Yes, He Was a Scrub

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  • čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
  • The plaintiff grew up with the defendant. They eventually started dating, and she became pregnant. The plaintiff claims the defendant’s family convinced him that he was not the father, but they stayed together until their child was 2 years old. The plaintiff is suing the defendant for child support because he’s thousands of dollars behind. The defendant insists the plaintiff took advantage of him and raped him while he was intoxicated. She also allegedly told the defendant he was not the father, so he petitioned the court for a paternity test. The defendant is countersuing for emotional distress.
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  • @kravenrowry7502
    @kravenrowry7502 Před rokem +772

    Whoa! So, we're just supposed to skip past the part where he accused her of rape. Why didn't anybody take him seriously? Having sex with a man while he was intoxicated without his consent is rape.

    • @englishholmes2760
      @englishholmes2760 Před rokem +58

      I know then people in the audience are smirking about it but if it was the other way around smh

    • @ElderSlimm
      @ElderSlimm Před rokem +10

      I feel ya bro

    • @SPEIGHTS78
      @SPEIGHTS78 Před rokem +34

      This is what us men talk about when it comes to that topic. In fact there are just as many Men who have been victims of Rape either by another man, or woman. But just like it was shown here it's not EVER TAKEN SERIOUSLY!! It's dismissed, it's joked at, made a mockup, and the vic is looked at as not being a man.

    • @NubianP6
      @NubianP6 Před rokem +38

      💯 It’s disgusting the way the audience will laugh about ANYTHING, and JM perpetuating it didn’t help.

    • @BEEFjrMUSIC
      @BEEFjrMUSIC Před rokem +25

      men always get laughed at when it comes to this. its sad. because if the role was reversed that man would be in jail.

  • @jokireyn3873
    @jokireyn3873 Před rokem +326

    So HIM being rvped by HER wasn't takin seriously by the cops , the judge, or the audience.. smh that's messed up. Men go through it also.

    • @bigpooh23at
      @bigpooh23at Před rokem +8

      Facts

    • @TeePalmer
      @TeePalmer Před rokem +8

      I agree....can't believe they think it's funny

    • @emayan06
      @emayan06 Před rokem +21

      Probably because he dated her and had a actual relationship with her after it happened, not saying he lying but it’s like why you date your r^p!st??

    • @Kinglionz1982
      @Kinglionz1982 Před rokem +14

      Cause he lying

    • @dbeloved02
      @dbeloved02 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@emayan06it happens often

  • @cherh3325
    @cherh3325 Před rokem +240

    That’s not funny that he is saying he was raped and everyone is laughing

    • @momonie4
      @momonie4 Před rokem +11

      REALLY!!!! OMG!!!!

    • @kevindavis2187
      @kevindavis2187 Před rokem +3

      FACTS

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Před rokem +1

      I dont like that

    • @kakishisfriend1126
      @kakishisfriend1126 Před rokem +1

      Right like what he said is this baby is a product of r@pe. I feel bad for him. No one would laugh of a woman said she got pregnant by r@pe.

    • @MM-sz6ku
      @MM-sz6ku Před rokem +1

      I was never raped but attempted to have a restraining order filed on ex-girlfriend because of constant harassment and the police laughed it off smh

  • @esharenee4186
    @esharenee4186 Před rokem +720

    I don't understand how JM could allow the audience to laugh at a man accusing this woman of raping him. It's insane!!! I believe him.

    • @Unique71046
      @Unique71046 Před rokem +40

      Because he knew he was lying. Judges & law enforcement are trained to detect liars

    • @buttalove5437
      @buttalove5437 Před rokem +5

      Agreed! This is ridiculous!

    • @michelleferguson17
      @michelleferguson17 Před rokem +26

      I totally agree with you but where he messed up at is when he continue to to keep sexin her once he was aware 😐😐

    • @margaretaugust6462
      @margaretaugust6462 Před rokem +1

      I agree with you!

    • @esharenee4186
      @esharenee4186 Před rokem +19

      @@Unique71046 not all judges and law enforcement agents can discern every lie. If so Jeff Dahmer would have been in prison the night he had that boy in the front of his building under the influence.

  • @kalicehitchman3314
    @kalicehitchman3314 Před rokem +357

    Judge Mattis dismissed his rape claims but wouldn’t never dismiss coke claims smh

  • @evangeline6
    @evangeline6 Před rokem +270

    He couldn't consent to sex with her because of alcohol. I wish JM didn't make light of the situation. It's appalling that the police don't take the issue seriously either

    • @santanab2798
      @santanab2798 Před rokem +3

      Me too!!

    • @Jhud72
      @Jhud72 Před rokem +12

      It was sexual assault and not funny 🙄

    • @tell_em1522
      @tell_em1522 Před rokem +9

      He lied so many times that its hard to believe his story!

