over society or a new belief.

    • @willjen6595
      @willjen6595 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@Lilla_Jatten
      Profit, Suppression, Manipulation, False hope, etc.. written as a text bounded in time.
      It’s clinging to our leg as we try to advance as a society.

  • @Rose-jq3jw
    @Rose-jq3jw Před 4 lety +5137

    Something about this pastor is just so pure. I feel like she’s the only person that would make me feel safe, she’s super gentle

    • @Purity10101
      @Purity10101 Před 4 lety +186

      It's because she is reflecting the *true* character of Christ, the Father, and the Holy Spirit! Not every Christian has matured in God's love like this. But don't let what they don't reflect affect what you do see in someone like this. Jesus cares.

    • @jasonmatthews4449
      @jasonmatthews4449 Před 4 lety +2

      @@Purity10101 yes but does how does one have God remove subtle sorceres like mantriks etc

    • @zank1249
      @zank1249 Před 4 lety +63

      Just a little explanation for those who don't (really) know about God's love and Jesus' sacrifice.
      If I ask you:
      -Have you ever lied?
      -Have you ever stolen?
      -Have you ever looked at a man or a woman with lust?
      -Have you ever used the name of God in vain?
      -Have you ever disrespected your parents?
      -Have you ever killed someone?
      Etc.
      The answer for all of us is probably yes to at least one of these questions. According to the 10 commandments, if you did commit those acts you are then a liar, a thief, a blasphemor, a murderer etc.
      If you were in Court (God being the judge) to be judged for these crimes, would you be held innocent or guilty ? Guilty. Would you go to heaven or hell? You would go to hell since you are guilty.
      But is there a way for you to be exonerated? YES!
      Jesus is the answer. He paid the fine. You are now free. Indeed, by being crucified, Jesus took all the sins of the world (all of my sins, all of your sins) on his shoulders.
      What does all that mean?
      Now the law still exists. But it is not the law nor our good deeds that will save us and make us just to God. You can have Eternal life with God. How? You just have to accept Jesus's sacrifice, repent from your sins and follow God. It is totally free! You don't have to go confess your sins to the priest to be saved, you don't have to pray 5 times a day to be saved, you don't have to be perfect! All God wants, is to have a relationship with you. Real christianity is not a religion. It is a RELATIONSHIP with God. All you need to do is to have faith in him.
      And of course, if you accept Jesus in your life, you will still sin. We are all human and weak. But trust me, you will experience a love that will totally transform you and that will give you a peace that nothing in this world can offer you.
      And if you sin, just recognize it and leave it to God, ask him to change your heart and he will. He freed me from an addiction to pornography and drugs. Nothing is impossible for him.
      God knows you completely and loves you totally and this void in your heart is him inviting you to seek him and to surrender everything to him.
      He promises us that: If we seek him with all our heart, we will find him (Jeremiah 29:13).
      No matter who you are, no matter what you've done, God wants you to know that he loves you and that he wants a relationship with you.
      And if you turned away from God because of a religion, a church or someone, know that even though they said they talked on behalf of God, it doesn't mean that what they told you was true. Many religion and people transform God's Word for whatever reasons (money, Political reasons etc.) But don't listen to them, just look at God's Word.
      Be blessed my Friend. 😇

    • @miamayah3780
      @miamayah3780 Před 4 lety +9

      Jimmi K God doesn’t murder. He gives life ! read that again

    • @bethrose3805
      @bethrose3805 Před 4 lety +4

      That's God shining through her it's so beautiful

  • @DroppinJewelzz
    @DroppinJewelzz Před 5 lety +2851

    This is how it should be. Communication not condemnation. 💯

    • @ethanezrahite1800
      @ethanezrahite1800 Před 5 lety +22

      Yes respect shown on both sides

    • @Himathan
      @Himathan Před 5 lety +4

      More like communication not communism

    • @SwordTune
      @SwordTune Před 5 lety +10

      When I see these conversations it's always the same, people have certain emotional experiences or justifications that give them a reason not to believe. I want to see a conversation from a pastor with someone who is inherently not religious, someone who has never had to seriously question how they feel about something just because of greater force they imagine could be true.

    • @iam8956
      @iam8956 Před 5 lety +1

      Can you back this up with scripture?

    • @jillianreid8173
      @jillianreid8173 Před 5 lety +4

      WiL OneL not everything has to be backed up by a scripture. I’m a Christian, orthodox and a baptist. I believe in god and Jesus and having a higher power looking down and protecting us. However, the saying “communication not condemnation” doesn’t just apply to religion, in general whether you believe in a higher power, or not, we should communicate, respect and listen to other people instead of talking them down, condemning their opinions.

  • @Azazeil
    @Azazeil Před rokem +122

    I love how everyone isn’t getting frustrated that they disagree with eachothers beliefs but instead they seem understanding of each other

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před rokem +4

      "Opinions" = are abstract - and hence meaningless. Where the "angst" comes into play - and rightly so - is when people = act on those subjective beliefs to the detriment of others. So it is not so much what people believe per se as if upon acting upon their beliefs others are impacted negatively. That has always been the source of friction between Christians et al and others. Theists simply can not wrap their heads around the reality that just because "they" believe a certain way = others should supposedly submit to that - and the answer of course is no.
      As an aside. You see this is real time right now in the US in the form of a court case to be heard by SCOTUS. A Christian zealot wants the "right" to discriminate against others in matters of business simply because they happen to be a Fundie. Last I checked money in the US is "green" - not "Christian" = ergo if one wants to operate a business in the public space they should serve all customers as that is only fair after all - is it not. 🤔

  • @krisie1649
    @krisie1649 Před rokem +209

    I really appreciate this lady. I came here because I was having doubts. Wondering if there is even such a thing as God after everything that has happened…. She is so calm, doesn’t judge the nay sayers or doubters. She doesn’t push anything onto these people. She just listens and genuinely cares. I can feel it and it brings tears to my eyes

    • @charleskavoukjian3441
      @charleskavoukjian3441 Před rokem +13

      I wouldn’t be here without him, We never walk alone. He wants us to hear him. Prayers for you!!!

    • @krisie1649
      @krisie1649 Před rokem +3

      @@charleskavoukjian3441 thank you!

    • @stefanisilva2493
      @stefanisilva2493 Před rokem +6

      If you really believe in hell you gonna gain a lot by being an atheist. If you don't, then the most you gain is having a way smaller chance to falling for cults and religious quacks, nothing else. That's a warning.
      I' m not sure if spreading the atheist arguments is bad or good. For society, is great for sure. For individual, just if the person is in some form of radical thinking. There are some simple questions that when answered with sincerity leave no room for a belief in God.

    • @tamirsharif314
      @tamirsharif314 Před rokem +6

      @@krisie1649 True indeed, i am not a Christian nor a Jew nor a Muslim (although i along with my big brother & my sister was born Muslims) nor do i believe in a spirit spook God but i do admire Erica not trying to force her Christian beliefs on those people.
      However no a spirit spook God doesn't exist.
      We are all Gods, even the bible says it in Psalm 82:6 I have said, Ye are gods & Yashu'a (Jesus, Isa) said in John 10:34 Is it not written in your law, I said , Ye are Gods?. Your parents, your grandparents, & all your ancestors are your Gods as well.

    • @eva-yeshua
      @eva-yeshua Před rokem

      Check out christians wake up on this forum. You will definitely benefit with some amazing ooen knowledge that would be these fake condeming christians to shame.

  • @multifandomtingz4900
    @multifandomtingz4900 Před 4 lety +45759

    This pastor is exactly how all Christians should act. She doesn’t throw Christianity onto others, which is so good. Since I am a Christian, I get upset when other Christians believe that they are better than others.

    • @zar3851
      @zar3851 Před 4 lety +2508

      as a Christian I agree because most of us say “Join us or you will burn in hell for eternity and torture” and try to scare others into our religion which is not right we shouldn’t force it onto people but just preach believers or non believers 😊

    • @ethan-hv1ly
      @ethan-hv1ly Před 4 lety +1182

      Yehet Army exactly the bible says the no one has the right to judge others except God but some “christians” think it is ok the attack atheists, lgbt people and people who believe in other religions

    • @multifandomtingz4900
      @multifandomtingz4900 Před 4 lety +601

      kabukskii Preach!! God says to love everyone, which includes all those people. They shouldn’t forget that they are sinners as well. We all are.

    • @multifandomtingz4900
      @multifandomtingz4900 Před 4 lety +299

      Za’Ryah Santos very true. God gave us a choice so we should also give others a choice.

    • @evescene
      @evescene Před 4 lety +429

      It’s really how all Christians should act! I’m agnostic. I don’t believe in God, but if life down the road shows me that he does exist, I will be more than happy to believe. It makes me so sad that Christianity believes to be judgement free, but I’ve gotten judged for not believing and had someone once try to shove it down my throat. Thanks for being the great Christian and understanding what to not force it onto others and not believing you’re better than everyone else, everyone appreciates the understanding ones

  • @rebeccajoyner3858
    @rebeccajoyner3858 Před 5 lety +7438

    Do y’all SEE THIS?! A Healthy conversation between two people with very different viewpoints. We need to learn from this! Can we all learn to have healthy conversations with each other nowadays?! Bravo Pastor Erica!

    • @gandhigun2304
      @gandhigun2304 Před 5 lety +125

      I would have preferred she gotten some push back on "Most people who don't believe, there was some traumatic church experience" Um, no lady. We're not broken because we don't believe in God. Y'all don't believe in Zeus, nobody thinks that means you must have had a bad experience with a thunderstorm.

    • @helenproctor3750
      @helenproctor3750 Před 5 lety +6

      Very true but highly unlikely anyone will. I’ve been trying to teach my family to do that... let’s just say you don’t want to be at our family get togethers.

    • @mariosebastian7127
      @mariosebastian7127 Před 5 lety +22

      Ghandi Gun i think what she was trying to say is more like "everybody who walked out of church/christianity mustve had a traumatic church experience" bc we can see that she asked that to the catholic girl

    • @gandhigun2304
      @gandhigun2304 Před 5 lety +33

      Mario Sebastian yes. Exactly. That's an incredibly self assured view. The idea that the only reason someone would leave or deny faith is because of some evil experience they had. No. People don't just ditch a believe in the main structure of the universe for some petty reason or because someone was a dick.
      Imagine a white supremacist telling me "well you only married outside your race because a white woman broke your heart when you were young." It's deeply offensive, and wholly wrong on several levels, not the least of which is your inability to see why it's wrong and offensive.

