The Cost Of Addiction ~ Let's Talk Reality
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- čas přidán 8. 05. 2024
- Let's talk about the realities of the cost of addiction, including financially, physically, emotionally and mentally. It's easy to tell a parent of an addict that they need to get their child into rehab. Well, duh! Like we didn't already think about that and checked into it only to find that the cost of doing so is astronomical and that there's absolutely no REAL help to be found.
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Hi, I'm Missy! I'm a wife, mom and Nanny to my favorite people in the world, and this is our story of how we're raising our 6-year-old grandson on our 2-acre homestead in a tiny blip on the map in East Tennessee. We're homeschooling, gardening, cooking up a storm and canning/freezing everything I can get my hands on to fill my prepper pantries and freezers and bringing y'all with us for the adventure!
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Rehab is really just a time out for the addict. If they are not ready to get well it will not happen. Over the past 7 years my daughter has been in 20 plus rehabs and sober livings. We spent hundreds of thousands of dollars not including the cost of insurance which covered a portion of each stay. Basically we kept her alive until she decided she was done. People who haven’t lived this experience have no idea what this does to a family.
My daughter also did Ketamine treatments ( insurance doesn’t cover it) for about 3-4 months. $1,000’s of dollars. It didn’t help her. She actually became addicted to the treatment.
Parents of addicts have to do what they can live with. We had to try everything we could so if she didn’t make it, we knew there wasn’t anything we hadn’t tried. The hard part is to realize that you can’t fix this for the addict no matter how much money you throw at it. It boils down to the addicts wanting sobriety more than anything else.
My daughter is sober almost two years and is home with us raising her son again. I live in fear every day that she will relapse. It has affected my entire family. I still jump when the phone rings.
I wish that no one would ever have to go through this . If you haven’t lived this nightmare be supportive of those of us who are in it.
Yes I have family addiction it’s so exhausting and draining ! All the do is steal and ask for money I messed with peoples peace of mind and mental health addiction is a family disease
This is such a powerful video. It’s what so many need to hear and thank you for saying it. Too many are afraid to speak their truth for fear of persecution. You are a true shining light for so many. God bless you and your family. Prayers for you all.
Critics should thank God they don’t have to walk a mile in your shoes
I don't think I'd let them even if they could
@@FromtheHollerwishing your son all the very best on his programme. Hope this is the one. Thankfully in the U.K medical treatment is free. Much love sent. 💙💙💙
@@FromtheHoller I am so sorry that u are going through this and I am praying for u and your grandson.
I agree the cost of rehab is completely out of reach for most people
Yep and it's sad
Yes their to far gone to help after you try everything I know I got addicts in my family
I was married to an addict for 10 years. I spent those years praying for a miracle. He was in and out of jail and the last trip he spent, I decided it would be my last attempt. He was home less than 3 months when he disappeared for the weekend. I found the strength to finally stand my ground and kick him out. I spent my last $120 on a one way non refundable bus ticket to send him to his moms, which was where he wanted to go. 13 years later, his sister paid to send him through the most elite treatment center in their area. He made it through, but has since relapsed. He is now a 57 year old homeless man, living hand to mouth, barely surviving. He even tried the marriage thing again. It lasted no time. His violent outbursts and angery beatings ended quicker with her. People don’t understand the life of a person who loves an addicti. And as hard as I found it to walk away, I can’t imagine it from your momma heart. I hope you find the strength you need to make the hard decisions no momma wants to make. You are going to be in my thoughts and prayers. But, just know, until he is really ready and he walks away from the life and friends he has, he won’t change. Nothing you say or do will change him.
Yes facts dealing with addiction is very hard exhausting and draining I have addicts in my family they steal bag for money it’s a family disease hell on earth dealing with addicts !
You could spend a billion dollars on rehab, but at the end of the day, only the addict can make that decision. Parents who are new to this life feel that they must do whatever they can to "fix" the problem. Believe me, at some point over the years, you become so tired and if you've been getting help for yourself, you understand that, at the end of the day, the only one you can control is yourself. Sure you love your child, but accepting the fact they may die and asking God to give you the strength and courage will definitely get you through it. If anyone understands this, please let me know. God bless
Yes I agree
After 20+ years, addiction has destroyed my family and my health, I truly feel for you, yet like you I still love my child. Rehab will only ever work if the addict truly wants it and is willing to put in the work. 😢
Absolutely! We can't make them get clean!