    • @DJ-cd6gk
      @DJ-cd6gk Před rokem +6

      @@tell_em1522 The first story he told was about the assault... before he said anything else, even if he lied afterward they still laughed at his story before anyone could claim he was lying about anything else

    • @sharmainearroyo7113
      @sharmainearroyo7113 Před rokem +2

      then why did he date her?

  • @864gordo5
    @864gordo5 Před rokem +817

    As you can see, sexual assault isn’t taken serious unless it’s a male being accused. Even if it isn’t true an allegation alone can ruin your life. He’s getting laughed at. She’s an attractive woman, why would he openly lie on someone he considered was her best friend? AND as you can see, the same night he called his sister to fight her!

    • @yo3rdtier128
      @yo3rdtier128 Před rokem +13

      🤡

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Před rokem +42

      It’s not taken as seriously, unfortunately. But he was lying. It the same when ppl lie about it. It’s taken less seriously.

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 Před rokem +26

      Agreed. People find it funny, even the women laugh trust men get assaulted and or persuaded

    • @frankrice9520
      @frankrice9520 Před rokem +36

      She’s ATTRACTIVE?? 😮REALLY?????😳

    • @esharenee4186
      @esharenee4186 Před rokem +29

      @@opulence_prime how do you know he was lying?

  • @sonyasplace420
    @sonyasplace420 Před rokem +64

    The child is suffering the most. They need counseling

  • @briel7904
    @briel7904 Před rokem +421

    She definitely keeps the son from him when they're on bad terms. The kid's last comments proved that.

    • @DiorpradaGucci
      @DiorpradaGucci Před rokem +20

      Yup that’s why I believe he wrote that letter cause he expressed his self very well

    • @briel7904
      @briel7904 Před rokem +41

      @BusinessMogul I don't...well...I believe he wrote it but I also think than she coached him and said what to write

    • @cjohns1005
      @cjohns1005 Před rokem +18

      At 10yrs old.....she proofread it

    • @briel7904
      @briel7904 Před rokem +8

      @Carl Johns in which case, she needs to head back to English class because it was poorly written

    • @tell_em1522
      @tell_em1522 Před rokem

      @@briel7904 Even if she did proof read it, the letter was meant to be in his words not hers! It was written in a way that you comprehended correct? You people are way too critical! The main focus here was proving paternity and addressing why this loser hasn't been taking care of a kid that he clearly knew was his.

  • @neisci
    @neisci Před rokem +324

    It's a shame nobody gave him at least the benefit of the doubt. His story is believable.

    • @tell_em1522
      @tell_em1522 Před rokem +16

      How so? He told waaaayyy to many lies for his words to hold any merit. Who lies about petitioning a court for custody? Who lies about having an apartment? Who lies about having a CDL and driving a school bus?! On top of all of that, what man is going to stay with a woman who assaulted them?!?! LASTLY, nearing the end of the case, he basically stated that he KNEW the kid was his!!! How do you know this sir, if you were passed out during intercourse? The dude is a scrub!

    • @ja2415
      @ja2415 Před rokem +2

      @@tell_em1522 I don't understand the part u said, having CDL LICENSE AND DRIVING A SCHOOL?, U KNOW CDL LICENSE IS REQUIRED FOR SCHOOL BUS,

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Před rokem +1

      could be but he didn't press charges when he should have

    • @trekgirl65
      @trekgirl65 Před rokem

      not believable of a lazy bum.

    • @neisci
      @neisci Před rokem +1

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585 it's the same say we to women, that they should have pressed charges and we still give them the benefit of the doubt. The same should have been extended to him. Other than that, what he said it's not far fetched.

  • @mrsir4315
    @mrsir4315 Před rokem +468

    She definitely coached him while he was writing that letter. "You haven't given me shoes since 7 months" that's baby momma talking

    • @slbostick8471
      @slbostick8471 Před rokem +22

      My thoughts exactly

    • @y_e_i8213
      @y_e_i8213 Před rokem +46

      Right!! How does a child know what gifts were given to them when they’re 7 months? Cut the bs out

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 Před rokem +7

      Exactly

    • @josl1345
      @josl1345 Před rokem +16

      Sad situation. He shouldn't be caught in the middle.

    • @JessicaSmith-yd2nm
      @JessicaSmith-yd2nm Před rokem +12

      Yep. NObody remembers being 7 months old

  • @mosesmcgruder
    @mosesmcgruder Před rokem +253

    This case pissed me off smh.
    1- men do get raped. Whether it's from another man or a woman it happens. I'm upset that the judge didn't acknowledge this. asking him why he didn't call the police. Hell there are women who are raped who never go to the cops and report it so you know men aren't. And we wonder why some men, particularly black men, are so f'd up. We can't heal from our wounds cause when we go to show them, people refuse to even acknowledge our wounds exist. So we try to convince ourselves they aren't there by covering them up. But no matter how much you cover, if the wound hasn't healed it'll still hurt and it will show.
    2- I thought I was the only one who noticed. The audience pisses me off everytime. I mean they laugh at EVERYTHING! You can talk about how you escaped a serial killer they'll find something to giggle at. Or you could say, "Judge I got the ticket cause I ran a red light." Here they go hahaha 😆
    Like wtf is funny about running a red-light...smh🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @amareharris2797
    @amareharris2797 Před rokem +70

    Dude needs to take accountability but mom got exposed by son at the end 😭.