    • @MissGio12
      @MissGio12 Před 5 lety +28

      @@gandhigun2304 but why would you leave it if you only had good experience from it? Clearly there must have been something to trigger someone to go from believing to not believing. I thought it was clear the way the Mormon talked about his past life as something negative as he felt liberated leaving it behind him. Which means he must've had bad experiences.

  • @JoeFec
    @JoeFec Před rokem +659

    Love this Pastor. So well done. Christians need to bring the warmth and the love. It's that that will draw people, not judgement.

    • @codybennett8247
      @codybennett8247 Před rokem +17

      I agree with you. I am a Christian too. I believe that we are supposed to love all people. We do not need to bash people over the head with our faith. Faith is powerful when our actions and love support it. 😇

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před rokem +4

      @@codybennett8247 Also, I'd really like to see the angelic version of Romans 1:18, sooner, rather than later?
      If not so, I do feel it may be time to retire it, or thoroughly redraft it. As I feel it's just not holding up, anymore.
      And a fuller expansion of Genesis 2-3, including if Adam knew the slightest thing of stakes to other potential humans, or what evil and danger was, would also be nice - thanks.
      Lastly, what was to be the default fate, of gay people, post Matthew 5:18?
      I'm sorry if this went too deep. All answers, are optional (for you, at least)

    • @codybennett8247
      @codybennett8247 Před rokem

      @@chrissonofpear1384 Read Psalms 145:18.

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před rokem

      @@codybennett8247 I must say that stanza seems massively at odds, in it's claims, with Exodus 34, Numbers 11:1, Numbers 21:6, Deuteronomy 13:13, 2 Samuel 24, and a lot else.
      And some truths remain obscured, to this day. Or at least, are not widely told to many laypeople, or potential recruited laypeople.
      Lastly, how do you see Matthew 7:14, currently, in truth?

    • @danquaylesitsspeltpotatoe8307
      @danquaylesitsspeltpotatoe8307 Před rokem

      @@codybennett8247 Just leave them for your evil god to torture them forever?How else do you get people to worship your evil god who will torture them forever if they dont have a baseless belief in your vile evil god??

  • @lunarebony6122
    @lunarebony6122 Před rokem +967

    Im an atheist and i appreciate this woman so much for actually listening without getting heated or judgmental like A LOT of other christians do. Its just a nice conversation, I wish all religious ppl could be like this

    • @nomejest5919
      @nomejest5919 Před rokem

      Why are you an atheist?

    • @lunarebony6122
      @lunarebony6122 Před rokem +49

      @@nomejest5919bcs by my logic i dont see how a god could exist. Im prepared to change my mind if any physical evidence was shown to me though.

    • @nomejest5919
      @nomejest5919 Před rokem +8

      @@lunarebony6122 Why do you neccesserily need physical evidence? Do you not believe that there are different types of evidences? It isn't logical for there to be physical evidence as God is immaterial. This is a doctrine of scientism which is self refuting.

    • @andrewmoreno3707
      @andrewmoreno3707 Před rokem

      @@lunarebony6122 If you look up what are humans made of, you will see that humans are made of oxygen hydrogen carbon nitrogen calcium phosphorus sulfur potassium sodium chlorine and magnesium. Most of the elements that make up soil?, the same elements. Now you know why in Genesis 2:7 it says, “And the LORD God formed the man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.”

    • @lunarebony6122
      @lunarebony6122 Před rokem

      @@nomejest5919 AHEM ahem AHEM. Im wheezing rn. Remember what i said? in my first comment? How I wished all religious ppl were like the woman? Yeah, ppl like u r half the reason why im atheist.

  • @liger-9990
    @liger-9990 Před 4 lety +3467

    I’ve seen so much toxic stuff on CZcams about religion and atheism but this is pure.
    Both sides are being respectful.

    • @flashoftruth
      @flashoftruth Před 4 lety +9

      Clearly staged.

    • @flashoftruth
      @flashoftruth Před 4 lety +50

      @Truth Seeker For being someone that literally has "truth" in their name, it's amazing that you don't know the difference between personal truth and what is true. Because I really don't care what the Bible says, it's just a book, and a book of mostly fiction.

    • @liger-9990
      @liger-9990 Před 4 lety +33

      flashoftruth it doesn’t matter if it is. The fact is that it’s showing how it should be done. No one changes minds by shouting.

    • @flashoftruth
      @flashoftruth Před 4 lety +5

      ​@@liger-9990 Well, this is not always true though is it? I agree that it is probably best when talking to a theist to attempt to refrain from "shouting", but shouting has changed minds in many situations and been quite effective many times throughout history in politics, debate, activism, and yes, unfortunately...even religion...
      But eventually one's fuse runs out and then one is forced to make a decision, agree to disagree, or grit one's teeth into sawdust when it gets to the hard questions.

    • @liger-9990
      @liger-9990 Před 4 lety +6

      flashoftruth good point well made but I still think we could be less angry at the opposition for simply being misinformed . Think about how those preachers who tell you that you’re evil and that you are going to hell sound.
      Don’t risk sounding like that to theists. They are not our enemy, they are our friends and it is our duty to respect them learn from them and maybe even teach them. Sometimes shouting works but it never ends up with you as the good guy.

  • @darthpizza3849
    @darthpizza3849 Před 3 lety +3442

    Am I the only person that kept getting distracted by that guy’s mustache? No shade just was very mesmerizing

  • @D.I.V.A.Journey3758
    @D.I.V.A.Journey3758 Před rokem +160

    THIS is how these conversations should go! Even if those people would choose to still believe what they believe, it's the respect of each other to just listen to one another. Thank you Pastor Erica for bring open to this!
    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Johnsmith-hp6tw
      @Johnsmith-hp6tw Před rokem

      But this won't get any of us E V I L atheists to stop raping, torturing, and murdering babies.

    • @MichaelJohnson-kq7qg
      @MichaelJohnson-kq7qg Před 8 měsíci +3

      You do understand it's not a 'choice', right?

  • @chrys.k.mwarriorsofpiathos1501

    This is the kindest Christian I've ever seen. As a Pagan, Christians have been so aggressive and abusive toward me but this woman is so loving. ❤️

    • @spider-man9118
      @spider-man9118 Před rokem +9

      i'm sorry you were hurt by some of the Jesus league memebers

    • @hessstudios3500
      @hessstudios3500 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Believe in Jesus bro.....

    • @chrys.k.mwarriorsofpiathos1501
      @chrys.k.mwarriorsofpiathos1501 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@hessstudios3500 No

    • @hessstudios3500
      @hessstudios3500 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@chrys.k.mwarriorsofpiathos1501 Jesus loves you bro. If you ever find yourself down just reach out from your heart, he'll answer. Have a blessed day.

    • @chrys.k.mwarriorsofpiathos1501
      @chrys.k.mwarriorsofpiathos1501 Před 11 měsíci

      @@hessstudios3500 This is why I don't like religion you're always force feeding your beliefs on other people similarly to the far left.
      Whats the thing I always hear? Worship or burn. That's a bit tyrannical.

  • @MegumiHayashida
    @MegumiHayashida Před 5 lety +11630

    This women is exactly how I imagine true christians, you can feel her positive energy, only compassion emerges from her aura and just for that I just want to know how & what gives her such calm confidence

    • @slimweezyKND
      @slimweezyKND Před 5 lety +277

      Megumi Hayashida Jesus

    • @zak3172
      @zak3172 Před 5 lety +12

      I'm not Christian so I wudnt know but load of people are saying she isn't even christian and that she "sold u out" yrs ago...whatever that means

    • @trishayamada807
      @trishayamada807 Před 5 lety +55

      Megumi Hayashida she doesn’t actually think too hard. If you read the Bible and actually think about what it says, you wouldn’t believe it.

    • @MegumiHayashida
      @MegumiHayashida Před 5 lety +69

      @@trishayamada807 I suppose you are referring to the idea of a man able to walk on water, duplicate food and turn water into wine is just total absurdism right? Well actually I'm still sceptical about it too.. but then again I've witnessed grand illusionists including magicians who were able to accomplish similar wonders, so to my perspective it is kind of difficult to deny the fact that maybe we share this world with forces/spirits that go beyond our understanding. I wish we could all know the real truth

    • @trishayamada807
      @trishayamada807 Před 5 lety +38

      Megumi Hayashida LoL. Please, my daughter does magic. Would you like her to make a quarter come out of her ear for you? God puts the quarter there and she pulls it out. If that’s what you want to believe, feel free to be ignorant. Snakes can’t talk, apples aren’t magic, and so on.

  • @finnologyy
    @finnologyy Před 3 lety +3317

    Title: *People tell a pastor why they don't believe in God*
    Me: _To the comment section_

    • @God_3712
      @God_3712 Před 3 lety +29

      Lol exactly me

    • @sharsh24
      @sharsh24 Před 3 lety +5

      Jaron same

    • @idk-vr9oy
      @idk-vr9oy Před 3 lety +4

      Mr. Dude wha do you mean

    • @noname9041
      @noname9041 Před 3 lety +16

      @Mr. Dude same i wanna see drama

    • @kyng3166
      @kyng3166 Před 3 lety +23

      Mr. Dude I mean both sides are acting like jerks lol

  • @strangequark420
    @strangequark420 Před rokem +22

    One shouldn't have to tell anyone why they don't believe. The believers should tell us why they do.

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před rokem +7

      Our literature and entertainment alone demonstrates how man has "a fruitful imagination". Thus as you noted the burden of proof falls on those who assert things which others have not observed and which therefore may be subjective to them alone. Failure to do so risks the claim being just so much more fanciful belief. "Faith" = is a bag of fart. Only credible evidence which others can evaluate makes a thing real or not.

    • @shbig2878
      @shbig2878 Před rokem

      @@varyolla435 LOL

    • @sisicjanwjkrgk
      @sisicjanwjkrgk Před rokem

      they only believe because their religions have been passed down for centuries to extremely young children it’s pretty much brainwashing

  • @Meghanishappy
    @Meghanishappy Před 8 měsíci +8

    As a Christian, this conversation was so nice and respectful that it was truly refreshing.

  • @corynn.l5146
    @corynn.l5146 Před 5 lety +3146

    The dude's mustache can cut diamonds

    • @PeachPlastic
      @PeachPlastic Před 5 lety +76

      It seems he dropped the Christian faith to join the Church of mustache.