Continuing to ask God to heal your son's body, soul and mind, as I also pray for mine. May God have mercy on both. And may God keep you well Mama.
So sorry for you having to go through this. My sister was. Heroine addict. I WORKED IN corrections and Drug Court. The thing is you can’t make or want it more than he does. I have seen many people get clean and stay clean and many people relapse and not ever stay clean. Those who stay clean have changed people, places and things. It’s not your responsibility to pay for his rehab. . Jesus can deliver him and completely deliver him from the demon of addiction. God bless and give you strength.
so stressful.. I understand. it's a great sign that he took the initiative on putting money toward his treatment. I hope for your family 💗
I feel you. I personally, lean hard on the promises of God. God bless you.
@beachbaby7 no NO! We don't do that here. Either apologize and move on, delete your comment or I'll take care of it myself!
@@beachbaby7 there are 3000 promises in the Bible. I have a troubled adult child myself. I lean hard on "I shall never leave you or forsake you".
You are so right on!! It’s disgusting what’s happening in our country and I pray for your family🙏
Our son, age 27, passed away 14 years ago today. due to addiction to opioid medications! The only way we survived it was our faith and the Grace of GOD! He was a Christian and we know we will see him again! Prayers for you and your son!
I so much feel your pain from my own experience with my son. His alcohol addiction made life almost unbearable, but I like you said just could not give up on him. He is my only child & my heart was torn out from watching him destroy his life & my own life was drastically altered for well over a decade. He finally became sober 15 years ago and now has a family with 2 beautiful daughters. I am so thankful that God heard my prayers & in His own time answered my years of praying. You are right there is no help unless you have insurance & money.
I pray for your son and for your family. It takes a lot of strength.
I also, can’t stand when other people say what they would or wouldn’t do. Any parent should be willing to do whatever they can to help their children.
Love it momma bear you are telling it like it is keep it up. Your a strong woman
I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. I've experienced this in my family and there is really no one answer. The absolutely one thing I know is that until they're ready.... really ready... nothing.....no amount of money will help. Its all up to the addict. Its mentally exhausting. My heart goes out to you. But.....I believe that as long as they're breathing there's always hope. The people saying you shouldn't help have never been affected by this. My heart hurts for all of you.
As long as they are breathing hold onto hope. Even after my son passing I had to find a purpose for Hope. I help the lost souls when I do outreach hoping to hear they went for help 🙏
I love that you spoke the truth of what is really happening. It's so hard for these kids avoid being introduced to drugs. My daughter is 29 yrs old and has dabbled in lots of drugs through the years but she is a alcoholic. She just went to Rehab for the first time because if she didn't, she would have died. She was clean for 107 days and just relapsed. It's the most difficult thing I have had to see her go through. I can't imagine what it is like for her on a daily basis not being able to go anywhere because she worries, she is going to not have alcohol available. I have never prayed more in all my life that she makes it through all of this. Thank you for sharing your story and being honest. Keep up the good work you are doing to help other parents out there. Have a good evening.
I’m with you Missy, if any of the people on here condemning you how you are dealing with your son. Believe me they’ve never been in your shoes! The addict also thinks they’re manipulating everyone around them. Sometimes we have to do hard love. And it’s the hardest thing to do, especially when we’re raising the children. I was supposed to be a grandparent not a parent to my grandson. But he was better off with us than her. Just like Aiden is better off with Missy and Pap.
Thank God for you I just haven't had any one to talk to about this or that was willing to even look at me sometimes because I have children 2 that are addicts God bless you thank you and let's pray for each other and our children
Big hugs to you, Mama! 💜💜
Addicts sent to Vegas for a night out, whaaaaaaaaaat??????????
Yep! Mine had been there for 2 weeks, 14 whole days, and 10 of those was spent in detox.
