It makes me so sad when people who have something to say don't create a platform just because they're afraid of haters. By the time I started getting any hate online, I'd built a business that had helped SO MANY WOMEN live their dreams. Worth.👏🏿 It. 👏🏿 I've set myself up to get love mail pretty much daily. I tell my email list to reply to my newsletter, and they do! With the most wonderful messages of love and support and progress. 💗 Outshines the hate every time. And you're so right...seeing your audience go after the haters for you is so satisfying. 😆
The *biggest* obstacle to blowing my business up last year was the constant worry and anxiety about the small nasty comments from a vocal minority. My skin has grown much thicker now and I just keep on keepin on. Btw thanks Graham for investing in me (even when I didn't pay a cent)
This is helpful. Haters almost stopped Pat Flynn. That particular hater trolled him everywhere and was aggressive. That is scary but he found a way to deal with it. Focus on those being helped. Although easier said than done but doable.
Hey Graham - I got LOTS of hate on my most viral video on TikTok, same day I find your podcast episode on haters. It has helped me SO much and it'll be definitely something I save to listen to after those viral videos get mean haha. Thank you for all you do- learning lots from you and can count me in as one of your superfans
graham! I can't imagine anyone hating on you! so much good content! btw... every time I see your CZcams intro I love it!! did you do it? did someone make if for you - I'd love to learn how to do the photo design and adding music
Gosh I really needed this. Evidently our business even existing is polarizing and therefore draws in haters. Thank you so much for this perspective and strategy.
I really like your advice on this topic. Dealing with haters has been a fear of mine so this video is very helpful. I have learned to deal with this in the sales world and I use the agreement frame. Here it is and I hope this helps. The Agreement Frame If you agree with them - say, "I agree and..." If you don't quite agree but maybe a little - say, "I respect that and..." If you don't agree at all - say, "I appreciate that and..."
Haters mean you are making an IMPACT and are demonstrating success! Haters are insecure people who have their own issues. You bring great content to us and have been an inspiration to my leaning into my own path and success!
Thanks for the advice, Graham! I haven't had to deal with many haters, but one thing that's helped with my few encounters is knowing the "truth" about myself. Somebody once insulted me, and it actually made me laugh cause I knew it wasn't true! If ever there is something I'm insecure about, I just try my best to make improvements.
I started watching your channel 2 years ago. I was learning free from you. Eventually after this learning period I started my own CZcams channel. I bought your book and started step by step doing what I learned from you. Now after 2 months and 3 episodes on my CZcams channel I have 2k+ subs and lot of warm leads on my kajabi site. When I will get my first income I will get a course from you, because man! you are awesome! Thank you 😊
When I used to Vlog on another channel I had a variety of haters stop by and give me their two cents and several people backed me. It felt good. Only once had I responded respectfully to a hater, but only because I could tell they weren’t understanding my perspective. Those who read my response shared they were amazed by my patience. I give God the glory for being able to handle these situations.
Really appreciated this episode Graham ❤ I've only just started making regular videos on the vegan & plant-based niche like you mentioned here, which is controversial to begin with. Already getting nasty comments and more nasty than nice comments right now. It's quite disheartening, but this was really helpful to hear you talk about. Thank you 🙏
Graham, is there an audio version of your new book? I have a little bit of a vision challenge but would love to purchase the audiobook if there is one. Thanks! ... Oh and, "God's Grace" helped me to come across your AIA program and I am grateful for that! Thank you Man!
Graham love your content and when I have time, which is hard to do in these times, I look for your Broadcast. Thanks for taking the time to share your knowledge. As for Haters, some loved Hilter and many Hated him. Thank God we are free to make choices! Opinions are just that nothing more nothing less. Sometimes motivated by nothing more then jealousy. Keep up good work !!!
I learned from a hater that their need to comment had much more to do with where that person was coming from than anything prompted by me or the song I posted. It took that person real energy (negative, though it was) to click on and voice his dislike of the song, The only thing that might have prompted such a strong reaction to an innocuous, instrumental piece was something internal the person was reacting to, not my creative effort.
I had a former parent of a student hate on me. The thing I think is she was unaware or hating. I think she thought she was giving a good criticism but in a totally public post. It needed to be in a private message.
Honestly I don’t even value the input of any hater/troll. They don’t contribute anything or add to the conversation so I just graze over them lol. They’re the ones who wasted their time typing their bs responses. 🤷♂️
Man, this is definitely one of your best videos! Great advice and wisdom, thank you Graham, I needed to hear this. Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas and New Year!
I think the big fear of haters comes from our own judgements of others. If you're able to let go of judgement of other people, you won't be scared of other people judging you
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It makes me so sad when people who have something to say don't create a platform just because they're afraid of haters. By the time I started getting any hate online, I'd built a business that had helped SO MANY WOMEN live their dreams. Worth.👏🏿 It. 👏🏿 I've set myself up to get love mail pretty much daily. I tell my email list to reply to my newsletter, and they do! With the most wonderful messages of love and support and progress. 💗 Outshines the hate every time.
And you're so right...seeing your audience go after the haters for you is so satisfying. 😆
Your hair is 🔥- the haters are JEALOUS
The *biggest* obstacle to blowing my business up last year was the constant worry and anxiety about the small nasty comments from a vocal minority. My skin has grown much thicker now and I just keep on keepin on. Btw thanks Graham for investing in me (even when I didn't pay a cent)
Sometimes people are not mad at you or something you did or said. Sometimes, they are mad because they aren’t you. 😳
They hate us cuz the aint us!