    • @naumsei6221
      @naumsei6221 Před 5 lety +10

      Hipster lvl 100³

    • @MrScott-io2dt
      @MrScott-io2dt Před 5 lety +1

      Don't do that

    • @naumsei6221
      @naumsei6221 Před 5 lety

      @@MrScott-io2dt Me? I'm a hipster too so, oh no! I said that I'm a hipster, guess I'm not anymore...

    • @MrScott-io2dt
      @MrScott-io2dt Před 5 lety

      @@naumsei6221 no lol I was responding to the original comment about the mustache

  • @miraclepope8657
    @miraclepope8657 Před 4 lety +4036

    There are literally people in the comments calling this woman a “false prophet” and other names because she was being kind and understanding rather than harsh, judgmental, and forceful with those people who don’t share her beliefs and definitely did not go there to argue with her over their own beliefs. That’s one of the main reasons people question or turn away religion to begin with.

    • @todo870
      @todo870 Před 4 lety +226

      Exactly! Just makes religion look worse.

    • @justinroberts9652
      @justinroberts9652 Před 4 lety +15

      I concur

    • @nrgnnvn6109
      @nrgnnvn6109 Před 4 lety +32

      I agree.

    • @mforemily2799
      @mforemily2799 Před 4 lety +12

      Agreed

    • @halamadruuid2380
      @halamadruuid2380 Před 4 lety +67

      This is definitely one of the reason i lost faith on god, I was an atheist at age 11, Because in my beliefs I already know basically anything to know about god (and sorry for this) And he is not real, I already know how the brain works, you can change something, and they have a different personality

  • @itzzgeli
    @itzzgeli Před rokem +76

    Im a Christian but I also used to be atheist at one point of my life and I absolutely loved this conversation. You don’t have to throw Christianity onto other people, it’s their choice to believe, and it’s okay if they don’t, not everyone who doesn’t believes it’s not a good person…I’ve meet awesome and really good people that don’t believe and that’s okay! Religion it’s a really big step and it’s a choice, it’s a personal choice. I don’t fell that my life it’s full without god, but if you are happy without him, if you feel okay and full without him, that’s completely understandable. Everyone has different needs, everyone has a different vision of the world, and that’s okay. ❤️

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před rokem +6

      Yet religious people absolutely foist their subjective beliefs upon others. Were that not enough = they as we see in the news via endless examples additionally use the levers of government to try to compel others to accede to those "personal beliefs" - usually in a negative manner. *THAT* has always been the problem with religion - always. People unable/unwilling to distinguish that their beliefs are not necessarily the same as others.
      p.s. - "purpose" actually comes from within as opposed to without. So if you were not "happy" until you found religion that bespeaks of a problem that caused you to seek solace from outside of yourself. People do not "need" religion to have a sense of purpose or fulfillment in their lives. This means they are usually grasping for something as "a coping mechanism" for what are other issues......... 🤔

    • @EasternOrthodoxChristian
      @EasternOrthodoxChristian Před rokem +3

      You're doing sins, you're saying that people should go to hell, even if they are happy Wich they aren't, is horrible

    • @barnowl2655
      @barnowl2655 Před 8 měsíci

      Amen.

    • @connordudley625
      @connordudley625 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@varyolla435 Religious and non-religious groups both do that. It is not bound to one, it's just when you believe one thing, you see loud people of the other a lot more often. A lot of people look down on religious people and same vice versa. It's pretty agitating either way.

    • @justaguywithapowerpole
      @justaguywithapowerpole Před 6 měsíci

      Christians cringee

  • @Kayla-eh5fb
    @Kayla-eh5fb Před rokem +46

    I love how these conversations went! It’s amazing to see people have different views and beliefs but still be able to have a conversation about why they feel the way they do ect

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před rokem

      The most politely espoused lie = remains a lie nonetheless. Ergo in matters of opinion whereby negative consequences can arise from them - not all opinion merits countenance after all. "God" is a man made construct and innumerable negative actions have followed belief in it. Perhaps it is time for mankind to move beyond their penchant for Bronze Age mythology. 🤔

  • @00Fiddlesticks00
    @00Fiddlesticks00 Před 4 lety +2877

    Atheist here. Honestly that pastor is my favorite kind of religous person.

    • @13enny
      @13enny Před 4 lety +53

      As a christian, especially as a young christian, most people just get on you for doing this or that and it's annoying. The best people are those who come to understand both sides of the conversation, like the pastor. I've had to deal with judgement from not only some people in my church, but my parents as well. Being the young person that I am who doesn't have a fully developed mind yet, it's pretty rough. Luckily there is a person just like the pastor in the video who understand what I've been through as a young person. It's hard to find people who dont judge you and understand you who is christian, you can take my word for it

    • @ragsnot9791
      @ragsnot9791 Před 4 lety +5

      00Fiddlesticks00 I’m agnostic

    • @johnnotmydad9126
      @johnnotmydad9126 Před 4 lety +24

      same I like it when they don't try and force their beliefs on others and respect your opinion

    • @zeprillo
      @zeprillo Před 4 lety +8

      Am an atheist too and I also like talking with the same kind of religious person..
      Also the one that actually know their book.

    • @Suo_kongque
      @Suo_kongque Před 4 lety +9

      Here’s my understanding. Science is the how, religion is the why

  • @user-pd6ij7jm3b
    @user-pd6ij7jm3b Před 4 lety +6336

    I’m an atheist but I would love to discuss life over a cup of coffee with this pastor.

    • @sivemtshakazana
      @sivemtshakazana Před 4 lety +55

      She's not a pastor Gab.
      BuzzFeed is misrepresenting Christianity.

    • @user-pd6ij7jm3b
      @user-pd6ij7jm3b Před 4 lety +223

      Sive Mtshakazana umm ok? I mean if that’s how you feel.

    • @gabby4972
      @gabby4972 Před 4 lety +139

      Sive Mtshakazana how do u know she’s not a pastor ?

    • @sivemtshakazana
      @sivemtshakazana Před 4 lety +34

      @@user-pd6ij7jm3b It's got nothing to do with how I feel. How I feel is irrelevant. The Bible is what matters.

    • @sivemtshakazana
      @sivemtshakazana Před 4 lety +40

      @@gabby4972 Because The Bible from the faith she claims to represent, reserves being a pastor only for men.

  • @VidaOA
    @VidaOA Před rokem +13

    This was a great conversation MRS ERICA CAMPBELL, GOD bless you for the things you are doing.

  • @sunamaruna4608
    @sunamaruna4608 Před rokem +5

    I'm so happy to see so compassionate people talk about God. There are different beliefs, but they all respect each other's opinions and treat each other with respect and openness that they deserve. So beautiful.

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před rokem

      Respecting someone's "opinion" is one thing. If however an opinion is cast as supposed "fact" when it runs counter to science/history and logic = it is less fact than some might assume. At that point the record must be corrected lest human civilization degenerate into "intellectual anarchy" whereby people are creating their own purported reality based upon whimsical "belief".
      Moral of the story: it is not what some belief per se as how they act based upon those beliefs which causes mankind problems. If theists would but believe what they will and keep it to themselves and not try to foist that subjective belief upon others or treat others negatively based upon that dogmatic worldview = the world would be a much quieter place. 🤫

  • @blahgirl3271
    @blahgirl3271 Před 5 lety +3696

    If only all people were this understanding.

    • @geraldheckathorn7371
      @geraldheckathorn7371 Před 5 lety +6

      It doesn’t change the facts, go ahead don’t believe it’s your soul

    • @may.theresia975
      @may.theresia975 Před 5 lety +10

      Blah G you’re so right! I would say it helped the conversion so much that the pastor “has been there”, too, when it came to doubting.
      Also that it wasn’t yelling on either side and discussing topics off topic...

    • @blahgirl3271
      @blahgirl3271 Před 5 lety +17

      @@geraldheckathorn7371 wait when did I say I was religious or not?

    • @KClO3
      @KClO3 Před 5 lety +5

      gerald heckathorn give me the facts then

    • @herbon93s
      @herbon93s Před 5 lety +8

      Yeah..Understanding needed at both side. And its doesn't matter religious or not.

  • @mMiaaiMm
    @mMiaaiMm Před 5 lety +484

    No matter what you believe THIS is how people of faith should interact with others!
    Thank you to this pastor for setting an excellent example of what it should look like to be a person of faith: peace, kindness, patience, openness, joy...

    • @sarahsonshine1729
      @sarahsonshine1729 Před 5 lety +1

      mMiaaiMm well said!!!

    • @kg6264
      @kg6264 Před 5 lety +2

      Beautifully said, I’m a non believer but I know god is real for simple fact that he touches people that are open to him, the people who say god isn’t real obviously wouldn’t know if they haven’t truly embraced him. I’ve come to a conclusion of what you believe is what you see. I can’t believe I’m saying this but this for my believers out there, amen! Stay strong and keep believing don’t let nobody take your faith away

    • @noweliablake9394
      @noweliablake9394 Před 5 lety +1

      Kyle Glancy I’m a believer in CHRIST and GOD loves you 💞

    • @mv.d.h4623
      @mv.d.h4623 Před 5 lety +1

      @mmaai I agree but with this world we live in... Its just going to get worse soon..

    • @mv.d.h4623
      @mv.d.h4623 Před 5 lety +1

      @@noweliablake9394 beautifully said, and kyle yeah man God loves each and everyone of us, so thx for your comment too ❤️

  • @derekkennedy20
    @derekkennedy20 Před rokem +39

    I can say that if they gave this pastor a therapist job she'll definitely be good at it. It's good to talk to people who are willing to listen and understand your point of view towards a belief. People who make the atmosphere calm are people who I make friends with.

  • @Definitely_notme
    @Definitely_notme Před rokem +4

    As a twin myself, I hope the women that lost her twin brother is doing better and will pray for her family’s health and happiness. 🙏

  • @LAMODÉLISTE
    @LAMODÉLISTE Před 5 lety +4903

    Pastor’s very respectful with the views and opinions of the no -believers. I love her already. Because she is so open-minded and very articulate.

    • @scoop1871
      @scoop1871 Před 5 lety +42

      Completely agree with you Brit Be Trippin. I felt the same way. A lot of Christians can be “judgy” but she was not

    • @LAMODÉLISTE
      @LAMODÉLISTE Před 5 lety +7

      scoop1871 right?! This is what I call real convo.