I couldn't have said it any better myself. You are an amazing person . Thank you for your time ❤
Amen!I couldn’t have said it better!stay strong sister! This has affected all of us as parents!❤🙏🏼🙏🏼
On the flipside of my previous message, I'm grateful I found your channel. You are a abundance of support. Thank you for the messages. Sometimes we feel like we are the only ones going through this and all alone. It takes a village!
I appreciate your strength, I wish I could have half of your strength. I can't even say my daughter's an addict,, without breaking down. I tell her all the time how her addiction is killing me, she says it's killing her too, I guess we're just waiting to see who kicks off first 😢
I agree with you 100%. Being a parent of one in court ordered rehab, and another on the methadone program, I have fought this damn thing for 20 years. I will not give up on my child. People have told me to kick them to the curb. That is not the answer. I am raising my 3 grandchildren at 68, my husband is75. The children are all under 10. I worry about their future. Finding your channel was a blessing, knowing someone else is suffering as I do, and understands what daily life is like. Bless you
You are an absolute warrior ❤ people often don't see the true extent of suffering families of addicts...If anyone deserves a happy and peaceful life its you..wishing you tons of luck and prayers ❤️
The next time some of these fools tell you what they think just say “how do you put a price tag on the life of your child”.
Your story is helping
I’m a new subscriber and wish I had found your channel long ago. I’ve been dealing with an addicted son for 20+ years. No one who’s not living this nightmare has any idea the financial and emotional devastation this issue brings to families.
I came across your channel and I think you are a strong and beautiful person. You are turning a Negative into a Positive. Keep up the good work. 😊
Thank you so much! It's nice to hear some kind words every now and then 💜
22:49 same over here in Britain missy. They don’t want to stop the flow of drugs, it’s all by design. Very sad.
It's ridiculous. It's almost like they want us dependent or something 🤔 😕
Thank you for sharing what you’ve learnt. ❤😊
I love you! I pray for you. You are right right right
Love you!
You're doing everything you can do, Missy. You love your child and you aren't abandoning him. 👃👃👃👃
It shouldn't be so hard to take care of the homeless and addicts in the U.S. I agree completely that we should be spending money at home rather than on other countries. I really did learn a lot from this video, unfortunately for you. But thank you for enlightening those of us about the true cost of addiction. ❤
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😮Isaiah House Treatment Center in central Ky. I’ve had friends to graduate treatment and are doing great. We’ve had them to come to our church and speak. You work there to pay your way. Has been a blessing to so many
I have a friend who lives in SC and is a Physician's Assistant and that's what she does - she delivers ketamine treatments to patients at a special clinic - those who suffer from mental illness, PTSD and addiction issues. I don't know if it will work for your son, but my friend who was VERY skeptical when she took the job, says that she has seen miracles happen. The most dramatic was a heroin addict who kicked it after only 2 sessions. Again, I will keep you all in my prayers. 💛
I agree with everything you said … i have and am still going through this … sending hugs 💜
You are so right on all this~ thank you! As a mom wondering where her addicted adult daughter is the last 8 months, it's totally eating me alive. The blues (Fentanyl) kidnapped her! (That's what I've been calling this!) I am the only one in the family that cares about her! Nobody will help me go through this crushing grievance! God has me! That I know!
You keep on preaching and say it like it is sweetheart! The powers that be....they have an agenda here. They are allowing the drugs coming in. Blues are on every corner now. God help us~ blessings to you and your family ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I’m am so saddened by this situation! I’m with you, I wouldn’t be able to live with myself, if I didn’t help my child. 🙏❤️
My friend put her son in rehab at a free place, great program. He’s been sober for 4 years now. Good Christian program.
That's great that she was able to find a place like that with a great program! Also glad to hear her son is doing well!!
GREAT VIDEO!! Thank you so much.
The community, families, schools, churches need to teach children at an early age that "alcohol is a poison" that can cause permanent brain damage (Wernicke-Korsakoff) organ failure and death. Including a multitude of other damages.
Alcohol is multi-billion dollar industry from all aspects.
Thank you for sharing Missy I going though alot of the same thing you are and I will never give up on my son...they need help and love...I'm praying for you Missy and always here if need someone to talk to...God bless you ,your son and beautiful family.
