Running Down a Friend’s BF
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- čas přidán 10. 12. 2022
- The plaintiff says she and the defendant met as teens and were best friends until the defendant began dating her boyfriend, the co-defendant. She’s suing because she claims the defendant’s boyfriend smashed her car windows and caused a crash after she tried to protect her friend. The defendant says the plaintiff tried to run him over multiple times and hit him. He’s countersuing because he had to miss work because of it.
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The plaintiff misses her friend and tried to make amends, only for her friend to keep acting all goofy over this piece of a man! 😩
Unfortunately, the defendant is trapped. She going to do or say whatever she needs to do to keep her b#$# made boyfriend from abusing her. Because if a dude tried him he'll fold and take it out on her. Grew up watching it, until I got older.
betty wright said having a piece of a man is better than having no man at all 🤣🤣🤣
@@Meca1986 girl! 🤣🤣🤣
All Black Men at Chicago are Low-Downs. Figure it out, There is no Breaking the Cycle
Ain't nothing wrong with being in love
Look at how he's looking up at the ceiling. I could tell right away that he has a temper.
That part...
Yes! His body language says it all
Right and she’s not really smiling in the courtroom when her friend said something funny I already know from that he’s controlling her because that was me once upon of time being told real women don’t laugh came to my senses and left 7/25/96 that same day I was in the store for my aunt and was smiling up a storm back to my old self ❤❤
Definitely I wish the judge would have called him out
and the way he was lowkey yelling at the judge 🤦🏽♀️
She is really the meaning of "that's my man and I'm going to stick beside him."🤦🏽♀️
And ugh. Smh.
Right, wrong, beaten down.
I was thinking the same thing!!!!!!! It’s so sad
@@JacksQueen. if you're ok with a man putting your life in danger, then do you. 🤷🏽♀️ He literally attacked her friends car before she tried to run him over.
@Big Dawg Ent I guess you violence too then
The defendant is in danger! The boyfriend is dangerous, snatching her out a car????
"But he loves me!" is generally the response from females like her. I'm like Tina Turner, "What's love got to do with it?" She'd better follow Ms. Turner's advice and run like she did from Ike!!!
There she is standing there with him...
@@angelicrealtor1 that’s the response because they’ve been mentally brainwashed. They believe that’s what love is.
Chicago Black Men are extremely Dangerous. Its why for what happened to Laquan McDonald
@@brackenrobertson799 Agree😍
Domestic violence is no joke, it’s hard to be a friend to someone like the female Defendant.
She does not want to be helped 😢
@@Belle2oo8 exactly, that’s one reason it would be hard to a friend to her
Right! I was thinking the exact same thing.
And it was gross how the female defendent treated her "friend" at the end. Her face... and laughing when she was tryna makeup with her. That girl was never her friend.
@@flowergirlproductions Yeah, I didn’t like that either
The "I didn't succeed though" killed me 🤣🤣🙆🏾♀️
Dang I missed! 😆
It’s the honesty for me 😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
It’s too bad that she didn’t!
Yes I started laughing at the top of lungs
Them laughing while she was trying to make amends is very triflin. They deserve each other.
The next time he put hands on her or her baby she gone look for her friend
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 right!❤️
Women are always falling apart over DUST.
✅True words
Smh
😂 he HIMSELF said he was ashy!
So true!
DUST
Bianca let that friendship go.
Exactly this the type of man that will beat/ kill the friend when the girl leaves for good
@@motherof1294 yea too many women act like they can’t balance relationships. You should be able to still have a good friendship w/your friends and a good relationship w/your partner. He’s controlling her, she needs to leave her friend alone and move on. She’s gonna stay w/ that man, she’s not leaving him.
I cut many people off, it was hard but it was for the best.
@@inukoko2012 say that again! I live in a whole other state with my bf then our friends and family, but he never kept me away I visit twice a year. And when I’m out all he ask for is for me to be careful and respectful
@@tamarshawilliams93 that’s good. Both of y’all should be able to hang out w/ friends & family. Some ppl think they have to be under their partner 24/7.
