How to be instantly more attractive | Body language trick that causes men to notice you
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- How to be instantly more attractive | Body language trick that causes men to notice you.
This body language trick can cause men to notice you and make you instantly more attractive. Body language of attraction. If you’re trying to get a guy’s attention you may want to try this body language trick to make you seem instantly more attractive to guys. Women often ask me how to make a guy like them. I tell them it starts with curiosity, intrigue, snd mystery. Mystery leads to desire. Desire motivates men to pursue women. If you want to trigger desire in men try this body language trick to get me men to notice you among other women. It can make you stand out in a crowd. Get men to notice you. - Jak na to + styl
I've noticed that eye contact and smiling is received quite well with men because they're not used to it these days. Most people are just awkward, so it's a rare treat. It's normal with me, but many people see it as flirting lol.
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But it's NOT a door for them to walk thru..
Dat part!
So true
if you're nice, as a girl, you're automatically flirting
I do the eye contact thing, it actually works!
It gives a sense of confidence and interest in the man
You had me dying over here... lmaoooo "You gave him his 3 seconds and now it's over, your done with him..." LMAOOOOOOO
When I notice people staring at me, I make eye contact & say “hello!” *smiling under my mask* Either they engage or look away lol it’s cute when children do it, but it’s a compliment from them because they’re super honest & will express why they’re staring at you out loud 🤣
Hey girl yep I agree 100% kids are so special in that way
"Boldness and confidence are attractive and not averting your gaze tells a man that you're in control of yourself, that you're bold, that you're confident, and that you must have a reason to be "
-Kev Hicks
Ohhh this is so hard, i get so clumsy around men, especially when there cute,imma start practicing at Walmart, but not on the staff they already don’t want to help 😂
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I start to feel a little shy when I'm attracted to a man.
Lol@Walmart. Typical
😂😂I always fall in front of a cute guy
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This absolutely works lol. It's how I met my bf 🥰 I must have been feeling myself that night haha, but we met in line at a carry out spot. He said I looked at him like I knew him, and he kept trying to think of where he knew me from lol. Then he said I guess I don't know you, but I think I should and here we are 😁. I still do it, he still loves it
It definitely works. I do this with the guy I’m seeing all the time when we talk. We used to work together and we’d always catch each other’s gaze but I would play it cool and not stare for too long. He said it would always intrigue him so he eventually approached me. We still do it now, just have that little pause of silence during a conversation and I’ll just look into his eyes for a good minute, and he always says how that’s not something women have ever really done to him and he loves it because he can tell I know I’m confident and that it holds his interest.
This is so accurate. When working as a bartender for 8 years, eye contact made them fall in love (become obsessed). I am afraid to make eye contact for this reason today. Something I have to work on.
I can relate
Ok, imma prolong my eye connect
I did this on a guy once and it works 😂 he was staring at me for awhile after.
“No crotch gazing ladies”
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We just tryna make sure sumthing is there lol
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I used to be so shy, I couldn’t look anyone in the eye. But I worked on myself and I love making eye contact now. It’s the easiest non verbal way to send a message imo. You have a disagreement with someone, look em directly in the eye, they’ll probably fold. You’re listening to a friend? Look em directly in the eye, it’s makes em feel heard. You like a guy, look him right in the eyes and give him a fierce, flirty, smirk, they love that shiz, I promise 😂
This is true! I did this to someone I was interested in and they eventually noticed and asked "Why do you always stare at me?" and told me that my non-verbal language spoke volumes.
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It's so weird that I already do this. I am usually not conscious of what I am doing though.
Kev, this not going to get me beat up is it? I live in the hood😂🤣😂🤣🤣
Right! Me too lol
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I’m dying!! I’m hood adjacent too sis😅😅
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I was recently just thinking about this because an old couple I know told me that's exactly how they met and got together. They walked past each other and the man said he looked back and saw her staring at him, they locked eyes and the rest was history! 💕
I feel extra confident doing this when my brows and lashes are on point lol makes it even easier and a little more flirty
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He said don't flirt.
I like eye contacts. Different colour and extra vision , everything is so clear and bright. My advice for shy girls with glasses - try contacts, even just for a day.
this works. a guy was making eye contact with me and even if he wasen't my type, i managed to keep the eye contact and smile and then he started talking to me !
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Oooooh... I can’t wait for outside to open! I’m going to be staring at men..just like that Samuel L. Jackson meme 😳 (Lol jk)
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This is very true. May seem like something small but that eye gaze is everything...you can feel if the connection is real just by looking into their eyes as you are hanging onto their voice as you are talking to one another.