You are such a strong person, I know you have to be because of Aiden, but the world needs more like you, put it in peoples faces, make it something everyone call and are talking about. Even though our son went to a state run program once he got out they tried charging us over twelve thousand, and he was only there a few months, and it was over twenty years ago. He was there when he was seventeen, and he is now forty one. We love our sons, but I have told my husband I will not go thru it again, he worked away at the time, and all of our son’s hatefulness was directed at me. I remember when I told my husband he cried, I also knew he would have quit his job and came home if I said anything. My family was around my son almost as much as me, and all they could say he needed to adjust his attitude towards me.
Not only family is raising the users kids,grandkids. I've tried. Fought face to face with drug dealers. The police are only interested if they run into them, or it's only if you can prove they are moving a lot of weight.
I hate to judge people but I have seen this enabling act from my sister inlaw and her son. Jail to him was just detox he get out and do it all over again. His mother enabled him for years and then one day Fentanyl was just a little potent in his favorite drug. Now my sister inlaw has a lot of grief and sadness because she knew she was the enabler. The Dad never knew the Mom was enabling. After awhile people will start ignoring your plea for help................ this happened to her.
Enabling act?! Please clear up exactly what you're trying to say here
@@FromtheHoller maybe I spoke too soon. This video made me believe you were tired of spending money for rehab for your son's addiction for him to only relapse. I saw another video 6 days prior to this and I see the tough love. Sad you're having to deal with this.
So sorry. My grandson died from Fentanyl last year. So many of these "Rehab" facilities are a joke!!!!!
I'm so sorry for your loss 😢💔
I hope you and your family comes though this. It’s tough but please don’t lose hope and faith. Sending blessing and prayers.❤
It’s a horrific brain disease, gets to point you can’t fight your brain, addiction is a business makes the rich, richer, it’s a never ending money pit and they know it , they play on your love for your child , it’s a chronic illness, like any other, like any disease , some people survive other don’t , sadly.
I love this video it’s the raw honest truth ❤
Say it louder for the one's in the back!! God Bless you, and your family!!!
At this point I'm freaking screaming it at the top of my lungs 💜
What a discussion! You nailed it. All the bullet points. Treatment is for the wealthy whether it's for mental illness or addiction or a combination of both which is frequently the case. Even with Medicaid and Medicare, they are often excluded. And the simple fact is that the mentally ill individual and addict need to want help. No one can be forced into treatment. So families are left to wait for that to happen. I don't know how you manage to speak at all without breaking down into tears and I admire you so much for that. You are helping so many.
Thank you!! 💜
I look forward to your next video. I'm not on Facebook.
Missy, Its sad that the trolls are hard working to leave hateful discouraging words to you. They are lucky they are not in same boat trying to save a Addict in their family. Because, if they were they wouldnt have time to write negative things to anyone thats trying to survive and save an addict. Bless you. ❤🙏🏼❤️
Facts I have addicts in my family it’s so hard
People needs to quit judging you they don't know what they would do there not walking in your shoes sending love prayer and hugs
The cost on society is pretty real as well. I personally have struggled with addicted coworkers, contractors and grandparents of addicts. Jobs that should take a couple of days, stretch onto months. Having to find new yardworkers because I see the signs and can't help but to wonder if my money is going to be the dollar that could potentially buy fentanyl laced whatever. We all have to realize we could be part of the problem at this point.
Itm so sorry you're carrying rhis load 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I responded on the last video, he needs a program, which is free, also a sponsor. That rehab place that let them out in vegas is a very horrible joke , i hope they are reported. Prayers for you....what about alanon ?
You can’t fix addiction in 30 days. Those places are a waste of money.
Oh you are so right!
EXACTLY! It takes months for an addicted mind to think in a sober manner and over a year for them to really start to become who they used to be!
Big business in USA. Sad ❤It's at epidemic proportions globally. Sending love from Scotland and I understand the problem. Very good conversation ❤x
Yes, we couldn't afford that. Our two kids had to rely on what ever the state offered. Know how the length of stays, and some of the hospitals will only keep for 3 days. It is sad, that we do not have enough centers that longer term care to help our addicts. We also utilized sober living houses where they had to pay rent, have jobs and chores and attend meetings, well needless to say, that was awful. A bunch of addicts sharing a house together without great monitoring by a long term recovery person. Love that he is doing this for himself. Love that you share your journey with us.
my son is a heroin addict long time now since age 17 and he's 40 now and i agree our goverment is letting this stuff in here. i was hoping Trump would have been able to finish the wall to help. i agree with you whole heartedly. we're allowing too many people just to walk in here. my dad always said they're taking us over and they're not gonna fire a shot. they're killing off the young people that can fight them.