And her friend laughing at the end like it’s a joke! I would definitely let her go
Okay real and it all happened because she wanted to party knowing dude is a whole 🤡..
She probably grew up as a fatherless daughter or witness abuse. Just 😔
@@papalegbasson2447 What's the causative factor(s) for men who are violent?
@@papalegbasson2447 I like your screen name.
Plaintiff needs to let that friend go. She needs to love her from a distance.
Wow she gonna need her friend one day. Don’t ever allow a man to isolate you from friends and family that was always there before him!!
Common trait of an abuser. She can’t have any of her friends over cause he don’t like people at the house.
All the single ladies. 😆 🤣 😂 You can't have a man and say something that crazy. Friends ahead of family SMH. Black people.
@@amaliomar that’s not what they’re saying at all. Yes, you should put your spouse or SO first, but your SO shouldn’t be trying to ISOLATE you from your loved one. Yes, it’s okay to change the dynamics and maybe you don’t hang out with them as much, but completely cutting off the relationship is weird.
The first thing an abuser will do is completely isolate you from your loved ones so that you’ll be completely dependent on them.
You also have friends that match your single life and not necessarily good to be around when you’re in a relationship.
I’m only 3 minutes into the video and I can already tell he is abusive. Edit… just finished the video. Wow the ending, Tameka thinks it’s funny, it won’t be funny when he’s busting her upside her head next time and she doesn’t have a friend there. What a sorry set of people. Please find a new friend Bianca.
He probably killed a female by now
Depending on how old this is, it could’ve been her… sad to say.
@@sw5547 them the vibes he gives, it’s a red flag 🚩 when a partner overreacts and or becomes violent because you had a night out…. Get the hell outta there
Facts!
@Big Dawg Ent😂 that’s not me who does that, so don’t put me in there. It was just the body language of them both and the fact that he ain’t want nobody visiting.
Her whole demeanor shows that he’s controlling
After he said can’t nobody come to his house I knew it smh
Riiiiight AND abusive
Right look at his facial expressions
No it don’t.
😂 ole girl clearly the controlling one and crazy mad cause she got a man they probably use to smash
He can't even hide the fact that he's controlling. He keeps looking up in order to mask his anger. I hope she's able to break free.
She doesn't want to break free. Right now the delusion is it's cute, funny and she feels protected and loved. Later when he starts beating her , it won't be anymore delusions.
I don’t think she wants to leave him
He can't be that controlling if his girlfriend is in the club until 5am...
There must not be any people left in their town if the plaintiff really wants to be friends with these clowns
Amen, that dude crazy and she trying to be friendly. For what? Find some new friends with some common sense.
She looks like she wants her to be her girl not him
@@kandi668 that part...
?? Yall must never had long term friends. You love that person. I have a friend that I drifted away from and I miss her every day, I love that girl. I have no desire to sleep with her/be her girlfriend (what?), she became like a sister to me.
Plaintiff need to get far away from both of them
Body language is strong and he cannot hide his.....all that staring at ceiling with hands behind his back shows he does not take responsibility for his actions
He's a punk.
i'm not ok with the mother of my children coming home after the sun comes up.
@@crosstudiosnatching people out the car, breaking windows is definitely not okay, work it out like grown adults
@@crosstudio choose better.......
@@MrLenroc82 I did choose better. My wife is not foolish. We have never had to have that conversation.
Girl never speak to her again
She’s too good for them.
Never !!
I'm confused as to why his dusty ass looking at the ceiling the whole case 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"I didn't succeed though" took me alllllllll the way out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The ending was sad because she misses her friend and was willing to put her dislike for him to the side and the friend just laughed in her face
I can tell the defendant miss her friend too but she was trying to hide it from the dusty bum, because she not aloud to have friends
It’s okay I live I learned that was 6 years ago .
The plaintiff should stay away from that the "friend". She'll throw her under the bus anyday for her controlling man
She looks nervous as she walked into the courtroom.
She scared for her friend thats why she dont want to cut her off. She gonna call on her again ....🙏🏾
Please she need to let that friendship go.