This is helpful. Haters almost stopped Pat Flynn. That particular hater trolled him everywhere and was aggressive. That is scary but he found a way to deal with it. Focus on those being helped. Although easier said than done but doable.
Hey Graham - I got LOTS of hate on my most viral video on TikTok, same day I find your podcast episode on haters. It has helped me SO much and it'll be definitely something I save to listen to after those viral videos get mean haha.
Thank you for all you do- learning lots from you and can count me in as one of your superfans
I have to thank you so much for this! I've been dealing with negative attacks on one of my socials. I'm crying. Thank you Thank you!
graham! I can't imagine anyone hating on you! so much good content! btw... every time I see your CZcams intro I love it!! did you do it? did someone make if for you - I'd love to learn how to do the photo design and adding music
Gosh I really needed this. Evidently our business even existing is polarizing and therefore draws in haters. Thank you so much for this perspective and strategy.
I really like your advice on this topic. Dealing with haters has been a fear of mine so this video is very helpful. I have learned to deal with this in the sales world and I use the agreement frame. Here it is and I hope this helps.
The Agreement Frame
If you agree with them - say, "I agree and..."
If you don't quite agree but maybe a little - say, "I respect that and..."
If you don't agree at all - say, "I appreciate that and..."
Graham, you know something? I hate you for making such a beautifully inspiring video!
Haters mean you are making an IMPACT and are demonstrating success! Haters are insecure people who have their own issues.
You bring great content to us and have been an inspiration to my leaning into my own path and success!
Thanks for the advice, Graham!
I haven't had to deal with many haters, but one thing that's helped with my few encounters is knowing the "truth" about myself. Somebody once insulted me, and it actually made me laugh cause I knew it wasn't true! If ever there is something I'm insecure about, I just try my best to make improvements.
I started watching your channel 2 years ago. I was learning free from you. Eventually after this learning period I started my own CZcams channel. I bought your book and started step by step doing what I learned from you. Now after 2 months and 3 episodes on my CZcams channel I have 2k+ subs and lot of warm leads on my kajabi site. When I will get my first income I will get a course from you, because man! you are awesome! Thank you 😊
When I used to Vlog on another channel I had a variety of haters stop by and give me their two cents and several people backed me. It felt good. Only once had I responded respectfully to a hater, but only because I could tell they weren’t understanding my perspective. Those who read my response shared they were amazed by my patience. I give God the glory for being able to handle these situations.
Really appreciated this episode Graham ❤ I've only just started making regular videos on the vegan & plant-based niche like you mentioned here, which is controversial to begin with. Already getting nasty comments and more nasty than nice comments right now. It's quite disheartening, but this was really helpful to hear you talk about. Thank you 🙏
Graham, is there an audio version of your new book? I have a little bit of a vision challenge but would love to purchase the audiobook if there is one. Thanks! ... Oh and, "God's Grace" helped me to come across your AIA program and I am grateful for that! Thank you Man!
This was excellent! Thank you!
I also appreciated the long format and all the nuance😄
Graham love your content and when I have time, which is hard to do in these times, I look for your Broadcast. Thanks for taking the time to share your knowledge. As for Haters, some loved Hilter and many Hated him. Thank God we are free to make choices! Opinions are just that nothing more nothing less. Sometimes motivated by nothing more then jealousy. Keep up good work !!!
This episode was especially valuable. Thanks Graham.
Yes, humility is key. “Humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less”.
‘Devoid of all nuance and the sweet goodness’ haha love it Graham. And point well made about the long form videos. I like em!
I learned from a hater that their need to comment had much more to do with where that person was coming from than anything prompted by me or the song I posted. It took that person real energy (negative, though it was) to click on and voice his dislike of the song, The only thing that might have prompted such a strong reaction to an innocuous, instrumental piece was something internal the person was reacting to, not my creative effort.
I had a former parent of a student hate on me. The thing I think is she was unaware or hating. I think she thought she was giving a good criticism but in a totally public post. It needed to be in a private message.
Thank God you didn't quit!
Honestly I don’t even value the input of any hater/troll. They don’t contribute anything or add to the conversation so I just graze over them lol. They’re the ones who wasted their time typing their bs responses. 🤷♂️
I remember keny from reapperMania building a wall to protect Graham against Eric S. That one were an epic flamwar.
Hahahaha I remember when people made fun of you because you used V necks… like… for real? 😂
Man, this is definitely one of your best videos! Great advice and wisdom, thank you Graham, I needed to hear this.
Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas and New Year!
Thanks for your straightforward approach to a challenging topic. Merry Christmas!🎄
Thank You for this sir!
Thanks Graham. Love it mate!
Lots of love to you Graham, for the job you do for people! :)
I think the big fear of haters comes from our own judgements of others. If you're able to let go of judgement of other people, you won't be scared of other people judging you
I agree 💯
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Love this video so helpful 🙏🏾
Thanks Graham..Awesome mate!
Good stuff Graham 👍
This was an amazing video in so many ways. Thank you!!!!
Graham thank you! Starting to deal with this 🤗
I love you and Sean canel on CZcams for encouragement
I hope to have haters soon! I've been going hard in the yard with my tea content from China. If you don't have haters you aren't working hard enough.
Haters gonna hate. 😳