You go girl people that have bad things to you have never walked in your shoes from someone who lives your life everyday I say amen to you have 3 children addicted to methods I'm 72 years old have lost everything I owned because of them I'm old poor tired and struggle to keep some some hope for them
I did shudder when you mentioned ketamine . Not very nice stuff horses tranquilliser and party drug. Hope things go ok as it’s only micro doses.
So sorry for your family going through this. Some larger churches have groups for addictions . 🙏🙏
There are a few in the surrounding areas here. We've gone to some of them over the years
My 🙏 go out for your family. I hope your loved one gets well. May 13 is 4yrs i lost my son to an od 😢. I pray that you are never in my shoes. ❤
My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss!
NO ACCESS=NO ADDICTION. Addiction accepts everybody no matter who you are and what you do, no matter what age you are and what status you have all around this World. How to prevent from access??? I don't know but never ever give up on your child. ❤❤❤❤
I was lucky enough to find a thread about addiction when my daughter started using. One main theme was how many parents lost everything either by enabling, trying to save their child or legal fees. I decided after much reading and education that I was not going to spend a dime on her addiction. I did help her find programs that took her insurance, but she could never get in or would leave before she completed the program. She found sobriety after almost dying and spending 3 months in the hospital and 1 month in a nursing home (at age 24). She stayed sober for a little over 5 years and now she using. This time she knows how to find help when she wants it.
I have also been researching ketamine and told my daughter about it. Hope it works!
We shall see what it does! He's doing this all on his own
But addiction still got me financially by having unexpected babies! ❤❤So, addiction affects so many people in so many ways. The systems set up to help those who suffer addiction are ineffective and it all needs torn down and rebuilt. And we need to figure out how to get drugs off the streets. We are smart country and we should have better systems in place.
@@FromtheHoller I think that it when it might have a chance of working....when they do it on their own.💕💕
@laurakidd5941 amen sister!
Very interesting
Here in Canada we have free basic medical and detox is covered under that program. But even here rehab is a frighteningly expensive undertaking. Most rehabs have a number of government sponsored beds but the waiting list can be months long. I was fortunate enough to be able to afford my son's rehab stays but I can only begin to imagine how helpless it must be to not be in that financial position and to have no way to help the one you love overcome the most destructive force in their lives.
Check really well into the ketamine that seems to be the go to thing right now. It was heavily taken in the 80's an animal tranquilizer. Now they are micro dosing it to people. That's how Mathew Perry from Friends show died. He was a long time alcoholic/addict and was trying that. He'd had some at home and supposed to only do it in doctor's care.
❤tyfs❤
Lol "wife" love that
Suboxone is newer than Methadone. It's a monthly script with fewer side effects. And although it's prescribed at 16-32mg a day -- the best dose is 2-4 mg. Making it cheaper - especially with telehealth. That dose still blocks opiates, cuts cravings, and acts as an anti-depressant without the lethargic/numb feeling. They also have some long-term injectables now.
My nurse mom was pretty critical of it until my brother stabilized for the first time since he was a teen. He's still good ten years later. I feel for you. It was a long traumatic road.
You go mama! We have to fight any way we can.
I am 42 and spent my life around addicts. My son’s dad died 3 years ago TODAY from an OD. He and his gf both died that day!!!
My brother I could write a book. My mom RIP.. was always in denial. She spent a fortune trying to pacify him and keep him happy. 😔 He is 38 and still an addict.
Thank god my son is 23 and chose the opposite from his dad and uncle!!! He is a superintendent for a construction co. I wish you and your son peace!!! It’s so hard because yall both suffer. 🙏😔
My brother died 4 years ago from alcohol poisoning
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Salvation army has a free drug rehab.