    • @LAMODÉLISTE
      @LAMODÉLISTE Před 5 lety +1

      Uzi RL lol

    • @avm5717
      @avm5717 Před 5 lety +2

      False prophet.

    • @makaylanicole2735
      @makaylanicole2735 Před 5 lety +44

      I agree. I'm a Christian and I believe if a nonchristian wants to have a conversation about God you should be calm, have respect, and listen. If you want to bring people to God you must be warm and welcoming. Yelling and getting in a fight only pushes people away. The Bible does say when no one wants to listen to the message of of God, you must to wipe the dust off your feet and move on

  • @steelman1506
    @steelman1506 Před 5 lety +12267

    Josh is lying. He's obviously A Mario brother

  • @Soldier4yah77
    @Soldier4yah77 Před rokem +1

    I like how loving and respectful she was towards these people. Very gracefully forms conversation without any hostility or throwing Christianity at them. Very open minded I love it!

  • @A_wise_man_once_said_nothing

    If god existed there would be no need to prove his existence.

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před rokem +3

      👏👏👏 *BINGO!!* If they were really real then all the "middlemen" prattling on about them would be unnecessary as = all could perceive them for themselves - and agree upon what was perceived. Since of course one can not then obviously what follows is subjective having meaning only to the individual willing to believe thusly. As elegant proof of man-made origin as one could ask for.

    • @alexandergalitevstudentfvh8696
      @alexandergalitevstudentfvh8696 Před rokem

      if god cannot be proven he does not have any influence on our lives. end of story. an "outside of the world therefore unproveable and undebunkable" god would be outside of our range, meaning in all except technicallities, god wouldn't exist.

  • @Chunchum553
    @Chunchum553 Před 4 lety +1395

    Honestly, the chairs were to close for my comfort

  • @storm11ize
    @storm11ize Před 4 lety +4451

    Honestly, as an atheist, hearing someone say that theyll pray for me or theyll keep me in their praywrs os such a considerate and amazing thing to hear. To know that someone truly cares about me that much is wonderful and i could never tear that away from someone

    • @audrawood7791
      @audrawood7791 Před 4 lety +111

      I was thinking the same thing!
      I go to a catholic all girls school, and when the teachers or when my friends say that they are praying for me it makes me really happy, even though I dont believe that "God" will change or fix whatever they are praying about. There is just something comforting knowing that someone wishes you well before they eat or go to sleep.

    • @segby9593
      @segby9593 Před 4 lety +68

      I volunteer praying for you guys because I can truly feel you guys need it
      There is someone bigger than us Christians who care about you and that is God
      He loves you and he wants you to be happy and to not get fooled by Satan ❤️

    • @takundaababio
      @takundaababio Před 4 lety +43

      Jesus loves you bro

    • @Ella-lr8xm
      @Ella-lr8xm Před 4 lety +161

      Rlly? I’m an atheist and it bugs me when ppl say that. I’m not sure why.

    • @storm11ize
      @storm11ize Před 4 lety +4

      @@takundaababio thanks man, this is the same thing for me :)

  • @klc7275
    @klc7275 Před rokem +18

    The pastor is so kind. If I’d had a pastor like her growing up, I’d probably still be a believer.

    • @littlefab5389
      @littlefab5389 Před rokem +1

      Allah - there is no deity except Him, the Ever-Living, the Sustainer of [all] existence. Neither drowsiness overtakes Him nor sleep. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. Who is it that can intercede with Him except by His permission? He knows what is [presently] before them and what will be after them, and they encompass not a thing of His knowledge except for what He wills. His Knowledge [throne] extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation tires Him not. And He is the Most High, the Most Quran 2. 255 please study Islam ........

    • @skuiisx8645
      @skuiisx8645 Před rokem +1

      @@littlefab5389 god bless you turn to Jesus

    • @TheRealCatof
      @TheRealCatof Před rokem

      @@skuiisx8645 spaghetti stuffs your mouth, turn to the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Unlike your "jesus" character it actually exists.

    • @the_real_hislordship
      @the_real_hislordship Před rokem +2

      @@skuiisx8645 hopefully you'll both see neither religion is the answer.
      Two religious texts written by humans.

    • @JokesterVids
      @JokesterVids Před rokem

      it’s not too late ❤️ God bless you!

  • @ilynpayne7491
    @ilynpayne7491 Před rokem +31

    Truth be told even here in Africa most of my friends are starting to question about God's existence and if he does help or is it just business for churches and pastors taking our hard earned money

    • @chrisso6903
      @chrisso6903 Před rokem +15

      Just a lucrative business.
      If you look at all big time pastors or whatever they call themselves and ask them to donate all there jets, mansions etc and to be kept fed and housed free for the rest of there lives!....not ONE Would concede!, not ONE. So it's all that book the so called good book says! And Greed is one they all Fall short of.

    • @miguelsanchez404
      @miguelsanchez404 Před rokem

      Religion has always been about greed and power, it’s funny how “god” don’t care them stealing killing and lying in his name just comical

    • @Nverdis
      @Nverdis Před rokem +1

      Human psychology is very very complex. Sometimes it is as you've just described OP, sometimes it can also be what it would mean if that WASN'T the case. I can see some Ukrainian right now having trouble because if god doesn't exist, that would mean that prayers aren't being listened too. And if they're only a human surrounded by some of the most complex artillery and aircraft systems ever invented, then that would mean that they have very very VERY little control over their own fate. That no matter how hard they run or hide their lives are controlled entirely by that guy in the cockpit with a bomb

    • @johanbarnard3435
      @johanbarnard3435 Před rokem

      @@chrisso6903 if you actually read the good book you would know it preaches 100% against greedy church leaders. I agree with you that allot of pastors, priest's etc.. use it as a business to get rich. But those guys are by no means following the teachings off Jesus. They twist the Bibles and take scripture completely out of context to make it say what they want it to say in order to validate their behavior.
      The apostle Paul talks the elders sharing all their money and belongings equally amongst everyone in the church wo that there will be no lack among anyone.
      Jesus taught about giving away your money ALLOT to the poor.
      And other than that He preached allot about stewardship off your finances so that you can have more to give and NOT TO KEEP FOR YOURSELF.
      Nowhere does He say that you have to be poor through.
      Just that you should use your wealth for the benefit of others.
      Allot of church leaders don't follow this path unfortunately and choose to follow their own greed instead. But luckily they are not God and humans are flawed deeply. But God is still good regardless of man's weaknesses.

  • @roxannemorgan4450
    @roxannemorgan4450 Před 5 lety +2438

    See how people with different opinions or beliefs can have a respectable,gentle conversation with one another.
    If only we could all do this the world would be a much better place.

    • @catbellybandit571
      @catbellybandit571 Před 5 lety +7

      Yes, I agree, so long as the disagreement isn't over something pertaining the civil rights/well being/humanity of any persons.

    • @liontracks8288
      @liontracks8288 Před 5 lety +2

      Yeah.. to bad those people are going to miss their way but.

    • @dannydevito5312
      @dannydevito5312 Před 5 lety +7

      Every conversation I’ve had with my family about my non belief has ending with them just insulting me. I just want to question stuff and when they don’t know the answer they get mad and just insult me.

    • @carlac2701
      @carlac2701 Před 5 lety +1

      BEN SHARPIRO

    • @Haynza
      @Haynza Před 5 lety +2

      Death Eater I feel for you. Know that those insults do not come from God. It’s okay to have questions, and I’d be willing to help you if you want :) so ask away my friend!

  • @mattnelson8407
    @mattnelson8407 Před 4 lety +1506

    I’m agnostic, but why can’t all religious people be more like her

    • @jordanireland7981
      @jordanireland7981 Před 4 lety +85

      I think it’s mainly in the elderly age group that tend to set an image for Christians. Tbh most of us christians that I know are like this

    • @DruPetty42
      @DruPetty42 Před 4 lety +12

      @Matt Nelson, They are but maybe you just came across the wrong people.

    • @markz5049
      @markz5049 Před 4 lety +2

      Ur out of there

    • @dc.pxrecious
      @dc.pxrecious Před 4 lety +39

      Being religious is where the problem lies. It's better to look at it as having a relationship with God cuz being religious to me is following blindly rather than having a true understanding or connection with God and living the way we're supposed to live. The Pastor in this vid is a good example of how to be a Christian

    • @chidiuto6515
      @chidiuto6515 Před 4 lety +16

      @@dc.pxrecious I agree with you. Being religious and being a Christian are completely different things. A lot of people are so religious and that's where the conflicts come from. Whereas having a relationship with God, as you said, and having that spiritual relationship with Him makes you see things differently.

  • @In20xx
    @In20xx Před rokem +13

    I left religion because of single middle-aged men harassing young women outside Planned Parenthood and churches refusing LGMTQ peeps as complete human beings deserving of respect and dignity as much as everyone else.

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před rokem +1

      Yes. It is _"the grand irony"_ if you will. The decline of religion will not come from people who do not ascribe to theism per se. It will follow = the increasingly extreme actions of the religious believers themselves. All religions suffer from the issue of subjectivity = people ascribing to their beliefs what *THEY* want - as others of the same faith follow another direction. Thus it is the extremists such as you alluded to who will in the end cause the downfall of what they claim to believe by the actions they take.
      Moral of the story: the evangelical Fundies are driving away far more people than they can bring into the fold. This is why church attendance in countries like the US is declining as well as people who opening ascribe to religious beliefs in general.
      Now this extreme belief is spilling over into political governance. So just as a light bulb burns very bright before it goes out = so we are seeing "the last hurrah" of the Fundies in the US before the rest of the population turns against them to rebalance the scales. 🤔

  • @peterlongprong7521
    @peterlongprong7521 Před rokem +7

    Mankind is the ONLY species that creates its own creators - we are fundamentally insane.

  • @ilsebriseno4852
    @ilsebriseno4852 Před 5 lety +2747

    I aspire to be as chill as this pastor she looks like she has inner peace

  • @flightneedsanupgrade381
    @flightneedsanupgrade381 Před 5 lety +843

    For some reason i just wanna hug that nice lady. So heartwarming and approachable. Having a peaceful feeling.

    • @vernonkroark
      @vernonkroark Před 4 lety +8

      This is called a Love Bomb. it's a tactic used to convert people.

    • @robertowesley99
      @robertowesley99 Před 4 lety +1

      @@vernonkroark Yeah! You are right. Love really can convert, love really can change minds and renew someone!