Damn. Wish I would have known this last week at the bagel shop. 🙄
It's furrow,btw.😁
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Haha same
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Good pointers....Look out!😊
Eye contact helps with a lot. When I meet someone and they can’t even look up when being introduced, I immediately don’t trust them and I usually have good reason.
Masks. make it easier to maintain eye contact since the only focus is your eyes. However some women do smile with their eyes so I would assume men notice that too.
You're right when I'm not attracted to a guy and can look at him naturally without being shy, he became attracted 😂
This is so true! Eye contact is harmless but powerful. Just look and walk away. They'll want to know more.
"Don't froyo your eyebrows..." Kev 2021
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Ok, Kev...I won't put frozen yogurt on my brows LOL
Wow, what a synchronicity! Went out with a gentleman last night and did a couple of feminine gazes (look up into his eyes with soft but naughty eyes) only a couple of times. It really struck me when he said,” The way you look at me with those eyes; I just never had a female make me feel this way with her eyes; You’re different really I like you”. When you make eye contact you may have this almost instant surge of desire, or lust I’m not sure what it is. All I’m sure of is you will both feel it. Eye contact comes naturally to me now after I learned the value of it so I highly recommend practicing the art of eye contact it’s really just all about energy. Use your eyes, but remember it’s only one of your powers!✨👀
Thanks Kev. As a lifelong quiet, shy person I really appreciate the body language videos! 🙏
Same!
I NEVER look men in the eyes. I actually avoid eye contact with men in general.
I love this advice but it makes me nervous as I’m already a “really intense eye contact” person. I don’t want to creep people out or make them uncomfortable.
I guess everybody is different. You would for sure creep me out. But like I said above, I could be in the minority. Idk. But yeah, this definitely doesn't apply to me. But maybe it will work out for other I guess. Idk.
It works babe! I did this last month and the guy steadily keeps asking my friends/coworkers about me 💚
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Are you a Scorpio or have a Scorpio rising or moon? Because Scorpios have really intense eyes and intense gazes... like if looks can kill lol
This guy did this to me and it definitely made me curious.
OOOHHH he feeling you girl!!! LOL
“We’re supposed to ignore people...” 😂😂😂
I am SO done with that type of dating advice.
Yup! I know exactly what look kev is talking about. A friend of mine would do this to me. I knew him in highschool and he would do this, years later we hung out and i caught him doing it again. It reminded me of when he would do it back then so It always intrigued me why he would do that and times when I would notice him doing it he still didn’t drop the gaze, he almost seemed mesmerized it made me feel like he noticed something in me that others don’t notice in me and I still don’t know what it is, never asked. I ended up catching feelings hanging out with him a few times lol 🤦🏻♀️
Oh really? Informative. Another skill to master. Thank you, Kev!
Wait did I do the right thing here?? One day I caught a cute coworker staring right at me when I tried checking him out at work. I slowly looked back down like a damn coward instead of keeping my gaze 😂🤦🏾♀️. I at least built up the courage to say hi to him today..he also already knew my name which made me blush hella hard :)
Cute! Guard your heart dear 1. Be watchful even still.
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@@juliawhite7152 So update, even though I’ve caught him staring at me multiple times, his communication wasn’t consistent at all. I was always the one saying hi to him first.. if I don’t say anything, he won’t either. He’ll just pass by me quietly without a word. I took it as him not being remotely interested, Even when I’d sometimes say hi to him just for friendliness, he’d just ignore me..at that point I gave up.
@@Kidicaruslover ahhhh dang! I'm sorry to hear that! Do you know him as the shy type? But on the other hand, even if he was shy, it seems like you would have reached out more oh, and been more consistent.
@@juliawhite7152 yeah i mean he might be the shy type, but I think he definitely would of reached out as well. I also didn’t want to look like a desperate idiot. I’m super self conscious about that haha.
Happy New Year Kev.. May this year bring nothing but blessing your way .. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love the way Kevin explains his point. Often reinforcing the same idea just to drive the message home. Really effective and communicable 👍🏾👍🏾
Yeah, repetition is the best
This is so freaking true I’ve done two many times and that’s exactly what happens they try to get my attention or dress differently want my opinion on there new look 😂 thanks for the confirmation 🙌
I think you are absolutely adorable. How did you get so wise and smart and be so young. Adorable young gentleman. Intelligence is a turn on. Your wife is one lucky woman, and given your advice to us ladies, I’m quite sure you are one lucky man to have her in return as well. I wish all the best for your future success! I’m recently separated, deep in a high conflict divorce from an emotionally neglectful and abusive spouse and I want to find love again one day, healthy love. I’m not ashamed to admit that as a full grown, intelligent but now very much humbled woman, I have no problem tuning in to your channel because you are the real deal. Character, delivery, charm, intelligence and humor. Thanks for doing what you do! I just don’t quite understand it! Whatever wised you up beyond your years, whatever happened to bestow you with all this insight and wisdom and initiative, God Bless You young man 🙏
Lovely video! I already do this. I've been told by 3 different guys in the past 3 years that I had somewhat of a "staring problem". They were mildly amused & a little confused by it. Thing is, I had a latent interest/attraction to them from jump so my instinct was to gaze at them.