I agree with some of these comments, BUT... you have to be there when they want to change, stepping away takes that option away. I stayed strong and pushed and pushed until she was ready. Yes it took a lot, and yes I was stressed, but I won, she is clean so far, 6yrs. I was not going to let addition take her, I brought this child into this world and she was mine. I rode her and pushed until I got her back. It can happen, do what you know in your heart you can do. If you can stay in great, if you can't then you can't, but have no regrets. Do what you can and pray! A little yelling helped to, right God! No rehab worked for her, outpatient worked.
I don't know where you are located, but please look for a PAL group in your area. PAL is Parents of Addicted Loved Ones. It is a support group but also has a learning component to each meeting. Topics like Delayed Emotional Growth, Enabling, How to Help your loved one in Healthy Ways, Recovery, etc. I promise it would be very helpful to you. And remember...you are not alone in this journey.
This video was heartbreaking
It is probably difficult for your other children also
It definitely is and has been
You’re doing great best you can. 💕NonnaGrace 🐓
Marrhew Perry actor eho died. Doctors found that drug in his body. He was under that treatment 🙏🙏🙏
I relate to all of your words my friend. I stopped counting the money a long time ago. It never stops. Money for treatment. Money for bills they owe. Money for medicine. Money for drs. The list goes on. And that’s just for them. I’m an old lady now. Retired. Husband getting to that age. We can no longer just hand over money. It takes it for us to eat and buy our meds and pay our own bills. I’m here in this boat with a lot of parents who just can’t anymore. And it breaks me that I can’t anymore. But that’s the cold hard truth. It’s up to my child now. Can’t hold their hand anymore. 🫶💕
Holy hell. I had no idea.
Those places sound like money makers. That much money is just a waste.
Yes everything is about money nothing is free in USA 🇺🇸 of America 🇺🇸
I always hear people coming up with one part solutions. There is no one thing that will solve the issues. The solution is political, social and spiritual. That is why it is so hard to figure it out.
I am a counselor on Texas. I have seen huge gaps in the system because there is no funding to pay for thing things that are needed.
I hear ya
I know quite a few people who have children that are addicts they use all their parents money up they steal everything out of the house and they also steal from their parents so if he doesn't want to go and get better he's not going to it's going to be like a swinging door if he is not the one that wants to go and it's just being pressured to go by everyone then his life won't change and it's a shame for everyone and it breaks everyone's heart it's a very sad situation
I hope that money comes with counseling/therapy, it seems it covers duel diagnosis patients?? The underlyer for his addiction perhaps?
It does comes with counseling/therapy
I agree
Treatment was Keratine
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I hear you sista
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If I’m ever in East Tennessee would love to have lunch with you Sis 😇
Deal! I'd love it 💜💜💜
Yay 🎉 My sons in Nashville and my dad was born in a holler in WV. Just subscribed yall. Hang in there 😘
I'm living it
I could not have been able to do it
I hope your grandson is safe. Have u watched Jessica Kent’s videos on addictions and rehab? It’s so hard what to do especially when they all want money etc. Life is never easy.
I haven't watched her videos but I'll go check them out
wonder if that rehab place was a scam...
It was awful and should've been closed down
There is AAA for drug use. It's mental health here. Insurance won't pay. Don't pay for it. He is an adult. Users break families. Theft,drugdealers, court system, medical emergency, .The price is hurting families.
I know of a family who lost two sons to addiction. This family had lots of money and sent these boys to many treatment centers and they’d be sober about a 6 months to a year, if they were lucky and they’d be right back on the streets doing the drugs again. It was the saddest thing I ever saw these boys were 25 and 28. People just don’t understand that the treatment is hard to find extremely expensive and doesn’t always work.😢😢
No, they really don't understand, nor do they want to be informed of the realities. Most would argue with a fence post!
Who judge dont matter
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Who matters don't judge !!!
I love that! ❤️
Hello has to choose rehab
He needs Jesus to give him the courage to face his real fears. It needs to be that dramatic. Don't give a dime to rehab. If those places were so good you would get a money back guarantee. The responsibility is on your son. He may not face it until he loses everything. Some addicts never face their true problems. A good therapist will do much more than a rehab facility. I wish you good luck.