    • @tell_em1522
      @tell_em1522 Před rokem +5

      How? She had him write a letter expressing how he felt about his father... nothing wrong with that. Especially if she's been carrying the load by herself.

    • @cynthiavaldez7127
      @cynthiavaldez7127 Před rokem

      @@tell_em1522 as she should if she raped that man.

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 Před rokem +9

      @@tell_em1522 so u must miss the part wen he said u haven't given me shoes since I was 7mo how would a child at 7mo no anything thing bt a gift please explain

    • @amareharris2797
      @amareharris2797 Před rokem +6

      @@tell_em1522 you dont know how to examine writing samples lol. Its clear the mom was telling him what to write. Son was more than happy to see his dad lol. With that being said dude gotta man up

    • @tell_em1522
      @tell_em1522 Před rokem

      @@amareharris2797 Does it really matter? Pops is an embarrassment... and one day the kid(s)- cause I'm sure this isn't his only child, will see it.

  • @brookeo3120
    @brookeo3120 Před rokem +60

    Judge mathis was wrong for how he did this man! Rape is to always be taken seriously Always. Judge mathis should've known that woman put the kid up to writing that letter. You can tell at the end she keeps him away from his dad. Smh this was messed up

  • @diofiglio1
    @diofiglio1 Před rokem +33

    Glad the allegation of rape can be laughed at

    • @yourme2
      @yourme2 Před rokem +5

      I know right I didnt get that Sad

    • @euqinom8561
      @euqinom8561 Před rokem +3

      Isn't always... If u aren't white blonde girl, no one cares.
      All the SA that go unreported because nothing is done.
      It's what she wore, or did to deserve it. 🤷

  • @ManChildMin1
    @ManChildMin1 Před rokem +28

    I have huge respect for Judge Mathis…but this display in the face of accused rape is despicable and inexcusable

  • @bmichh40
    @bmichh40 Před rokem +43

    Always fight for shared custody of your kids!!!!!

    • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
      @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 Před rokem

      I feel the fact that he's been sexually assaulted he shouldn't be responsible for that kid

    • @LeolaGlamour
      @LeolaGlamour Před rokem +1

      You look like my brother

    • @msvee2455
      @msvee2455 Před rokem

      Men have the same rights as women, they just do not want to pay child support. Fight for your children!! Time spent is priceless and more valuable than money.

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Před rokem

      This guy didn't Fight to see his son😒😒

  • @k.tmoney9915
    @k.tmoney9915 Před rokem +20

    You know the lil boy didn't write that letter

    • @movingforward789
      @movingforward789 Před rokem +11

      I believe the little boy wrote it, but coached and influenced by the mother. The only reason I say that is there were an awful lot of “birthdays” in that letter, LOL!

  • @tevans3862
    @tevans3862 Před rokem +18

    So she didn’t defend herself against the rape allegations but she defended herself when he said she calls randomly to see if the son can spend the night.
    This is ridiculous. She should be in jail! & I dislike judge Mathis laughing at the idea of a man being sexually assaulted. I’m disgusted actually

  • @mothercapricorn947
    @mothercapricorn947 Před rokem +11

    Mom the son went left on you about that letter that you told him to write...stop teaching him to be petty

  • @briel7904
    @briel7904 Před rokem +19

    She looks problematic & drama-filled.

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus Před rokem +1

      And capable of r@p3. Poor guy.

    • @jew-el1
      @jew-el1 Před 7 měsíci

      She is… GHETTO! She did it‼️

  • @barbarapaton4005
    @barbarapaton4005 Před rokem +115

    I felt sorry for the defendant for some strange reason. I think deep down he’s a good guy

    • @taffi607
      @taffi607 Před rokem +9

      I don’t think so. Good men provide for their kids.

    • @barbarapaton4005
      @barbarapaton4005 Před rokem +10

      @@taffi607 he said that the plaintiff kept taunting him that the child was not his

    • @tell_em1522
      @tell_em1522 Před rokem +9

      @@barbarapaton4005 Then you petition the courts for a DNA test... which he clearly lied about doing! This dude is a scrub, loser, low life, etc! He told way to many lies to be taken serious! The son didn't even treat him like he was his father. I mean the kid looked happy to see him, but there's a certain level of stillness and respect that a child displays when they are in the presence of their father, and he didn't have that!

    • @thetruth-zb7cj
      @thetruth-zb7cj Před rokem

      It’s because you have been conditioned to accept less. This is why bw are considered less desirable and have the highest rate of unwed mothers. Black women prefer pookie and Ray Ray.

