"I found messages on my GFs phone..." | Rachel Bilson & Friends Answer Relationship Questions

Rachel and the gang answer a relationship question from Reddit. Watch the full episode of Broad Ideas with Rachel Bilson and Olivia Allen here: • Jake Johnson & Gareth ...

[@jamesmulcahy8548]

Great advice. If I want something and it isn't coming, if what I'm searching for hasn't arrived, then "what's off" is what I need to ask. I love this show!

[@barryserpa5174]

Seems there is a lack of trust here ? Or he’s been in a relationship like this before and got burned

[@buhg1]

"Dont go looking through your significant others phone, You WILL get what you are looking for" -... What? So are we saying that your partner is always stepping over the line? Because I see that as a huge problem as well thou - Honestly - My wife can go through my phone at anytime and wont find anything that could be remotely wrong or hurtful to the relationship... like WHAT? Now I feel like maybe I SHOULD go through my wifes phone :o

[@wildrice8199]

I have plenty of female friends as a man, but the thing is us men will rarely to never ask a woman to hang out alone bc we just want to be friends with them. You might become friends with a guy in group settings and build up trust with them that way, but if a guy just asks you out to lunch or coffee you have to assume 99% of the time it's bc he's interested in more. Guys who truly want to be friends know how to respect boundaries and will not ask you to do anything that could be construed as a date, they will be happy to be your friend in whatever other contexts you see them in.

[@angelortega10]

I don’t think you can be friends with a guy because it’s often that they want more even if they don’t tell you, you both can be friends but one or both will have a sexual attraction, imo

[@user-ir1lu1ei4n]

No don’t be friends with a man he is just waiting for an opportunity 😂 break up and move on she’s cheating buddy. Why would she give him her number. Listen the man’s right here most men just want to get with women. Also if someone has a crush on your partner then no you shouldn’t be friends 😂😂😂🤦‍♂️