She needs to cut ties with her completely
Plaintiff needs to let that "friend" GO!!!!!! Terrance is controlling her. Let her keep her man and move away from their toxicity! That friend and her man are clearly trash 🗑 🙄
Damn she told the truth about trying to hit him
Why lie they was gone tell him anyways I didn’t actually try to kill him with the car just follow
I could only imagine the beatings the defendant is getting at home.
And her child.
he knocked her up fast. She's younger than him. He will only get worse as babies keep coming
SMH her friend is a bird…here Iam defending YOU and my ish gets damaged smh
they both birds..and the dude is a buzzard!..but this the type n#ggaz yall women like..and have children with
@@colbyjackimprints1699 what?
Isolation is one of the key initial moves of an abusive narcissist.
The Defendant/friend was passive when presenting her side. She got upstaged by that narcissistic boyfriend of hers. Ladies hear me when I say, that Men either strengthen your life by their upstanding well-balanced good nature towards you or in this case, cause lifelong damage to it by their abusive antics fueled by low self-esteem and insecurities. Drop the 'Zero' and get a Hero, please. If not for you then for your offspring. And definitely don't create any babies with him. Imagine being tied to him for the rest of your life. Geez. He looks stupid staring at the ceiling with a smug look on his face.
So you just gone preach like this 🎉🎉🎉
@@Dee-cu8yr Amen
Exactly 💯
Absolutely factual
Terrance needs some "scared straight" treatment with the fella's in C-block to control those anger issues and domestic violence tendencies!! ⚖
Why her and her white-tongued man laughing like that at the end? He could have seriously hurt y'all.
White tongued man😂😂
i had to go back and look 💀
It’s giving yeast infection
@Sunshine lmao 😆😆😆😆
The way he kept doing his mouth and licking his lips was bothering me so bad😭
Unfortunately, friends who choose to stay in abusive relationships are liabilities; many women get killed because they chose to defend a "friend" that involved them in their toxic relationship; abusive men see bf as the enemy and will attack them before attacking their partners. There's a viral TikTok video of a girl who cautions women who get involved with "friends" like her. Her sister got killed while trying to defend her best friend. The women will always choose their abuser and won't even testify for them if their partner harms them as she did here.
I literally just watched a story yesterday about a mother of 6 killed by her friends abusive boyfriend. And the abused friend is alive. He kidnapped her to go look for his girlfriend and killed her when they couldn’t find her.
@@jazz201123 This happens too often, you should love friends like that from a distance.
@@jazz201123 Wowwwwwww 🥺💔
The hell with that friendship. Let her live a miserable life with that 🤡
I already don't like the boyfriend lol
That girls telling the truth 👍
Thank you!
The look on the guys face says everything.. What the plantif said has to be true.. Don't walk run from him..
#StaySafe
Lol dam I didn't know you read faces to me he look upset of her trying to kill him
@@kkthedrummer8999 Oh yeah, body language speaks volumes.. Lol
This y I don’t get in people business fr
Don’t loose a good friend over a dusty 💯
That man is as crazy as they come.
Find a new friend girl, she’s mind control over that dusty man
The Plaintiff's hair is everything. wow!
Uh
Thank you 💕
My best friend of 15 years did the same thing to me twice over a man. The first time was in college so I stopped talking to her for years until she asked me to be her friend again & the second time was about a year ago. I couldn’t do it anymore. We went from spending every day together to not seeing each other for a year & she lived down the street from me. I was DONE !
Don't Give Up Because The Best Is Yet To Come!
It is so!! Ase'
Wow
Amen... I receive it
Yesssss, I NEEEEEEED it Lord AND I receive it!!! 🙌🏾 Thank you and you and your family, as well ❤️
Thank you
His body language says alot staring up in the air.... and don't want nobody to come by the house to witness how he treating his girl. I wish JM woulda grilled him a little more about the control issues.
If anybody drags you out of a car, and throws a cinder block threw a car window for being out with friends… get as far away from them as you can. If you stay, you’ll be 6 feet before you know it.