    • @darrylperry9798
      @darrylperry9798 Před rokem

      Yeah he is

  • @lsykes5600
    @lsykes5600 Před rokem +10

    A girl definitely put something in my drink that had me dizzy and aroused for like 12 hrs .. I dont know why ppl think men being taking advantage of by women sexually is so funny

    • @LeolaGlamour
      @LeolaGlamour Před rokem

      Why would someone want to rape you? I’m curious because a man isn’t worth that imo. It’s not a funny matter, I just can’t imagine it. I could imagine a man raping you or a woman raping a young boy, rape is about control and power.

  • @F8talDosage
    @F8talDosage Před rokem +10

    So the child remembered when his dad got him shoes at 7 months!? And then at the end the way the mom asks “SO YOU WANNA GO TO YOUR DAD HOUSE!?” As if she was scolding him…trynna make that baby be materialistic “HES HIGH MAINTENANCE” no you’re trynna be something you’re not and turn that child the same way! 🙄

  • @cyyrious
    @cyyrious Před rokem +27

    Lady you know good and damn well you helped write that letter … he loves his Daddy … Mama get out your feelings … can we get an update on this case??

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 Před rokem +2

      Had her finger print all over it

    • @keajones5516
      @keajones5516 Před rokem +2

      Exactly !!! She is one of those bitter baby mama that like to get revenge.

  • @sheilae.9670
    @sheilae.9670 Před rokem +134

    That was really sweet of Judge Mathis to meet and talk to that little boy ❤

  • @warriorqueen8285
    @warriorqueen8285 Před rokem +9

    The maama DEFINITLY KEEPING THAT PO BABY AWAY and making him feel GUILTY for wanting a relationship with his father so sad

  • @Powermoves1080
    @Powermoves1080 Před rokem +48

    Be careful who you have a kid with. Salute to JM for meeting the son he’s not gonna forget that.

    • @thetechconsultant
      @thetechconsultant Před rokem

      He couldn’t. He was raped. But everyone glossed over that part.

    • @LeeTheLee
      @LeeTheLee Před rokem

      He didn't even consent to sex

  • @KKandLex
    @KKandLex Před rokem +120

    That letter their son wrote torn my HEART UP!! CHILDREN ARE MUCH WISER THAN MOST ADULTS GIVE THEM CREDIT FOR!!!

  • @OmgIsThatSullyyyy
    @OmgIsThatSullyyyy Před rokem +29

    Lmao “you said it right young man” 🙄😂😂😂😂 Judge Mathis cracks me up. 😅

  • @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz
    @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz Před rokem +6

    She told him to write all that stuff in that letter. The boy wants to be with his dad because he knows his mother is teaching him to act feminine. And she’s mad about it.😂

  • @avisnwosu4800
    @avisnwosu4800 Před rokem +5

    Bruh she wrote that letter, no 10 year old talks like that

  • @nachshonyisrael8849
    @nachshonyisrael8849 Před rokem +50

    Thank you judge Mathis, the little boy in me felt like he was heard today

  • @higher_pwr8178
    @higher_pwr8178 Před rokem +17

    Defendant and son are very articulate.

  • @jeanp1323
    @jeanp1323 Před rokem +89

    I feel bad for the man though...even if he did a lot of wrong things, JM didn't treat him fairly like a judge should. I bet he didn't feel listened and taken seriously. #Frustrating

    • @darrylperry9798
      @darrylperry9798 Před rokem

      One good thing happened for him and that is he's the father and its not another guy's kid.

    • @ramsesstafford4640
      @ramsesstafford4640 Před 9 měsíci

      She called him young man so it was a wrap.

  • @lanag492
    @lanag492 Před rokem +40

    She told him some of what to write...moms stay neutral when it comes to father son relationship matter of fact fall back bc No matter what terrible things you say about a mother or father kids still love their parents, sometimes we push our anger on to the kids also not having a job don't diminish fatherhood

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 Před rokem +1

      Amen 👍

    • @mzfancy4767
      @mzfancy4767 Před rokem +1

      I agree with u wholeheartedly. 💯 The child will see their parent for who they are on their own. There is no need to bash the opposite parent to receive favor from the child. And that goes for mother and father.

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 Před rokem +1

      @@mzfancy4767 so true sista no need for that

    • @novembrluv
      @novembrluv Před rokem +2

      Not having a job does diminish fatherhood. What are fathers, if not first, providers and protectors? His dad is an obvious bum....spoken from the mouths of babes. Kids don't eat emotions and can't put on kind words. They need food. Clothes, shelter....etc.

    • @lanag492
      @lanag492 Před rokem

      @@novembrluv so if your dad somehow lost his job he's not a good father, not speaking on not trying or wanting to work..I'm saying not having a job doesn't mean a man don't love his child and wants to spend time

  • @angelvictorious279
    @angelvictorious279 Před rokem +8

    “If y’all argue then I can’t see him. Like his family and stuff” words from the son which says a lot. She’s bitter and keeps him away when she’s mad.