    • @austineyestone5746
      @austineyestone5746 Před 4 lety

      @Adrienne Edwards it's nice but people shouldn't try to convert others to their faith

  • @SameerSamon
    @SameerSamon Před 7 měsíci +5

    Agnostic here

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před 7 měsíci +1

      and....... As an aside. "Agnostics" are really just = _"fence sitters"_ I'm afraid. There is far too much evidence to show whereby belief in the concept of "God" and the subsequent religions in history are clearly of man-made origin - hence what is there to then quibble about? Just saying.

  • @whyiseveryusertaken.
    @whyiseveryusertaken. Před rokem +15

    as an atheist i was pleasantly surprised that the pastor was so nice 😭

    • @TedTheAtheist
      @TedTheAtheist Před rokem +1

      Well she's not going to be NOT nice. She wants to win people over to her delusion. She did so not by appealing to logic and reason like she should,, but emotions. It's deceptive.

    • @mv.112
      @mv.112 Před rokem

      I’ve never met any rude person that works in the church so I’d suggest not to base ur conceptions on what the internet shows u

    • @user04876
      @user04876 Před 4 měsíci

      @@TedTheAtheisther delusion? Imagine Christian’s called atheists delusional. That’s really disrespectful to people like me that dedicate their whole lives to Jesus. Jesus loves you ❤

  • @charliekoehn124
    @charliekoehn124 Před 5 lety +1952

    She is so loving and warming and non aggressive i love her omg

  • @wyoruss
    @wyoruss Před 5 lety +12723

    I like the chill vibe!!! A Conversation and not a debate.

    • @joelron26
      @joelron26 Před 5 lety +33

      Feel goodery doesn't show truth. God brings a righteous war. Those who treat the blood of Christ's covenant as common and unholy are blind and corrupt and deserve His wrath .

    • @youptascuntretard7021
      @youptascuntretard7021 Před 5 lety +20

      And nothing is done or achieved

    • @youptascuntretard7021
      @youptascuntretard7021 Před 5 lety +32

      Son of Hans I believe that’s called genocide which god asked for in the Bible please be the kind of peaceful Christian the one who doesn’t believe fully in the Bible thanks I don’t like cults

    • @youptascuntretard7021
      @youptascuntretard7021 Před 5 lety +8

      Son of Hans your god created war crimes that he broke hmmm great way to show his love right?

    • @fuquplz9983
      @fuquplz9983 Před 5 lety +1

      wyo russ you should prey harder to improve your grammar

  • @RM-bw7iw
    @RM-bw7iw Před rokem +8

    i really love that she straight up said that religion,
    something that she strongly believes in, is man made! you don’t really hear that from people who are strongly religious.

    • @fortimusprime
      @fortimusprime Před rokem

      I bet it's because Christianity is a relationship with God rather than a set of religious rules one has to follow through.

    • @stefanisilva2493
      @stefanisilva2493 Před rokem +2

      @@fortimusprime All religions in the world claim the same.

  • @cocoalovelife8849
    @cocoalovelife8849 Před rokem +3

    Happy for the people who had the courage to openly be non believers.

  • @siena_thegirl2989
    @siena_thegirl2989 Před 4 lety +4277

    I wish more Christians were as respectful and kind as her

    • @simpsbelongtothegulags3702
      @simpsbelongtothegulags3702 Před 4 lety +174

      I wish all people are kind like her

    • @strawberrypanic7609
      @strawberrypanic7609 Před 4 lety +111

      Me too.. I’m a Proud Muslim!and I respect every religion no matter what.I have like 13 christian friends,my best friend’s name is Emily and she’s a Christian. A year ago I met a girl through a fandom, we got close and all but she stopped talking to me when she found out I’m not Christian :/

    • @bule9538
      @bule9538 Před 4 lety +51

      As a Christian, I agree

    • @gladio8152
      @gladio8152 Před 4 lety +27

      we always says “i hope everyone are kind like her.” why can we all be just like her.

    • @redlilykitten4655
      @redlilykitten4655 Před 4 lety +39

      I know some Christians just shut out any people who aren't Christian but being a Christian I know that we can be friends with non-Christian people and love them as if they were Christian because God taught us that we are all equal no matter what religion, race or ethnicity.
      God bless all of you

  • @jessicamattes4208
    @jessicamattes4208 Před 3 lety +3031

    As a Christian, I absolutely love the way this was approached, both by the pastor and the non-believers. Nobody was trying to push their beliefs on the other person, they just explained why they believe the way they did, with the other person saying, "ok, I get that, that makes sense, but this is what I believe." It was a great way for someone to dip their toe into the faith without feeling like it's being forced upon them

    • @joshuavd5194
      @joshuavd5194 Před 3 lety +11

      you just need education, its not your fault

    • @joshuavd5194
      @joshuavd5194 Před 3 lety +7

      @Yutyutty also true lol

    • @joshuavd5194
      @joshuavd5194 Před 3 lety +8

      @Raimi Forever I have read them both, Quran is better. By better I mean the God of the old test is evil and it doesn't link well to the new test. Also Jesus (God) dying for mans sins, doesn't make sense.

    • @joshuavd5194
      @joshuavd5194 Před 3 lety +4

      @Yutyutty the God of the Quran appears to be less evil than the God in the old test. also the Quran is a lot shorter, the bible has a lot of lists of numbers and names, is quite boring. The Quran was written in a much shorter time period, the bible was written over approx 900 years. The bible old test and new test don't match, they appear to describe different Gods, the old test God is evil, the new test God appears quite nice.

    • @faithfultotheKing
      @faithfultotheKing Před 3 lety +22

      @@joshuavd5194 God is not evil. Any wrath that was bestowed on people was because of their disobedience and sin, just as a parent punishes their children. Jesus dying was proof of God's love for us because He took the ultimate punishment of our sins: eternity in hell (no Jesus isn't in hell He experienced it all very quickly which is impossible for us to understand but that is ok, it's not possible for humans to fully understand God) and any that reject that gift and sacrifice are expected to pay for their own sins

  • @Shalom524
    @Shalom524 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Love is what matters. God is Love, and not forceful. He gives us a choice, and thats so much love. He gave everyone a chance to be saved and follow Him. He died for our sins. I survived as a baby. My twin passed. I was in an incubator, with one hand ✊ and the other ✋. I was truly a miracle baby. I gess God knew I would endure unto the end, and He chose me to spread His love and joy! 🤗💗😇

  • @katieford5211
    @katieford5211 Před rokem +1

    I resonate with Nina, but I love and respect everyone here. I hope one day everybody can be this transparent and accept everyone.

  • @amandabeck8716
    @amandabeck8716 Před 5 lety +1689

    i thought this video would be buzzfeed bashing a pastor for being a christian, but everyone was actually very mature and open minded. i loved this video lol

    • @kallibridge5620
      @kallibridge5620 Před 5 lety +21

      Me too, when another channel did an experiment of where three atheists and three Christians were to compare of things they agree in one of the Christians was very ignorant and rude and that gave a very negative feelings towards Christians and millions of people saw it. Thank u buzz feed

    • @ADSNavarro
      @ADSNavarro Před 5 lety +4

      because you thought that's how atheist are, but they're actually normal people that don't need a god to live happily

    • @kallibridge5620
      @kallibridge5620 Před 5 lety +3

      @@evannelson4258 I am so happy that u commented politely bit I am a happy Christian who belongs to the Lutheran Church. I was just loving that buzz feed portray Christianity in a positive light, unlike may other videos where they portray Christians as rude and ignorant people, when we are supposed to show love to others through Christ. ❤❤❤ thank u for showing love and caring for me. U are too kind 💙💙

    • @kallibridge5620
      @kallibridge5620 Před 5 lety +3

      @@evannelson4258 I also am happy to hear what u have learned this summer. I believe personally that I am saved through faith, not through works. So says ephesians 3:8 (I think that's the verse) I also believe that by shoeing good works and being kind u are showing your love and thankfulness to christ.

    • @kallibridge5620
      @kallibridge5620 Před 5 lety +4

      @@evannelson4258 sorry I know this is excessive but I also believe Christians and atheists can have meaningful talks to one another and atheists and Christians can get along and people of other religions can get along with Christians and atheists as well. I was just saying that I love this video because it shows how loving Christians should spread the word. Not by shoving it down people's throats or being rude but by listening and showing love and compassion towards them

  • @yeetri1034
    @yeetri1034 Před 3 lety +1005

    I like that the pastor didn't force Christianity into them and was actually kind and and had a good conversation

    • @KEN-1991
      @KEN-1991 Před 3 lety +21

      vish yetry
      That’s because the Bible didn’t say anything about forcing faith on anyone.

    • @yeetri1034
      @yeetri1034 Před 3 lety +15

      @@KEN-1991 Oh
      I haven't read the bible so I might be wrong
      but many Christians say if you don't believe in god he will punish you. Where does that come from?

    • @yeetri1034
      @yeetri1034 Před 3 lety +6

      @@KEN-1991 and btw I'm not saying that the bible is forcing faith. I haven't read it so I have no right to say anything about it. But I have heard many Christians say that god will punish you if you don't believe in him, so I don't understand where they get that idea from and that's why I like that this pastor didn't do that

    • @yeetri1034
      @yeetri1034 Před 3 lety +4

      @Nemanja Mitric Cetnik Oh. Nice. Then some christians should stop doing that. So many people I have met say if I don't believe I will end up in hell. I wish more people were like you

    • @pointingouttheobvious8130
      @pointingouttheobvious8130 Před 3 lety +5

      @@yeetri1034 I'm Getting Kind of Pissed because a Lot of people thinks ALL of christians Are like that. Doesn't mean we're Talking about The reason on why we believe in God means we're Forcing Our religion on you already. (I'm specifically speaking this on behalf Of the people who thinks that way)

  • @stevenmcclendon7435
    @stevenmcclendon7435 Před rokem +2

    This was a beautiful debate, everyone seem so loving

  • @stephaniemedeiros6218

    I’ve heard that when someone passes away and we want them to visit us, but they don’t, it’s because they can’t. And the reason why they can’t is because it would set back our healing process. That brought me comfort in a way because it’s kind to not cause someone more grief.

  • @EZOAH
    @EZOAH Před 5 lety +1700

    I’m not religious but I would go to this woman’s church. I applaud her to be able to speak to all of them with love and respect and not sit there like she’s better than them or holier than thou. Much love.