Having to offer to babysit in order to see my friend is crazy
Leave this friend alone dear you tried, she will learn fast
Do not get in between couple fights. This man could have killed her and her "best friend" would still be right by his side. So. She needs to back off and leave them alone until her friend realizes that an abusive relationship isn't what she wants.
I didn’t get in it I just wasn’t going to leave her
Word of advice to the plaintiff. End the friendship because the defendant showed that she was going to stick beside her abusive man regardless of what he does. Hopefully she comes to her senses but in the meantime let thing 1 and thing 2 live in blissful, violent ignorance and just find better friends with common sense, self worth and a back bone.
Yes,leave them alone
She’s the bigger person because she was trying to make peace!
The defendant's boyfriend exemplifies behavior of someone who is controlling. If this man hasn't went upside this lady's head already, I foresee it in the near future. Run girl.....RUN!!
That friend will regret losing her best friend over that dusty a** man. I would never want that friendship back.
That is not a real friend!!! If matters had gotten worse.. The friend could care less. She needs to leave her with her controlling man.
noo girl let them go.
& when you have a DITZY friend like this you jus gotta wish them well and send them on their way fr. nothing you can do here but pray and jus let her be…one day (hopefully) she will leave but don’t count on it jus pray for her(them)
I would have left I’m sorry, that is not your friend.
The defendant knew her man was crazy. I had a friend who used to get into with her man. They both was crazy. I had to suspend the friendship until maturity kicked in. Not sure if it ever did cause I kept my distance.
She clearly stated she never met him before so how would she know 🤷🏾♂️
@@paulking20 the defendant met her man before. Look at what I said and your comment.
Me and my ex best friend had a bad falling out behind her abusive fiancé/Children’s fathers. Run these women will not leave these men save yourself the headache.
Best friends or not, sometimes you have to end the friendship because of foreseen circumstances.
The ladies look like they really want to be in each other’s life but the BF ain’t having it.
Let her go with her man..let bygones be bygones and just remember the good times, you cannot be the same ever again.
The defendant is extremely beautiful I hope she gets in therapy it really does help
That doesn't matter. What is inside is what counts and the attempted murder shows who she is.
@@mexicanspec Look again. You have your litigants mixed up.
@@sereneamani1713 Sorry, you are right.
he's not letting her do nothing but have his kids
That's crazy how her friend just standing there smiling and making it seem like it's ok that that guy tried to hurt them both, after her friend stood up to protect her wow , I hope she never be friends with her again she ain't trust worthy
Wow!! Trying to protect a friend from her boyfriend but that friend is here defending her boyfriend. That's why people don't want to get involved in domestic violence.
This girl if her boyfriend is that controlling needs to leave him alone before it gets worse.
From his response her family should do a weekly welfare check on her! Lil dude is not only controlling but he's buggin...
Pretty sure cutting her off/driving a wedge between her & her fam was his first move. She already told them to stay out of her life.
Can't help someone who doesn't want help.
She said nice to meet you 😂😂
I wouldn’t even try to be her friend anymore “ if she like it I love it “ they meant for eachother sad case
The defendants body language gives DV victim.
“ I didn’t succeed though” took me out 😂😂😂😂😂
The plaintiff got the cake 🎂
This is what fucks all of us men up right here. We get too much caught up in the outward appearances but the inside truly determines who and what she is. Btw ass smells.
@@adrianprince7266 man shut up getting all emotional… be a man you see the cake acknowledge it.. you’ll be the b man crying and I’ll be the man clapping cheeks
Facts
The way the defendant was looking down, man he’s def controlling and crazy asf. Ladies please don’t settle !
Your statement is controlling lol
He looks older than her. He got her pregnant and pushed her BF away
I was so happy when this segment finally ended.😃
He really didn't care. Stone face, it's not a game!
The plaintiff looks terrified even talking in front of this fool. Smfh I've seen the worst of the worst when it comes to domestic violence and it still haunts me to this day.. Watch yourself in your relationships. Being alone is far better than being trapped everyday all day. Know your worth.. 🙏
You mean defendant?