  • @EnemyMarcus
    @EnemyMarcus Před rokem +19

    This is definitely the most pathetic case I've seen Mathis simp on. Society doesn't give a single solitary fuck about men at all....imagine if a woman made the accusation of being r*ped while intoxicated and the audience laughed as she explained how the police dismissed her and the judge came down hard on her. And that letter was a bit too much, clearly mom had some influence. Smh not even gonna lie, I was hoping the defendant WASNT the father.

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 Před rokem +16

    Wow his first words to his son were did she tell you to write the letter. 😢He should have said I love you and I’m going to do better.

    • @cyyrious
      @cyyrious Před rokem +2

      They both were childish … that little boy is stuck in the middle such a shame

    • @zsaf1zsaf188
      @zsaf1zsaf188 Před rokem

      We don't know if that was the 1st thing he said.... that could just be what production showed

    • @leggs4113
      @leggs4113 Před rokem

      @@zsaf1zsaf188 even if it wasn’t the first thing it was inappropriate for him to put his son in the middle like that.

  • @SPEIGHTS78
    @SPEIGHTS78 Před rokem +48

    This is what us men talk about when it comes to that topic. In fact there are just as many Men who have been victims of Rape either by another man, or woman. But just like it was shown here it's not EVER TAKEN SERIOUSLY!! It's dismissed, it's joked at, made a mockup, and the vic is looked at as not being a man.

    • @TheMrgoodmanners
      @TheMrgoodmanners Před rokem +2

      Stop the whining argh its embarrassing

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus Před rokem +4

      The judge made light of it and the stupid audience laughed, that was so upsetting.

    • @SPEIGHTS78
      @SPEIGHTS78 Před rokem +3

      @@TheMrgoodmanners Remember that should that happen to someone u know be it male or female... Ignorance is bliss

  • @brooklynhuana
    @brooklynhuana Před rokem +49

    His mom is bitter. The aggression at the end with how she asked him questions was proof she keep him away from his dad

    • @MsBdoll87
      @MsBdoll87 Před rokem +2

      Exactly! She made him feel like he has to choose. Kids love their parents no matter what. She should allow him to grow and form his own opinion of his father without influencing him. Some things kids shouldn’t know about it. Giving that baby rejection problems. I’m not making excuses for the dad but you can see he loves him

    • @tell_em1522
      @tell_em1522 Před rokem +3

      He's a broke bum. I'd keep my child away from him too as he clearly has no integrity and/or morals! What man doesn't take care of his child? Y'all trying to put it all on her, but legally, can't no woman keep a child away from their father! Regardless of what you've been told, men have rights too... and a REAL man will move mountains to be in their child's life, period! He wasn't even paying child support smh, which was what $200?!? She has every right to be bitter... dudes out here making babies and not taking care of them!

    • @Cherishbarber94
      @Cherishbarber94 Před rokem +1

      At the beginning too

    • @MsBdoll87
      @MsBdoll87 Před rokem +4

      @@tell_em1522 I understand your point but if she had to take care of him in the relationship as she stated, what makes one think he will be responsible enough to parent a child? She assisted in enabling him. If that’s who she chose to coparent with or as he stated , raped him in to conception, why punish the child because he loves his deadbeat daddy? Sleeping around is all fun and games until they bring broken kids into this world

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 Před rokem +3

      @@MsBdoll87 that's right give facts all these emotional opinions r not facts u nailed it

  • @masterbates7016
    @masterbates7016 Před rokem +15

    I don't believe that letter was actually from the Son no way in hell

    • @lavadabell2737
      @lavadabell2737 Před rokem +3

      Why not? Yall really think kids don't have feelings about their absent parents

    • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
      @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 Před rokem +3

      @@lavadabell2737 I think kids have feelings but I don't think that letter was from her son as well

    • @beazdakid1988
      @beazdakid1988 Před rokem

      @@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 his mom coached him

    • @lavadabell2737
      @lavadabell2737 Před rokem

      @@beazdakid1988 no that letter sounded like a child who has no relationship with his father. I can understand if his father really been there for him, then I would think mom may have coached him but that guy admitted not being there. You don't think a child has feelings about his dad not even calling on his birthday? Yall must not have kids! Kids remember everything and he definitely remembered his dad promising shoes and never bringing them. My kids has a father like this and that's how they talk. Let's stop always blaming the black mom who is there and doing both jobs and blame these piece of shit absent fathers!

  • @spellz8677
    @spellz8677 Před rokem +2

    I'm applaud at the judge and audience to laugh at this man when he says he was rapped

  • @backshotbarbie2035
    @backshotbarbie2035 Před rokem +19

    I love Doyle laugh 😂it comes from the soul

    • @Chosenones572
      @Chosenones572 Před rokem +2

      Everytime he laughs it makes me laugh lol

    • @igbokwenu4934
      @igbokwenu4934 Před rokem

      He's the biggest a$$ kisser on TV I'm surprised he's got his 👅 in his mouth. Dude is fake as a rolex in Chinatown

  • @charlessantee8329
    @charlessantee8329 Před rokem +6

    He didn't deny being the father of the child.