    • @jessicasmith9567
      @jessicasmith9567 Před 5 lety +3

      we are better and holier than those idiots

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma Před 5 lety +3

      You should! It's liiiiit!

    • @ay613
      @ay613 Před 5 lety +2

      If she believes in Christ alone she is saved

    • @ay613
      @ay613 Před 5 lety

      @@spongeboholic why?

    • @ay613
      @ay613 Před 5 lety

      @@jessicasmith9567 Sorry?

  • @rohin369
    @rohin369 Před 3 lety +4751

    i’m atheist and i think everyone handled this beautifully. the atheists weren’t disrespectful and the pastor wasn’t forcing religion into them. this was really nice to watch

    • @dennistucker1153
      @dennistucker1153 Před 3 lety +132

      It was kinda nice to watch a believer and non-believers behave well. However, nothing of significant value came from this either.

    • @rohin369
      @rohin369 Před 3 lety +196

      Christ Follower i hope this won’t offend you as i am just sharing my views. i just don’t believe it is scientifically possible for their to be a god/gods/goddesses. it is the same as santa claus or the tooth fairy for me. i love the idea, but i would never actually believe in it. i totally respect religion and i know it helps a lot of people, but i’m a guy of science i guess

    • @kodiak9079
      @kodiak9079 Před 3 lety +17

      Christ Follower 😂

    • @kareemdavis1500
      @kareemdavis1500 Před 3 lety +36

      But the pastor still believes non believers deserved to be tortured in hell for all eternity!

    • @unknownuser4879
      @unknownuser4879 Před 3 lety +13

      I think that there is no scientific evidence of God bc he created us and doesnt want us to see him only people with a spiritual eye can see. we cant
      Periodt.

  • @jamangel
    @jamangel Před rokem +3

    Ugh she's so respectful!!!

  • @vmoonlight4962
    @vmoonlight4962 Před rokem

    This is really awesome how they listen to each other with a genuin human good heart

  • @madmikey0410
    @madmikey0410 Před 3 lety +1890

    I am a christian, and while I believe in God, I also believe that we all must be friendly towards one another. Just because you don't believe the same thing, doesn't mean you can't be friends! 😁

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před 3 lety +3

      Ah, well, at least St. Paul SOMETIMES did that, when not labeling whole groups...?

    • @sergiodiaz1365
      @sergiodiaz1365 Před 3 lety +17

      chris sonofpear1 shut up

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před 3 lety

      @@sergiodiaz1365 But did it happen, or not? Did it make for confusion, on what a 'natural man' was?

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před 3 lety

      @Liberalism is a Cult - ah, nobody cares until we find out if BEQUEATHING people as servants, or condoning forced marriage, is an abomination or not, too...?

    • @haleyk.8919
      @haleyk.8919 Před 3 lety +38

      Jesus says to love each other like our neighbors!❤

  • @blacklipstick0239
    @blacklipstick0239 Před 4 lety +1463

    I’m a hardcore atheist but when someone says I’ll pray for you, at first I find it ridiculous but then it’s heartwarming. They’re going out of their way to help in the way they know, someone who doesn’t believe. They’re doing it despite me thinking it won’t do anything and it shows how lovely people can be

    • @fendertremolo9793
      @fendertremolo9793 Před 4 lety +48

      Might as well say, I'm not going to do sh*t for you, so I'll pretend to care

    • @blacklipstick0239
      @blacklipstick0239 Před 4 lety +35

      Fender Tremolo lol pretty much. But I guess they have the best interest at heart.

    • @tcl09110
      @tcl09110 Před 4 lety +41

      Marinela Seiti yeah same it makes me feel so good knowing someone cares even tho I am an atheist.

    • @blakestollman8080
      @blakestollman8080 Před 4 lety +14

      @Macarena M8’s I find it condescending as well moreover I feel like the fact that they have to say they will be praying for you shows they know there prayers are ineffective otherwise if their prayers actually worked they wouldnt have to say anything because you would see the effect of the prayers in your life.

    • @sarahgranger7780
      @sarahgranger7780 Před 4 lety +21

      Growing up I had a girl in my church who said "I'll pray for you" in a very condescending way and it was because I'm queer and in her mind all queer people are bad and their all going to hell. I'm Christian but I wish more Christian's where more like this pastor because for a long time I felt like I had to act a certain way or be a certain way because if I didn't I was going to hell and I was always afraid to question anything that my church said. I hate how some Christian are and those people make all Christian look bad.

  • @reginemcfalls7590
    @reginemcfalls7590 Před rokem +4

    I've been told that asking "why" is a sin. That you're not to question God.

    • @TheRealCatof
      @TheRealCatof Před rokem +3

      Because asking "why" is the first step to realizing it's a scam.

  • @shaniawilliams9967
    @shaniawilliams9967 Před rokem +3

    I feel like if we had more Christian’s like this people would actually open up and we can get their opinions on why and really get to know how they look at things instead of arguing on what u believe and what u don’t believe ❤

  • @alyfloo
    @alyfloo Před 5 lety +1766

    I can’t imagine losing a sibling, much less a twin brother. Poor thing!

    • @silence_pls831
      @silence_pls831 Před 5 lety +12

      Same, I have lost a lot if relatives ,but losing a sibling would be a nightmare

    • @gbb3b1
      @gbb3b1 Před 5 lety +2

      The pain ☹

    • @snowconeman512
      @snowconeman512 Před 5 lety

      I've been separated from my twin brother 1 week out of 19 years haha. It would be painful.

    • @alicia8571
      @alicia8571 Před 5 lety +8

      The loss of a sibling is unbearable...believe me. It'll be 2 yrs on August 1st since my younger brother passed away. It is something that you will not overcome, but rather you just adjust to it. ☹

    • @snowconeman512
      @snowconeman512 Před 5 lety +1

      @@alicia8571 I'm truly sorry. I know it probably doesn't mean much, but I am.

  • @eli3351
    @eli3351 Před 5 lety +620

    I really respect that the pastor wasn’t trying to force god and religion down their throats and that she took time to listen, rather than convincing them.
    edit; wow I got hella likes

    • @charzard1000
      @charzard1000 Před 5 lety +4

      tader jean that’s literally how 99.9% of Christians are yet the guy was literally telling her her religion doesn’t matter. Stop with the stereotypes, atheists are the attacking ones

    • @adamcorfman573
      @adamcorfman573 Před 5 lety +1

      @@charzard1000 Cough cough, religious belief being a qualifying feature of being elected in political office. Cough cough, John 3:16. Cough cough, cough cough, cough cough, cough cough, cough cough ...

    • @armchairwizard8613
      @armchairwizard8613 Před 5 lety +1

      @@charzard1000 1. Where do you get your 99.99% figure from? Do you know that many Christians (the answer is no).
      2. That guy wasn't insulting HER. He was explaining why HE doesn't believe in her god. He was explaining his position. There was no attacking.

    • @charzard1000
      @charzard1000 Před 5 lety

      @@adamcorfman573 ... what's your point

    • @charzard1000
      @charzard1000 Před 5 lety

      @@armchairwizard8613 he was literally telling her that he could "live her life" without religion at all. It was obnoxious.

  • @maddymikle9040
    @maddymikle9040 Před rokem +2

    i think she’s respectful and is the best representation of church ❤

  • @aazhie
    @aazhie Před rokem +3

    She has a really great perspective and I'm always happy when a theist acknowledges that religion IS man made and there and many different flavors.

  • @Vivalavive
    @Vivalavive Před 5 lety +2572

    My heart sank for the girl who lost her twin 😓

    • @rshiftyXO
      @rshiftyXO Před 5 lety +47

      Vivalavive2249 me too, I also have a twin brother and I’ve had many nightmares where he dies but I can’t even think about how she’s dealt with that tragic event.

    • @iBurnedaHouse
      @iBurnedaHouse Před 5 lety +20

      I know, I have a twin sister and I would be devastated and really wouldn't know what to do if any of my sisters passed away

    • @StanleyKuo184
      @StanleyKuo184 Před 5 lety +4

      @ibhouse Same with my Twin brother whom I don't always see eye to eye with but one I love dearly and would never wish anything bad to happen to him.

    • @Willowelixir
      @Willowelixir Před 5 lety +22

      My twin sister passed away, we were identical. Nothing can prepare you for that but I feel privileged to have been a twin and she's always with me.

    • @graceaustin2379
      @graceaustin2379 Před 5 lety +8

      Same I have a twin brother. It really puts in perspective how lucky we are to have them with us cuz in an instant they can just go away.

  • @lulugamesdr4833
    @lulugamesdr4833 Před 3 lety +3229

    If every religious person was like that pastor, the world would be better

    • @taylorthirlwall835
      @taylorthirlwall835 Před 3 lety +78

      Me personally every almost religious person that I've meet are very respectful of people in other religions and understanding like they won't attack and debate with them cause they know how important religion is to other people but I've ment a few that are very disrespectful and try to use their religion to justify their disrespectful actions.

    • @lulugamesdr4833
      @lulugamesdr4833 Před 3 lety +25

      ELUI VS I know many respectful person but when we talk about religion, it’s an other story, as an atheist, it’s real hard to debate most of the religious person with both of us respecting each other. I have never seen a debate like that on the topic of god and it’s refreshing.

    • @criticclips1560
      @criticclips1560 Před 3 lety +3

      @@lulugamesdr4833 Yes the world is in chaos due to religious people......."eye roll" FFS

    • @lulugamesdr4833
      @lulugamesdr4833 Před 3 lety +20

      @@criticclips1560 Did I say that, I think not bro, and it's a hyperbole, it will not change the world but if we are nice to each other it will be better

    • @babiekook5991
      @babiekook5991 Před 3 lety +30

      @@criticclips1560 a lot of other christians force other people into their beliefs and also are discriminatory towards others.. of course the world isn't ending due to christians but if a lot of these religious people were more open-minded i feel like the world would be a more better place.

  • @kittywatchesyoutube
    @kittywatchesyoutube Před rokem

    What a wonderful conversation! I wish there was more!

  • @MathewSteeleAtheology
    @MathewSteeleAtheology Před 6 měsíci +3

    The reason I'm an atheist is that I never started believing in the first place. I grew up in the deep south and went to church quite a bit, but started asking questions that got me dirty looks from the adults there. I understand why many people need to believe though.