@@ilovesports5468 I did mean the defendant.. Lol
Thx. 🙏
The only reason she in that mess is for defending her so called friend. She clearly don't care that her boyfriend beats her. I would of never got involved
I hate grownups look into space or look at the ceiling when other people are talking that’s so childish to me
Girlfriend did too much....That's not the 1st time her friend so called man had snatched her ass up or out..It's sad how too many women allow this type of abuse like it's par for the course SMFH.
What were the defendants laughing at? This man threw a cinderblock at a car two women were in........not funny at all.
Plaintiff - please protect your peace & stay far away from them.
Wow this girl should of let her friend get beat because her good deed did not go as planned
The defendants boyfriend will end up isolating her from everyone she knows. I get the sense that he is very controlling, insecure and violent. That very friend, that just pleaded for their friendship, the one that she ignored when she tried to make the effort to get to know the boyfriend, the same one that they just laughed at, will be the one that either has to try and get her to see the red flags, has to run to her rescue, help her fight him to get away and/or the one to (God forbidding) find her body.
She's one of those friends you love from a distance ,she trying to protect her not even herself , sometimes won't end well on both parties .God trying to tell you something before it. Gets worse ,pray for your friend and distance yourself from it all. Best to believe she will be calling you for help from this fool he is controlling and abruisive. To bad oh girl don't get it. I hope she leaves him before it's to late ijs.
LOL That extra petty final statement from the plantiff LOL "Nice to meet you, Terrance."
He hollering at the JUDGE 😮
"Nice to meet you Terrance?" Mam grow up and leave this TOXIC COUPLE where they stand!
She going be calling when he start beating her if he not already beating her
A acquaintance of mine is like the defendant 😖 It seems if she enjoys a chaotic relationship. Not only domestic violence but she gets crazy with the girls that her man cheats on her with 🤨 I was pepper sprayed earlier this year breaking up a fight between her and one of the girls... So energy draining.
Been going on for years. Got s several kids not with any of the dads, continuously is putting these men before it goes little ones. They message me often just even for basic needs 💔
It hurt but I had to step back from her. I will always help those babies 💟
Life is too short to deal with people like your friend.
@@mexicanspec ✅ ABSOLUTELY correct!
Notice my second word is acquaintance. Acquaintance not friend...
First he said three times and now he is talking about a 4th time, that is not adding up.
“You think it was her?”🤣🤣
I bet he won't be her friend, he found the right one.....🤣🤣🤣🤣
On the walk in a could tell he's about nothing. Didn't open doors for her then staring at the ceiling. Girl you better run
Now you know dude is straight up lying. If someone is trying to run you down with their car, who uses a Cinder block to “Defend” themselves? Just that ridiculous statement alone tells me he’s a lying manipulator.
A man could never keep me from my friends in relationships you have to make priority but make time for your self and family and friends 🙄 if a man isn’t making sure you don’t get taking advantage of they should be no reason why you can’t have a friend day or night 🤷🏼♀️
Plaintiff, stop trying to be this young lady's friend.. she loves an abusive ignorant man! Go on with your life and leave her behind
This guy said "I'm probably ashy" 😂🤦🏾
I'm not be friendly with someone who could have ended my life 🙅🏾♀️.
Cut all ties and block!
5 in the morning is unacceptable for a male or female that’s in a live in relationship.
IMO, it is not acceptable, as you've stated. However, it does not change the characteristics of the male defendant. They are a couple in a dangerous relationship.
@@sereneamani1713 oh yeah he’s definitely wrong. There’s never a excuse to destroy someone’s property.
"I DIDN'T SUCCEED THO" 😂😂😂😂😂 Glad you didn't boo! 😂😂😂
Felt so bad for the best friend and I hope she leaves him and finds herself a good man.
If ole boy is as bad as the plaintiff say, all she gotta do is fall back. His behavior will likely escalate and keep causing problems in the house he don’t want people to visit, which will send his woman running back to her. Classic.
When dude put his hands behind his back and looked at the ceiling it gave me kid in trouble vibes.
She is younger than him. He knocked her up to keep her under him
@kayshawnsimmons5585 what? That's ridiculous. Getting her pregnant ruins his life. It doesn't give him any control.