This actually works! I seen this really cute guy at a party. I kept looking at him. We eventually made eye contact. We stared at each other for a good 4-5 seconds. I looked away first. About 20 min later he walks up and said “it’s something about the way you looked at me”. Then he asked for my number. We only talked for a few weeks but this works fr fr! Lol
Wowwww!!!!!!! Amazing. Thank God you cleared up that the gaze should include mystery and not an evident simple kind smile -which was my initial attempt
This is BRILLIANT advice and works!! You are so intelligent. Thank you for this!!
The prolonged eye contact is very true haha it always worked for me.. or just smiling does it. Men tend to be attracted to my smile lol. Now we’re having a conversation that I didn’t have to start! 😂😂😂 easy work!!
I think it’s great to try this at random casual place like the grocery store or restaurant. Good tips. 🙌🙌
These moments are one of the most beautiful things! It makes me wish the world would open back up. I got to share this beautiful moment with a coworker of mine. We were attracted to eachother and danced around eachother for months. One day he crossed my path and I sat with my gaze fixed on him. He stopped in his tracks, faced me and gazed back. The world faded into the background and we held our eye contact for what seemed like an eternity. We didn’t say anything, didn’t look away. Just looked at what we wanted to see. He smiled ear to ear and approached me in an almost magnetic way to answer a question I forgot I had. It was the most raw, genuine & beautiful thing! ♊️/♐️
What happened with your relationship?
@@dansefureva7664 it continued being illusive, fun and awkward for a little while. COVID happened and we started work from home. Haven’t seen him in person for almost a year, so the crush faded off. Very grateful for the memories! It was just a huge teaser lol.
@@fluffysox6072 So it was more like a fling?
@@dansefureva7664 haha i wouldn’t even really say it was that. We are both in loving relationships and wouldn’t/didn’t act on it. More of a trivial crush.
@@fluffysox6072 Yall were in love with each other?
"Furrow" your brows. Lol But we knew what you meant. Once again, thanks for the info! 💓
This is truth. Easiest way to get approached without being extra
I used to do this all the time and let me tell you I had ALL the guys wanting me lol. I had to cool it because I couldn’t juggle all these men (that I didn’t want) wanting a relationship with me. I had to turn down a lot of guys. So this works!
Thank you Kev for this positive message much needed to hear this 😊
Great video! This reminds me of a King of Queens episode where Carey gave Holly the same exact advise when they were sitting in the bar with a bunch of guys.
It’s the side notes on ur videos for me! I be cracking up 😂😂😂
Oh my goodness I luuuurve your straight talk! Honesty is definitely your policy
Did this with a guy I found attractive at the skate rink. I watched him as if I was intrigued and he very much noticed. He talked to me later that night. We’re playing it cool though and he told me not to be a stranger 😎😊
I did this without noticing on my first date with someone a few days ago.... he is obsessed with me
Another great one!!! Thank you Mr Kev🤗
I feel like I did this a lot when I was younger. I don’t anymore. Makes sense.
My thing with this is if we're both competitive, we will both just keep staring at each other until I get inevitably deterred by my daughter 😂 which will be within 2minutes or less of when the contact was initially made
Interesting video, never heard this before from anyone my entire life! Would love to try it out.
Damn, your advice is always on point, and meaningful! Makes so much sense.TY
I really like this!!! And it's so very true...This is exactly how I let a guy know that I'm interested....and it is definitely a confident boldness that you have to have....This is spot on!!!
Thank you so much for this post
,before this post i was a champion at ignoring people.
I have realized my mistakes, thank you again.
Thanks that's one thing I need to work on!🤓🙂
This was a GREAT tip!! Thanks
I love your channel. Even if i cannot relate to some situations you talk about, i still watch your videos to see what you have to say.
Alright. Imma stare more!. 😳
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Imagining staring at him with your mask 😷 on 🤣🤣🤣
@@lynnette2822 Lol. So creepy. I can't. Lol. Ugh!!!
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So smile with my eyes...got it👍🏾
So good, love the advice. Thank you. 💕🦁
This is confirmation. I always ignore men but recently I've felt the men who I want to approach me, will not because of that. So a couple weeks back I tried the locking gaze at the grocery store and I from that point on every time I looked up he was looking to see if I was looking!