  • @queshebalittle6023
    @queshebalittle6023 Před rokem +7

    She told him what to write smh

    • @tamekalong9077
      @tamekalong9077 Před rokem +4

      I completely agree how that little boy know certain stuff at 7 months????

    • @queshebalittle6023
      @queshebalittle6023 Před rokem +1

      I live in Cincinnati and most of the ppl here r really trifling even the men. I'm a country gurl and I stay to myself and out the way.

  • @kevindavis2187
    @kevindavis2187 Před rokem +14

    The way she act I can tell she wrote that letter... And JM didn't take him saying he was raped seriously infact he laughed at him , what the little kid said at the end let me know she keeps him from his father...

  • @nicharr7796
    @nicharr7796 Před rokem +2

    That’s a lot for a 10 year old. She’s putting that child up to it.

  • @JocelynKing
    @JocelynKing Před rokem +16

    this is really disgusting that someone accuse someone of rape and even says they did tell the cops, even if he wasnt who called and everyone makes it a joke publicly. JM should be ashamed of himself but if that man had said he shot 15 people and sold heavy weight JM would have been all into that. Not saying he is aa perfect stand up guy but she aint a saint and i know darn well she had alot to do with that letter. girl please how lil buddy know his dad bought him a pair of shoes when he was 7months.why JM didnt get uptight about him saying she said that wasnt his child plenty times when she mad but he wanna get uptight that there is a question. It also sounded like the son was gone say at the end that he cant go over his dad house when they argue, and of course shes controlling that part, and dad most likely aint pushing the issue sadly

  • @Juju_Haitiansdoitbetter
    @Juju_Haitiansdoitbetter Před rokem +13

    There was some truth to what the father was saying because the sun confirmed when they argue he doesn't get to go to the dad house

  • @-love-life3267
    @-love-life3267 Před rokem +33

    JM dropped the ball on this one.. I kinda felt bad for the guy. His accusations of assault were laughed at twice. The Police didn’t even take him serious. And that letter sounded like the mother helped their son write it. I hope they have better communication moving forward. I also hopes she never wears that bed of roses on her head again.

    • @Capo_dadon918
      @Capo_dadon918 Před rokem +1

      That’s fine and dandy but I feel bad for his son that young man had to explain why he was ashamed of his father

    • @cassandracole7498
      @cassandracole7498 Před rokem

      He should have filed a police report…

  • @candicelockhart5197
    @candicelockhart5197 Před rokem +2

    If she took advantage of him, why get in a relationship with her!

  • @DadHussle
    @DadHussle Před rokem +7

    I believe him! That literally happened to me! A girl my brother was messing with left his room and came upstairs mine I was sleep and I woke up while she was in top. I threw her off me and told her to get her shit and and get drunk aunt the garage and get tf out my house. The girl then goes to jail 15 mins later for DUI and Warrant for sexual assault on another lady.

  • @everybodyhatesbri
    @everybodyhatesbri Před rokem +37

    Girl that boy didn’t write that on his own. And it doesn’t look like he wanted to meet judge Mathis either🤨

  • @mrs227
    @mrs227 Před rokem +3

    He’s a dead beat, however that child did NOT write that letter, furthermore she’s keeping that boy away from his dad, like he said

    • @eveningglow9023
      @eveningglow9023 Před rokem +1

      He said he wasn't the father!!! Then ask him to get him something for his grown A birthday smh

  • @listen-learn-speak2465
    @listen-learn-speak2465 Před rokem +3

    The mother is a bully and the son seem scared to really say how he feel

  • @12tyecha
    @12tyecha Před rokem +5

    "He's going to ask you for some food too" 😳 No home training 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @getbusydrizzy5296
    @getbusydrizzy5296 Před rokem +6

    Putting him jail doesn't help this situation. Mathis wrong for those words. Mama GHETTO ---yuck

  • @arielprivott844
    @arielprivott844 Před rokem +2

    That man say he 9k behind in child support like it was $100🥴👀👀

  • @anissagr523
    @anissagr523 Před rokem +19

    Men can be raped and also abused. Shouldn't be taken lightly EVER!

  • @christiandilday7543
    @christiandilday7543 Před rokem +5

    Damn 9,000 dollars 💵 in back child support, a slight bitter babymama and a heartbroken 💔 son 😥

  • @cynthiajamisom680
    @cynthiajamisom680 Před rokem +44

    That letter most definitely had me in tears!! Please get in your sons life asap 😢

  • @aneshaelizabeth
    @aneshaelizabeth Před rokem +4

    I don’t like how the audience laughed at him when he said he was assaulted. If the man was intoxicated, he was not able to give consent. I believe him when he said it. She seems like a spiteful person because the child admitted that when she gets mad at the father, he can’t see his dad.