    • @varyolla435
      @varyolla435 Před 6 měsíci +1

      It is called "cognitive dissonance". People who live in a science-based world surrounded by technology etc. created as a result of fact-based evidence and logic in the pursuit of understanding = then willfully embrace ancient dogmatic claims built upon "magical thinking".
      For some _"a comforting lie"_ is preferable to a hard reality. It is simply human nature. People who build a worldview based upon assumptions and a desire to believe as true what they do because it comforts them are subsequently reticent to relinquish that. 🤷

  • @R.A.L.Dreams
    @R.A.L.Dreams Před 4 lety +2099

    Why isn’t anyone mentioning her wig and whole outfit. Pastor is serving us a look, YESSS👏👏👏💅💅💅

  • @EricChamplin
    @EricChamplin Před 5 lety +15748

    It actually made me really happy to see now nicely the believers and non-believers got along :)

    • @jesusisoursavior4442
      @jesusisoursavior4442 Před 5 lety +33

      Eric Champlin it’s 2018 it’s about time they got along don’t be so rude about it, why wouldn’t you be happy about that ?

    • @ohmygodness147
      @ohmygodness147 Před 5 lety +45

      On camera.

    • @dross6206
      @dross6206 Před 5 lety +79

      If only it was always like that. Being an atheist living in the Bible Belt of the Deep South, I have had a very different experience. Christians have acted like the nicest people only to turn around when they find out that I don’t believe as they do and say that they will kill me if I don’t get away from them. I literally had one pull a gun on me at a mutual friend’s cookout.
      Edit: I am well aware that not every Christian is like this.

    • @Zoyiekka
      @Zoyiekka Před 5 lety +1

      iloveyoujesus 666 😂😂😂

    • @ismayonnaiseaninstrument5138
      @ismayonnaiseaninstrument5138 Před 5 lety +55

      Not everyone is as open minded as this lovely lady. Totally respect her!

  • @abbymikayla_5227
    @abbymikayla_5227 Před rokem +2

    Emily literally felt the presence of God through Erica.

  • @justanotheryoutuber1997
    @justanotheryoutuber1997 Před 2 měsíci

    Been rocking with Mrs Campbell since she was in Mary Mary. It’s so refreshing to see a long time Christian have a healthy conversation about this without insults being thrown, frustration or belittling.

  • @saruh_grace
    @saruh_grace Před 3 lety +4421

    She’s a great example of a true Christian. She tells them about her beliefs and does not force it onto them.

    • @isaacjesus3453
      @isaacjesus3453 Před 3 lety +91

      @Sarah Grace, I agree. She displays the fruits of the spirit perfectly.

    • @GentlemenJack109
      @GentlemenJack109 Před 3 lety +43

      Yes us pagans are tired of Christians forcing there religion on us. I do believe in god and Jesus and I love god and Jesus. Blessed be 🌛🌕🌜

    • @nobodyknows3340
      @nobodyknows3340 Před 3 lety +76

      and she didn't judge them either

    • @roems6396
      @roems6396 Před 3 lety +7

      WarriorOfGod
      Why the sarcasm? You don’t think that Christianity is foisted on society? It definitely is.

    • @JohnSmith-yk7zh
      @JohnSmith-yk7zh Před 3 lety +23

      No, not really. True Christians fight with themselves on the pretense of fighting for God and purge all heretics. That's true Christianity, thus modern Christianity isn't the real one.

  • @taylordedoes4645
    @taylordedoes4645 Před 5 lety +1880

    I’m actually really glad buzzfeed chose to post this. It’s unusual to see these videos now a days so it was kind of cool to hear both the theist and atheist point of views. As a fellow Christian I don’t get to witness a lot of the other side of things being that my friends and family view the same as I do when it comes to God. I give those guys credit for being able to put themselves in such a vulnerable position.

    • @halle7170
      @halle7170 Před 5 lety +11

      I am an agnostic and I want to believe in God but I have doubts and I really want to.

    • @syfiona
      @syfiona Před 5 lety +9

      @@halle7170 I am in a similar situation as you. But I met someone great in my life and they showed me the way to God. I would not say I am fully a Christian but I started to get to know God by praying and reading the bible. Surround yourself with people who are good Christians like Erica. Have faith! Maybe both of us could be believers one day too :)

    • @rustyshackleford4076
      @rustyshackleford4076 Před 5 lety +14

      Taylor Liz If you’re a Christian who isn’t exposed to outside thinking I would suggest diving into existential philosophy and science that discusses the universe, and if after all that you can still come out a Christian, then your faith will be solidified and strengthened, or you could change, who knows but I always think people should explore ALL information out there

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle Před 5 lety +9

      Really? See, when I was a Christiam, I was taught to be a vine for Christ and to introduce non-believers to Christ which would obviously require association or communication with all kinds of people. I brought many people to Christ, did a lot of introducing Christianity outside the bubble. Obviously, having said used to, I no longer believe after many years of complete dedication. I regret bringing people to Christ, because it came from a vulnerable, naive person that was brainwashed slowing overtime by wanting acceptance from my family (and wanting my family to be loving and stop veing toxic) and I just happen to be good at convincing or persuading snybody of anything. Had my logic and sense of curiosity and understanding how to rely on myself instead of God.. Had that been nourished, I wouldn't have suffered nearly as much trauma. Most people living inside religion who DO have relatively peaceful families that don't really experience true struggle/pain with anything such as mental illnesses, addictions, financial issues, access to activities/hobbies/ good education, ect..they will be less likely to ever question or disregaurd the religion they were raised in and/or surrounded by in their community; whereas people who do have more struggles, toxic enviornment/family, are treated as less than by their parents (ie:little respect for their thoughts and ideas, ignored or not considered beforehand, not understood nor being sought for praise or attention), mental illness, addiction, financial struggles, little opportunities, little hope in anything BUT God, having tonrely on prayer as a means for getting by in a very depressed or lonely or vulnerable state- they are more likely to eventually question their beliefs, how they were raised, how others live and/or believe, what else is out there for them. This xan be said for every religion not just Christianity, and the same (but opposite) csn slso probably be said for non-religious people.. although for them, finding God would more than likely come out of desperation. I tend to look through psychological/sociological lenses now and I am happier than I have ever been. This this just MY experience going from a christian life to a non-religious one. Also, the theory or rather statistics from whatever study was done of when people leave their raised religion vs. When they are more likely to stay (btw, not saying the reasoning is the same for everybody, just thought it was interesting and made sense) in their belief system aren't necessarily why my mind changed, because even after I stopped going to church, I struggled for a VERY long time to find my way, telling myself at times I still had some faith deep down or that I wasnt atheist/agnostic.. But the truth behind that inner struggle had more to do with the fact that I still couldn't/didn't see my mom (esp) and sister for who they truly were (which are sociopaths) and I still dealt with issues of acceptance from others and self-esteem.. I was lost and I also pretty much had to raise myself and teach kyaelf everything..which leads one towards the path of learning from mistakes. Wish I had allowed myself to think more logically and react/be less emotional and expect to be treated with respect sooner or not allow anybody toxic in my life sooner, because I would have found my way towards a happy life a LOT easier and not have wasted so many years feeling confused because I couldn't 100% think and trust on myself alone (or rather, I believed I couldn't). Choosing the seemingly lonlier path (always different for everybody on what that is) is never easy, especially when you have been conditioned during your more formative years or since birth. I guess religion (or "relationship", whatever floats your boat.. It is STILL a religion) is fine for people that have considerably "normal" lives, have support, dont really need for anythingnor have reason to question, are content with not thinking outside of anything they've been taught, but it still -NO MATTER WHAT- inadvertently (yet still, also directly) affects society and individuals in a harmful manner (both outsiders and believers or insiders) by halting progression significantly while promoting INCREDIBLE amounts of fear/shame, massiveI ego-feeding, the treatment of others as scapegoats, the decay of logic/science, the inability to think for oneself or to only see things through one perspective leading to endless amounts of "sign seeking", the ignorance of helping to find real solutions to help in society without requiring some obligation to continue to grow the church or spread the word of their god, . I could go on for a while but I will leave it at that because I have digressed quite a bit from my original point which was that it is hard to believe you don't experience any lifebor communication with people outside your faith. I assume it is the same for many of your friends. To me, that doesn't make sense. Perhaps living as a Christian these days means more protection & control over the youth and less outside ministry, less trust and more fear. Many parents fear their children experiencing anything that might make them start to think more open-minded or could possibly "lead them astray" from the person they expect you ti be and stay.. But that doesnt say a whole lot about faith and it also isnt parenting in a well-rounded way because if a parent is then expected to raise children through a one way perspective, they cant possibly prepare their children for the real world nor can they easily accept their chlldren for who they truly are if and when that child needs to go their own way because their identity or s part of the way they think doesn't align with the families belief system. Okay, holy rant man.. I could seriously go on forever lol, my bad. Im gonna stop rambling now!

    • @byull1295
      @byull1295 Před 5 lety +3

      I'm Christian, and this is really beautiful. I have atheist friends and Muslim friends. One tim when I was talking about being Muslim to my church, they said since they worshipped Muhammad like a God then they'll go to hell. I know they didn't mean it in a real way, but I didn't want to try to correct them saying they don't worship him, and that he just a prophet. I really hope someday, I'll meet Christian's who will accept all religions.

  • @purrsnickety8398
    @purrsnickety8398 Před rokem +22

    God calls us to love people no matter where they are at, and I'm so glad this lady knew that. Instead of pushing her faith on these people, she showed them compassion, heard them out, and validated their opinions. It's nice to see that there are actually nice, open-minded Christians out there :)

    • @TheRealCatof
      @TheRealCatof Před rokem +1

      Your god doesn't exist, let alone call anything.

    • @professorparadox795
      @professorparadox795 Před rokem +1

      @@TheRealCatof idk why every non-god believer are toxic? I've been in this community for years and haven't seen anyone who talk calmly.

    • @TheRealCatof
      @TheRealCatof Před rokem +2

      @@professorparadox795 Maybe because christians are trying to take away people's rights and force religion onto everyone. You're lucky I'm just rude, if I was christian it would be far worse.

    • @tickledonions9483
      @tickledonions9483 Před rokem +1

      @@professorparadox795Maybe it notions that being aethiest may not be so great after all...
      Some of them are kinda arrogant. I see on the outside someone who's 'happy', kinda 'smart'. But I wonder what's really going on inside...

    • @Tomb-Wraith
      @Tomb-Wraith Před rokem +1

      @@professorparadox795 Here's an atheist who talks calmly. I don't think your an idiot or wrong for believing in God, and will not assume what ideals you hold just because you identify as Christian.