Thanks Kevin, you always have a different touch. I tried your technique out, and it worked. I didn't smile, I just held on to a 3seconds,gaze twice, and looked away. And right from then on, I could notice him from the corner of me eye's staring ceaselessly at me. Thanks Kevin.
Genius!! Thank you!
You hit this on the nail 🎯 I'm generally not shy however of I'm super attracted to the person I'm so shy.
Your vid reminded me of a phrase in a song in my native language " I turned around to look whether she turned around to look whether I turned around "
I usually light up with wide eyes, a big smile and a high pitched "hello."Unconsciously most people will return the smile. This Instantly makes you likeable and allows the other person to let their guard down just a little 😁
Resume: Prolonged eye contact. Don’t look away if he looks at you back. Have a mini staring contest. but not obnoxiously. Once or twice but not more. Dont smile dont do anything flirty or seductive. Then look at something else. Pretend someone called your name.
I knew you were gonna say this... Good advice. I think ALL men in our lives need more show of appreciation by being NOTICED and SEEN. I've always done this to show a man my confidence AND respect. It doesn't always HAVE to be about showing attraction like you said. For example, months ago, this tire store manager guy was standing a few feet away because of Covid explaining to me about my damaged tire. I looked at him in the eyes and never broke my gaze while he was talking. NOT in an intimidating way but in a neutral way. I think he felt REALLY listened to and RESPECTED because the next time we dealt with each other he told another tire guy I was talking to, "Did you hear THAT and did you do what SHE WANTED?", as if he was saying--listen and respect her the way she did me. I was queen at staring with a "poker face" with my ex...LOL
I bet guys hate on Kev for always putting us on game. Thanks Kev!
Great information. I'm going to do this
I love this! Its also very good exercise for the eyes. Wearing the mask kinda helps!
What'$ Good Kevin?! :) great wise words thank you for teaching us
Can't wait to try this
Yes a guy at a coffee shop never makes eye contact while taking my order or acknowledges my thanks and it offended me last time. I no longer think he’s cute lol
Got it! Thanks
This dude.. thank you
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I am a very confident woman, so I always look at everyone in their eyes. The eyes is the window to a person soul. I am a very good judge of character, so I contact does help.
OMG this is so true!
Ding ding ding!!! You are awesome!!!
Good video Kev.
This sounds kind of fun. Aight, I'm game. Gonna go attract me a man. 😎
This was a really great reminder 💯
...thus why I wear shades 😎....when/while I make 👀 contact. Sometimes folks be on that "what/who the hell are you looking at?" BS.
Honestly, I be on that bs. . Like wtf O_o do i know u. . I can't help it. Its because of where I'm from. . I'm trying not to be that way anymore. 2021 is me gaining trust that people don't automatically have the intention of trying me. .
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👌 Kev Hick...I like this advice
Im have no problem walking up to a man or anyone and starting a conversation with them. Its a great way to meet someone you are interested in. As well as meeting new ppl. You can start talking to each other and see if you have any common interest and that's with anyone not just who you have your eye on.
Thank You Kevin.
Ok I like this so I'm gonna try it and have some fun.
This is very hard for me. I don’t make eye contact with my family. The only one I can do that with is my child. I am working on it though. Great Advice. ❤️
This is interesting because theres a guy that I caught checking me out quite often but he would always look away really fast when I made eye contact. Finally one day he made an excuse to jokingly talk to me and it was like a chemistry I’ve never felt before with anyone. We both looked at each other at the same time and basically had constant eye contact the entire time he was walking towards me until we got close enough to actually talk and I’m pretty sure we were both grinning ear to ear. Then another time same we both had this intense eye contact until he got close. I made a little joke and I noticed when he responded he wouldn’t really look me in the eyes while he was talking but he had the biggest smile on his face like it just made his day that I talked to him. I was just in awe that he was that “sweet on me”.
I didn’t even realize how intense our eye contact was at first. When I first thought back about the moment I was thinking maybe I made him uncomfortable because he wasn’t looking me in the eye when he was talking (though he did look me in the eyes while I was talking) but then I thought back and realized before either of us said a word there was a good 3 seconds of us just staring at each other and smiling lol. I think maybe I did make him nervous a bit though which is why he wasn’t looking me in the eyes while he talked. The down side is he’s at work whenever I see him… so I don’t know if he’d ever feel it’s appropriate to do anything more than “inconspicuous” flirting. I do notice he makes eye contact with me more without looking away now though.
It's my experience that friendly human acknowledgement through eye contact with men often brings 'unwanted advances'... reason why some women avoid it. What you refer to as a 'trick' is natural when one desires that connection.