  • @prettylyricsmarie
    @prettylyricsmarie Před rokem +2

    He sounds like he didn't want to be with her, and she got pregnant. If she wasn't his type, why hang out with her? Drunk or not.

  • @importedreign6408
    @importedreign6408 Před rokem +7

    You see the bs us men have to deal with in a hypocritical society where women such as her,cardi b etc have done bs to men and can admit it to no consequences is beyond me dawg

    • @TeePalmer
      @TeePalmer Před rokem +1

      It's sad...JM treated this man horribly...

    • @TeePalmer
      @TeePalmer Před rokem +1

      It's sad..I miss Kevin Samuels

  • @briharris4776
    @briharris4776 Před rokem +3

    I think judge would have taken it seriously if he had a police report but he should have made a joke out of it

  • @donavalbarnes8869
    @donavalbarnes8869 Před rokem +2

    She know she wrote that letter for that little boy lol 😂

    • @prettylyricsmarie
      @prettylyricsmarie Před rokem +1

      Reality is the father needs to be told those things. He is a bum.

  • @NotYourTypicalNegro
    @NotYourTypicalNegro Před rokem +2

    I don't understand how in this day and age with all the products easily available that these young women are just getting pregnant like it's nothing.

  • @hpkst99
    @hpkst99 Před rokem +5

    Im balling at that letter 😭

  • @chekers7
    @chekers7 Před rokem +3

    How they just bypass she trapped that man!!! Now she complaining about her criminal actions and consequences. But he’s the victim 😮. Fk that!!

  • @justacarguy90
    @justacarguy90 Před rokem +2

    The son will be acting like her in no time...he wrote a letter talking bout money, and shoes...she wrote that letter! 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @Lan3ycak3s
    @Lan3ycak3s Před rokem +3

    The son seemed like he was scared to say he wanted to go over there. She’s definitely making it hard for him to be a father. Money isn’t everything

  • @indigorose1270
    @indigorose1270 Před rokem +3

    Such a beautiful and sweet young man! Great job JM!

  • @kizziahowell6786
    @kizziahowell6786 Před rokem +1

    It's a disgrace to teach your son to lie like that

  • @nae80West
    @nae80West Před rokem +1

    Dad loves that son with his whole heart and vice versa...you can tell..they will be good!!

  • @coachjohn2940
    @coachjohn2940 Před rokem +14

    That hairstyle is a heavy No

    • @freegame1k
      @freegame1k Před rokem +1

      yall sure do act like women . This is what women do..

    • @TSR228
      @TSR228 Před rokem +2

      All BM care about is hair and weave. Anything on the deadbeat?

    • @scottrogue946
      @scottrogue946 Před rokem +2

      BM worried about weaves, nails, and lashes are the most underperforming race of men 😭🥴

  • @m1asdream
    @m1asdream Před rokem +4

    LMFAOOO yeah she definitely told him what to write. That lady knew what she was doing most definitely. However, God sees everything. I definitely wouldn’t get too comfortable cause she definitely could’ve handled it better without dragging him into it 😊

  • @zeeprince9879
    @zeeprince9879 Před rokem +2

    It's not dating once she's pregnant...It's stupidity

  • @jarronwilliams7227
    @jarronwilliams7227 Před rokem +2

    she def wrote that letter

  • @DJ-cd6gk
    @DJ-cd6gk Před rokem +3

    I wonder if JM will ask a woman for a police report if she says she was sexually assaulted

  • @adrianprince7266
    @adrianprince7266 Před rokem +21

    Mathis never gave the defendant a fair chance as he oftentimes does to men in these situations. That letter wasn't from his son. It was from the plantiff. Sad

    • @TheSolitary1
      @TheSolitary1 Před rokem +6

      What else could he say? Judge knows that the majority of those males have the same character. Simply sorry with victim mentalities. At the end the boy said he wrote what he felt

    • @farrahgibson5511
      @farrahgibson5511 Před rokem +3

      I think the son wrote how he felt based on hearing his mom talk.
      Judge Mathis is too hard on some people and don't give them a chance to explain themselves because he already have his mind made up.
      He's starting to act like Judge Joe Brown.
      I get he have to do hid job, but he should also be fair in doing so.

    • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
      @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 Před rokem +9

      @@TheSolitary1 notice how the audience laughs at him when he says he's been graped... And also the police also hung up on him smdh

    • @reecespieces9740
      @reecespieces9740 Před rokem +4

      @@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 Exactly! Judge Mathis laughed as well. Her behind needs to be in jail smh

    • @Jhud72
      @Jhud72 Před rokem

      She had to have that dik, I believe him when he says he woke up and she was on top of him. That was sexual assault.

  • @latoyaboston3845
    @latoyaboston3845 Před rokem +1

    Laughing at a man that says he was assaulted is sooo irresponsible

  • @tiendaphillips8738
    @tiendaphillips8738 Před rokem +2

    She keeps him from his dad. His last comment told all. He said I want to see my dad but hopefully yall don't fight cause then I can't see my whole family. Tell all right there. Mothers need to stop keeping their kids fathers away.. it hurts your kids not just the dad. It's sick.