  • @ventromanable
    @ventromanable Před 11 měsíci +3

    That book claims that woman can’t be pastors but there she is make this make sense.

  • @lemon_bowl1667
    @lemon_bowl1667 Před 4 lety +581

    She’s an incredible example of a Christian who believes they need to love everyone no matter what
    Not someone who believes she needs to change everyone to be like her. 💕

    • @Imram.636
      @Imram.636 Před 4 lety +3

      purple._. moon Christian are not trying to make them like them at all there are trying to make them more like Christ

    • @royythaboi7163
      @royythaboi7163 Před 4 lety +2

      Jimmi K it’s not religion, it’s the truth.... there is a God

    • @pkj2148
      @pkj2148 Před 4 lety

      @Jimmi K One thing you need to understand is that christians don't believe because of this life but because of the one after this one. An atheist can be just as nice of a person as a christian, but what matters in the end is the life after this one.

    • @porcelei
      @porcelei Před 4 lety +1

      purple._. moon I agree cause those people are the worst. There’s nothing wrong with believing as long as you don’t push it onto others. For example my ex asked one of his Christian friends to “turn me religious” and it was so uncomfortable when I was trying to play hang out with friends and there’s just this random guy forcing me to read a bible.

    • @jesuschrististheanswer4546
      @jesuschrististheanswer4546 Před 4 lety

      @Jimmi K I think it's made her a better person, which I know Christ did for me

  • @todo870
    @todo870 Před 4 lety +2889

    Really interesting how the guy said he thinks religion gives people excuses for bad behaviour. Never thought about it like that, but it makes sense.

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před 4 lety +144

      Yes, as Voltaire once said, for bad people to do evil things and call it good, it sometimes takes religion.

    • @hihiz432
      @hihiz432 Před 4 lety +95

      Exactly. Even when I was really young and my grandmother explained to me that anyone who repents can go to heaven it didn’t sit well with me.

    • @thecaboosevarietychannel
      @thecaboosevarietychannel Před 4 lety +163

      Religion, or at least Christianity, is not about using religion to get away with bad or immoral conduct. In Christianity, the repenting is to show God that you are truly sorry for your actions that have gone against his will. But, his will is unachievable, unless of of course the person repenting is Jesus Christ which therefore implies that you are perfect. Repentance is not a get out of jail free card. If you are truly following God, then repentance should be a one and done thing, as after that one time, as long as you follow the path the Bible shows us, your sins are forgiven. This does not mean that you can commit immoral acts all of the time and get away with it because you can just repent and keep doing it. That is against everything that Christianity stands for. At least, its not what true Christianity is about.

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před 4 lety

      Was Paul sorry for calling some people some very broad things, or misusing the word 'natural' also?

    • @thecaboosevarietychannel
      @thecaboosevarietychannel Před 4 lety +4

      @@chrissonofpear1384 could you please clarify? What specific things are we talking about?

  • @lilimckellar3645
    @lilimckellar3645 Před 10 měsíci +6

    the pastor herself said religion is man made and i think that’s interesting because how do u not realize …

  • @illuminate4969
    @illuminate4969 Před rokem +1

    This is how pple with different beliefs should talk..no raising of voices,no cussing....just understanding each other better

  • @amongussusybaka
    @amongussusybaka Před 5 lety +6274

    That moustache is curvier than I would ever be

  • @takingitonedayatatime7851
    @takingitonedayatatime7851 Před 5 lety +1401

    Love that they weren't talking over each other to prove a point but listening to one another to understand their differences👌🙏

    • @takingitonedayatatime7851
      @takingitonedayatatime7851 Před 5 lety +1

      Benny/ top of the tops exactly

    • @evolutionisbull5h1t
      @evolutionisbull5h1t Před 5 lety +2

      @No regrets
      They never even gave her a real chance to talk? Don't you think it was unfair?
      You seem to me like your an atheist, are you one? If so why did you become or decide to call yourself an atheist? What kind of atheist are you exactly? What really sells you on that?
      Do you believe your life, body, family and the ground you walk on are all a gift or something else? If you believe they are all something else then what do you think they all are then?

    • @takingitonedayatatime7851
      @takingitonedayatatime7851 Před 5 lety +4

      @@evolutionisbull5h1t this ain't no interview. Chill with all the questions. I'm a proud Christian and God fearing woman. And this video made me smile. I'm happy that everyone got a chance to speak weather the next person agrees or not. Everyone has their own view on religion. God bless 🙏💖

    • @sierrab489
      @sierrab489 Před 5 lety +3

      It's so great to see them treating each other with respect and being mindful of the other's feelings and beliefs.
      This is how everyone should treat each other!

  • @reformed-slave
    @reformed-slave Před rokem

    Everything's warm and fuzzy until this woman shares them the true gospel (if ever she shares it with them).

  • @johanneshalberstadt3663
    @johanneshalberstadt3663 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I freaking love Josh! He seems like such a fun, relaxed, happy, cool and kind guy! Love his mustache. All the others were very nice and cool, too! Good conversations!

  • @Meshagrm
    @Meshagrm Před 5 lety +2177

    I love that Erica wasn’t trying to force her beliefs on them. She didn’t judge, she was warm and light hearted. Wasn’t defensive at all! Bible teaches us to love..this made me smile.
    I love Jesus.

    • @gerardomejia7048
      @gerardomejia7048 Před 5 lety +4

      How much you love him though?

    • @michaelalexander9386
      @michaelalexander9386 Před 5 lety +14

      @@gerardomejia7048 exactly I see alot of lukewarm Christian's here.

    • @meredithwallace4043
      @meredithwallace4043 Před 5 lety +16

      @Hi People ITS NOT FREAKING SCRIPTED. CANT YOU SEE HOW GENUINE IT IS????

    • @cami7961
      @cami7961 Před 5 lety +7

      I love Jesus too! and im also a human , a professional and a people person..so much like erica talking to non believers/believers is not an issue. We are all human

    • @gerardomejia7048
      @gerardomejia7048 Před 5 lety +1

      @@michaelalexander9386 love him on sunday, then back to worshipping the devil through the week👌😂

  • @Pranav-rp8wi
    @Pranav-rp8wi Před 4 lety +1547

    This is how a person should be.. accepting of others..
    I wish more religious people were like this

    • @SonGoku-777
      @SonGoku-777 Před 4 lety +36

      I'm guessing you had a very bad history with religious people

    • @vernonkroark
      @vernonkroark Před 4 lety +24

      This is called a Love Bomb. it's a tactic used to convert people.

    • @eas8409
      @eas8409 Před 4 lety +21

      @@vernonkroark If that's the case then Yeshua was dropping love bombs all over the place when He was here.

    • @Pranav-rp8wi
      @Pranav-rp8wi Před 4 lety +23

      @@stanpersona7741 that's pretty rude of you to assume that someone's not as good as you are just coz they believe in a different god narrative..

    • @Pranav-rp8wi
      @Pranav-rp8wi Před 4 lety +11

      @@stanpersona7741 care to explain what you think 'right track' is??
      And why you think you are on it?

  • @Cloud-kf2dp
    @Cloud-kf2dp Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love all of you warm, compassionate, sensible Christians and other religious peeps.. if anyone needs any sort of conversion/reformation when it comes to religion, it’s the hypocritical/ignorant/hateful parts of your community and I really hope that one day all of your true love and faith will reshape and heal the rest of your religious communities.. - Exhausted agnostic person

  • @markyh88
    @markyh88 Před rokem +4

    I think as humans we generally strive to be good people, and as long as our belief systems don't stop us being morally good and treating each other with respect and love then it really doesn't matter about the finer details.
    It doesn't matter how we get there, it matters that we're there. As long as we all share common ground then the rest doesn't need to separate us :)

  • @justjucc5655
    @justjucc5655 Před 4 lety +1516

    I like the religious person. She's nice, caring, and understanding. She's the kind of person i would like to talk to.

    • @godhere6459
      @godhere6459 Před 4 lety +4

      i like the other so loving and understanding...

    • @ashsummermakaio4756
      @ashsummermakaio4756 Před 4 lety +9

      Me too. She looks like a person that I’d totally invite to my birthday party

    • @godhere6459
      @godhere6459 Před 4 lety +5

      fake sweetness....dont trussed her....all an act....

    • @finthefish2525
      @finthefish2525 Před 4 lety +5

      That’s what Christians are like

    • @godhere6459
      @godhere6459 Před 4 lety +2

      @@finthefish2525 wow so nice..i have never ment one be for.....did not know there where like that...most i meat want to bit yly heat off...talk down to you....try and change you.....allwas bossy...pushie.....i wish i could meet a nice one

  • @samuelhaley118
    @samuelhaley118 Před 3 lety +2604

    everyone: writes meaningful comment
    me: whoa cool mustache

    • @seansswamp
      @seansswamp Před 3 lety +42

      Hahahah God Bless you my friend. Much love, have a amazing and great day!

    • @blue118
      @blue118 Před 3 lety +8

      Bucciarati!!!!! 😭🥺

    • @monokuma2927
      @monokuma2927 Před 3 lety +8

      That's a very nice mustache.

    • @samuelhaley118
      @samuelhaley118 Před 3 lety +6

      @@blue118 i changed my profile and name, bucciarati was donuted anyway

    • @the._.nabihouse
      @the._.nabihouse Před 3 lety +4

      Same lmao

  • @kayajm
    @kayajm Před rokem +7

    this is really cool, they aren’t fighting, they are just having a conversation. why can’t we all live like this? why can’t we all just accept each other?

  • @Eversky1247
    @Eversky1247 Před 3 lety +977

    I love that everyone was respectful and willing to just listen.

    • @denierdev9723
      @denierdev9723 Před 3 lety +2

      All of them, as well.

    • @urmom19548
      @urmom19548 Před 3 lety +7

      @Gab A calm down man! It was nice to watch people get on

    • @urmom19548
      @urmom19548 Před 3 lety +8

      @Gab A ngl, her wig isn't great, but she has every right to believe in Christianity

    • @arriannaallen450
      @arriannaallen450 Před 3 lety +5

      @Gab AThat’s a very rude and Unnecessary thing to say.

    • @chrissonofpear1384
      @chrissonofpear1384 Před 3 lety

      @Gab A So when will we, ever, ever, get the REST of it?
      1 Corinthians 3:13, Thessalonians 2:11, and Luke 13:24, included...