  • @omegarussell4017
    @omegarussell4017 Před rokem +6

    This upsetting that the police simply laugh and the audience laughs when a man opens up about being rapped by a woman. But if the shoe 👠 is on the other foot 🚶 the police and the audience and JM would be throwing the man in the penitentiary for rapping a woman even if it's not true.#OBP Bluesman

  • @MrsB320
    @MrsB320 Před rokem +17

    💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 these men really be breaking these kids hearts! 💔💔

    • @santanab2798
      @santanab2798 Před rokem +4

      So does the mom…he didn’t want to have a kid with her

    • @mycbr900rr
      @mycbr900rr Před rokem

      It's the bitter moms

  • @Pinktipspodcast
    @Pinktipspodcast Před rokem +1

    Watching them laugh at the defendant about rape was so cringe wow

  • @chocolatethundercherry143
    @chocolatethundercherry143 Před 2 měsíci

    Oh wow I believe him ! He should’ve went to the police station PERSONALLY to file charges !!!!!

  • @KDiamond666
    @KDiamond666 Před rokem +5

    Me and my sons father separated over a year ago and every day of the week he is off he comes and picks him up or stays here with him all day till he falls asleep. My son has autism and he loves his dad very much. I moved here close to him so they can spend time together because my sons happiness is
    My priority. I have no idea how some Women treat their kids like property. If the men is a good dad then let your kids spend time with him. ❤ we need more dads in their kids life period.

  • @honispicez50
    @honispicez50 Před rokem +4

    I had to pause but JM laughing like men can't get raped like women. I don't see anything funny about it. if it was a woman saying it it'll be a different outcome!!

  • @isa8o5
    @isa8o5 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Oh that baby’s letter was heartbreaking 💔 I pray he had a good male role model in his life♥️

  • @lajames4079
    @lajames4079 Před rokem +1

    The momma needs to stop making the baby feel like he has to choose sides. And the daddy needs to step up and be a man about his son and teach him the right way before the streets get ahold of him

  • @hebrewking6040
    @hebrewking6040 Před rokem +4

    He also just showed the world his Mom don’t allow him to see his Dad when they are not in the same terms…typically bitter black woman crap

    • @kravenrowry7502
      @kravenrowry7502 Před rokem +1

      Yup! I peeped that too. UGH!

    • @cyyrious
      @cyyrious Před rokem

      Come on bitter black woman just say woman and yes I agree

  • @urbanchangewithin624
    @urbanchangewithin624 Před rokem +6

    Horrible yet truthful of today’s Black American culture

    • @eveningglow9023
      @eveningglow9023 Před rokem +1

      And yesterday and the day of before that......!!!!!!!

  • @Shareefah101
    @Shareefah101 Před rokem +2

    She should have been prosecuted!

  • @youngtrainingdaywestphilly203

    See what happens when a man reports a rape... laughter.. even judge Mathis made a mockery of it...

  • @Thisismyhandle423
    @Thisismyhandle423 Před rokem +3

    The defendant is cute

  • @TorshaE.
    @TorshaE. Před rokem +5

    His son is his twin! He need to do better and step up.

  • @April-tn7zz
    @April-tn7zz Před rokem +1

    I am in tears because it’s not ok to be this trifling, I pray he does right by this young boy

  • @MimiDidIt1st
    @MimiDidIt1st Před rokem +1

    They really need to stop fighting in front of this child and putting him in the middle of all their mess

  • @Mr21022102
    @Mr21022102 Před rokem +7

    He lied from the time he opened his mouth. Talking about I called the police but no police report. Smh

    • @ddavis8988
      @ddavis8988 Před rokem +1

      You know cops can refuse to take a report, right?
      I called the cops for something, nothing this serious, and they wouldn't give me a report either.
      Not sayingnwhat he saying is true or not, but they do refuse to take reports amd give reports.

    • @Mr21022102
      @Mr21022102 Před rokem +1

      @@ddavis8988 got u but u gotta admit his story made absolutely no sense

    • @ddavis8988
      @ddavis8988 Před rokem +1

      @Semajj Philly I definitely don't think he's the victim in this situation. I just don't think he's the only villian either.

    • @Mr21022102
      @Mr21022102 Před rokem +1

      @@ddavis8988 very very good point! At least she was believable. He came out talking like 5+5=13. Sir that makes no sense.

    • @LeolaGlamour
      @LeolaGlamour Před rokem

      @@Mr21022102
      Exactly his story just didn’t add up. I’d have been more inclined to believe the rape had the boy not been his. I just don’t think a man could be passed out drunk and be hard enough to ejaculate. It’s not believable. There have been similar claims on here and the kids weren’t theirs and I believed it. It’s his story that’s not making sense.